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| 1 | Is marriage that bad?Your either a woman or a cuck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/23 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Is marriage that bad?Are you talking to me? Because I routinely I'm in social situations where women are giving me IOIs which I ignore. I I'm willing to bet all of my liquid cash, and also willing to take out loans against all of my assets to that I have a higher body count than you TBH. Now, to be clear I don't correlate a man's value with how much female validation or how much promised you a sex he is able to have, but when you start coming at me with this type of quite frankly gay s*** response, yeah I'm going to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/23 08:02 AM |
| 8 | Is marriage that bad?Having rich parents won't really mean anything as far as division of assets goes until she either already has gotten a large transfer of assets/monies or receives her inheritance during the marriage, and there are different protections on inheritance from state to state, and shes still a woman so the court is still going to be favorable to her. And I'm telling you right now a rich girl is a headache for totally different reasons then most women. If you get with a woman who comes from a wealthy f… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/23 02:24 AM |
| 5 | Is marriage that bad?think of it as asking guys who have crashed their motorcycles their opinion of you buying a new bike. I understand you are going to want to buy the bike regardless of what I or anyone here tells you, I still think you should find out just how bad it can be if it goes bad before sign that dammed dotted line. Look Im a pretty conservative guy, good family, my parents where good people, etc. I'd like to tell you just to make sure you find a good gal and you should be ok so long as you don't screw i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/23 02:17 AM |
| 11 | Is marriage that bad?dude, read some of the posts in this sub. do a real deep dive, read some of the stories guys here post and really try to imagine you where the one writing some of things that have been posted here. I think what your missing from the equation here is the personal touch to it, your imagining that you've got a good chick and she won't do it to you, or your thinking you'll know how to vet a woman so that all you have to do is maintain frame keep your alpha cock firm enough that you'll be able to kee… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/23 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Kids vs careerYa know, its really easy to say shit like this, until your this guy whose making 120k now, on a temp job. Will have his child support based on his current 120k salary, and if he can't find another 120k job, and has to settle for an 80k job, but will still pay the same child support for the 120k job until he can get it adjusted in the family court, and if the judge decides well he could have found another 100-120K job but choose not to because its the family court system and the states make money… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/23 02:55 PM |
| 5 | Accountability & validationDo not share your emotions with women, seriously. When you share your emotions with women all you are doing is accelerating her losing interest in you, they seek to learn as much about you as they can so they can learn how to control you, which as soon as they accomplish that their attention starts to wonder as they know they have you as a security blanket and they start to think about other men high up the totem pole then you and if they can monkey branch to them, Im sorry if this hurts some pe… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/23 02:43 PM |
| 11 | Is it worth it?Just want to point out, its not a law that if your a divorced man over 30 your only allowed to date single mothers. The good aspect of being a man is you can date younger more easily, I mean older women could theoretically date younger guys, but women tend to be more attracted to men their age or older. One of the few advantages of being a man really, and yeah you will catch some comments from jealous 30+ single moms, but their opinion is as worthless as their wombs will soon be. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/23 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Need advice about dealing with jealousy seeing my ex-wife with her boyfriend.You have to stop caring about her first, I get maybe the fact she cheated made the whole thing worse. But, its over you have been divorced for over a year, does it really matter who shes with? Would you even want her back after all of this? Your giving them the power by caring, stop judging your manhood by female validation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/23 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Divorce is just brutal.cool dude, or mam? guess what no is perfect, is this one of your alt accounts to keep rehashing how much you don't respect men who cheat? I don't respect women who cheat, especially since its far easier for a woman to find someone willing to fuck her, at least a dude has to obtain a certain level of attractiveness to get women to readily sleep with a married man. honestly you sound like a woman invading one of the only spaces on the entire internet for men to be vulnerable with one another, you … | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/23 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Had a nice chat with the police… againdude, she tried to hit you with a TRO, she's constantly calling the cops and creating a huge paper trail and your sitting in your room and you feel cool because you have your cameras? are you recording every inch of that house? cuz guess what all it takes is for her to claim you step down the hall way and smashed her head in, and her dip shit