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The implication is that you shouldn’t care what others are up to, focus on yourself. It’s not about niceties. Wouldn’t it be nice if billionaires didn’t hoard wealth?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:11 PM
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Where did I say it was? I thought men liked damsels in distress
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:03 PM
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By that logic, it’s your fault dating is so hard for you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:41 AM
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Yeah here’s some dating advice for the men here, being eternal victims with a chip on your shoulder is not an attractive trait
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:37 AM
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If you care about what everyone else thinks and what everyone else is doing, who are you living life for?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:11 AM
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Basic sentences like “irrelevant” and “don’t follow”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:10 AM
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Who cares about other peoples standards
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:06 AM
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Clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:05 AM
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When talking about the value of humanity, it is intrinsically a philosophical conversation as there is no objective measure. This philosophy sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:03 AM
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So it’s similar to the lab grown gems + alchemy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:52 PM
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Where are your inventions?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:54 AM
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You can absolutely tell the people here don’t read philosophy when they post things like this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:51 AM
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There’s this type of short guy that is so appealing, like athletic short guy…loved them since elementary school lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:04 AM
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Yul Brynner 🤌
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:57 AM
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Those are adaptational traits which have evolved a communication method between cat and human, it’s actually quite impressive but cat haters will call it manipulation unironically. I don’t really understand how people think animals are just dumb brainless NPC adjacent creatures, most of them have personalities, feelings, drive…it’s just not relatable to humans
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:02 PM
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Idk I have autism so I just don’t see an issue with having a kind of friendship with an animal, it can be very fulfilling especially to someone like me who struggles to connect with other people. I think what is actually narcissistic is believing your view on something is the absolute truth and everyone else must adhere to it, when in actuality it differs from person to person depending on their mindset, philosophy, values, experience, etc. Obviously in extreme cases, it can be unhealthy but tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:55 PM
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How is loving a pet or liking animals bad for you? Also cats are extremely loving, people who say this about them don’t really have any interactions with them. Some of us grow up in households with pets so it’s extremely normal to always have an animal companion around, so having that whilst looking for a husband or even not wanting to get into a relationship doesn’t seem to be depression motivated
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:12 PM
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Loving a pet is actually extremely normal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:35 PM
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The deadbeat brother??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:51 AM
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This is so specific??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:53 AM
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No one likes a complainer though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:14 PM
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The men here have no idea how palpable their misery is, they can blame external factors all they want but it doesn’t change the fact that misery wafts off of them like a pungent cologne and that’s what causes most of their issues in their current life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:30 PM
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People just give too much credence into things like this, self defeatist attitudes. “I’m never going to be attractive to x why even bother trying to improve my life at all” type stuff, and misery loves company so they take it here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:39 PM
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Who you perceive other people to be is not who they actually are, it’s your perception, and everyone has a million different perceptions of the same thing. It’s the filter we experience life through. I recommend reading Huxley
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:32 PM
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Best response, you seem like an extremely empathetic person and wonderful friend to have
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:27 PM
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You guys have to stop caring what others think about you and just try to do your best to live the best life you can, focus on things you can control like your opinion of yourself, you can’t control other people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:18 PM
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There’s a lot of studies that say the opposite is true too lmao I don’t think people see themselves accurately however perception is largely subjective in all aspects
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:16 PM
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Who cares if someone finds themselves attractive? You guys take numeric attraction scales way too seriously when, at best, it’s something a 15 year old can argue about with his friends on Xbox live
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:13 PM
