cuddlemechloe Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	CMV: Wanting a virgin/low body count woman isn't about pussy Most are virgins in high school, also the most drama in their relationships imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 04:37 AM
2	Women live in 'post nut clarity' due to being the less horny gender. This is one of the main drivers of female pickiness. Now that I'm looking it up I don't even see that it's FDA approved to use T for this. There are two other drugs available though, not T. Seems like the studies on T for women are inconclusive, that placebo effect is a potential cause for increased desire and more study is needed. The side effects of balding, beards, body hair increase, acne, voice deepening and clitoral enlargement sound prohibitively undesirable. I know I would not feel attractive/better about myself with side effects of male p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/22 11:21 PM
2	Women live in 'post nut clarity' due to being the less horny gender. This is one of the main drivers of female pickiness. I mean, I bet it does suck to be extra horny but now no one will have sex with you as a bearded lady. That's some Monkey's Paw/malevolent genie wish stuff. "Oh, my libidos down, I'll do this drug trial. Welp, the libido is fixed but it's useless because now you're hideous."	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/22 06:53 PM
16	Women live in 'post nut clarity' due to being the less horny gender. This is one of the main drivers of female pickiness. Women hate it because it gives them beards and acne not because of the horniness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 11:22 PM
1	Do you give a flying fuck about anxiety over paternity uncertainty? No, but I'm not interested in having children so I've never thought about it and it won't affect me or a partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 05:35 AM
1	Women, what do you think of stuff like Nofap or NoNutNovember? I don't care how much random men are or are not touching themselves. We're not dating? Then who cares, rub it till it falls off or never idgaf. I don't think it'll give you the super powers you're going for though, or I'd join. Funny, it's not a foreign concept to women though. A couple of my crystal hippie type friends have these bucket list calendars where you're supposed to check off stuff as you do it like "get up and watch the sunrise every day for 30 days". For self improvement. Among the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 08:27 AM
1	Are any of you attracted to upper traps? Exaggerated traps people maybe associate with roids? Your example guy is terrifying. I mostly like slim young men, muscles are objectively attractive though. I'd be lying if I said they weren't also hot. I think a lot of women saying "oh, not muscles! Not for me!" Are trying to get across that they'd date a normal guy, they've been crazy attracted to plenty of average guys before, and that they definitely do not prefer a guy that looks like your example.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 08:15 AM
1	Have you ever asked a guy out or made the first move? OLD, never. IRL, every single one. The factors that contributed were I was interested, and life is short.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 07:55 AM
3	If you could describe what sexually turns you on in one short sentence. What would it be? Smart in a technical way. Easily flustered and obviously into me. Bonus points for blushing if I invade his personal space. Skinny, clean cut. No tattoos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 07:47 AM
1	Are women worried about the growing number of women who are sugar babies, "Instagram models", Escorts, and/or OnlyFans performers? Lol wat? I'm 0% concerned about online strippers and sex workers stealing all the men. I'm not a sex worker, I'm not interested in men who want to pay girls to date them. I'd like my personal life to not feel like work thanks. No shade to Belle Delphine or the cast of Real Housewives or whatever, do what makes you happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 07:01 AM
3	Your opinions: Men using their vulnerability as a sh*t test? Yeah, I don't think it's a bad idea. Depends on how you do it though, and who you do it with. You want a supportive partner, it's a good idea to see early in a relationship if a little vulnerability makes them ghost you or something. I believe some girls want a stereotypical stoic strict gender roles guy. If you're not that guy it's probably good to screen that out if you're not compatible. But you should only really do it with a partner. An established relationship or friendship. I've had stran…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 01:06 AM
2	What are some arbitrary things that make you immediately swipe left? Ahahaha, I have nothing really against Applebee's but I love the dramatic vitriol against something so benign. xD	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 01:50 AM
2	Do women really find men like MGK and Pete Davidson attractive? Skinny guys with tattoos had always been popular. Remember emo? I like skinny guys a lot, but don't prefer tattoos. Tattoos are getting more and more mainstream though, tons of people like them or are at least neutral about them. I don't think tall and thin is ever going out of style. Those two particular guys are pulling women that are wealthier and significantly more famous than them. So it's not status. The women clearly find them attractive and they probably have sexual chemistry and good pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 01:18 AM
1	Do women really find men like MGK and Pete Davidson attractive? The dudes in question are pulling women wealthier and more famous than them though. Which implies it's their personality and chemistry with women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 01:04 AM
7	Do women really find men like MGK and Pete Davidson attractive? No, it's a masculine feature to have a strong nose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 01:01 AM
3	As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be picky Yeah, I don't think that would work on a woman. That would be a red flag for me, and kind of scary. Especially if your type is big men. Big men have a harder time with me because they make me nervous already if we're strangers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/21 08:33 PM
1	When you walk outside and look at couples walking around, how often is the man/woman more attractive than the other in the pair? Mostly the same honestly. Face usually similar in looks. And even if they started out different body types, once they start living together the skinnier one always ends up gaining weight to match the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 08:01 PM
5	How common is double heading dating nowadays? No condoms and a ton of casual sex? They're playing a dangerous game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/21 03:09 AM
17	Even though women are valued more for their looks in society, being ugly affects your dating prospects more as a man than a woman Naw, they're definitely the most resistant to the woman changing. They "forget" she's not supposed to have candy when she's trying to do the Dr Now diet. The other spouses harp on about how they don't want the other person to die. But these guys say stuff like "I don't want her to lose TOO much weight, just enough to get healthy". They drag their feet. And some of them openly say that they're into it, and there are other reality shows that go into the feeder fetish dynamic. It's definitely a rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/21 01:34 AM
