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Yeah don’t worry. I’m not saying an ultimatum. I just told her I had a good time even tho the date was cut short. I held frame and I’m sure things will go better next time
/r/seduction29/10/21 09:20 PM
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Yeah definitely. And the thing is she had suggested drinks late at night. So I think something really came up that was an emergency. But yeah I plan on setting a longer date that doesn’t revolve around getting drinks.
/r/seduction29/10/21 06:14 PM
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Yeah that’s what I’m doing. She reached out after the first date last time so I’m not going to text for a few days and think about this
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:10 PM
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I mean yeah I’d like something casual that eventually moves in a relationship. Never had this happen before but I guess it’s a good sign that she at least went on a second date and didn’t have a problem with me kissing her
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:37 PM
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This is exactly what’s going through my mind. What would you do in that situation?
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:29 PM
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For sure. She was really nice the first date but had somewhat of an attitude as well on the second. I called her out on it in a joking way. But the whole thing is making me second guess her interest level even though we kissed.
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:27 PM
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She doesn’t seem like she’s not single. But yeah her behavior on the second date was very sketchy. But she said she was really stressed. I asked if she needed to call right now and she said no just before her friends plane leaves at 12.
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:15 PM
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Yeah I plan on asking her out again. I know she’s not lying. But it’s just strange to me when the dates are 9pm-12am. And I almost ended it last night. I asked her if she needed to go and why she didn’t reschedule. So I at least appreciate her showing up anyways I guess
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:11 PM
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Possibly. If so, I’d very much like to become aware of it. The lovebombing just made everything seem like a perfect relationship then one day everything just flipped like a switch.
/r/seduction10/09/21 01:33 AM
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I’m a healthy confident dude with high self esteem and have no issues getting women. But I was love bombed by a borderline and it severely made me drop my guard. She perfectly mirrored me and my interests. It’s not as black and white as you make it seem.
/r/seduction09/09/21 11:17 PM
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It works even if you’re a healthy secure person. The only way it doesn’t work is if that person is aware of what lovebombing is and can spot the red flags
/r/seduction09/09/21 08:08 PM
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Then In that case bars and clubs are easy mode. Depending on how attractive you are all you have to do is dance near girls and they’ll usually come close and dance on you
/r/seduction31/08/21 03:05 AM
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Nothing wrong with going up to a girl and telling her she’s cute if you’re sincere.
/r/seduction29/08/21 05:04 PM
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Honestly I wouldn’t do bars and clubs unless you’re looking for hookups if you’re looking for a relationship day game will work. Just lead to the conversation and ask for their number before they walk away
/r/seduction29/08/21 04:14 PM
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Why would he chase after you considering you just broke up with him? If you genuinely wanted to see him after the vacation you’d reach out. That’s the only way I’d see a girl who just broke up with me
/r/seduction06/08/21 04:38 AM
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Your problem is that you aren’t okay never speaking to her again. Get over the desperation and get a handle on your emotions. Maybe reach out and say you would like to meet up for drinks. If she says no or anything but yes never speak to her first again. Work on yourself and other possible options.
/r/seduction19/07/21 12:36 AM
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Idk if that first statement is something exclusive to girls with high body counts though. Last two girls I’ve dated had extremely low body counts and were both communicative and open to trying pretty much anything.
/r/seduction25/06/21 11:34 AM
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Genuinely curious about the suggestion for listening to Bach’s cello suites?
/r/askTRP22/06/21 02:53 AM
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Yeah this why exactly you need to get them on a date with minimum contact. I’ve learned my lesson to not waste so much time on any stranger until I’ve met them face to face
/r/seduction03/03/21 03:55 AM
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The difference is you rescheduled. If someone cancels and does not mention another time or day. It’s a huge sign of disinterest and it’s best to move on to another potential instead of wasting time
/r/seduction15/01/21 10:51 PM
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Exactly. This is probably because most guys put up with a ridiculous amount of shit in a relationship. When they meet someone who won’t budge and beg for them back then they go crazy.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 05:46 PM
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Nah it wasn’t joking. She said it in a very bitter way
/r/askTRP11/09/20 04:29 AM
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3 months.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 04:14 AM
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She flaked on plans then I asked why so and she said she didn’t have to explain herself. So I ended it.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 03:59 AM
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I haven’t talked or seen her. She blew up my phone telling me how insensitive I was and shit
/r/askTRP11/09/20 03:09 AM
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Exactly the type of comment I was looking for. I expect in a few days the anger will turn into desperation.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 02:45 AM
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I walked away lol. I’d rather have nobody then somebody who causes me stress. I was just wondering the reasoning for a tactic like that
/r/askTRP11/09/20 02:44 AM
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That’s what I was thinking. I’ll give her a day and she’ll be hitting me up again
/r/askTRP08/08/20 05:59 PM
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Then that exact night she asked if I wanted to come over and smoke but I couldn’t make it lol so at least I know she’s interested in hanging out or she wouldn’t of bothered to ask
/r/seduction08/06/20 09:35 PM
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yeah I replied with “let me take you downtown so you don’t have to miss me anymore” and she replied way more excited than I thought.
