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Question For Womencrystal_wb/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:18 PM
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Discussioncrystal_wb/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:52 PM
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Austria, central Europe. Haha, the city VS countryside discussion is also one I would love to have but most people on reddit live in urban areas. How do you know American guys are loved outside of America?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:22 PM
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Yeah you see that's also a thing that doesn't seem to be as important where I live. I mean maybe I'm not in an age demographic where money is as important yet but even from my friends who are a tad older I don't get the impression they care about income THAT much. Financial pressure seems to be way higher in the US, universal healthcare is not a thing and the dating market is apparently generally way more competitive. But this is a whole other discussion. Edit: grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:13 PM
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Where I grew up it's actually pretty common. A lot of people even stay with their parents, well, til they're gone and then continue to live in that house. I really don't mind it. I mean it shows he's a family person in some way and I value that. Of course it always depends on the specific situation but a guy that goes along well with his family is nothing bad imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:56 PM
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For me the line varies depending on how much I trust my partner. When the relationship is new I don't trust my partner as much for example. But given the relationship has been going on for a while and I completely trust my partner I would say especially physically speaking I'm fine with a lot. Masturbating to the thought of someone else and getting a lap dance aren't cheating imo. Hell, even flirting and kissing others is fine if he tells me and it's clear that it was just for the sake of flirti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 05:04 PM
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The last edited paragraph killed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 05:54 AM
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I really don't plan on being single at these points in my life, but thanks anyway. Im having a pretty good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 05:53 AM
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You're missing my point. I'm not talking about casual sex, I'm talking about the availability of casual sex. I've never had casual sex so idk how satisfied it would make me. But the availability of it does make me satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 09:42 AM
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Well it gives me loads of self-confidence, so yes. Just the casual-sex thing alone doesn't make my life easier. It's the whole dynamic of the western dating market that makes it easier than men's. I don't think anybody is saying that the availability of casual sex makes up for everything we have to put up with. But it's an advantage that men, especially those who aren't interested in LTRs, just sex, envy us for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 07:28 PM
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Yes, basically. I mean probably not "happy", but satisfied. Maybe satisfied is also not the perfect word. I'm aware that I could go out and have a different guy fuck me every single day. That's not something I plan on doing, but knowing it's an option shapes my personal perception of the dating market a lot. Edit: grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 07:17 PM
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Then you're misunderstanding me. Casual sex itself probably doesn't make up for it. But the near constant availability of it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 07:11 PM
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This post is entirely based on personal anecdotes. Just because you feel being a woman is hard certainly doesn't mean everyone does. Yes, we experience physical side effects from our bodies doing what they do; being fertile. I for example am always glad when I get my period, I don't experience big PMS symptoms and can handle my hormone-based emotions like an adult. Some of the things we experience suck. But the same goes for guys. Random boners, having to compete with other guys in the dating ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 06:57 PM
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Haven't done it but I'd be open to it. MMF aswell as MFF. A guy being upfront about it? Depends. If it's literally the first thing he says after having sex for the first time I'd have doubts. If we got to know each other sexually first that'd be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:54 PM
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I thought purge week was over. Either way, good post. Made me chuckle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:39 PM
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I mean it depends, as always, but yes. If he paid for sex a couple of times just for fun or to try something I don't see a problem. It would be a problem if it was a kind of addiction and he went there frequently, spending loads of money on it. But generally speaking it's totally fine. Yeah I would like to know it. I prefer being as open with my partner as he wants me to be and I'd appreciate the same. Of course sexual history isn't something to talk about on the first date, but at some point I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 12:09 PM
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Women aren't advised to "just move onto another guy". Literally every relationships subreddit, every magazine, every motivational instagram account, everyone tells us that in order to be happy in a relationship you need to be happy by yourself first. This goes for men aswell. For a lot of women it just seems easier to flee into a relationship that can potentially make all their problems go away. It won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 12:02 PM
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While at the same time not talking to your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 03:32 PM
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Emotional cheating is worse than physical cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 03:10 PM
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If that's how YOU wanna do it, ok
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:49 PM
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I see a feminist in disguise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:21 PM
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I mean submissiveness is basically a good thing, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:05 PM
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170cm (like 5' 7''?) Yes, very. It ended because of distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:02 PM
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I can't fucking wait for it to be socially acceptable to dislike people simply because they fly all around the world each year for vacation. I'm passively working towards it on Instagram by not liking pictures that were taken some place that isn't local. I really hope it's gonna be soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:59 PM
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And hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:55 PM
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Depends on whether he told me. If he did I would probably find it hot. If he didn't I would sit him down and have a serious discussion about what's going in our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:57 AM
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Hitler jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:29 AM
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Men worse
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:23 AM
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A comparatively nice way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:05 PM
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I said "assuming a woman is perfectly fine on her own" An insecure woman who is only in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship is of course gonna be insecure inside that relationship. But that's not what I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:01 PM
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Pussy pass FTW
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:57 PM
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IDK, do they have a endoplasmic reticulum and a golgi apparatus? What about mitochondria? I can't just rate them based on their looks, I need to know what's inside them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:42 PM
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I feel personally attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:24 PM
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I prefer a bed next to a wall and then I'll sleep on my side facing the wall. It's best when the wall is on the right side of the bed so I can sleep on my left side.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:11 PM
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I'm quite sure it depends on the context. Being called cum dumpster in bed turns me on. Being called cum dumpster by female friends is kinda insulting. Being called cum dumpster by male friends is funny. Being called cum dumpster by a stranger is very insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:53 PM
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My ex always slept like a rock. Like you could be shaking him and he wouldn't wake up. In the beginning of our relationship I woke up multiple times during the night because he moved or because he hit me in his sleep. At some point my body realized that there's no danger in that dude laying next to me and proceeded to just not wake me up when that happens. I've gone from being a light sleeper to being a deep sleeper because of my partner. It's like with people who live next to an airport. At fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:47 PM
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What color are your penis and balls? Is your pubic hair very curly aswell? Edit: it's been 9 hours and I'm still waiting for a dick pic Edit: took him a whole day
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:35 AM
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No wings. Tramp stamps are sooooo out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:32 AM
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Technically yes. Animal husbandry has been doing that for a few thousand years now with significant increase in the last hundred.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:31 AM
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4, no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:13 AM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:08 AM
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The chernobyl podcast
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:08 AM
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Pffff, the real alphas don't live in flats. They live on farms and out in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:08 AM
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I put all my effort into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:39 AM