16	Even though women are valued more for their looks in society, being ugly affects your dating prospects more as a man than a woman Well the skinny guys seem to have a fetish for it. They always seem the happiest about their caretaker situation than any of the other spouses. They aren't looking over it at her "beautiful soul", it's a perk. I think it would be hard to have a fetish for it the other way around cuz you can't do it (I think) if you're a man and 600 lbs. Like I don't think you could even find it?? No? Like if you're a dude and you like 800lb ladies you can always find somewhere to rub yourself on. But what's a la…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/21 01:21 AM
7	Even though women are valued more for their looks in society, being ugly affects your dating prospects more as a man than a woman Photos look WAY better than in person for dramatic makeup. You can see the prosthetics and texture if you were to hang out with those viral tik tok people. Even just overlining your lips looks completely stupid in person, you can see the shape of the lip underneath it. I avoid wearing foundation entirely because it looks gross up close- it's not a good trade-off. Like my DMV photo looks awesome but it was embarrassing that day to walk around like that. You look so insecure and fake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/21 12:05 AM
35	Even though women are valued more for their looks in society, being ugly affects your dating prospects more as a man than a woman I do like that show as a guilty pleasure, and plenty of the guys have doormat enabling gf/spouses. They're always fat too though. 200lbs ish, not 600- but fat still. Whereas when the fat girls have a bf on that show, most of the time the bf is also fat but sometimes they're skinny (and it's probably a feeder fetish in those cases). The only difference is you never occasionally see a skinny girl with the 600 lb guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/21 11:33 PM
11	Women are the "wild" gender now They don't know they're having sex? Chad just compliments them...with his dick...and she didn't know that was sex? She thinks all they did was just a comment on her hair? Sounds like we really need better sex Ed in highschools.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 03:41 AM
1	Question about “the wall” Think Selena Gomez 2010. Skinny but chubby cheeks because that's just how her face is. That kind of baby fat in your face doesn't look good on everyone & you can't do anything about it except wait. Only Selena always still had a bit of a dimpling occurring on the sides when she smiles/talks, it looked OK. Mine was more & puffy, even though I'm lanky/thin everywhere else. You can't go from that to Gisele Bündchen cheekbones, but it will look 500% better to lose enough to get to 2010 Selena when y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/21 09:25 PM
5	Question about “the wall” Lol, my face did the same thing! I'm 29 and my face has never looked better because of the fat loss from age. I have cheek bones! Some people looked the best at 18 but I did not. Nobody wants acne ridden baby face girl. It's awesome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/21 03:49 PM
1	I honestly don’t understand a part of the FDS mindset I'm not sure everyone buying sperm is a "fighter for the rights of oppressed people". There are a lot of reasons someone might want it: infertility, gayness, rich single woman, the husband has some sort of very detrimental hereditary illness they don't want to pass on etc. It doesn't make you a saint to want to buy jizz, they're coming from all walks of life. They pay a lot of money for that stuff. They are trying to get the most advantageous traits as possible, because they want their kid to ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/21 08:25 PM
1	I honestly don’t understand a part of the FDS mindset Pretty sure you'd get your pants sued off. I know a gay couple who sued bc the guy lied about his family mental health history and the kid had a disability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/21 07:14 AM
20	I honestly don’t understand a part of the FDS mindset Buy sperm, adoption etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 08:28 PM
3	Did men who felt "lied to by the media" miss the media that was right in front of them? Cosmo had explicit sex tips in it. And cartoon positions etc. I and my friends were NOT allowed to read it as a teen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 02:43 AM
–	Comparing Heightism to Fat women but not to Tall women ? It used to bother me a lot when I was younger & dating. I've been with the same dude for 8 years, so I still get the same kind of comments but it hits different when you're not single. Like, you can go kick rocks dude, I wasn't going to F you anyway, I don't care if "It would be alright if we were laying down ;) But we couldn't date." Gross, go away. It is kinda like being fat, you could get laid, but they'd be ashamed to be seen in public with you. But I love it in every other respect. I think …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/21 05:45 PM
1	Comparing Heightism to Fat women but not to Tall women ? Not OP, but I'm also a woman and 5' 10". A common experience is that they start flirting with you, chatting in public, and when I stand up they go "oh wow you're tall". In a...tone. Not like "ew", but you can see the gears turning and they change their mind on hitting on me. And get uncomfortable. OLD dates harp on it. Or a male acquaintance I'm chatting with, and we meet up and they give me the back handed compliment of "Oh, huh, I forgot how tall you are bc you're so pretty". It has the same v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/21 04:28 AM
4	The Recent Victoria's Secret Brand Image Shift Is A Symptom Of Female Entitlement CMV What's interesting is I do not think that they even were watching the supermodels walk down the runway. I think OP just saw an article about how VS is going "woke". I doubt it'll affect his life but maybe. What percentage of straight dudes are watching fashion shows? When they want to see a hot naked lady, they just watch porn. They don't go to Gucci's YouTube channel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/21 03:43 PM
11	The Recent Victoria's Secret Brand Image Shift Is A Symptom Of Female Entitlement CMV It totally is mostly women now. But what's fun is that your comment does touch on something, Victoria's Secret used to be a way different vibe originally when it was first started. I think it was a catalog first and then it was a series of stores targeted towards men, looking for exactly what you said, to buy their wives and girlfriends gifts. Their stores used to be like cigar clubs with velvet mafia type furniture and a purely male clientele. But then when women started entering the workforce …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/21 03:34 PM
12	The Recent Victoria's Secret Brand Image Shift Is A Symptom Of Female Entitlement CMV Yeah they're so full of it, they're acting like it's a moral thing. But it definitely is a money thing. They've been closing stores and their clientele has been declining for years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/21 03:27 PM
14	The Recent Victoria's Secret Brand Image Shift Is A Symptom Of Female Entitlement CMV I mean the point of supermodels is to sell women clothes. Were men watching fashion shows? If it's no longer going over well with their target audience then it makes business sense to pivot. More women are looking to see clothing modeled on a variety of bodies so that they can tell by the picture what it's going to look like on them. I'm seeing a lot of ads for stuff where they use six different models for the same swimsuit for example, which is honestly super helpful cuz you can look at the one…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/21 03:24 PM
