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| – | Brutal truth: as you get old and the more you fail in relationships, higher chances you'll die aloneHalf of people in a widow(er) creating relationship die alone. Two-thirds of “baggage, kids, trauma” are pre-existing connections that include people who check on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Most men aren’t “nice guys”I care about maximizing the happiness/joy of others and minimizing their suffering, but the most important factor is my bandwidth. I would say that if you’re “nice” to everyone, you at least perceive more bandwidth than I do. You could be completely ignorant to your reality, but you display that you have time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 04:47 PM |
| – | Friendzoning guys is an extremely painful experienceIt isn’t all “ulterior motives.” Sometimes you catch feelings and have thoughts when she is friendly enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 10:32 PM |
| 2 | why aren’t men happier about the fact that they can improve themselves to be more likeable to women?Improvement for the masses may not be an improvement for you. I am not talking about self care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 08:44 PM |
| 2 | What is the actual evidence that the gender difference in violence/aggression is social and not biological?Exactly, bitching Is actually soothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 04:55 PM |
| 2 | What is the actual evidence that the gender difference in violence/aggression is social and not biological?No. The reason being “socializing.” Women seem to have a different connection to socializing than men do. If you socialize women to be more like men, they’ll socialize… They will ask one another, “Why did you make that choice, and how did choosing it make you feel?” That discussion will lower overall tension if both parties want to participate in it. It isn’t a feminine thing, it’s a human thing. Women are just on average better at it. So to really make her angry like some men, you would need to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 06:08 AM |
| 1 | What is the actual evidence that the gender difference in violence/aggression is social and not biological?Prisons’ violence levels simmer down or flare up based on the culture of the institution. Those guys are consistently similar, and even captive & possibly the same exact men. Culture matters. The harder part is to define culture and just how personal it is. Typically female prisons are less violent than the all boys dorms at a university. The extreme violence may be worse, but the regular use of interpersonal force is more common amongst “good men” when compared to “bad women.” Women are more so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 05:41 AM |
| 11 | Fear of automatic cheating or getting an STD aren't the biggest reasons why women won't date bi men. Their reasoning is mostly due to their idea of masculinity.I wonder what % of bi-men have no intention or desire to ever do that again, but they own their past? On the flip side, I wonder what % of straight guys who are on the DL are 100% gay. I know bi-people, but they seem to stop acting on it. They may still recognize both sexes as sexually attractive, but at some point you realize that they have only approached a specific type over the past 20 years. I find some black women attractive. I asked one out in high school. I have only dated whites for the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 03:43 PM |
| – | Creative and high energy dates are mostly a waste of timeNo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 02:47 AM |
| – | Creative and high energy dates are mostly a waste of timeYou can be creative without burdensome sacrifices. In fact, that’s the joy of early dating. There is enough intrigue in the other person that the activities you’ll soon overlook seem fun to attend together. You shouldn’t be spending what feels like “a lot to you.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 02:37 AM |
| – | Her giving “her best” to another man before is irrelevant.Or… calmly discuss your wants & needs from your a perspective of non judgement at an appropriate time. If you honestly feel like she is holding back because she doesn’t like you enough, realize that you can’t know what she thinks. You need to find a way to word it without being a mind reader. You also need to realize that books change each time you read them because the prior readings influences your perspective. You need to be prepared for her to say she doesn’t like it, and it caused her to li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 02:40 PM |
| 5 | If many women say you are a total catch but won’t date you, the harsh truth is that they are lying to you.If you’re a catch, and they can give meaningful reasons, you likely suck at building connection. You can be a loser, but if you can build connection you’ll do alright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 03:23 PM |
| -3 | Women contribute significantly to men misreading themWomen change like the career ladder. The things that they liked at 25 can become liabilities as life changes. Some of those changes aren't announced. Guys find themselves in a management position and they're confused because the only applied for a warehouse position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 02:33 PM |
| 0 | Men are not capable of romantic love.Because she’s makes me light up. Her energy, when we’re quiet, makes me concerned she’ll fist me, she won’t, I won’t let her. She looks at me like she wants to impregnate me and eat my face. Honestly maybe, if she keeps me lit up long enough, I would probably have a ride or die, if my ride or die wants to fist me…I just don’t think fisting me would work. Anyways that’s why it’s scary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Men are not capable of romantic love.Nuance be like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Men are not capable of romantic love.How old are you? I would have agreed when I was younger, but I am chasing a woman who I would say is ugly, and honestly her sexual energy scares me. However, she makes me laugh every time we’re together. I get happier when I see her name. Sleeping with her is the cost of getting coffee with her. There are others who are less extreme examples. I’ll find myself asking them to finish the story about their brother, because I care. Maybe I care because it’s an evolutionary tool, but it doesn’t feel s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 10:37 PM |
| – | “I like to take things slow” usually means she’s not that into youThat is the whole point of moving slow. I want to see how well we would get along without the distraction of sex. Good sex may make me overlook a commute that is further than I would be happy with. That being said, 5 dates is more than enough to decide if someone clearly worth the sacrifice. Drama will come. I’ll learn that they stretched the truth about their relationship with their family. I’ll learn that they financed their last vacation while still paying off the previous trip. But, I’ll kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Women rarely get criticized for being bad in bedYou will just sound bitter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Being a SAHM is idiotic for both the partners.Since when do we use “both” to refer to a group of at least 3 people? “Mom” infers a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 02:34 PM |
| 1 | The average hour of an American wife's extra "unpaid labor" is compensated at a rate comparable to the services of a cybersecurity engineer.I agree with both of you. While not universal, I know quite a few relationships like OP’s. I don’t think I have ever heard the wife admit that if she was married to her clone, that they would live with roommates and never go on vacation. I have certainly never heard a woman say, “if I earned a much as him, we could easily afford a service for most of these tasks.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 02:25 PM |
| 1 | If the roles were reversed do you think the average woman(as a man) would have longterm dating success with a woman in today’s society?It lacks the nuance of proportionality. A lot of women don’t consider getting someone “fighting mad” then asking for help just prior to physical violence starting, to be an act of violence. Women will proudly brag about their 4’11” friend who has on two occasions stuck her finger in the face while yelling at the rude drunk guy who was 6’3”. They’ll go out next weekend with her. If a male friend acted like that, his male friends would laugh at the absurd risk of violence the first time, and would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 07:49 PM |
| 1 | If the roles were reversed do you think the average woman(as a man) would have longterm dating success with a woman in today’s society?She won’t make it to the bar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 07:12 AM |
| 1 | If the roles were reversed do you think the average woman(as a man) would have longterm dating success with a woman in today’s society?Are you a guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 06:35 AM |
| 1 | If the roles were reversed do you think the average woman(as a man) would have longterm dating success with a woman in today’s society?Massive generalities here: Men generally account for the fact that a conversation in any scenario can turn violent. Men will steer the conversation away from potential incendiary dead ends. Women generally assume violence is off the table in a polite society. Women will steer a conversation towards an incendiary dead end if they feel like it. As a man, If I am looking for women, I will pay attention to nearly any woman who isn’t repulsive to me. Women have higher standards upon initial inspectio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 05:03 AM |
| – | Modern dating has so many different goals that discussing it always has people talking past each otherI was talking with 2 ladies the other day about the pitfalls of dating after being in a relationship/marriage for 10 years. Both men and women want a ride or die, but we don’t want to go through the fun phase out of fear of overlooking a red flag. We want the fun and excitement while exciting fun is simultaneously scary. It’s as though we are scared and really just want “a die.” This creates an impossible target for both men & women to live up to. We want to meet a person who we want to go to di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 12:31 AM |
| 0 | Men here misinterpret "personality matter" and overlook social skills.Be magnetic. Love your imperfect self. That doesn’t mean you stop trying to do better, it just means you accept that today was your overall best effort with the laundry list of priorities and tools you had to work with. How do you love yourself? Imagine the movie “Inside Out” direct your emotional brain’s love towards your narrator. Then literally verbalize, “I love my emotions unconditionally.” Realize that you’re the only person who can be on this ride with you from beginning to end. If you do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 04:07 PM |
| 1 | If you know how to connect with people, there is no such thing as the sexual/dating markeplaceUnfortunately you can’t convince them of that, and if they listen, they’ll think that you sound like a hippy witch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 01:09 AM |