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It is in my heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:34 AM
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21 is like this magical number over in the US because what? That's when you're allowed to drink alcohol?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:33 AM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:32 AM
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4 None Mooh (I prefer Muh) but it sound very differently depending on what it's trying to say It's never gone? Trick question? LOL Soviets
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:36 PM
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I'm confused. Do femoids nowadays only fuck Chad or do they fuck everyone but incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:24 PM
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Thanks for giving me ideas on how to waste my time. You must've put a lot of effort into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:22 PM
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I'm single and I'd say I'm doing pretty fine on my own. That doesn't change the fact that a relationship is my goal. But I honestly doubt it's because I'm too immature to live on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:19 PM
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Being able to laugh about himself/not taking himself too seriously and humor. The darker the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:05 PM
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I think suicide can't be pinpointed to ONE reason. Lots of factors play a part in it and depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:03 PM
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No. No. No. Women are exhausting to be around. A dick can't make up for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:10 PM
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Are they using only tinder or other apps simultaneously?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:06 PM
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And you're saying they mainly use apps like tinder to achieve that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:05 PM
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I always thought dating apps (especially tinder) are mainly for hookups, no? Unless you pay money and get an ACTUAL dating service these apps are usually very shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:01 PM
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Would you mind sharing how they did then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:49 AM
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I completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:04 AM
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What's with the necklaces
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:01 AM
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Who now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:55 AM
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1999, no and I don't think these things exist anywhere in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:54 AM
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Pro-choice. If the child would grow up under shitty circumstances it might be better to not have the child. It's not fair. Also there's already too many people on earth for humanity as a whole to survive a couple of centuries more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:42 AM
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Or an ex husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:12 AM
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I'd be totally enthusiastic, but I don't know if I'd be physically able to handle it. Maybe by slowly increasing the percentage it'd work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:06 AM
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Can't visit the page since I'm in the EU. Could someone sum it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:59 AM
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Ewwwww no
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:57 AM
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Where the hell are YOU getting this from? Anybody who says women have it harder than men in modern western society is being unrealistic and/or completely bluepilled. He's delusional. Take him to the infirmary.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:12 PM
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That's spicy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:05 PM
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I've also seen a lot of sarcasm, to a point where I trust nothing I read this week. This post for example could be sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:04 PM
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So no garlic and onions on a date with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:01 PM
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iM a VeRy SpEciAL snOwFLaKe :)))))
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:46 PM
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Oh so they took the whole month and decided that on six days (20% of 30 days) each month women are fertile and put that as the maximum number. Kinda makes sense. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:44 PM
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Possible, but I really wouldn't consider my standards for looks high. And I know that of course every woman says that. But when I told a few female friends about my last two crushes their reactions were of the sort "eww, really? THAT guy?". It's really mainly the conversations that make me fall for a guy in the first place. But this wasn't the point of this post. If you wanna discuss blackpill/lookism create your own post.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:38 PM
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Pretty sure I do it with everyone I have a conversation with. Of course a lot of guys don't make it past that initial conversation without being ruled out, but there's still a lot of guys who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:25 PM
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Not necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:22 PM
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In Austria sex is legal from the age of 13 if the other person is no more than three years older. When you're 14 there are no age restrictions anymore. It's frowned upon though to be in a relationship with a 14 year old when you're older than 20. It happens, but people talk a lot, no matter which gender is which age. I wouldn't do it. Mainly because those are PUBESCENT boys whose funniest joke probably has something to do with farts. That's just not attractive to me. Society doesn't tell me I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:21 PM
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20, Caucasian, central Europe, currently a student so apart from my summer job im living off my scholarship
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:14 PM
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They're also good in bed because they put so much effort into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:09 PM
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And after sorting the uggos out?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:25 PM
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From Wikipedia: Within the walled "System", hundreds of individuals are paired by "Coach", a circular tablet each carry, to have various encounters for a fixed amount of time varying from minutes to years. The System collects data from these encounters to match the user with their "ultimate compatible other" on the user's "pairing day", which it claims has a 99.8% success rate. Frank (Joe Cole) and Amy (Georgina Campbell), members of the System, are assigned a 12-hour encounter. They are taken t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:20 PM
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Go watch the Black Mirror episode 'Hang the DJ'
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:10 PM
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Make something up that he did wrong and then be angry at him because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:07 PM
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Tough one, I'm not entirely sure. That's why you should do these things randomly. Maybe don't try to pursue sex after only a day of doing them. Do it continuously. Every day until it becomes habit maybe. Don't do anything that feels unnatural or ridiculous to you. Do subtle things maybe. Holding hands, cuddling in bed, things that show her you appreciate her. They don't even necessarily have to be sexual things. But I'm really no expert, I'm solely speaking from my personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:41 PM
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Idk, any guy that's similar to my dad seems like a good mate for reproducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:45 PM
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I mean first of all you might be better asking at r/deadbedrooms I was in a relationship where my libido was basically non-existent for a while and there were two things that definitely played a part in it. The first being hormonal birth control. If she's on hormonal birth control get rid of it. Switch to a copper IUD or something else and give her a couple months of time for adjustment. Once she's ovulating again her libido should peak around her ovulation. After three years of birth control it…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:37 PM
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Yeah I saw that but why is 20% the maximum chance of conceiving?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:21 PM
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Not at all. I don't want to have control over my partner. I'd like the dynamic to be pretty evened out, tendency towards him having more power than me. I don't like to be in charge concerning my relationships. Sure, it's nice when he asks my opinion of something and it's even nicer when he listens to me, but generally I prefer my partner to make decisions. Speaking of minor things of course. Things like picking out a flat to live in should be decided on mutual agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:02 PM
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You're really enjoying purge week, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:56 PM
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People are saying that guys who don't get dates need to work on themselves. Even if they're already educated, groomed, well dressed and successful that doesn't mean there's no room for improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:50 PM
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"Content is prohibited if it is sexual or suggestive content involving minors"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:47 PM
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I think this post breaks the reddit wide rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:45 PM
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I'm taking a class on collective action this semester at uni and for that I had to read a paper which is apparently very popular in that field and it basically said on thing to do in order to save the world is kill/not safe people that have lower intelligence, birth defects, cancer, are physically weaker, etc I mean im in Central Europe and generally im all for making life as comfortable as possible for everyone. But that paper. It made a lot of sense to me. Anyways I'm a woman so my biological …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:42 PM
