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Fuck and chuck
/r/askTRP21/06/20 01:27 PM
7

Constant lifting! When they say, you don’t need to workout you look good enough, you know it’s working!
/r/askTRP13/06/20 11:01 AM
28

Lift.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 01:53 PM
3

Act beta as fuck Tell her you like sucking dick Tell her you want a sex change Ghost
/r/askTRP11/06/20 09:54 AM
-2

Tell her she has just lost her chance at earning you
/r/askTRP10/06/20 08:38 PM
2

Not if you’re good at it 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 04:38 PM
4

Through trauma and first hand experience comes clarity and calmness in seeing things for how they are and why they are like that.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 01:00 PM
1

Hell ye I feel this. Same for me, I was so in love in my last blue pill relationship, now it is like a void as it is just bull shit anyway.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 10:00 AM
8

I’m 32 and getting gains
/r/askTRP09/06/20 01:19 PM
4

Your eyes are fine bro. What isn't is your self confidence. Work on that first
/r/askTRP08/06/20 07:09 PM
16

Report back 12 weeks. Don’t give up though
/r/askTRP08/06/20 04:26 PM
2

Boy oh boy! Run like the wind.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:59 PM
2

Bro you need to get a fucking grip or either banned from here. This is the same shit, over and over. Your ex is a slut and if I could I’d film myself cumming all over her face and make you watch it in order for you to man the fuck up and let go of her. It’s been over a year, fuck that hoe, no wonder she didn’t want you you’re a bitch in her eyes and I can see why. Moaning and asking questions on this sub isn’t solving shit for you. Do someone else or something else. Get therapy. Time is somethin…
/r/askTRP07/06/20 11:31 AM
2

Depends. But mostly I see them as camp yes. You can get tight fitting jeans that are in my opinion better looking.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:26 PM
2

Ok so experienced psychonaut here, my experiences have ranged from using LSD, Shrooms, DMT, LSD+DMT, LSD+Shrooms and Ketamine. Sometimes with moderate doses, on the contrary, I've had my fair share of heroic doses and have had the typical enlightening trips, and the dreaded hell trips. From a red pill perspective, I think through the use of psyches, it allows oneself to honestly look at their life, all the things in it, and the improvements which can be made to said life. Red pill philosophy is …
/r/askTRP05/06/20 11:21 AM
1

Autism level 100
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:02 AM
7

I think it’s on the premise that statistically most won’t change after 30. Doesn’t mean you can’t, many return to education or start business after 30 and go on to be successful!
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:20 AM
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Amen 🙏
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:13 AM
3

Bro this is nothing. I went full beta bitch cuck mode after my exLTR wanted a break and fucking begged for a month, turned up uninvited at her house to “talk”, spammed her with shit loads of calls, paragraphs of poetic shit texts pleading for another chance, all whilst she was monkey branching to Chad and fucking another dude. Get this, she was also a single mother of two kids, which I also fell in love with like my own kids. I’m saying this as a 32 YEAR OLD FUCKING MAN. Trust me when I say this…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:10 AM
1

Maybe a spike in test due to new foods and working out, a purely speculative guess though Have you been having cold showers and or nofap? I know this can spike test levels which I think can help with hair growth
/r/askTRP05/06/20 07:56 AM
5

She wants black dick
/r/askTRP04/06/20 09:01 PM
0

Purple pill for you my friend
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:51 AM
2

Honestly mate, I feel excellent after cardio and working out! Mornings and night times the mind begins to wonder, but you can’t always start pumping weights to conquer that! In terms of cognitive ability, my day job has always been pretty taxing mentally, but I guess I am a lot more assertive when I’m in the zone! I’ve noticed that if I don’t take the vitamin D3, like when I’m sleeping out, then I will feel extremely fatigued both mentally and physically. The creatine 100% helps with working out…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 06:33 PM
2

Really good! My cardio is cycling, which I find to be really well coupled with lifting! Mind is awesome despite recent oneitis but honestly I’ve been spurred into a health as a hobby which will hopefully last a lifetime! I used to also take ZMA but I got crazy crazy dreams from it so I stopped it!
/r/askTRP03/06/20 05:35 PM
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Ok so what I am taking on the daily. 6000ui vitamin D tablet Cod liver oil tablet Multivitamin tablet Creatine Pre Workout + Whey Post Workout BCAAs after cardio I'm on a high protein diet with a calorie deficit, so mainly chicken and salad all day everyday. ​ Plan is to lose weight whilst maintaining/gaining muscle so far it is going good! Lost a lot of weight and have gained muscle.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:07 PM
1

