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Wronger
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:30 PM
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Sad but this is not surprising given how much hate is directed at men for simply wanting to exist in society. Honestly the surprising thing is that more men aren't doing stuff like this for being excluded from society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:27 PM
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There's nothing women love more than being dehumanized and degraded by Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:23 PM
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The book of go outside and talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:03 PM
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That's what we're lead to believe by cultural exports, but I'm not convinced it's true. I've mostly dated older women, and I see a pretty common theme these days of spinsters dating the hot young guy, or at least riding him like a pogo stick then bouncing to the next one because they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:20 PM
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All I know is nobody bats an eye when 35+ y/o women date men <=25 y/o. The same people will screech at the top of their lungs if men want to date someone younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:08 PM
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All I know is that nobody bats an eye when 35+ y/o women date men <=25 y/o.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:07 PM
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Porn is great, it gives men some power in the sexual market because it helps us to satisfy our physical needs (drain the balls) in a pleasureful way. Women hate porn because it takes some of their bargaining power away.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:01 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:43 PM
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Kindness
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:08 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:07 AM
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Is this what qualifies as music to youngsters?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:43 PM
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Whether you care about them seeing your messages is not the point, it's just about having boundaries and respecting each other's right to privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:34 PM
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Privacy is a important. Same reason I wouldn't take a shit with the door open, some things are best left as mysteries.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:25 PM
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10/10, everyone deserves to be loved including you <3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:10 PM
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If you got trust issues then it's time to rethink.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:07 PM
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ABSOLUTELY YES. Cuddles ALWAYS.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:06 PM
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Any kind of addictive behaviour is bad, whether it's video games, TV, instagram, tiktok, reddit, drugs, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:03 PM
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There are no gods, sorry bro. Pets are real though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:01 PM
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She has psychopath vibes. She the kinda girl who kill you and wear your skin as a coat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:37 PM
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ppl gon get mad bcuz of FACTS
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:32 PM
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There's nothing wrong with the average men. Women have been brain damaged by TV, film, culture, the media, Disney, yadda yadda into believing that they deserve nothing short of a fantasy version of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:16 PM
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If my spouse were talking about me that way I would not be okay with it. And I would never speak about anyone I care about that way. But to each their own. I guess everyone loves differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:42 PM
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If you're referring to your spouse as "motherfucker" then you might need to work on some things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:21 PM
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Sounds like you are cooking up some resentment for this guy. You can either pile on with more resentment, or maybe have an adult conversation with him before you torpedo your own relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:09 PM
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These days most of what we call "science" is actually scientism, which is a perversion of the science for the purpose of pushing some particular agenda without any actual science being involved. The pharma industry has used this strategy for decades: fund a bunch of research, and only publish the results that show what they want, then discard all the results they dislike. That's how we got everyone hooked on SSRIs while ignoring the systemic issues of how capitalism has destroyed the sense of co…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:08 PM
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I think the only place where people would give a shit would be in the shithole states/countries like Alabama and Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:04 PM
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Pretty girl privilege is a little bubble that women walk around in where they believe that a) they're victims when it comes to literally anything and b) they enjoy extreme privilege throughout all of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:49 PM
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Same except privileged pretty girls who think the world owes them something because they're female.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:42 PM
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Everyone likes to embellish, and on the internet it's easy to fabricate stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:37 PM
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Marriage isn't worth it anymore IMO. Unless your partner is rich, there is no reason to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:22 PM
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Nearly everything is bullshit these days. Fake it till you make it is an excellent strategy, and it's what the most successful people use every day. The truth about reality and the world is that nobody knows what they fuck they're doing and everyone is just kinda treading water every day just trying to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:42 PM
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10/10, nothing more attractive than a dude with rainbow coloured hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:15 PM
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Supply and demand: the odds are good (for women) but the goods are odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:19 PM
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Lots of good lessons in that thread on what kind of people to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:11 PM
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Just naïvety, perhaps. They haven't been ruined by life experiences yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:10 PM
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No generally means no, except when it doesn't. I won't elaborate other than to say that it probably means no, and if you have to argue/negotiate, it's a no. Err on the side of caution. If she's not moaning and panting and grabbing your body and putting your hands where she wants them, she's not really consenting. If she's just starfishing, she doesn't want it. If she doesn't want it, it's not consent. If she gives verbal consent, that's not necessarily consent. You still need the non-verbal sign…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:47 PM
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It depends on how ugly. I will take a less attractive nice girl over an insanely hot insane/mean girl, any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:20 PM
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All I want is a nice girl. Most of the women I've dated become assholes once their personality starts to come out. Unlike with men, we don't demonize women for <literally anything they do>. If you're a man, it's generally bad if you're nice, too mean, milquetoast, short, too muscular, fat, skinny, too smart, dumb, average, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:20 PM
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I've got plenty of baggage and it hasn't stopped ladies from tryna ride my pp like a pogo stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:11 PM
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If you see a woman in the park walking her cat, stay away from that woman because her brain has been overrun by parasites.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:09 PM
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I'm a bit regarded but I'm doing my best to help everyone get laid out there. I just want the best for my fellow humans, and the elites want us all divided and fighting because united we'll never be defeated and they HATE that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:06 PM
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Yes. That's a feature not a bug.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:00 PM
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Just get out there and talk to people, every day. Go to a park and strike up a conversation with the next hottie you see walking her dog. Earn her dog's love and she'll cream her pants for you on the spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:59 PM
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Sorry bud, I need to block you because you're filling my inbox with dumbass shit and I really don't care about your bootlickin' BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:47 PM
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I can't even read these words because I only have 3 functioning brain cells remaining and every single word that I read kills 1 more brain cell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:36 PM
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How do you jailbreak a modern iPhone? I'd love to know. The other problem with jailbroken phones is that it breaks a bunch of other shit. And then there's right-to-repair: why am I not allowed to repair a piece of property that I purchase? Why can't I modify the software that my hardware runs? yadda yadda. Anyway, stay mad bro. Keep lickin' and suckin' on dem boots.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:30 PM
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Neoliberalism, sure. You are not free to "use your property how you wish". If you buy an iPhone you're not even allowed to run the software you choose on it, only what Apple permits you to use. Is it really your property if you need some random company's permission to do what you want with it? I'm so sorry that you believe all the bullshit you've been force fed by the fakestream media.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:11 PM
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To be clear, this is exactly what capitalism is designed to do. Transfer all the wealth from the working class (those who earn slave wages) to the owning class (those with the capital).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:07 PM
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Nah I ain't gonna change your view because this is the right view. Be the best version of you my fellow incls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:06 PM
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10/10 a fuckin BOSS
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:06 PM
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This is just how it works. Don't be mad bro, just get money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:04 PM
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Yeah the agenda is to suppress wages by flooding the labour market with people willing to do more work for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:47 PM
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https://archive.ph/5dLUE Amusing how the fakestream media is only willing to discuss men's issues when it's framed from the perspective of what's good for women/feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:33 PM
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1 date for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:18 PM
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You'll do great!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:35 AM
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We're in the transitioning phase What are we transitioning to? ENLIGHTENED FEMINISTS? I can't wait!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:22 AM
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Split the genitals 50/50, we can do this with genetic engineering technology and AI innovation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:20 AM
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But how to get them to desire suckin on my tiny little pp ???? (no ban I'm kidding plz)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:19 AM
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Now kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:19 AM
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But they said on 2x that negging is r*pe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:18 AM
