| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Did I (M23) miss a cue? | Outer Game | csmile2019 | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Help | Conversation | csmile2019 | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Gym girls | Conversation | csmile2019 | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:40 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 11 | How effective is sliding into IG DMs + Proper way to do so?DM’s typically don’t even work for established men because people see them (as you said above) cringy, scams, or some random person trying to sell something. I’m in the US too by the way. I’ve had more “key to financial success” guys and OF models slide into my DM’s until the point to where if it’s someone I don’t know-it’s an automatic delete. As for tinder, I’m in the same situation as you. I live in a rural area and even the surrounding cities are sh$tholes. Girls don’t want to match a guy 80… | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Did I (M23) miss a cue?Yessir! Thank you | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Did I (M23) miss a cue?Thank you! I will next time if she’s alone. I generally can hold a conversation fine unless the person I’m talking do isn’t very talkative/doesn’t want to talk. She was wearing nursing scrubs and I am taking bio 2 for pre physical therapy so may see if she’s taken some of the same courses as a door opener and if she’s responsive I’ll get more playful | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Did I (M23) miss a cue?Preciate it, I’ll sit with her if I see her again and see if she’s conversational or not! Guess that is the only way to find out 😂🤝🏼 | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Help! Other Guys bombard every girl I approachBro where do you live where there’s nightlife on a Monday night🤣 I needs to know! In Mississippi if I don’t go out Thursday or Saturday I see NO ONE. And it’s hit or miss if attractive girls will be there | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Online freind with benefitsFren* | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most?This lol. Where I live you need $40-$50k annual post tax to live. With a 6 figure, you can literally go anywhere you want when you’re off if you don’t blow the other $40-$50k | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Went out solo for the first time in a looong time, and wowzersYep. I had to leave a comment on this one too😂 | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 06:22 PM |
| 6 | Went out solo for the first time in a looong time, and wowzersThis lol. Dude respect relationships if they’ve been going months or years. Early stage I get. But actual relationships shouldn’t be broken. If she doesn’t cheat and is loyal/just shit testing you you’re going to get or ass beat or killed if she does by a mentally broken man one day (and don’t believe me, just look at what most fights/homocides are related to). Getting women to cheat is a dangerous game because you’re dealing with men in the picture too. Don’t recommend this. Respect men more th… | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Does Introvertness and Shyness negate looks?Yes. I can verify lol, I am no 6 foot tall Chad but I am shredded with a nice facial structure. Good guy by nature and I struggle a lot with self esteem and confidence about myself- both of which kill attraction. | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubsI didn’t say I was smart🤣 | /r/seduction | 11/07/23 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubsIf I gotta pay for a lay, may as well go to a prostitute. All women like that are is an expensive version of that, using it as a trap. I learned the hard way. I hung out with a girl for over two years with no lay and everytime we met she expected me to pay for everything-and she was an expensive one. Talking 4-5 $15 drinks, $50 filet, wanted me to buy her shopping things $400+, pay for her trip with the girls, you name it. It all started with a tinder match and buying her a drink at the bar. If … | /r/seduction | 10/07/23 10:15 PM |
| 6 | She has a boyfriend and I'm boldly walking a wayNegative, bad idea. I tried to date a girl that cheated on her ex with me. A month later she FaceTimed me hooking up with random dudes at the bar, and when I hung up she went on to TELL ME how many guys she hooked up with. Girls like that just want to hurt you bro, you’re an item to them or another number | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Is a 29 year old asking out an 18 year old waitress creepy?It’s creepy depending on who you ask. It’s a personal question brother, no solid answer for this other than she’s legal. Is it creepy to me? Yes. But that’s because it’d be like me dating someone younger than my sister who’s 5 years younger and even seeing her friends who hit on me creeps me out. For me, 3 years plus or minus is my window | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 03:24 AM |
| 5 | I don't understand why losing fat wouldn't be the absolutely priority for any manThis should be a goal for general health, not just attracting a mate. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?Just walk up to them and stare in their eyes like Mel Fckin Gibson😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 11:42 AM |
| 2 | I don’t want my crush but…Hey bro you seem happy. That’s always good, but honestly the best way to make someone regret dismissing you is to forget about them. If they see you successful years down the line, you show them there what they missed! If you think about them constantly in a sense of wanting to shove it in their face, they are winning the mind game. Been there bro. Made myself hella depressed. Cut off snap, tinder, you name it. Started running every other day at 4-5 a.m., workout everyday, and started taking on … | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 11:00 PM |