Bro you need to go see a doctor or something. Your post history is a joke. Granted, a year ago it was expected but this is now a living joke. I don’t give a fuck if I sound harsh but you need a fucking slap or something. I’m 3 months out of a 1 year relationship, fell in love with her kids, played step dad, thought everything was great. One day it was over, 14 days after that she was fucking someone else whilst I was begging like a bitch on the sidelines. I don’t give a fuck anymore, why you ask…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 10:24 AM
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Delete the fucking gaming apps. Stop making yourself shit excuses dude. You could literally save yourself some money here therefore making you more rich!
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:25 PM
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I actually agree with this. It’s when you have this connection and it is ripped from you trp becomes engrained. But ye I miss it, ask yourself this though, knowing what you do now do you think that kind of connection is even possible!
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:17 PM
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Ok my advice here take it or leave it. Only cardio after weights, I find cycling the most optimal, non load bearing and is really fun. You should be doing cardio as well as weights, some people would advise against but it has always helped me, 30 mins high intensity should do it! For weights, heavier with low reps is best. Train core too! Pull-ups, push ups, sit-ups are often overlooked but they are great for mass! If they get easy make them harder, raised legs, weight vest etc! For optimal prot…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 10:39 AM
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👻👉👌💦🍑
/r/askTRP02/06/20 08:51 AM
1

I agree completely. By all Hollywood standard I was a good boyfriend. Was step dad to her two children and a good one at that. Thing is, I let my emotions run wild. It became more about her and her kids than it did about me and my own children and that dries up pussy faster than fuck knows what! I take full responsibility for what happened. If I hadn’t acted like a beta cringe bitch in the last few months and after the relationship, then who knows. The thing is what I’ve learnt is this: Until yo…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:18 AM
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I was where you are around 3-4 months ago. Trust me when I say this, I am 32, and it happened to me. Be glad it happened whilst you were younger which I assume you are. Literally acted like a fucking beta bitch begging for herback and all that cringe shit. I got blocked, still am lol but I don’t fucking care anymore. Turned up at her house uninvited, told her I wanted to marry her one day. Trust me the way you acted will be the hardest part to get over out of all of this, not the bitch. Now I’m …
/r/askTRP02/06/20 04:49 AM
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dont
/r/askTRP01/06/20 09:20 AM
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good advice here. Some more points. Leave her the fuck alone. It is her mistake to make, let her make it. Once chad has finished using her holes, she'll be back don't be a pussy and fuck her cum filled bucket. At first, motivation will probably be to make her regret her decision (don't worry about the why for now, just fucking higher your SMV, the why will change with time) With time, with a higher SMV, you'll do better. Learn from this and don't make the same mistakes again.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 09:19 AM
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Ah ok so physical alpha traits but beta mentality!
/r/TheRedPill31/05/20 07:22 PM
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What the fuck is a blue pilled alpha?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/20 07:19 PM
41

A and an update for us all
/r/askTRP29/05/20 02:24 PM
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GIGACHAD GIGATYRONE
/r/askTRP29/05/20 09:38 AM
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No. Your bro beta billy. Set an example by being a man.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 01:13 PM
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I agree with what you have said. However, you can take the low road in a way which doesn’t affect the kids
/r/askTRP28/05/20 01:11 PM
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Single mom welfare land
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:38 PM
1

The hamster is strong with this one
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:38 PM
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Are you a fucking simping little cuck bitch? She left you on read because she was getting blasted from behind and taking a mouthful of jizz from some other dude who leaves her on fucking read.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:29 PM
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She hasn’t got cake. She doesn’t want that shit, she likes the idea of that shit, but she won’t be fulfilled with that shit. She’ll be fucking other dudes living a shit life in a shit marriage bro
/r/askTRP28/05/20 10:13 AM
2

good points
/r/seduction28/05/20 09:19 AM
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Happy to talk bro if you want... pm me. Therapy, exercise, meditation, cold showers, exercise more.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 08:41 AM
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Trust me what I’m about to say to you. I’m a 32 year old man, and I have only just started to internalise this stuff. I had a major traumatic event happen regarding my ex, you can guess I’m sure, which made it worse by my beta behaviour, it was so bad. Only through the trauma, have I truly taken on board trp. I don’t give a fuck about game or shit tests, that was natural for me anyway. What is true is hypergamy. Live by the saying IDGAF Why give a fuck thinking about how your text may be interpr…
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:17 PM
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I’ve had it myself mate. Dated a single mother of two, got left and cheated on, she’ll be hitting me back up when she realises she fucked it up, I was step dad to her kids the lot for over a year. She with Chad now who has no kids himself! So fucking dumb of her. What’s even dumber though is I was willing to settle for a single mum of two at thirty two.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 09:58 AM
1

make sure you don't become beta bucks for her
/r/askTRP26/05/20 09:19 AM
1

Wow this is fucking true
/r/askTRP25/05/20 01:03 PM
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Dang this rings so true. Since discovering trp after a break up a few months back, looking back everything I read on this sub, rings so fucking true!
/r/askTRP25/05/20 12:14 PM
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I find them helpful as they often contain examples of hypergamy and most of the guys on there are blue pilled as fuck! It’s good to read all of that shit.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 12:11 PM
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Cycling. It really is great. It is a non load bearing form of exercise. It gets you out and about, you can travel far. It gives your lower body a really good workout, and I’ve found if you tense your stomach whilst doing it you can really target your lower abs as well. That combined with lifting and you’re good I’d say!
/r/askTRP25/05/20 12:08 PM
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The only thing I would say if that person is negatively affecting your life. For example, a person who just causes drama for you, you know the type. On the other hand blocking people is just a weak move in my opinion, unless they are stalking you of course!
/r/askTRP25/05/20 12:03 PM
3