1	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness I don't have a problem with porn. Nowhere did I say that men should stop watching it. I do not care if a partner watches it. But I am suggesting that people who are addicted to porn, and cannot have sex without it, might encounter quite a bit of upset and resistance from their partner if they attempt to have a long-term relationship in which that is a mandatory part of every sexual encounter. I've been talking about porn addiction not Joe Everyman level of usage. Especially if what they need to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 11:59 PM
0	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness You said you're not sure why women who don't see "these men" as suitable partners care whether they watch porn. And the subject is men who watch porn in this whole post. Who are the men you are talking about? I did phrase it as a question earlier too. It's not meant to put words in your mouth. I do think there are women that are threatened by / dislike porn. I think that the percentage of women who feel that way are lowering every generation, not rising, as it's a propriety thing, and sex being …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 11:45 PM
1	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness That's nice. I'm glad it has worked out for you. I'm sure some women would be into watching it together if it was brought up that way, especially if they like it when they're alone and you're into similar things. It's a together activity at that point. I think a huge portion of women would see it very differently if it became obvious that it was necessary, especially if it was niche or violent stuff. Like the tastes of a lot of people who struggle with addiction to it have gotten.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 09:44 PM
1	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness Are you saying that men that watch porn don't have sex? Women are having sex with men that are experiencing issues with porn addiction. Men are not out of the running because they are watching it. It is ubiquitous, they are all watching it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 09:40 PM
0	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness I just don't agree that faster/more vigorous sex = better sex. And I don't think that I am a minority in that situation. There are plenty of sex complaints on the internet about the dreaded "he watches too much porn jackhammer". There are certainly women who would be unsatisfied without it. It wouldn't be a thing in porn if nobody liked it cuz they wouldn't be able to get anyone to perform it in the movies. But the intended audience for that is generally men so I would take how much women like t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 09:31 PM
–	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness I feel like a lot of the complaints on the internet from women about men's performance tend to be in the vein of "he doesn't even know what a clit is". Like he didn't touch it, not that he wasn't fast enough at it. It's not a guaranteed thing all women like, I mean I don't like it. I'm not the pomegranate in Fruit Ninja. Yikes. But there totally might be a female death grip equivalent situation happening for some women. And some women use it alone but don't have a problem skipping it when they'r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 11:32 PM
–	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness Well, I don't think women are blaming men. I think their anatomy is just particular. Like, they think they can't orgasm at all, and then they try this vibrating sensation and suddenly can. Some women just can't entirely, not even with a vibrator. Seems insensitive to laugh about it. They're typically quite upset about it without dudes commenting on it, and feel broken.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 10:47 PM
–	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness I'm not sure it's easier for either sex to get lost in an unscripted fantasy. I'm sure that happens all the time. People closing their eyes thinking about the hot neighbor etc. I don't know why it would be easier for women. I don't think it's healthy for the relationship at all and shouldn't be encouraged. Sex is recreational, but it's also a bonding activity. You'll be less and less attracted to your partner doing that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 10:41 PM
2	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness I mean, ppl of all genders body shame as a lazy attempt to insult them when they're mad. You dumped me? "Well you're fat, ugly, have a small dick anyway! I faked it with you". Pick a thing most people are insecure about, rag on them about it even if it's not true. But I feel like that's a thing people do to ppl they're pissed at, not people they're trying to sleep with! Insults as foreplay do not go down well with the general population. Yeah, that's a decent solution. If you just need the voyeu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 09:52 PM
–	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness OH, yeah are women explaining their desire to use a vibrator in bed "your dick won't do it for me" instead of "I need to use one, that's the only way I cum." ? Cause you'd think they'd want to put it gently. Yeah, it is a her problem. But the "I'm addicted to porn & can't cum without it" is a him problem. Neither is the other one's fault. One of them definitely seems ruder to ask their partner to indulge in. Maybe because the implication is the addict did it to himself and women seem to be getti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 09:27 PM
–	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness I think it might be more comparable to your girl saying she wants to watch a porn instead of look at your face while doing you. Extra hurt points if the dude(s) in it are more conventionally attractive than you. But you're right, it is saying that she likes your dick but it isn't going to get her to cum. How do you feel about the fact that the majority of women don't orgasm from penetration though? Like you're gonna be using your hands/face for that part anyways, might as well make it easier on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 09:06 PM
–	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness That's an interesting thought. Watching porn while having sex with a woman would likely be extremely upsetting to most woman, similar to the way suggesting using a toy in bed upsets some men. I feel like requiring extra mental stimulation is significantly more rude/upsetting, feels more personal/emotional. Requesting a vibrator just feels way less insulting. Like requesting a certain position. Just a physical preference, not personal. And I don't even like vibrators, I find the sensation annoyin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 08:53 PM
–	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness That's just what I see men concerned about on Reddit I suppose. Nofap ppl, etc. It's usually a story about how they can't get it up unless the porn is really extreme and it's affecting their existing sex/relationship or motivation for sex/relationships and causes a lot of shame because of how extreme/niche they know the content is. They want a normal sex life and have determined that their porn consumption is directly negatively affecting that goal. Is that not the reason men trying to quit porn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 08:34 PM
27	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness Are you talking about vibrators? Because from what I gather, the issue with porn addiction is that you're so mentally stimulated that you aren't interested in normal sex anymore, just sex that <0.0001% of the female population would be interested in. You'd rather masturbate alone than have a partner. Physical overstimulation like vibrators would be more comparable to death grip for dudes. It doesn't affect your interest in sex, just your physical ability to orgasm during.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 07:44 PM