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Bro… “However, little is known about factors that may explain this relationship or if higher maternal age is related to the number of autistic-like traits in offspring.” “The relationships between older and younger mothers may have comparable underlying mechanisms, but it is also possible that the tails of the U-shaped curve are influenced by disparate mechanisms.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:01 PM
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Try this one then: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7396152/ Though all research about this determines that both maternal and paternal ages have some vague influence over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:57 PM
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Knowing about the manosphere has made me wayyy more weary of men in general, knowing how they really think and feel about women just makes me want to stay away from them. I’m autistic and have not really interacted much with men in my life, so I’ve learned a lot about men, their behaviors, and how they think through the manosphere, and before that it was places like 4chan lol I wanted to understand men but I find it more and more difficult the more I try
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:45 PM
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The best way to manage autism is to….just not be autistic! Why didn’t I think of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:17 PM
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Yes they are, but you’re also pretentious for writing all of this up as if it’s useful to anyone outside of that region
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:49 PM
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Don’t call this a thesis, you spiraled out in this post. There’s absolutely nothing scientific or logical or even rational how you made a term popularized by girls horny for BBC Sherlock into code for women who want a perfect Prince Charming who mind reads and does everything right because of your own insecurity and over abundance of time thinking about something so mind numbingly insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:37 PM
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No I’m just not surprised people from the Pacific Northwest would be so pretentious
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:34 PM
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Yeah but you can’t apply this kind of thing broadly, in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:22 PM
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Of course it would be the Pacific Northwest lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:22 PM
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I just think you’re complaining about a very small population of people who would ever describe themselves like that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:33 PM
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Any response I have to this would get me yelled at by mods
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:32 PM
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Where are these people?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:30 PM
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So true I love a hot guy in glasses and a tweed blazer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:43 PM
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It’s exactly that, just because I’m attracted to intelligence does not mean I’m not attracted to physical characteristics or other aspects of someone’s personhood such as humor. Just because someone is attracted to intelligence doesn’t mean they are going to be attracted to an ugly intelligent man who spends all his time on Reddit arguing over semantics
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:37 PM
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It has not been fashionable for anyone online to describe themselves as a sapiosexual since BBC Sherlock was a craze on tumblr. It’s not a real sexuality, it’s just being attracted to a particular feature. There is no specific sexuality or identity around being attracted to humor or big asses lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:35 PM
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I’m not denying that it isn’t an issue, especially one that would feel very upsetting to those who experience it, however this mindset is not helping you it’s actually making it worse for you. That’s the point of my comment, I don’t feel the need to sugarcoat and over empathize my points because I believe the economic situation is a lot more pressing and the actual culprit for things like dating problems. If there wasn’t so much economic disparity and fear of instability, the dating choices woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:07 PM
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Maybe because you lot act like it is the most oppressing experience to not have an upper hand in dating, as if it’s the worst thing one could ever go through, but it’s actually not that bad in comparison to other things happening in the world and many people feel like you guys would do better practicing gratitude than whining. No one likes a complainer, especially one that complains about things others find to be insignificant. Life is very difficult, there’s not a defect in anyone for strugglin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:25 PM
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Surprising not to list intelligence/creativity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:01 PM
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I didn’t say morally corrupt, morality is subjective. The corruption is from something in the mind which prevents your understanding of other people to mature. Not saying you have to date anyone you do not wish to but the logic around why someone would do certain things with another man but not with you is flawed in your mind because there is a fundamental lack of understanding of humanity. You understand humanity through statistics, you understand women as objects. No one is an individual, fram…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:08 PM
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Intense self loathing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 07:29 PM
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When you guys say things like this it sounds like you’re stomping your foot around, proclaiming “it’s not fairrrrr” like a child. This just isn’t how life or people are, people grow and change and realize a lot of their past behavior were mistakes they wouldn’t or shouldn’t repeat. And yes, those mistakes can be pretty messy. It’s healthy to look at the past with empathy for the self but recognize you need to move on from that person, to look upon it with intense shame or to continually put your…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 07:24 PM
