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| 9 | How to establish frame with a plate? So she knows and enjoys being a FWB and no moreBut you don't need to, you can just phrase it that we're just having fun and they read between the lines. I honestly hate people that lead others on, it's not cool to fuck with peoples heads when girls are down for just sex and nothing else as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/23 02:26 AM |
| 2 | My (17) experience after becoming Red Pilled.But you can hack it with some RoIdS!! | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/20 02:39 PM |
| 74 | A girl's boundary is based on you not herJust don't be pushy as op is saying. If you get resistance, then back off and get on your phone or something, then let her come to you and start the dance again. I agree that bitches be crazy, but sometimes you need to give them a moment to make up their mind. Also, everyone wants to get laid, but why sleep with a chick that doesn't desire to sleep with you as well. Dudes be too thirst and lack their own self respect. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/20 05:54 PM |
| 6 | Day 1 on “red pill”Don't hate the gender that disrespects you, hate the disrespect itself. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/20 03:05 PM |
| 3 | The Individual .vs. The CollectiveAs Civilization ever expands and increases, the more the individual has to sacrifice for the collective. The individual is something that is sacrificed. Never the collective. Ah yes, I'm following you here. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/20 08:08 PM |
| 13 | The Individual .vs. The CollectiveI'm pro-individualism, however if the community is in danger, then so is the individual that exists within it. When the community is healthy and successful, then the individual has the greatest chance to be healthy and successful as well. All I'm saying is you may have a hard time accomplishing your mission and starting your own successful business in a failing society, so don't undervalue the collective while on your individual path. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/20 04:33 PM |
| 6 | How the Red Pill ruined my GameIt is an easy concept to misunderstand, and lots of people do. The whole 'women like assholes' thing is misleading, because what they really mean is they like guys with a backbone that will standup for themselves, challenge them, say what they mean, and aren't afraid to tease them and create some sexual tension. All of this is usually done in a playful maner, not literally being a disrespectful jerk to them. Anyway sounds like you get where things went astray. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/20 07:29 PM |
| 6 | Depression and loss of motivationJust copied this from r/Stoicism "No one is coming to save you; no one is coming to make life right for you; no one is coming to solve your problems. If you don’t do something, nothing is going to get better. The dream of a rescuer who will deliver us may offer a kind of comfort, but it leaves us passive and powerless. We may feel if only I suffer long enough, if only I yearn desperately enough, somehow a miracle will happen, but this is the kind of self-deception one pays for with one’s life as… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/02/20 01:14 AM |
| 0 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?It's about the guy and what he's looking for right now. This | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 04:35 PM |
| 0 | Normal, well adjusted young women do not go for older men or significant age gap relationships.I guess I'll stay away from normal well adjusted young women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 07:47 PM |
| 4 | The Purpose Series (Part 1 of 3) - Purpose, Anxiety, Fear, the Unknown, and the Purposeless Epidemic in Modern SocietyGood stuff! To some the word 'purpose' holds too much weight to it, and it can be easy to get lost in a mind game of 'what is my purpose' in life. If you swap the word for 'mission' then it becomes more easy to view it from a different angle, of what is my current 'mission' at this time in my life: better diet, improve finances, fuck more bitches, etc... | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/19 05:59 PM |
| 2 | What does sex mean for guys?Go into r/deadbedrooms and you'll see that sex is so much more then just the physical. The physical act is confirmation that we are wanted and loved by you. It provides positive psychological impact on our self esteem and self worth. Men don't get validation from other men and women much, we can feel unloved and disposable in society, so sex is an important to our mental health in ways most women don't understand. And it also feels great to shoot loads over your tits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/19 06:37 PM |
| 1 | For men or women wanting a ltr, how do you prove you are ltr worthy in a fucked up dating culture?What I mean by prove worth, is prove you are relationship worthy, not everyone is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 07:21 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: Research finds that women do not prefer "nice" guys; in fact they prefer "bullies" and psychopathsI agree with this, but do have to question if there is conformation bias being found regarding these online articles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/19 08:25 PM |
| 1 | It seems that women prefer to be kept and controlled as opposed to letting them feel free. Thoughts?How do you recommend making a plate feel owned / secure when she is just a plate, or is this simply you can't have one without the other and they leave me simply because I'm not offering the security of commitment which is what they really want? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 04:16 PM |
| 7 | CMV: TRP is negative, misogynistic and likely harmful to some people. Tone does matterTRP is harsh and negative about men too. Being aggressive is purposeful so the point slaps people in their face. Now, some people can take it too literally, but tough love works for those that need to change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/19 04:24 PM |
