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There was a post on here not too long ago that claimed OF content creators and sex workers exploit men by taking advantage of their loneliness/horniness. Pretty sure you have to be the pursuer in an OF/SW situation. So no, claiming that you’ve been the victim of a sexual situation you’ve pursued yourself is not a gendered phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:58 AM
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Some people want to conserve the status quo. Some people want progress. That’s not groundbreaking. That doesn’t mean most people take the position that white people are more attractive, women’s sexuality should be controlled, and all women lie as OP assert above.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:31 AM
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What? Support for gay marriage was at 60% in 2015 when the Supreme Court ruled in favor of making it legal( not imposing it, you don’t have to marry a guy if you don’t want to.) It didn’t increase significantly after the ruling; the increase in support continued to increase around the same rate it had been since 1997 when the poll was first conducted. The law tends to lag behind cultural norms, which is intentional. 87% of people believe marijuana should be legal for medical or recreational use …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:49 AM
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So people who claim otherwise are lying? Why would they do that if it’s the dominant position?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:39 AM
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If you mean we don’t want to fuck Trump supporters who believe white people are more attractive than people of other races and that women’s sexuality needs to be kept under control for the good of society, then yes, we think the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:50 PM
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You keep saying the same thing over and over but don't address any of the points made.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:20 PM
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The guy went on the internet to ASK people what he should do. That’s why there was an internet conversation happening. He and his wife had decided together that a vasectomy was an option. He didn’t want to because of the possible pain and “loss of manhood”. People pointed out that in this context, when his wife has already had 3 kids (pregnancy and birth being a painful process) and they agreed they didn’t want more children, that it wasn’t unreasonable for him to take responsibility for birth c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:34 PM
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First of all, you didn’t answer the question. Second, what is with the near constant barrage of LMAOs and LOLs?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:50 PM
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Where did I say he was a bad person for not getting a vasectomy? What gaslighting? What do you suggest they do if they’re done having children and want to keep having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:45 PM
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So did you read anything else or were you too busy LYAO? The man wants to continue having sex with his wife who has already had 3 babies and is still taking responsibility for the birth control. Meaning she has been pregnant for a total of 2 years and 3 months. She's gained and lost weight, collected stretch marks, and probably pees every time she sneezes or laughs. She's pushed a human being out of her body 3 separate times. Is it unreasonable for her to ask him to have a vasectomy if he wants …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:53 AM
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One of the posts is a year old, the other is nine years old. The 1 year old post is deleted, but the context for the 9 year old post was the wife had given birth to 3 of their children and they both agreed they were finished having kids. Here is the top comment: Like other commenters have said: absolutely do not get any surgery that you’re not comfortable with. You will resent your wife if you feel forced to do it. That said, your wife probably feels that you “owe” her. Pregnancy does a lot of d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:17 AM
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How did you check her on her behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:13 AM
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I agree with her; she described how an emotionally intelligent man will let you know when he disagrees or doesn’t like something said. Do you consider that “putting someone in their place” or correcting them? To me it sounds like letting them know what you will and won’t tolerate. That’s not putting someone in their place, it’s just moving them out of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:46 AM
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How would an emotionally intelligent man “put a woman in her place”? How does he determine when a woman needs to be “corrected”?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:25 PM
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Why would that be a problem? You simply can't ignore it? You mean like not make up hypothetical situations in which data proved something I wish were true and then preemptively decided how the people the data described would respond? Yeah, I think I could handle that. But on top of that, it's just disgusting and unhygienic. If you aren't sleeping with these women, why would that be a problem? Can't you just ignore it? (Also, safe sex practices exist). Even so, you're acting like women aren't com…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:24 PM
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I mean let’s be honest even if some miracle study was published showing definitive proof that women are sexually active at a far higher rate than men, y’all would dismiss it or try conjure some validation. Maybe we would. But no doubt men would go off about how women are entitled hoes who only sleep with the top 20/10/5/.05% of men and that’s why so many women are having sex and so many men aren’t. Some would probably throw in a veiled threat like “when men don’t get the sex they need, societies…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:38 PM
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From the article: For some populations (e.g., sexually active young women, MSM), more frequent testing may be driving the increases in reported cases to the CDC. In addition, rates of gonorrea and syphilis have both increased in men. Rates of gonorrea in men Rates of syphilis in men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:48 PM
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Women’s anatomy makes them more susceptible to STIs. The vaginal lining is thinner and allows for bacteria and viruses to penetrate, and the warm moist environment inside the vagina is ideal for pathogens to replicate. Here is the data that takes about 2 seconds to find: Source 1 Source 2 Source 3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:50 PM
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Minstrels, not pipers, got it. What solutions do you propose?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:30 PM
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Wait, the piper is expensive or the dance is expensive? And why didn’t the piper demand the funds upfront? Insane expensive dances should at least require a deposit, don’t you think? If the party is ending and “the piper for this insane dance is going to be very expensive,” what’s going to happen when the same people you couldn’t even nail down for a date after swiping right hundreds of times a day for years are supposed to pay a piper for a dance that’s already over? Not a good business plan, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:45 PM
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You can’t force someone to provide you with love and intimacy. You can create a situation where women are forced to be with you, you can even force them to have sex with you and force them to have and raise your children. But you will never get love or intimacy by demanding it. So I’m still unclear on how men will “not willingly let” women not have relationships with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:24 AM
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Being told you are irrelevant in society and not having a relationship with a woman are two different things. Of course men aren’t irrelevant; that doesn’t mean they necessarily get to have a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:54 AM
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The reaction to what? Women not dating you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:35 AM
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They are not going to willingly let us do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:27 AM
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Yesterday you were a single dad complaining about how poorly women treated you because you had a kid. Now you’ve had “more than a few dates” with multiple beautiful women. What do you think the response would be if a single mom was on here bragging about how many men she had slept with after meeting them on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:18 PM
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Where are you getting this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:15 AM
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And your claim wasn’t “women treat single dads badly”, it was women don’t want anything to do with single dads. Now you’re saying it’s a negative but they can look past it if you’re attractive enough? Isn’t that the privilege you claimed single moms have?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:44 AM
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Then why do 41% of single dads live with a partner vs. 16% of single moms? Doesn't that suggest women are more willing to have relationships with single fathers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:27 AM
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So is being a single dad "an instant disqualifier" because "most women don't want anything to do with you" or are you fine if you can attract women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:17 AM
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So you're a single dad who has dated multiple women in their 20s and 40s and currently has a girlfriend. By your own admission your dating life is fine. And you're not alone: 41% of single fathers live with a partner compared to 16% of single mothers. Maybe you aren't getting the demographic of women you want, but your own reported experience and the data at large don't back up your statement that there is a double standard at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:41 AM
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Do you wear a seatbelt? Are there airbags in you car? Do you practice defensive driving?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:17 PM
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The vitriol comes from feminists demonstrating time and time and time again that their words and grandstanding when it comes to equality mean absolutely jack shit. I can only speak for the US, but here the "vitriol" is coming from conservative members of Congress like Josh Hawley, Tom Cotton, James Inhofe, Roger Wick, Chip Roy, Steve Daines, and Mike Rounds-not individuals who tend to identify with feminism. A number of women have attempted to or at the very least have voiced support for requiri…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:37 AM
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It's the only biologic purpose any of us have. In the context of evolution, reproduction is one of our main purposes. But do you believe it's our sole purpose? As in, if you don't do it, you have no value? Are people who are unable to have children essentially purposeless? What about people who don't have their own children but spend their lives working with and caring for other people's children? Are they also without purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:21 AM
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75% of women have an automatic in-group bias, 25% of men have an automatic pro-women bias. Does the article discuss where the bias stems from? The link only provides the abstract.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:44 AM
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Why do you have to divorce? Why can’t the man say I don’t love you the way you are because you changed. If she becomes healthier nothing breaks Found the problem. You don't have to lie. You can say "I don't love you the way you are because you changed." You can call her a disgusting pig and that your dick retreats into your body at the sight of her. Go nuts. But you don't want to just be able to tell a woman the truth about how you feel, you also want her to "not lose her shits", stay with you e…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:07 AM
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Okay, I just found the post you're talking about. Here are some responses from women. You can argue that you don't agree with the advice, but there is nothing here I would label as unempathetic: Just say you’ve been focusing on other goals and you’re finally at a point where you want to focus on dating & romance. Tell the truth but in the most positive way. Like selling a house, it’s not old and broken, it has a lived in charm. I stand by honesty, if he’s honest about why he’s not experienced th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:53 PM
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That is what the above responder said to do: I told him he has three options: to postpone revealing the truth, to lie and most likely face consequences if he dates long-term…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:58 PM
