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It really does. I lived that. The trauma bonding of BDSM kept me busy trying to believe he loved me because he did “aftercare.” It made it extremely difficult to realize that no, actually, abuse is abuse and cuddling right after doesn’t negate that. I really believe that if we had not been practicing BDSM I would have found the will to leave him much sooner than I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:48 PM
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I think most of us do 😵😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 11:27 PM
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I’m glad it was a short time, and it’s good you’re doing much much better ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 11:23 PM
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I hope it was a last date as well, that sounds awful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 11:04 PM
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I dated a cheap man for two months. He made every date super stressful, fussing over how much everything cost. He didn’t even try to enjoy my company, he just complained about how expensive the restaurant or activity was and being embarrassing about “getting his money’s worth.” I’m glad I dumped him despite being a hopeless pickme at the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:21 PM
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I was told this multiple times as a very small child, and I did NOT buy it, ever. Those boys were being mean to be mean and I knew it. Sad when a 5 year old has more common sense about how people who like each other should treat each other than adults.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:57 AM
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That sounds so lovely! Platonic “dates” are my favorite way to hang out with my friends. Hope you two have a wonderful time ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:03 PM
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Go for a night walk with headphones in, wearing whatever I feel like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:46 PM
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I was the “crazy girlfriend” for a long time. Turns out, once I left the relationship for good and spent a lot of time in therapy and with strong and wonderful female friends, I was actually a fun, calm, and kind person. Emotional abuse buries who you are under repeated trauma responses. It makes me think of the quote “behind every crazy woman is a man who made her that way.” I think there is a lot of truth to it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:15 PM
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Working on leveling up. Started doing daily yoga at home, watching my calories more carefully, and am about to start a new job. Also thinking about my five year plan seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:41 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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