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Oh alright. Having worked in engineering for a couple decades it's pretty common to hire women just to get diversity points and then everyone is unhappy because you end up with someone on the team who contributes nothing and feels bad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:07 AM
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Maybe you suck at your job but you rode the diversity wave and now reality has set in?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:01 AM
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I've watched women swipe and like men they spend 2-3 seconds only looking at the photos except they reject the vast majority of men for trivial reasons. It's pretty normal for women to right-swipe on 5% or less of men, which doesn't make a lot of sense unless you believe you're too good for 95% of men within your dating group.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:40 PM
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I think these people don't have a clue how far a million bucks goes because if you live like that you will be poor very soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:34 PM
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Good relationships are possible, but you likely have either unrealistic expectations or you only want Chad. There is no shortage of decent men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:17 PM
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Just redirect all this energy you're wasting on reddit toward getting rich and fit, and you'll do fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:27 PM
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SSRIs are often used as a coping mechanism to help people lie to themselves about how wonderful their lives are when actually they're lonely and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:07 PM
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Just become what women want and then it's pretty easy. Also get off the goddam apps and go out into the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:46 PM
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There are plenty of attractive dudes with decent on the apps who still get zero matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:15 PM
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Yeah, abort it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:59 PM
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No. Abortion is awesome, we should terminate as many fetuses as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:38 PM
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No. Potato brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:38 PM
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I'm a high status multimillionaire, and I don't want anyone to share me. Just one is good for me thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:03 AM
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Everyone who upvoted this comment please PLEASE. Do yourself a favor and actually research, neurological development, and psychology. It's moronic takes like this on why we have so many of you utterly uneducated in arguments on this sub. O.P. has no idea what the hell he is talking about in this paragraph and the ideas he is using are so antiquated they predate the moon landing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:46 PM
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I think at the earliest you wouldn't develop what constitutes "emotions" until about 6 months, but realistically it's probably more like 1 year. This is different from mammals such as dogs, where by about 6-8 weeks they are full of personality (i.e., puppies play and express the typical dog emotions we know and love). Here's one source for this: https://news.osu.edu/newborn-brains-lack-maturity-to-process-emotions-as-adults-do/ Truthfully we don't know that much about the brain, but the point is…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:03 PM
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I let women approach me, much easier that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:56 PM
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Not to nit pick, but pretty much everyone comes out of the womb without emotions. Humans are unique among mammals in that we're born relatively undeveloped, and the brain doesn't really have any emotional capacity until much later in life. Infants are pretty stupid, but they evolved to essentially "trick" their parents into believing they're expressing emotions as a survival mechanism and to enhance bonding. Infants are dumber than dogs until about 1 y/o or so, and for the first few months you b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:53 PM
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I got 99 problems but beyonce aint one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:48 PM
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She doesn't need it but she wants it enough to stay with a guy who cuckolded her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:44 PM
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Jay Zed built a bunch of businesses that made them very wealthy. All Beyonce did was make a few records and do some dances and stuff. Certainly if they divorced she would take half his shit, but he's the real money maker.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:35 PM
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They should really have called that sub "haremhunters". Missed opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:23 PM
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Meh, he got rich and lost it. Beyonce could do better but she likes money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:22 PM
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Hello my fellow incels just want you all to know that I love you ❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:20 PM
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I don't identify as a follower of the "red pill" philosophy, but for me personally it's bad for the following reasons: I wasted a lot of my life trying to do things "right" by the standards espoused by the cultural taste makers So many times did I "do the right thing", and ended up getting screwed (i.e., I was a sucker) It took me a really long time to realize I am deserving of love and affection like everyone else, even though society tells me that I (as a male) am bad and don't deserve to be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:48 PM
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They also very quickly fall back on name-calling with words like "pedophile" and "incel" if men don't want to date 40+ single moms, while ignoring the fact that some 25 y/o women are attracted to 40+ men. I'm 38 and I have little interest in dating someone as young as 25, but I'm pretty sure there's a big cohort of women who'd accuse me of being a pedophile for dating someone that young. Meanwhile, if a woman does the same thing, they're all "yaaaasssss qween!!! slayyyy!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:19 PM
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There are many men who have no interest in having sex with as many women as possible, but merely want to have genuine human connection with one person. Unfortunately we all get lumped into the same category and treated as r*pists until proven otherwise, hence the frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:15 PM
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If you both use iMessage, she can indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:02 PM
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Do what feels good buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:55 PM
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Related
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:44 PM
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How is babby made
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:42 PM
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Humans are social creatures. We need community, meaningful connections, and companionship. Without it we get sick and die, this is a known fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:38 PM
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The only people who deny this are either a) lying to themselves or b) psychopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:34 PM
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The "chemicals in the brain" theory is widely cited but the evidence it's true is very shaky at best. SSRIs, for example, are really only effective in extreme cases of depression. I think what most people are enduring is just the effects of a society designed to make us depend on capitalism: individualism means spending more $$$ to enrich the shareholders of our real puppet masters, the corporations. Here's a pretty decent documentary about this, public awareness is growing about the fact we wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:38 PM
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All I know for sure is that I am a fucking IDIOT
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:37 AM
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It's subjective, but if youth is a symbol of beauty, then I think dating someone significantly younger counts as hypergamy because it's dating up. Dating someone at the same age would be dating at your level, and I suppose dating someone much older could either be up (maybe they're insanely attractive, or rich, or famous), down (if they're just meh), or neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 10:56 PM
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1) I'm not American either!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 10:03 PM
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To the grass, we touch!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:10 PM
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Statistically it's work, school, church (in that order, I believe). But this may be a bit out dated because only idiots and insane people go to church these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:09 PM
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My dawg Marcus got me through some tough times.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:49 PM
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I really liked The Martian, the other 2 were fine but not as good imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:48 PM
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Pregnant sex is the best sex you'll ever have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:48 PM
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ACLU fighting the good fight as always: https://www.aclu.org/news/womens-rights/requiring-men-but-not-women-to-register-for-the-draft-is-sex-discrimination What's funny is that the file this under "women's rights". I guess you have to frame it that way or you'll never get any sympathy for your cause. Dems had an opportunity to fix this when they had a majority, but go figure, they decided that it's better to just send the men to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:39 PM
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It's great for men, because it gives you an easy way to filter out the femcels and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:35 PM
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Real men don't care what other idiots say on the internet, because I could be a dog for all you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:32 PM
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/r/fuckcars, all my homies hate cars
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:34 PM
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Any bigger company with a Professional HR department will conduct investigations (which just means they comb through all your chats and emails) whenever shit comes up. If you work in certain regulated industries, a copy of all your shit goes to the government, too. For example, I worked at a hedge fund and we were reminded constantly to only use phones because all emails and chats get forwarded to the SEC, but they can't tap our phones without a warrant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:33 PM
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... something something the Roman Empire ????? ... *tRiGGeReD*
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:25 PM
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Uhhh, HR absolutely WILL go through the chat history if they need a reason to can you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:14 PM
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I was raped by a woman when I was 17, so what? I don't hate all women because of it. Women hate men, which is fine, but I'm tired of pretending they don't. We're brainwashed into believing women are wonderful, benevolent, yadda yadda, but that is a big lie. Women are just as rotten as men. All this gender divide nonsense is horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:23 PM
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I have literally fired multiple people for posting dumbass shit on slack and I had no choice because HR.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:17 PM
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You just implied that if an older man interacts with a woman in their 20s it's considered "preying", "gross", and "disrespectful".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:16 PM
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Women don't care if you succeed or fail, and they're not invested in the well-being of men. In fact, women largely despise men and many of them would love to see us all die. Women are generally willing to make exceptions for the very best men, the top 1% or so, but they are happy to see the 99% struggle, suffer, and die.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:08 PM
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Real men work on themselves and stop worrying so much about what other people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:05 PM
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So it's only "preying" and "gross" and "disrespectful" if a man does it, got it. Classic misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:05 PM
