cugma Archive

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1	How to Trigger a Woman Emotionally (And Why Most Men Fail at It) You can tease people and induce that tension I think you’re referring to without it being a neg. Negging is low energy and only works on women with low self-esteem. If going after the weakest and most vulnerable is your thing, you do you I guess. If you want to win someone over being a decent upstanding man, I do actually know what I’m talking about. We don’t care about emotional uncertainty as much as we care about a man who can stand firm in himself, and having to neg like that, having to trig…	/r/seduction	21/03/25 11:18 AM
17	How to Trigger a Woman Emotionally (And Why Most Men Fail at It) I would know he was joking, and it would be an aggravating and exhausting joke. Ask me how I know.	/r/seduction	19/03/25 02:55 PM
1	How to Trigger a Woman Emotionally (And Why Most Men Fail at It) 🙄 then just say that	/r/seduction	19/03/25 02:39 PM
1	How to Trigger a Woman Emotionally (And Why Most Men Fail at It) What does being handsome mean to women? Asking as a woman	/r/seduction	19/03/25 02:29 PM
30	How to Trigger a Woman Emotionally (And Why Most Men Fail at It) All of this is great, but I don’t recommend the proposed response to “I love hiking.” Please don’t make me prove that I actually do my hobbies, I feel exhausted and defeated just reading that response. A teasing question would go better, or even just an interest question. Teasing question: “Do you actually like hiking or do you just take a pic of the start of a trail and then head to lunch?” Interest question: “where do you like to hike/do you hike with friends or is more a solo activity/do you …	/r/seduction	19/03/25 02:19 PM
3	How to Trigger a Woman Emotionally (And Why Most Men Fail at It) My younger brother is very attractive (I’m regularly told this unsolicited) and can’t keep a girl for the life of him. It takes a lot more than that.	/r/seduction	19/03/25 02:14 PM
1	I analyzed 120,000+ of your responses to girls’ shit tests, here's one thing you need to know to win They’re just basic interactions that were given a label because there could be a “wrong” response. But it’s not (or at least rarely) a premeditated thing, it’s just two people getting to know each other, flirting, pushing boundaries, and checking to see if the person is safe, fun, interesting, compatible, etc. Again, that’s just basic human interaction, and as with any basic human interaction where you’re trying to build a connection with someone, you want to be authentic, interesting, and inter…	/r/seduction	17/03/25 06:13 PM
3	3 Texting Techniques That Consistently Get Me Laid From Tinder Also responding to your edit: even for guys I’m crazy about, I can take a few hours between reading a message and replying to it. I can’t explain the logic to it, sometimes I’m anxious, sometimes I’m busy, sometimes I’m trying to decide what I want to say, sometimes idek. Just try not to read into it.	/r/seduction	14/03/25 10:33 PM
7	3 Texting Techniques That Consistently Get Me Laid From Tinder I get where you were going with that opener, but reading it as a woman it sounds too close to a neg imo. Too late for this one, but I think something like “The part of your face I can see is very pretty” would’ve been good. Maybe also add like “What does it take to see the rest?” But that might be better for a couple messages into the conversation	/r/seduction	14/03/25 03:40 PM
1	Australian Defence Force bans male recruits, slashes fitness tests to 4 pushups + 20 situps Is every comment of yours going to be mimicking mine or do you have your own creativity?	/r/MensRights	11/08/17 08:02 PM
-4	Australian Defence Force bans male recruits, slashes fitness tests to 4 pushups + 20 situps Suggesting the ability to do push-ups correlates to the ability to carry something shows a remarkable misunderstanding of the human body, especially given it's not exactly a secret that what most women lack in upper body strength they make up for in lower body strength.	/r/MensRights	11/08/17 07:24 PM
-4	Australian Defence Force bans male recruits, slashes fitness tests to 4 pushups + 20 situps Muscles for push ups are very different from muscles for carrying large weights. Your question suggests you aren't aware of that.	/r/MensRights	11/08/17 06:48 PM
3	Woman pretends to be man for over a year. Recognizes just how privileged she is. [18:42] Doing the same thing as the ideology you detest is an odd plan.	/r/MensRights	23/12/16 10:38 PM