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Actually, it's almost bedtime so sorry but I'll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:37 PM
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Why does fertility peak with only 20%? Like, how is this calculated? The chance of getting pregnant when you have sex every day? What's the source?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:34 PM
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For that, for being still able to hope we can save the world and to safe my parents the trouble of having another kid in their mid fourties.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:47 PM
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I should've been born 10 to 15 years earlier, so sometime between 1984 and 1989. I wouldn't want to have been born anywhere else though, home is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:15 PM
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Ego gets even more stroked when they post it online (even if it's anonymous) and receive hundreds of messages from cucks who think they could fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:12 PM
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Yes. But not as in "he must have at least a bachelor's degree". The thing I watch out for most is humor, which I believe is at least somehow related to intelligence. If he enjoys the same dark and witty humor as me his chances increase a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 10:10 PM
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Definite no. Some of my struggles come with perks and other struggles aren't as bad to me as to other women apparently. I don't really feel like I have anything that's a REAL struggle in my life. I know my struggles, I'm fine with them. So I wouldn't suddenly swap them for a whole bunch of other struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:38 AM
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Please elaborate, because I'm really curious as to why we have it harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:32 AM
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Physically speaking im a little too chubby, I don't have the prettiest face and having shaved off my hair in the beginning of the year I'm experiencing a lot of guys being weirded out by my short hair. Personality wise my biggest problem is that I take a long time to warm up to people. I also have too high standards, considering specific traits. I often over-analyze people and rule them out for a relationship pretty soon after meeting them, even if theyd actually be a good catch. But overall I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 08:56 PM
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Country (or just continent) they live in, whether they live in rural or urban areas
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 07:28 PM
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I know I am late to the party but as a gen Z myself I wanna add my two cents. First off I want to mention that I grew up in a rather rural area and moved into my countries capital a year ago for university. I believe that's not as unimportant as some might think, because I've see massive differences in the way people communicate at home and in the city. Are social groups more limited? Nyes. I feel like basically all women I know have a few very good friends with whom they stay deeply connected f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 07:53 PM
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Ncount: 3 Whether them wanting to wait affects my will to pursue the relationship depends on how long they want to wait. I think I would wait 2 months. At the very maximum. I'm personally usually comfortable enough to have sex by week three, so they've got a span of 1,5 months. Sex is in my eyes a very important part of a relationship. Sure, you have a sort of trial period in the beginning of every relationship, but you don't know you're actually compatible unless you give the full version a try…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 07:09 PM
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Especially in the red pill/blue pill area there are a lot of people though who are very much convinced that some traits apply to everyone. I mean don't get me wrong, the majority of people knows of course that most generalizations can't be taken for granted, but there's a reason "AWALT" exists. And "EWALT" is often forgotten about. I agree though that usually it's clear that the person speaking doesn't mean 100% of the population and that it's ridiculous to call them out on it. And I personally …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:32 PM
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Society
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 09:42 PM
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You must have missed the sentence I wrote right after that. Not all women acknowledge it. That includes acknowledging it to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 09:36 PM
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Doesn't the red pill acknowledge exactly that? Blue pill deems that men and women are equal and that certain social norms should be cut out of the dating scene. But anybody who isn't completely fed up with themselves has to acknowledge that men and women can never be entirely equal, for various reasons. Each gender has their perks, each gender has their downsides. But especially considering dating/sex I completely agree that women have it easier. But I like to think that we don't get privileges …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 09:09 PM
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Nevertheless, I think you handled the discussion exactly right and with enough humor to not make yourself sound dramatically serious. That's all I wanted to say, kudos to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:54 PM
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You make good arguments, other party make not good arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:16 PM
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I very much enjoyed the conversation I have just been able to witness because of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:13 PM
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6 would be my minimum for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:16 AM
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He's definitely not below average. Of course perceptions are different, but by western standards he is definitely not below average. If anything, he's above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 09:14 PM
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I don't know if this whole thought experiment makes a lot of sense since I'm only 20, but here goes anyway. I'm not sure if I would want to use it on myself, I'm feeling pretty good right now and can't imagine if there's ever gonna be a time where I'll be fed up with my appearance. Maybe once that point is reached, assuming at around 35, I'd make myself younger, but not more than 5 years maybe. From a logical point of view suddenly looking 10 or 15 years younger would, imo, come with more proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 07:04 PM
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I always thought that this was "common sense" and that the comments would be swamped with both men and women saying that of course women tend to be more submissive in bed. Just have a look at 50 shades of Grey. It definitely wasn't such a huge success because it was written so well. Personally, I think it's true. But there are definitely different extents of wanting to be dominated. For some a slap on the butt might do it and others might only get off with bondage and being strangulated. And of …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 08:46 PM
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I don't tell my mom anything but "I've got a boyfriend. His name is ____." And she doesn't tell me anything. Like literally nothing, no reaction apart from "That's nice." But there's quite a big age difference between us. I doubt that most relationships with mothers are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 05:59 PM
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If a guy told me he was "only horny for me" I'd straight up think he's lying. Sure, a guy telling me that he is extremely attracted to me is very flattering, but him telling me he's only attracted to me is unrealistic. A woman would have to be like a 10/10 in a room full of 5/10s to maybe make that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:55 PM
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My male friends don't slide into my DMs very often either. Most of my friends are male and idk if I adapted to them or if it's my social circle in general, but I only text with people when there's something to text about. Are there really people out there who text for the sake of texting? Talking to each other is a much better way to communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:26 PM
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It's quite "hot".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 06:10 AM
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That's interesting. How old are they? I've never had a problem with delivering calves or piglets, but what I can't handle is dehorning.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:36 PM
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Not the manure itself, but a guy who doesn't freak out when he touches pee pee and poo poo is attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:02 PM
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Anything that is a 9-5 (office) job sounds "boring" to me. Anything that involves at least some physical activity is "hot" to me, a farmer being the "hottest".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 10:56 AM
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I actually think it IS nice to give a person a reason, whether it's made up or not, instead of letting them break their head over the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 05:40 PM
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A sex doll doesn't sound unattractive to me. It's not very different from a fleshlight or just a collection of porn. I don't expect to get shamed for the dildos I own, so I don't judge people in any way for owning a sex doll. Of course if he didn't use it solely for masturbation but treated it as a substitute for a girlfriend that would be weird. But that's not the hypothesis here. Its the same with anime. As long as he doesn't overdo it and as long as it doesn't consume more of his freetime tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 11:22 AM
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I'd be okay with option 2 and 3 if I very entirely submissive to him. But I think it's more likely that I'll agree to a full open relationship. 1 and 4 are definite no-nos.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 11:15 AM
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Well duh, not immediately sleeping with someone shows you're not just with them for sex. But I don't think it's bunk that you need to see how compatible you are with your partner before entirely committing to them. Sex is a big part of a relationship, ultimately the part that makes it a romantic relationship. I can respect waiting for a guy for a certain amount of time and I also won't fuck a guy on the second date, but what's wrong with doing it as soon as you both feel ready? Intimacy is so so…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 05:59 PM
1