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What could someone have posted for you to label them as empathetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:48 PM
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Okay, if we go by this logic and agree that both having a high n-count is a sign of moral failing and it matters how hard it is to achieve, then men with high n-counts (or even attempt to obtain high n-counts)are much worse than women with high n-counts, because they have to go out of their way to engage in an immoral behavior. We could say that women lack self-control by having sex with a lot of people, but men are actively pursuing sex with many people, which (if we’re going with this high n-c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:37 AM
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The original study was conducting a genetic molecular analysis of Dutch prisoners and found that the most anti-social and violent individuals had low activity MAOA activity alleles. When it was studied in the context of child abuse victims, MAOA-L (low activity genotype) was correlated to higher incidences of violence, but later studies have found that simply attributing that behavior to a gene was overly simplistic and the interplay of physiological and environmental factors played an important…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:33 PM
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I think the warrior gene kind of disproves that, it’s just that once genealogical origins are found, the research moves into the realm of evolutionary biology. The warrior gene (MAOA) proves the opposite. The Samoans were found to have high rates of individual with MAOA, and researchers used this information to explain the high rates of violence and crime in their communities. However, they did not take into account environmental, cultural, or epigenetic factors: While MAOA may indeed have an in…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:53 AM
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The person I replied to asked the guy how he was doing several times. When the guy finally broke down and shared he was struggling with a sick child and had to work 3 jobs, he made a point to check in with him twice a month. I can’t imagine anyone calling either of them a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:19 PM
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Everyone should, yeah. I think they’re a lot that don’t even have one. Especially parents with kids that need a lot of care, that can take a toll on a marriage and doesn’t leave much time for maintaining friendships. He’s lucky to have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:49 AM
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That's awesome! You might be the only person checking in with him, it's great you make a point to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:50 AM
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Sounds like a lonely guy. Did you reach out and try to connect with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:35 AM
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I know married men who haven’t had anyone ask how they are doing in a decade. If you know that, why haven't you asked them how they are doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:15 AM
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100% agree. It’s time we acknowledge that men’s actions are entirely dependent on whether a particular behavior will result in getting them laid, and let’s be honest ladies, that’s on us. So in the interest of making the world a better place, it’s about time we females used our power for the good of society. First, we’re going to need to immediately remove men from any position of power, whether that be political, financial, managerial-basically any leadership role. I mean, we cannot have people…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:30 AM
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So...no other examples besides Caitlyn Clark and your female friend, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:30 AM
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Well that absolutely settles it: a female friend told you! I mean, a good number of other women are telling you right now that they do not hate all women and actually have some wonderful relationships with other women, but if your friend told you, it must be true. She will be tried for treason at our next Sisterhood of False Niceties meeting. So you clearly have rock solid evidence that women secretly hate each other and only pretend to like each other (seriously, who can refute "I have a female…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:25 AM
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Attention is not a finite resource. One woman receiving attention does not mean the other women are treated as if they're invisible. Why are we continuing to act like we're in high school? If men aren't watching then how do you know women secretly hate each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:02 AM
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Okay, got it. A few questions before the competition begins: What am I competing for (I'm not really into basketball)? I'm married, so I'm not competing for a man. Are there cash prizes? Raffle tickets? Gift cards? Please don't let it be a trophy, those are such bullshit. How ruthless does this competition get? Like, do I need to cut a bitch or are a few rumors about a dog and some peanut butter sufficient? Where is this "behind the curtain" place and how did you obtain access to it? It seems li…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:50 AM
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Wait, what happened to our in-group bias and the Women are Wonderful Effect? Are we not doing that this week ladies? OP is right, women do hate other women, I was left out of this decision and have been enjoying other women's company this whole time. Oh well, women-hating it is. Will you bitches please let me know when we're back to upholding the gynecocracy/blind support of each other please?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:28 AM
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Right, you've mentioned that. Several times. So it would be logical to predict that if you lied to a woman about wanting to get married just so you could get sex and she left you, you'd be right back on Reddit complaining about how women are the ones who always initiate divorce. And I don't see a lot of "subliminal" shaming, just a lot of people either giving you reasons why marriage has been beneficial or telling you not to get married if you don't want to. Conflating those responses to "Fuck u…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:49 PM
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I dunno, the reasoning seems pretty logical to me. This is you, right? Women initiate 80% of marriage divorce Since when do men leave marriages, it’s mainly the women who leaves And women seem to hate it too, since they divorce 80% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:34 PM
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only care for sex. If that’s truly the case then I’m just gonna lie that I want marriage Yeah, and when she figures out you lied and leaves you you'll be right back on here with "women initiate 80% of divorces!"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:32 AM
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What are you proposing then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:43 AM
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Maybe he should have chosen better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:38 PM
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Have you told them their behavior bothers you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:15 AM
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So which is it, you respect and care for them, or you want them to chill the fuck out?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:12 AM
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Cool. But don't say you care for and respect them. There is a difference between criticizing the behavior of the women that hang out with your friend group and saying that women are on average boring, neurotic, and judgmental and should understand why men only value them for their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:48 AM
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I respect them and care for them. I simply just want time for my bros. they can be a real buzz kill with how judgemental, stand offish and neurotic they can be in group situations. You can't be chill with most women. But women I know just don't seem to feel the urge to make those around them feel joy or comfort and will 9/10 be the ones who will make things uncomfortable or awkward or create drama. Honestly, I just don't see the appeal of most women in social settings unless you're only interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:19 AM
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84.3% of women over 44 had given birth in 2020. 13.4% of men have served in the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:00 AM
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Reddit is anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:20 AM
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That’s not what being canceled is. He gets to say stuff. Other people get to reply to said stuff. He is continuing to say more stuff right now. No one is canceled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:56 AM
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Easy, I have him answer this simple multiple-choice question: "Which of the following would be more likely to result in me having an orgasm? A. Clitoral stimulation or B. Picking my itchy nose". If he answers B he's probably not good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:05 AM
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Sure it is! Narcissistic, obstinate males are an absolute pleasure to be around and do exactly as they’re told, first time, every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:20 AM
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You posted this question in 3 other subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:51 PM
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What? All she said was that she'd rather be single than in a relationship that didn't add to her life, and that she understands not everyone feels that way. The issue she has is when people berate other people's choices because both choices are fine. Where is this hostility coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:11 AM
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Where does she say she wants the top 0.0000001% of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:43 AM
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Wait, so are feminists telling us to choose abusive men and play the victim or accuse innocent men of things they didn’t do so we can claim victimhood? I missed the last feminist gathering (I was busy witch hunting, you know how it is) and I want to make sure I get it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:57 AM
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What I'm wondering is why minimal participation from women in a thread tagged as a question for men is interpreted as lack of empathy. The few women that did participate indicated empathy; if you read my response to /u/Concreteforester I think you'll find that I deeply empathize with men who have been abused/assaulted/raped and have made an effort to identify issues that are specific to male victims. But this was a space for men to talk about their experiences. As you've pointed out, men often p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 02:50 AM
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I agree with you in that men's experiences of being abused and assaulted are far too easily dismissed. You're right, there is no precedent regarding how to respond when a man is abused, especially when the abuser is a woman, and this results in situations in which men don't even have a framework to view their experience as abusive. I think being abused by someone you could conceivably overpower must wreak havoc on one's psyche; I imagine men who are raped by women struggle immensely due to socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:15 PM
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So this is a genuine question: if OP had asked about women’s experiences with assault and violence, do you think there would comments from men indicating empathy? This isn’t an “oh yeah, men suck too” or a “what about the women” retort, I’m truly curious if you think men would respond and what you imagine their responses would look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:29 PM
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Which woman's response is your favorite so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:07 AM
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I’m guessing Tide Pods or bath salts, they must be making a comeback.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:44 AM
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John Stewart
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:30 PM
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The only way to fix this is by women acting better and letting men lead. Which men? The trashy, lonely, angry, failing men, or the low-quality, weak, miserable men? Because it seems like it would make more sense to just cut our losses and let women lead, at least until you get your shit together. Hey, maybe you guys should do feminism! If it made women "act just like men", imagine what it could do for actual men! Gather your pussy hats gentlemen, we ride at dawn!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:30 AM