1	Woman pretends to be man for over a year. Recognizes just how privileged she is. [18:42] I wouldn't call my boyfriend very masculine, yet I'm absurdly attracted to him, because I'm attracted to actual men. I said looking at her as a man made me uncomfortable, not that I simply wasn't attracted to her/him. I know plenty of feminine men and masculine women, and none of them trigger that same level of discomfort. I don't understand the relevance of your second paragraph. "Real privilege is being in a place where we allow you to be vocal about issues" lmao Good job equating the best for…	/r/MensRights	23/12/16 08:50 PM
2	Woman pretends to be man for over a year. Recognizes just how privileged she is. [18:42] If you read her book, you'd learn that women were incredibly responsive to her in writing - it was her sensitive and emotional side that got her so many dates. It was during the dates things fell apart, because she's not a man and some make up and clothes isn't going to fool millions of years of evolution. That's not my argument, it's hers. And I clarified that's being a lesbian is easier for her.	/r/MensRights	23/12/16 08:42 PM
40	Woman pretends to be man for over a year. Recognizes just how privileged she is. [18:42] This video has been posted before where several people provided counter arguments. For one, she doesn't conclude it's easier to be a woman than a man but instead that it's easier to be a lesbian than a man. And for two, her concluding life is easier as who she really is rather than pretending to be someone else is hardly anything shocking. Let's face it, she does not look like a man. I'm a straight woman and looking at her dressed as a man makes me uncomfortable - my brain feels like something i…	/r/MensRights	23/12/16 03:32 PM
4	Top modelling agent says male models 'suffer big pay gap' compared to women Isn't that exactly what he's saying? there is a pay gap ordinarily wouldn't care cares because women complain about it and this time it affects men Caring about something explicitly and entirely as a reverse response to someone else complaining pretty much discredits your complaint.	/r/MensRights	26/09/16 09:18 PM
20	"Meet the Vagina Voters" "The women voting for Hillary because she's a woman are setting feminism back a hundred years." The point of the post is that women voting for women purely because they're women is bad for feminism. We have here, thanks to Palin, evidence these women won't vote for just any woman just because she's a woman. Unless these women who say they will vote for Hillary because she's a woman mean/have said they would vote for her just for being a woman regardless of who her opponent is, all the information posted here says is that given the options of who they have to vote for, being female is enoug…	/r/MensRights	09/09/16 01:14 PM
39	"Meet the Vagina Voters" "The women voting for Hillary because she's a woman are setting feminism back a hundred years." I don't understand how you can say this and think you're still supporting the point of this post (unless you're not supporting the point of this post and I missed your point). If these women are only voting for women who are democrats, that's not "backwards feminism" or whatever, that's party loyalty. If they were willing to vote for Palin and are also voting for Clinton just because they're women, that would be something to criticize.	/r/MensRights	09/09/16 12:57 PM
26	"Meet the Vagina Voters" "The women voting for Hillary because she's a woman are setting feminism back a hundred years." So proof that women aren't voting for women purely because they're women, yet it's still turned into evidence against these voters? Ok logic	/r/MensRights	09/09/16 12:52 PM
14	York U gender neutral toilet... except... "Choose the washroom appropriate to them" suggests there's a second washroom that says the same thing, only for men. If there's only one then that's not a choice. Are we getting the whole picture here?	/r/MensRights	04/09/16 02:16 PM
3	Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than Men You went out and actually immersed yourself in male viewpoints until you realized that everything you thought you knew about men's opinions regarding fatherhood were complete and utter nonsense. Because I happened to know about places like this, got curious, and had the patience to wade through the bullshit, which there is a ton of on this site. People here can be just as bad as the feminists they hate so much. This post we're commenting on is a pretty good example - what a horrific summation of…	/r/MensRights	02/09/16 11:56 AM
3	Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than Men I have an amazing dad. A wonderful, loving, supportive dad whose greatest sadness is that I don't call him more often. Did you read my whole comment? Because I mentioned him. Did you also read where I talked to my brother and he realized he had a similar outlook? We have the whole world giving off an impression of dads. You don't form your beliefs on something based only on those closest to you, it's formed by all influences you encounter. There are way more "dad just tolerates kids" messages ou…	/r/MensRights	02/09/16 11:46 AM
