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My man!
/r/seduction03/06/21 05:47 PM
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I think there is a society-wide conflation (misunderstanding created by using the wrong word for description, which then communicates the wrong idea causing creation) of the words "masculine" and "machismo". Masculine: virtuous manhood. Machismo: sociopathic, dysfunctional, manhood.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/06/21 11:13 PM
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Just a guess, but it sounds like you've conflated "masculinity" with "machismo".
/r/PussyPassDenied02/06/21 11:09 PM
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Hey OP, you're doing good, even if you feel confused. You are being a good communicator, you are being honest, you are working on yourself, you are still figuring out what exactly you want in a partnership, relationship, etc. What I hear from reading your post is that you have different kinds of sparks with both people, but that your emotions are letting you know that neither one of them is a match for you. What I see is that you've done a lot of work on yourself, you've grown over the last few …
/r/seduction31/05/21 09:44 PM
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Lo Siento. I feel it. That transition out of the roaring 20s into the rapidly cooling 30s, the "game" changes completely, because YOU change. Your neurochemical makeup changes. I remember chuckling in my head to myself as I realized that I was having a "nesting instinct" kick in hormonally -- I wanted a mate and offspring. But relationships don't operate on seduction rules, and after spending my 20s on a quest for seduction, I suddenly discovered I was out of sync with my social age cohort, a fi…
/r/seduction18/05/21 01:25 AM
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You can get what you want through authenticity, it really isn't necessary to go to extraordinary lengths of manipulation/deception. But that courage to authenticity has to be developed. I've known guys who were total dandies who got more ass than a toilet seat, I've known guys who were soft and sensitive but always had a super hot girlfriend, I've known manly men who could brawl like some sort of demon and pull virtually any woman in the bar like it was some sort of easy magic trick. Then there …
/r/seduction17/05/21 11:56 PM
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I dunno man, I read your post, and it has some good, some bad, and some ugly. A lot of what your are talking about are social cues that women use to read/judge a man they just met in a social situation. And yes, confidence is crucial, which includes you having your own life, interests, likes, dislikes, hobbies, and being secure enough to accept that not everyone will like/agree/be attracted to you is good. Being your own person is good. But a lot of what you are saying sounds completely inauthen…
/r/seduction17/05/21 07:08 PM
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Oh and one more thing: hygiene is important. Sorry if this seems overboard/heavy-handed, but its really important. Do some regular manscaping, wash your junk/ass often, wear deodorant, skip the cologne (until you know what she likes, and then be super super conservative with it), keep your finger nails trimmed and file them with an emery board, and if you are planning on sticking some fingers somewhere, make sure your hands are clean, nails are filed and not sharp. Cleanliness of hands/dick is i…
/r/seduction10/05/21 06:07 AM
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Breathe in, and let go of the tension my dude, there is no script for this stuff, go at your own speed -- and definitely watch for the signals that your crush are giving off: if she's comfortable it's a green light. Women are people just like you, they also want to have fun sexy times. Losing virginity is something that we all go through (hopefully). There is so much pressure built up around it both socially and therefore internally that is can cause some anxiety. It's okay to admit to being a v…
/r/seduction10/05/21 05:54 AM
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Snaug I like that you ask interesting questions, and I agree with you. Relationships are about mental connection and effective communication of thoughts, feelings, desires in a dialogue: a give and take of listening, understanding and speaking, of letting yourself be vulnerable, and creating a safe space for her to be vulnerable with you. At this stage you aren't "gaming" your partner, you are putting in the work to maintain the relationship. Game is tinder/kindling for starting an interaction, …
/r/seduction01/01/20 10:13 AM
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You miss 100% of the shots you dont take. On a totally unrelated note, this last Saturday night I was eavesdropping on three cute girls out for a night on the town, who were discussing getting STDs from guys. Super cute girls, never would have pegged em (pun intended) as disease vectors. PSA: Remember to play safe, and wear a raincoat fellas.
/r/seduction24/09/19 09:43 AM
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From your post it sounds like you are waiting for women to come to you, to express clear, easily understood signs of their interest. Women simply are not wired this way. A few days ago someone on r/seduction made a post about seduction books. In there was a suggestion to read Leil Lowndes book "Undercover Sex Signals", I just finished reading that book. While the book seems mostly aimed at post-college, working adults who frequent the New York club scene (some of her advice transfers to other en…
/r/seduction22/02/19 11:03 PM
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Dear OP, thanks for these titles. I have downloaded and am reading Lowndes works now. Under Cover Sex Signals is the missing link for me, as I am classically oblivious to women's subtle messages. I just wanted to send my thanks and appreciation!
/r/seduction16/02/19 10:21 PM
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call her bluff: accept. (unless I got a weird or skanky vibe off her)
/r/seduction30/06/18 10:58 AM
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White guy here, can vouch for this, white people are haunted by the ghost of puritans past.
/r/seduction30/04/16 08:09 PM
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