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What do you want in exchange for paying? Do you want to order her food? Do you want complete cooperation? Would it bother you if your date is only acting accepting the date and acting feminine and pleasant because you paid for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:20 AM
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That’s an interpretation of the facts. The facts are the that the OP had sex with a lot of women who had sex with a lot of men. Whether or not that makes anyone a whore or determines how much they do or do not respect themselves has to do with personal judgement, not facts. Which goes back to my original statement: having personal preferences or standards is fine. Insulting people who don’t meet those standards is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:26 AM
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Which part is factual?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:54 AM
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yes born again manwhore after having sex with lots of whores that don't respect themselves as much as I didn't respect myself at the time I think I found the problem. There is nothing wrong with having standards or preferences. Most people have a list of qualities they prefer in a partner, otherwise we'd all be in relationships with random people indiscriminately. The problem isn't that you prefer woman who don't have a lot of sex or go out drinking. The problem comes in when you insult and judg…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:20 AM
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I mean in the context of this discussion: you said you were frustrated seeing guys who lack empathy find relationships because they’re conventionally attractive (understandable feeling) and that it made you feel like empathy didn’t matter. I’m wondering if you mean there’s no point in having empathy at all or if women don’t care if you’re empathetic or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:58 AM
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Do you mean you having empathy for other people doesn’t matter or just that having empathy isn’t important to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:40 AM
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But you DO accept that people are going to try to steal your car. That’s why you have locks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:28 AM
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Which is why I qualified my statement by saying the reply was a suggestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:51 PM
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Noted. Now let's consider the language used to describe the respective situations: Women: "mix of positive and negative attention" Men: " a life of virtually zero attention, with little or no affirmation from anyone". Again, I'm up for nuanced discussion (I mean, not right now, I've already procrastinated enough). I'm sympathetic to both men and women's situations. I fully acknowledge that a significant portion of the male population is struggling due to lack of human connection. Receiving virtu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:05 AM
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You are boiling down a nuanced situation into black and white. No, I'm not. The OP implied the response to "women getting harassed sucks" was tantamount to "I agree. Now let's talk about a different aspect of this dynamic." I was pointing out that was not the essence of the response; the suggestion was that another situation was worse. If you are going to extrapolate his argument to then most extreme interpretation, then no productive discussion can ever be had. "Your reality is preferable to my…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:19 PM
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For you the conversation starts and ends with "Being harassed as a woman sucks." If someone replies, "I agree. Now let's talk about a different aspect of this dynamic." Your reaction seems tantamount to saying "No, we are only going to talk about how much being harassed as a woman sucks. To talk about anything else is to deny how much it sucks." The reply was It might expand your view to consider that a mix of positive and negative attention may still be preferable to a life of virtually zero at…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:51 PM
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It doesn’t sound like you love women, it sounds like you love fucking them. I mean, they have shit behavior, they’re a nightmare to deal with, they have ridiculous standards and expectations and dating them is ass. Besides sex, what exactly do ya’ll love about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:17 PM
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No one is angry. No one is complaining. The only angry person here is you because someone is pointing it out. I don't know, these give off an angry, complain-y kind of tone, don't you think? No one wants her pussy. There’s plenty to go around. However, the implication is that the man she describes has to be way above for her to even consider him. What gives her the entitlement that she deserves that top guy with those 6 stellar attributes? And even if she did find him, why does he have to settle…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:39 AM
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Infraction #1! Prepare to be fined!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:46 PM
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Where is this happening? Seriously, please give me the exact location in which average men gift random women thousands of dollars worth of accessories, makeup, steak, and iPhones while she sleeps with the college quarterback. And join me in a thought experiment if you will: imagine random women are buying you new cars, iPhones, steaks, giving you $1,000 donations and messaging you every night while you fuck some hot 19 year old with an ass you can bounce a quarter off of. When women start talkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:38 AM
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This is what we do: Everyone wanting to participate in the dating market must register with on online database. AI will generate a rating for each individual. For men this rating will be comprised of height, income, profession, physical attractiveness, sexual ability, and sperm count. For women it will be beauty, youthfulness, waist-to-hip ratio, n-count, boob size, fertility, and ability to keep her sweet yap shut and make a sandwich. Ratings will adjust according (i.e., when a man gets a raise…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:17 PM
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I’m confused-is Jane friends with Stacy or Becky? Or neither? Is she also trying to date Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:02 PM
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I’m a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:19 AM
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Pretty sure she nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:16 PM
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No it isn’t. I provided links above. I’m not finding anymore research for you, “dude”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:59 AM
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The symptoms of autism are often missed by parents, especially first time parents who don’t have another child to compare their child’s development to. The symptoms vary widely and are not easily identified. Restrictive and repetitive behaviors can look like lining up items for one child, perseverating on a narrow range of topics for another child, and the inability to tolerance a change in schedule for third. Some autistic children start reading at 3 and have an extensive vocabulary, about 40% …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:15 AM
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What’s worse than nuclear? Double nuclear? Double DOG nuclear?!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:19 AM
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Wasn’t this you in another thread? Could you imagine what our society would be like if all men...everybody including those who look like George Costanza...only approached and would date women who were the correct body weight for their height. That would be a fucking trip! I would LOVE to see that become a reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:13 PM
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Actually, the majority are trafficked. You just don't know how many. I know 3 pimps myself dude. 3. The majority also start before they turn 18, and some of them are addicted to drugs or were groomed into it. Thank you for pointing this out. I work with kids in foster care. It is astounding how many children in the system are trafficking victims. Sex trafficking doesn't look like what most people think it does. Girls aren't chained up in dungeons or handcuffed to beds. It looks like "visiting" a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:28 PM
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That is exactly what the token system does minus Step 2. People do the same thing with 2 year olds except the moral behaviors are “have nice hands”, the immoral behaviors are “sticking your finger in the bad part of the doggy” and the incentives are are goldfish crackers. But I get it, morality is hard. We ladies will see if we can simplify the process at our morning lady meeting (before we discuss our 10 year plan for taking over the world using instagram and OF but after we discuss what our la…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:57 AM
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Just create incentive structures that reward morality and punish immorality. On it! Ladies, we meet at dawn! In the meantime, I’d love some input. How about sex tokens you can trade in at the end of the week? Every time you engage in morality (use the crosswalk, recycle, scroll past a F&F podcast, etc.) you get a token. Every time you engage in immoral behavior (not picking up your dog’s poop in a public setting, not returning your grocery cart, referring to women as “pussy”, etc.), you lose a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:03 AM
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Any reason why that might be?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:27 PM
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This is an interesting take considering a quick glance at your post history shows the majority of your interactions on Reddit are either on r/purplepilldebate or r/bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:01 PM
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YES!!! I work with kids too and this is one of my favorite things about men. The way they instantly turn on “fun” mode around kids is the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:06 PM
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YES!!! I work with kids too and this is one of my favorite things about men. The way they instantly turn on “fun” mode around kids is the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:06 PM
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Child mortality decreases the more industrialized a civilization gets, not when women are more educated, a correlation is not a causation. If you look at American child mortality prior to the 1920s, you will see this. The birth rates were fairly stable, whilst child mortality decreased. If you're going to argue against educating women, I suggest you start studying or Idiocracy is going to become a documentary mighty fast. Guess what else happened in the US in the 1920s? Women won the right to vo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:22 PM
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Educated women do have lower birth rates; their children also have lower infant mortality rates, while uneducated women give birth to more children who are much more likely to die before the age of 5. The single biggest factor, by far, in reducing the rate of death among children younger than five is greater education for women. Evidence indicates that when girls with at least a basic education reach adulthood, they are more likely than those without an education to manage the size of their fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:12 AM
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They meet in secret and channel their sexual energy into the universe. They’re the reason we have wi-fi.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:05 PM
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Her last sentence is "I want a partner to whom I am both physically and emotionally attracted." We are honest about what we're attracted to, and whenever we try to explain it, we're told we're lying, virtue signaling, or an outlier. Here's how attraction for many (not all) women works: In terms of looks, men are in three categories: 1.) 10/10 model, Chris Hemsworth (or the celebrity of your choice) clone; 2.) the 5'2 awkward guy with no jaw and a receding hairline; 3.) everyone else. Most guys f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:26 PM
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This is an excellent analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:04 AM
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There is a difference between saying “this is what happens if people don’t reproduce”, “people should reproduce”, and “people should reproduce with people they hate”. None of these are logically equivalent statements. True, but the discourse I was replying to was the following: Comment: What’s getting in the way of two consenting adults who WANT to be together? If the issue is lack of want on one side, then make yourself wanted. Response: If society goes from having healthy family formation, sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:43 PM