Start a blog, put adverts on there.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:59 AM
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Don’t burn bridges. They might improve themselves and offer more value, you might not see value now but may see it later.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:58 AM
10

The Rational Male Models No More Mr Nice Guy
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:45 AM
1

Wow this is good advice. Basically my worth now is intrinsically tied to the cringe. I guess I should be grateful then for having done it? I can accept that if I interpreted your post correctly?
/r/askTRP24/05/20 04:54 PM
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Well he went back after she kissed another dude
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 01:53 PM
5

Dang I need a link for that
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:54 PM
1

Amen brother, hit me up if you wanna discuss anything, seems we on the same path
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:41 PM
5

Then hard next her. She disrespected you and a boundary you set. If you are sure she lied
/r/askTRP24/05/20 10:01 AM
2

This is why trp should be taken with a pinch of salt. She was joking bro. You gone fucked it up
/r/askTRP24/05/20 09:57 AM
2

Cheers man!
/r/askTRP24/05/20 08:29 AM
2

Thanks man this made a lot of sense. And fuck her wouldn’t take her back now!
/r/askTRP24/05/20 08:27 AM
2

Thanks
/r/askTRP24/05/20 01:26 AM
2

Some things which you may like to do! Walking - seriously go outside and walk in nature, listen to the birds feel the wind and think about shit or even speak aloud Journaling - write out your thoughts, everyday Set Goals - can be done with anything, lifting for example set a target weight to lift and then achieve it Read - self explanatory Help others - it will make you feel good and others too
/r/askTRP24/05/20 01:20 AM
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Look at my post history I literally asked the same question. There is good advice there
/r/askTRP24/05/20 01:14 AM
8

Ye never getting oneitis again... that shit fucked me up. I’ll check out the channel thanks!
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:35 PM
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This was very helpful. I have a long way to go, but I am definitely on the right path I hope. That’s good to know! Thanks
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:25 PM
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Cheers man I appreciate it. Exercise is key to everything I guess!
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:17 PM
5

That’s a good idea. I will try it. Thanks
/r/askTRP23/05/20 11:12 PM
7

Bro listen to me. Fuck people charities. They are money makers for people in power. The bonuses the execs get is absurd. Of course volunteering is different such as homeless shelters etc. Donate to animal charities. My two cents
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:01 PM
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You have no choice. Learn to live with it or don’t live a proper life.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:57 PM
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Thing is no contact is simply this: They determine the value of themselves in your life to you by reaching out, if they don’t reach out then they don’t have any value. Simple.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:14 PM
1

and that is when you as a man will be in your prime able to fuck girls twenty years your younger
/r/askTRP22/05/20 10:46 AM
1

good advice man, I'm going through the same thing. 3 months since. Seriously beta as fuck, acting like a bitch telling her she is the love of my life etc etc, begging after breakup she was fucking other dudes, so fucking cringe. But you know what, learn from that shit and move the fuck on. On the path to improvement now. I've quit drinking, smoking, workout everyday, bought myself a bike for cardio, eat healthy, my life truly has changed. I don't know whether this is a beta way of thinking, but …
/r/askTRP22/05/20 10:42 AM
1

Sweet
/r/askTRP22/05/20 09:54 AM
1

Can’t agree more I just read over some of his posts.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 08:30 PM
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Man it’s all about accepting it is done. I’m 3 months out of a year long relationship, literally did the same, got invested, talked about my feelings, told her I loved her so much, all that beta shit. Take it as a lesson, learn from it and move on man. Yes I still think about her, yes I sometimes wish I hadn’t acted the way I did, but I’m sure that next time, history will not repeat itself.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 12:39 PM
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Dude. A lot of people on this sub have no interpretation of trp, they are lost, they post because they want and need help but don’t know how or where to find it. Stop bitching like the uncle everyone has who is at weddings drunk on the edge of the dance floor. Either help or gtfo, your post is nothing of value and only hinders those who are trying to better themselves.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 10:49 AM
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I went to university at age 26, qualified in my field at 30, two years later am killing it saving for a house. I was a late started, have had two ltrs, one over ten years three dogs and two kids, and recently 1 year, where I acted complete beta and lost all respect for myself and dignity. I found trp a few months back, you are not a late bloomer. Get your shit together, go college, lift, and self improve!
/r/askTRP21/05/20 10:42 AM
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A lot of people over analyse the material here, they think it is all black and white. All the material should be taken with a pinch of salt. It is not set in stone. There are lessons to be learned, but it is not gospel. Taking the approach of one which is analytical which is often the case you probably hinder your chances of becoming a better man. Notice I said becoming a better man, that is what trp is about, it isn’t about getting hot woman. That should be a side product of the awesomeness tha…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 10:09 AM
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I found it at 32! Count yourself lucky. Some people never do find this stuff!
/r/askTRP21/05/20 08:13 AM
7

