cryingintomycoffee Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
46	anyone on FDS ever struggle with codependency?	STRATEGY	cryingintomycoffee	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/11/20 06:32 PM
39	Top 3 things you look for in a partner?	DISCUSSION	cryingintomycoffee	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 05:24 PM
2	Thoughts on Why Men Love Bitches? I just started reading, but from what I see so far, I feel like it’s really focused on what MEN like/dislike... how does the FDS community feel?	DISCUSSION	cryingintomycoffee	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/20 12:36 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Show them the same amount of respect they show you! I giggle bc I’m literally afraid for my safety	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/21 04:32 PM
6	I gave this man my number 2 days ago. I ended up blocking him bc he was doing too much. He told me I’m “not engaging” with him. But who has time to text back and forth all day? I have a life lol. So this is his message after he realized I blocked him on WhatsApp. He’s 45. OMG just commented this before seeing your comment 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/21 02:23 AM
12	I gave this man my number 2 days ago. I ended up blocking him bc he was doing too much. He told me I’m “not engaging” with him. But who has time to text back and forth all day? I have a life lol. So this is his message after he realized I blocked him on WhatsApp. He’s 45. Narcissist alert 🚨	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/21 02:22 AM
17	I’m 39 and for the first time in my life I broke up with someone that I have strong feelings for because they weren’t treating me the way I deserve to be treated. Hey - in this position now... i was in physical pain after this break up. We went from having an amazing relationship to a dysfunctional on/off cycle - He was an a amazing guy, but circumstances and mental health drove use both to no longer be our best selves in the relationship... devastating. However, before the on/off cycle, i was dealing with a lot of career stress and moving to a new location... i didn’t think i could handle another unknown. Let me tell ya... I should have just gone with my…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/21 08:22 PM
3	Damn straight Wait why? Idgi	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/01/21 06:40 PM
20	This is kinda cute. Ok Im crying - this is beautiful	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 04:19 PM
1	When you're dying, your perspective on man/woman relations changes drastically. beautiful!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/20 07:06 PM
1	When you're dying, your perspective on man/woman relations changes drastically. Can you speak to what you have learned? I would like to try to understand. While i know it’s difficult, i hope to see through your eyes	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/20 02:34 PM
1	When you're dying, your perspective on man/woman relations changes drastically. It’s hard to love yourself as much as a loving parent lover you sometimes	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/20 02:31 PM
4	Classic example of scrote stringing his forever girlfriend along. I hope she dumps him I saw this one earlier... y’all, she thought she needed a ring, but she really needs FDS. Someone save her!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/20 01:33 AM
9	I bought the berries & chocolate, dipped them myself, a card, flowers, & her favorite wine for < $30. My mom is supporting me during grad school & tonight I’m making her fave dinner + this surprise. I’m a broke graduate & I found the time to do this for the queen in my life You are SPECIAL	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/20 01:09 AM
5	After a long day at work, I come home to flowers and a book about empowered women. A HVM is rare to find, but they are out there. Goals 💖	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/20 12:55 AM
13	I love how she remains unbothered What did he do to her? Sorry I’m curious! I don’t keep up!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/20 02:59 PM
3	My bestie used to pass me notes like this at work, and I wanted to pass along her message to anyone who might need it too. 😊 you right- he ain’t shit	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/10/20 04:39 PM
11	I started making lunchboxes. I always wanted to and couldn' wait to have a partner/children, so I can express my love this way. Just recently I realized that I already have a loved one, that I can make food for! (And who will always appreciate it) It's silly but it never came to my head before :D Ok can you please make me lunchboxes too? You are living the life	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/10/20 09:47 PM
2	Guy treats his GF like shit because he thought she’d never leave. She leaves him and is gone for good. THIS IS A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! Ouch 😳	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 09:57 PM
1	Top 3 things you look for in a partner? Ooooh thats a great idea! I will def do that & listen to that podcast 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 09:29 PM
9	are men ok lol No they are not- he sounds like he’s bitter he can’t make women cum	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 07:51 PM