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Currently the people having the most children are the ones least able to provide them with adequate food, healthcare, education, or safe environments. That isn’t a moral judgment and there are a multitude of reasons for why this is the case; however, telling women that if they don’t lower their standards and have babies with men they can only tolerate or lamenting about dating trends instead of addressing the systems in place that result in the failure of our society to take care of the people t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:55 PM
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Sure, but the issue is less “women are too picky about who they fuck” and more “having and raising children is a tremendous undertaking and there are few supports in place for families.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:28 AM
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You heard him ladies: lower your standards or civilization as we know it will collapse! Seriously, “fuck me or the world will end” is the best argument I’ve seen on this sub, well done!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:12 AM
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If it were that beneficial for both parties you guys wouldn’t have to spend so much time and money convincing us to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:13 AM
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Cool, you do you. I’m going to take my anxious, paranoid, entitled self and watch some pimple popping videos. Early day tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 12:59 AM
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Since they don't want to be accountable for your selectiviness, they just keep their thoughts for themselves. I'm aware of the problem. There's nothing wrong with men being sexually attracted to multiple women. It becomes an issue when they will literally fuck ANYTHING and women are basically interchangeable. As in it does not matter who you are, what you say, what you do--if you've got a pussy, you'll do. And don't you have a job or something? Yesterday was a holiday in the US but holy shit, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 12:11 AM
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I have no idea what would have happened if I hadn't met him, I was young. Maybe I would have found someone else, maybe not. I would not agree it's a mental/moral/psychological thing fostered by any fears; I have a lot of single friends and the dating doesn't sound like a lot of fun. I have a lot of friends, my family, a great career-not being married doesn't mean being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:31 PM
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You just argue that women complain only because they are seen for their body and object of sexual desire,thus in a superficial way, and then now complain why man do the same when you value superficial traits such as those ones more than men do. So much so for "valueing what you are as person" before the body, uh?😂 Again, I'm not sure I understand what you're trying to say here. If you noticed, I put the words "average" and "above average" in quotation marks because I think it's a bullshit way to…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:26 PM
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Because your mating strategies may look weird in those situations for some men (as you are supposed to like sex as much as they do) while women look in a weird way the mating strategy of men (as they are supposed to be into you in a non sexual way first) I'm not sure I even understand what you're trying to say here. Women are supposed to like sex as much as men do? When did I claim that? I was responding to OP's complaint that women's egos were inflated because they receive so much attention fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:16 PM
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Dude, your entire contribution to procreation takes about 15 seconds of you engaging in the one activity that you think about ALL OF THE TIME. The only difference is your “seed” doesn’t end up in a gym sock you hide at the bottom of your hamper.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:28 PM
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Looks are included, but not the end all be all. I don't know how to explain this to some men. There are guys who I've found incredibly attractive physically until they started talking. There are guys that were "meh" until I got to know them and ended up being incredibly attractive. And the idea that it's not the case for men makes me incredibly grateful to be married and also lets me know that there is no way I'm entering the dating scene if anything ever happens to my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:19 AM
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Maybe I can help clear this up: if you start off as an absolute piece of shit and make an effort to be a better person, but you only level up to a dickhead...you're right, being a better person does not get women. The other issue is that if you are being a better person for the sole purpose of getting women to fuck you, you're not actually being a better person. It's kind of like Christians who are only good because they are afraid of going to hell--they aren't really good people, they're doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:02 AM
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Okay, if you guys are willing to fuck barnyard animals, risk your marriage to "nail a crack whore", or risk your job to flirt with or sleep with a coworker less attractive than your wives than you need to officially resign as the "logical" gender, stop calling women the "emotional" sex, step away from any leadership role, occupation, or title that carries any semblance of responsibility, and just let allow the women to take over everything. Jesus tap-dancing Christ, this description of men is in…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:49 AM
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...says the guy who cannot get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:37 AM
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Narcissistic, entitled, lying liars, egotistical...are those not terms of endearment?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:32 AM
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I can't wrap my head around the idea that we're supposed to be "held accountable" because there are men who will disingenuously pay lots of attention to women they don't care about because they're horny. I'm not unsympathetic to the fact that men struggle with overactive sex drives. I have no doubt it's frustrating. But when they indiscriminately lavish insincere words, time, and money on women they don't give 2 shits about on the off chance they might get laid and then turn around and call us e…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:29 AM
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They're called SSRIs. Go nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:07 AM
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I'm sorry, you post a CMV, she refutes your argument with links, and your response is "nuh-uh"?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:28 PM
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If what were true? If women were aware that men only pay attention to them because they're horny? I just provided a link in which women said exactly that. Some examples of women answering the question "why don't women have confidence even though they get attention from men": ​ To answer the question you did ask. Most women do not care or feel good about the drooling of random strangers. We know you guys do that about basically everyone who isn't a circus freak. It does not mean we're special, un…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:49 PM
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There is a discussion from 3 days ago on PPD in which the OP asks women how they can have low self-esteem when they get so much attention from men. If you read women’s responses, the majority of them say it’s because they are fully aware that the attention they receive is a result of men’s horniness rather than a genuine interest in who they are as a person. I am unsure why your tendency to be disingenuous to women so you can get laid is something women need to held accountable for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:53 PM
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If the issues are “I have to conform to something I disagree with” then yes, I have the same energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 02:06 AM
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My point is that it's important to acknowledge that we all have a choice to participate in seeking out relationships or not. If you choose to do so, you can choose whether or not to conform to standards you disagree with. If you decide that getting into a relationship is worth conforming to those standards, that's fine. If you decide that a relationship isn't worth conforming to those standards, that's fine too. But you are the one making the choice, no one is forcing you to participate. ​ You'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:22 PM
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If these things bother you, if you don’t want to conform to what you feel are women’s toxic gender expectations, if you believe women are shitty partners and losers and that you’ll be placed in an informal caste system even within a relationship, you are free to opt out of dating. No one is forcing anyone else to seek out or be in a relationship and frankly I don’t know why you’d want to go out of your way to seek companionship with a woman when you clearly find them to be vapid, shallow, hyperg…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:45 PM
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Then what is the point of participating in a debate sub with women? Let’s go with the idea that we’re all lying to make ourselves feel better. This is a CMV post. What could a woman possibly say to change your view if you’ve decided we’re all being disingenuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:28 PM
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Even if his female cousin were wrong about what women find attractive, it doesn’t negate the fact that she was not telling her cousin that looks don’t matter. She was telling him what she thought was helpful advice about how to be attractive to women: “you can enhance your muscle but don’t become too bulky.” Not, “don’t worry, women don’t care about looks”, not “you are fine the way you are”, simply “I don’t think bulky is attractive.” And maybe she meant “looks don’t matter” or whatever, but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:06 PM
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Okay, but the girl was giving advice on how to be more attractive, as in don’t get too bulky”. She didn’t say “don’t worry about working out, looks don’t matter”. This wasn’t a conversation about whether or not looks are important, it was about whether women find really jacked guys more attractive than guys who are fit but not huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:58 PM
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Where are you getting this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:34 AM
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Why not ask this same question about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:34 PM
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I didn’t say you dislike women, just that it sounds like the risks of dating them outweigh the benefits. Not having a partner sounds preferable to risking your physical safety, financial security, and mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:10 AM
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So honest question: why bother with dating women? If you have to risk rejection, pay for everything, are expected to lay your physical well-being on the line, can get fired, cancelled, or have a bunch of white knights threaten to beat your ass if you stand up for yourself, can lose half of what you own in a divorce—why are you even going near women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:24 AM
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Honest question: if women are privileged complaining idiots who can’t even be trusted to select an appropriate partner, why do you keep insisting on dating them? If I felt a group of people consistently made terrible choices and then whined about the outcome I would stay as far away from them as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:09 AM
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I dunno, I’ve witnessed several men act in similar and completely irrational ways in a way that women don’t. Like a married guy cheating on his wife with a bunch of other women and then making this huge drama when he gets one of them pregnant and his wife divorces him, takes the kids, and takes half the money. It’s like: you KNEW if she caught your lying ass she’d leave. I mean, of course women have their moments, but the rest of the time they’re objective and rational. That’s what you sound lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:59 AM
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Did you read either article?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:44 AM
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Having preferences is fine. It becomes problematic when you shame people who don't meet your standards; for example, calling women who have slept with a lot of people sluts or less attractive older women as "letting themselves go". I could have a preference for tall men (I don't, but as an example) and that would be fine. It would not be fine if I said "that guy is such a loser, I bet he doesn't even clear 5'4."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:51 AM
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Lol, thanks, I’ll let my therapist know this week’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:10 PM
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Perhaps the best ones have found better, which is why you seem to be unable find any.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:02 PM