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Nothing more cringe than people who do memes in the work chats. HR is recording all that shit and they'll use it against you as soon as they feel the need to punt your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:00 PM
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Meh, masturbation is not a big deal. Everyone masturbates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:58 PM
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So if I (as a 38m) wanted to date a 25 y/o woman, how do you feel about this? (I would not actually date someone that young, I prefer mature people, but I know a lot of women get really triggered by older men dating younger women, though I think that's just because they're insecure and mad because they can't compete with youth.)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:38 PM
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Don't get married, unless he's rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:35 PM
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Yes, aka insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:05 PM
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Neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:02 PM
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The correct strategy is as follows: Date 20 people Lock it down with the first person you date after those initial 20 who's better than all the rest. This is also called the 37% rule, explained here: https://plus.maths.org/content/mathematical-dating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:58 PM
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I've noticed a recent trend which is that many women in their 30s are dating someone younger (which is one dimension of hypergamy). If you go read /r/AskWomenOver30 for example, you'll see many examples of women who are dating younger men. Is it a trend, or am I just reading between the lines? Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:56 PM
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Reading this has lowered my IQ by about 15 points.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:55 PM
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Special
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:42 PM
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Bullshit jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:41 PM
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I constantly churn accounts, I think it's normal. The more time you spend on reddit, the more subs you get banned from, so it makes sense to always b churnin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:41 PM
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True Romance
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:38 PM
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People want daughters because men/boys are hated by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:14 PM
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Is it just me or is nobody in the world more obsessed with Andrew Tate than women on reddit? Why are they obsessed with him? This guy is a doofus, just ignore him. He looks like the sort of dude who acts all tough but he's the first one to start crying when there's a thunderstorm at school and the lightning is really bright and it's scary when the thunder noises happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:03 AM
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Hope she got a big ole hole in the ground to bury them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:18 AM
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This person is probably a LOT of fun at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:17 AM
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All the grass would die because people wouldn't stop touching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:55 AM
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Just did sweetie, and my dog took a huge shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:29 AM
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Extremely triggered rn
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:21 AM
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No trolling. Rule 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:19 AM
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I am OBSESSED with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:47 AM
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The "very specific physical appearance" thing doesn't match the data, or my personal experience. Men are pretty liberal with their right swipes on the apps, which suggests they have much lower standards than women for beauty. You can verify this by looking at the "tinder insights" people post on r/tinder. For me personally, I generally only care about BMI and overall health, i.e., don't be obese or have unhealthy habits (smoking, alcoholism, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:46 AM
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Body count still doesn't matter and it never will. A real man doesn't give a shit about a woman's sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:35 AM
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Meh, truthfully I don't care much about that stuff. Beauty is only skin deep as they say. I'm more concerned with compatible values, communication, sex, health, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:33 AM
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I can understand how in some people's minds it makes the mental load easier, but I'm still not interested in the legal nightmare of marriage and the likelihood of me losing half my money. Nobody is worth it. I guess if you earn as much as me, or have family money or something, then it's a bit different, but I won't let someone fleece me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:32 AM
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On the dating apps, what I would really want is a BMI filter, that would be 10x. More specifically, I want to filter based on these dimensions: BMI average response time (<=24h) response % (if you don't respond to people I won't waste my time) amount of time on the app (anyone who's been on the apps >6mo is likely a lemon) atheists only (I guess non-religious or agnostic is ok too) you must live in Manhattan (or at least not NJ, the nearby boroughs are okay) That would make the apps 100x more us…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:28 AM
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Toodle-oo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:22 AM
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I'm an all or nothing person. I only date people I want a long term relationship with, ideally with the goal of finding a life partner. But I'm also a realist and know that it's incredibly unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:20 AM
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None of these things require marriage. You can live with someone, share expenses, have kids, and do whatever you want together without being married. The only thing marriage does is give you a piece of paper that says you have to split everything 50/50 when you break up, regardless of the reason why. What is the point of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:20 AM
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Disagree, but to each their own. I only date people who want to have sex with me. Simple as that. If you're not interested, then we've got no reason to continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:18 AM
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I think some men believe that if they get married then the woman won't leave/divorce them. But the reality is that most divorces are initiated by women by a significant margin (70%!!). So if you're trying to marry a woman because you want to "lock her down" or whatever (aka subjugate), this is a stupid strategy and you're setting yourself up for failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:17 AM
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Taylor Swift is winning in my book. 33, unmarried, no kids, consistently breaking music records. Sounds like a beautiful life. Tay Tay got that psychopath-who-gonna-wear-your-skin-as-a-coat-after-she-murders-you vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:15 AM
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2 months is probably going to be too long in most cases. 2 weeks is the upper limit under normal circumstances. If you aren't interested in sex then I'm out. Got no time for prudes, insecure people, or people with weird sexual hangups.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:13 AM
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From the FE MALES, givers of attention, and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:12 AM
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If you're really 50/50, then sure, marriage isn't all bad. But it's rarely 50/50, most of the time one partner out earns the other. I'm a very high earner, and I'm not going to let anyone take half my shit if they get bored after a few years. Hell naw.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:12 AM
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Thirsty for a tall drink of female attention
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:10 AM
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I think much of the time any sort of libido/sex drive issues are things you can work through, provided both people are adequately invested in the relationship and attracted to each other. But for women, if the attraction is not there, there will be no sex. Men can fuck pretty much anything so it's less of an issue. Just go read /r/DeadBedrooms for a taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:09 AM
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Yeah they thirsty as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:07 AM
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Fun fact: most children hate vegetables because many plants are poisonous and it takes a while to learn which ones are edible. We evolved to be naturally disgusted by plants as a protective mechanism when we're young. When you get older, they become less disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:07 AM
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Yeah and I'm trying to warn them before they do something they're going to regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:04 AM
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Having sexed on the first date many times, I can tell you the only way to assess sexual compatibility is to have sex. Most of the time the sex dies down after the honeymoon phase, but that's a different issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:03 AM
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The tax thing is only advantageous under specific circumstances, and most of the time there is no practical benefit. For health care it makes no difference whether you're married or not, I have shared health care coverage with people in the past and I've never been married. They don't even check the paper work, but generally all you need is a domestic partnership certificate which costs like $20 depending on your city, and you can terminate it at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:01 AM
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It's simple: not everyone is compatible. Sexual compatibility is just one of many dimensions, and it's arguably one of the most important ones for men. Some women don't care so much about sex, and for those women I suggest adopting some cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:58 AM
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It's not that the upside has decreased, it's that between no fault divorce, alimony, forced child support, family courts favouring women over men, and the legal and emotional cost of dealing with divorce, there's no real benefit to going through with it. You can just be partnered with someone, and if things don't work out, go your separate ways. Why turn it into a legal problem where you're forced to give half your shit away when they decide they want to divorce you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:57 AM
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You offer no information, just conjecture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:51 AM
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The only actual "protection" marriage provides is that your spouse can't testify against you, but you don't actually need a contract for that, they can simply refuse to answer questions which is entirely legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:48 AM
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Ehh, your strategy sucks. If we don't have sex within the first couple of dates I'm not going to ask you out again, and I have zero interest in casual sex. It's about assessing compatibility early on and not wasting time. And it's pretty common for people to pay for their own shit on dates these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:46 AM
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That's perfect, he wouldn't be able to take it back easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:44 AM
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Protection from what? Hurricanes? Dog bites? Food poisoning? The plague?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:43 AM
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My last remaining brain cells just died.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:42 AM
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Just take your dad's car.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:41 AM
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You don't need to be married. You can have a partner without the legal problems of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:41 AM
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With the current trends, the winning strategies are as follows: Men: Get off the dating apps and go talk to people in real life. Women: Stop dating the top 10% men (the top 20-30th percentile of men, excluding the top 10%, is the perfect cohort), because all the other women are trying to date the same dudes. ...but most people are just going to keep doing the same shit and will never understand why they're having such a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:40 AM