| 1 | If you know how to connect with people, there is no such thing as the sexual/dating markeplaceThey don’t believe in connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourseI feel like anti-natalists miss out on a basic concept that their story is 49.9999% (humans evolved 300,000 years ago, let’s say you’re 40 years old, 40/300,000=0.0001% of your story being held by you as an individual) of the other gender and that there is a chance that your continuing legacy within a few generations will be 100% the descendants of a gender that you weren’t born into but you contributed to. When you have children and you’re have a minimal level of empathy and awareness, you real… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 04:12 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemNaw. It’s a constantly shifting 5-10%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 02:21 PM |
| – | No matter what, Looks determine everything in dating (unless you have no choice)But not in courting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 04:59 AM |
| -3 | Motherhood is a bad deal (and it's reasonable to opt out)There’s a funny thing about shame, it is internally generated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:08 PM |
| 3 | You CAN be emotionally intimate with your friends. Many just choose only limit is in relationships.Nope. You graphed your expectations on to this. I can have no desire to sleep with a friend. If we start having what would be described as an “emotional affair” if one of us was already in a relationship. I’ll catch feelings and want to be around them constantly. You can call it a crush, limerence, or infatuation. It’s a desire to have a relationship that goes beyond a friendship. As an adult that would include sex. However as a reasonable adult I understand that the sex would fall off after the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 12:40 AM |
| 2 | You CAN be emotionally intimate with your friends. Many just choose only limit is in relationships.If I do this with a woman, I end up wanting a sexual relationship with them. That desire becomes the dominant thought I experience when I think of them. Sure they make me feel peaceful, but I also really want to see how much better it can be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 06:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: less marriages would be sexless if men made more of an effortResentment makes it seem as though increased effort results in increased hostility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 07:25 PM |
| – | Male sexuality just seems borderline antisocial to meHere’s the thing about ranking, you basically rank from the least perceived flawed to most flaws. I would rank women that I had no interest in meeting above the woman who is actually able to attract my attention enough to get my effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Apparently women dislike it when their male friends reveal feelings for themYou can reveal feelings. Just don’t expect anything. Acceptable: “I feel at-relaxed/awake/creative/peaceful/content when you’re around.” Then you let them think about what that means to them. You give them as much time as necessary. Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Rejection: “I have been feeling like we are dating for a while now. I would like to skip the dating phase and be in a relationship with you. My emotions are uncontrollable and I would like you to help me digest them.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:40 PM |
| 5 | The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men.It’s a Rorschach test. I would like to see the criminal statistics for children who are raised in a “loving & stable household” with a dad who has a history of knowingly moving away from his previous children. That would help expose nature v. nurture a little bit. If I am raised by a loving man with a history of abandonment, do I have more antisocial traits? You can choose to assign blame 20 or so ways. Everyone agrees that they would want to live in a community with neighbors who are capable of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Why are men considered bad and immature for not overlooking a woman's past?I think the problem is guys wanting to eat their cake and have it too. It wouldn’t be an issue if guys immediately excluded women with a past, the problem arises when guys seemingly want the woman to obtain a Time Machine and take their actions back while still somehow being the same current woman they’re attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 04:49 PM |
| – | Womens' actions have repeatedly revealed their claim of living in constant fear of danger at the hands of men is likely just another smokescreen and deception/manipulation tacticlol, I never thought of it like that. I suppose they have a mild concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionThere was an event. I was lied to about the event’s location, participants, and intentions. I identified the lies. I directly identified the actual location and participants and didn’t discuss the unknowables like “intention of trip.” I was assured I was wrong and paranoid. I identified facts and not opinions. I wish it was a poem. It’s just my reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Women Keep Changing the Meaning of Psychology Terms to Avoid Self-ReflectionI got factually gaslit. I lost trust. I stated the lack of trust, because it’s accompanied by the emotion of disgust. Now I am a narcissistic person who lacks empathy. I have empathy and disgust. What’s funny is that I am narcissistic because I don’t think it’s good for her to live with someone who doesn’t trust her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Why do you guys pretend getting successfull with woman is a easy task?I think he confused, “Work on yourself and pay attention to who pays you attention.” With, “Just be yourself, and women will want you.” It’s more like luck is opportunity meeting perpetration. Remove as many red flags as possible. Get outside and receive days/weeks/months of passive rejection. Then one day you come across someone who wants to hear your BS and that part feels easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 10:43 PM |
| 9 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themI don’t want to talk to a 22 year old for much longer than a haircut. I mean, yeah they’re attractive but I don’t want to imagine being stuck in a car with one for 2 hours. “Wow you know how to end the conflict in Israel? That’s amazing.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 05:12 PM |
| – | "Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way"Why won’t a woman go somewhere private with my personality that is angry at women? Why won’t friendly women risk at least a year of poor sleep hygiene within minutes of meeting me? Why do women know to wait until my slipping mask falls off? I spent a lot of effort on my mask. I have ignored developing the ability to validate my own feelings in exchange for constructing my mask and women just keep looking at my behavior and not my mask! Why do women treat me like they’re talking to a masked man a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Women tend to be all about mental health awareness, yet practice a zero tolerance policy for socially awkward menThere is a difference between aimlessly lingering and attempting to see if there is a potential connection. They look the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 02:58 PM |
| 0 | Men are dumb and vote against their economic interest for some perceived macho reasonWomen are dumb, and believe they can vote for their economic best interest rather than Liberty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 05:17 PM |
| 7 | Average man could put more effort in his appearance and it wouldn't change a thing“Sharpness” is only ATTRACTIVE to women who value sharpness. Sharpness does remove some reflags for women who aren’t attracted to sharpness. If you become too sharp, you may broadcast new reflags, like vanity or try-hard. If you’re a 7, you can be a 7 who appears homeless or like you have an enjoyable life. If you’re a 3, you will look like a 3 in a suit. If you’re a 9, you will look like a 9 in a smoking circle by the homeless shelter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 03:34 PM |
| 1 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameWell…that’s a very shallow understanding of AH game. What you’re describing is a prick. You need to establish emotional trust then keep bread crumbing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Why do women go to bar to pick up men for sex when they can easily meet from online dating?There are 3 kinds of people on this planet: 1) people who naturally work with connection. 2) people who understand connection. 3) people who have no idea what non-sexual emotional-trust is. As a hetero male #2, if a hetero male #3 pisses me off, I will make his eyes well up with happy tears and then never have a deep conversation with them again. They have no idea what happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Men who gave up, why are you still here ?Did they listen in a respectful way that made you want to tell them more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Men who gave up, why are you still here ?We all screw up. Would you tell yourself about a fixable problem that is holding you back, yet you don’t want to fix it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 03:30 AM |
| – | Women aren't a hivemind, but they do have an almost unconditional solidarity for each other that muddies the waters.I have lost the plot. I thought that was the point I was making. Jack wants Jill to like him. Jill likes Joe. Jack can’t be Joe. Jack is upset that no women like him, because there only woman he wants doesn’t like him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 08:18 PM |
| – | Women aren't a hivemind, but they do have an almost unconditional solidarity for each other that muddies the waters.lol. It’s not every women, it’s HER! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 03:26 PM |
| – | Women aren't a hivemind, but they do have an almost unconditional solidarity for each other that muddies the waters.Many of the very handsome men still need to groom themselves. A guy who is 5% of women’s type will attract fewer of he doesn’t groom. You still need to be emotionally available. So a guy who looks like a blacksmith, with a homeless man’s beard, who responds to her openness with an analogy, will likely drive away most women who love blacksmiths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't a hivemind, but they do have an almost unconditional solidarity for each other that muddies the waters.There are some special enough steak dinners, that when some vegetarians/vegans are hungry enough, they’ll eat. These dinners will get nearly 100% of the hungry omnivores, and even some women who are satiated. Even these meals won’t get women who hate beef. If you’re an anchovy, it’s going to be hard for you if you think you can just present yourself on a plate as an anchovy. Most pescatarians don’t want to eat an anchovy alone. However, most women will order a Caesar Salad with anchovy in the dr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 05:05 PM |
| 7 | Women aren't a hivemind, but they do have an almost unconditional solidarity for each other that muddies the waters.I think both sexes have a hard time imagining the other sex’s attraction. If we change attraction to food, practically all guys like food that tastes good and they don’t like food that is described with flavors that would make most people have a quizzical look on their face. Most guys have really liked on meal that gave them a quizzical look, but it was because she had an awesome presentation. There are a few guys who sincerely like tart or sour food. Even the guys who prefer tart food understan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Men who gave up, why are you still here ?Do you love yourself? I am not asking if you believe affirmations. I am asking if you ever get a sense of warmth when you trust yourself to be wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 02:19 AM |