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Don’t single men have a ridiculously high suicide rate compared to single women? Would that fact indicate that single men are not as content as you suggest?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:57 AM
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I am not confusing anything. First of all, using empirical evidence is logical: "Empirical evidence is related to the philosophical distinction between a priori and a posteriori reasoning. A priori reasoning, that is, without (or ‘prior’ to) evidence or experience is the sort of reasoning commonly used by logicians, philosophers, and mathematicians. a posteriori reasoning is based on observation and empirical evidence." I made an observation that his response sounded emotional. That is a logical…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:47 AM
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I corrected you by Explaining I was neither being 100% serious nor emotional about it and I even basically said sorry for disappointing you that I wasn't being totally serious LOL Perhaps you're not being totally serious, but giving false claims that 80-95% of women think men are repulsive creeps is more of an emotional argument rather than a logical one, no? The point of engaging in a logical argument is to be able to prove or disprove a theory. Probably would think "oh" and not detect the sarc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:49 AM
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What was wrong about my observation and how did you correct it? And I didn’t ask you to correct anything, just to let the rational men you’ve clearly abducted go free. As for your comment to another user, if it was flipped and a women exaggerated facts to make a point, would you label her logical or emotional?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:56 AM
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I simply made an observation about your comment. Your facts are incorrect (you can't operationally define "repulsive creep" or "handsome", they're subjective terms), your percentages are way off, you don't list your sources, and then you speculated about my emotions when I gave no evidence of feeling one way or the other. Where are you keeping all of these rational men I keep hearing about? They're not in the basement, are they? It's always the basement...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:42 PM
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It’s really as simple as that. We all have emotional biases. Men and women. But logic and reason do not matter when it comes to any issues pertaining to intersexual dynamics since women will always be biased towards what the majority of women think moreso than men. ​ Goodwin stated that our biases do not occur in a vacuum: if one experiences more positive interactions with women (such as a mother or female caregiver), that person will have a more favorable attitude towards women. If one has nega…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:16 PM
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Correct me if I’m wrong, but this sounds like a rather emotional response.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:24 PM
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The type of incel woman have a problem with are the ones who call us foids, toilets, whores, cunts, and cumdumpsters on the regular and spend 90% of their time on incel sites writing about their mass murder and rape fantasies because pretty women don’t want to fuck them. I feel bad for the lonely guys who want a relationship and don’t know where to start. I feel terrible for the men who were bullied and have social anxiety and are depressed because they can’t find a willing partner. But those gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:37 PM
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On that note, how often is the “crazy cat lady” trope dragged out as a precautionary tale to single women? Saying “we don’t need men” is a response to a collective understanding that we are supposed to need them by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:11 AM
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I think it would be great, I think it's needed. Women should be encouraged to ask for what they want in relationships. If that's going to happen though, (and keep in mind, I have no skin in the game, I'm happily married so this is not personal), this whole "n count" thing that some guys seem to be obsessed with is going to need to be dealt with. Because as a society, we can't encourage women to pursue men and then shame then when they're successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:25 AM
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So... stop pursuing women and see what happens. Make a movement of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:37 AM
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Yeah, I get it. And all of that would work if it wasn’t for the “kinda funny to hear it straight from the horse’s mouth” part. Like “see, even women admit they don’t want to do lady stuff anymore!” I get teasing, dude. If you had said that to her, it probably would have been cute. But in the context of this discussion in which OP suggests women have nothing to offer, your comment implies you’re supporting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:41 AM
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So this thin, attractive woman who works as a physical therapist and can therefore bring financial security, education, and caretaking skills to a relationship also needs to microwave your pizza rolls in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:17 AM
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Okay, then either women are brilliant and are able to somehow convince men to have relationships with them even though they contribute nothing or men are fools who have no idea they’re being taken advantage of. Which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:17 AM
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I’m giving you this information freely, independent of the context of the above conversation . You clearly detest women as a whole. From your comments it appears you think you need to engage with women beyond a cursory level. You do not. Take that information and be free.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:32 PM
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Buddy, I have excellent news for you: you don’t have to date women. Like, at all. You can refrain from spending money on them, reproducing with them, you don’t even need to talk about the prospect of being in their presence if you don’t want to. You can be minimally civil to them in public and go about your day. I don’t know who is telling you differently, but being single is a completely acceptable (and in your case preferable) option. 100% your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:11 PM
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That’s one way to read it. Here’s another: “Women tend to be attracted to the entire person rather than just physical features. A man who, at first glance may not stand out, can become incredibly sexy when his wit, intelligence, self-awareness, and empathetic capabilities are revealed. Likewise, a man who may be considered attractive on paper-the quintessential “Chad”, for example, may be initially attractive but can quickly become rather repulsive once he opens his mouth and shares his thoughts…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:14 PM
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I’m just going to quote u/wintergreen233 since she already said it: “I’m not attracted to the vast majority of men, that doesn’t mean I find them “ugly,” and I find the large majority of women say similar. And it’s not that we “underrate” guys at first when we grow to find them more attractive, it’s that physical attraction and desire for many women simply works a bit differently than it does for many men.” It’s not just looks for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:10 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with being gay, it’s not an insult. But you just said you find 90-95% of women without make-up unattractive and that men are better looking. To be gay means to be attracted to the same sex. You aren’t attracted to the vast majority of women, so either you’re gay or asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:59 AM
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You know you’re free to date men if you want, right? If women are naturally unattractive and men are better looking overall, go snag yourself a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:50 AM
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Why are you so obsessed with the type of women other men should or shouldn’t be dating? You can have your preferences if you want. It’s not up to you tell other adults what to do, they can figure it out on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:01 AM
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Has anyone ever told you that you generalize a lot? Because holy shit, you generalize a LOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:07 AM
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And they say chivalry is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:33 AM
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What you are doing incorrectly: thinking you're a minimally good person. New technique: Recognize the truth: you ARE the Dark Triad; you just clearly lack the superficial charm. If you are only doing the bare minimum to appear to be a good human being to get pussy and are willing to to be a psychopath-to hurt other people so that you can have what you want-you are the absolute epitome of the callous, narcissistic, selfish, manipulative, grandiose and egotistical person that is the psychopath. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:38 PM
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So you're being a minimally good human so you can get pussy? And what happens if you don't get what you want? That's like evangelical Christians who are only good because they fear hell. If you're only doing the bare minimum so you can either get something from someone else or avoid something unpleasant, maybe you aren't as far from the Dark Triad as you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:08 PM
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Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:04 AM
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Well that was an incredibly thoughtful and nuanced response. Are you sure you aren't a woman? (Kidding!) I just think that those of us who are more able to make those distinctions, those of us who genuinely want a more productive shared social environment, should probably aim higher than that if we don't like it, to encourage others to do the same. Perhaps I'm just in the wrong place for the kind of discussions I want to have, but I think there's value in trying to contribute what you want to se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:03 AM
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That’s great, I’m glad you don’t feel this way. However, in the response above you mentioned that commenter was making generalizations based on one guy’s view. I’m pointing out that it’s a lot more than one guy. I know it’s a minority of men that say these things (and I’ll leave out the “what about-ism argument that many men on here frequently generalize women as a monolith, claim AWALT, etc.) but those men are also pretty loud and it’s understandable why OP would believe that many men only want…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:14 AM
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Allow me to raise the "standards of discourse": behold, comments from this subreddit (and all different people!): ​ Just lol at all the women here that get it twisted and say "then stop trying to have sex with us, if you hate us so much!" Listen lmao, my biology compels me to fk you, not respect you. I'd fk a pornstar if I had the opportunity, this does not mean I respect them. 😂😂😂😂😂 biology isn't allowing it, keep me attracted to [women]. Which so much that i was gay....Lucky bastards they dont…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:06 AM
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You heard it here ladies: keep your legs closed and make your hypothetical children proud!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:27 AM
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.. okay. Do me a favor, though: if you are ever visited by 3 ghosts on Christmas Eve, I would LOVE to hear about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:35 AM
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Absolutely! Your house is on fire? You better have a credit card, that fire fighters don't work for free! And I don't know what's up with all these bougie, lazy-ass liberals expecting someone to educate their kids, carry around their mail, haul away their trash, build their roads, lock up predators, and defend their borders. Fucking ridiculous. Just be careful though, if anyone tries to take you out for all that money you save on taxes, you're kinda on your own...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:46 AM
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Hence the bullet he wishes to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:37 AM
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It’s not the Dark Triad traits (lying, cheating, narcissistic behavior, aggression, etc.) that attract women. Narcissists and sociopaths are often experts at portraying themselves in a good light-at first. They attract women by APPEARING to be caring charismatic men because they know that’s how they can hook a date. THOSE traits are what women are going for. And eventually after a few weeks, months, whatever time passes, the mask starts to slip and he starts to reveal his ACTUAL traits: manipula…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:33 AM