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You could be delivery guy or an uber driver.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:34 AM
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America has DIABETES
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:33 AM
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Drugs are AWESOME.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:31 AM
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Meh, women pursue me. You can compete all you want but I like to let them do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:30 AM
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Don't get married, there's literally no upside anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:28 AM
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What's up my fellow incels please be sure to like, subscribe, and enable notifications so you can stay up to date with the latest content.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:27 AM
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I don't bother with the apps anymore. I deleted all my accounts. In real life I get approached by women all the time though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:09 AM
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Struggle with OLD, real life not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:58 PM
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I live in NYC, so a 7 here is like a 5 in bumfuck middle America where the average BMI is 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:53 PM
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I've dated a lot of people, and it's something I've talked about with friends as well. It's not exactly the focus of my life, but it has come up in conversations in the past. I'm a data driven kind of person so I like metrics, feedback, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:13 PM
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Based on feedback from other people. That's an average, I've dated people who were convinced I was a 9 (I'm not), and others told me I'm a 6, but I average out to 7 or so. Maybe an 8 if I try really hard and wear a suit, but I don't care enough to try that hard tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:42 PM
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Yes but genetics rule everything. You can maybe go up 2 points if you work exceptionally hard, but 3 or 4 seems unlikely. But wtf do I know, I'm not the gatekeeper of self improvement. I'm am happy to be proven wrong :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:37 PM
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If you're a 4 only because you can't dress yourself poorly or get a haircut, then sure. But that's often not the case. If you're actually a 4, no amount of fancy haircuts or expensive clothing will get you up to a 6 or 7, you might be able to get to a 5 or 6 if you're lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:33 PM
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Yep. No reason to get married anymore, it doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:28 PM
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Life isn't fair, it never will be, nature is fucking brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:06 PM
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Can someone explain to me what a "situationship" is? Is that when Stacy joins Chad's harem hoping he'll decide she's the one, but he's happy to just keep slaying because he can?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:58 PM
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Don't get married unless they are wealthier than you. There's no upside to marriage anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:46 PM
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Sex workers don't drop bombs on schools and hospitals or shoot the family dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:36 PM
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If you want to lie to your partner, go for it, but one day this will come back to bite you unless you're incredibly good at maintaining a web of lies over the years. I recommend just being honest. Despite the obsession with body count by some people, there are plenty of men (like me) who really don't give a shit about your past. The only thing that matters are your actions today and tomorrow. Yesterday is pretty much irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:07 PM
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Yes, me. I'm only a 7/10 but I live in NYC which basically makes me undateable by female standards these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:00 PM
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Ah yes, the bread and circuses! Woohoo! Sports are one of my favourite advertising delivery systems!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:46 PM
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On the internet you can be anything you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:03 PM
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I never suggested they were. But if you can make a lot of money with a little bit of work (which the good ones can), it makes way more sense than being a barista at starbucks and begging for $1 tips.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:41 PM
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Masculinity does not require redefinition, kiddo. It's like saying we need to invent a new type of mathematics because you don't like what the numbers say about reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:38 PM
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"nice guys" is just a dog whistle for "guy I'm not interested in having sex with". They demonize nice guys because it offends them that someone who they believe is below them might attempt to interact with them (how dare they!!!).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:36 PM
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The matriarchy has no idea what's coming! Spread your seed far and wide comrades!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:35 PM
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All I know is that feminists believe they're so morally superior that they can dictate all the terms of their fantasy reality such that it suits their own preferences with no regard for how it affects the world around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:33 PM
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Basically the same shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:25 PM
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Why do feminists get to decide what masculinity means to men? Should men tell women what femininity is about for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:22 PM
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You can't possibly know this. I think it's made out to be a boogeyman in the fake news, but I am pretty sure the majority of women selling their bodies are doing so willingly because they like money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:12 PM
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That's exactly why prostitution should be legal, so it can be appropriately regulated and safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:11 PM
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mas·cu·line (măs′kyə-lĭn) adj. Of or relating to men or boys; male.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:04 PM
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Notice I used the word "consenting". If someone is being trafficked/coerced, that's generally not consenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:04 PM
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Attention men: The patriarchy will be holding its daily meeting to conspire against women at 3pm today in the library. Snacks will be provided by our sponsor, the crown prince of Saudi Arabia. Please bring your pitchforks in case we decide to conduct raids the feminist hinterlands.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:50 PM
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Don't know who that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:47 PM
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The implicit falsehood here is that masculinity is a conspiracy of the patriarchy, which is complete nonsense. There is nothing inherently wrong with being masculine, unless you believe that men are inherently bad (which is the quiet part feminists won't say out loud, except when they do).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:46 PM
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I'm just trying to find a person that doesn't ghost. Do those exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:44 PM
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If everyone is consenting, it's really not any of your damn business. There is no ethical consumption under capitalism anyway. Doesn't matter if you buy a sandwich or sex. Personally I wouldn't pay for sex, but there's nothing wrong with it, and there's nothing wrong with people who use their bodies to make money whether it's from sex, sports, music, dancing, acting, or whatever else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:42 PM
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Feminist logic: men are struggling because they are victims of the imaginary social structure that is supposedly beneficial only to men? I don't really understand these arguments, it's incredibly baffling to me. Do we live in a society, or is it men vs. women? What if we just divide the planet in half and put all the men on one side, and the women on the other. Would that magically make everything good and perfect? The thing about rights is that they also require responsibilities. Your right is …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:39 PM
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My grandma is 90 and she's never driven a car, and she's cool as fuck. All my homies hate cars and hang out in r/fuckcars.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:32 PM
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Feminists talk about men like we're dogs who need to be trained and bent to their vision of the world. These people are insane and incapable of seeing how distorted and unrealistic their world view is. I get it, not all feminists are bad, but the ones who hang out on reddit seem pretty intolerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:29 PM
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Most men I’ve ever met just want to get by and, ideally, be loved. Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:42 PM
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There are varying schools of feminism, but lately the popular narrative amongst some feminists seems to be that men don't have legitimate feelings, men can't be victims, and women are not responsible for the well being of men, but men are still required to protect and respect women. Some feminists even believe that hate against men is the fault of...you guessed it, men. In other words, if a feminist hates men, that is still men's fault because a feminist can't possibly be a bad person who hates …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/23 02:46 AM
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None of these people were ever funny, I still don't understand who watches that shit. I guess it's just boomers who still watch cable TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:54 AM
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After the first 2 semesters I just stopped buying the books because you can always borrow from someone else or go to the library to get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:53 AM
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Something better came along. Don't take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:51 AM
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Once you start to realize that most of the "society" we see around us is built on top of bullshit, and that pretty much everything in modern society is about getting rich quick, you can start to play the game at a higher level.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:16 PM
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Biology don't care about your feelings. Reality is harsh, cruel, and it all boils down to math.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:13 PM
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I am proud to be an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:12 PM
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If you're a man who cares about n count, you are insecure. It doesn't matter, sorry bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:02 PM
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I think a good way to fight off the demonization of men who are struggling in life is for everyone to wear the label "incel" loud and proud. That's what I do. I am proud to be an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:59 PM
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It's true that we are what we eat, I don't disagree there. I'm merely pointing out that we don't fully understand how the drugs work, and it's more complicated than simply reducing appetite.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:20 PM
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Just make sure you get the consent contract, disclosure, terms of service, and waiver signed & notarized before going in for the kiss at the end of the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:42 PM
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Hmm, I don't think they "just lower appetite". It's a lot more complex than this. The new class of drugs are based on GLP-1, which is a hormone that regulates satiety, insulin production, and a variety of other systems in the body. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Glucagon-like_peptide-1#Physiological_functions There are quite a few different options on the market now, and some of them (like tirzepatide) also operate on GIP, which is another hormone related to regulating glucuse. The tl;dr, however…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:41 PM
