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yep i highly recommend this as well
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 08:12 PM
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for me it held true, i was doing things/being nice to women in hopes they would like me/see me as a possible mate/bang me. because that's what i was brought up to believe...be nice to girl = get vagina/undying love/companionship...and that is not how it works
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 03:13 AM
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by the time you read it you'll kick yourself for not reading/knowing about the book sooner
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 02:23 AM
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i highly highly highly recommend reading "no more mr nice guy" or grab the audio book, it's excellent. i read/listened to it twice over, it will blow your mind in conjunction with this sub. after this a good book to get back into the dating world is "models" by mark manson which is the same tone (the audiobook isn't great though)
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 02:38 PM
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sounds like an issue with you, learn from your highschool self dont drown in it. find other girls or go for it man if you lose friends over something like that, they weren't friends (but it sounds like you running away with your tail between your legs really, not them abandoning you, you abandoned them...whos fault is that? yours). rejection should not phase you, why? because you should have 4 other girls(plates) that you are spinning anyway.
/r/askTRP26/11/13 08:28 PM
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really doesn't matter if you have mutual friends, just sunday at a "friendsgiving" dinner i was at, 3 of the girls there were openly talking about the same guys they've all had sex with, like it was nothing. i've slept with women in my social circle, it's part of human nature man, you're putting sex on a pedestal. if anything sleeping with one girl in your social circle and you blow her mind, she'll tell her female friends and all the sudden they'll be looking at you differently wanting a piece.…
/r/askTRP26/11/13 08:05 PM
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she goes "I want to feel your cock" or some shit like that you grab her hand and leave to somewhere you can make this happen...this wasn't even a hint, she literally said it. man up and make a move. 2nd girl, again...man up and make a move already... number one rule: you always assume attraction, if you get shot down, so what...at least you will know the answer instead of being like a girl and hamstering about this shit. if you would have made a move both times you wouldn't even be here asking t…
/r/askTRP26/11/13 05:03 PM
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I love this, saved in the ol noggin
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 07:26 PM
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i was disappointed no one on my facebook posted the original article
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 02:28 PM
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bottom line, shit tests from girls are not a conscious decision and they are broader then that list in the article (those seem to pin point meeting/getting to know club girls), they just happen. you gave him some shit tests when you first started dating to screen him as a possible mate/friend/lover, they could have been subtle or maybe not. men do not generally shit test, but men with options do, because they are screening for their mates due to them having options, just like most females. shit …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 04:05 PM
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i've always heard if a girl says to you "you're short" etc, you simply say "yea, what else do you like about me"
/r/askTRP17/11/13 03:34 AM
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it rocked my shit hard, i listened to it twice over before ever finding this sub. this sub just solidifies everything.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 06:57 PM
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read (or listen to the audiobook) no more mr nice guy, in conjunction with this this sub
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 05:59 PM
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this. read this book (the audio book version is excellent too) and read the shit out of this sub.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 04:38 PM
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read no more mr nice guy, it'll blow your mind wide open in conjunction with this sub
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 03:00 PM
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read no more mr nice guy and models
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 12:56 AM
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should make these into a playlist, these are gold
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 02:44 PM
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read no more mr nice guy and models
/r/askTRP05/11/13 09:42 PM
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dude, you get it, great post and i can relate, you've said a lot that i can't explain myself because i'm not great with words, also your tldr is awesome ahah
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 07:03 PM
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the key here is your happiness, you're not happy being with him, not sure what being alpha or being an asshole has to do with this. **never mind thought you were asking for advice