| 17 | Men who gave up, why are you still here ?They know there is something wrong with their sensors, they just can’t imagine what it would look like if they functioned. They’re hoping that it will be fixed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 08:53 PM |
| 2 | The cognitive dissonance behind men approaching women is the same cognitive dissonance behind men objectifying women.“It’s not weird when the attractive guy does it,” isn’t the end of the story. You have to factor in that you are the attractive guy to some women. If you learn to identify their signals, you can approach women who likely see you as an attractive guy. Imagine you’re clearly going to play baseball, and a guy walks up to you and engages you in a conversation about chess. He does this because you’re a human and humans play chess. Now imagine the same scenario, but prior to him approaching you see a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Self-Improvement will NOT improve your attractiveness to womenThe guy who approaches a woman who shows him warmth and he doesn’t pour a cup of water on the warmth. Both strategies fail without warmth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 03:45 PM |
| 5 | Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?I think a lot of these guys can’t feel the non-verbal, non-obvious signs of love from close family members when the family member isn’t clearly happy. So they really can’t pick up on signs of acceptance from strangers. As a result they spend a lot of energy doing “the right thing” while trying to start a fire with a wet log. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 02:46 PM |
| 6 | I've come to the mindset that men should just learn to be comfortable with making women uncomfortable.I realize you can’t tell us your life story and still want to post it. As a result, I am forced to project my life experience onto this. Life doesn’t happen to you. There are a thousand small decisions that go into your day, if you’re on auto-pilot you will miss them. You can constantly choose to “do the right thing.” If you go this route, your day will feel like it only had 1 decision in it and life will happen to you. If you break free from this mindset, you’ll start to see how much power you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 03:42 PM |
| – | Red pill ‘truths’ are just excuses to frame hierarchy as biologyI would say that there are many red pill concepts that never go as far as many people claim. They are clearly oriented in the direction that people describe, but they stop short. Many red pill positions are optimistic tactics for avoiding women who are actively hypergamous. Perhaps they don’t clearly state that there are great women out there because they frame it as sifting through red flags. You need to realize the point of sifting is to pick out the green flags. There is a difference between,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 04:49 PM |
| 9 | Why don't women like hearing a lot of men's attractiveness is outside of their control?2 common phrases in law enforcement are “totality of circumstances,” and “based on my training and experience.” (Totality of circumstances)= (setting+time+physical capabilities of cop and victim and suspect+visual indicators+safety of others) (based on my training and experience)=(I saw an indicator that is worthy of further investigation + I have actual reasons why I thought acting/not-acting enhanced safety) Attraction is a lot like these two phrases. You can have 2 identical and silent twins … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 02:28 PM |
| 0 | When did the narrative shift from "it's your personality and misogyny that keeping you single" to "ofc women love attractive men, are you a stupid shut in!!" ?I have been entertained by assumptions people have made about me from time to time. Frequently itit occurs when I forget that the context of a thread requires additional context from my part. I unintentionally find myself pushing for an extreme position that is outlined in a preceding post in the thread. Without the preceding post it would be unreasonable to assume a binary choice, but there is a preceding post and I failed to add the reasonable context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Manly, masculine and high testosterone doesn't automatically translate to attractive to women.There is no advice that helps all men at all times with all women. There are a small number of men that can do anything and aero be attractive. Many frustrated men copy the things these guys do and get frustrated. Many men hold onto the woman they have a crush on even though she never showed an ounce of attraction for him. Men need to pay attention to when they get attention and when they don’t. They need to abandon the things that decrease their ability get attention and embrace the things that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 05:00 PM |
| -1 | When did the narrative shift from "it's your personality and misogyny that keeping you single" to "ofc women love attractive men, are you a stupid shut in!!" ?I am literally getting my steps in, and not retreating to the comfort of my cave (home), while saying, “hi” to people who smile at me. I am participating in the bare minimum social life. I am doing the type of thing a person who just arrived in a vacation destination would do to get a feel for daily life in the city. I would describe daily life as lacking men to a noticeable level. There are plenty of young guys who are under 23ish, but they seem to be engaged in intense conversations with the o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 03:41 PM |
| 1 | When did the narrative shift from "it's your personality and misogyny that keeping you single" to "ofc women love attractive men, are you a stupid shut in!!" ?Context and nuance. I have been married. It was easy for me to go a year where I only shopped for a pair of shoes for me and gifts for her. If she booked a trip to Hawaii for us, that one mutual purchase that “she” made easily got us to 80:20; $4,500 vs my $900. I still had a full life and went out. I can understand single guys not wanting to spend money at a wine bar, but they aren’t even outside with me. There are home hiding from strange faces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 02:38 PM |
| 9 | When did the narrative shift from "it's your personality and misogyny that keeping you single" to "ofc women love attractive men, are you a stupid shut in!!" ?For me, it was when I started taking walks around downtown on Friday and Saturday nights. I wasn’t going out, I was just getting my steps in and smiling at strangers. I was shocked to see restaurant after restaurant and wine bar after wine bar that were 80% female. It’s hard to spot men who aren’t already coupled who aren’t looking at their phone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:16 PM |
| -1 | Women, when you say an “unattractive” woman is attractive — do you actually mean it?I like women my age. We’re not 26 anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 02:07 PM |
| -1 | Women, when you say an “unattractive” woman is attractive — do you actually mean it?40 year old Man here: A lot of women are attractive but they’re honestly 3s. 3 is roughly my cut off point for go/no-go. So in a room of 1,000 randos, about 300 are ranked 1-3. The subconscious motivation I have for ranking the women between 3-6 just doesn’t exist. If I look close enough I’ll end up lowering most of the ones who are above a 4 by at least a point. “Is she a 6? Or is she good at makeup? Let’s look at her bones, does she have good bones? Oof this is her after the renovation and sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 11:59 PM |
| -1 | Do men believe that nice guys finish last ?Yes. It isn’t about politeness and social norms. It’s about the covert contracts that nice guys are constantly abiding by. Don’t confuse cover with deceitful. They aren’t deceitful they’re impossible for the other party to abide by. Nice guys can’t fully embrace the benefits of teamwork in a relationship. They’ll eventually respond in frustration when they find themselves at another birthday at an MLB game when they have never enjoyed more than 10 minutes at a MLB game. Meanwhile they keep actin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 04:01 PM |
| 7 | Why are men putting less effort in pursuing women than before?For me, it’s an awareness of “the work” I can benefit from. A normal positive vibe doesn’t offer a proper risk:reward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 04:33 PM |
| 1 | There is no dating app dataThat’s exactly what it is. Men will identify a 7 who is a goth as a 7 whether they like goths or not. Women will upgrade the goth guys score if she likes goths, and will downgrade him unless he is obviously an 8+. The only time I have witnessed this clearly change for men’s eyes is with “work hot.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 11:22 PM |
| 0 | There is no dating app dataIn my experience, practically every guy will rank “Jennifer the 5” as a 5. Also in my experience a noteworthy percentage of girls will rank “Joe the 5” as an 8, and a significant % will rank him as a 3. I don’t think these guys want to be universally considered a 5 if it means they’re never seen as an 8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 08:15 PM |
| 2 | If a guy uses terms like “dance monkey” and “beta bucks”, he despises relationships. (Even if he claims to want one)They want the foresight that comes from taking it slow and seriously, by taking it fast and casually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 04:27 PM |
| – | Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ?We agree AND… Many men & women have “a type” that falls outside of typical beauty standards. It may be an appealing aspect of their personality or physicality that isn’t universally appealing. If you recognize that your not attractive to 70% of the opposite sex and think you have no romantic hope, that’s when we look at you like a former billionaire who is claiming they’re “broke” because they only have $100,000,000. Apps aren’t real life. You can’t see someone’s personality. I typically see the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 02:57 PM |
| 1 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”I don’t believe that you personally have experienced what you’re describing. If you have experienced this type of behavior, she was likely debating exiting the relationship. If you have, did she break up with you soon after, pick unbelievable fights until you broke up with her, or if you’re being honest was it an, “I’ll give him a shot” type of date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 07:00 PM |
| 0 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”What is the name of the woman who treated you personally like this? In my experience women are boring, but they can make something happen if there is nothing going on. If I bring a woman to a sporting event, or my friend/family event, where the entertainment is provided she may act like what you described towards me. She’ll presume I am entertained and will normally entertain herself. Do you think women are sitting around desiring to talk to our moms about her new narrower folding table that fit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 05:45 PM |