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Lots of people have met their partner/spouse at work, and there's nothing wrong with that, but you still need to be careful. In my case, I saw the signs of crazy very early on but I ignored them because, well, she was hot and it was fun until it wasn't. Oh well, live and learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:11 PM
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I'm not really an expert on them. My guess is that like any other drug, they have some sort of side effects, but the risk of side effects is likely outweighed by the benefit of not dying of obesity-related illnesses like diabetes, heart disease, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:08 PM
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Weird. I think I'm lucky in that it's only happened once to me. I have another friend who got into a situation where he had some drunk fun times with a girl who later changed her mind, and he was arrested and was about to go to trial when...she changed her mind back the other way. Now he's free. To be fair, this guy is a bit of a creep, but I don't think he r*ped anyone, he's just a creep and she was a willing participant. "I changed my mind" after the fact is, unfortunately, the reality that me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:06 PM
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Obesity is a disease. Everyone should hate diseases, they kill people, increase the costs of healthcare for everyone, and make peoples' lives miserable. Obesity kills millions of people every year, we need to stop normalizing it and treating it as a disease like all the other diseases. The good news is that modern obesity drugs are very effective, so we should advocate for making these cheap and widely available for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:03 PM
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You just have to avoid getting yourself into risky situations. The world is unfair, you just need to deal with it and protect yourself first. HR exists to protect the company from you, they are never on your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:01 PM
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By virtue of biology, sure. Only women can do childbirth and breastfeeding. Aside from that, women aren't so special. Edit: To be clear, I'm referring to "women" in the sense of people who were born female, I'm not sure what the politically correct term is, but I am not trying to imply that trans women aren't women. Please don't kill me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:59 PM
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I dated a coworker once, sort of by accident. She was very attractive, and she was the office hottie. At a work party, she got really drunk and followed me out of the office when I was leaving the party, and she basically just mauled me and we went back to my apartment and rubbed our genitals on each other. Anyway, to make a long story short, it turned out she was a bit of an insane person, and I was left with no choice but to end things and cut her off. Naturally, she was very mad about this, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:58 PM
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By the definition of average, no. Average is average. The average woman brings average to the relationship. The average man brings average to the relationship. Men and women bring different things, and you can't directly compare an apple to an orange, even though they're both fruit they each offer a different set of attributes. Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:51 PM
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Me too, but as a man you have to be very careful talking to women in the workplace. As soon as they get mad, they can just accuse you of being sexist and you're fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:49 PM
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That's a one-way street. Women can talk to anyone, men have to be careful because you can be accused of r*pe for speaking at the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:40 PM
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I think you'll find that smart people don't waste time on tiktok or instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:36 PM
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Not even once. I don't have anything against it, but personally I wouldn't pay for sex or porn because a) it's not that hard to get it for free (porn at least) and b) I don't care too much about casual sex, in fact, I don't do anything casually: I'm an all or nothing kind of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:26 PM
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These days I only use reddit (but I stick to text-only subs), and I have a private matrix chat for friends (like discord, but it's FOSS and you can host it yourself so FBI agents can't jack off to the dick pics you send to your bro buddies).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:24 PM
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*cries in introvert*
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:13 PM
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Willing to kill children in the middle east for poverty wages.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:23 PM
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Only idiots use instagram and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:19 PM
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Pure propaganda brainwashing. The MIC is about enriching a handful of people and their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:08 PM
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It's because fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:07 PM
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A normal person who is not a psychopath would just help someone in need. The f is wrong with you ppl. I get asked for directions constantly because I'm someone who looks approachable, and I live in a big city with tons of tourists. I always try to help people, and I never get butthurt just because *gasp* someone spoke to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:06 PM
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Are you sure we're the smart apes? Bonobos rub their vaginas on each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:59 PM
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Rick and Morty has a few episodes where the plot is basically a variation of this theme.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:43 PM
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I think "settling" is the wrong way to frame it. Instead, it's about learning to be happy with what you have (or rather, what you can get). The bottom line with the current dating marketplace is this: men and women have a huge mismatch in terms of the options available to them, so you should find the best thing you can get for yourself, but don't expect to date someone who ticks all the boxes on your stupid checklist. The reality is that nobody is perfect, no one will make you happy if you can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:00 PM
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The way I see it, there's a balance between rights and responsibilities. Feminists, on the other hand, want a fantasy world where they have all the rights but none of the responsibilities. Men at least have historically understood that they have responsibilities: work hard, support your family, protect your loved ones, etc. Women just want to get money and tell everyone else to fuck off, particularly men. I don't see anyone in feminist circles talking positively about men's problems, they instea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:04 PM
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You can basically go around in circles making this exact same argument about misogyny, misandry, racism, and whatever else feel good. It's basically just "my side good, your side bad". It also doesn't refute anything I've said about how modern feminism is an ideology of hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:57 PM
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How does that make women better? Much like how it doesn't make me better than you if I own a house and you don't. FFS, what a stupid take.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:43 PM
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CMV: Modern-day feminism (toxic feminism) is an ideology of hatred. If you had asked me 5-10 years ago, I would have called myself a feminist. I am no longer a fan of the current feminist talking points. I think the whole feminist ideology is sliding toward fascist ideas that look a lot like Nazism to me. Take, for example, the reluctance to acknowledge the existence of misandry. For a long time, feminists rejected the idea that misandry exists. Now, however, the narrative has shifted...and if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:42 PM
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The average woman is no better than the average man, but you have been convinced by culture and media to believe that you are. This is misandry caused by the toxic femininity that is pervasive in all of modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:25 PM
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The movies were made to tickle the female fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:17 PM
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The basic premise is the same: either we learn to live together as one species, or we all hate each other and stop breeding and then I guess we all die? Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:07 PM
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Yes yes, not all men, not all women, yadda yadda.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:04 PM
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This is a stupid argument. Men do not need to "better themselves". We are what we are, but women spend all day watching TV and have been brain damaged into believing that what they see in Disney movies is reality, but it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:31 PM
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Do we live in a society where everyone is required to contribute? Or are we 100% individualistic and it's every person for themselves? You decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:31 PM
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No, men cannot solve their loneliness because we can't make women love us or want to be with us. AI robots are not a substitute for human affection. Men are 50% of the problem, and women are 50% of the problem. This toxic feminist narrative about how women are not responsible for anything, and men created every problem in the world is just horseshit. The toxic feminists want all the upside, but none of the responsibility in existing in a society that cannot exist without both men and women. If w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:41 PM
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Ehhh, you can be "single" and still have romantic relationships. You can also be not single and have no romantic relationships. Life isn't black and white, it's all grey areas my fren.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:27 PM
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Anyone who's actually alone and claiming to be happy is lying to themselves, or they're some kind of psychopath. Humans are tribal creatures, we need to live in communities with strong connections. The truth is that most women are never alone. Women have support networks of other women, and they go through life with immense privilege due to all the societal advantages and the "women are wonderful" effect which is baked into everything. Women who are truly alone are miserable. There's a reason wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:17 PM
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It's just a new spin on good old fashioned credit card debt and other forms of unsecured debt. There are a few exceptions, like if you can get 0% financing then sure whatever, go for it, that's basically free money. However most of the BNPL schemes have ridiculous interest rates, like 20%+, in which case DO NOT use this crap. Some of them also charge additional fees on top of that, which is terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:23 AM
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Thanks for coming out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:14 AM
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Yes, all of that right back at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:09 AM
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Same except the other way around and right back at you. See what I did there? We can all be victims!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:56 AM
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To the contrary, it's misogyny that is a response to the pervasive misandry. Men are just sick of women being assholes and having so many advantages in society, so they're responding in kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:55 AM
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Good for you, this shit is toxic. I wish I could escape the misandry, but it's everywhere these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:47 AM
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If you want. I think you're holding yourself back though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:53 AM
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Oh fuck, well okay then sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:13 AM
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Only if you suck at computers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:08 AM
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Taylor Swift gives off big-time psychopath vibes, so that is a red flag to me. Taylor seems like the kind of person who would murder you, hide your corpse in her cellar, and make a coat out of your skin so she can wear you at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:07 AM