What are the risks?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 03:39 PM
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20F, central Europe here A lot of tips and tricks and rules that are talked about are just completely ridiculous. While I'm sure there are certain social dynamics in which especially TRP works totally fine, it just wouldn't work where I live. Dating isn't a "game" over here. There aren't as many rules and social norms like there seem to be in the US and I feel like it's just way more laid back here. I look at every post I read in any pill discussion forum with a grain of salt. It's impossible to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 03:36 PM
1

I'd say a virgin, whether male or female, is even less likely to have anal just like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 06:04 AM
1

Yeah summed up that's it. Higher income is a bonus, but not something I'm specifically looking for or a reason that's gonna make me choose one guy over another.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 02:51 PM
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Sure, generally speaking a man who has a higher income could be considered more attractive. But solely his money isn't gonna make me fall in love with him. I grew up in a family that wasn't poor, but we never threw around the money we had. So to me it doesn't matter as much how much money he makes, what's more important is how he uses it. You're speaking about a guy that travels a lot, has a lot of vacations, throws parties and lives in luxury. That's not something I would put up with. Not gonna…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 02:32 PM
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I only have my personal experience but going from that I'd say women. Women want to feel special, not only by other peoples standards but also by their own. While I've never heard a woman actually speak out loud the examples you gave, I'm pretty sure that a lot of women are at least thinking that way. It's a way to cope, to keep their self esteem up. It's easier to put herself above others than accepting that she's not as special. Just have a look at r/notlikeothergirls I see myself doing it too…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:26 PM
1

I thought this was a post in r/sex or r/relationships or r/askwomen when I read the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:50 PM
2

Not at all. While I can definitely follow thought processes of other women and understand how and why they're feeling a certain way, I hardly ever relate to them. The way men express their feelings is way more relatable to me and matches my own way of expressing feelings way closer. I'm not trying to fight it. Women are more exhausting to empathise with than men. I'm fine with the way it is. The gender neutrality doesn't matter, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 09:25 PM
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Am a woman, so I can only speak my personal opinion. I don't know if men have the same reasons. 1 Social media. Nowadays women, at least from my generation, glorify traveling. I'll look up the instagram profile of a friend I went to school with and see nothing but pictures of her in places far away. She's showing off that she can afford traveling. She's creating a character that is not herself, a "better" version to make people jealous. But unless you're really insecure you'll know that each and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 11:42 PM
1

Seems like I was just a couple of minutes too late, since the post is deleted now. Anybody care to tell me what it said?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:02 PM
1

That's just not true. Grammatically speaking this post is well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 11:04 PM
1

I believe a lot of women don't do them intentionally. With my first boyfriend I would do them too, but I didn't actively think about it as a test. Only in hindsight I realized that wanting him to read my goddamn mind is completely fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 08:05 AM
1

If that's the new bar for being a real man virtually no city boy is a real man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 08:02 AM
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Meh. I have a couple of female friends who will drool over a jacked body. I mean, they are pretty shallow people to begin with, but it doesn't change the fact that they go out to bars checking out guys in tight tank tops who have a muscular body. But I do agree that for a lot of women, at least I hope so, body isn't everything. One of said female friends once showed me pictures of her jacked new boyfriend and was expecting me to drool just like her. When I didn't she couldn't fit in her head tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 07:57 AM
2

Is your wife aware of how you feel? Does she feel the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:36 PM
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If by the west you're referring to the US I'm standing even stronger behind my comment. Keyword health insurance. Well idk, the concept of AFBB has always seemed over the top to me. Where I live it's definitely not a thing. Considering most redditors are from the US, apparently it is real over there at least somehow. Whether it's necessary or not doesn't influence whether it happens or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:34 PM
1

Wait, so are you still (happily) married or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:28 PM
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Not every woman in every country in the world has all the opportunities and options you mentioned. With all due respect, it's easy to fall into financial trouble even for people who do have all of the things you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:26 PM
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I guess 1, maybe 2. I'm not really sure about the descriptions. I'd like to say though that in entirely heteroromantic. While women physically attract me very much, I don't think it would ever get more than physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 05:25 PM
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I don't know if I'm allowed to do this here but I personally, for myself, agree with you, mainly. To clear up, I'm straight, but I don't check out men's bodies the same way I check out another woman's body. I can't take my eyes off another woman's but, but a man's butt doesn't do that for me. Since you mentioned it in your post, especially a guy who is super jacked doesn't physically attract me at all. They repulse me, actually. I think for me it's rather about clothing and posture. Yes, you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 06:13 AM
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What's the scenario here? She's already talking to the 8 guy and the 10 only walks past? In that case it probably won't matter that he walks by. Is she talking to neither yet or both of them? Then I think it might make a difference, but I doubt it's a huge one. I think both guys are "hot enough", like you said in your post, that their individual attractiveness doesn't make a (big) difference. My guess is that it's about personality at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 09:39 PM
2

Then if we're financially and mentally prepared, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 08:32 PM
2

That completely depends on whether my partner wants it. If we knew he'd die in a year I'd also discuss freezing some of his sperm with him. I've always been open about wanting children. But it's not MY decision to make whether we actually want them right now. This question can't be answered just like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 08:24 PM
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Last time I checked there was blood dripping out of my vagina, so I'm pretty sure, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 08:10 PM
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I guess deeper conversations between women aren't that different from deeper conversations I have with my male friends. So for example talking about gender roles and how we feel about them, talking about philosophical and moral conflicts and discuss why we look at them the way we do, talking about the relationships we are in objectively and evaluate the problems and their possible solutions, talking about the suicide of a mutual friend and how it affects us. I think if I tried to do that, I woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 08:00 PM
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What's emotional about talking about the physical aspects of sex, appearance of a random guy on the street and birth control? Sure these aren't topics you would talk about with anybody, but they're not emotional nor contain a deeper meaning. That's not what an emotional bond is about. These aren't emotional topics. I personally wouldn't know what deeper topics women talk about with each other. I have no female friend whom I'm on that level with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:35 PM
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Sure, all people, no matter their gender, shouldn't be ashamed to have relationships in which they can open up. I've personally never had one of them with another woman, so I can't really comment on that, but I guess why not? Good about it would of course be that you form a deeper, more intimate relationship with the person you're opening up to. I definitely don't think that every relationship you have should be that way. Bad about it could be vulnerability. Thanks to society having and showing …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:28 PM
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The example you're giving is not what OP is referring to by "emotional bond".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:23 PM
3

I, you may not believe it, did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:13 PM
5

A friend of mine introduced me to a couple of guys she knew when we were on a festival. One of them was clearly the "leader" and introduced me to them all. Not gonna lie, he was good at flirting and not ugly either. I chatted with them all for a few hours and when we talked about meeting up the next day one of the guys said he couldn't come because he would be watching his two little brothers. I don't know exactly what happened in my brain, but there I was with one guy who clearly wanted to purs…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:01 AM
1