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Lmao not women who value integrity and authenticity but I don’t think those are the types of people to use OLD anyway, men included
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:41 PM
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This is exactly what I was thinking reading this post, this is clearly someone who doesn’t have any niche interests. I see tons of metal guys because I go to metal shows, not really difficult. If you’re not part of those communities or have an interest in those specific niches, you just won’t be exposed as much to those kinds of people. They’re not exactly cohorting with “normal” people as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:38 PM
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Metal guys are so hot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:39 PM
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So? I have never had sex my entire life, I just have other goals I prioritize like creative projects
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:44 PM
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You guys are the ones that want sex that badly lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:11 PM
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Autistic thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:41 PM
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I don’t understand what’s so empowering about giving any man alive access to seeing not only your naked body but all of your holes up close and even more for $5 a month. It’s not like these men even value getting to see it, it further solidified women’s role as object to be used in their head as women are already objects to men. Just take a look at this subs view on women, we are like a different species to them!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:15 PM
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My friend desperately tried to get me to make an onlyfans with her, I had no idea why she wanted me to so badly. I had to step on eggshells when denying it because any time I even slightly implied that it wasn’t a smart idea, she would become personally offended. I would rather be valued for things other than my body or sexuality, it’s just bleak to think that this is what women are worth and it’s come to them degrading themselves (even sadder when they’re in a bad situation…but my friend was do…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:56 PM
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Making reading a book could add more substance to yours
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:50 PM
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To be miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 08:40 PM
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Honestly the men on this sub/red pill sub have real mental issues they need to work on and it's not misandry. You do not uniquely suffer, and neither do I as a woman. You have addressed nothing I wrote and extrapolated this intense rant on misandry when I haven't said that men solely are to blame for anything. Life is unfair. We cannot control other people. Only our reactions to life, only ourselves. We are responsible for our own happiness, we use every tool in our arsenal to get there. No man …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:44 PM
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Honestly I think all the guys here just need something more than their obsession with obtaining women/a gf/women's validation. Stoicism may be a good place to start, since it helps you to stop focusing on the things out of your control and begin to build a strong inner world. The only reason why there isn't a makeup industry for men (and there actually are male makeup beauty brands out there) is because there isn't much of a market for it. Men don't want to wear makeup because they think it's a …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:51 PM
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Makeup is in the abstract much like paint, you are basically creating those "signals" by using face-compatible paints. There are so many colors and varieties and types of makeup that it goes beyond just being used for those signals (which are things like rosier lips...there is blue and black lipstick for example). So what we are saying....is why don't you use makeup in the way a painter does? Why not think of ways to accentuate male "signals" of beauty? Contour for stronger bone structure and mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:59 AM
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What women are saying they don’t exist? Maybe to some women who don’t play games like that or see relationships as this bitter transactional losing game. The problem with this sub and red pill ideology in general is that people paint each gender broadly with claims informed by fear or a bad experience (which curates fear) and then wonder why they have issues with people. It’s over analyzing “data” until you are so drunk on thought that you don’t take any action at all, as well, but I think the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:28 PM
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Timothy Chalamet is a worldwide beauty and our current it boy. The only women who vote in those polls are old so of course their picks skew older. Girls in my generation don’t even know who David Beckham Blake Shelton are. Every single one of those picks is someone my mom has told me is her current crush for that year. Robert Pattinson and Taylor Lautner both had the lust of every woman aged 13-50 when they were in Twilight. Taylor Lautner was 17 in the first Twilight movie. There was definitely…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:41 AM
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Madonna/Whore complex Bachelor/player phase It’s not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean Virgin shaming Baby daddy culture The “you’re the one for me” act just to have sex Looks match policing People are just like this, it’s not only women who do any of this…if you’re so unaffected by the observations, you’d know desperate people resort to desperate tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:09 AM
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Musicians are almost always bad news lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:10 AM
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They need to read Camus, then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:45 AM
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Yes, this is exactly the problem. I would be having kids right now if I could afford to (I’m in my early to mid 20s), it would be my ideal life to be a stay at home mom but it’s not feasible with the way things are. And it’s not a matter of just finding a provider husband, they hang in certain circles that I don’t have the socioeconomic access to and would take awhile to find anyway, and by that time I’m already nearing 30s and they have the option of women much younger and more fertile anyway. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:16 PM
