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| 18 | Studies show that fraternities are beneficial to men's mental health. So why do so many people hate fraternities?I'm a Freemason. There are plenty of non-greek fraternities around, but most/all of them have had severe drops in membership over the past 50 years. Masons, Oddfellows, Knights of Columbus, Eagles, Moose, Elk, Kiwanis, Pythians etc, all still exist, but the numbers are down. In the late 1920s, about 5% of the eligible American population was in the Masons. Now it's around 0.5%. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/24 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Freemasons, Rotary Club, etc.?[Mason here] Here's my standard 'elevator pitch', which I trot out when people ask what we're about (its rather North American oriented - Masonry varies from place to place): We're a centuries old fraternal order, who exist to improve our own characters ('we make good men better' is one of our slogans), and through that improve our communities. Along the way, we do a lot of charity (forex: Shriner's free hospitals for children), and have a lot of cool and private ceremonies using the constructio… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/21 01:00 PM |
| 2 | You’re in a new city looking for a group of like-minded guys. Other than work, where to look? Preferably twenty-somethings like myself but I’m not hugely particular on age.Sure, but the sources I've given should cover most questions. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 06:37 PM |
| 3 | You’re in a new city looking for a group of like-minded guys. Other than work, where to look? Preferably twenty-somethings like myself but I’m not hugely particular on age.The Masons, as an organization, are explicitly non-political. We're forbidden to discuss partisan politics in lodge. Individual Masons reflect the politics of their locale an demographic. You're talking generally older, established men, so in the US, individual politics tends conservative. OTOH, we do have a tradition hat we meet 'on the level', and value members without regard for their station or status outside the lodge. It's generally well-honored. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 04:13 AM |
| 3 | You’re in a new city looking for a group of like-minded guys. Other than work, where to look? Preferably twenty-somethings like myself but I’m not hugely particular on age.Im not 'redpilled' if I understand it correctly. You can PM me if you like. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 04:08 AM |
| 3 | You’re in a new city looking for a group of like-minded guys. Other than work, where to look? Preferably twenty-somethings like myself but I’m not hugely particular on age.You don't need a prior connection. You can just ask a Mason you know about joining. You can also literally knock on the door of a lodge when there's someone there, and express interest. However, it's sometimes easier to make contact through the local Grand Lodge; Google 'Grand Lodge of <state>'. My benefits have been ethical teaching, meeting a far wider variety of men than I would other wise, mentoring, and a stable quiet place in my life. Btw, the Masons are not misogynistic, or 'red pilled'. … | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 01:46 AM |
| 2 | You’re in a new city looking for a group of like-minded guys. Other than work, where to look? Preferably twenty-somethings like myself but I’m not hugely particular on age.Check my other response ITT. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 01:44 AM |
| 11 | You’re in a new city looking for a group of like-minded guys. Other than work, where to look? Preferably twenty-somethings like myself but I’m not hugely particular on age.[Mason here] Joining the Masons is a lot more involved than the other orgs discussed here. It takes several months at the minimum, and right now, COVID has slowed things down even more. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 07:03 PM |
| 0 | Serious question from a former feministLeave the Masons out of it. We are not misogynists. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/21 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Freemasons is a male only club. Should I join it ?If you know a Mason, talk to him about it. First though, I strongly suggest you learn a bit more; I gave a couple sources in my post. The process varies a bit from place to place, but if you don't know a Mason, it would involve contacting a lodge or Grand Lodge and inquiring about joining. Also, feel free to come over to /r/freemasonry and post questions. | /r/MGTOW | 31/10/19 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Freemasons is a male only club. Should I join it ?[Mason here] Your eligibility to join has nothing to do with your father; its all on you and your character. Thought male-only, the Masons are in no way misogynistic; most are married with families. I'll leave my standard infodump: [Mason here] Here's my standard 'elevator pitch', which I trot out when people ask what we're about (its rather North American oriented - Masonry varies from place to place): We're a centuries old fraternal order, who exist to improve our own characters ('we make good… | /r/MGTOW | 30/10/19 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Freemasons?No. That's the American Automobile Association. :-) | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 11:37 AM |