Bang her in the toilets
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:34 PM
2

Amen
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:21 PM
1

Yep
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:39 PM
3

Lift, work hard, get hobbies, study frame
/r/askTRP19/05/20 12:02 PM
1

Amen
/r/askTRP19/05/20 11:33 AM
2

After having some time to think about it I think I did. She had two needy as fuck kids, was on anti depressants, was needy as fuck, clingy, literally had to fall asleep on the phone together and my beta ass allowed that shit at the time, I think she cheated but could never prove it as well but had that intuition, should of left a long time ago. Thing is at that time I had no abundance and severe oneitis. Never again.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:26 PM
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Ye man that’s what I’m trying to do. Not spoke to her for a good few weeks now. She already with the new branch, but fuck it she was a single mum of two and I’ve learnt a lot about why you shouldn’t date them either! New guy has no kids so he either gonna pump and dump or he a beta simp cuck so I’m not even bothered. I tried to change her mind for about 6 weeks even after she was fucking the dude, really cringe worthy beta simp shit. To be honest though, if it wasn’t for losing all my self respe…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:16 PM
2

Happened to me although a little more brutally than this post. Still got slight oneitis even after 3 months, I’m blocked everywhere, but I’ve learnt a lot and am continuing doing so.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:07 PM
0

Pm me
/r/askTRP16/05/20 07:29 PM
5

Not kids bro. Create a 2d game using python. Learn java and use libGDX. I did just this, check my post history for the game. Any questions just ask
/r/askTRP16/05/20 04:22 AM
1

How old bro?
/r/askTRP16/05/20 04:13 AM
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Happened to me man 3 months ago shit hurts man
/r/askTRP15/05/20 10:12 AM
16

Beard, lift.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 09:04 PM
2

Man I failed so bad at 2 last breakup on the road to being better now though!
/r/askTRP14/05/20 08:55 PM
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Yep agree with the clingy
/r/askTRP14/05/20 08:48 PM
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DUMP HER seriously man, this isn’t any good. I have had this happen to me. I was laying in bed with my now ex who received a message from a man on Facebook saying “a topless one would have been better” I asked wtf is going on and she shown me she sent a selfie. She said it was a friend and that if I had a problem I should leave. My then beta ass didn’t say shit. I was dumped 2 months later and I think the guy is that she is seeing is that guy. She is getting orbiters to branch. It will end badly…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 08:45 AM
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I agree this is awesome top tier advice
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 08:21 PM
3

Will drop it
/r/askTRP13/05/20 06:29 PM
1

I railed a 60 year old at like 21 fuck it bro no regrets
/r/askTRP12/05/20 04:34 PM
2

Thanks for this! When I first met her I thought it was weird as fuck but kind of just got used to it. Since dating others I thought about it and wondered so cheers for clearing it up!
/r/askTRP11/05/20 08:47 PM
1

Not her specifically just her behaviour. I’m over it no problem there
/r/askTRP11/05/20 06:30 PM
1

That is what she was like an emotional brat kid who would sulk at stupid shit. I just ask as it isn’t something which is considered normal but I kind of got used to it, didn’t know if there was some kind of explanation.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 05:59 PM
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Validation and attention, that or she is a narc who wants to lovebomb you!
/r/askTRP11/05/20 05:48 PM
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I am going through this right now. For me, some days I am fine and think fuck that bitch it’s her loss, and other times alone at night I can’t help but think of her fucking the new guy. What has helped for me: Realise that it truly is her loss. She lost you not the other way around. Ask yourself what did she actually do for you. I mean in my case it was sex and comfort. You can get these things from any girl. Keep busy, workout so that at night you have no time to do anything except sleep. Write…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:26 PM
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Just don’t care about it man it’s her loss
/r/askTRP10/05/20 04:28 PM
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Run
/r/askTRP09/05/20 11:22 AM
1

It makes you feel happy and confident
/r/askTRP09/05/20 09:17 AM
1

Stop being a whiny bitch and start actively changing your situation. Get yourself in fucking college. Get a fucking haircut. Lift, I don’t give a shit if you can’t gain muscle, get some fucking protein, creatine, do cardio and weights.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:23 AM
1

I’m all 3
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:33 PM
1

No single mums I made that mistake never again. They looking for a provider and when something better comes along you history
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:46 PM
1