14	From the bottom of my heart, thank you FDS! Congrats on all of this- did you make the move quickly or slowly? How did you snap out of it?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 07:37 PM
3	Top 3 things you look for in a partner? NOT SUPERFICIAL. that's baseline.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 06:12 PM
14	Top 3 things you look for in a partner? wow yes for sure. I am young (25) and I feel like I need to be more intentional about my needs and what I see in my serious "forever" partner. It's hard because I know that I will evolve... but I just don't want to keep wasting my time. I'm the kind of person that can be really affected by my serious relationships and I just don't want anyone to get in my way as they have in the past.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 06:11 PM
5	Top 3 things you look for in a partner? love this, thank you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 06:08 PM
7	Top 3 things you look for in a partner? hahaha #3 is a BIGGIE	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 06:07 PM
15	Top 3 things you look for in a partner? THIS IS GREAT - THANK YOU! these are things that I have thought in the past, but have not been able to put into words. i appreciate you <3	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 06:07 PM
14	Top 3 things you look for in a partner? ahhhh yes! Kind to animals is huge for me. I feel like it says a lot about who they are as a person.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 06:06 PM
2	One of the best things I’ve learned on FDS is asking a man to explain himself when he makes a dumb sexual joke. This was a quick unmatch. hahahah who raised this man - what are you saying, sir????	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/20 10:30 PM
2	Every single time one of these baby videos is posted, this happens. Please protect your babies and respect their privacy. like.... why? why the fuck does your mind go there? people who think this way should not reproduce	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/20 10:21 PM
4	Expecting me to accept toxicity as a price for dating you. ok OP - ILY. "side order of misery" "moody antisocial misery sinks"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/20 10:18 PM
3	STDs, pregnancy, stealthing, the joys of hookups the disrespect is just... WOW. I would lose my shit if someone did this to me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/20 10:14 PM
41	Ladies, you heard straight from the wolf’s mouth not surprised by this in the slightest. I've dated that! its all about their fragile self esteem...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/20 10:12 PM
7	TW: incest/child abuse FaNtAsY. Pedos are everywhere. I’ve only been on reddit for like 5 minutes this morning and this is already the third thing I’ve seen about a pedo being open about their depravity. I’m sick of it. Can I just have off this planet already, please? This makes me want to think twice about having children. I bet he has a "sweet friendly family man" reputation within the community... men like this seek positions of authority to gain trust from families and the public.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/20 09:54 PM
3	TW: incest/child abuse FaNtAsY. Pedos are everywhere. I’ve only been on reddit for like 5 minutes this morning and this is already the third thing I’ve seen about a pedo being open about their depravity. I’m sick of it. Can I just have off this planet already, please? I've never been so disgusted. I cant believe this exists in the world. This man needs to be castrated.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/20 09:52 PM
13	Just saw this on IG and this is so sad. I still can't belive it how horrible some men are. stories like THIS are why i don’t feel comfortable telling people to go F themselves- idc, I’d rather say something non-threatening but also non-suggestive for my own peace of mind and safety... it’s absolutely terrible that women have to live this way but it’s the sad truth. I’ve looked mature since a really young age and have dealt with this kind of harassment my whole life. I have tried to explain my logic/reasoning to my boyfriends but they don’t really seem to get it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/20 04:08 PM
1	This is why we don’t do friends with benefits. Vet these guys and vet them hard. Don’t catch feelings unless you want them to be used against you Im always curious about the comments on these things	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/20 03:20 PM
2	Another cautionary tale of the dangers of choosing a LVM: they will not hesitate to hurt you to sexually please themselves, even when you might be literally dying I can’t with these idiots. Seriously? Get some self awareness & empathy dude... Whats it going to take? Chopping your d*ck off & getting it replaced “just a little too small” to get it??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 09:29 PM
12	That's how LVM treat women for hookups Lol Im so grossed out	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 01:42 PM
6	Ladies all men want the same thing on OLD Ugh vom	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/20 04:52 PM
8	You're stressed over him....FOR WHAT?!!🤔😂 Is this guy single????? He’s my hero hahaha	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/20 07:45 PM