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If she has sex with a guy on the first date, does she have have sex on the first date with all future guys to be considered respectful? Is there any wiggle room, for example can she wait until the second date or is it the first date for all guys no matter what? What if she has her period, does she have to have sex on the first date then or should she just reschedule the date? And if she doesn't plan on having a second date, does she still have to fuck him or can she opt out? Can this rule be res…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:10 AM
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Lol, I know, right?!?🤣🤣Imagine being so entitled that you demand being treated like a goddamn PERSON?! And wanted to have sex with someone that didn’t hate your guts?! Like, what are guys supposed to do, use the part of your brain that evolved after humans stopped throwing poo and clubbing women over the head so they could drag them back the cave without too much of a fight? You guys are right, our standards are way too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:21 AM
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“People here really gloss over abstract/intangible factors or think that some physical factor alone can carry someone” This is a reoccurring theme on this subreddit especially. So many of the people here display incredibly rigid thought patterns. Genders are considered monoliths, everyone must be grouped into categories and those categories must have a hierarchy, behaviors should function as algorithms so that if that guy does xyz and gets laid then I should get laid when I do xyz too, and if I …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:59 AM
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At no point did I play dumb. I stated an observation about what it appeared you were unhappy about (not playing dumb, truly curious if the issue was women complaining about the state of their own relationships or that you were unable to obtain one yourself), providing an alternative to your theory of the "feminist fantasy", and then sarcastically responding to your insistence that I am either unaware what feminists want or that I am lying. And even if I was trying to appear obtuse, what am I try…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:13 AM
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Or…you don’t recognize sarcasm. Because if you truly believe that was an attempt at a bait and switch and you just caught me…wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:38 PM
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“Human beings have a tendency to conceal their baser desires behind noble sounding rhetoric, it is a very common failing.” I wonder if this is the case when you claim “Really, the current state of sexual marketplace is genuinely good for very, very few people. It's not good for most men, it's not good for children, and it's not good for women over the long run. It's designed to be good for the feminist fantasy of what a woman should be like; the woman genuinely able to enjoy casual sex like a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:44 PM
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You’re right, what do I know about what feminists want? All I’ve got is this useless lady-brain. Hey, while I’ve got you, do you know what I want for dinner tonight? And how do I feel about gas prices, I just cannot figure that one out…thoughts are hard. Sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:16 PM
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I think the feminist fantasy is more about being viewed as a fellow human being and being valued for more than their age, waist to hip ratio, and n-count than it is about having casual sex with “top tier” men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:47 PM
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Okay Skippy, let me know what happens with that female psyche thing. Just give me a heads up when this new world order thing starts to go down, I’ll be watching The Little Mermaid and dreaming of a prince or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:18 AM
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Ngl, I pictured a bald guy with an eyepatch and an expensive suit delivering that response while slowly turning around in his leather swivel chair and stroking his evil looking cat aka Dr. Evil. (Deep sinister voice): “It’s all a game, it’s easier when you see it that way. Soon our power will be restored! Hmmwhahaha!” You guys are hilarious with this shit, it’s like you live in a video game!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:09 AM
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It's a simple question. How are you planning on making women see that they are not as valuable as they think they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:36 AM
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Huh. Well that's not very exciting. For a minute there it sounded like a diabolical but wise plot was being hatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:45 AM
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Brilliant! Love the idea! Okay, I have so many questions: 1.) How does a person get placed into a league? Do you submit an application? Is there a committee? Can I be on it? 2.) What are people being rated on? Are the categories weighted, like appearance is 50%, n-count is 25%, etc. 3.) If you lose weight or get a new job or something, can you move up leagues right away or is there a process? 4.) How much wiggle room is there? Can a 4 date a 5, or can people only strictly date within their leagu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:41 AM
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...and then what happens? After all the dudes wise up, what happens then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:58 AM
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Yes that's fine, but when Miss Basic Bitch McSide-Chick rolls around with all her predictable whining about 'men aint shit', 'what happened to men?', 'why don't these men know how to treat women these days?', 'who is raising these men today?' It sounds like your issue is not so much that women are dating "out of their league" but that they're complaining when they aren't successful when they don't get the relationship they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:49 AM
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How are you going to make women see their value?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:43 AM
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Okay, just so I’m clear: once a woman has sex with a guy she’s dating right away, she is obligated to have sex right away with all future guys she dates? Is there any wiggle room? Can she wait 2 dates instead of 1, or does it have to be on the first date for every guy? What if she has her period, can she wait then, or does she have to fuck him anyway? Is the time she makes him wait measured in number of dates or just length of time between agreeing to go out and then having sex? Is the time list…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:14 PM
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OMG, ALL the nerves!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:22 PM
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Does that mean you're not going to chase me?! I'm slowly...losing...my...self-worth...please come back...[FIN]
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:12 PM
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Uh-oh ladies, they’re onto us! Who told? I thought we all agreed at the last Alpha Lovers Beta Suckers meeting we were gonna keep this information to ourselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:07 PM
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Well, she can compliment you directly and to her friends, the two aren’t mutually exclusive. And when I speak positively about my husband to my friends, I’m not trying to make them attracted to him, that thought would never even cross my mind. I’m proud of him and I want to share that with my friends—I mean, the idea that I’d brag about my husband so my friends would be attracted to him is just…bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:52 PM
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A common complaint on this sub is that men never get compliments. Now women are complimenting men to their friends and you're mad? What. Do. You. Guys. Want?!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:45 AM
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This entire conversation has restored my faith in humanity for at least a few hours. Thank you both!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:27 AM
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My friend met my then-boyfriend and when he went to the bathroom she told me to “ditch the nerd.” I married him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:25 AM
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Right, they started it, gotcha. Just keep you and your dry dick out of the dating pool until you’ve learned to stop peeing in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:03 PM
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NO ONE can say wtf i am doing wrong Let me give it a shot: The hypocrisy you display is so blatant that either you are a troll or one side of your brain is not communicating with the other.: You criticize women for not recognizing how wonderful you and other guys like you are because "being a good person/dedicated/well adjusted citizen is irrelevant most of the time" and then complain that "cool people are really rare and i have to sieve through a lot of shitty people to find cool ones, and from…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:53 AM
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You need to not date. Ever. Go MGTOW, join an all-male commune, live off the grid, something. Try to keep the open hostility to a minimum in public, but absolutely interact with women as little as possible. Your lack of self-awareness is astounding. You don't want a relationship, you want a pussy and you're pissed off that it's attached to a person who won't let you use it. You're like the kid who's only "friends" with a guy because he lets you use his pool. Let's be real here: you want to treat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:12 AM
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I don’t know if this applies to all women (and I’m married) but most of the women I know who are dating and concerned about safety aren’t worried that the guy they go out with is going to haul off and murder them on a first date, they’re worried about things that a guys says or does that suggests that getting into a relationship with this person might not be the smartest idea. They aren’t saying “dang, the way he uses emojis is weird, I bet he has a freezer full of heads”, it’s more like, “I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:48 PM
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Yeah, I'm married. I've been married for years. We have amazing sex, we both make money, although I make about twice as much as he does. I'm not with him because he provides me with materials, he's not with me because I provide him with sex. It's not a transaction. We're together because we're partners and we're invested in each other. We care about what the other person thinks and feels and we enjoy spending time together. And we're not rare. I truly hope you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:38 PM
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Jesus, that is psychotic. I need to stop visiting this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:20 PM
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Okay. Then why do you want to be with a woman? I cannot for the life of me understand how you can describe a group of people as hypergamous and incompatible with long term relationships and entitled and lacking empathy and all the other things you think women are and then turn around and complain that you can't find one to have a relationship with. Why would you want to? Is it just for the sex? The validation? And if that's the case, aren't you just as shallow and entitled as a woman who seeks o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:45 PM
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I’m a behavior analyst, this sub is like gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:36 PM
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Yes! Can it be like a support group? We can call it FPPDLA (Female PPD Lurkers Anonymous).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:05 PM
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You aren't debating, though. You're just telling a whole bunch of women you don't know how they feel and what their subconscious is telling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:05 AM
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And you should stop parroting PUA red-pill pseudoscience about what women think. It's annoying, knock it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:00 AM
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I think you should take a page from his playbook: In my opinion men in such situations and even some women would be better off and arguably happier if they accepted reality for what it is and discontinued the pursuit of love including managing sexual urges with prostitution and trying to shift their lives away from seeking validation from the opposite sex. Honestly, he sounds like an amazing person. He's clearly in a shitty situation and it sucks that he's not able to find a partner. But not onc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:50 AM
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The comment is not a reaction to you being a virgin or not being a virgin, it's a reaction to your insistence that you know how all women think when it's clear you are not hanging out with a whole lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:21 AM