This is golden OP. I got dumped 3 months ago hard. I have followed this and feel better everyday! I even got a few plates spinning, my SMV has increased, and my confidence is through the roof now.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:32 AM
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Tell him. Be straight with him. Tell him to man the fuck up. If he doesn’t and he gives it carry on giving it back.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:23 PM
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Have a phone call or two, but also don’t have them as you’re busy! Or ignore and say you fell asleep.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 10:19 AM
2

This is GOLD
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:03 AM
5

Call centre man. McDonald’s you’ll eat it and get fat, you get to eat a free meal on lunch breaks. Plus the fat they use makes your hair and skin smell. I’ve worked there so trust me on this.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:26 AM
1

Ye fuck that. I’m not doing them. I thought I could just do a cycle to test it out
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:18 PM
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Thanks man solid advice!
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:17 PM
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I’m 32, lifted for a good amount of years since 22; with breaks in between. I think I’m gonna try and peak naturally, without the roids.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:14 PM
1

Ye I’m not ok with it being a life long thing. I was wanting to take a course and see what happens. I think I’m gonna leave it.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:38 PM
1

Any side effects do you see yourself ever stopping? What happens when you do stop?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:18 PM
2

Ok man thanks!
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:35 PM
2

Even taking one course? Or does it now work like that?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:27 PM
2

Me too man. I’ve had 20+ dates from OLD one even turned LTR but failed miserably
/r/askTRP05/05/20 01:45 PM
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DING DING DING DING JACKPOT DING DING DING DING been there done that, got hurt. Took her two weeks to start the whole process again with another schmuck. Never again
/r/askTRP05/05/20 01:32 PM
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Pay your bills. Lift. Cardio. Eat healthy. Read. Keep it clean. Get yourself a nice TV. Get yourself a PS4/Xbox. Do that in that order. Priorities in that order. Also make the place your own. Redecorate!
/r/askTRP05/05/20 09:32 AM
1

AWALT Take this as a learning experience
/r/askTRP05/05/20 09:29 AM
-2

Never heard of olive oil. Can you elaborate
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:44 PM
1

Can pm if you want to talk bro.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:42 PM
4

70:30 seems like a good ratio. At the end of my last LTR before I found TRP, it ended with 0:100 lol
/r/askTRP04/05/20 06:54 PM
2

Haha do you remember my original post a month or two back?
/r/askTRP04/05/20 03:21 PM
3

It is just with two people. Sex with intimacy is another ball game no pun intended
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:46 AM
1

I made this mistake of allowing my ex to see my ex ex on Facebook. Never again, they are just seeing what your value is and whether they are above or below it based upon your previous partner!
/r/askTRP04/05/20 09:07 AM
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Bro you nailed it. My ex has a shit job, takes selfies all the fucking time, is spoilt by her parents, she was shit at head.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 08:46 AM
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The hardest thing to do as a man is when in an LTR is to not put her on a fucking pedestal! It’s the fastest way to lose her, lose respect in her eyes and for yourself, and the easiest way to start acting beta. Things that help me: Always realise that if you do it’s game over from then on. It’s nicer to you to be not nice to her when warranted (keep your frame) Always accept that you are replaceable, but so is SHE Have abundance! I learnt this the hard way. Work on you. Realise that if you idoli…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 08:40 AM
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0
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:36 PM
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Not necessarily, I mean it’s an easy way to pick up a new plate. Some plates take a long time to establish as that, it’s just a way to get numbers. It isn’t a indicator of how high value anyone is.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 12:24 PM
2

If you were my son I’d slap you and block her for you
/r/askTRP02/05/20 09:57 AM
2

I got laid a few weeks ago on full lockdown with a new plate. I guess at the time, it was just exposure to one person! That isn’t that grand in the scheme of things. All I did was get in my car drive to her flat, and that was it.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:48 PM
3

Just go ask her out already
/r/askTRP01/05/20 04:35 PM
2

Bro... how long you been single? Ever want that connection with a woman though and not just pussy?
/r/askTRP01/05/20 12:33 PM
3

This is true. I think it’s called PIP or something like that. Plus all the birds you meet might have something themselves, just wrap up and go for it!
/r/askTRP01/05/20 11:13 AM
2

No don’t say anything. You and your kids are between you and the mother, and assuming she is a good mother, she will tell the new guy rules. Introduce yourself, and say something along the lines of “you’ve got your hands full with this one.” Just literally don’t give a shit about it. I’ve been there, I’ve got two kids, and have been through this myself.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 09:21 AM
2

Act like you don’t care. It doesn’t bother you in the slightest. Shake his hand, smile introduce yourself to him. If you act bitter or jealous then you will lose frame.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 09:18 AM
4

Indifference
/r/askTRP01/05/20 09:16 AM
1

It’s not about trying to be alpha, it’s about having respect for yourself, not taking any shit, and not allowing drama into your life. Look at it like this, if you regard yourself as a high value person, you wouldn’t entertain people who would naturally lower your value. I agree, analysing what she says and how to handle it is not something that is black and white, be honest with yourself and then react. That being said, there are a lot of simple things that one can learn, put into practice, tha…
/r/askTRP01/05/20 09:03 AM
2