| 1 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”What’s her first name? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 04:53 PM |
| 23 | Women, are you consciously aware you treat attractive men differently?I am barely attractive, I think these guys need to talk to a few guys like me. I can be a 2 for the majority of women, and I can get the kind of attention that they imagine an 8 would get from her twin. If a woman who was going to be attracted to me only noticed me after she caught me looking at her like a piece of meat, she would be creeped out. These guys may have missed the eye contact and smiles I already had with her. They may have missed that I already caught her sizing me up. They may hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you want dating to cost less? Or do you want a traditional woman?I have the opportunity to choose the location. I set the boundaries. If I thought she was worth lobster, I’ll bring her to a restaurant where that is with the boundaries. I am 40, for me to bring a woman to an expensive date that I wouldn’t happily pay for a friend to attend, she would need to be a friend who I am at least 90% willing to be in a relationship with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 02:30 AM |
| 9 | Wow, older women really are full of baggageIt’s literally the plot of a third of the feminine romance genre. You can replace “baggage” with “experience that adds context to experiences that can never be novel again.” Many men (I would say a plurality) will never discuss an ex again unless they’re asked, an unlikely event presents itself in a particular way, or if he reacts irrationally to prevent a reenactment of a past bad experience. It is normal for a man who discusses his ex regularly to be viewed as a stalker, bitter, or as a person… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 06:12 PM |
| 0 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?Is pre-selection the only thing women are attracted to. Pride has a very high overlap with confidence. I am confident that I can beat up most women, I would never discuss this confidence in a way that a person who can see my sober face would be aware of my level of confidence. You need a level of pride to be present in the things you’re confident about for it to be presentable to others. All interpersonal relationship advice is similar to the recommendation to add seasoning to your food. A meal … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?Apps are not real life. The vast majority of woman I get attention from on apps would be in the bottom 30% that I can get attention from in real life. I get it. My profile is very generic and honestly front loads red flags. Beyond that, I am competing with the peace & comfort of their couch. If I showed 5 male friends the bring-a-tailor website, we would likely all like the same car if we don’t NEED a new daily driver. If one of us needed a new daily driver, he may be attracted to the 2012 Tundr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 05:02 PM |
| 35 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?Once I realized this, my self esteem shot through the roof. I had always been told, “not every woman will like you.” What I noticed was a feeling that most women didn’t like me. This caused me to shutdown my confidence by the time I came across the ones who did. I would tell myself, “she’s too pretty to like me.” Now I know that it’s ok that I am not in the tiny sliver of men who are nearly universally agreed upon by women to be pretty. Beyond this, I can confidently and intentionally make mysel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:23 PM |
| 1 | The Pill is just a safety net for men who can’t deal with rejection. It’s just an ideology that you can point to while you run away from your problems.I may be much more attractive than I imagine. In my opinion, I should be the least attractive non disfigured man in any room. So when someone says there are guys who get no attention with basic attempts at being attractive, I am imagining a guy who is actively telling women that he is homosexual Nazi and his weeping acne is caused by his late night trips to the truck stop. The idea that there are men who get no attention aren’t worth thinking about, because odds are they are getting attention, j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 04:53 AM |
| 8 | Modern Western women are just digging thier own gravesAs a single millennial man, this is excellent news. Seriously, the time has never been better for a guy who can just keep his head up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 03:33 AM |
| 1 | The Pill is just a safety net for men who can’t deal with rejection. It’s just an ideology that you can point to while you run away from your problems.There is nothing else to worry about for people who have no ability and are hopeless when it comes to generating attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 02:13 AM |
| 1 | The Pill is just a safety net for men who can’t deal with rejection. It’s just an ideology that you can point to while you run away from your problems.I am filling in some huge gaps here. Absent some attraction, you would need compelled relationships. That’s an extremist position. I am curious who believe my toughest competition is in “The sexual market place?” I feel like you would be surprised to learn that it’s being single, and not another man. So absent attraction, you want a woman to be forced to partner when she doesn’t want a partner? Even when they’re clearly attracted by will reject men to maintain their slice of peace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 12:15 AM |
| 2 | The Pill is just a safety net for men who can’t deal with rejection. It’s just an ideology that you can point to while you run away from your problems.Very few people in your physical orbit think being shallow is bad (full stop). They’ll tell you that you’re limiting your opportunities for joy just like the shallow girls. I have never heard anyone suggest to someone that they should pursue someone who has no attractive characteristics. I may have 0 on day 1. I don’t crash out as a result, I talk to my fellow humans. A few weeks later I notice that I am getting attention from 1. A few weeks later 2-3. A few weeks later, 1. It’s not static. If I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 10:27 PM |
| 2 | The Pill is just a safety net for men who can’t deal with rejection. It’s just an ideology that you can point to while you run away from your problems.When it’s misconstrued by men who believe it is how all women think all of the time, it becomes a dark ideology. Imagine if you didn’t like a woman and she started telling herself that no man will ever like her, and she created an imaginary story about her lack status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 09:25 PM |
| -3 | The Pill is just a safety net for men who can’t deal with rejection. It’s just an ideology that you can point to while you run away from your problems.Many men base their beliefs off of a tiny sample size. They develop crushes that leave them blind to the attention of other women. They get absolutely no sign of attraction coming from their crush and they shoot their shot after months or years of being blind. Then they believe they’re unlovable. The other women in their orbit watch this unattractive behavior and write the man off. Meanwhile their less attractive and boring cousin is always getting attention. Somehow men come away feeling like w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Whats with the word incel being associated with being a misogynist, especially by women?I would argue that only 1 of those things are “involuntary.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 11:12 PM |
| 0 | Whats with the word incel being associated with being a misogynist, especially by women?You’re not wrong, but are they incels because of the misogyny? I would argue that a bad perspective isn’t involuntary. I would be interested to see how misogynistic the guys with constantly weeping acne are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 10:55 PM |
| 0 | My Theory of Attraction: Why Behavior Matters for 90% of MenIt isn’t static. There is a reason terms like “work hot” exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: be honest.. do you use the same lines to get laid as you do to win over someone you actually want to date?That’s just comfort. I suppose I have a script if I label it a script, but It’s actually that I have learned to communicate clearly over the years. I have eliminated conversation ending topics and leaned into the things that consistently get more or neutral attention. It’s not clearly romantic, I use them on anyone I am building rapport with. I’ll use them on a male boss before a big ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is a net harm to women and women are better off decentering men or entering relationships with each other.Exactly. It’s a healthy consideration for imagining a lifestyle you want, but it is not a healthy lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: be honest.. do you use the same lines to get laid as you do to win over someone you actually want to date?Wait? There is a script? After, “hello, I am Ctrl…” I have just been engaging in a conversation based on there energy level and relevant likely shared observations based on the setting or their styling. Then I just make sure I occasionally say something that makes it clear I am not there for the friendzone. I don’t do it often, I don’t do it aggressively or when I am first feeling out here vibe. I just make it clear that I want to be considered or rejected. For real though, there are actual scri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:45 PM |
| 10 | Male sexuality is a net harm to women and women are better off decentering men or entering relationships with each other.I found Jordan Peterson or James Lindsey’s fake account. This is obviously one of these guys’ burner accounts trying to agitate with an over the top absurd hypothetical perspective that could be a cool way to imagine an alternate way of thinking to expand brainstorming, but trying to apply it to reality. You read about the trolley problem, and you decided the solution is to actually push fat men onto trolley tracks as a safety measure. It’s just a tool to get your imagination going. It’s not an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 04:42 AM |
| 25 | Male sexuality is a net harm to women and women are better off decentering men or entering relationships with each other.Is this a joke. It sounds like it was written by a red pill troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever changed their mind or their side as a result of this sub?Yup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 05:28 AM |
| 5 | Why doesn't Red Pill offer more mental health support for men?Well…There is red pill, then there are chauvinists. I don’t think the chauvinists are really smart enough to care about much else. Red pill assumes a level of competence to be in the marketplace. It doesn’t tell you that Disney romance doesn’t exist, it tells you that you can’t plan to reliably find Disney love. Even if you do stumble into Disney love you’ll likely mess it up if you don’t think about the different aspects that men and women control. If my advice to men is, take care of yourself,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 05:08 AM |