1	Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than Men How am I piling on anyone?	/r/MensRights	02/09/16 03:09 AM
1	Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than Men I feel like you read 1% of my comment and have no interest in actually addressing my inquiry.	/r/MensRights	02/09/16 02:53 AM
7	Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than Men She fooled men who weren't making a sexual/attraction based decision. And she's seduced a notable number of straight women who thought they were talking to a man? Seducing a gay/curious woman as a woman and seducing a straight woman while pretending to be a man are so far from comparable I'm befuddled it has to be said.	/r/MensRights	02/09/16 02:52 AM
1	Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than Men I'm not really talking about individuals. The rhetoric is how hard it is to be a man in our society. If men never point out the struggles and instead actually seem unfazed, unbothered, and unchallenged, wouldn't it just be patronizing for women to insist men are actually unhappy and struggling greatly with something? When I'm on this sub, I get a strong and consistent vibe that most male problems not being addressed are blamed on women not caring, and because I likely wouldn't even know these th…	/r/MensRights	02/09/16 02:46 AM
0	Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than Men Men's gender role to be quiet and strong isn't really relevant to my question. If you are being quiet and strong but are actually bothered and hurting, how can you expect women to know that in such a way as to hold their ignorance against them? For example, I grew up genuinely truly in my heart of heart believing - in a "never really consider it because it's just fact" way - that men don't actually want to be or enjoy being dads. A desire for parenthood is always painted as a "woman thing", and …	/r/MensRights	02/09/16 02:42 AM
4	Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than Men Not really answering what I asked. I understand men have societal pressure to uphold a gender role/stereotype. If "your woman" makes you feel like you can't confide in her, like you're a burden, find a new one. That sounds like hell and it would kill me if my guy actively felt like that.	/r/MensRights	02/09/16 02:14 AM
7	Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than Men They also need to recognize that just because men don't constantly complain about something (remember that the male gender role is to project strength) they aren't suffering from it. Sincere question: if men don't complain, how can women be expected to know and to care? How can not knowing (and consequently not caring) be held against them?	/r/MensRights	02/09/16 01:22 AM
1	Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than Men You're replying to OP, fyi. He was responding to his own comment.	/r/MensRights	01/09/16 06:55 PM
13	Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than Men I thought "guys don't have emotional bonds with other guys" was like a big theme around here? One of the assumed contributors to the high suicide rate? I'm very happy you don't experience it, but the impression I've gotten from the sub is that it is very much a thing.	/r/MensRights	01/09/16 06:52 PM
28	Feminist lives as a Man for 18 months to try to prove "Male Privilege". Learns Women are more Privileged than Men This sounds like what I would expect the conclusion from this kind of experiment to be. When I look at "Ned", I don't really see a man. I see someone who looks like my best friend (a gay, androgynous woman) trying to look more masculine. Her feminine features are still apparent, and as a straight woman, I'm - surprise! - not attracted to feminine features. If I ran into Ned in a mall, my most immediate assumption would probably be that he's a gay man, like you mentioned, but then my next thought…	/r/MensRights	01/09/16 06:41 PM
1	Pre-nup survives wife's challenge, female journalist reports it as "man stiffs wife out of alimony and wins right to throw her out" --> Are you telling us that a contract isn't a contract when a woman signs it? What actually happens is that the woman gets pregnant then demands marriage Source?	/r/MensRights	01/02/16 03:57 AM