Through repeating actions, habit is formed, habit turns into the norm, the new norm is the new you. Saying you cannot change is the reason why a person will never change.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:56 AM
1

Seriously I love going down. If it’s hairy I tell them to go shave, simple as that.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:13 AM
1

That’s the funniest shit I heard all day.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:13 AM
32

Bro, HPV is common. I can understand HIV and wanting to be celebate but not HPV. Go find a woman who has that shit and go fuck
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:12 AM
1

Also: Lift faggot Read faggot More so: The advice given here is often very black and white, take it with a pinch of salt, trp is about you, not girls, that’s just a side product of improving yourself!
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:11 AM
2

The era is what we make it.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 05:58 PM
4

Hard next
/r/askTRP30/04/20 10:45 AM
2

Thank you for this.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 10:03 PM
2

Just not trying to win an ex back
/r/askTRP29/04/20 06:58 PM
2

Become gay
/r/askTRP29/04/20 03:06 PM
3

Hey dude I’ve been there. I was lovebombed hard, before I found out about trp. I fell for it hard. Morning messages, constant contact, late night phone calls for hours, selfies everyday, voicemails professing her love if I didn’t answer. Thing is, it never ends well. After a year, a switch flipped, and I was no longer of interest to her, and within the week of wanting a “break” she fucked another dude. Girls like this are insecure, needy, and most likely have mental issues as was the case with m…
/r/askTRP29/04/20 02:39 PM
3

I’m a software engineer! It’s a good thing
/r/askTRP28/04/20 07:11 PM
16

Hey man I’m 32, I’ve just had to move back into my mums flat after being dumped by my ex gf. A week before she ended things we were talking about kids and me moving in permanently with her. It sucks, I’ve just discovered red pill. It is what it is. Accept it
/r/askTRP28/04/20 11:07 AM
1

Hey man can we pm?
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:31 PM
5

Move out
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:02 PM
4

Man I feel you, funny thing is before I found out about trp, I used to actively give advice on those subs. Now I keep them around on how not to act
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:01 PM
2

I was supposed to reply one above, I was referring to alcohol increasing estrogen, and lowering test...
/r/askTRP26/04/20 05:06 PM
3

Is this true... I drink and no wonder I act like a bitch sometimes
/r/askTRP26/04/20 04:51 PM
2

Thanks man I appreciate it
/r/askTRP26/04/20 04:40 AM
2

Any where I can find out about this love bombing. I’m starting to realise I was love bombed hard, and I know she is doing it again with this new man. Not that I give a shit, just trying to understand it. Are they even aware they are doing it, it sucks because if you don’t know about this stuff, it fucking pulls you in and gets to you.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:18 AM
0

Ye I get that now. But with regard to her mental state does it imply anything? I’m starting to wonder if it is some kind of OCD as she was diagnosed with it.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 10:52 PM
1

This is it
/r/askTRP23/04/20 05:00 PM
2

I do agree just don’t make the grave mistake of wearing a chain over the top of your T-shirt! Nothing screams look at my expensive chain that I’m wearing to try and impress you! A nice watch, preferably metal, is a good accessory.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:12 AM
1

Any good books for that?
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:10 AM
2

Same for me
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:04 AM
1

This happened to me yesterday. 6 weeks post breakup, didn’t know what to do, acted like a weak bitch, but I’m here now.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:03 AM
3

I think a nice watch can sometimes be a good thing!
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:01 AM
2

I need to master this. Keep in frame 24/7 Something I failed badly at in my last relationship
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:59 AM
0

I am at least a 7 in looks. Getting dates is easy, I just fell for the fairytale, and acted like a fucking bitch. Glad it happened, otherwise I wouldn’t be here!
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:54 AM
1

Ye I guess you're right. Thing is, my looks didn't really change over the course of the year, and she was all over me up until that break. I don't fucking know... I don't care tbh anymore. I did put on some weight, got a little complacent, but overall I looked after myself. I do have a good career, I have a degree, athletic, I'm not balding or anything like that, so fuck knows. I don't find it hard to get woman, I've had a ONS already and another set up for Monday, it's just I fell hard for this…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:27 AM
1

Thanks man I sure do hope so
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:06 AM
2

That won’t be me. I’m here to stay bud
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:37 AM
1

This is a good point, I’m going to consider it
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:34 AM
1

Thanks dude. I’m 100% committed!
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:17 AM
2

That’s a very good idea. I’m going to try this!
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:15 AM
2

Thanks man I’m adding them now! Glad to be a part of this awesome place!
/r/askTRP22/04/20 10:56 PM
3

Thanks man. Seriously I want nothing to do with her. Reading all the replies on here has flipped a switch in my brain. I’m learning red pill, not to bang loads of chicks, but to become a better man, and the chicks are a side product of doing that!
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:48 PM
1