| 9 | A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need womenMan vs Bear is a bad example. I understand what women are communicating, but the facts of the hypothetical are stupid. You sound stupid when you just say Bear. Change “walk in the wilderness with” to “get on an elevator with.” Revealed preferences: I am a tall man who likes to walk, even in the dark. I live in the suburbs, but near downtown and wilderness. I walk in these 3 environments multiple times each week. Strange women regularly walk a few feet behind me. Strange women regularly allow me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 03:55 PM |
| 1 | People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people.Like everything, there is nuance. Many men weaponized incompetence after women weaponized acceptable standards. “Sure, you did the laundry, but you didn’t clear the mail off of the top of the dresser? I should just do it myself.” This may be an extreme example, but it’s realistic over a years long relationship. On the flip side there are men who consider putting clothes near the washing machine to be “helping with the laundry” because that’s what their mommy expected. The problem with emotional … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Prison for non-payment of child support should be abolished, and if someone can't or won't pay it, the state should just pay it instead of prosecuting the non-payerOk, what if they then do it again? And again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 10:24 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men who women otherwise love as friends, but never see them “that way”Have you ever played the trolley problem game beyond the initial problem? When you replace the people on the track you would sacrifice with a person or population that you care about? I ask because for many people it allows them to view their own morals or judgements from something approaching a 3rd persons view. It also typically allows you to disagree with their changing or stable answer with curiosity rather than judgement. Unless they say something totally psychopathic. Problem #1) Many men,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 05:45 PM |
| 1 | The issue with the whole dating advice world online: dating is treated as a series of hacks and decision treesAdvice should be viewed as seasoning. If the meal tastes good, it doesn’t need it. Sometimes the meal is bland… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Misogyny Will Have To Be Eradicated To Stop MisandryI agree. However “the patriarchy” is often used interchangeably with misogyny. As a man who has an extensive family tree history, I have noticed that half of my ancestors are women. I also have a son and a daughter. My progeny is likely to be close to 50:50 male:female. I have been in rooms where seemingly misogynistic decisions were made, but the decision was based on utilitarianism, and if there was an athletic 210 pound female available, we would have considered her. Many women will claim tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 01:42 AM |
| 9 | Men committing majority of violent crimes consumes more tax payer money that single momsWhat % of these men are raised by single mothers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Most women are terrible at giving dating advice for men. The RedPill is needed.My advice to men: 1) Every heterosexual woman sometimes, wants some men to approach her. 2) Sometimes, every heterosexual woman wants no men to approach her. Sometimes she is at work or school and will still be kind. 3) You likely qualify as some women’s “some men.” She decides. 4) You can’t really be rejected by someone who hasn’t approved you to be “some men.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 08:35 PM |
| 2 | There are more genuine blindside divorces than many women want to admitMaybe, but I don’t think so. I think truly blindside divorces occur, but they’re rare. A spouse can’t run around constantly threatening a divorce. A spouse can’t constantly be reminding someone that they’re unhappy with their spouses behavior. They issue warnings and we choose to change or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.I would like to see the attractive bell curve data with the individuals range of received votes. I suspect that there are women who 99% of men agreed were a 4-6/10, that no men rated them a 10/10 or a 1/10. I also suspect there were many men who averaged a 4/10, but had multiple 7-8/10 votes. That’s based on my experience with women. I can shave my head and have every woman I know tell me that I look terrible. Meanwhile, handkerchiefs start dropping at an unusually high rate. Tattoos will do thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 06:01 PM |
| 0 | You don't "deserve" to be treated like Chad because you aren't ChadI don’t want women to treat me like a chad. I want to find a woman who treats me like a chad. There is a big difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 04:49 PM |
| 1 | If knowing your own attractiveness was like having a spider-sense, women generally have it way more finely tuned than men , and a lot of men don’t have it at all.I am a wobbler. I can be a ghost and I can get women who are out of my league if I sense a spark. I think guts need to focus on being attuned to the spark. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Online dating is bad, because it's increasing the value of looks over personality.How I read this post: “While both are “fields of play” Baseball Diamonds are bad for soccer games. They have hard dirt, mounds, no goals, an unnecessary warning track, are a quarter of a giant circle instead of a giant rectangle, are intentionally inconsistent in size and shape...” I would tell that person to find a soccer pitch. I would tell those who find online dating to be distasteful to go approach strangers, attend blind dates their parents set up, join a coed-recreational-social-athletic-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/20 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Do American women feel betrayed by the Sexual Revolution and Feminism?Do you guys remember the “it gets better” PSAs? I feel like a lot of the problems in this sub can be answered with, “ it gets better.” In my experience in the United States of America, as an adult, I can find like minded people for any of my positions if I am willing to look. As a young adult, I wasn’t taking control of my life yet. I was coasting on the momentum my parents set for me. If you don’t like the way your friends think, get new friends, move, change careers, examine a different or no … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future?That’s the nature of a solid reputation. It’s like a jail, if you think about it enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/20 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future?When I was 18 I could talk most of my friends into a guaranteed sunburn and potential criminal charges by saying, “let’s do it for the story.” I don’t remember the last time I did something for “the story.” It was around the time I started accumulating things that I had earned that I didn’t want to give up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 03:14 PM |
| 4 | Who propagates the idea that doing porn is empowering and will not negatively impact your future?Your answer can be found by examining why the military recruits where they recruit. Older individuals(like 27) tend to be a lot more risk averse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many men find women boring here?Many are pleasant. Many would rather make nice with someone they know is wrong than push back. Not all and not all of the time, but you asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 02:01 AM |
| 1 | If short women were treated like short men, would it be seen as a more serious social issue?People don’t care that women are treated like women. If women were treated like short dudes, we would celebrate. Enjoy your healthy knees, back, and 90s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 08:50 PM |
| 2 | The level of student debt a girl has should be more prominently considered by men when choosing a girl to commit to.Debt should be considered by everyone for everything. Debt is always a trade off a worst worse future for a more desirable today. Some of the things you can buy with debt are things that allow you to sacrifice your current time for a better future (education, a reliable car that allows you to expand your job search, a reasonable mortgage). If I was looking for a mate, I would want a similarly indebted partner to prevent resentment. If I was an employer, I wouldn’t want a debt free new employee. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/20 04:19 PM |
| 1 | What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them?You’re attracted to what you’re attracted to. It’s like your asking, “why don’t those sexless guys date each other? What about being single is better than getting penetrated by someone you’re not attracted to?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: The sexual frequency of men and womenYou’re right! They’re all like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 09:02 PM |
| 5 | How is it possible for a man to attract younger women and yet not be good enough for women his own age?https://youtu.be/OxDFyn7FMgQ We can be that mistake. Older women can see our shortcomings from a mile away. No one hates multi level marketing more than someone who has experience in MLM. And 30 year olds who have dated liars or exciting guys in the past can see the flaws from a mile away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Women don't understand why promiscuity is undesirable because men who are able to cheat are high-value, whereas all women can cheat and those who do are low-valueWho hurt y’all? Social media, class room discussions, and public forums where thoughts on such things are discussed, are more influenced by maintaining kayfabe and not by honest opinions. People are very uncomfortable with our inevitable perceived hypocrisy and we will try to minimize it. Women are also more likely to value team-cohesion/agreeableness over making their feelings known. Criticizing promiscuous behavior can go against a personal narrative of liberation, cause others to wonder why y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Premarital sexual history is a better indicator of risk of divorce than ageNice to see isis is still posting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Are the majority of men's problems also caused by men in the first place?Practically all adult problems are self inflicted injuries, or a choice to not remove yourself from a situation you were born into. Comparison is the primary ingredient in disappointment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Overwhelmingly, women prefer not to have relationships with men who earn less than they do, why do women change this narrative to, "Men are intimidated by successful women" instead?The metaphor is sports. The context is a fight that must end with us winning or us being gravely injured. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Overwhelmingly, women prefer not to have relationships with men who earn less than they do, why do women change this narrative to, "Men are intimidated by successful women" instead?No, you pick the best fighters. Most of the time that leaves you with men. Sometimes you end up with a guy who has a history of going with option 3 of the fight or flight response, freezing. While at the same time you have a fully trained woman who is always calm. I would probably position her in a place that prohibits her from being the initial target, but I would trust their response to be effective and appropriate. Which one do you pick: unreliable strength, or effective tactics? If I have 5 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 09:29 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Being a woman's beta bux is worse than being with a young golddigger?What if, not it’s just an idea, you do you in an effort to be happy? I was a psycho at 18. Maybe I thought girls didn’t like me because I was ugly, but maybe it was because I was still inventing secret club hand shakes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 09:47 PM |