| 3 | Freemasons?Let me lay a little info dump on you (second try; my first got deleted) [Mason here] Here's my standard 'elevator pitch', which I trot out when people ask what we're about. Note that its written from a North American standpoint, Masonry varies quite a bit around the world: We're a centuries old fraternal order, who exist to improve our own characters ('we make good men better' is one of our slogans), and through that improve our communities. Along the way, we do a lot of charity (forex: Shriner'… | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 04:47 AM |
| 1 | On Secret Societies?I suggest you read on the sub to get a feel, and don't hesitate to ask questsions. The book and show I mentioned are also good sources. Most of the 'satanic' BS comes from the 'Taxil Hoax'. Look that up on Wikipedia - its an entertaining story. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | On Secret Societies?I was never in a Greek Letter Fraternity, nor did my university have them, so my knowledge of frat life is largely from Animal House and Revenge of the Nerds. No, they're not like that. :-) For a start, Masonic lodges aren't residential, and you aren't there every day. Here's my standard infodump: [Mason here] Here's my standard 'elevator pitch', which I trot out when people ask what we're about (its rather North American oriented - Masonry varies from place to place): We're a centuries old frat… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | On Secret Societies?[Mason here] Despite the fact that regular Masonry is restricted to men, we are in no way misogynistic. Most Masons are married. Nor are we occult. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 03:29 PM |
| 5 | Bored? Lonely? Consider Freemasonry[Another Mason here] Here's my standard 'elevator pitch', which I trot out when people ask what we're about: We're a centuries old fraternal order, who exist to improve our own characters ('we make good men better' is one of our slogans), and through that improve our communities. Along the way, we do a lot of charity (forex: Shriner's free hospitals for crippled children), and have a lot of cool and private ceremonies using the construction of King Solomon's Temple as an allegorical base for tea… | /r/MGTOW | 10/04/19 11:18 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW and Freemasonry: Similarities and Differences[Mason here] The vast majority of lodges in the English speaking world are men-only, and likely to stay that way for the foreseeable future. OTOH, most Masons are married, and Masonry has zero hostility towards women. | /r/MGTOW | 05/01/19 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Fraternal organizationsI assume you mean the Shriners. Sects? No. There are ‘appendent bodies’ which you can choose to join after becoming a Mason, but they are not mutually exclusive. The relationship to the core “symbolic lodge” is more like that of the Chess Club or Band to the sponsoring high school; extras you can take, but don’t have to. Popular ones include the York Rite, the Scottish Rite, and the Shriners. | /r/MGTOW | 13/10/18 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Fraternal organizations[Mason here] Here's my standard 'elevator pitch', which I trot out when people ask what we're about: We're a centuries old fraternal order, who exist to improve our own characters ('we make good men better' is one of our slogans), and through that improve our communities. Along the way, we do a lot of charity (forex: Shriner's free hospitals for crippled children), and have a lot of cool and private ceremonies using the construction of King Solomon's Temple as an allegorical base for teaching En… | /r/MGTOW | 13/10/18 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Fraternal organizationsThis varies very widely. Those numbers certainly exist, but are on the low end. My dues are around $180, and I probably put about $500/year into before charitable contributions. | /r/MGTOW | 13/10/18 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Fraternal organizationsIt doesn't meet most of the things which define a cult. You are not separated from your current life, job, family, associates, etc. You don't live there. You don't leave your religion - we encourage your to stay with it. You can leave the organization, easily. There is no charismatic leader. | /r/MGTOW | 13/10/18 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on freemasons?Nearly all lodges get their dues from members in a single annual payment. This is typically sometime in the fall. Dues vary widely, but are typically under $200/year. Masonry is slow. We've been going for at least 400 years, and most members join for life. There's time. When you feel more settled, look into it. We'll still be there. | /r/MGTOW | 08/03/18 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on freemasons?No way will any regular lodge have a tithe like that. I pay $185 a year, with another $80 for one of the appendent bodies I'm a member of. There are spurious, fake "Masonic" groups which prey on the ignorant, promising to make them Masons but actually just sucking them dry. | /r/MGTOW | 08/03/18 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on freemasons?