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That sounds like an insecurity that you have, and something you need to work through. What a woman does with her body is her choice, and how many dicks have been inside her vagina doesn't really mean anything other than she's good at getting dick if that's what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:04 AM
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While I'm not a fan of this look, you cannot infer anything about someone based on their clothing, except whether they have a good fashion sense. If they're wearing those pants, they do not have a good fashion sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:02 AM
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Just wait until you learn about bittorrent!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:02 AM
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Yep, but they aren't likely to swipe right on me because I'm a 7 at best, which is more like a 5 in Manhattan. Women only swipe right on 8+.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:58 PM
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Second chance? Sure. Third chance? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:05 PM
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So don't go back?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:00 PM
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Way she goes. The bar is actually pretty low, but generally speaking I won't date someone with a BMI >30, and more realistically I would prefer <25. For most women, you're automatically attractive if you have a healthy BMI and you can dress yourself like a grownup.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:53 PM
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Everyone knows how shitty it is for men, but they don't actually care or want to help. It is what it is, you just have to adapt and get ahead of the cultural trends. I think now is a good time to rediscover in-person dating because people are sick and tired of the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:50 PM
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Or at least not below.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:43 PM
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I don't really know, I don't have all the answers. All I know is my own experiences. I do think women's sex drive is usually related to how attracted she is to her partner. That is to say, if she's not attracted to you, she won't want to have sex with you. This is just biology and there's nothing anyone can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:42 PM
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Ideally you'd be at the same level, or very close. I think the problems happen when there's a big discrepancy. People also vary in looks over time, so close is better. Some people call this your "looksmatch".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:34 PM
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From personal experience, every time I've dated a girl who's better looking than me, it turned into a dead bedroom situation (or at the very least she didn't want sex nearly as much as me). When it was the reverse, she usually wanted more sex than I did. Make of this information what you will, although it's nothing more than anecdata.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:24 PM
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my chicken nugget u cannot do that to me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:09 PM
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First?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:54 PM
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Ohhh, roofied! You mean put up on the roof like Rudolph?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:44 PM
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I think you'll realize the roof is quite important if it's raining or snowing outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:31 PM
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What about the roof? Are we making sure the roof has enough drugs to have a good time too?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:28 PM
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Roofed? Is that where someone puts you on top of the roof of the bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:26 PM
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Those 5 were just my coworkers, there were other dudes. Tbh it was my own fault, she was the hot party girl at work, and I wanted it. She told me she loved me and that I was the one for her, but then she turned around and fucked 8 dudes at burning man over the course of 1 week alone. Whatever, water under the bridge as they say. Some people are just shit, it's not really a gendered thing. Just need to learn from your mistakes, pick up, keep moving forward, and try to be the best person you can b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:15 PM
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Sounds like this guy was just a piece of shit then, idk. I've cooked for a woman, did her dishes, and cleaned her apartment and she cheated on me with not one, not two, but FIVE of my coworkers. How about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:10 PM
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Just try harder to be a better woman I guess. Same advice for men. Nobody is entitled to anything in this world, you need to earn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:08 PM
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This is exactly like my conversations with women on the dating apps. They can't string more than 2-3 words together, and most of what the spew out is complete nonsense. Makes sense I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:07 PM
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If she's even a little bit attractive, she will have hundreds or thousands of options, assuming she's in a big metro.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:02 PM
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Bot confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:00 PM
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I'm starting to think you're a bot. Are you a bot?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:59 PM
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I don't use "opening lines", every message I send is unique and special to each and every profile. I always try to have a normal conversation, like a normal person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:57 PM
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NYC dating market is complete shit for men, but it's not as shit as the west coast at least. The Bay Area is probably the absolute worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:55 PM
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Believe Santa Claus because mommy said that's where the gifts come from!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:54 PM
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Just get out if they're abusive. Problem solved! Don't let yourself become stuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:43 PM
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I offered someone $10k if she could get me a date within a week on the apps and she's not even willing to try because she knows how shitty dating is for men but she refuses to admit it 🤣 If it's so easy for a man to get a date, she could have just made the easiest $10k she'll ever make. Oh well, I can only help people so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:25 PM
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You are not the gatekeeper of dancing, sorry bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:14 PM
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Meh, I'll take my chances. I think everyone deserves a second chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:11 PM
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I think toxic femininity is a much bigger issue than masculinity these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:08 PM
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I, for one, do not give a shit about most peoples' pasts. I am generally only interested in a) how you treat people b) whether your actions and words line up and c) are you an asshole in real life? You could be a convicted felon and I wouldn't really care much so long as you're not a piece of shit person now and into the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:02 PM
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It depends on what you mean by "healthy", but perhaps. This is just anecdotal, but I do find that people who "go out" a lot tend to have pretty bad habits, like consuming alcohol in excess. I'm not against alcohol, but it's an incredibly harmful substance relative to a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:50 PM
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False. As a male, I can find people attractive while not being attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:35 PM
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If you care about how many pps have been inside her vagina then you are insecure. It doesn't matter, all you gotta do is be the best pp she ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:26 PM
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It was intentional.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:25 PM
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Too late, I already fathered 1 child.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:24 PM
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I have "DNR" tattooed on my chest and it freaks some people out. It qualifies as a bad tattoo, but I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:16 PM
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I guess it depends, but yes excessive tattoos are a bad look.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:15 PM
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Tattoos are hot, but only if they're good. Bad tattoos are a no-no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:08 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:49 PM
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Just go outside. Take a walk, go to a park, go to a bar, go to the library, take a yoga class, go to a cafe, just say hello and talk to the next attractive person you see who makes eye contact with you in a non-creepy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:44 PM
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Don't lie, there's never any upside to this. You're just setting yourself up for future failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:36 PM
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If they can't communicate effectively, drop em. This is a huge red flag, and 99% of the time it means they're just not interested. You need to stand up for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:34 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:33 PM
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Have you ever sneezed and then a little bit of poop came out?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:21 PM
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I have zero time for any of that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:16 PM
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Some women believe that when men don't put them up on a pedestal and bow to their superiority that men "hate" them. In reality, most women are very average, especially due to the lower variability in women, and they will likely do nothing special with their lives. Once their beauty fades, they are left trying to pick up the pieces and understand why society has wronged them when in actual fact they are just an average loser like the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:52 PM
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If you run your family like a goddam platoon then that is toxic is hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:48 PM
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That's what I do, I'm lazy so I buy the cold brew concentrate and then mix in other things like protein powder and creatine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:47 PM
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Poor kid, I hope she escapes that toxic environment ASAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:46 PM
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Maybe let your daughter figure out what she's interested in instead of forcing her into whatever you envision she should be?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:42 PM
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Anger/fear drives the clicks and sells the ads.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:42 PM
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Have you tried coffee beans? If you grind them up, you can run some water through the grounds, and the water that passes through will contain caffeine and coffee flavour along with a bunch of antioxidants and other good stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:41 PM
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The problem is mostly that people don't go outside and talk to each other, they sit in their apartments trying to exist in the world through the screen. The screens may mesmerize, but they do not reflect the reality of actual life and the world outside wherever you hang your hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:33 PM
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If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:27 PM
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This is only true if you continue to spend your life in the fantasy world of the apps, instead of just going outside and interacting with people in reality like a normal human.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:04 PM
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Be good to each other. Don't let your butthurt about dating dynamics take away from being a decent person. When someone needs help, and you have the capacity to help, you should help.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:03 PM