/r/askTRP02/11/13 11:40 PM
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5 days is a long time, try for 2-3
/r/seduction02/11/13 10:22 PM
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well i'll go ahead and say "yeah what he said" for your post, excellent addition. i'm going to experiment with this too, i like it, cuts even more crap out of the interaction: As far as getting names, just sign your first name to your first or second message. They'll give theirs back most times. When you make a date, give them your number "so that you can text if there's any problem finding the place" or "if you're running late" or whatever. They'll either give theirs back or (what I found quite…
/r/seduction01/11/13 03:34 PM
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YOU get in a car wreck and its an obligation for YOU to travel for 2 hours to her???? you cancel on her due to the wreck and then buckle to her crying not only that but you also pull strings to take a day off work to see even more of her, after YOU'VE GOTTEN in a CAR WRECK...dude...read what i just wrote 5 more times, you are whipped/needy/desperate, put yourself first it'll do you wonders sub-coming to her every need and not putting YOURSELF first just because she has a vagina, makes you a vagi…
/r/askTRP01/11/13 02:20 PM
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trying way too hard man, she saw right through your lame first message and you want to send another lame message trying to be funny? what post are you get'n this crap from on here? getting into online game or game/seduction you should be on /r/askseddit or /r/seduction wait for the weekend to be over, ask what she did over the weekend, if she responds then ask her to get a drink tuesday or wednesday at insert bar at 7 though at this point you've probably lost her completely with that first messa…
/r/askTRP01/11/13 01:40 PM
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you're doing what every other guy is doing, and you're dancing around the subject, people are on these sites to meet people, not send paragraphs back and forth like pen pals, save the conversation for an actual date so you have something to talk about, in a weeks time of sending a girl paragraph after paragraph some dude is going to have the BALLS to come up to her IN PERSON and sweep her away from online dating, by only talking to her for 15min max. though you do need to gain some comfort since…
/r/seduction01/11/13 01:22 PM
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thanks, i've been thinking about doing a complete and better organized post on this with more detail and my messages/texts. maybe thatll be a goal for myself weekend
/r/seduction01/11/13 12:37 PM
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this is what works for me, girls have given me feedback to reinforce this stuff and i've tweaked this over the past year, they say it was refreshing after all the bile they get (and they get A LOT of crap on there, i've been out on a date with girls off an online dating site and they will have received 5 messages in a 4 hour span of being out with me, they'll show me what guys send them, its sad the things guys say and how desperate and needy their messages look) break the ice: ask a silly quest…
/r/seduction01/11/13 03:19 AM
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id ask a silly question with no real answer to get a conversation slightly going, you really think a girl in her mid twenties gives a crap about bonnie and clyde lol, this isn't really redpill stuff, this is /r/seduction or better yet /r/askseddit beginner stuff. were these the first two messages you sent to her? if so you have to be smoother than that, you have to build a little bit of comfort first. this is technically online "game".
/r/askTRP01/11/13 02:59 AM
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thats the dumbest first message i've ever seen, it looks scripted and that makes it look like you are trying way too hard.
/r/askTRP01/11/13 01:12 AM
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/r/askseddit and i'd leave it, find other girls, if she sees you with other girls it may fire something up in her, but then you may not even care about her anymore, this is why you always date multiple girls at the same time.
/r/seduction01/11/13 12:47 AM
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been a year now, if you really want you can re-engage or ignore the message, i wouldn't say "ive moved on" if you have moved on, no need to if its been a year without contact thatll seem weird. if you want to re-engage...i've done this with a couple girls that have gotten in touch again since my more beta days. dont' pussy foot around anything this time though, the next message you send should just be "lets grab a drink at day, time and place" put in everything you've learned, escalate and go fo…
/r/seduction31/10/13 08:19 PM
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depends on the situation, you haven't given any details still. if you're not interested in her and she's chasing you, tell her you're not interested or tell her straight up what your intentions are with her.
/r/seduction31/10/13 07:34 PM
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/r/askseddit and yes always. like most of the questions on here lately this is vague as hell. if they don't provide you with any value, you've invested way more into her then her to you, unless she has hot friends or having sex with you herself...then she's not worth any investment. man up, move on, ~3,000,000,000 women in the world out there.