I wouldn't say I have an obsession. I don't spend my free time watching crime shows or listening to crime podcasts actively. If they pop up and sound interesting I won't mind, but I really don't spend my time actively doing so. I'd rather watch/listen to something that gives me at least SOMETHING I can use. The only thing I find fascinating about them is how the human mind works and what must've happened to the criminal to make him commit his crime. But just like with a porn addiction, too much …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 07:19 PM
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By all means, even though everybody has heard of the dating scene in America, it's not influencing dating in other cultures like you're painting it. I don't doubt that some people take dating rules from the US for granted, but it definitely isn't the gold standard everywhere in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:57 AM
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Austria here. Here you get evaluated when you're about 16 and depending on the overall score you get you either serve in the Federal armed forces for six months, help in civilian services for 9 months or when your score is bad enough, you're free to do nothing. It doesn't help or change anybody who goes through it. My friends who went through it all handled it by distancing themselves mentally and joking about it. Nobody takes it serious, none of my friends life was impacted in any way, none of …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:47 AM
2

No boundaries whatsoever. When I have a partner I trust them. I want to have a relationship in which we can openly talk about our friends, how they behave and whether one of them might be catching some feelings. If he really wanted to cheat he'd find better ways than openly telling me he's spending time with a friend. It's a FRIEND, after all. Besides, the majority of my friends are male. It would be unfair of me to demand from him to stop seeing his female friends, because if he demanded the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 09:34 PM
1

It always depends on the context and I'm sure some people say "it's just a fantasy" because they won't admit to themselves that they have a kink. But for me personally a fantasy isn't a problem as long as people don't act on it. Concerning the specific examples you made I'll add my opinion. Example of gay porn watching roommate: depends on the context. Does he only watch gay porn? If that's the case I might assume he's gay, but maybe doesn't even realize it himself. Does he watch normal porn too…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 06:25 PM
2

I'm a bit late to the party but I'm gonna put in my two cents anyways. I don't have specific expectations concerning looks. The only things I can think about are that he shouldn't be stick-thin, obese or completely jacked up. He would be a normal guy, maybe have a small beer belly. He shouldn't be a party animal, but also not a couch potato. Something inbetween, someone with a social life but who also can enjoy evenings at home. Traits I value a lot in men are being down-to-earth, enjoying (dark…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:13 PM
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I really doubt that transhumanism (which I just had to google because I've never heard of it before) is going to be implemented into our society within the next 50 years. Current living generations still grew up mainly with rather traditional gender roles, they're not just gonna change their view of society. Maybe our kids or grandkids, but within 50 years? Certainly not. So even if kids 50 years from now will grow up with a completely separated mind and body (if I understood it right that's wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:51 PM
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Women aren't a different species. They're humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 09:58 PM
1

I can't completely agree with that. I don't doubt that growing up in a dysfunctional family puts wrong images in your head and you might not even see what's toxic about a specific behavior when you see it. But growing up in a dysfunctional family doesn't necessarily mean that you are 100% going to turn out the same. You can acknowledge the flaws and toxic behaviors and work to not make the same mistakes. I grew up in a (sort of?) dysfunctional family. My parents are a typical case of staying tog…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 09:07 AM
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Central Europe here. I personally don't hate anybody from the US that I meet just because. I mean I haven't met that many people from the US, but those I have met were pretty chill people. The vibe I get from my social circle/country is not that we hate Americans. It's the country itself that is disliked here. (Even though I'd like to add that I've never met anybody who spent his freetime actively hating on the US.) I'll try to describe what your reputation is around here, but I'd like to point …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 02:21 PM
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So it basically comes down to Kants Imperative. Imo this is a tad too philosophical to discuss seriously, besides I agree, I'm quite sure it did never reach the majority of men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 07:36 AM
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The one guy that comes to mind was one of my housemates in secondary school. He was about 180cm, a bit chubby (even though he went to the gym casually), had nerd glasses and was basically average looking. He lived together with 7 other guys from my class and me, but was in a different department of school. His class consisted of 32 girls and 4 guys. Idk, I guess that also helped him. Because he just KNEW how girls wanted to be treated. He was best friends with all the pretty girls from his class…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 12:01 PM
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I think that's exactly the point. Other countries don't view dating and relationships as a game in the first place. There's no need to be effective at something that was seemingly created superficially. I'll ping pong the question back: why make it harder for everybody by creating rules that don't need to exist in the first place when you can just be real?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:18 PM
3

And that might be because, at least from what I can tell through media, feminism is aswell completely different in the US than in Europe for example. And by different I mean ridiculously over the top and shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:12 PM
1

F20 Visually I don't have specific preferences, I'll basically watch porn with anybody in it. Probably the only thing is that I prefer people who aren't stick-thin or obese, both in male and female actors. For women, I've always been a butt person, so, same as OP, a good butt would be better than good boobs to me. For males, I don't want them to be jacked up, never been attracted to it. Slight dad bod turns me on way more. Just for reference, that's basically also what I like to see in real life…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 12:04 PM
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I believe it would depend on what "kind of cheating" it would be. I've never been the jealous type, I don't really care if my man looks at other women, watches porn, maybe even slaps someone on the butt etc. Just as long as it's solely physical. Personally, I think I could forgive a fling, a one-time-drunk-sex thing with a random woman. As long as he has the right mindset. Of course if he doesn't seem the least bit sorry that condition wouldn't be met. If it was emotional cheating though, I'm no…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/19 03:46 PM
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I think that's exactly my personal "problem" with mgtow. The way they generalize all women. I'm totally okay with the theory of mgtow, just like I'm totally okay with the theory of feminism. But generalization, I hate that. Just because a guy had a bad experience, or even multiple bad experiences, that doesn't mean he can push that picture of women onto all women he meets. Yes, it's okay to not care about women, but it's definitely not okay to treat all of them like shit and objectivy them. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 03:31 PM
2

The post that was shared was about a poly relationship between a woman, her husband and another woman. Would you treat a relationship between two women and a man differently than a relationship between two men and a woman? Double standard or no? Besides, polygamy doesn't equal open relationship. Usually all parties would be invested equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 01:19 PM
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I guess your best option would be therapy. I wasn't able to do therapy because my parents didn't approve of it, but I'm sure with it I would've gotten rid of my ED faster. Idk, I can't exactly tell you what happened. I got out of a toxic relationship and at some point I just accepted myself for who I was. I got rid of the negativity, stopped worrying about things and instead focused on positive things. For me personally I guess it was about loving myself, no matter how many pounds I'm above my g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 07:25 PM
1

I would say a V-shaped torso can definitely be seen as a good thing. But I doubt that most women would dump a guy simply because he doesn't have one. It's a nice feature, but nothing thats too important. I don't think there's anything that you can compare directly to the hip-waist ratio. A nice chest maybe? Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 06:39 PM
3

As someone who fought an eating disorder in the past I have to utterly disagree with you. Losing weight, having a healthy diet and maintaining weight is not as hard as you claim it to be. I agree that it's not as easy as "just don't be fat", but it's certainly not so hard that you have to plan your whole life around it. If all you can think of while eating out is "how long do I have to starve now because of this" your mindset is fucked up, you might even have an eating disorder yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 06:30 PM
2