| 1 | TIL that men make up 78% of Tinder. What are the implications of this?That’s gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Overwhelmingly, women prefer not to have relationships with men who earn less than they do, why do women change this narrative to, "Men are intimidated by successful women" instead?We’re not equal, that’s so simplified that it’s almost a straw man. You shouldn’t make decisions based solely on gender, isn’t the same as, men and women are equal. I can’t put together a team of just men because we may have a fight. I can pick a team of the most aggressive employees I can find. That team almost never includes the kind of person who WANTED the cross over they own. If I need team work, my team probably isn’t going to include the kind of people who love the solitude of fishing. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/20 07:07 PM |
| 4 | Overwhelmingly, women prefer not to have relationships with men who earn less than they do, why do women change this narrative to, "Men are intimidated by successful women" instead?As a masculine/competitive dad, who knows some happy stay at home dads: Because many men find not being a necessary part of the team to be less than desirable. What is money? In the most simple economy, money is an agreed upon way to store the value of labor/calories for a later time. That voice that tells some of us that we are different, tells the majority of us to desire typical achievements. For men, that voice tells them be to be the necessary calorie accumulator that allows their partner t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/20 06:35 PM |
| 33 | Overwhelmingly, women prefer not to have relationships with men who earn less than they do, why do women change this narrative to, "Men are intimidated by successful women" instead?I work for the government at sites where most people fall into one of 5 pay grades. We make enough that my coworkers education ranges from psychologists to could barely graduate high school. It’s hard for me to remember a situation where a lower ranked man dated a higher ranked female. The ones I could think of are situations where the woman went to a paper pushing position but the man had a prestigious and highly coveted position with access to unlimited overtime. Imagine asking your great grea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/20 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Despite each of our issues, how many of you are willing to admit that you would HATE to be the opposite gender?White dude. I won the lottery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Is this sub's purpose just to make observations, or are we supposed to apply it and "solve" something? What's the conclusion to be drawn from these observations? What should be done about them?May I suggest r/purplepillsolved ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/20 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Is this sub's purpose just to make observations, or are we supposed to apply it and "solve" something? What's the conclusion to be drawn from these observations? What should be done about them?Human decisions can’t be accurately measured. That’s why the science on the optimal diet is always changing. According to reported statistics the typical human should be starving to death from a calorie deficit. Remember all of the polls that said that Hillary was going to win? People lie. The social sciences tell us what the typical person imagines the typical person does. Subjects report the truth with the shame reduced and the virtue emphasized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 11:19 PM |
| 0 | Is this sub's purpose just to make observations, or are we supposed to apply it and "solve" something? What's the conclusion to be drawn from these observations? What should be done about them?Now accurately and reliably apply it to the individual. The language of the scientific method can’t honestly and sincerely be applied to the human mind. The use of scientific verbiage is an attempt to conflate the confidence that we have in the mathematics that we used to get to the moon with a hypothesis on why chicks dig tall dudes. The effort may have n been great, the standards may have been impeccable, but as it stands, it is just not science. Perhaps all of this data will help us one day, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Is this sub's purpose just to make observations, or are we supposed to apply it and "solve" something? What's the conclusion to be drawn from these observations? What should be done about them?Science suggests consistent and reliable repeatability. We can make large and sweeping statements about the herd but it’s almost impossible to predict our personal decisions about tomorrow. 99% of people would consider separation to be the reasonable response to infidelity, yet that’s not the option that is immediately taken 99% of the time. Which is why organizations that try to impact behavior use the phrases "evidence based practices/best practices." Science flies planes, best practices keep … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 11:04 PM |
| 8 | Is this sub's purpose just to make observations, or are we supposed to apply it and "solve" something? What's the conclusion to be drawn from these observations? What should be done about them?Peer reviewed social science is make believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Is this sub's purpose just to make observations, or are we supposed to apply it and "solve" something? What's the conclusion to be drawn from these observations? What should be done about them?It's ammo for motivational interviewing. No one listens to simple advice, but they tend to listen to, "If you were to xxxxxx at lunch, do you think your life would improve?”. "If I wasn't willing to try xxxxxx I would have to reconsider how important the relationship is to me." This sub gives me contemporary examples of xxxxx. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?You cheat everyone. Including yourself. Your parents would say, "I am not mad, just disappointed." Your partner is cheated into believing they are investing in a secure relationship. Other couples are cheated through doubt in the value of one's word. ...I started to list all the ways it goes bad, and it just goes on forever. Kids, grandparents, STDs... It just breaks your personal society, unless the other person is willing to throw out the rule book. Which leads to more problems. Next thing you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 06:54 AM |
| 1 | If you're in a relationship, would you still want to have sex with other hot women?Yes and no. The value in a long term relationship is the stability of the team. That stability is maintained through multiple sacrifices of the self in exchange for the couple. The primary sacrifice is monogamy. Think about the common term for infidelity, “cheating.” Do people cheat in a way that isn’t desirable for the individual? Maybe crazy people do, but most cheating is done in an effort to win more than you earned. If sex outside of a monogamous relationship wasn’t desirable, we wouldn’t d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 01:19 AM |
| 2 | The concept of “The Wall” is one of the most inaccurate assessments and weaker foundations of TRPIt's no wall. It's a 3' gate that isn't locked. It's not that hard to bypass, but life COULD be easier if the gate isn't there. At the same time, gates tends to make your life easier and keep complications away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 06:26 PM |
| 3 | "Get out there and meet women" - what do people have in mind when they say stuff like this?Literally go outside and meet women. Go to church and talk to women. Go to the grocery store and talk to women. Join a social athletic league and talk to women. Make yourself uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 04:48 PM |
| 0 | Men Crave Sex cause it's the only way we dont get shamed for admitting we want physical affectionHave you tried sex? I want to cancel culture you for making me think the R word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 09:35 AM |
| 1 | American dads "babysitting" their own kids and not changing their diapers, not paying child support, etc. Is it cultural that Americans expect less effort/responsibility from fathers than from mothers?Let me in on this circle jerk. Also cancer sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Are most women even attracted to men?It’s not that complicated. Women like nests. The nest is a mirror of themselves and their value. As a partner, you are a part of their nest. Dick picks improve a nest in the same way a tequila collection improves a nest. They’re potentially fun, but not a sign of a safe high value nest. Some women like dick picks, some women like cocaine. Some women like dick picks after midnight on Friday and Saturday after using the gateway drug of alcohol. If you aren’t attractive to your female partner’s fri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 05:44 PM |
| 1 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSWho is advocating for non sexist positions? We have PC opinions everywhere. Do you think that people only read FDS then put on blinders for the rest of the day? Are you trying to save little girls from this toxicity like a mom trying to save boys from video games? My position is sexist as shit. My experience as a human has lead to me not being equipped to efficiently communicate my love to my wife. Not because she is complicated, but because she is similar to 50% of the human population. Non spe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 06:51 PM |
| 1 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSI don’t identify with those groups, so maybe I don’t pick up on it. What I see is women complaining about poor hygiene. I am glad that I didn’t end up marrying a woman who overlooked her visceral reaction to me because I was nice. If you don’t want to be a plan b, then you want women reject men they don’t really want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 02:56 PM |
| 2 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSFDS isn’t a lifestyle blog. It isn’t advertising how to have a happy life. It’s really just advice on how to be complicated enough to drive away guys who just want to get their dicks wet, with the occasional story of positive guys women have connected with as a result of not wasting their time with. A lot of people read FDS and seem to be upset that it doesn’t also include the material that would complete the material necessary for a doctorate in psychology. Most of the complaining sounds like a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 02:42 PM |