puppy dog BF will probably gladly whack the goofy bitch in the head to make the domestic violence/ assault charge stick too you. your making good money, yo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Had a nice chat with the police… againIDK i lean towards more of what the first guy is saying, this guys going to walk into court and this chick is going to have a stack of police reports and he's going to get rail roaded, he needs to stop just sitting back and letting her control the narrative(a narrative is the official name for a police report BTW.) He needs to start claiming this incidents of HARASSMENT for what they are, document them to his attorney and seek TRO or something on the wife to pause her from constantly calling the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Had a nice chat with the police… againBingo. OP you need to stop letting her call the cops for these type of things, if she threatens to call the cops call the cops first and tell them shes harassing you, if she has the cops called you need to be notifying your attorney and see about getting a TRO placed on her for constantly unnecessary police calls. Your getting divorced, she has another man coming into the home often and shes constantly calling the cops on you, you need to start being more proactive in this situation or your goin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Had a nice chat with the police… againYeah, don't get too comfortable around those cops, all it takes is for her to make one claim that they find credible and these cops you wish to buy a beer for will be booking you for domestic violence. I'm not a cop hater, but they are not your friend in this situation and if comes down your word vs hers your probably going away in cuffs, just keeping it real bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Had a nice chat with the police… againOP: If you aren't already do doing this, you need to document every time she does something like this and present it to your attorney as unreasonable and harassment, if you've got video of this happening your going to want to have the clips of these events qued up and ready to be entered in discovery. EDIT- OP you really need to talk to your attorney if shes done this multiple times, like others have pointed out, shes building paper trail against you as she terrorizes you and harasses you ever… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Adventures in OLDdon't bother with the apps. #1 your not going to want any women you will find there #2 its just simply not a good use of your time even if all your looking for is play the numbers game on getting laid, unless your are truly a male model looks wise, in which case you really shouldn't need the apps unless your just trying to break the high score on the pinball machine | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Are these good enough reasons for me (31M) to divorce my wife (31F)?bro, you can't negotiate passion and desire out of a woman via doing chores and paying the bills, I hate to tell you this but she's probably just not that naturally sexually aroused by you, or your constant pandering to her every need and want has zapped any attraction she once may have had for you. I think you really need to consider this is a war you can no longer win. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Buying house before finalI am not sure on how you would best go about this, you would definitely need an attorney to do this, and any attorney worth his salt will likely advise you to just hold your horses until the divorce/separation is finalized. I understand you want to move forward, and I can appreciate that attitude vs. being stuck in the past wondering where it all went wrong, but my gut tells me you will incur far less hassle and legal bills by simply waiting to purchase then trying to juggle all of this while ev… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Divorce Shield...anyone have any experience?Yeah, unfortunately you really do have to vet your own attorneys even. Its kind of like dealing with a mechanic if you don't know anything about cars, as unethical as it maybe your trusting this person to explain something to you that you really don't understand, and you have to trust them to act in your best interest even on matters of which your more or less blindly following their advice, I highly recommend getting a 2nd legal opinion(without informing your attorney that you getting a 2nd opi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 10:43 PM |
| 4 | How to start dating after divorceGood points, if OP is actually 23, this is a lot more to do with his own psyche and desire for female validation. The incel and the alpha bro red pill dating coach both suffer from the same fatal fundamental flaw, they derive their self-worth and masculinity via female validation. OP look inside yourself, and understand its ok to feel sad about losing partner, and to have gone through a break up let a lone a divorce, but don't fall for the same trap again no one but you can define what makes you… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 10:37 PM |
| 8 | How to start dating after divorceOP I Strongly disagree on the above advice, no offense to the poster. Don't waste your time chasing down women on any dating apps, and don't waste your time fishing for a bite on any dating apps unless your exceptionally good looking, or have a great physique and even then you shouldn't really need them if your good looking, your simply not talking to enough women. #1 Focus on finding meaning to your life, I understand your seeking a partner to share time etc with, and I can appreciate that but … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Still friends?Listen to this oldtimer, he put what I wanted to say more eloquently. Cut the idea of possibly staying "friends" with your ex-wife totally out of your head, if you have kids this is tougher because you have to stay cordial for co-parenting duties but outside of that, shes not your friend, shes no longer your wife shes merely the person whose uterus bore your child. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Still friends?I would recommend you don't stay friends or even really stay incontact with her. Go along with whatever she says until the divorce is finalized to let that process smoothly then cut contact with her, at least for a while its going to make it easier for you to move on long term if shes totally out of your life. Also, it will prevent her from using you as emotional tampon, if you two wanted to stay in contact so much, and remain friends, then why exactly are you divorcing? You have nothing to gain… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 09:51 PM |