1	Millions of men have 'no close friends' I get that you're angry, and you have a lot of right to be angry, but please try to keep that anger from derailing conversations. Swearing at me, or anyone you're talking to, is not how respectful conversations go. I'm not lobbying for women, I'm explaining why I think things are the way they are. I'm not telling you how horrible women have had it in the past - I don't actually think women had it that bad in the past relative to what they wanted. If you don't want to talk to me, then don't talk …	/r/MensRights	16/11/15 10:18 PM
1	Millions of men have 'no close friends' "Ewww no one wants to watch you do that. That's gross! Find some place private to do that" Ok, we'll create a space that is completely reserved for women to breastfeed in privacy "That's not fair that women get their own space where men can't go!" C'mon, dude Also, the point of this entire thread is that we need more places for men, not that we need to get rid of places for women.	/r/MensRights	16/11/15 09:45 PM
1	Millions of men have 'no close friends' I don't think women deserve special treatment I do agree with that. However, I was sincerely giving my perspective and sincerely asking for yours. Limiting potentially offensive language isn't "punishing" for the past; it's simply trying to make the space more welcoming. The punishment is for creating an unwelcome environment. Again, not saying I agree with it. Modern women may not have suffered the mistakes of the past, but when women were historically "unwelcomed", it makes the world a little …	/r/MensRights	16/11/15 09:43 PM
1	Millions of men have 'no close friends' From my perspective, the reason the world is so "catered" to women is because they were held down and unwelcome in many public places for so long, so limiting language that discourages their presence became a way to fight that. So like a "it's ok to insult men because they're on top" kind of thing. Making fun of the team who just won a national championship is no big deal, making fun of the team who just came in last is seen as a shitty thing to do and generally discouraged. I'm not saying I agr…	/r/MensRights	16/11/15 09:09 PM
-1	Millions of men have 'no close friends' I will have to watch that later, thanks for the link I haven't found any argument distasteful...unless you're talking about Straughan's argument and just speaking preemptively. I completely agree with your last sentence, but the history I know says women have been held back (no longer the case to the same degree). You're suggesting the history I know is wrong, so I'll need some pretty solid sources to convince me of that.	/r/MensRights	16/11/15 08:50 PM
2	Millions of men have 'no close friends' Yeah, I agree with what you said. I feel pretty isolated these days (all of my friends I know either through my SO or I met them online) but I also know that there is way less of a stigma for me to go out looking for friends than there is for a guy to do the same.	/r/MensRights	16/11/15 08:45 PM
1	Millions of men have 'no close friends' "the 'women are wonderful when' effect" well that's disappointing - I was hoping to find some concrete evidence of women having a higher social standing, but it looks like that fell a little short That's a valid reason to not do it. I'm curious why others don't. I personally believe it's a demand thing, so I'd be interested in hearing from someone who works really hard to create men only spaces and consistently fails or runs into obstacles.	/r/MensRights	16/11/15 08:29 PM
-1	Millions of men have 'no close friends' Hmm do you have any reading to support any of the above? It's funny to me how sure everyone seems to be that they are a victim...maybe we've somehow created such a twisted world that we all are victims in some way or another.	/r/MensRights	16/11/15 08:05 PM
3	Millions of men have 'no close friends' I said it was both right there in my comment. I am listening, that's why I'm here - where does it sound like I'm lecturing?	/r/MensRights	16/11/15 08:02 PM
2	Millions of men have 'no close friends' That's fair, but what's stopping you from creating one yourself? Genuine question.	/r/MensRights	16/11/15 08:00 PM
3	Millions of men have 'no close friends' Women only gyms are the only ones where I can't find a male equivalent - I also can't find a men only restaurant, but I can't even find a women only option for that. There are definitely men only sports teams, there are meetup groups that are explicitly limited to men, and there are classes just for men (I know of a yoga class, for example)	/r/MensRights	16/11/15 07:37 PM
4	Millions of men have 'no close friends' I think you touched on a big struggle for Men's Right Activists. Most want to believe that feminists are their biggest enemy, but from what I've seen in the world, it's a lot of men who are pushing back on the idea of needing to "protect men". Part of the reason there aren't many men only options is indeed feminists, but much of it is also that there isn't a huge demand. It's not "manly" to want to be surrounded by other men - many would prefer a shot at getting laid over a chance to make a new …	/r/MensRights	16/11/15 07:32 PM