22	Discussion about sexually successful deadbeats This. There are just guys around who have never felt socially anxious about cold approaching women or talking to them and would stick their dick in an open campfire if they thought it would feel interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/21 01:28 AM
3	Why are so many men giving money to OnlyFans women? He needs jail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/21 12:11 AM
3	Why are so many men giving money to OnlyFans women? Maybe for a couple extra years until something else pissed him off. He's a psycho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 11:49 PM
3	Why are so many men giving money to OnlyFans women? Idk dude. Anyone willing to murder for any reason is probably going to do it eventually. Unhinged enough to steal & murder your fam over porn, you're probably unhinged enough to do it over road rage. It's a bad example to use mass murderers with manifestos about women trouble, or this guy bc there's no sympathy for murderers. Their crimes are leagues worse than women rejecting them. Even if the girl was mean. There's sympathy for loneliness and getting led on by mean people. But if you fucking M…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 11:44 PM
5	Why are so many men giving money to OnlyFans women? You never have to kill your whole family. You're a psychopath if you do so for any reason. Like, she's a scammer, but so are most of my incoming phone calls. He's truly awful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 11:19 PM
1	I think we all need to calm down a little I like how warm & snuggly men always are. I'm so cold naturally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 09:07 PM
3	Are men too sexually aggressive, or not aggressive enough?: Contradictory narratives on male sexuality It's both. Men aren't a monolith. For every catcaller there's a shy dude watching too much porn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/21 04:40 PM
3	Have you noticed any patterns in the types of people attracted to you? The men I notice are attracted to me are not just confident and extroverted, they seem to completely lack self awareness. Random men in life asking for your # when you're trying to buy bolt cutters, etc. Lots of monologuing I can't seem to escape from politely. I'm pretty attracted to approval-seeking behavior, and well-timed touching. Like I'll have not noticed an acquaintance really existed as a physical object 5 minutes ago, and definitely not wanted to touch him. But then he asks me for perm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 04:50 PM
1	What are terms of endearment you use when you're interested? It doesn't mean much to me besides that I'm comfortable with you, bc it's not professional. I use terms of endearment with friends as well as lovers. But honestly mostly with other women, just because I know that it's implicitly confusing if you do it with a guy friend. We better be REALLY good friends if you're a guy and I'm comfortable doing that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 02:10 AM
1	There is NO correct way of approaching women without potentially coming off as creepy or intrusive Let her lick your face too. They like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 09:00 PM
8	There is NO correct way of approaching women without potentially coming off as creepy or intrusive Right! Don't spook them coming up from behind or when they're clearly busy (reading, earbuds in etc.). Make the conversation short so they don't feel trapped.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/21 07:30 PM
2	Why should a woman have sex with you? What do you have to offer her? Me too 💙	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/21 04:26 AM
3	The real problem: The internet took a sledgehammer to the dating hierarchy. Are the only true Stacys old money? She's not a real Stacy if she has a job that pays for her physical maintenance? Also, a "hot" female body definitely requires gym & diet effort like Chad's. Jennifer Lawrence ain't eating out and sitting on her ass all day, girls just keep their fitness regime on the down-low bc it's not attractive to be seen making too much of an effort. You're supposed to be hot effortlessly, natural beauty, one of the guys but stunning by accident etc. Lest someone accuse y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/21 12:21 AM
3	N-Count: How high is too high and how low is too low? Furthermore, how does age factor in? What if it's the same five people? She's got them in a group chat xD	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 12:45 AM
3	Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men. This, I think it's a trope because it is a personality trope as well. It's not necessarily true but that's the idea, that the guy "knows how to have fun."	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 12:20 AM
2	[Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men? They want to be capable and strong for life reasons. But they want to be hot for...being hot reasons. You'd like the powerful feeling of being Gwendoline Christie, but if you're being honest with yourself you'd probably prefer looking like Ariana Grande. If you're a woman, you have to pick between being awesome and being desirable. It's why we're mostly moody fence sitters about it. Because you can't have both at the same time and I want kisses AND to feel badass. So it depends on who you're wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/21 05:42 PM
1	Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands? Eh! Oh! lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 11:08 PM
6	Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands? Can't buy love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 08:37 PM
1	Why do men factor a woman’s body into her overall attractiveness more than women factor in a man’s body ? Yeah, but I'm also 5'10". So half of all men are shorter than me, if I was eliminating ppl based on that I'd be screwing myself over big time on options. Anecdotally, men also definitely have a problem with it, I know reddit's full of men lamenting the height thing and how girls are shallow about it. But I can't tell you how many men can't shut the fuck up about "oh wow, you're so tall", or "I forgot how tall you are because you're so pretty". Kind of a bummer. Hot tip: don't go on and on about …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 07:05 PM
1	Why do men factor a woman’s body into her overall attractiveness more than women factor in a man’s body ? Women seem to not care about a man’s body as long as he isn’t fat or super skinny, and place a lot of importance on the face Yep. That sounds about right. I don't know why, but yeah. I really like men's faces.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 05:24 PM
1	Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men? Yes, I think women are mostly ignorant of that. Within "people doing limited exercise". Desk jobs, minimal gym time. The testosterone that gives a different base level body fat/muscle % will give men the advantage. Ronda Rousey will still kick every average guy's ass. But if you never get in a physical altercation, or play fight, you know - because you're adults, it's pretty invisible. It's not immediately something you think of when you size someone up at a glance. I'm decently fit and 5'10, an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/21 05:11 PM