| 0 | Divorce is just brutal.I hope your getting whatever thrill your looking for out of drilling this dude onto the cross. Again, this reads a lot more like a guy who got cheated on and his taking that frustrations out on another guy who was also neglected by wife romantically, this isn't accomplishing anything besides allowing you an outlet for your sanctimonious bashing of another man who just handled a shitty situation differently then you did. Maybe your just jealous OP actually had an option to step out with, and the … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Divorce is just brutal.Good men don't cheat. Just because you forgive yourself doesn't mean what you did is forgivable. I can respect where your coming from, but I don't think we need to be tearing down guys in this sub who might have stepped out on their wife in a loveless marriage. Again, I understand your point, especially if you where cheated on, but divorced guys get ostracized enough from society, some women have a real skill at tearing down a guy enough to push him into seeking affection from someone else. I do… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 09:32 PM |
| 0 | I messed upSure man, sure. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/23 01:34 PM |
| 2 | I messed upThis is a troll. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/23 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Now stbxw is trying to have a kid with person they met three months ago. Agrees not only to no alimony, but 8/6 primary custody, and can't have overnights until next year while on his shitty 2br house with my three kids including one with special needsbro, look Im sorry about your kid, thats gotta be tough especially with going through a divorce. but bro, if you weren't a couple whatever that even means, that is kinda giving her permission to date and fuck other people, thats why shitty people who cheat want to "take a break" from marriages/relationships because they just want permission to fuck other people without feeling bad about it. you say she'll sign the declaration of non-paternity, uh no bro don't leave that shit up to chance because… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Advice On Custodywhy the fuck did you admit to pushing her? What did you think was going to happen when you told a judge your 6'4 ass pushed her? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 04:41 AM |
| 0 | Am i the assholeTo be fair, my parents never did all that lovey dovey shit in front of me or in public either and it never bothered me, I knew they still loved each other, I didn't need to see them make scene to prove how in love they where. some people just aren't as expressive or constantly feel the need to be performing public displays of affection their still together to this day. Honestly I'm glad they didn't normalize that type of stuff to me because I feel like a majority of couples that do that shit are… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 04:36 AM |
| 1 | How does this even work?to be fair to OP its 70k in NYC, thats a very high cost of living area. 70k doesn't get you very far in NYC, probably would have to rent a place with at least 1-2 roommates to live moderately comfortably. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 04:23 AM |
| 1 | How does this even work?no offense here, but it sounds like your speaking in code. what is the cause of the problems/arguments? do you suspect infidelity? is it about money? I've had a few friends that dated/had kids/married girls from rich familes, girls from rich families can be extraordinarily entitled and I've noticed some of them will compare a guy in his mid 20's fresh out of college working his first real job to their father whose ran a company for 25-30 years, or inherited the family fortune and is worth millio… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 04:21 AM |
| 2 | How does this even work?based on what you've said the financials sound pretty equal, if anything she's slightly ahead unless I'm misunderstanding something. The reality is the longer you wait the more intertwined things will become, if your already seriously considering divorce 5 years in chances are things will only be worse by year 8, 9, 10 etc. Probably better to just rip the band aid off now and move on with your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Now stbxw is trying to have a kid with person they met three months ago. Agrees not only to no alimony, but 8/6 primary custody, and can't have overnights until next year while on his shitty 2br house with my three kids including one with special needsGod, no offense but what a trashy slut, make sure the divorce is finalized before she gives birth which it does sound like it should be, but in some states if your legally married when a woman gives birth your legally presumed to be the father. Edit - In fact, it could even be presumed to be your child if the child is merely conceived while married, look into your state specific laws regarding this and document that she is actively attempting to get pregnant by this man so they she can't try to … | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 03:57 AM |