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I have to say, I am really impressed. For someone who probably last saw a vagina right after emerging from the birth canal, you seem to be pretty knowledgeable about how women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:10 AM
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The problem with trying to simplify and generalize complex ideas is you get crap like this: Either AFBB is real or women want to be in relationships with all the men they have sex with. Get genes from the alpha, then find a beta to get resources and commitment from. I'm all for breaking down complicated theories to make them easier to understand, but you have to stop with that "all men/all women" "either/or" "alpha/beta" shit. It is not black and white. I understand the desire to have a rule tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:47 AM
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Human behavior is the result of a variety of factors: biology, our environment (social constructs like religion, media, access to resources, health, etc.), genetics, learning history, etc. Yes, we have biological instincts that influence our behaviors, but there are other aspects at play. Really, it's not about "liking or not liking" the explanation other than it's annoying to keep seeing people who don't know what they're taking about attempt to use science to explain why men can have sex with …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:15 AM
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Some other ways human women (and men) are pretty unique: They are able to adapt to just about every environment on the planet and have a presence on every continent; They communicate using a complex system of sounds, symbols, and gestures; Because of this system, they have a framework to conceptualize the past and the future; They have the ability to rationalize, formulate opinions and defend them, plan, organize, and execute complex tasks, and categorize our environment; They regulate their rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:14 AM
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So having laws and a system that creates a requirement for women to deal with men has been a common deal since forever, we got rid of that and it became a shitshow. This is certainly an interesting take. So women need to be legally required to deal with men? Why do you think that is the case and what do you think that says about men? You say that women's value is basically intrinsic--is that only because women offer sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:03 PM
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It sounds like you’re suggesting that the only way men can get what they want is by taking away rights from women, am I understanding that correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:46 PM
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Where are you getting this information? I work with children with disabilities as well as children in the foster care system. Do you have any idea how many unwanted children there are? Well meaning people adopt babies with disabilities all the time-and return them once they find out how difficult it is to meet their needs. The amount of children in the foster care system that are involved in sex trafficking would make you sick. No one is lining up to adopt these kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:15 PM
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Okay, although I feel like this will be an exercise in futility…but here it goes: Here is a recent analysis of spousal income and household/childcare labor by gender. It turns out that women’s workload at home increases relative to her increase in salary. Here’s another study that shows that even when both partners are equally educated and earn similar salaries, men engage in more leisure activities while women take on the child care. I guess they could just decide it’s not a joy to do and stop …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:30 PM
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Dear child, you have done nothing but whine. We get it, you don’t like feminists. You’re not obligated to engage with them. Do the MGTOW thing, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:11 AM
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Then again, for me, being 100% independent and doing 100% of everything myself ensures there is no whining about "me not doing my share". Yeah, good thing there’s no whining…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:31 PM
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Huh. Maybe the next post can be about "modern women's assess". That could be fun...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:34 AM
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Okay...again, having less than endearing personality traits such as entitlement, delusion, laziness, and complacency will have natural consequences to the people that embody them: they won't attract a partner that meets their criteria. There is no need for you to enter into the equation or tell people who are what they "deserve". If you think "bbw" and "plus size is silly, that men are spending too much money on OF and too much time on video games and that they should be embarrassed, congratulat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:33 AM
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Why is it worthy of criticism? Moreover, why is it worthy of your criticism? If a person can't attract someone who meets their standards, the natural consequence is they remain single. Why do you feel it's your place to criticize as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:36 AM
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White men account for 70% of suicides. Maybe looking into antidepressants isn’t the worst idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:30 PM
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Lol, okay Cassanova. r/ihadsex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:06 PM
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What if said man already has a romantic partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:30 PM
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So what you are saying is men only value women because they offer the potential of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:15 PM
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For real! Comments from this thread: If a woman does not think I am good enough to want me to fuck her she now has a quality that makes her not good enough for me to want to have anything to do with her. Simple. ​ I decline because I know if I'm your friend you'll pretty much be able to get me to do anything a boyfriend would do for you. Except there's no sex. So I rather do all those things for a woman who actually wants to be with me. ​ My take: Female friendships are generally of no value whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:43 AM
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I make plenty of my own money. I want a partner, not a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:21 AM
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I’d go so far as to call that behavior…neurotic. Hey, you weren’t in OP’s study, were you?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 06:11 AM
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Looking back, I completely misread your original comment (darn insomnia scrolling!) I 100% agree with you. Need to work on my reading comprehension skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:47 PM
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Okay, first: by "encouraging happiness", do you mean the person being propositioned should agree to date someone even though they don't want to? I'm not trying to be a jerk or debate, I'm truly curious what the ideal outcome of this would be: it sounds like the potential "rejector" should accept all advances regardless of their attraction to the person pursuing the relationship. So here is a hypothetical question: imagine you have a genuine friendship with another guy. He helps you move; you dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:03 AM
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How does having a disappointing orgasm with an ugly woman who makes you feel uncomfortable make you feel like your life isn't pointless? Serious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 09:40 PM
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Wait, why can’t guys turn it down?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:10 AM
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The post is CMV, having an argument is literally the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:03 AM
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Nobody suggested that anyone has to do something they don't want to do. However, the op posits that in order to avoid frustrating men and appearing egotistical, "unattractive women" need to date men who hit on them even if they aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:31 AM
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Hold up: my comment was in response to the (victimizing?) statement that men's health was not studied as extensively as women's. I'm not looking to be a victim at all, I'm just pointing out that it is more complicated than "it is well documented that there is significantly more funding and research in diseases that primarily affect women."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:35 AM
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Well, we do grow other human beings, give birth to them, and then feed them for a good 6 months or so. We have a lot of moving parts, a lot more can go wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:25 AM
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If you are fortunate enough to live into your 80s or 90, you're probably going to either die of cancer or heart disease. If you escape those, you'll probably get taken out by colon cancer, kidney disease, lung cancer, etc. The average age of a man who dies from prostate cancer is 80 and the survival rate of those who catch it early is 99.9%. Which is not to say it's not a problem and shouldn't be addressed, of course it should. But enough with the whole "_________ has it worse than __________." …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:23 AM
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What documents have you read? Because I've seen the opposite: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33232627/ Spoiler alert: NIH applies a disproportionate share of its resources to diseases that affect primarily men, at the expense of those that affect primarily women. https://www.liebertpub.com/doi/10.1089/jwh.2020.8682 TLDR: Gender bias has been an ongoing issue in health care, examples being underrepresentation of women in health studies, trivialization of women's physical complaints, and discrimi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:06 AM
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Yeah, we've just barely scratched the surface of epigenetics, it's pretty fascinating. I work with kids who've been adopted within weeks of birth into loving, stable homes; so many of them display the symptoms of PSTD, even though they didn't grow up in an abusive environment. There is research suggesting that if their parents experienced trauma and developed PTSD, epigenetics modified the expression of the genes they passed on to their offspring, essentially causing their biological children to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:19 AM
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You have a fair point-you did not suggest that women owe something to men, that was my bad. I apologize. You're right in that there is a more complex problem at hand and it has not been answered. My comment came from repeatedly hearing comments such as this: (Question was explain it like I'm 5: why do you [men on the sub] want to even spend time with, let alone be in a relationship with, a woman when you clearly dislike us?) Answer: Sex. Men want sex to the point of needing it. If men had access…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 02:38 AM
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Everyone has heard this response as well, it is also not a genuine attempt at solving the problem, it's another way to try and make women feel guilty for not fucking people they aren't attracted to. It's the adult form of "C'mon, I've got blue balls", if you will. ​ The fact that you are too horny is not the issue. The fact that you are too horny and decide that because you have a need, someone else needs to do something for you and if they don't, they're being unfair/manipulative/think they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 05:17 AM
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This is my favorite response.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:15 AM
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Okie dokie. I wish you the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:03 AM
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I’ll definitely let them know, but just as an aside: for someone who could truly give a fuck less about society’s approval, you seem to have a few unresolved fucks left.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:40 PM
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It IS doing us a favor. I would never shame a guy who checked out. If you don't like women and you take steps to make sure you won't need them, I think that's fantastic. I respect MGTOW (the ones who actually go their own way, not the ones who say they will and then yell about women all day) and anyone else who is self-aware enough to realize that they don't need to engage in certain societal expectations if it makes them and other people unhappy. My problem is when people who hate/barely tolera…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:08 AM
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Yeah, women can be assholes. I'm not suggesting that women are somehow superior to men in any sense. The comment above is referring to women who say they don't want to be in a relationship unless it is meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:40 AM
