crxblcl Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
29	I am finally free!		crxblcl	/r/Divorce_Men	19/07/21 09:19 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Remember: YOU'RE the prize. I was with you until the last paragraph. Prefacing it by saying you're not TRYING to be misogynistic doesn't absolve what follows. I know this is a men's focused subreddit but the truth is, these tables can just as easily be flipped, because none of the things you listed on either "side" are inherently belonging to one gender or the other. My post-divorce girlfriend is also divorced, because she was the one that did everything in the relationship, much like myself and (it sounds like) you. I und…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/21 08:26 PM
6	I am in tears reading this because it’s funny asl 😂😂 is this what marriage like for real for men ? I filed. I consulted a lawyer and he verified everything I was dealing with was legit, and definitely going to kill me in the long run. And then I served my then wife with papers. I didn't ask her, because she was living a cushy life, why would she ever agree to it? Just rip off the band-aid, it's not going to be pretty no matter what.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/21 07:33 PM
1	I am in tears reading this because it’s funny asl 😂😂 is this what marriage like for real for men ? It was for me, but YMMV	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/21 06:13 PM
3	I am finally free! Court is not a thing. The divorce was finalized in June, on the 24th. The only reason I would need to go back is for a custody battle, which at this point I'm confident will work itself out in the end.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/21 03:46 PM
3	I am finally free! Her justifications really didn't come into play. She chose to move away for support from her family. I think she secretly hope so would keep the house as some sort of stability for my daughter, with some neighborhood friends and etc. Problem is,the house is too big for me alone and without the kid going to school here, it makes sense to downsize. I asked for counseling 3-4 years ago and multiple times since, and she thought we could work on it ourselves. Well, even though I was still vocal about…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/21 11:06 AM
4	I am finally free! My ex, to "get back on her feet" decided to move near her parents, and so that would pull my daughter out of the current school system. Due to that, I felt there was nothing keeping me in this neighborhood, so there was no reason for me to keep a home full of painful memories, so I had all the autonomy in the world to say I'm selling it.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/21 03:04 AM
2	I am finally free! Sounds like a very familiar situation. Life will have a way of balancing things out, and your kids will eventually see the truth. Hang in there and good luck!	/r/Divorce_Men	19/07/21 10:18 PM
10	Boundaries vs Open House A thought popped into my head that she is purposely keeping you out of any situations where she could be seen with a new partner. School, home, and church. Her boundaries may all be intertwined in the sense she is keeping you detached from her personal life, which doesn't sound all that unrealistic. Obviously this is just a working theory from a couple paragraph synopsis.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/21 08:40 PM