3	Millions of men have 'no close friends' Where are you from? For some of those, I believe we are also missing male equivalents in the US, but for others I'm fairly certain there are (such as male races and male clubs) I think a big cause of the problem is that a lot of laws were put in place to give women a leg up, such as "must have at least one woman present", and because women were socially inferior, there was no foreseen need to have that law applicable for both genders, so now that women have been given the chance to catch up, the…	/r/MensRights	16/11/15 07:22 PM
2	Millions of men have 'no close friends' that sounds like a bathroom...I mean, those exist largely because people complain about women breastfeeding in public. I get that it fulfills the requirement of being women only, but I can't think of something comparable for men Just to note, there are men only groups, clubs, and events. I can think of men only golf clubs (not a lot, but some), men only book clubs, fraternities, men only sports leagues and teams...they are out there. And if someone wants more, there's nothing stopping him from s…	/r/MensRights	16/11/15 07:16 PM
2	Millions of men have 'no close friends' That's valid, though I do think gender-restrictive gyms can have a good purpose. A men-only gym could exist if someone wanted to open it (though they would admittedly have to deal with many more pissy women than curves deals with pissy men) Are there any free places that are women only, since curves has a membership fee and all of that stuff?	/r/MensRights	16/11/15 07:01 PM
3	Millions of men have 'no close friends' This is on the front page right now and relevant: http://i.imgur.com/4qjDlvA.png	/r/MensRights	16/11/15 06:21 PM
3	Millions of men have 'no close friends' Do you have an example of places that are women only? I can't think of any	/r/MensRights	16/11/15 06:16 PM
8	Millions of men have 'no close friends' So what's a female only space? I'm female and would love to know about these, because I could definitely use some more/new/better friends. (not trying to take away from the message of this post - guys struggling more to have close friendships is something I frequently bring up in my equality quest)	/r/MensRights	16/11/15 06:14 PM
1	42% of men aged 18-45 'have contemplated suicide' I'm struggling to respond to you because in no way did I mean to invalidate you, and going through my comment, I don't feel like I did. You apparently do feel like I did, so I am sorry for my phrasing and for making you feel that way. My intention was not to tell you not to share; that's the opposite of what I want. I am forever hopeful that one day we will all start working together to help each other, instead of the "people aren't doing what I need them to do" complaints that are all too preva…	/r/MensRights	02/11/15 06:00 PM
-1	42% of men aged 18-45 'have contemplated suicide' You can't share, you have to bottle it up or be mocked and lose social standing I think you're sharing with the wrong people. I'd start with a therapist to help you sort your thoughts out. There are online options if you're uncomfortable speaking directly to someone, and I believe those are either free or substantially cheaper than traditional therapy. At risk of sounding harsh, I also want to point out that no one owes you anything (except your family - it's pretty shitty that they don't care/d…	/r/MensRights	02/11/15 03:40 PM
0	Ontario newborn bleeds to death after family doctor persuades parents to get him circumcised Are you pestering men here with your questions, or am I special? There are a lot of issues in the world. I'm not going to apologize for not knowing about one that I've never heard of before, especially when I have talked to so many about circumcision before. Are you here to be constructive or just to attempt to insult me? I can't figure out what you want from me.	/r/MensRights	26/10/15 05:53 PM
1	Ontario newborn bleeds to death after family doctor persuades parents to get him circumcised I meant before this post. I thought that was understood.	/r/MensRights	26/10/15 05:50 PM
1	Ontario newborn bleeds to death after family doctor persuades parents to get him circumcised Damn...dude, I am so sorry. I know that does shit to fix it, but I really am. I had no idea, and I'm sure there are plenty of others out there like me. I'll do my best to add my voice to the issue.	/r/MensRights	26/10/15 05:40 PM