| 11 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSThey say dumb shit like queen, but when they detail what a “queen” is it’s not that complicated. They aren’t advocating for palm fans and being hand fed grapes. They want replies to text messages, doors being opened, the occasional love letter, not being the assumed maid. I can’t remember seeing a post about jewelry, a car, or a vacation. Hell in one positive post recently, the woman was bragging about the considerate way the dude took public transportation. Its funny that you say they advocate … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Where do your views on women’s behavior come from?I discounted nagging as a personality trade of women. I agree with her to make her stop talking. She moved away from her family to live with me. I never acknowledged that but always brought up my sacrifices. She stayed and utilized the one part of myself that I would give her, my money. One day she realized that money couldn’t make her happy. Then she left without giving me a warning or even letting me know how I was falling short. I called her a gold digger for coming to the conclusion that mon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 05:40 PM |
| 31 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSFDS isn’t advice for getting dick. It is advice on how to identify men who are worth teaming up with. As a man their well thought out posts have made my marriage much more enjoyable. I stopped doing things that I learned from other guys that FDS doesn’t mention. My attempts at romance stopped being met with an eye roll and my life is better and more efficient because of FDS. FDS advocates for women acknowledging that they are being strung along and cutting bait when she picks up on those indicat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Red pill men; what do you want?My instinctive response was to disagree with your idea that society exploits men. I initially thought about how I am better off than my sisters. Then I realized my input of time and effort was easily twice as high as my sister’s. I had to expose myself to a ton of risk that she and my wife chose not to. Our society makes it inappropriate to openly discuss this without exposing yourself to liability(appearing ignorant, HR, sounding bitter...). The truth is, both males and women leach off of “men.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Red pill men; what do you want?I want to disagree with you. Then I remember the reality of the paths my sisters had to take to get to where we are. The one who didn’t have kids at a young age(lifelong atheist who just celebrated her 30th anniversary with the dad) was able to pick jobs based on fulfillment. She still forgets her wallet when she goes shopping with my mom. My parents paid for her college. My parents paid for her family to go to Disneyland. My life appears better from the outside. It includes a daily meditation p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 03:54 PM |
| 5 | Q4Men: what do you have to say to the women who try to marry a good man before they hit the wall, but fail?It’s easier to get a job when you’re already employed. It’s not good advice to give unemployed people, but it’s true. Perhaps you are no longer optimistic about romance and the world is picking up on that. Maybe you need to process the ten year relationship that didn’t end in a proposal and find a way to get your groove back. Dump the next guy who doesn’t propose after a year. Ask guts out by saying, “Would you like to go on a date?” Do not invite them places, ask them on a date. That dude may t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Most men are simply too shy, but women wouldn't be any more confident if they were in their placePeople like to say that you never make the shots that you don’t take. I had a friend who was probably developmental disabled but he was great at football so he was given passing grades. He went to a weightlifting competition and was in first place until the last lift of the day. He would have won if he had just lifted the bar and registered with proper form. Instead, he went for the record. The problem is, you get three attempts at each lift. Each the second and third lifts could be heavier but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 11:46 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] how many of you can honestly say that you would date yourself if you were a woman?I would totally pick up on my big dick energy, sans big penis problems. Plus the pension and medical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 03:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men being seen as a ''Safe option'' as a partner is an issue.Women like safe. Women want a nest. Being offended that you are a safe option is like her being offended that she isn't a crazy nympho who can't hold down a job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 06:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women who make men wait for months just don't like sexYou're right, the ones who actually warrior that long may not like sex. Aim for the stars and when you miss you may hit the moon. Maybe they talk about waiting 3 months with the goal of getting to a 3 weeks rather than giving in on the 2nd date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 11:58 PM |
| 1 | The resentments of MGTOW ultimately mean they can never truly 'go their own way'.I know I am an atheist because I can disrespect god without fear. I can also pray without hope. Both are functionless actions to me. I think of the actions in the same way many people would imagine praying to Joe Pesci. If you are truly mgtow, you should be incredibly indifferent while talking to attractive women. When I finally accepted that I was always an atheist, I devoted a ton of time to being an atheist. It’s been over a decade now, and I don’t talk about it ever. I am even open to the id… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever felt completely safe expressing your emotions to your SO?Yes, and you shouldn’t. Not because it will be used against you, but because you should be intriguing. Women want a guy who isn’t allergic to self improvement through talk therapy, they don’t want to be our therapists. Women want men to express their love for them in vulnerable ways, they don’t want to know we can’t think about “The Land Before Time” without crying, or that our brother jerked off in front of us when he was 10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Why do guys not want relationships as much as women?If we’re going to speak in generalities, then we should assume that we inherit some of our traits from our forebears. I am a dreaded millennial. My sisters are the first generation in my family that has access to reliable birth control. As a guy I can pump and dump. Do you see that period? The little dot after the p in “dump”? It’s the loudest and most important part of the sentence. Every single one of my male forebears could have utilized that period to start multiple families. It’s unlikely t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 03:57 PM |
| 1 | 'Maintenance romance'I perform maintenance romance(I prefer the term pursuit, I have no idea what romance is, but I know exactly what pursuit is.). I expect nothing from a single act. I expect my average length of time between break downs to be extended. Send texts “only you could make this better” with a pick of your hog a nice sunset. Intentional active listening with eye contact. Costco roses. Prep veggies for dinner. Love notes. Responding to rejection with confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Bad boys get to have sex with women in their physical prime, whereas nice and stable guys get the reward of older and more "mature" womenKind of. Many people play to the level of their opponent. Some people are just garbage people. Women need to be pursued. When they’re young, they get cat called, leered at, and invited to places for no reason, and they can’t stand all of this attention. Then as they age, and their visual appeal recedes they notice the lack of attention and they may try to draw attention. They have no idea how to do this because it was something that just happened in the past. Many women want to perceive that the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 06:49 PM |
| 20 | Bad boys get to have sex with women in their physical prime, whereas nice and stable guys get the reward of older and more "mature" womenUmm, it’s not money. There is no high score. When you’re older, you won’t want to suffer a conversation with a 20 year old. Imagine saying that about anything but sex. Also, you’re in your early 20s and you feel like it’s all down hill from here? Do you find that to be an interesting coincidence(that your cohorts happen to be the hottest)? Remember when you would jerk off while thinking of a fellow 12 or 13 year old? Were you a pedo, or did you mature? That maturing thing keeps happening. When y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 04:23 AM |
| 6 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.Yes, "hope" but not expect. It's called a mating dance. Not a mating move. Most of the steps in the dance are feelers that allow plausible deniability (hello frustrated friend-zone). If she sits down the dance you can still be friendly with her, she technically never rejected you, and you technically never propositioned her. After all, we ask every stage guy we meet "what's you do last weekend/do you go to bars often/can I buy you a drink/are you single?" Even the "do you want to see a painting … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 04:34 PM |
| 7 | Fellas, Hang it up and delete your online dating profilesIf you are willing to face rejection, then social media has made life fairly easy. Your not competing with nearly as many guys as in 1999. So many guys will just mumble, "bitch" when rejected, then go home and jerk off rather than respectfully stepping deeper into the discomfort. If you are worried that women don’t read your bio, walk up to them and recite it. I am married now, but I remember approaching a table of women in 2010 when I was single. One woman asked me, “what makes you think you ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Most men don't give a shit about how hot a woman's face is. As long as she's slim or of healthy weight (not fat) a woman can be considered 'attractive' even with a below average face.Semantics: “Don’t give a shit.” That’s just not true. I have had ugly women who were fit show interest and I was not interested. She looked like if a propaganda poster drawn by Goebbels matter with Goebbels. I also had a fat girl show interest in me and she was cute. But she was unhealthy. She gave up a long time ago. She was resigned to having a heart attack in her early 50s. I wasn’t attracted to her in the same way that I don’t want to spend time with men who don’t care about their future. My… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Couples who split chores equally DON'T have less sex. The previously posted study was based on outdated data.Am married man: My go to move when she is tired is to take away her excuses for being tired. So I have more sex when I do less housework, because I do more housework when I have less sex. Plus there are a few beards in there. There are a few up tight guys. There are depressed women who are barely hanging on. There are injured and ill women... I wouldn’t read this study as “women dry up when they see you doing chores.” This study reminds me of the numbers on people who don’t drink at all having w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 03:56 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Most men don't give a shit about woman's age, even for LTRs and marriage. If a woman is hot enough, they won't care if she's 25 or 50.Shopping implies effort. When you go shopping you bring your wallet. Most coupled men don't TRY to attract more sexually appealing women. Big Dog shirts, Chryslers, socks with sandles, BBQ as a hobby, forgetting cologne exists, waiting for arm pit hair to be staind with stench before body hair is trimmed, if the bowls and cups were to switch locations they wouldn't be 100% confident that they didn't have dementia, bragging about their sunglasses that they paid $80 in 2010... Belts with a Leather… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Women push men to adhere to typical Male stereotypes more than other men do.Yeah, but they complicate it. They get disappointed if you call someone a bitch/fag/pussy. They spend 2 weeks trying to explain how if you stopped being a pussy you would stop having to bitch to deal with your fag emotions. Women love effective masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 01:56 AM |