| 5 | Am I Overreacting, Or Am I Justified To Feel This WayYou really shouldn't even be there to witness this shit in the first place. When you have visitation with your son take him and go do stuff with him, try to go do guy stuff with him, play sports, etc. don't be friends with your ex, be cordial but this sounds like a really strange dynamic and personally I wouldn't want anything to do with it, and I'm not saying this because shes being a lesbo, it would be weird if she was making out with another guy. focus on raising your son and teaching your so… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 03:50 AM |
| 0 | Onlyfanslol, while I agree being raised by a single mom who sells her body isn't not good for the child at all, I suspect the courts would even consider her OF when it comes to custody, the money shes earning from it could very well effect Child support and the dollars and cents of that but no judge is likely going to let her while scummy, still legal source of income effect custody. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/23 07:50 AM |
| 1 | My ex-wife told me she got "raped" by multiple men, multiple times. At first I felt all sympathetic for her, until she told me by who, when and where.Im glad you haven't been victimized for your kindness / sympathy, but yes that is a real concern. People that continuously allow people AKA enable others to continue making very poor decisions for themselves will often be the person that gets most victimized by that type of person. This woman is claiming, that she is being raped by her drug dealers, and has been using op as a pseudo therapist for 13 years after their breakup, she is a user she is the exact type of person that would have this guy… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/23 09:12 PM |
| 1 | My ex-wife told me she got "raped" by multiple men, multiple times. At first I felt all sympathetic for her, until she told me by who, when and where.this OP, this woman will ruin your life if you let her. get off this ride. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/23 08:37 PM |
| 1 | My ex-wife told me she got "raped" by multiple men, multiple times. At first I felt all sympathetic for her, until she told me by who, when and where.Dissagree, this woman has allowed her life to continue to fall further and further into shit for 13 years since OP and her broke up. This woman is a user and the next part of this story you'll hear is from OP's wife/current girl explaining how OP got murdered when his EX set up to get robbed by her dealers. Don't help her, don't contact her stay far away from this entire situation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/23 08:36 PM |
| 1 | My ex-wife told me she got "raped" by multiple men, multiple times. At first I felt all sympathetic for her, until she told me by who, when and where.No, some people don't deserve compassion, some people will use your kindness to their advantage and sell you down the river to people who are ready willing and able to rub you at gun point, even for tiny amounts of money, to some addicts they will do anything for that next fix and people like you are the #1 type of target for these people. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/23 08:34 PM |
| 1 | My ex-wife told me she got "raped" by multiple men, multiple times. At first I felt all sympathetic for her, until she told me by who, when and where.bad troll. you don't lend money to crack heads, why did she pay OP back but not her family and other friends? Have you considered that the next step in this whacky crack head bitches head could be to set up OP to act like she needs help and gets him to give her a ride or something, and next thing you know OP winds up with the barrel of a gun in his face. Some people don't deserve your time or your sympathy and will use your bleeding heart against you and ruin your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/23 08:30 PM |
| 1 | My ex-wife told me she got "raped" by multiple men, multiple times. At first I felt all sympathetic for her, until she told me by who, when and where.She can and should do all of that, OP however should have nothing to do with woman and should immediately cut off all contact with her. If shes as desperate as she sounds like she is, and if she knows OP has any money, and her drug dealers are willing to rape her(I think its more like shes bartering her vag for drugs, but eitherway) whose to say she wont have OP robbed to continue to fuel her addiction? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/23 08:18 PM |
| 1 | My ex-wife told me she got "raped" by multiple men, multiple times. At first I felt all sympathetic for her, until she told me by who, when and where.You need to get this woman out of your life, if shes saying she has drug dealers and other associated criminals who are supposedly raping her to cover her drug habit/debt then I would be worried if she would set you up, people in situation will sell anyone down the river for another fix, you seriously need to cut off all contact with this literal crack whore, hopefully she doesn't know your current residence. And honestly bro, you brought this upon yourself. Why would you even still be friendly … | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/23 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Wife is becoming more of a feminist every dayYou're 100% right, in fact men go out of their way to defend women because they've had it beaten into their heads their entire lives how bad sexism is towards women, and how chauvinistic most men can be. So a lot of guys will stick up for women far more often than they will for another man, because they believe they're doing the right thing or preventing bullying Etc. And then you have the white Knights who take things to the next level and think girls will hook up with them if they act as their… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/23 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Wife is becoming more of a feminist every dayLol you really can't make this stuff up, atleast I couldn't. Imagine if somehow a guy insinuated to her that she doesn't read or doesn't sound well read, that would have probably caused her to have a brain aneurysm. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/23 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Should I get divorce?This is the real answer, even if everything was perfect her age is too high risk. It's time to trade this one in for a newer model, but instead of buying the next one just lease it, you don't want to own depreciating assets AKA women past 25 realistically | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/23 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Should I get divorce?She's in her forties there's a high probability your kids will have a birth defect | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/23 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Hello. I'm just 22 yo guy and I'd like to thank you for your stories you posted. I've never been married and I'm not going to. Divorce law is just extremely unfair towards men. Women are so confident and try to force you into marriage cause they KNOW IT.Guys already know marriage is a scam, the problem isn't knowing it the problem is most guys talk thenselves into beliving "their girl" would never do that too them, or make up some convoluted explanation about how it's still the righteous thing to get married blah blah. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/23 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Still married and shes dating while I pay the billsI have a few friends that are in the process of getting divorce raped. " bro I know it's bad and I know if I marry Stephanie and she divorces me it'll be terrible bro and I'll be broke but dude come on it's that she would never do that to me" | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/02/23 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Still married and shes dating while I pay the billsDude stop. She needs to leave ASAP, evictions can be costly but I would tell her she needs to get out or your going to evict her. DO NOT help her anymore, you HELPED HER CLEAN HER CAR TO GO ON A DATE? So she's going out with a dude who isn't even picking her up? Did you ask her to point out where the dude cummed in her car so you can go clean it up then? Look bro, I care for you and I don't even know you but I'm being pretty hard on you here because you need to hear it, you need to let this woma… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/02/23 09:38 AM |
| 2 | How do i get past the anger ......I'm going to say embrace your anger a bit, conatructively. Men get conditioned to supress our feelings from the world just typically ignoring our positive emotions when we are joyful, confident, excited etc and a lot of times when we are hurting, angery, sad, etc we are just told to suck it up and get over it. We are discouraged from enjoying our sucesses while also neglected and chasitsed when we are licking our wounds emotionally, and this can and often does lead many men to a strong sense of … | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/23 02:19 PM |
| 1 | I finally had sex with someone new!Hey man ly, congrats I understand how a dry spell can affect a man's psyche especially coming from the turbulent relationship it sounds like you had and I truly hope you had a marvelous experience with this young girl. I also just want to throw this out there as food for thought, not to try to ruin you know your mind set right now or put you in a weird headspace or train of thought, if you do enjoy and you had a pleasurable experience and you wish to continue your relationship with her in this m… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/23 07:19 AM |
| 2 | My kids hacked STBEXW emailI mean this with all due respect, that's seriously the type of statement that deserves to get the s*** slapped out of her mouth I don't care how old she is I don't care if she's defending her daughter or whatever the hell it is. Where at the point where grandma is defending infidelity, let that sink in again grandma is defending infidelity because her daughter isn't happy look I am not the best representative, nor am I the best example for men when I speak I have my faults but this is the type o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/23 07:06 AM |
| 3 | How are you guy’s dating life going nowadays?Put simply bros before hoes you are more than welcome, brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/23 06:50 AM |
| 2 | How are you guy’s dating life going nowadays?Well said, I just feel the need to co-sign the avoiding of the as you said cesspool dating apps they will suck you dry not in the way you wish to be sucked dried, emotionally and they will further skew your perception of yourself. I've noticed that no matter what I have tried to do I just do not come across online, it's any degree as well as I can in person. The women who are permeating these abs are the lowest of the low, attention seeking just vapid, materialistic and superficial types of wome… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/23 06:32 AM |