/r/seduction08/06/20 09:28 PM
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She responded a lot better than I thought. I’m going to the beach with her sometime this week. Thanks for your help man.
/r/seduction07/06/20 12:02 AM
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yeah for sure. Is it too early to tease? Like “let me take you to the beach so you can stop missing me” or something like that.
/r/seduction06/06/20 05:09 PM
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She replied and seemed excited. Should I just get straight to the point and tell her someone like “I’ve missed hanging out with you. Let me take you to the beach”
/r/seduction06/06/20 02:46 AM
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She replied and seemed excited. Should I just get straight to the point and tell her someone like “I’ve missed hanging out with you. Let me take you to the beach”
/r/seduction06/06/20 02:45 AM
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She replied and seemed excited. Should I just get straight to the point and tell her someone like “I’ve missed hanging out with you. Let me take you to the beach”
/r/seduction06/06/20 02:41 AM
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Yeah I know what you mean. I’ll think about it. Thanks
/r/seduction31/05/20 03:43 PM
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My ex hated her. The girl saw my ex at one of my fraternity parties and she had mentioned to my gf that she thought I was attractive and my ex basically told her off lmao
/r/seduction31/05/20 03:33 PM
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Yeah that’s true. I haven’t been with another girl in 3 years tho. Im so ready to start this part of my life again lol
/r/seduction30/05/20 08:35 PM
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Yeah she was much more touchy. Like anytime I ran into her she couldn’t help but follow me around and talk to me. My previous gf never really complimented me and only seemed to put me down now that I think about it.
/r/seduction30/05/20 07:58 PM
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No definitely not. I just never told her to stop. I enjoyed having her as a friend. But yeah this last relationship fucked up my confidence. So I’ve been working on self love lately
/r/seduction30/05/20 04:38 PM
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Yeah I agree. Definitely not LTR material. And I was definitely a shitty person about it too because I never told her to stop.
/r/seduction30/05/20 04:35 PM
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Possibly. I know she at least thought I was attractive. So I guess it doesn’t hurt to reach out and see how she is doing
/r/seduction30/05/20 04:24 PM
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Yeah I’ve always wondered if that was it. I’ve kinda always resisted her advances towards me just because I wouldn’t cheat. But thanks. I’ll update for sure
/r/seduction30/05/20 04:17 AM
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Well she has no idea when me and my ex broke up. And it’s been about a year since I’ve talked to her. The last time I ran into her at a concert and she couldn’t keep her hands off of me I was just thinking about asking how she was doing and if all went well ask her to go to the beach
/r/seduction30/05/20 03:14 AM
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Sweet man. I’ll give it a shot then
/r/seduction30/05/20 02:29 AM
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Even if I haven’t talked to her in a good minute?
/r/seduction30/05/20 01:15 AM
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Clubs are awful for talking to anybody. Lol. The coffee shop I bring girls to is basically a bar now that I think about it. Comfortable seating, low lights, kinda romantic setting
/r/seduction27/05/20 12:27 AM
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But bars often have very loud music making it hard to talk. I like coffee shops so I can actually talk to the girl to make sure I actually am attracted to her.
/r/seduction27/05/20 12:20 AM
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All it basically is work on feeling good and good things will happen. Nothing really spiritual or bullshit about it imo.
/r/seduction26/05/20 10:26 PM
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So don't bring it up and act calm about it?
/r/askTRP15/05/17 08:44 PM
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Pretty indifferent about it. Just the fact that we made plans a solid week in advance.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 08:07 PM
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Is there anything that I could actually say to her about her friend acting this way?
/r/askTRP17/03/17 01:28 PM
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To clarify, her friend told her that and then she proceeded to tell me she thought a lot about it. I do however think that her friend is trying to place these types of thoughts in her head.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 03:23 AM
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And your advice on how to go about this would be?
/r/askTRP17/03/17 12:51 AM
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Her friend was the one who mentioned that I might be the issue regarding her grades. I'm just gonna go silent for a little while. We will see what happens
/r/askTRP17/03/17 12:09 AM
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I just didn't even feel like talking to her after that lol.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 11:32 PM
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Good point. She's being somewhat passive aggressive about me thinking about it. Saying we either get in a relationship or she leaves.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:45 PM
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We are both 18. Still in highschool.
/r/seduction26/03/16 07:43 PM
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I'm going to her place first. Then she said she wants to come to mine a few days after. But once again she invited her friend to my place. I really wanted to only focus on her.
/r/seduction26/03/16 07:34 PM
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I have already told her I'm not a virgin. She didn't seem to have any problem with me not being one.
/r/seduction16/01/16 01:29 AM
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I was actually looking for a meaningful relationship, not just sex.
/r/seduction16/01/16 12:49 AM
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