| -1 | Why do quite many red pillers seem incapable to love?The more I read of trp/mgtow the more I wonder if it's just young religious men bouncing their crazy ideas off of each other while in the refactory period between round of incest porn. Their obsession with blown out vaginas verifies this. They're going to be so disappointed when they find out the son their virgin bride births for them doesn't fall out of their bride's butt hole. Not all posts give me that feeling, but 80% do. r/lewronggeneration The other 20% of posts complain that women aren't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/19 06:28 PM |
| 6 | YES.You can skip go and have a transactional relationship with 10s if that’s all you need from life. Many young men don’t know what they want. A great example of this is South Park’s season 17-episode 10 “The Hobbit”. There is a ton of truth in there. Most young and old men so over value perceived physical attractiveness that they don’t care about red flags. As a result, those men rarely converse with women. Guys behave as though they would prefer to talk towards women like they are non player chara… | /r/MGTOW | 21/12/19 12:12 AM |
| 28 | YES.Youngster, what if I told you that you didn’t need to wait? You can choose to be disciplined in all aspects of your life and be more desirable to women while still in your 20s. All you need to do is always play the long game. You can’t turn 30, watch YouTube, spend 30 minutes looking for the perfect scene to jizz to, hang out with Tylor who has been fired every year since he was 18, confuse internal motivation with anxiety and smoke enough weed to lower your motivation level... George Clooney di… | /r/MGTOW | 20/12/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Spending your time worrying about what's beta and what's not makes you a beta.Your dad is beta. Not because it's a bad thing, but because everyone is both. Great leaders know when to follow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 12:19 AM |
| 6 | Fucking hypocritesThings people hate: Yankees Patriots Microsoft Google Apple Wal-Mart No one wastes their time talking about the success of the Lions... I am a white male who is surrounded professionally by minorities. I grew up in a horrible area. My HS janitor earned a trip to death row while at work... Most of the minorities I work with tell much healthier stories about their childhood, some have worse. I spent time with "the patriarchy" this weekend. I watched this guy appear to organically mention to everyo… | /r/MGTOW | 16/12/19 05:33 PM |
| 1 | About friendships and the "friendzone"...Or an addict. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 12:29 AM |
| 2 | About friendships and the "friendzone"...Is anyone over the age of 21 being friend zoned and caring? I married a woman who friend zoned me when I first asked her out. I was honest with her and she honestly told me that I was a wild man that she wouldn't want to be in a relationship with. When I stopped being a wild man, I approached her again and it worked out. It would be interesting to see an instant replay of all friend zone conversations. I was friend zoned as a young man. I would do dumb things that didn’t help the case. I would a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 02:09 AM |
| 5 | Waiting for sex: research agrees with FDS women that it is associated with better LTR outcomes.In other news, all weight loss diets are just a form of calorie restriction. I mean duh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/19 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Has the shift in average been affected by the rapid rise in obesity among women?18 years ago I graduated from a high school in northern California that would qualify as being in a food desert. I was in a wrestling weight class that didn't have a number, but was just called heavy weight. I wore xl shirts and sub 40 inch waist pants. Other than Samoans and a kid who had medical problems, I was the largest guy who was on pace to graduate (there were fat dudes who just showed up to deal drugs). I remember expressing interest in a girl who was built like a softball player. My fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Imagine hating men THIS muchExactly, if someone believes abortion is murder, how can someone be for one and against the other while maintaining an honest view on murder? The truth is that 99% of people are perfectly fine with murder as long as there is a degree of separation between them and the victim. If you honestly believe abortion is murder than you should be killing abortion doctors. Imagine if I told you that I had killed 50 toddlers and I planned on killing 100 more. You would kill me. Yet you don't kill abortion d… | /r/MGTOW | 07/12/19 11:11 PM |
| -3 | Imagine hating men THIS muchDid I say sending Navy seals in was murder? Or did I specifically mention dropping bombs from a plane? Dropping bombs from a plane is way way way worst than abortion. For the record, I am pro sky murder. | /r/MGTOW | 07/12/19 06:19 PM |
| 15 | Imagine hating men THIS muchI don't like abortion, but as soon as I voted for someone who wasn't against all war, when an anti war candidate was available, I realized that I needed to shut the fuck up. You can't be pro life and pro dropping bombs from a plane and a critical thinker. You can be pro life, pro bombing Iraq from the air, and a dumb twat but not a critical thinker. My life is way more likely to be ruined by the unwanted offspring of a single mother in my community than it is by ISIS. | /r/MGTOW | 07/12/19 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Is there a difference to you if: 1) A girl had sex 1000 times, but with only 3 men, in the span of 4 years. And 2) A girl had sex with 20 different guys, but they were mostly ONS?The world is very complicated and everything is a degradation of grey. Rarely are we presented with what is clearly a right answer unless it is a mandatory choice between two diametric options. However, most functional humans are expected to not repeatedly suffer from the same repeated poor decisions over and over again. That is part of the reason why we remember our younger years with a sense of potential. We hadn't accumulated the knowledge to know why every fun idea isn't a good idea(there is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Is there a difference to you if: 1) A girl had sex 1000 times, but with only 3 men, in the span of 4 years. And 2) A girl had sex with 20 different guys, but they were mostly ONS?The same can be said about drug use. It's evidence of a lack of discernment. There are plenty of people who casually use heroin or cocaine. They maintain jobs, they have good relationships, but they do cocaine when they "go fishing." There is nothing wrong with doing a bump, but it's a certain kind of person who continues to value the bump over the not yet manifested but still potential consequences. All other things being equal, would you move to a town that had a disproportionate higher rate o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Is there a difference to you if: 1) A girl had sex 1000 times, but with only 3 men, in the span of 4 years. And 2) A girl had sex with 20 different guys, but they were mostly ONS?It doesn’t have to be in the dsm for it to be a problem. We all inherently know when we see someone who is off. They may not check any boxes on any screening form, but they set off alarm bells. The alarms may be very small, like you don’t trust them to bring bread to a dinner party small. (Speaking about people who are actively putting notches in their belt) Now there may be a ton of undercover 20+ers out there who are totally normal, but I think most normal people realize that they aren’t going… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Is there a difference to you if: 1) A girl had sex 1000 times, but with only 3 men, in the span of 4 years. And 2) A girl had sex with 20 different guys, but they were mostly ONS?It has to do with your disgust level. "Used Up" needs to be defined. Do you mean a damaged vagina? That's not really a thing, as evidenced by couples who have multiple children. If you believe abortion is genuinely murder most foul, then someone who was drugged and raped one time and aborted the rape baby could be "used up." You wouldn't want to partner with someone you believe is a murderer. "Used up" is all in the guys head. It's another term for disgust, gut instinct, risk avoidance, or perce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Better to have loved and lost, then to never have loved at all?The “it” you desire may be somewhere between “Disney love” and MGTOW. Where problems seem to arise when one or both individuals in a relationship believe they are headed to Disney Love Land. It’s like going to the moon, it’s possible, some dudes did it in the 60’s and 70’s, but you only have a Toyota Tundra and they were test pilots in the rocket age. Another analogy I would liken it to, is hearing about Atlantis. Deciding to risk everything to move from LA to Atlantis. You start driving towards… | /r/MGTOW | 01/12/19 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Growing up in a single mother household and gaining the the brutal redpillMy ex wife's mother was a heroin addicted p.o.s., her father was an outlaw motorcycle gang member. When her mom was 7 months pregnant with my wife she decided she was going to get her life together. Step 1 was to ghost dad. Steps 2-100 only lasted 2 months. After my wife was born, her mom went back to bring a p.o.s. who locked her kids in a closet for days at a time so she could use. She told my wife that when she was born, her father saw that she was a girl and declared, "I don't want to raise … | /r/MGTOW | 11/11/19 04:01 PM |
| 9 | Why does accountability piss them off so bad?🤔My sample size is tainted due to working in criminal justice, but so many women ignore obvious signs then act like they are entitled to the same sympathy as the a-holes first victim. I have sat down and read the previous DV reports to the new GF's about his last 3 victims that followed the same pattern that they are currently on. When the tiger acts like a tiger I will do my job, I will hate him even more, but I have as much sympathy for the "victim" as I do for grizzly man. At some point you be… | /r/MGTOW | 02/09/19 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Shoutout to the teachers that yell at all kids equallyStupid teacher, finding non obvious and potentially non PC ways to motivate students to live up to their potential. They don't make those statements to dumb kids, they make those statements to kids who underperform and lack discipline. | /r/MGTOW | 15/08/19 04:38 AM |
| 4 | infamous antifa leader finally busted.It's next to the "Punch Violence in the Face" doctrine. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/09/17 05:35 PM |
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