1	Ontario newborn bleeds to death after family doctor persuades parents to get him circumcised I'm not trying to insult the sub - I subscribe because I like it. I do think it's necessary. I don't think it's necessary to pit issues as men vs women, but I don't see that very often. In all, I think this sub is highly valuable and certainly necessary. My point in calling it a circlejerk was just to point out that people here are likely going to agree with you, and to make a change, you need to reach to people who don't already agree with you. Getting shouted down is never fun nor fair. Howeve…	/r/MensRights	26/10/15 05:34 PM
1	Ontario newborn bleeds to death after family doctor persuades parents to get him circumcised oh...haha I guess that's the first time I've been mentioned before. I'll have to be more aware of what kind of message I'm looking at. Thanks for the info :)	/r/MensRights	26/10/15 05:25 PM
0	Ontario newborn bleeds to death after family doctor persuades parents to get him circumcised I don't understand your point...there are men in these comments who say they've never considered circumcision a big deal. As I've asked in other spots, how does my ignorance make me rare or unusual? If every man I know is either indifferent to or in support of circumcision, what right would I have to spout off about something concerning genitals I don't even have? This post has changed my view, but before this post, I had no way of knowing it was something that needs to be talked about.	/r/MensRights	26/10/15 05:25 PM
0	Ontario newborn bleeds to death after family doctor persuades parents to get him circumcised Did I literally anywhere say that MGM is not all that bad? I said I didn't know it was bad, which indicates I now know.	/r/MensRights	26/10/15 05:19 PM
1	Ontario newborn bleeds to death after family doctor persuades parents to get him circumcised EDIT: removing what I said because I'm sometimes ignorant about how Reddit's notifications work	/r/MensRights	26/10/15 05:19 PM
1	Ontario newborn bleeds to death after family doctor persuades parents to get him circumcised Fair enough. I hope my tone didn't come across as too confrontational, as that wasn't my intent.	/r/MensRights	26/10/15 05:02 PM
5	Ontario newborn bleeds to death after family doctor persuades parents to get him circumcised I don't get my information from feminists. There are men on this thread who admit they've never considered it a big deal, so please don't suggest that my ignorance on the issue is rare or unusual.	/r/MensRights	26/10/15 04:34 PM
1	Ontario newborn bleeds to death after family doctor persuades parents to get him circumcised You're right, complaining in a "circlejerk setting" is how things get started. But to then accuse people outside the setting of not caring? People can't care about something they aren't aware of, and keeping the complaining here, not taking it into "the real world", won't get us anywhere. As far as how much you should complain, I guess I'd say complain as much as it bothers you, but don't get mad at others for not caring about it if you're acting like you don't care about it, either. The point o…	/r/MensRights	26/10/15 04:15 PM
2	Ontario newborn bleeds to death after family doctor persuades parents to get him circumcised Again, my point of the first line was to show that the people I would expect to tell me about the problems with MGM aren't - they're usually telling me the opposite. The entire point was that my main source has failed me in getting the right information out there. I didn't say the second line, and I don't agree with that sentiment. Edit: I think you added the last line after I replied - I didn't mean to call the conversation a circlejerk, my intention was to call the sub a circlejerk (which most…	/r/MensRights	26/10/15 03:07 PM
8	Ontario newborn bleeds to death after family doctor persuades parents to get him circumcised And I absolutely will now that I know about it. The point of my comment was that before this moment, I never knew about it. People can't fight for something they don't know about. Edit: feminists like you You don't know me. I probably discuss men's rights issues more than I discuss women's rights issues. I don't subscribe to this sub so I can come in and tell men how wrong they are, I subscribe so I can know about things affecting men that I won't hear about in other places. I tend to reply to c…	/r/MensRights	26/10/15 02:59 PM
3	Ontario newborn bleeds to death after family doctor persuades parents to get him circumcised Wow, ok... I was replying to someone saying feminists are hypocritical (have double standards? I don't remember the exact words). I interpreted his implication being that everyone is aware circumcision and FGM are equal and equally awful, yet people only care about the latter. I, personally, have never heard of negative repercussions from circumcision (before this post, of course, which I'm glad I saw and is why I subscribe to the sub, and am horrified that a procedure that is advertised as so s…	/r/MensRights	26/10/15 02:58 PM