2	If women are financially independent these days, why don't more of them date younger men? So, my personal experience is that most people do not want to date much younger, regardless of gender. BUT, I'm late 20s, and my personal sphere of friends are 24-40. Younger for me means 21. And already none of us want to date a 21 yr old, even in older 20s it's not compatible anymore. People want someone generally in the same stage of life. A 25 yr old and 35 yr old might be there, depending on how their life is going. If you're talking about a 55 yr old, wanting to date a 38 yr old, I can see…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/21 06:39 PM
1	Women Denying Sex in an LTR is a Huge Double Standard Lol, yeah. I mean, that's the ideal. People are emotional, especially when they feel rejected. You just have to keep your goals in mind, and keep in touch of how you're feeling and how you know your feelings respond to the environment. "Aware of" doesn't mean "Exempt from" but it helps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/21 05:22 PM
3	Women Denying Sex in an LTR is a Huge Double Standard This is definitely an issue of the stereotype that "men always want it". Culturally reducing men to sexual caricatures means people have prejudices about sexuality "making you a man" that damages men in lots of ways. But individuals are different. Men on average maybe have higher libidos, but I don't think it's a huge % and it shouldn't be cited within the confines of a relationship. Your partner should be patient and understanding and eager to work though any issues you're having regardless of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/21 05:18 PM
4	Women Denying Sex in an LTR is a Huge Double Standard I think you're right, that a statistically significant number of men have a higher sex drive. But what is that % difference of very high sex drive ppl by gender? I don't think it's huge, not double digits. That would be difficult to measure, because men's sex drive is consistent, and women's fluctuates monthly and varies more w/ environment. It's comparing apples to oranges in a lot of ways. The hope in a monogamous relationship is to partner with someone with around the same libido, so that if …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/21 05:09 PM
22	Women Denying Sex in an LTR is a Huge Double Standard Yeah, I feel like that's the real issue. Is that everybody has the double standard for themselves for what they want. It's not a man/woman thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/21 01:14 AM
8	If women are financially independent these days, why don't more of them date younger men? People generally like people they can relate to easier than the average. Age group really affects that "being able to relate" factor. You think a young guy is hot when you see him, but stop thinking that as soon as you talk to him. There are lots of high-profile/famous men with trophy wives etc, but I honestly feel like that's a fetish, not the majority. Most people really want a friend they can also have sex with, not an impressionable doll. I don't think you see as many rich women publicly hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/21 11:32 PM
79	Women Denying Sex in an LTR is a Huge Double Standard I agree with the premise but the activity should be the same. ie. I agree with the statements: "Men & women should be allowed to deny sex if they're not in the mood with the same amount of judgement from the other party". And "Men & women should be allowed to deny cuddling if they're not in the mood with the same amount of judgement from the other party." The OG statement makes it sort of seem like you think cuddling is what women want and sex is what men want, and there's judgement for not bein…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/21 11:22 PM
4	Have You Ever Built Love Slowly? Yes. It's hard to feel attraction for someone you don't know very well. And in online dating you don't. But "long" messaging is subjective and I can see people getting bored with it fast-you want to lock an in-person meeting down pretty soon. We did an hour of texting a day for 1.5 weeks or so before we went out for coffee. Platonic-ish (it's a dating site after all, we both know what we're there for) But I did like, hug him for the first couple and kiss his cheek for the next few to let him kno…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 09:27 PM
1	Career women are not miserable. Everyone should be ALLOWED to get married. But it's not a great idea unless only one of you has access to health insurance. It can occasionally be a stopgap to fixing our health care system but that's not a solution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 09:58 PM
6	Career women are not miserable. That's kind of a non sequitur. Also not sure if it's true. Mothers tend to get more custody of children, sure. It's winning if the men were the ones who wanted the kids, but I'm not sure they do. The stats I always hear are after a divorce women suffer financially but are more emotionally happy and men do better financially but are less happy. Not sure if that's winning either. Winning is subjective in this context. The solution is just to not get married. The need to tell the IRS about your lov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 08:20 PM
8	Career women are not miserable. Because money is power. If you're living off someone's whim, even if they're nice and you love them, there's a huge power imbalance there. I'm an adult. I want a partner, not a parent. A shitty job can be left with less repercussions than a shitty husband.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 07:43 PM
1	Having a problem of late - need some advice I agree. Marriage is dumb. You can love someone and not tell the IRS about it. I would argue it makes it less romantic , not more, to involve the govt.	/r/MGTOW2	02/03/21 06:27 PM
1	Macro life advice noone told you about. Why marriage WILL bring you down. My personal experience is that people experience deep abiding depression when they watch their spouse die slowly. It's tragic and horrible. Sounds like your family is the one that resents each other when a loved one needs something.	/r/MGTOW2	02/03/21 06:22 PM
1	Friend got divorced Marriage is dumb. You can love someone without telling the IRS about it. It's especially dumb to spend a ton of money on it. Buy a house instead.	/r/MGTOW2	02/03/21 06:07 AM
1	Females joking over and humiliating the vasectomies of their beta males. Wait, aren't vasectomies popular for men who don't want children? I see it encouraged a lot here. Castration would make you a eunuch, that's barbaric. They don't remove the actual gonads, and it's reversible. I agree you shouldn't make testicle puns if your spouse would be offended by it, but this guy is smiling and he's the one who posted. If he thought it was mean-spirited he probably wouldn't have publicly bragged about it. Seems like he's advertising he's going to be doing it bareback now.	/r/MGTOW2	02/03/21 06:04 AM
1	The Lady Gaga dog walker saga. The dogs mattered more than the walker There was certainly a lot of fuss from the media focused on the amount of the $ reward for the dogs. But she didn't say more than one sentence about it, and I bet it was curated by a team before it hit Twitter. I bet she was advised by the police to focus on the return of the dogs in her statement and not scream "This monstrous shooter will not go unpunished, how dare he!!!", in the hopes that the shooter would be dumb enough to think they could actually collect a half a mil if they turned thems…	/r/MGTOW2	02/03/21 05:40 AM
2	My closest high-school friend is becoming a finsub This is a dangerous fetish. Like if you could only get off by hooking up your nips to a car battery. I'd be concerned with how much he's spending on this and ask him about it. Does he have a decent job and this comes out of his entertainment budget along with restaurants and movie tickets? Or is he recklessly spending because he's blinded by the arousal he gets from humiliation? If he's budgeting accordingly and it's not actually hurting him, leave him alone. Like if he loved spending a few hu…	/r/MGTOW2	02/03/21 05:22 AM