| 5 | CMV: TRP is negative, misogynistic and likely harmful to some people. Tone does matterI think a lot of social and legal structures are put in place to benefit women over men. True, but it is usually pussified men that are in power making these legal structures that benefit women over men. I.E. its generally male lawyers and male judges siding on behalf of women to benefit from divorce. So men can be mens worse enemy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/19 04:16 PM |
| 8 | Since when is flirting being a clown? Do men not enjoy flirting again?women are like employers offering full time management jobs where you need a master degree and +5 years experience, but the job only pays $10 an hour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/19 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Reflections on a life of plate spinning: Does it inevitably lead to unhappiness and midlife crisis as with Roosh V? In my case, a resounding NO!What's the point of passing it on to someone? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/19 05:44 PM |
| 5 | The 'connection' you have means nothing if she meets someone else with a higher SMV with the right conditions.You don't know that the connection you developed counted for nothing. Were you expecting her to give you exclusivity after one date? She may really like you but one date is not enough to stop her or you from dating other people. Also, although I agree that you should always be trying to f-close or at least not hide your desire, you need to calibrate and not assume it's all about you if it doesn't go down as hoped, simply try again next time. Your post and responses read like if you pull all the … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/19 03:59 PM |
| 5 | CMV: It's good to have an opposite gender friend because they see things in a way you can'tI use splitting checks as a filter for the first few dates as well. If she has a problem with it then I've just learned shes has some princess expectations that I don't want in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/19 04:33 PM |
| 1 | RP only “works” because it says to lift and exercise to get hotterThat's fair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/19 11:49 PM |
| 2 | RP only “works” because it says to lift and exercise to get hotterI'm just saying alphness is on a spectrum, it's not binary as lots of people seem to think. Just because you back down and become beta when a big dog comes it doesn't make you by default always a beta. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/19 05:26 PM |
| 3 | RP only “works” because it says to lift and exercise to get hotterToo narrow of a definition. The 'it' factor changes based upon subjects one is strong in. The star quarterback will lose his 'it' factor and leader status the moment he is in a domain he knows nothing about, let's say salsa dancing. This is then where the teacher and and students that are proficient at salsa dancing become the leader and have the 'it' factor based on their confidence in the subject. What I'm saying is all men have the ability to drift in and out of being a leader based upon thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/19 05:19 PM |
| 1 | RP only “works” because it says to lift and exercise to get hotterNo! TRP teaches you how to understand and accept women's sexual strategy, then better yourself both physically and mentally to be more competitive in the SMP. A good physique is not enough. You need game, the right attitude, and the ability to recognize women's behaviors / tests, and why they are doing them. If you are physically hot but you are spinless, emotional, and don't understand womens behavior very well, then it will only get you so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/19 04:03 PM |
| 5 | RP only “works” because it says to lift and exercise to get hotterAlso, there seems to be a generalized idea that the term alpha only applies to the star quarterback type of males, which is not true. Alpha has a lot to do with a mentality that consists of making your own rules, not being easily controlled or swayed, not giving a fuck, etc...an attitude as opposed to a look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/19 03:36 PM |
| 1 | How to get over redpill rage?The irony of the second component is when you treat women like plates they will eventually leave you for someone who treats them better, so the result will confirm your beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/19 05:15 PM |
| 3 | How to get over redpill rage?If empathy doesn't make sense to you I can't help you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/19 06:47 PM |
| 4 | How to get over redpill rage?You want them to get a taste of their own medicine, I can see where you're coming from, however you stated you want to move on from this phase of your life...are you looking for justification in your actions or to change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/19 06:15 PM |
| 8 | How to get over redpill rage?Women didn't like you because you were unattractive, that was your fault not there's. It sucks that women treated you like shit, nobody deserves that. But if you hated how that felt then why would you pass that feeling on to others, be better then that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | It's us men who are to blame for the entitlement of women...Ha, so true. I was just playing darts with a random girl at the bar over the weekend and she was commanding me to go collect the darts, 'go pick up that one on the ground over there'...not a bid deal, but I didn't know her so it came across as pretty rude for her to try to tell me what to do without at least being nice about it. This led me to ask if she was married or had a boyfriend because I figured she probably walks all over some poor guy so she thinks her behavior is normal and she can do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/19 04:50 PM |
| 2 | You are not given power. You must take it.So when plates are beginning to drift this sub says let them go if they aren't choosing to be with you, but then this post makes it sound like you should fight for them to stay with you, sounds contradictory unless I'm interpreting this wrong? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/19 03:04 PM |