[Another Mason] Generally speaking, we'd like you to have a fixed address, and be fairly settled, and some evidence you can support the (modest) dues 'without injury to yourself or family'. Some jurisdictions have minimum residency periods. Becoming a Mason is a protracted process. In the US the fastest it normally runs is several months, with all interaction being with the same lodge, at the same location. [BTW, this is considered dangerously hasty in some other countries :-)] Once you're a Mas… | /r/MGTOW | 08/03/18 04:30 PM |
| 3 | The secret ceremonies and rituals of female Freemasons: "Female Freemasons have been gathering for more than 100 years - conducting initiations, ceremonies and rituals like their male counterparts. Now, the BBC's Victoria Derbyshire programme has been given unique access to their secret societies."[Mason here] Well, no. There is no recognition of this female Grand Lodge by the ‘regular’ United Grand Lodge of England. It’s it’s own thing, and sovereign. While I don’t want to see regular Masonry admitting women, I have no problem with a group which seeks to “make good men (or women) better.” | /r/MensRights | 06/12/17 02:57 AM |
| 1 | How RP are the Freemasons?Well, OK. I was going by the definitions I picked up from the links in the sidebar, and accusations I'd received of being 'blue pill', since I'd suggested that the conspiratards who think Masons are a secret power group were wrong. In particular, I picked up a strong misogynistic vibe from TRP, which is not a part of Masonry. If you want to learn more drop by /r/freemasonry, our main hangout on reddit. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/17 05:20 AM |
| 1 | How RP are the Freemasons?[Mason here] IMHO, We're not RP at all. Most Masons are married men, and would have to look up the term (I did). There's nothing in our practice or philosophy that matches, beyond our very long standing tradition of being male-only. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/17 11:57 PM |
| 2 | MGTOW and freemasonry...as is my idiot detector. (You're wrong, btw). | /r/MGTOW | 30/03/17 02:49 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW and freemasonryAlso, come on over to /r/freemasonry. | /r/MGTOW | 30/03/17 02:23 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW and freemasonryCongratulations! I hope you too find it sticks with you. There are as many ways to enjoy Masonry as there are Masons. Myself, I'm my lodge's Ritualist, so I know the ceremonies inside and out, and train and coach others, as well as take part myself. That's my thing. Others are into the charitable work, or the esoteric side, the history. etc. I also enjoy the fact that I can find lodges and Brothers where ever I travel, and can arrive in a strange town and find friends everywhere. | /r/MGTOW | 30/03/17 02:07 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW and freemasonryIf I didn't, I'd demit. Some do, but many remain members for their entire lives after joining. | /r/MGTOW | 30/03/17 01:57 AM |
| 2 | MGTOW and freemasonryYes, for nearly 30 years. | /r/MGTOW | 30/03/17 12:47 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW and freemasonryIts tough, because different people get different things out of it. For a good introduction I recommend (in all seriousness) Christopher Hodapp's "Freemasons for Dummies": https://www.amazon.com/Freemasons-Dummies-Christopher-Hodapp/dp/1118412087 | /r/MGTOW | 29/03/17 02:44 AM |
| 2 | MGTOW and freemasonry[Mason here] The requirements vary slightly from jurisdiction to jurisdiction, but generally: Male Aged at least 18-21, depending on jurisdiction. Not an atheist or hard agnostic; we require a belief in a Higher Power of some kind, but are not particular as to which one(s). Of good moral character and reputation. Able to sustain the (fairly modest) dues without creating hardship for self or family. I'm not familiar with MGTOW, but be aware that there is nothing misogynistic in Masonry, aside fro… | /r/MGTOW | 28/03/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Any TRP freemasons in here?You might ask over on /r/freemasonry, the main Masonic hangout on Reddit. We're friendly, I promise :-) | /r/askTRP | 27/02/17 02:52 PM |
| 0 | Is Freemasonry beta?You might consider taking a look at /r/freemasonry, the main Masonic hangout on reddit. There's a lot of people there who can answer your questions. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/16 06:47 PM |
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