1	Macro life advice noone told you about. Why marriage WILL bring you down. Most couples both have jobs. Which is true for my family members, but also-wouldn't that be worth it even if you were right? It would be spending your money for YOUR benefit. Maybe it's not worth it, I know I'd want assisted suicide if I turned into a veggie. It's a horrible way to go and traumatic to watch. I hope that gets more available, and you can put it in your chart to have a Dr off you before it gets horrible. I'd prefer to go out while I'm still myself and honestly I think most people w…	/r/MGTOW2	02/03/21 05:05 AM
2	Bumble dating app is officially banning/policing men with body weight standards in women This. It makes you look just as trashy as the women who state height preference. Online, it's easy to ignore everyone you're not interested in. Why bother typing it out and upsetting everyone who's not your preference who sees it?	/r/MGTOW2	02/03/21 04:48 AM
4	Macro life advice noone told you about. Why marriage WILL bring you down. You realize the expectation is still there for hetero couples if the man happens to get a chronic illness right? My grandfather died of Parkinson's and my uncle just died of Alzheimer's 2 yrs ago. Their wives nursed them for years too. It goes both ways. This says more about how our society is inhumanely failing at elder care than anything about gender. Having sick octogenarians take care of other sick octogenarians. Our medical system is a nightmare.	/r/MGTOW2	02/03/21 04:34 AM
2	Having a problem of late - need some advice Maybe you're just getting older and your interests are changing. Maybe these girls weren't clicking for you, but maybe you're starting to want the consistency, reliability and comfort of a spouse and you're starting to be in the headspace for it. You either genuinely want it, or society is pressuring you into thinking you want it. The picket fence & 2.5 kids does elevate social status and that kind of life is smiled upon by society, family, employers etc.	/r/MGTOW2	02/03/21 04:21 AM
13	"I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is? That's rough buddy. How rude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/21 02:17 AM
1	Would you be happy with a romantic, caring, and compassionate relationship, with absolutely no sex ? No, this would upset me. It would make me feel like he didn't really love me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/21 06:01 AM
1	What counts as 'too high' of a bodycount? Yeah, I second noticing that women don't spend a lot of time single. Unless it's by choice and they're "taking a year off" after a particularly heartwrenching breakup with an LTR or something. You have a few LTRs and you can hit 30 with <5 easy. They also tend to be pretty conscious of their body count, and are more likely to crack and sleep with an ex when they get too horny, rather than some rando. Both bc it doesn't increase their number, and the sex is going to be better with someone who alr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/21 10:09 PM
1	Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice? That's both probably a dismal and cheerful message for a young man to hear. Dating is crap but at least women have it worse! I'm just not convinced the hypergamy hypothesis checks out. I really don't think 20% of men are having all the sex. And I don't think women are having sex in huge droves with ppl they aren't attracted to, which is what it would take for the popular 80/20 figure to be correct. I do think there's disparity in how easy it is for the sexes to get the love/physical affection th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/21 09:58 PM
1	What counts as 'too high' of a bodycount? It doesn't seem that unreasonable. That's like someone with a high school sweetheart, then 2-3 relationships and 1-2 hookups.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/21 02:06 AM
1	Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice? I thought we were having a discussion about our opinion of the general population, personal anecdotes aren't really that useful. I'm not sure it matters what your wife likes. But yes, hobbies/passions/experience in said passions are important, we already established that. You have to have a personality. I'm pretty sure that "personality is the most important" is what people were trying to tell you and you were replying "gotta get my dick up to get your foot in the door" insinuating that looks we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 11:38 PM
1	Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice? That feels like a hobby for you not her. It falls under "have a life (hobbies/friends)". "Protection" isn't a mainstream concern for most women. I just think you had a few good big ones and this is diminishing returns on the "attracting the most women" front. Do it for you, not her. This is a very specific man you're building. If you're young, fit, amicable, employed, have a life, low n. Then you're maybe in 90% of everyone's Venn diagram of dating desires. Adding "artist" isn't going to increas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 10:15 PM
1	The idea of submissive women in bed being in control in real professional life doesn’t make any sense I don't think I ever hear that extrapolated to "Bedroom doms are subs in life". Mostly just the first part of your statement, that real life doms are subs in the bedroom as stress relief. And I don't know how accurate that even is, the fetish community is small, most ppl are vanilla.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 10:00 PM
1	Would you trade places? Sure, I like shy dorks so I tend to have to initiate anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 09:54 PM
1	What counts as 'too high' of a bodycount? Depends on age. If you're 20, 5 is a lot. If you're 30, 5 seems OK.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 09:45 PM
1	Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice? That's getting pretty niche. Judo isn't going to open your dating prospects up to a wider pool much, the way just being generally fit does. Diminishing returns on a lot of this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 09:23 PM
1	Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice? I don't think any girl over 14 is going to get anything from that list. Everyone knows visuals are the initial instigator, as much as it pains many and they try to deny it- men and women alike. They are partially right, bc if you're meeting in a place that your personality shines-not Tinder or a nightclub, then you may do quite well if you're awesome. Even if you're not conventionally attractive. It is the more important factor, it's just that visuals will win in the beginning and in any silent …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 05:55 PM
3	What do men and women think a man asking a woman out signifies? What about the date activity, drinks or dinner - what does that signify? Him asking me out means almost nothing to me. I do not know if he cares about me/likes me and won't assume. I presume he at least wants to know if I look as good in person, and that he found my casual chit chat online persona funny or at least not a dealbreaker. When I agree to the date, I am just barely interested. I care about him as much as most strangers, in that I wouldn't wish him harm and hope we have a good time. It doesn't mean I'm in love, and he shouldn't be either. It's to see if we …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/21 04:30 AM