Well they sound weird. It does happen though it’s happened twice for me.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:47 PM
2

I think I lost it when she asked for a break, looking back now and what I know now, she was most likely sucking chads cock already. Fuck her, I can do better. She a single mum of two, with a shit job. My SMV is climbing, hers is declining. I’m bettering myself, she just gonna get pumped and dumped.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:23 PM
1

Two woman I’ve met have. Just saying it happens.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:04 PM
1

I was pathetic. No more.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:03 PM
2

Amen brother
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:02 PM
2

I plan to. I’ve realised now this is blessing not a curse.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:02 PM
2

I have no problem with confidence with new plates or people, I just have a lingering thought of what the fuck was I thinking. I couldn’t care what she thinks, I’m never speaking to her again. It’s just I, myself, knew I stooped to that level, guess I just take it as a learning experience and never repeat
/r/askTRP22/04/20 08:06 PM
1

Simple. Go to their house for a drink. Say you can only have one because you’re driving, have three of four and you can’t drive for shit. Play it well, they’ll be in the mood and so will you. Guaranteed f-close. Done this once, next house date Monday
/r/askTRP22/04/20 08:02 PM
4

I’m from UK where would I go about getting a blood test for testosterone levels? Also where you guys getting this stuff from... onions?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:51 PM
1

Haha maybe so, but I find it easy to get dates. I’ve got a good career, dress well, am athletic, have hobbies, starting a business, and I’m not ugly by any means. It’s just keeping them is where I fail
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:29 PM
2

I already had a ONS. Thing is I don’t want anything from her and have just ignored, and she blew up my phone for me to come around again. I never even knew this stuff, I think most don’t. I’m glad I found the sub.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:23 PM
2

This sub is gold! I’m on a better path now. Cheers for the advice
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:21 PM
1

I swear she was on about kids the week before all this happened. This is why it took me by surprise. I’m worth more than one woman who is clearly used goods, the advice on here has made me realise it. This is a turning point in my life
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:08 PM
3

Password changed. It’s not his fault it’s his mothers. She can explain why he can’t play fortnight.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:06 PM
2

Amen
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:06 PM
3

I’ve learnt my lesson. Break means I want to fuck other dudes. Can’t wait for karma to strike and ill be long gone, I already am after reading all these replies. Time to recognise my worth, I got this. I got great friends, great family, a good job, a business I’m starting, getting numbers, and going to get ripped!
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:05 PM
1

Ye man I got this. I swear this post has made me see the truth. I’m worth so much fucking more.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:03 PM
2

That’s a great mentality, but hopefully the love I have for her kids will fade if I actively see mine more and more. I have her kid on my psplus account and wondering whether to change the password?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 05:37 PM
1

Thanks man
/r/askTRP22/04/20 05:33 PM
5

Thanks man you speak wise words. Writing this post and receiving all this advice has been a turning point for me.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 05:27 PM
2

I’ve got a date Monday with some woman off of hinge. Single mum, but I know now it’s just another plate Drinks and a takeaway at hers, that’ll be two on rotation with this virus going on.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 05:25 PM
3

True that. I suspect most men act beta until something like this happens to you and you think wtf is going on and you search for answers. So glad I found this sub.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 05:20 PM
7

Amen to that. Thanks for your help dude, it’s all really helped me to see it for what it is. She isn’t worth the time. One question, through all the begging, pleading and trying again talk with her, which I regret so much, how do I get my dignity back, I can’t help look back and cringe at how pathetic I was.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 05:11 PM
2

Thanks for the breakdown. The hair question was her asking me how I liked her because the new man was coming round. In my eyes that’s just fucked up
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:59 PM
2

I didn’t care about the divorce, I wanted it as well. I didn’t want to get played, I just fell into her trap. It’s hard to have self respect before I was even aware of trp. Never again
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:52 PM
1

No who is this?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:24 PM
2

This has opened my eyes. How the fuck do I get my dignity back, just forget the messages and phonecalls and carry on. It was so fucking cringe I can’t believe I acted like that
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:23 PM
1

Oh it’s all true.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:12 PM
1

Ok I get it now. I definitely don’t like the fact she fucking someone else, it fucked me up badly. But ye I shouldn’t have prioritised her kids. Thanks
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:59 PM
0

I’m new to this what’s a cuck? What’s the difference between that and a beta?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:44 PM
2

My life story.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:40 PM
3

I’ve just got another date for next Monday, she invited me round her house for drinks and a takeaway. I’m in two minds whether to go or not. After the last one night thing I felt like shit!
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:34 PM
1

I like this train of thought. Thanks man
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:33 PM
1

Aren’t woman that age immature though for a 32 year old man? I mean at that age they can just flip, saying that she was 28 so I guess it don’t matter either way...
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:32 PM
3