/r/seduction31/10/13 07:23 PM
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this is vague as hell, also /r/askseddit
/r/seduction31/10/13 05:03 PM
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an easy solve for any neediness/being clingy for now and the future would be an to date other women as well as your "main" target...you have 1 date planned for the week, with one girl, add a couple more girls into the mix, instant anti cling serum that also boosts confidence and outcome dependence
/r/seduction30/10/13 09:19 PM
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i post about these far too often but: no more mr nice guy and models, they really hit me in the gut as far as books go and i dislike reading, i'll tell anyone and everyone to read them
/r/seduction30/10/13 03:51 PM
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seriously, 80% the questions in this subreddit should be in /r/askseddit if anything
/r/seduction29/10/13 02:50 PM
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heres advice: YOU ALWAYS ASSUME ATTRACTION...you're about to be neck deep into the friendzone if not already because you haven't made any moves, don't give any excuses either. sounds like you goofed from the start...you made friends with her? she your buddy pal? she should have been your sexual interest from the start if you find her attractive, not your buddy bro friend. you should have made a move far before she invited YOU out, YOU'RE the man YOU lead the relationship, YOU ask her out. let th…
/r/seduction29/10/13 02:33 PM
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before stumbling onto this subreddit i read "no more mr nice guy" twice through, i can't tout this book enough now. really shed light on a LOT in my life, this subreddit just continues to crack the door open even further. my family dynamic concerning my absent father and being raised by my mother and why i was doing what i was doing with women has became far too clear. a lot has clicked for me in the past month. wish i had these resources in my early twenties.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 08:40 PM
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models is a book, its a good read, much of it seems to stem from the book no more mr nice guy, but with a seduction twist on it. both are excellent reads and highly recommended
/r/seduction28/10/13 03:57 PM
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just about anything brando
/r/seduction27/10/13 09:46 PM
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/r/askseddit, this is bottom line, typical day game. you have nothing to lose, just open...its only creepy if you have creepy intentions. girls like male attention. say "hey i think you're adorable, whats your name", talk about school, talk about how you cant wait for winter/fall break coming up, ask if she has anything planned for them...whatever. high school is your training ground in ALL aspects...hell...life is a training ground period. experiment...have fun. you'll get the jitters released …
/r/seduction27/10/13 02:19 AM
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the woman who tries to dominate you, challenge you, intimidate you, what they're doing is testing you, if you're not stronger then them, you've failed the shit test. they want an alpha male. like every girl, strong women shit test hard, because they need a man stronger then them. they're all just little girls in reality, they don't affect you, you are the master, you're in control, you dominate them.
/r/seduction27/10/13 02:04 AM
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read/listen to no more mr nice guy, focus on you, girls will come
/r/seduction27/10/13 01:55 AM
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i've had the best results asking a silly question as my first message. every guy on dating sites say the same thing they pick out an interest in their profile and comment on it...boring...or it can tend to look needy like "oh you like x band! me too!"...so what 10million other people like x band/movie/book...it doesnt define you or tons of guys also just say "sup", "hi", "hey youre cute", "youre sexy" etc...boring....instant way to be ignored and gain no response. you want to stand out, ask a si…
/r/seduction25/10/13 04:52 PM
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building comfort is fine, but you went overboard, you could have had that whole amusing conversation IN PERSON with the added bonus of ESCALATING and building ATTRACTION. you cant build attraction through text. i also dont know what app this is, but if its a dating app...shes on there to meet people, just like you, should only take 3 messages.
/r/seduction24/10/13 07:26 PM
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wasn't a great start goin non-stop for an hour talking online. i dont know the context but if this was okcupid or something, typical advice is to send 2-3 messages back and forth (space the time out too, like texting, youre a busy interesting non-needy guy that doesnt need a website to pickup women) then ask to exchange numbers or meeting somewhere on a specific date/time/place
/r/seduction24/10/13 06:40 PM
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it says to be continued, i cant seem to find the next part
/r/seduction23/10/13 09:57 PM
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there is an audio book version
/r/seduction12/10/13 05:16 PM
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same boat, i've listened to the audio book twice through now over the past week...also listened through models (poor audiobook quality wise though). both are superb, blew my mind wide open and made me realize a lot of things. while i've increased in confidence, picking up/talking to/flirting with women, once getting into a relationship it all falls apart, this book (no more mr) made me realize why that was happening and i have some work to do to continue this path of bettering myself now that i …
/r/seduction11/10/13 06:11 PM
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dude. nice.