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Fantastic, all we have to do is chemically castrate the guys who think this way and we’ll be good. Fortunately I think it’s a really small number overall but goddamn it ya’ll are loud as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:20 AM
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What did I say that makes you think I hate men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:49 PM
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I 100% agree with you. Honestly I think the majority of men are awesome and you guys deserve a place to connect and support each other. If you've tried to do that and have been banned I'm sorry; I think it's short sighted and hypocritical to treat men as if they are a monolith. I can absolutely appreciate that men's complaints about relationships are more nuanced than simply not getting laid; that's just not the common theme running through this particular subreddit. Society has unfair expectati…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:44 PM
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First, Purple Pill Debate is supposed to be neutral so if you’re going to vent on here expect pushback. Second, here are a few examples of comments from this sub. Took about 3 minutes to find them all: -Us unattractive men will stop lying to women to get sex when prostitution becomes legal so until then women have to just deal with it. -Lol, imagine dating a woman for her personality -Men want sex to the point of needing it. If men had access to concubines, transactional relationships would be p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:36 PM
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You should see me when I’m mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:07 PM
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So you want us to give you sex and if we don’t, you want to demand it and/or yell about how terrible we are for not fucking you and you don’t want us to protest or argue. Got it. Sounds like you’d prefer women were just comatose.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:05 PM
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Then you and your friends need to be locked up, for fuck’s sake. Imagine thinking other people owe you sex and if you don’t get it you’re justified in attacking and killing innocent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:31 PM
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Ok, cool. But then stop complaining about women being entitled and manipulative when you’re the epitome of entitlement and manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:20 PM
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He doesn’t have to treat them with respect, he just has to not pretend to like them so they’ll fuck him. The bar is on the floor here, people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:05 AM
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What exactly do you think women were doing throughout history, tap dancing? They were growing and raising little human beings and running households so men could engage in work. All criminals were good at some point. If you foresee yourself becoming a sexual predator because you aren’t getting the things in life you feel you deserve, I suggest seeking help immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:04 AM
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Benefiting in that they value the person as a human being so having them in their life enriches it. Put another way, they’d would prefer to be in a meaningful, mutually respectful relationship or no relationship at all. Essentially, they are saying that if they are going to be in a LTR, they want it to be with someone they care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 10:53 AM
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Gotcha. So it’s women’s fault that men become rapists, traffic sex slaves, and sell women’s bodies. Because we don’t pay enough attention to them. If I were a man I’d be really insulted by this idea. Do guys really have that little control over themselves? Because if that’s the case I suggest we remove all men from leadership positions immediately icon the off chance they get ignored by a woman and start WWIII.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:54 AM
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Oh God, where to start. Okay: 1. SWEET BABY JESUS, IT IS NOT OUR GODDAMN ROLE TO KEEP YOU SATISFIED. I CANNOT BELIEVE I HAD TO STATE THAT IN A REAL LIVE SENTENCE. How do you manage to reconcile calling women entitled and then state that you believe it is our duty to keep you satisfied? The mental gymnastics you must go through to make that make sense has got to be exhausting. Okay , got that out of my system. Moving on. 2. You pay taxes for services and programs that benefit society as a whole (…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:45 AM
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All of us? What is it that is unsupportive? And to be honest, I would have a difficult time being supportive of a guy that thought like this: Honestly, men might just think rape is okay the more sexless they become, it is an enemy at the gates situation, if defending the gate is not helping you fuck the women inside, there is no point in it and you better off just join the ones trying to break in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:23 AM
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Hey, you know what's great about being an employee? You can quit. At any time. Right now, even. Don't even need to put in 2 weeks' notice. In this scenario, you NEVER HAVE TO WORK AGAIN. ​ I don't get you guys. One minute you're complaining about how hard it is to get into and maintain a relationship with a woman and that you get used when you do date, and the next you're complaining about how worthless/entitled/manipulative/insert term here women are and that dating is psychological torture. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:08 AM
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Okay, then what do you want? Do you think women who are happy being single should enter into a relationship they don't want to make you feel better? Should women sleep with guys they aren't attracted to so you won't be sad? What in the actual fuck do you guys want? I really want to know. You complain because women won't fuck you or date you or whatever. But you resent women in general and consider them lazy, entitled, and demanding-why would you want a relationship with a person who displays the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:46 AM
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Just fucking stop. You pretend to like women you don’t actually like or respect so you can get laid. It’s narcissistic bullshit behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:08 AM
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This you? Ever worked a job you didn’t like so you can have money to buy food? That’s what casually dating a girl you dislike is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:51 AM
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That’s the definition of anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:36 AM
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Yeah but it’s a front. You don’t really like them, you treat them well and make sure they’re happy so they’ll fuck you, not because you respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:35 AM
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Not if it meant I had to manipulate other people. Jesus, you really don’t think of us as human beings, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:53 AM
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I honestly am sorry that has been your experience. But the dating world is a big place-I’m not sure if you can take your experience and apply it to everyone else’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:51 AM
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Then work a job you don’t like and use the money to buy services from a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:48 AM
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Ok, first, I’m sincerely sorry that you’re lonely and don’t have someone to share your life with. It sounds like you’re in a lot of pain. Without addressing everything else, may I offer some insight? Myself and most of the women I know want the same thing you do. If you view relationships as transactional, you’re probably going to be disappointed. If you view them as a connection with another human being that you choose because of who they are rather than what they can provide, and understand th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:59 PM
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Then why do you need to be with a woman at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:23 PM
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No. Those men CHOOSE to “put up with completely horrible and obnoxious people” because they see women as providers of sex first and people second, if at all. Hire a prostitute , invest in a sex doll, do the MGTOW thing, whatever, leave civilian women alone. You guys are infuriating, do you know how you sound when you complain about how shallow women are and then straight up announce that the only reason you put up with them is so you can get your dick wet? Dating someone you hate just so you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:07 PM
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If men reached out and said something like, “relationships are tough, I feel like such a worthless person because it seems like no one wants to be with me,” and the replies were a bunch of women telling them how much they sucked then yeah, I could sympathize. No one likes feeling rejected and I understand men have a harder time than women developing strong social bonds. But that’s not how it goes: instead men (the most vocal ones on threads like these, not men in general) make their inability to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:47 AM
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Why would you or any guy want to be in a relationship with a woman in the first place? If I thought a group of individuals were shallow, unfairly critical, and only wanted me because I could benefit them in some way and that if a better deal came along they’d leave without a second thought, I would make it a point to avoid them as much as possible. What is the reasoning for wanting to be with a member of a group you have so much disdain for-is it the probability of sex? Do you just want women to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:13 AM
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Reading through this thread, there is a pretty consistent theme throughout the women's responses: they believe majority of men aren't losers, they just aren't attracted to every man they encounter. In fact it appears that women are the ones who are: ... content with where they are in life and not in a constant state of needing more more more [H]appy alone [D]on't feel the need to live up to a bunch of invisible rules and standards that are apparently set by "society" [A]ren't defined by their jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:39 AM
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So…fucking don’t get married, have kids, and move to the suburbs. Who are all of these women trying to force you to marry, impregnate, and provide for them? What is stopping you from getting a wfh job, living in a one bedroom apartment and playing The Legend of Zelda for the rest of your life? I cannot understand why you guys complain about this like it’s something you have to do. You can choose NOT to do any of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:26 AM
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So honest question: if you're not big on marriage yourself, why do you even care what people do with their last names when they get married? Why even bother bringing it up if it's probably not going to affect you personally? Why do you feel the need to police what other people do in their own relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:58 AM
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Thank you for this. I am not a dumb person, but I don't think I've ever realized the extent to which men view women as sexual beings first and human beings second. I feel a little sick after reading this sub...time to take a Reddit break.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:50 PM
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You're an incel because 1.) your entire monologue centers around the idea that you're a victim because women don't think you're good enough to date despite your "stats" and 2.) you unironically want to tax single women over a third of their income so they will be forced to get married. Holy fucking shit. You aren't discussing your bad experiences with women. I could sympathize with that, relationships can be hard. You are taking your negative experiences with some women and using them to justify…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:58 PM
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My mistake. I thought I was conversing with a rational human being, not a psychotic incel who thinks The Handmaid's Tale was a good fucking idea. My bad, won't happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:17 PM
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Jesus tap-dancing Christ, are you seriously comparing yourself to the oppressed people in Africa during apartheid because...what, women don't want to fuck you? Are you suggesting women are guilty because they only want to have sex and be in relationships with people they are attracted to? What's the alternative, government sanctioned sex partners? What are we "collectively apologizing" for? Women are not responsible for "providing you with happiness" (and neither are men, for that matter). That'…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:25 AM
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