You do realize there are people who don't push their religion on others though, right?
/r/askTRP17/06/19 03:24 PM
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I've naturally got a lot of hair. I only wash and condition once a week and inbetween I only wash it with water. I always use a leave in aswell. I don't blow dry and hardly ever use heat in form of curling irons or flat irons. My go to "hairstyle" probably isn't even considered a hairstyle. When my hair is only slightly damp (either after washing it or I apply some water on it) I put it into a tight bun, or multiple buns. Sometimes I play around a little with the direction and number of the buns…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/19 10:30 PM
2

Austria, Vienna. As I said in my comment, maybe it's just my social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 04:36 AM
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I live in Central Europe. I grew up in a rural area and always assumed the dating and hookup culture you hear from on the internet or see in movies has to only be like that in cities. Back at home people ONLY meet through friends or when visiting local festivals or clubs. I've lived in our capital a couple of months now and haven't come across one singles-bar. In fact, I didn't realize that they even existed until I read your post. Like, are they called singles bars? It's not just a normal bar t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 08:36 PM
1

Then yes, I would prefer my partner to not be abusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 07:29 PM
1

What do you mean by exploiting?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 06:49 PM
1

I would say I'm a normal person on that spectrum, neither completely submissive nor completely dominant. Just a bit of both. In a relationship I guess I'm probably the same, but a teeny tiny bit more submissive. In bed I'm definitely submissive. Not full BDSM mode, but the majority of the time. I do believe a lot of women would prefer a guy who's dominant. But I also think that this doesn't apply to the entirety of womanhood. I personally don't want a guy whose attitude already screams that he's…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 04:33 PM
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Definitely. Basically all my friends are guys. I guess the key is to make sure nobody develops sexual attraction or feelings. If that happens in my friend group I try to kill it off as quickly as possible. Never had a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 04:25 PM
4

With other people, mostly guys, who share the same type of humor.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 11:44 AM
2

I don't want a partner who is as introverted as me, I want him to be extroverted. I don't want a partner who is in a better shape than me. I want him to be confident, especially in his decisions, whereas I prefer to leave desicions to others. This also goes with him taking responsibility. I don't think I could be happy with a guy with a nine-to-five office job, but I would be fine with having one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 08:41 AM
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My friends at home who also work close to where they grew up usually find new partners simply through friends, or at local festivals. I'd like to say that maybe that doesn't necessarily have to do with them not being at university, maybe it's because it's rather in the countryside. From where I'm from, people also don't "date", or at least nobody calls it that. Sure, people go out with each other, get to know each other, flirt, make out and then eventually become a couple. But people don't go to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 05:51 PM
1

That would be an example of something that couldn't be fixed, right. But in my comment I'm rather referring to my partner starting to bond with someone else when they did not feel like they needed to beforehand, and at the same time communicating less with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 04:09 PM
1

I wouldn't generalize it like that. There are so many variables in a relationship, that I wouldn't say communication isn't working because we're not suitable. A lack of communication can happen because of many other things, some of which can definitely be fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 04:04 PM
4

Yeah they just blur the dicks. Clever, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 03:03 PM
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As long as you can ease your mind with it and it doesn't change your relationship with your friend, I don't see what's wrong with it. She posted them publicly, so she wanted people to see them. The thing is, you probably never expect people who actually know you to see them. I totally get her reaction, but that doesn't mean I think she was in the right. I get that she was upset, she thought she was having a little fun anonymously and secretly and then her best friend says he knows all about it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 01:02 PM
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For one, it normalises sex and all kinds of kinks. This can be seen as good or as bad. I personally have the impression that especially younger people, who "grew up with" porn, are much more open minded. It's easier to talk about sex in the first place, it's not awkward to ask friends or partnerd questions. I don't know if that ever was an issue, but I feel like now it isn't one anymore. Kinks are also widely accepted. Of course not everybody I meet can relate to all kinds of kinks, but they acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 12:29 PM
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I personally have a really hard time even having a vaginal orgasm, and at the rare time it happens, it's just meh. A clitoral orgasm is definitely better. But those vary for me aswell. They are most intense when I'm not on top and just lie there relaxing. I still love being stimulating my clitoris while I'm on top, for example, but the orgasm I get from that is just not the same. (Anal orgasms are always really intense for me, on a scale from one to clitoral orgasm they are always at a nine) I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 09:44 PM
1

Whoops, sorry. I didn't know that applied here too. I thought since this post was especially about female behavior it might be a good idea to add that information in order to "give better insight". After reading the rules again I understand that it probably was unnecessary. Won't happen again.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:50 AM
1

To a certain extent, yes. But as others already said it's a good mixture of being alike and being opposite. I'm submissive, he's rather dominant. He's outgoing and happiest when he's with a lot of friends, I prefer less people around. He's also really full of energy whenever he's out of the house but once he's in bed his energy drops to zero, my energy peaks when we are alone together. Both our N-counts are low. We share the same favorite hobbies. We have similar political views. Physically, eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 10:19 PM
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My problem with giving my real number to strangers is that they could easily share that number. I know that's probably childish behavior that not a lot of people do, but I had it happen to a friend. Then it's not "just buzzing my phone", it turned into several people everyday calling her and asking for sex service. Of course, that's really only if the person is bat shit crazy, as you said. Changing your phone number is quite a hassle in my country. But that's just me personally though, because t…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 06:00 PM
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As a woman, can confirm what others already said. It's basically about validation, jealousy and attention seeking. For me personally it was jealousy. Seeing all these people online with "perfect" lives is crushing to a girls self esteem, even though you know it probalby isn't as perfct as they make it seem. It's toxic, tbh, but I can't blame people for using social media. That's just how society is right now. ​ flirting a girl and asking for her number. 'Message me on Instagram' I'm sure there a…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 02:38 PM
2

Dude, all she wants is drama. She's manipulating you to give her more attention. She's not sticking with her decisions because she wants you to "fight for her", or in this case, fight for sleeping next to her. What you describe is what I was like in the past until I did therapy. She's manipulating you, and I believe she thinks she knows exactly how you're gonna react. The worst thing for her would be if you just didn't respond or react to her mind games anymore. For example if you just accepted …
/r/askTRP05/06/19 07:09 AM
2

Physical/sexual attraction only happens for me once I'm emotionally attracted to someone. Sure, I can find people aesthetically pleasing, but I don't look at people and immediately want to fuck them. So for me it's a package deal, where emotional attraction always comes first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 05:40 PM
1

I mean, it makes sense for shorter women to go for taller guys. That way the chance of their offspring being short is way lower. It doesn't make much sense in our society, but I'm sure a few thousand years back height was a huge pro in surviving.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 05:05 PM
2

I personally also think it's normal for women to want it rough. I do too, but of course not always. I'd say go for it, but only to an extent that's comfortable for you. Additionally I recommend a safe word and a safe sign that she could do with her fingers while you're choking her.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:10 PM
3