| 1 | HOW DO I KNOW IF HE IS FEELING THE SAME ( im kinda having a trouble with going ask with all my social bad socials . and im still not sure so i dont wanna get dumped )This😂 | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 10:09 PM |
| 8 | Being told the way to get the hot girls is to get jackedI’m not gonna lie, I’m 4-5% body fat and diced up and I get more compliments from guys than girls😂 not many “fit” girls on tinder around here though. I get looks from the nice looking girls in the gym when I do calisthenics though, just don’t know how to approach them because they always come with the same guy and are rarely alone | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Is it creepy or dirty to tell a girl i like her, if she's already in a relationship ? I have no intention of ruining her relationship - i just want to stop thinking about her and move onBingo. I made this mistake, spent $1200 on a girl I cared too much for, saw her three times, and slept with her twice but didn’t even get a kiss. Few weeks later she calls me crazy because I cut her off and blocked her to keep from speaking to her anymore, but it works and I talk to more girls now | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Something a woman can do that gets you weak at the knees?Honestly every guy is different. I stuck with a girl 3 years because she genuinely understood me. Then she changed and found that she could flirt with multiple guys and have each one pick up slack as far as money, simping, and sex went. She no longer needed me. Since then I’ve been in the same boat as you. Introverted and awkward. Mainly as a guy just lonely and looking for a quick one night deal. But a few months ago I was wishing this girl would become my gf simply because during that three ye… | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Best chic drinks to stock in my fridge for maximum comfort when she comes over?Bahaha I would date you if you give me vodka😉 Absolut and Stoli for the win! Picked up home bartending as one of my new favorite skills. Girls complain that I take too long making their margaritas, then taste it and are hooked🤣😂 | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | What hobbies do you recommend?I am much like you and enjoy cooking but also bar tending with home kit! I invite friends over once a week and they bring girlfriends which bring friends. You could even invite friend girls and their friends if you have some close! Cook a nice meal, make some drinks with it, laugh, and have a good time. No one ever leaves my place and is like “omg that was dead” when there’s kicka$$ street tacos and Strawberry Basil Ritas on the house! | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Date perfume recommendationA little girls perfume on the collar with your cologne. When she asks why you smell like that just kinda laugh and act like you don’t know what she’s talking about. Then be like “ohhhhhh, yeahhh. I remember now!”. Or “ah yes, I took blah blah blah (a friend) to get food earlier.” She’ll think you have another girl on the list of many and have to work harder | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 02:53 PM |
| 2 | HelpThanks! Looking it up now! | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 12:26 AM |
| 2 | any medication to help me get better at talking to girls?Fr, fucking leave it to American/modern culture😂 anytime we got a problem, take a pill. Big pharma has created a monster of thinking there’s a magical pill or food for everything, when half of them open up REAL health problems (even if they don’t crop up instantly). One of the reasons old people in the US here struggle bouncing from one health problem to another is due to having a pill for every single thing that hits their mind | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:18 PM |
| 2 | HelpThanks brotha!! You’re right, I do need to put myself in uncomfortable scenery | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 08:55 PM |
| 2 | HelpThanks brother! Next time they are there I’ll go and see how it goes!! | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 08:54 PM |
| 3 | This Girl I’ve been talking to Posted about me on tik tok.Same. Those women have too much attention and they take advantage of it. You hit the nail on the head and it’s a painful truth any guy going for a media girl needs to see. I wasted two years chasing one of these girls before I realized she basically lived 3 lives: 1 in reality, 1 in school, and 1 for her followers. It’s literally like a psychological disorder the woman brings on herself once she realizes having a cute face and a nice body can get her unlimited attention online by doing a little … | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 10:47 PM |
| 4 | This Girl I’ve been talking to Posted about me on tik tok.This backs up my comment above. Idk why it’s getting downvoted, it’s the truth. The social media “influencer” bullsh$t is the worst thing to happen to women in the modern era. It causes a lack of need for a man in a TikTok/Insta/Snapchat famous woman’s life. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 10:22 PM |
| 30 | This Girl I’ve been talking to Posted about me on tik tok.TikTok girls… smh. I learned this one the hard way OP😂 my girl explained “the perfect date” on TikTok to her several thousand followers and it matched our first date exactly. Here I am a year and a half later having blocked her bc she’s thirsty as hell for one, two she calls me insane for thinking she wanted anything to do with me (after she used me for a Valentine’s date so she could post a picture of two plates at an overrated expensive restaurant), and three (the big one) SHE’S addicted to TI… | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 10:19 PM |
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