2	Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice? Maybe tone down the condescension, it's not the best way to convince anyone of anything. I think your list applies to any gender looking for a relationship, but I understand the attitude making ppl bristle. If I tell someone how to fix their PC, but imply they're a dumbass in the same breath, they'll tell me to bite it reflexively, even if I made a good point about not downloading "free firewall protection" from sidebar ads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/21 03:39 AM
2	Q4W Would you rather LTR a popular fraud or undercover superhero? The non-liar obviously. Also, is fame really that coveted? I think a lot of ppl think they want fame, but they actually want money. Fame is just a really visible way to get money, and so people think it's the easiest way. It seems like the shittiest way to be rich though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 09:33 PM
3	Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice? To be fair, I have no idea if this guy is a jerk or not. And the holier than thou commentary is unnecessary. But this list IS the best way to cast a wide net if we're being honest. It's the same list for men, just change no Instagram models to DJs or whatever. Obviously you need to value deeper stuff to get to marriage, but this is a list to get to date #5 with as many ppl as possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 08:40 PM
1	Women bully each other into hypergamy Aggressive, mean, or dark triad people don't want their friends to have partners period bc it makes the friends less loyal or available to them. They pick at the partner, or tell the friend the person is ugly or boring, or say the friend is "whipped" now. Jerks of all genders do this, and mean women would do it whether their friend is dating "Chad" or not. It's about isolating the friend, not about the man not being good enough. Young people are less likely to recognize toxic people/behavior yet…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 08:19 PM
4	Sex positivity vs objectification is a dilemma that puts a lot of internalised shame on men. You're right, it's not deep to want to be attractive. Most ppl want to be sexy and care about their appearance. It's a type of expression, but no it's not a deep one. Some women feel it's empowering if they've been especially upset by the puritanical cultural message that women should cover up to not appear "slutty" or immoral, but men plaster the world full of ads with disembodied boobs next to beer etc in order to sell stuff. But mostly I think ppl just want to be hot. You have lots of good di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 12:36 AM
1	For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girl I feel bad for guys. As an adult, I just refuse flat out (politely), and tell other girls to do the same bc if they're super pushy that's a red flag to leave. It's potentially dangerous to accept bc a lot of them think they are buying sex for $16, what a deal! And if they don't get it they'll be at best bitter & rude, at worst violent & psycho. We're taught it's "ladylike" and "polite" to accept, but you should just say no, bc it's a trap. But men feel socially obligated to offer, even if they d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/21 09:10 PM
6	Are all women disgusted whenever a man opens up or is vulnerable? Like subconsciously? You had a shitty girlfriend. Some people are just users. They use friends, partners, family. Moochers/ladder-climbers that don't want a genuine connection, just stuff. Most people want to be helped and needed. You know, like a good friendship where you're there for each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/21 08:48 PM
7	Sex positivity vs objectification is a dilemma that puts a lot of internalised shame on men. I do think there's a lot of unaddressed men's shame. And that this is confusing. To answer your question, the difference between a sexy character and a sexy woman is that one of them is real and her sexiness is a choice she got to make. One of them was put there by dudes, as one dimensional eye-candy for dudes. One of them is a human expressing themselves, one of them is an insult by movie execs saying "this is all we think women are good for". An easy way to tell is to ask yourself "who dressed…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/21 08:43 PM
1	Secret vasectomy? Vasectomy or not you can always demand a paternity test. In fact I think it's the only thing courts will accept. Vasectomies can fail, so it's not proof you didn't cause a pregnancy. Isn't every vasectomy a secret if you want it to be? Unless you're sleeping with your Dr. or something. Just do it if you definitely never want kids. Don't need to tell anyone.	/r/MGTOW2	03/02/21 03:25 AM
7	What the fuck is ‘platonic cuddling’? Skin hunger/touch deprivation is a thing. Especially if you've been single for a while. There's a whole phenomenon of it being a problem in our increasingly individualistic society. Touch being socially acceptable only between sexual partners. It especially affects men, bc it's more culturally acceptable for women to be hugging each other all the time. Platonic cuddling is possible, and there are sites like Cuddlecomfort, Cuddleparty built around the idea of solving this, and explicitly saying h…	/r/MGTOW2	03/02/21 02:11 AM
4	If porn is bad because it desensitizes men, then vibrators are also bad because it desensitizes women They've done studies, sex toys do not have the power it would take to cause that. Even those famous Hitachi magic wands and whatnot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/21 09:18 PM
1	If porn is bad because it desensitizes men, then vibrators are also bad because it desensitizes women I don't think either are bad in their entirety. Porn can be fine, it can also be overused. Vibrators can also be overused, but it's a little simpler. Overuse of a vibrator is just excessive masturbation. Overuse of porn can mean excessive masturbation or over-mental stimulation to the point where you can't become aroused by anything but niche stuff that 1/1,000,000 women are into. Isn't the latter the main problem discussed with porn addiction? You can't have real sex anymore because average wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/21 09:06 PM
2	Why does everyone find MGTOW so offensive? Google "MGTOW" on incognito. The "manosphere" is a subculture with branches, that the community defends as super different, how could you think they were related?? But people do. The general assumption is that redpill, MGTOW, incels, PUA, alt-right have a lot of overlap. The only time most ppl have heard of it is a handful of high-profile mass shooters were active in "the manosphere" in some capacity. Casually bringing the acronym up makes ppl assume you might be about to write a manifesto, of c…	/r/MGTOW2	11/12/20 09:51 PM
1	Many Would Be Homeless if They Weren't Dating Roommates definitely do that for each other if they're friends.	/r/MGTOW2	11/12/20 09:08 PM
1	Many Would Be Homeless if They Weren't Dating Reading the other comments I see a lot of justifying or congratulating him.	/r/MGTOW2	11/12/20 09:02 PM
2	How I Discouraged Encouragement Oh, I don't think that was a terrible way to do it if you couldn't get rid of them. Other people's love life is no one else's business. I was just saying why it would get rid of someone. If it was me I wouldn't have even come up with anything, just told them to f off if they didn't cut it out.	/r/MGTOW2	08/12/20 08:31 AM
1	How I Discouraged Encouragement It depends on the person. Given my experience with ppl with a matchmaker personality being nosy, sensitive, social, gossipy, emotional etc I doubt it. Someone who's overly interested in other ppl's love lives tends to be sensitive about their own and in general. And ppl really don't like to hear about the other gender being appearance critical. Many sensitive/self conscious ppl will take any mention of it as a sign that's all you think/care about, even if they started it.	/r/MGTOW2	07/12/20 11:14 PM