I was once on the verge of having a one night stand with a Chad. But I couldn't do it. I'm usually the kind of person who needs to get to know someone to find them attractive. So I met this Chad in the club, he started flirting with me, we had some drinks and then we made out. While I'm not gonna deny that he looked good, I just felt miserable while kissing him. He was a good kisser, but it still felt disgusting. The little we talked during the evening was really superficial, we didn't click at …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 12:53 PM
5

Why Canada?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 08:33 AM
1

I define gender equality...well I don't really have a definition for it. I guess to me it's that men and women (and all other genders) get the same options, the same opportunities, the same treatment. Especially career-wise. But in my eyes, I believe that's realistic, women and men can never be entirely equal, when it comes to social behavior and "physical equality". Sure, maybe one day we're gonna "fix" the dating scene, but that doesn't change the fact that, generally speaking, men and women s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 08:49 AM
1

Tell her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 06:49 AM
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I don't do casual sex, so the first two questions are a no, I guess. More men whom I would have a LTR with, but I guess that also goes with me not doing casual sex. No, just because I don't want to sleep with the man doesn't mean he's BB to me. Don't know if this even answers any of your questions since casual sex is out of question for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 06:34 PM
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There's a huge difference between women who like sex and women who like sex with lots of different men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 11:24 PM
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But why does it sometimes even increase their attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:59 AM
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Depends on how badly I have to pee.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 06:39 AM
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As far as I know a majority of women can't even have vaginal orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 10:18 PM
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Maybe it's easy for her to have vaginal orgasms, who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 09:28 PM
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Woman here, I've always asked myself the same question. I bought a dildo and to me it's just not pleasant at all. I mean yeah it feels somewhat like a dick, but vaginal stimulation without a partner is just boring. Sex on the other hand is a wonderful thing, even though the penetration is technically the same. I guess it's about intimacy and being really close with the person you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 09:08 PM
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I would love to answer your questions sincerely but I believe all three scenarios are very unlikely for me. I don't really do hookups, sleep with people on the first date or could imagine having a friend with benefits, as I need to emotionally bond with someone in order to be sexually attracted to them. My past relationships were with very like minded people concerning family plans and none of my partners was opposed to the idea of having kids. 1 and 2 would probably be abortions. Only 3 would g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 04:54 PM
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A compromise maybe: dip that "would you like" and say something like "how about you come over tomorrow at 8?".
/r/askTRP23/05/19 03:56 PM
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I think this really depends on where you are in your relationship with her. Like how long you've been together, how open you are to each other, how the general mood is, etc. After a first date I would probably not appreciate it for example. I never actually thought about this until now. I personally tend to overthink things and always want to make sure I'm not causing any trouble. When I look at these examples I'd prefer the latter. The first one kinda comes to me like "hey how about you come ov…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 03:41 PM
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Because I like to discuss. If you can't comprehend that I don't see why you're in this subreddit either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 11:48 AM
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When it comes to rather superficial debates, I totally agree. But anything that is not an everyday topic I can discuss with men and women equally. I am actually under the impression that men generally tend to be a bit more stubborn, so they sometimes won't even acknowledge things I say. Not saying that that's always the case.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 11:06 PM
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Oh boy, I was thinking throughout every comment I wrote whether I should say that this is not about me being special. I though you couldn't be THAT up your ass to think a discussion about sexuality is only about one of the persons involved. You just made every comment you wrote less reliable. Don't make everything so personal, geez.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 08:01 AM
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Great, then you don't deny that physical attraction does play a role usually, no matter how big or small. The thing is, for me it doesn't play ANY role. I don't see what could stop you now from understanding demisexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 07:51 AM
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As far as I got it, TBP thinks that it's ONLY physical attraction, among certain superficial traits like being rich, that cause a woman to even talk to a man. I'm not saying that TRP thinks like that aswell. Physical attraction plays, as far as I got it though, a big part. Like I said above, my female friends will often just look at a man and say they would love to have sex with him. I'm sure some women prioritize physical attraction above personality, I'm sure some prioritize it beneath, but fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 07:37 AM
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I'm 19. Well, TRP often considers physical attraction to be a big part of women's decision on whether they like a man or not. The fact that I can't feel these attractions, that according to TRP every woman is programmed to have towards Chads, makes me believe that this is not a "normal female-brained" behavior. Demisexuality is not what we think of as a special sexuality per se, because it doesn't define WHO I'm attracted to. But it does affect WHEN I'm attracted to someone. I could be demisexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 07:18 AM
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Yes, exactly this. I didn't mean to imply I don't feel it at all, but the initial physical attraction that TRP considers fundamental is what I can't experience. Of course it's probably the whole package that makes me fall for someone, but without actually knowing a person the body is just an "empty shell" that doesn't mean much. At least that's what I've experienced so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 08:28 PM
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I'm a woman and I don't know what physical attraction feels like. Right now I'm pretty sure I would consider myself demisexual, which means I can't be attracted to people that I don't know or that I don't care about that much. I only develop crushes on close friends, I only fall in love with people I have known for a long time. And by that point it doesn't matter to me what they look like, because it's their personality that made me fall in love with them, even though that sounds cringy af. I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 07:28 PM
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Can't just answer this question that easy. It really depends on whether he has a form of mental illness, like the anxiety you mentioned, or if it's actually his personality. Not gonna lie, I'm rather outgoing in relationships and if my partner has a hard time opening up, no matter how patiently we tried to work on it, I believe my relationship with him is doomed to fail. A mental illness can be dealt with, triggers could be avoided. But again, only as long as he's willing to try being open about…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 11:28 AM
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Wow. Your logic and assumptions are just wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 11:17 AM
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Really curious as of why you would consider them red flags. Sure, there are women who like to obviously show of nipple piercings and basically got them for the attention seeking. But the main reason I would ever consider getting those piercings would be the new sensations that come with them. Is it because they're apparently a sign for attention seeking, as somebody else said? Or is there more to it?
/r/askTRP21/05/19 10:34 AM
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I'm gonna say that even a lot of women would actually describe it as a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 01:43 PM
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Videogames or sex? Edit: I wasn't referring to a video game addiction. I was referring to the theory that video games cause people to become violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 01:17 PM
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I really don't see your point here. Of course you can eat over the top, just like you can have a ridiculous amount of sex. But you can't just stop eating. And your body won't all of a sudden stop having sexual desires. Eating habits are mainly in our heads. If you ever had an eating disorder you'd know that. But you can't control your hormones simply by thinking you want more or less sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 01:17 PM
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Baby making is the whole point of sex. Just because in our society it's not humans main goal anymore and we've found ways to prevent it, doesn't make our bodies want to fulfill their purpose less.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 01:06 PM
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You can't really just disagree with a sociological theory that has been acknowledged for around 70 years. I also doubt that this way of thinking leads to sex addiction. Sure it might be true that sex addicts only felt love through that, idk too much about that, but that's like saying videogames are bad because mass shooters played them too. Not everyone is predestined to become a sex addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 01:01 PM
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Maybe in her opinion it isn't a "crime". As other comment threads already said, it might be due to her cultural background that she doesn't consider it a bad thing at all. Hell, maybe she didn't even think this could be considered cheating until someone asked her about her boyfriend. Maybe it's nothing "wrong" in her eyes, maybe it's just a part of going to the Club for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 07:41 PM
1