/r/seduction11/10/13 04:46 PM
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dont give a girl your number and leave it up to the girl to text you, they wont. take the lead, get her number, text her. other then that good progress.
/r/seduction11/10/13 02:35 PM
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i personally think this is pretty universal for either sex for any type of relationship. but you need to take the focus off her and more onto you, go out and do things on your own, go out with friends, get into activities without her, blow her off from time to time if she asks you to do something, flirt with other girls when she is around you. she knows you'll always be there for her and thats whats turning her off, you're basically the girl version of a "nice guy". giving her a look or a touch …
/r/seduction10/10/13 01:18 PM
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for first dates: id probably just experiment with not texting after the first date (unless she texts you), and waiting a little longer (~3 days) to ask for another wait for the girl to contact you, before you ask for another date. The other experiment would be, at the end of the first date, set up the next date with her right then, dont text her til day of, unless she texts you. let them invest more in you, then you to them. kinda seems like youre chasing them, when they should be chasing you
/r/seduction08/10/13 08:45 PM
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one of the worst things you can say to a female are lines a long the line of "let me know" putting the ball in her court is bad, girls do not take initiative/lead. it may sound like you're taking control, but you just offhanded the control/lead to her, you had the first part of the sentence right by telling her you don't stand for that shit, but you ruined it by basically saying "but jk its okay really, hit me up" i wonder if you just left it at "look, I've tried to make plans with you at least …
/r/seduction07/10/13 06:29 PM
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you could text her again now that it has been a week, but dont ask a question, is there anyway you can bring her into your world by mentioning what you're doing or of anything interesting going on that would be interesting/funny. something like "man i'm at walmart, i just saw a lady in sweatpants with holes in allllll the wrong places." really something like this should have been your first text, make statements not questions.
/r/seduction07/10/13 04:01 PM
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sounds like you've barely started into this seddit journey, this should probably be in askseddit. you could have said anything, it doesn't matter. be more aware of your surroundings and pick something out, selling pumpkins outside? just say "see the pumpkins out front? can you believe its october already?" she'll be like "yea i know right?" then you can be like "next thing you know christmas trees will be out front" then transition into if she's thought up what she'll be for halloween. or simply…
/r/seduction04/10/13 08:41 PM
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a trick i came across is squeezing my thumb and middle finger together. if you feel fidgety, shakey, or nervous or if you keep rubbing your neck, playing with your hands, holding your arm near your elbow, or any other nervous habit, give this a shot. it works for me and i can't remember where i heard about it, might have been neil strauss. i've noticed politicians do this as well when speaking.
/r/seduction17/02/13 02:45 AM
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just a ploy to get you to buy "bobby rio's" stuff through the 4th "video"
/r/seduction30/01/13 07:05 PM
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22-27 usually, though that's what i set my search/request for
/r/seduction28/11/12 07:48 PM
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yea most that contact me first aren't that great looking at least on okcupid. on eharmony there seems to be a higher quality of females, first contacts from there have been decent but not dtf types, ltr types. with paid sites they dont seem dtf, more relationship goal girls from my time on them so far, i don't have as much experience on them as okcupid though, so hard to say.