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I’d love to have kids but if I were to get pregnant right now, it would ruin my life. Women NEED to work nowadays, it’s not just an option. There’s always that image of the provider father who had to focus on his career in order to take care of his family at the expense of time spent with them, and now we are in a stage of the economy where it is vital for the women to take this path as well. We cannot afford to have kids until our careers are more developed and fruitful and it usually takes tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:50 PM
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It’s obviously an issue that goes deeper than just sex, it’s an issue with vulnerability/intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:50 AM
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I’m not trying to argue with you, otherwise I would have. It’s not worth arguing with someone so mentally I’ll they continuously call themselves old and ugly for being in their 30s and saying their life’s goal is to get enough money to fuck prostitutes for the rest of their life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:19 PM
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Either extremely low effort bait or extremely high mental illness, either way Godspeed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:27 AM
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0 vs 0, I have issues with vulnerability and intimacy and never let it progress farther than heavy petting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:59 PM
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I think the fact that no one is happy and everyone seems to be miserable is a good indication that people do not really want this but have been talked into wanting it since they were born, they don’t think there’s any other way and are told by different generations to just put their head down and work, that’s the way life is, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:23 PM
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The primary driver of the problem is neoliberalist capitalism, the solution is obviously to start organizing but everyone wants to believe this is purely a social issue when it is a systemic issue. Why do you think more and more women are marrying for money? It's becoming increasingly harder to make it on a single income, the system is collapsing on itself, money is the driving root to the system we are taught to live within, we are all surviving and part of survival is to find stability. If peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:05 AM
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I believe it's more internal than that, I think it's a hatred for themselves and an inferiority complex which leads them to develop the thought that if women were subjugated and under their control, they wouldn't be lonely. Because their self esteem is so low that the only way they believe they can get a woman or have love is to force women into it. They do not take accountability for their hatred so it projects outward toward women. Clearly stunted in an adolescent mindset, most likely from som…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:24 PM
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It seems to be a difference in personality and experiences at that point and it would rely on a lot of other factors such as compatibility as to who I would pick in that instance. There's a number of reasons why someone wouldn't have had a partner before, such as life circumstances they cannot help. Sam could be promiscuous or he could have had a series of monogamous relationships that were fulfilling to him. People are not a conglomerate of parts but of experiences, and thinking about it otherw…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:58 PM
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Wait do you play surf rock?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:16 AM
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Have you ever heard of a hyperbole?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:59 AM
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It’s not worth arguing with them about, they’re living a self defeating prophecy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:03 PM
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Capitalism is fiercely individualistic and has been gradually isolating people for decades, so if a NoHate incel or whatever has no one in his life to prepare and help him for the dating world, that is absolutely the fault of a society which has failed him and weaponizes him against himself as well as women (and vice versa) Anyway there are women (and men) who are dating coaches and therapists that specialize in things such as this. But I think you keep going back to the concept of a woman teach…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:26 PM
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there would be a multi billion dollar industry around training hopeless single men how to improve their personality It’s called therapy and pharma Anyway get better at political theory and then talk to me about how capitalism is a great indicator of serving the needs of the people instead of what turns the top 1% a bigger profit. Capitalism preys and thrives off the neuroses of the people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:39 PM
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Joaquin joker is really sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:58 PM
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When you go out, do you give compliments to every person you see when you find them attractive, or simply just like their hair or outfit or whatever? Or do you only selectively give compliments based on how busy you are or how busy they seem? Most people just won't bother others to pay them a compliment. We have so many thoughts a day, many thoughts about people around us, but we don't always say those things. Because most of the time it's not conductive, or they don't think it will do much. Eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:43 AM
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I really don't know why guys here are obsessed with celebrity examples either. What about a celebrity's life is relatable to the average person's? The average man in his mid 40s can't lead the lifestyle Leo lives even if he was rich, because Leo is rich and also exuberantly famous, and not just simply famous, but honored and revered by audiences and the academy alike. It's just always so strange to me that they point out celebrities to validate their pop science. "Women like older men" then list…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 02:31 AM