| 12 | Why "I am the prize" mentality is bullshit and what you need to do insteadYour cards ain't worth a dime if you don't lay them down. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/19 05:51 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill stance on showing affection in relationship?I fucked up one of my plates that I really liked because I didn't show her much affection, so I'll bite. Women like both verbal and physical affection, some like one more then the other so you can ask her what type of affection she likes. Ultimately you need to provide enough affection so you don't come off as a dead fish to her and make her think you don't even like her. Always initiate and act in accordance with how you want to act, because if she always waits for you to initiate first, and th… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 07:39 PM |
| 9 | Surviving Oneitis, and Rooting Out its Underlying AssumptionsI'm with you on this. I take care of my needs with random hook ups, but I'm always looking for the special girls where the chemistry is huge. The thing is they are hard to find and it can sometimes take years before you find them. That is why breakups for me are so impactful, I only date the special ones, so when I lose them I know what I've lost, I know they were unique, I know it may take years before I find another one. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/18 04:35 PM |
| 4 | New shit test from LTR I don’t fully understandNothing wrong with reciprocating by helping make food for her, just tell her you don't appreciate the time demand she is placing on you. Or if it's too much of a hassle for you be ready to potentially lose her. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone here successfully been just friends with their ex?What about the "no contact rule" is unclear to you? I understand it, and in most cases abide by it. However I choose to question rules when variables arise that may negate the rule. lol. In private, they're talking shit. That I can tell you. You may be a shitty person, and therefore that is what you experience... | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Got weak and vomited my emotional feelings to girl, how to recover?A hard next for someone you care about seems like a losing situation. It seems super weak to simply step aside for the new guy. I'm the one with history, the one who has a stronger emotional bond with her. If I display that I'm not going anywhere then this new guy needs to be the one that has fight his way in and figure out if he wants to stick around. If some guy is trying to steal my wallet I don't just hand him my money, I make him fight for it. Open relationships are a bit blurry, you seem t… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Got weak and vomited my emotional feelings to girl, how to recover?Yeah, i understand. I've got multiple other girls but I ended up catching feelings for this one, I was trying to avoid that but it happened. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 06:33 PM |
| 1 | What fun things (i.e. hot tub ) have you had that has made attracting women into your life easier?Totally agree for not being a necessity, think of it as icing on the cake for an already high smv. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 05:47 PM |
| 5 | What fun things (i.e. hot tub ) have you had that has made attracting women into your life easier?Funny, but of no help | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 05:17 PM |
| 1 | A friend of mine is moving in on one of my plates, what's the best way to handle this, without just saying drop both people?So help me unpack this and learn from it. I'm trying to figure out why I'm insecure / jealous if it is someone I know, but not for someone I don't know? I assume it has to do with comparison, meaning if I know who it is then my mind is able to create better / worse comparisons, therefore I am trying to avoid that from happening. When I don't know the person I have nothing to compare myself against so I don't get hung up on it. What mindset should I employ when I am forced to deal with knowing wh… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 06:56 PM |
| 1 | A friend of mine is moving in on one of my plates, what's the best way to handle this, without just saying drop both people?There are other toys to play with, why you trying to take mine toy. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 09:16 PM |
| 1 | A friend of mine is moving in on one of my plates, what's the best way to handle this, without just saying drop both people?I would agree to not discuss it with the girl, but why not with my friend. It's seems like a pussy move to not say, yo go find someone else, we've hanging out for a year now... | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 07:24 PM |
| 1 | A friend of mine is moving in on one of my plates, what's the best way to handle this, without just saying drop both people?So is there no respect factor regarding friends staying away? | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 07:02 PM |
| 1 | I understand most aspects of no contact, but it also seems like acting butthurt and weak, thoughts?Fair. But for the purpose of being a stronger man that stands up for himself, this seems sort of weak to me. She knows why you aren't talking to her. She knows it made you upset that she refused sex, because if it didn't then you wouldn't be taking your attention elsewhere. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 09:42 PM |
| 2 | I understand most aspects of no contact, but it also seems like acting butthurt and weak, thoughts?I get it now. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 09:24 PM |
| 1 | I understand most aspects of no contact, but it also seems like acting butthurt and weak, thoughts?Withdrawing attention is at its core a punishment for them, because you are not rewarding them with your time, money, and validation. I don't see the difference you are trying to make? | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 09:18 PM |
| 3 | I unknowingly started dating two girls that are friends with each other. Ride it out or say something?...so have you ever kissed another girl...? | /r/seduction | 25/07/17 09:22 PM |