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These are things you also learn just by practicing intentional/active listening and conversation skills, which is a thing most people are not taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:57 PM
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Could it be that I was actually letting you out yourself by demonstrating that you didn't read a word of any of what was written in the text that you didn't read?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:54 PM
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Are you still struggling with basic reading comprehension? Is English not your first language?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:52 PM
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Just get off the goddam dating apps, ffs people. Real life is so much better than the metaverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:50 PM
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If you make completely factual comments on any of the toxic femininity subreddits, you will be attacked and called an in*el or pe*ophile for not going along with the herd mentality. Anyone who disagrees with the hive mind will be ejected from the hive, facts be damned. The hatred toward men is insane, but it's totally normalized and only getting worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:50 PM
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I got downvoted into oblivion for writing this on 2x, but I'll resubmit my comment from there: As a 6ft tall man, I don't bother with any women >=6ft because I know that most women want to date someone much taller than them. There is no reason to date a woman who will toss you aside once someone taller or better looking comes into their orbit. I don't really care at all about height, short tall whatever makes no difference to me, but I have to adjust my expectations based on how likely the woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:25 PM
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That sub is fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:23 PM
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It's the same as women who are addicted to instagram/tiktok. A little bit is fine, but if it's your whole life then you probably need to take a break and go touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:22 PM
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They're actively aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:33 PM
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Men are mostly violent toward other men, that's why they're sent off to die in wars. This myth about how every man is just trying to rpe and muder every woman is caused by the fakestream media pumping that kind of content at all the women because it hits the fear button really hard, and that's what sells the most ads.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:30 PM
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The "true" crime content has warped so many peoples' brains, particularly women. I don't know why it's so popular with women, but I guess it's because they seem to have a victimhood fantasy where someone comes to save them from the bad man (and that's the police I guess? idk). In any case, cops are dumb as shit, they almost never solve any crimes, and random violence is actually incredibly rare. Most violence occurs between people who already know each other pretty well, such as spouses. The lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:33 PM
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Both men and women have unrealistic expectations. Society/culture tells us we all deserve the best, most beautiful partner, but the reality is we're all just meh and nobody is special.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:30 PM
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I was definitely dropped on my head, it's a story my mom loved to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:26 PM
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It's simple, just be better than everyone else and you'll stand head and shoulders above all the other losers who are trying to get with your girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:11 PM
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The only thing that's normal is that nature is fucking WILD. Female bonobos like to go around rubbing their genitals on each other, which might seem weird to humans but it's totally normal if you're a bonobo. Female praying mantises will eat their male mate after breeding. In many primate cultures, all of the women mate with the same handful of top males, leaving the majority of the males mateless for life. There are many more examples of things that don't seem "normal" which are, in fact, compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:05 PM
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Bingo. Better yet, anyone who uses the stupid apps where you find these types of comments (instagram, tiktok, whatever else) are low IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:54 PM
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To each their own. That sounds like a nightmare to me. I know a couple people like this, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:01 AM
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(supposedly)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:05 AM
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Looks are just an indicator of good health.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:03 AM
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Study the blade
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:57 PM
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I agree, I've never had any interest in casual sex as a male. I've had some women propose it, but generally I just said no (barring a few exceptions where I gave them pity sex). I want human connection, I don't want to just rub genitals together and go our separate ways. Masturbation is better if it's just about getting off, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:54 PM
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Only works if you're female.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:48 PM
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I live in the US, but I am not from here and I have no family in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:48 PM
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These days I'm pro fat shaming. There's far too much fat apologizing going on. Individuals aren't really to blame, it's the corporations, the food supply, the ads, the brain damage and propaganda we've all suffered in order to enrich the shareholders. People should be MAD as HELL.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:50 PM
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You'd have to pay me to fly anywhere, and I only fly first class.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:46 PM
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<25 is pretty good for most people. If you're really concerned, buy a body fat caliper, you can get one for <$10. What's crazy is that we've normalized >30.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:42 PM
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Good luck, but the semen will just ejaculate itself when you sleep if you don't do it manually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:20 PM
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You probably shouldn't be policing what your partner does in their free time. I would not tolerate that shit for one second, nobody should. That said, I do frown upon people who spend excess time on the SoCialS, especially the regarded ones like instagram, tiktok, facebook, etc. Reddit is less bad because it generally involves anonymous people and textual interactions, which I think are (on average) much less regarded than vacation photos/videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:18 PM
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I can assure you there are many fat people who believe they are healthy and not obese, when in fact they are obese and very unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:07 PM
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First of all, the whole concept of "normal" is stupid. There's no such thing as "normal", especially when it comes to stuff like sexual preferences. There are a few lines you shouldn't cross (mainly the ones that could land you in jail), but everything else is pretty much fair game. I've dated women who love dirty talk, and I've dated some who hate it. I've dated some women who like it rough, and others who just want to starfish and get it over with. I've dated some women who can orgasm 5 times …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:02 PM
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Sometimes you need to hurt someone's feelings if you care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:51 PM
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Perhaps. But it has become popular to try and normalize obesity. Obesity is a disease, and it is not normal. Some people are also in denial about the fact they're obese, and they will go to great lengths to lie to themselves about how it's okay that they're fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:40 PM
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Drugs are pretty great. Psilocybin, LSD, MDMA, Ketamine, Cannabis. Just stay away from the opioids and stimulants.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:28 PM
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Sometimes people just need to hear the truth, even if it makes their feelings not feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:22 PM
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Chinatown is an absolute gem of this city. Another great city for food is Tokyo. Actually, a lot of things about Japan are amazing, especially the food. I'm pretty happy here though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:57 PM
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That's why I live in NYC, so I can get the best food without having to go more than a few subway stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:46 PM
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Indeed, I mostly avoid going anywhere if I don't have to. I'll travel to go visit family and such, but I have no interest in pissing my money away on your typical vacation destinations. I'm certainly not trying to sabotage anyone, I'm just sharing my perspective. If you want to travel, you should do that. Travel just enough to learn about how it's not as great as you think it is. You'll also learn how most people who live in tourist destinations are sick of all the damn tourists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:45 PM
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Plus vacation photos signal $$$ for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:42 PM
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Sex is great, but bad sex is worse than masturbation. Travel is the same way: it can be great, but mostly it's not anywhere near as great as it's made out to be. The grass is always greener.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:41 PM
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It's all about the variability. That's what make men special.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:38 PM
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Perhaps. But as someone who has traveled a lot (mostly for work, I have basically lived in fancy hotels for months at a time traveling around the globe) I can say that the initial excitement you get from going somewhere new wears off very fast, and then you're left with an empty loneliness once you realize that everything is the same everywhere and if you can't be happy here you won't be happy there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:37 PM
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That's quite alright, traveling locally is much better than flying to Phuket just for instagram photos. I guess if you travel just for the sake of travel, then do the travel and don't post any photos on the internet. If you feel the need to broadcast to the world how much vacationing you do, then you probably aren't actually doing it for the travel experience, you're probably doing it to signal to people on the internet how much money you can spend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:36 PM
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"I love to travel!!" on the dating apps is just a dog whistle for people that want to filter people out by socioeconomic class. Travel actually kind of sucks. Airports suck. Airplanes suck. Hotels suck. Most travel experiences are overrated, and tourists are annoying as shit. If you've never traveled at all, then it's good to get out of your fish bowl and see the world, but constantly going to vacation destinations is exhausting, boring, and actually really lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:32 PM
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I take everything at face value, I don't particularly care what your genitalia configuration/identity is. I don't know how to respond to nonsense, so I gave you a clear indication that I'm finished discussing whatever you're screeching about. No means no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:58 PM
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That's an interesting thought, and it's actually why I like places like PPD. Most people can't take a step back and analyze why people behave in certain ways, and most people think everything that happens in the world around them is about them, when mostly it's not. Everyone is focused on themselves and their own lives, and most people likely don't give anywhere near as many fucks about your life as you think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:45 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:44 PM
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If it's a totally random stranger commenting on your body fat, then yes that's weird. If it's someone you know about, or someone who cares about you, then they probably have good intentions, and you should give them the benefit of the doubt rather than jumping to ragemode and writing long posts about it on the internet. People think everything that happens in the world makes them a victim, but 99% of what other people say/do is not about you, they're just trying to exist in the world like everyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:43 PM