/r/seduction28/11/12 07:40 PM
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for okcupid the response rate is high, so far i think im 7/10 on responses using the stories. most girls flake out/bail upon wanting to take things to text/phone after a couple back and forth messages. 4/10 that went to texting, once having the number actually getting the date is easy, meaning im 4/10 on getting to dates as well. paid sites i have better ratio, girls are more serious about meeting people on paid sites like eharmony etc. my ratio for okcupid, before doing these stories, just casu…
/r/seduction28/11/12 07:26 PM
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i've met a lot of women off okcupid from me making first contact. my first message is usually about how im sick of work and i'm running away and building forts on an island, asking her to bring kool-aid and gushers or a story like robbing a bank and faking our deaths and to bring some sandwiches. my profile is light and humorous, i dont take the site seriously. i don't come off as needy/desperate by telling her i like her music, her movies and that she's pretty, which is what every guy does. the…
/r/seduction28/11/12 02:29 PM
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i agree with both points
/r/seduction27/11/12 09:22 PM
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some examples would be i would do things for her without receiving anything in return and constantly do them, wouldn't make her jump through a hoop or have her give me something in return. when she got "mad" at me over text i'd try and play it off cool but would freak out over it in my head and call her asking her if she was okay...she was like yea i was just joking with you quit being so sensitive lol. once i had plans with someone else and she threw a shit test by asking me to cancel said plan…
/r/seduction27/11/12 02:21 PM
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i think inner game is more important with girls you already know. don't be afraid to start being a confident and fun guy. kino escalate a bit slower, spread it out over time if they aren't used to having you touch them. with a girl i used to date and hadn't seen in a year or more, we were hanging out and talking again...i was in the friendzone. then i found pickup, this subreddit and self improvement a month after that. she noticed the changes and constantly told me i was acting so different, as…
/r/seduction26/11/12 08:56 PM
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keep it silly and light, the first self-summary be precise in what you do and what you enjoy after that lighten it up, appear to be a guy that doesn't need the site to meet/get women. profile picture have a nicely shot photo with a smile and you at a 45 degree angle and not looking at the camera, there was a study that women click on profiles more where the males are not looking at the camera. i know you specifically asked about profile, but the main mistake people make are first messages. send …
/r/seduction24/11/12 03:56 AM
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yea give it a shot, it's been workin for me for the most part, im still feeling my way through this too. i think it's all about being flexable and being able to find a balance. experiment and learn.
/r/seduction21/11/12 04:00 PM
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it could be, i mean even for me on my end. when a date ends and the girl texts me right after and then they keep texting me a lot, it's kind of a turn off, the chase isn't there anymore. there is a balance to be had. it's stupid but just kind of the way it is. when theres a distance, it puts them in my mind more, and thats a good spot to be. so have them put you in their mind..."why hasn't he texted me", "i wonder what he's doing", "did he even like me?" etc. have them chase you, you're the priz…
/r/seduction21/11/12 03:52 PM
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are you texting them right after the date? i kind of wonder if you're coming off as needy/desperate in some way. even if a girl texts me right after the date i don't text back til next day or a couple days later, not even mentioning the date, but with something silly or just stating something. wait a week after the first date and ask them out again. if they show interest and you like them: bank on it, if they're not: hang back, if they really had a good time and your hanging back theyll come to …
/r/seduction21/11/12 02:44 PM
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because you don't want to seem needy or desperate or like you don't have anything better to do. it builds anticipation on their end. when a girl doesn't text you back right away you sit there and think about what you said, what she thinks, what she could be doing, why isnt she responding, she's in your head because of this, etc. you're turning the table around. you're creating mystery and suspense and tension. when she sees you finally text she gets a little excitement because you arent berating…
/r/seduction16/11/12 11:09 PM
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building (sexual?)tension with a woman does fit this subreddit, but it sounds like you're not even ready to get to that point yet. your whole post is confusing, you explain how you run from everything the whole post, then you bring up tension in the last sentence. how are you going to build tension with a woman when it sounds like youre going to bolt at first clue, sounds like you arent even able to make the steps of asking a girl out to get into tension building. baby steps. id work on your con…
/r/seduction31/10/12 04:53 PM
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this isn't really a seduction post. want to stop all the pressure you have on what seems to be EVERYTHING? stop. giving. a. fuck. /r/howtonotgiveafuck sounds like you need it tattoo'd on your arm or something
/r/seduction31/10/12 01:35 PM
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i did harry potter over the weekend, girl's would ask where my wand is and i'd jokingly tell them i'd show them later tonight. another guy dressed as harry potter as well and had a wand, so when asked where my wand was when i was next to him, i held my beer up and said it's right here. had one girl say oh yours is much bigger. worked out nicely.
/r/seduction23/10/12 05:46 PM
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needed this, maybe a bit sooner, not exactly first impression either, but first date
/r/seduction27/09/12 03:42 PM
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not surprising this is in anderson
/r/MensRights23/11/10 05:30 PM
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