I guess it’s all about building a life first without a woman in it. That way they only add to an already awesome life. When I met her I had all that, but slowly I gave it all up, so got to rebuild now.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:30 PM
3

I’m cycling, doing weights, got the protein and all that. Starting to meditate, and reading/watching everything on trp. I’ll get there. I’m starting to realise it’s her loss and not the other way around.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:22 PM
3

I understand exactly what you are saying. I’m all for self improvement. I’m on lockdown so I’ve got a lot of time to read, I plan to meditate for 30 mins twice daily. I bought a road bike, I’ve got weights, I’m still able to work from home, I’m just starting a business going live in less than 7 days. It really is her loss. I recognise where I went wrong, and acted beta as fuck during and after the relationship. This community is awesome, just this single post has really helped massively. I appre…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:21 PM
2

Hey man I really appreciate the advice. I think it was scenario 2, I’ve met the kids dad and he is a good father. I don’t know a man that would give that up to go and live with his mum. Some more points I’ve reflected on. She had OCD, I don’t know if that means anything, but at the start it literally like she was obsessed with me for a good six months. Likely she is obsessed with this new guy now. The new guy has no kids, as soon as she wants commitment he will dump, why would a man with no kids…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:18 PM
1

The father left her. He left a mortgage, and his two kids, and her, to move back in with his mom. Never found the reason as to why, but I always wondered why would a man do that when he had it all...
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:05 PM
2

Well baby mama was a scum bag, bad family, untidy, etc... This last one was the complete opposite. She didn’t really have a lot going for her, ye she was hot, sex was awesome, but she just had a shitty job. I earnt 3x more than her, she had no ambition.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:04 PM
7

I really hope so, I mean I have a good job, nice car, am working out, just need the mindset now
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:45 PM
1

Exactly and I’ll be in a better place to tell her to fuck off!
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:11 PM
2

If only I realised this before. I literally cringe at how I acted and some of the messages I sent. Lessons are learnt the hard way though I guess
/r/askTRP22/04/20 11:48 AM
2

What do you mean I have it in the oven? I am 100% not contacting her. To be honest I’ve done stretches of 5 days before but then I have a drink and end up texting. So for me no more drinking, which is also a plus!
/r/askTRP22/04/20 11:29 AM
3

Those 0s and 1s though
/r/askTRP22/04/20 10:56 AM
3

Those are some hard truths to hear. I won’t contact her again. Ever. She is used goods. Sure the feels are still there but the replies on this thread are making me see things in a different light. It is her loss, this guy who has no kids is going to pump and dump as soon as it’s serious, and if not he’s a simp for not doing so. Onwards and upwards for me.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 10:42 AM
1

Shit. Where can I find some stuff on why not to get with a single mother
/r/askTRP22/04/20 10:34 AM
1

So true
/r/askTRP22/04/20 10:17 AM
3

Number 6 is a great analogy! This is my turning point. My plans are this: Concentrate on my business and my day job Workout like fuck! Meditate Learn trp Read Date Time to man the fuck up
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:51 AM
2

100%. I’ve only had two relationships, the mother of my kids, and I didn’t give a shit when we split after 10 years, and this last one so I didn’t really have a clue how to handle this shit.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:43 AM
1

I’ll definitely take a look, with this quarantine I have all the time in the world to learn, better myself, and workout!
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:40 AM
5

Thanks man I really appreciate it! Writing this all out, reading the replies, I’ve had people inboxing me giving me advice, this community is awesome. I really am starting to view this as something great, a new beginning.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:38 AM
10

Damn, you married yours? In all probability, seems I dodged a bullet. Do you think the same goes for women dating men with kids, even if they only have them some of the time?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:30 AM
6

Never heard of Rollo, I’m definitely going to watch it. I don’t plan on using ssri’s, working out should solve that!
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:28 AM
35

That last paragraph is where I want to be. Just wish I’d discovered this stuff earlier but it’s never too late!
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:20 AM
8

Oh I don’t plan to. I’m going to learn this stuff down to a tee.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:19 AM
1

I’m going to really invest in this stuff! Don’t get me wrong I can get girls, that isn’t the issue, it’s once I have them I start fucking up
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:17 AM
3

Ye I’m working out, managed to buy myself some dumb bells.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 09:13 AM
2

Thanks man.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 08:40 AM
7

I’ve been told that before. I should take note. I’ve acted on impulse so much, thinking I had to do something, to try and save it. Should have just walked away
/r/askTRP22/04/20 08:36 AM
1

I don’t want to be a player by any means. Looking back I acted beta in the relationship, at first I was confident and all of that, towards the end I was a fucking simp. It’s not knowing what the future holds, and the rejection that hurts the most.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:55 AM
13

It’s weird yesterday I felt fine, today I’m worse than I ever have been, literally dreamt about her coming round apologising etc! I am in dating websites, but just not got the energy for it. Thanks for the help.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:54 AM
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