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Spread love, not hate. I'm not your enemy, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:41 PM
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Great suggestion!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:00 PM
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I'll put that on my todo list, just after "jump off the brooklyn bridge head first".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:55 PM
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I can't read good, but I do love fried chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:44 PM
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Why post anything if you're not looking for people to comment on it? This doesn't make any sense. Maybe I'm just not smart enough to understand how women use websites. Also, the post is literally ASKING for "TIPS" on how to respond to people who mention your weight. I gave OP the best answer: ignore them. But also, if someone cares about you and offers feedback, that's not automatically a bad thing. Obesity is a disease, and should be treated as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:41 PM
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Idk, I guess I hate myself so much that I want to go there and find new reasons to hate myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:22 PM
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I got banned from 2x for posting this comment. That sub is literally full of insane people, I pity all who get sucked into their negative, hateful, self-defeating narratives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:00 PM
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In nearly every relationship I've been in, I always did the majority of the chores, FWIW. I did date one woman who would do my laundry for me (I never asked her to do this, she would just do it, in fact I asked her not to do it but she did it anyway).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:56 PM
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You seem to be really desperate for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:55 PM
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Great insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:54 PM
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I'm not on the apps, but I have been in the past. I'm not that attractive, 7/10 is not good enough for most women, they demand at least a 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:54 PM
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It is one of many reasons, but mostly it comes down to biology. Women are risk averse, naturally more fearful, and men have higher variability, take more risks (risk vs. reward), and have traditionally occupied the top and bottom of society in much higher proportions. Women seek the men at the top because that's what's best for them. Don't be mad, learn to adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:25 PM
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Indeed. War is inevitable as the rivers run dry, but precisely how it ends is unknown.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:02 PM
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This is bullshit. Perhaps some men will refuse to help with children, but I know for a fact that most men are very much involved. All of my male friends who have children are extremely involved with their kids lives day-to-day. These horseshit tropes about how "only women get up in the middle of the night or change diapers" is just bigotry, false, and nonsense. If you married a dude only to find out much too late that he's lazy and doesn't help, that's on you, but more likely you're embellishing…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:26 PM
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It's normal, and there's evidence that regular ejaculation prevents health problems such as prostate cancer. Here's one source.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:16 PM
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Oh well. Climate change is going to kill us all anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:18 AM
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This is great, thanks for writing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:46 AM
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There's no real upside to marriage anymore. It made sense when the relationships were more asymmetrical and transactional, where you depended on your partner. Now with everyone's 5 second attention span, and a new man available that same day with the swipe of the finger, why commit? For women, you can easily get a replacement man if you choose, provided you are willing to actually go on a date or message them or whatever. So why even try? Just walk away if he stops being whatever you want him to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:52 AM
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As a relatively attractive man (in real life), I can tell you this is dead wrong on the apps. Women are incredibly picky to the point of being insane. It's why they're all dating the same dude and can't figure out why he won't commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:37 AM
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I think most men are surprised by the fact that women are so incredibly picky on the apps, while they themselves are quite underwhelming. How you perceive yourself is kind of irrelevant, and whether you have high or low self esteem it won't affect whether someone swipes left or right on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:29 AM
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Same. In fact, I've had women break up with me because I wasn't rough enough with them. I don't really want to go to jail because someone changed their mind after they begged me to choke them or slap them around or whatever. It's so bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:21 AM
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Porn has become this stupid boogeyman, but it's just a Red herring. People want to blame porn for their bad sex, but the more likely reason is that they are just not compatible with each other. Yes, it's true that some people might try to copy or emulate what they see in porn, but the real problem is that people just won't talk to their partner about their problems, they'd rather write a long-winded post on reddit about it without ever having a discussion with the only person in the world who th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:15 AM
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Tbh centrism is a bit underrated in most aspects of life. Politically, however, I'm pretty far left. Yeet the rich etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:06 AM
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I have dated plenty of women over the years, but I ended my last long term (5+ year) relationship last year, and I have been on/off dating since then, and it has been quite miserable. I have tried all kinds of strategies: pretend I don't have money, use signals of wealth in casual ways, and straight up including brokerage statements in my dating profile. None of these strategies have worked to impress anyone, because women seem to only care about superficial attractiveness, and I'm only a 7/10 (…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:04 AM
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Hey folks, I just want to say that as awful as some of you are, most of you are pretty thoughtful people, and I really enjoy reading you idiots argue all the time. I've read some really incredibly insightful things on here, and while it isn't as simple as red vs. blue, I'd say there are reasonable arguments on "both sides" of every debate–or rather, across all of the spectrum. But if I had to sum up all this entire debate on why dating sucks: either you adapt, or you die. QED.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:58 PM
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It's all relative. If you're in middle America then the obesity rates are much higher than places like NYC or SF. You don't see as many obese people in places like NYC because people walk instead of driving everywhere, so they are less obese. If you're surrounded by obese people, you become normalized to that (it's abnormal and unhealthy, but your obesity is McDonald's profits).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:04 PM
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We were told that if we did all these things we'd be all set: work hard respect women be a good person have a great career make lots of money be healthy, in good shape But once you've done all that, you find out the bar just moves up and unless you're really in the top 1% in terms of attractiveness, you will not be selected by any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:04 PM
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Just head over to any of the misandry subs like 2x or ask women over 30 and you'll see a bunch of daily posts about how all men are terrible and they've given up dating completely because someone on the apps *gasp* said dirty words to them (oh no!), and therefore all men are r*pists/ki11ers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:59 PM
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I've dated multiple woman who refused to communicate what they wanted, instead theyall had this idea that I should be able to just somehow figure out what's going on in their minds based on random "hints" and "clues" that they would drop here and there. For example, if I ask "what do you want for dinner?" and they say "Hmm, I don't know", then this actually translates into pizza but I have to figure that out somehow without being told.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:56 PM
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Damn!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:45 PM
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Idk, my liquid net worth is over $20mm and I hardly get to pick. I'm left to pick from whatever picks me. I'm 6ft tall (183cm), 165lbs, probably a 7/10, published author, highly respected in my field, yadda yadda. Women have just lost touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:44 PM
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Manhattan is great, just not on the apps. The apps are a world of delusion and unreality, where we're all victims and the only people who win are the shareholders of the corporations who force us to use their shitty products.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:38 PM
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Sure come to Lower Manhattan and you can crush them all day, if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:36 PM
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I'm just as baffled as everyone by modern dating culture, so I don't really have any answers. But my guess is that it's a sort of learned helplessness, where people have been trained into swiping endlessly without really thinking much about what they do. Everyone wants to believe they have agency, but in reality we're just victims of the algorithms and dopamine loops that are designed to keep us all glued to the screens and inserting more money into the apps, or clicking on ads to buy random shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:35 PM
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Could be. Except the data supports this exact pattern: women trying to date way, WAY up on the apps because of extreme gender inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:30 PM
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Jfc, the apps have melted peoples' brains. If we have really reduced judging everyone to a couple seconds of barely glancing at a photo, society is doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:29 PM
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Yeah, enough time that I could clearly see she was not good enough for most of the dudes she was rejecting, but in her mind I'm pretty sure she thought otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:24 PM
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If you spend 1-3 seconds only looking at photos, how can you possibly know this? There is so much more to attraction than the first 2 photos in a dating profile. smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:22 PM
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Bingo. You have earned a gold star.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:21 PM
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tl;dr: Women grossly overestimate their value on the dating apps, and you can see this in action by observing a woman swiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:16 PM
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I think because the times have changed. I'm actually in the best shape I've ever been, I have more money than I know what to do with, the only thing that's maybe less attractive about me is more baldness, but I'm pretty fashionable (in fact people randomly compliment me all the time in public). In real life I do just fine, on the apps however I can't get a date to save my life. Way she goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:15 PM
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Today I was at a busy and hip cafe in NYC, close to the NYU campus, and the girl sitting in front of me was playing on her phone for about an hour while sipping her coffee. I like to go to cafes to people watch, get out of the apartment, get a coffee or snack, and do a bit of work (though tbh these places are very distracting so I rarely get much done). I also just get a real kick out of observing people out in the wild (judge people by their actions, etc). Anyway, this girl was compulsively fli…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:12 PM
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This hardly counts as cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:47 PM
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