3	Ontario newborn bleeds to death after family doctor persuades parents to get him circumcised How so?	/r/MensRights	26/10/15 02:41 PM
-15	Ontario newborn bleeds to death after family doctor persuades parents to get him circumcised I (a feminist by my definition and likely many others) have literally never heard of actual danger in circumcision. All I've ever heard is that it can be a little painful, which I think is pretty obvious. That in itself is enough to make me hesitate in wanting to do it to any future boy I may have, but that's still all I've heard. Female GM, on the other hand, seems to show up in some form of media I see every week - and I do not seek out feminist news sources in any way. I understand that this …	/r/MensRights	26/10/15 02:14 PM
1	30 year old female teacher had sex around 50 times with a 15 year old male student and faces only 250 hours of community work. What if it was a male teacher and a female student? Absolutely, and I don't know why many women turn it into an us vs them thing. My best guess is that many feel like men don't listen to them, men dismiss the issue and consequently dismiss them, and that changes their mindset from "we're all in this together" to "you aren't on my side", which in turn leads to the resentment and even demonization of men. You can find comparable examples in pretty much any other 'power struggle', like race. But I don't think feminists are the only ones who do it. I…	/r/MensRights	30/09/15 01:43 PM
2	30 year old female teacher had sex around 50 times with a 15 year old male student and faces only 250 hours of community work. What if it was a male teacher and a female student? Yeah, I know. While I think it's a valid thing to say (humans should know not to rape), I also think it's incomplete and shortsighted. I thought it was a perfectly fair question, and given cases like these keep coming up, I think it's a conversation that needs to be had.	/r/MensRights	30/09/15 03:34 AM
3	30 year old female teacher had sex around 50 times with a 15 year old male student and faces only 250 hours of community work. What if it was a male teacher and a female student? It seems weird to me that in the same breath, you want to congratulate the kid AND complain that people don't take women raping men as seriously as the reverse.	/r/MensRights	29/09/15 09:39 PM
10	30 year old female teacher had sex around 50 times with a 15 year old male student and faces only 250 hours of community work. What if it was a male teacher and a female student? So I'm still thinking about your question. The entire idea of "teaching not to rape" has always bothered me. To me, it's like teaching someone not to murder - once they understand it's bad and it hurts someone, any decent person isn't going to do it. In my eternal optimist heart, I believe that the overwhelming majority is the same way toward rape - if they are aware that their actions fully constitute rape and aware of the magnitude of rape, they would never do it. This applies to both men and …	/r/MensRights	29/09/15 09:34 PM
12	30 year old female teacher had sex around 50 times with a 15 year old male student and faces only 250 hours of community work. What if it was a male teacher and a female student? Based on the number of cases like this that keep coming up, apparently. I firmly believe that as a society, we seem to fail to see teenage boys (and men as a whole, but that's not the current topic) for the victims they can potentially be, so I am in full support of any effort that makes grown ass women understand that taking advantage of a teenage boy is taking advantage of a teenager, and just because he "seems so grown up" or whatever doesn't make him an actual adult...sorry for the never-end…	/r/MensRights	29/09/15 07:59 PM
17	30 year old female teacher had sex around 50 times with a 15 year old male student and faces only 250 hours of community work. What if it was a male teacher and a female student? I don't know if I fit the "rabid feminist" opinion you're looking for, but in my feminist opinion, the treatment of male rape victims is a product of the societal belief that men are more "in charge" of sex than women are, and that men aren't as 'weak' or as easily persuaded to do things they don't want to do - aren't as easily taken advantage of. As a result, we don't see teenage boys who are victims of sexual assault as true victims, even though they clearly are and should be considered as suc…	/r/MensRights	29/09/15 06:58 PM