And do you like that they love you?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/19 04:16 PM
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I know I'm not challenging your view here, but just because I'm curious. Even though there is no excuse or explanation for cheating, can it be forgiven? Assuming it happened on one occasion, the cheater immediately told his/her partner, acknowledged that he/she was weak, apologized and showed regret. If "I was weak" is the only explanation necessary, can both partners fully acknowledge it and work on the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 05:49 PM
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Exactly. Because it's seductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 09:35 PM
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Wow. Just wow. You're "commenting on observed behavior" is just another way of mixing up someone's words aka interpreting things that I didn't say or mean. Well, then if you realize yourself that your worldview is influenced by your surroundings, why can't you accept that not all people think like you or think like the people you know? I don't see where you're going. I don't know why you suddenly turned so rude. The assumption which is based on what exactly?) you just made adds nothing to this d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 09:05 AM
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And that's not what I said. I don't know how you're interpreting that. Edit: grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 08:56 AM
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The first World doesn't only consist of the US. I live in Europe and the same as u/emailpassword12 I don't know any obese women (or men) who are under the impression they deserve to be called attractive. If that's the case in the US then I'm sorry for the circumstances you have to live under, but I don't like how you project that on EVERY woman in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 07:51 AM
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There goes the assumption that whores don't even want to be whores. Spoiler: there are women who actually enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 03:44 PM
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Why is lying an essential skill set for whores? Sure, there's role play, but both partners know that it's a show, they do what their customer asked for. I don't see why lying is a necessity for whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 01:30 PM
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Then what about relationships where the guy isn't attractive to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 06:37 AM
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Then what about women who never really liked Chad's to begin with, me, for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 06:01 AM
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By settling, do you mean "accept their fate and go for a beta"?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 05:11 AM
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I should have said both our families, my bad. It was actually more common on his. I was his "backup calendar" because we both profited from me having an overview of both our schedules. I don't understand your question. Or maybe he was just a really easily forgetting person. He manages to live without me, I'm assuming that he is writing everything down in his calendar, like he did before. When we were together he didn't write everything down because I was there for him. sigh As I already mentione…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:17 PM
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True, I value it more than those two guys to go out and do some activity together. Wrong. We didn't get our friends birthday cards, the ones I'm talking about are for family, aka aunts and uncles, grandparents, family friends. It's common where I live/in my famils to get someone you don't see that often a card or a small gift. Not a big deal. Wrong. I don't feel a compulsive need to make his schedule perfect and work it out for him. Sure, some events were not that important, but I doubt that goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 02:17 PM
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You see, that's the impression you get from my comments. I'm no expert so it's not the easiest for me to describe the whole dynamic of my relationships in a foreign language, especially when you already think you know them better than I do. They wouldn't offload all of their shit on my. They also didn't just offload all the things I did on me, they asked me if I could do that, and I was totally okay with it. When they expected me to do something for them that was too much I'd simply tell them th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 06:46 AM
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Meh, I wouldn't describe myself as one because that's not how all of my relationships were. It wasn't like I was washing his clothes and making sure he had enough to eat. My partners were also "productive members of society", as you said, but they didn't bother giving some of their "responsibility" away to their partner. Before and after I was in a relationship with them they were totally able to do everything by themselves, they weren't depending on a mother figure and at no point in these two …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 06:30 AM
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You see, the thing is I didn't complain about it. Neither here on reddit nor back in the relationship because it doesn't bother me. You asked for examples, I gave them to you. To me they arent "injustice", as you said, I just answered your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 07:11 PM
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I mean idk if my opinion matters that much because I'm usually pretty chill about these things and I also make that clear in my relationships. But for me it would depend. Did he try talking to me about it beforehand? How often did it happen? Was he drunk? Did he tell me himself or did I find it out another way? I think I'd be able to forgive him, if he'd had told me himself, felt guilty about it and then would actively try to work on this with me. But if it kept going on after I found out I'd pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 07:09 PM
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I'll take two of my relationships as an example. I would usually be the one to set up dates or activities because otherwise we would've stayed home all weekend (which is fine, but every once in a while I'd like to go out and do something). I'd be the one to actively get up our asses to write a birthday card or buy a gift for someone. I would usually be their backup calender to remind them of things they would've otherwise forgotten, I had to schedule two lives. I would also find out when in thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 07:01 PM
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They are totally possible, but I don't think it's the same as same-gender friendships. Of course it always depends on the people that are actually involved because everyone's different, but usually you just act different around the other gender, maybe you don't feel comfortable talking about stuff, not comfortable making specific jokes, etc. Basically all my real friendships are with the opposite gender. Idk why but I just don't feel as comfortable around girls. I'm not actively avoiding same-se…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 06:45 PM
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You just said it yourself. Similar, not exactly the same. I think in the "perfect relationship" you would WANT to please your partner. Just because I'm not in the mood doesn't mean I don't want to make my partner happy. Of course it's cool when you're about at the same level, but if you're not the key is communicating and finding compromises.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:34 PM
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I always wonder where you get these impressions from. Do you ever go out and talk to people, especially women? Seriously, everybody is attracted to different things, some people can't even be attracted to other people unless they know them. There is no "what other guys" they prefer, because you can't just generalize every single woman in the world. Just like you probably have preferences, so do women. Some don't have preferences at all, some have very specific ones, but no fucking way do all wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 01:16 PM
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Basically no. To me it's just a really bad feeling, I mean I could be fucking her and future relationships up by causing trust issues. Now I know I wouldn't be the actual reason for it, it would be the guy. I just don't want to take a part in it. But I also think you can't generalize these situations. There's different kinds of cheating. He could be drunk and take home some chick. He could be sober and fuck his secretary. He could be having an ongoing affair with her best friend. Every relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 08:54 PM
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So you would rather kill a person instead of giving them the opportunity to realize what they did and change their life?
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/19 08:32 AM
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I came across this exact picture on instagram. I tried to explain that a human life is still a human life, despite what the person did. But no, these people think that she was justified, that he deserved even worse and that it was her right to put her life above his. No matter what the person did, in my opinion everyone deserves a chance to regret, get therapy and turn their life around. She took this opportunity from him.
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/19 11:53 PM
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