| 5 | How are you guy’s dating life going nowadays?I'd say thats totally nornal at your stage brother, if their are any wounds they are still very fresh, your still very much still putting distance away from your ex and the breakup, etc. Note what are fellow brothers are reporting to you tho, once you feel up too if you want to date the demographics are going to be working in your favor, or if you want to just keep things casual and hook up, again you will have plenty of options, as men up to a certain age we become more appealing to more and mo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/23 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Anyone thinking of dating a single mom?I think your fucking nuts if your even consider it. If you wanna fuck her whatever, but if serious date her your always going to come in 2nd place to her kid(s) which in a normal relationship is fine because their your kids too. Plus you have the baby daddy drama, 99/100 arent worth the effort. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/22 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Disappointed with my dad being buddies with my STBXWDads fucking the ex wife? Honestly Id be less pissed if my dad waa fucking the ex at least it would make some type of sense. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Need a ventAs an American guy, I can tell you a lot of men, good honest hard working salt of the earth type of men in America feel exactly like you describe. A lot of modern women are totally brainwashed into thinking they want to behave like men, they want to be the dominate breadwinner, and men in response are turning away from dating and marriage in droves. I know its not much, but your not alone and a lot of men are starting to wake up to how shitty the deal has become. Its not something wrong with you… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/22 02:41 PM |
| 5 | Hopeful NewsI'm interested in your perspective of dating and marriage in the modern day, as a woman who seems to see how fucked the situation is for most men. Do you advise your male friends and family to just avoid serious dating/marriage? Do you think men should consider traveling to 2nd/3rd world countries to find more suitable wives? How would you approach dating as a man in America/the west in general? Seems pretty bleak from my perspective even as a guy who has options, everyone woman I talk too seems… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/22 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Was I 100% in the wrong or am I being watchful of my children?OP, I suspect your gut is telling you to be wary of this man. This is not an indication of some sort of bigotry or anything xenophobic, these are your parental/protector instincts kicking in, hopefully this guy is a good dude and all that, but if I was the boyfriend in this exact same situation and I wanted to bring your daughters to meet my family in a foreign country, a country which treats women/young girls vastly different then the US, I would totally understand your valid concerns about the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/22 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Was I 100% in the wrong or am I being watchful of my children?the man is protecting his daughters. no one wants to admit theirs weridos in this world until its too late and something horrible happens, he has every god dnam right to know who this man who will be around his daughters is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/22 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Disappointed with my dad being buddies with my STBXWno he really doesn't need to put it in perspective, he doesn't like it and thats all the justification he fucking needs. if the shoe was on the other foot, and OP was setting up secret plans to bring the grandkids to the ex wifes family, that woman would be screaming bloody fucking murder and accusing OP of every form of psychology abuse she could think of, stop normalizing this shit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/22 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Disappointed with my dad being buddies with my STBXWNo, no, no, no, no, no. No father should ever put his son in the situation of having to see his ex-wife at Mom & Dads house for Christmas. If the ex was inviting Dad to see the kids during her regular visitation/custody and it allowed Dad too see grandkids more often then just when OP had the kids I would agree and say shes being a decent mother, but this is emotional manipulation and Dad should realize what the ex is actually doing, this is straight up horse shit I don't care how much Dad wants… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/22 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Speculation: Why is Tom Brady's wife filing for divorce NOW?Yeah I'm blind because I don't follow media narrative and buy the spin they try to put on every story. Whatever helps you justify your existence. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Speculation: Why is Tom Brady's wife filing for divorce NOW?Depends, being a woman will help her out, but she might lose on the asset division given she had a lot more money when they got married. I hope he gets a nice cut of her extra money, she's always seemed like she thought so lowly of people connected to Football like she belter then them, Hopefully some her money goes to some youth football programs, or programs that benefit young men and teach them the warning signs of narcissistic women. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/22 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Speculation: Why is Tom Brady's wife filing for divorce NOW?it actually depends on income levels of both parents, and the actual number of days which each parent has the kids so if one parent has the, every other weekend that would be 4 days a month vs 26 days a month for the other parent so depending on the income, the parent that has them 26 days a month has them 22 more days per month and thus would like receive whatever is deemed appropriate for that many day versus everyones income, etc. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/22 06:36 AM |
| 3 | Speculation: Why is Tom Brady's wife filing for divorce NOW?This is it. Female models are washed by their mid-late 20's. She admittedly had a very successful career but she is not just past her prime as a model she is like a fossil in modeling, an antique meanwhile Tom is 45 and still performing at a super high level, some would say still a top 5 in the world at what he does. Shes so self absorbed and deluded into what she wanted Tom to do to help her promote her political agenda and use his popularity, fame and influence to push global warming propagand… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/22 06:31 AM |