| 1 | I unknowingly started dating two girls that are friends with each other. Ride it out or say something?Truth is I don't know what they know, and I'm not sure if they have talked about me yet, but because I now know they are friends and have hung out since I think it is wise to assume that they are aware I've been hanging out with both of them. The thing is I haven't lied to them, nothing is exclusive, so I haven't deceived anyone, but I am aware this is dangerous territory. | /r/seduction | 25/07/17 08:57 PM |
| 2 | I unknowingly started dating two girls that are friends with each other. Ride it out or say something?'A' came first, I came right after, then we both fell asleep. But for real I was hanging out casually with A first, and she is seeing other people, so this led me to explore options with B. | /r/seduction | 25/07/17 08:52 PM |
| – | I unknowingly started dating two girls that are friends with each other. Ride it out or say something?I found out they knew each other because her text to me was saying she was going to hang out with A, and she jokingly suggesting I should join up with them. I assume they talked about me, but maybe not. | /r/seduction | 25/07/17 06:48 PM |
| 1 | I keep getting stuck with girls that give mixed signals of interest. Advice on how to proceed?When woman are being a bit hot and cold it fucks with you're ability to lead because they allow, then don't allow. Do you have a strategy? Do you point it out to them? Or just stop bothering which is what I seem to do, but I could be missing out because I don't understand the way forward. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 11:59 PM |
| 1 | I keep getting stuck with girls that give mixed signals of interest. Advice on how to proceed?That's my thinking as well. It sucks when you meet someone really cool and it doesn't go far, oh well. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 10:13 PM |
| – | I keep getting stuck with girls that give mixed signals of interest. Advice on how to proceed?I like to move fast, so trying but no. One girl in particular will only go for a short make out, then pull back. We honestly have really great chemistry, but something is off regarding the mixed signals. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 10:01 PM |
| – | I keep getting stuck with girls that give mixed signals of interest. Advice on how to proceed?One date a week. I'll only text to start a brief flirty conversation then set a date. I try not to text much in between. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 09:53 PM |
| 1 | If you get the impression that a girl enjoys being single, and thinks you want a relationship, would it be a good move to tell her you're not looking for anything serious?This is me overthinking things, but because both women and men aren't mind readers it is hard to tell where the others mind is at. Lots of people go out with the intention of it turning into a relationship. When you are a part of this community you can forget that for a lot of people the goal is a relationship, not a nsa or fwb. | /r/seduction | 05/06/17 10:13 PM |
| 1 | If you get the impression that a girl enjoys being single, and thinks you want a relationship, would it be a good move to tell her you're not looking for anything serious?I hear ya. I don't really feel like you understood my question though. Girls in general are afraid of there freedom being taken away, in the same way guys are. My question was more referring to if you think the only reason a girl is not hooking up with you is because she wants to keep her freedom of being single, and she thinks you are someone who is trying to relationship her up. In this case would it be good to communicate that you are just looking to have fun, thus relieving her hesitation? I… | /r/seduction | 05/06/17 09:46 PM |
| 1 | If you get the impression that a girl enjoys being single, and thinks you want a relationship, would it be a good move to tell her you're not looking for anything serious?insightful... | /r/seduction | 05/06/17 09:10 PM |
| 1 | If you get a no response via text, how long do you wait before trying again?Ok, from now on I will adjust my method, but considering what is done is done, what's my play now? For one girl it has been 4 days. For another, 24hrs. | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 11:55 PM |
| 1 | If you get a no response via text, how long do you wait before trying again?I like this method, will use! How many days do you usually put between your last conversation and the arranged new contact day? | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 11:30 PM |
| 2 | If you get a no response via text, how long do you wait before trying again?It's possible. But it's important to recognize that you could say 'I'm taking you out for drinks on Wed' and she may tell you no because she legitimately already has plans. | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 11:25 PM |
| 3 | I literally cannot approach a girlOne simple change I made has eliminated my approach anxiety. I approach to simply see how they are doing. I say 'Hi, how's your night going" There is no pressure with this question. There is no rejection from this question because you aren't trying to get something from them, and your not trying to impress them. You are just curious if they are having fun. This generally leads to some nice banter, introductions, and so on, without any pressure. If you find out you are vibing, then continue, if n… | /r/seduction | 10/03/17 05:46 PM |
| 1 | How should I handle separating a girl from her friend at the end of the night when the club is closing and we are waiting outside?That's more along the lines of what I'm looking for. I kept eluding to the idea thinking my girl would speak to her friend, but she never did, which made me think she wasn't sure how to get rid of the friend either, or my girl was not as down as I thought. I read another option was to say 'It looks like your friend doesn't want us to leave together, so should I just say goodbye now or something? This sounds effective because it highlights that the friend is being a cockblocker and makes both gir… | /r/seduction | 06/03/17 09:30 PM |
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