1	How I Discouraged Encouragement Oh sure, my response was meant more as an explanation as to WHY it worked, not whether or not you're a jerk. I certainly can't know that. Original statement seemed to imply that you might not know why that would put someone off if they weren't fat themselves. And, I've noticed a common interpretation of similar situations where the men seem to assume a poor response means women think they should be attracted to all body types. I'm just saying you could probably exhibit a variety of jerky behavio…	/r/MGTOW2	05/12/20 03:36 AM
1	Doesn't the low participation of women on online dating apps actually prove that women care about personality more than they care about looks? That makes sense. I went on OKC 10 yrs ago, was talking to a few people, went on one date and I've been with him ever since. I think I was only on it for a couple of weeks. I don't know if I would do it again, it sort of sucks- you have to sift through all the trolls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 06:49 AM
1	Do women believe that their career gives them an advantage in the dating/sexual marketplace? Well, people like money just for the money. Money is safety, security, pleasure, adventure. I think most young people go through a period of wishing for fame. Whether you started a garage band in highschool in the 80s, or wished to go pro in a sport. Or now trying to be Youtube or Tiktok famous. Celebrity is the first example of "way to get rich" people are shown. They flaunt their wealth and their faces are 90% of teen media. It seems easier than ever probably, you just need a phone and viral l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 06:22 AM
2	How I Discouraged Encouragement That would certainly work. While I wouldn't judge anyone for having a body type preference, I would for telling ppl about it. It's code for "I'm a jerk", like "I only like tall guys" is. People do it, but doing it means you don't understand or don't care that you're hurting anyone's feelings who hears about it and has the trait that is undesirable to you. Shows a lack of sensitivity. Or in your case, a desire to be perceived as insensitive ie not someone they want to set their friends up with.	/r/MGTOW2	03/12/20 05:16 AM
2	Do women see emotions as a weakness or is there a certain level of emotional expression that women perceive to be "weak"? Mmm, that happens for sure. A good example is when I was at a dance and a guy strikes up a conversation and confessed his childhood trauma & rape within the first 2 minutes of talking. That is...so much to drop on a stranger. My first thought was "I am not licensed for this". I don't want to make it worse. I don't know what to say. And I have so much empathy for that person and I gave him my contact info and stayed talking to him for a while bc he really needed someone but he also really wanted …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 04:57 AM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Definitely a live fast die young mentality. She's super fun at parties. I've seen an awful lot of older people in my life work well into retirement age/death. I wouldn't be surprised if she thinks of retirement as a myth reserved for silver spoon ppl and that she might as well live it up instead of dedicating her short life to some company's profits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 02:34 AM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. To be fair, she is really hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 01:46 AM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. You know, it's not my jam either. Though I agree with marriage being a bit of a scam. "Spend all this money to prove your love!" Sus. My partner of 10yrs & I bought a house instead. She's on the extreme end of not interested in compromise and loving a lone wolf lifestyle. But! I'm not going to judge. She's living life to the fullest, and honestly, 70% of US residents have no savings either, and lots of them are probably working equally unfullfilling jobs, she has a better life than most.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 01:41 AM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Personal experience it's 50/50. Marriage used to be a property exchange thing. Women can open their own bank accounts since the 70s. Work is less stigmatized than ever, catalyzed by the economy being in the dumper and a middle class family isn't maintainable with a 1 person salary anymore. The unmarrieds are living with roommates longer than ever. I think it's evening out if not pretty even btw men/women regarding marriage desire. 99% of women in 1820 desperately wanted marriage because the othe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 01:32 AM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Definitely not fiction. I've got friends who don't want bfs/marriage. They don't want to ever have to compromise on any life decisions, and when you share your life with someone as a partner, that's mandatory. One of them literally works here at whatever coffeeshop/catering place etc for around 6mo, or until she can save enough money for a plane ticket, then fucks off to europe or australia or somewhere and goes backpacking for 6mo. Rinse and repeat. Addicted to travel. Never promises anything l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/20 12:03 AM
1	Why do women hate cheating? I mean, yes to all those probably? I don't think this is a gendered question. Men hate being cheated on too. Most men think of it as an act of love too, both personally anecdotal to my experiences, and if the incel sites full of "look at this cute cartoon or picture of a couple being sweet with each other"- you'll never have this posts are anything to go by. Or opines about never experiencing the feelings of being cared about, peace & complete acceptance sex brings. And how terribly cruel it is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 09:17 PM
2	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? No one was probably close enough to listen, but you can't just stuff a kid in a bag and walk off in a public place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 07:44 PM
1	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? It was just an example of memories rushing back vividly as an adult just bc the experience was marked with confusion at the time. My grandma is almost 100 now, so she mustve been 80ish then. It's not a wildly funny joke for a tiny bent wrinkly nana to wink and say she's in her 20s, it's just a vivid memory bc everyone was laughing and I super didn't get why her age is funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 07:33 PM
79	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? I started getting catcalled walking to & from the schoolbus stop in middle school. So...10ish? Very disturbing. You ever have those memories that one day as an adult you remember bc you were confused at the time? Like I remember my grandma saying on her birthday that she was 27, and everyone laughing, and me happily putting 27 candles on the cake bc that seemed a totally reasonable "old ppl" age. And then one day as an adult the memory rushes back because you suddenly get the joke? Well one day …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 01:47 AM
1	Why Do Women Not Think N-Count Matters? I think women care very much. They know men care. Some pretend they don't. It's a very prevalent sentiment among regular women I know and lady celebrities admitting to "hooking up with an ex during a dry spell/horny moment to keep your number low". Even if you don't like him as much as you might like a stranger you don't know, and thus have never had a fight with, have no baggage/drama with. Lemme see if I understand your view. Does it lower the intrinsic value of someone to exchange sex for sex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/20 07:36 PM