| 1 | If companies could get away with paying women lower wages than men, they wouldn't hire men at all.I mean sure their are some jobs better tailored for each gender, sure I think on average women are better teachers, nurses, linguist roles like translators, social work maybe psychologist etc. but realistically when you look at the vast majority of critical skilled jobs pilots, engineers, attorneys, doctors, financial advisors, etc I think men are on average probably better at those types of jobs. then you have physical labor/trade jobs and factory work which would be obviously a job the male bo… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/22 12:05 PM |
| 1 | If companies could get away with paying women lower wages than men, they wouldn't hire men at all.I definitely agree its possibly population control but I would argue white liberals have such built up self hatred that they maybe at best are in different to the white population being curbed or even worse where I've heard white liberals actively say things like, they don't want more white children to be brought into this world or even weirder where if they already have kids they will actively encourage their children to date other races to ensure any potential grandchildren are biracial to aga… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/22 11:48 AM |
| 4 | Cold aproacing, lack of confidence. Beta vent postDude look I get where you at alright its totally normal to not feel confident or feel embarrassed when an approach goes wrong, and if I had to guess your probably looking through all type of material looking for some magic formula to picking up chicks but look man theirs no magic bullet, theirs no way to get better at playing the game then to play. Just focus on improving your conversation skills, and dude if talking to attractive chicks is a little hard to do for you right now while focusing on… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/22 04:17 AM |
| 8 | First DATES: Why Rollo is wrong - response to his latest (May 5th) RM ClipsI think your pretty spot on here. Lets keep it real here the interest that the guy needs to create is typically going to be a higher bar then what the chick needs to create, so if you are already at the level of creating further interest in a chick from a simple coffee date, really from there what more dating advice do you really need from Rollo Tomasi? Because in that situation its basically you, your game and the chick so just keeping it moving and close the deal. But, and this is where I gues… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/22 04:00 AM |
| 2 | fresh out of family courtYes. I would pay an attorney instead of paying rent, because the attorney could prevent me from getting evicted long enough to buy me enough time to figure something else out, I might have done that in the past. How am I speaking from a perspective of having money to throw around when I told you I had to file a continuous in order to buy enough time to get money together to hire an attorney? How am I speaking from a perspective of having extra cash when I signed a contract agreeing to pay later … | /r/MensRights | 02/05/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | fresh out of family courtGuess what by not having an attorney your going to have more bills, this judge garnished your wages because you didn't have proper legal counsel and put you into debt. I'm just trying to stress to you how vitally important it is that you retain legal counsel on this matter or its going to ruin your life. You can sit here and feel sorry for yourself but I'm trying to help change the stupid situation you put yourself in not just give your post an upvote and tell you how much it sucks. Maybe I soun… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | I am pessimistic about the Depp and Heard caseThis isn't going to change anything. What you think Amber Heard losing a defamation case is going to make a dent in how men are treated? You think bitter 40 year old feminists are going to wake up to their bullshit after all these years? They will flip this on its head and say its another example of autocratic-patriarchy. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Woman makes up fake baby to get delivery drivers to what she wantsI guess I'm just naturally an ass hole because I would have had no problem telling her thats not my responsibility, even if she had a real baby in her arms when she opened the door. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | What laws would you oppose or would institute?Only net tax payers are allowed to vote it would reign in spending and bring about more creative solutions to problems instead of solving every problem by opening another giant government program. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/22 05:39 PM |
| 2 | How to handle suicide threatsYounger you was right, when its obvious someone is manipulating you by making fake suicide threats the healthiest reaction to have to that is no reaction at all. By flying off the handle and feed any more emotion to that situation is exactly what that person wants. Taking them serious is like adding fuel to the fire. The opposite of love is not hate but indifference. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/22 05:20 PM |
| 4 | fresh out of family courtop for the love of god take this mans advice, do what you have to do to get an attorney, its a rigged game you need someone too fight for you. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/22 04:59 PM |
| 2 | fresh out of family courtYou keep saying this, but your literally getting robbed, you don't understand you can't not afford an attorney. Go get a 2nd job, go drive for uber, go delivery pizza, sell everything you can keep doing this until you can hire an attorney. not in life is free but theirs a difference between being frugal and being cheap, being frugal is not spending unnecessary money being cheap like you where in not hiring an attorney is criminally negligent, again you can't afford to not have an attorney you ne… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | fresh out of family courtyeah and that free consultation and squezzing a nickel just put you thousands of dollars into debt and got your wages garnished. If you would have maxed out a credit card to pay for the attorney that would have been a better financial choice then what you did. Hire. An. Attorney. Immediately. Or continue to be a cuck and let this woman and judge rob you, ruin your life and alienate your children from you. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/22 04:50 PM |
| 5 | There Are A Lot Of Women That You Are Overlooking Because They Don't Look Like Dimesholy false equivalency batman. also Im not missing out on anything. I'm not worried about any woman, I'm not lacking in options. Your just talking out of your ass. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/21 01:45 AM |
| 21 | There Are A Lot Of Women That You Are Overlooking Because They Don't Look Like DimesYeah, this is a load of shit. Men have far more forgiving standards for women then vice versa. Your average guy will accept a tall chick, short chick, skinny chick, average chick, thick chick(NOT OBESE) white chick, Asian chick, latin chick, short hair, long hair a really feminine chick, tomboy, a virgin chick, nympho chick, smart chick, dumb chick, rich chick, poor chick, middle class chick, a Dr. Chick or a chick that changes the heat lamps at ponderosa. I can keep going but the point is, if y… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/21 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Gender bias in who have to come back to office in this pandemicGruella political warfare, I like this idea. Maybe the fact that your company is denying the opportunity for these poor innocent female engineers to further their career by gaining the obvious advantage of returning to the office should be leaked publicly, also may consider speaking to an employment attorney. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/21 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Got a girl pregnant- curious what everyone thinks.you fucked up get an attorney before you fuck up again | /r/MensRights | 07/09/21 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Dad hasn't gotten child support in three years, and the child support agency keeps giving him the run aroundYeah dad needs to get an attorney if he can't handle this himself. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/21 01:22 PM |
| 2 | There is nothing wrong with being “anti-feminist.”Feminism was always a Marxist anti-male agenda, its literally in the name some people are so gullible they don't take people at their word when they start a political movement that excludes your existence and actively works against your own self interests. (as a man) | /r/MensRights | 07/09/21 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Any Thoughts About This?Vaush is a scumbag, that's really the only thought anyone should have about this. Not even going to give him a click.. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/21 01:15 PM |
| 7 | Practical advice: how to create the low-divorce-risk marriageSimple, you never enter a into a contract with someone who is incentivized to break it. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/21 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Practical advice: how to create the low-divorce-risk marriagethat sucks and all but that doesn't mean you date those women who developed those addictions even if mild and not intentionally. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/21 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Billie Eilish says "I really wish men cared more" in response to the new abortion laws.standard leftist procedure, wrong opinions aren't tolerated. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/21 01:09 PM |
| 4 | Eye opening statistics about the freefall of men's enrollment in higher educationOk then get a stem degree otherwise trades are a far better option then going 100k dollars into debt for a liberal arts or other fluff degree. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/21 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Eye opening statistics about the freefall of men's enrollment in higher educationThis is a good thing for most guys. Most people get none-competitive degrees that never pay off, if your in STEM yeah good go get your degree, and make no mistake despite making up 70% of college grads women will still surely be underrepresented in STEM degrees. most of the guys will be better off not saddled with debt. Focus should be on converting these guys into the trades where they'll likely make more money, not have to deal with as much PC woke corporate crap and likely be happier working … | /r/MensRights | 07/09/21 12:54 PM |
| 4 | Being part of this subreddit was used as an insult against me…BY MEN?!na fight fire with fire. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/21 12:47 PM |
| 1 | 5 million-worth pussypass deniedYour wife is a fan of Kristin Cavallari and you married her? Brother I hope you had a solid prenup if you have a lot of assets. I'd be on red alert... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/06/21 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: In your opinion, at what age is it still pathetic to be a virgin?22. At any age before she's married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 12:56 PM |
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