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You're very right about that, and in modern American history, it gets even deeper. There's been trending cycles of body standards that are dictated by advertising agencies designed to dictate what we should and shouldn't find attractive so there can always be something being sold. A lot of the issues we see today with dating is due to capitalism. Lower marriage rates, people settling down later and later, women being too busy and too self sustained and too involved with their new corporate jobs …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 02:04 AM
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That’s never what I said, I said to invest your time and effort into other, more worthwhile people. Not shallow, immature people who see relationships as a business transaction and have cynical views on life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:58 PM
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This is such a fatalistic and r worded mentality but have fun being miserable bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:17 AM
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Yes the standards exist because capitalists market it so you feel like shut about yourself, but can feel better if you can buy your own house, car, etc. that you might not even need at the age you’re at. So it’s not anyone’s fault and no one is a loser for this. I’m a big believer in the extended family unit, I want to live in Italy for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:12 AM
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I think it’s very funny, so you’re right in that it added value to my day
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:28 PM
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No, the fact that you’re citing South Park as an interesting cultural point of study
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:15 PM
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I see why you guys are having problems in dating now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:01 PM
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I can’t wait to be crusty_jizzsock’s tidy piece, the most esteemed of titles
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:33 PM
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Just invest time in better people bro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:45 PM
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The NUCLEAR family structure was created by ad men after World War II as a way to sell more real estate, then became an advertising strategy to sell an assortment of goods. (The development of marketing included Freudian psychology as a way to psychologically target different “tropes” that they created within this structure as an easier way to market to people. For example, they could target the housewife and matriarch of the family with cooking, cleaning, and beauty products.) Before, families …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:44 PM
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People become commodities to each other, and the only way to form bonds under capitalism is to market yourself, which is inherently dehumanizing and isolating…so it really is just a transaction of you trying to market yourself so someone will like you, but that same someone is looking for a commodity and marketing themselves as one to you. This kind of interaction makes it too easy to dehumanize each other, and throw empathy out of the window…many such cases!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:58 AM
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Because people feel as though they need to date or be in a relationship to be whole people or live fulfilling lives, and putting that much weight on an aspect of life that may be incompatible with the way you truly wish you could live can be detrimental. People only care this much about romantic relationships and dating because they have no sense of community in these isolated, modern times (so they don’t realize that friendships and other platonic interpersonal relationships can be just as if n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:54 AM
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Because the capitalist-invented nuclear family structure told them this in psychosexual advertisements
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:27 AM
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The issue is that men with this view on life and people are inherently afraid to be vulnerable and be of service to others, so they commodify others by putting them into strict categories of “how can they benefit ME and MY LIFE” instead of wanting both parties to benefit each others lives, instead of accusing women of being evil temptresses trying to deceive them and drain them of all their resources or expecting women to be docile, goalless servants to them … both of which are unhealthy views o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:25 AM
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The true red pill is the commie pill, comrade
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:16 AM
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Just say you don’t want to put any effort in and still get pussy then. That’s the whole thing, men do this because they are more desperate for pussy than women are for dick
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 10:51 AM
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Life isn’t fair but you have to accept that and make peace with it, you can’t continue to punish yourself for things out of your control and having self compassion includes doing things that are good for you and your growth. Playing video games is fine in moderation, like watching tv, but it’s not as fulfilling or conductive to growth as developing a skill might be (and those skill based hobbies can just stay hobbies, but the point is to build something and progressing and creating things not on…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:56 AM
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I neglected to point out how often these guys drone on about how women are whores who have high n counts, but now, allegedly, they don't have a high number of partners. Turns out they've just been fucking the same three Chads this entire time!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:26 AM
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The real red pill is the Communism pill
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:55 PM
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Not normal? Aren't you the kind of group that would be intensely into Darwinism? Every time I see a post, it's reiterated American capitalist-funded "research" about biology this, biology that to explain why women are devils that plague the Earth and men are helpless to their need to fuck everything that moves, but now all of a sudden it's not normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:48 PM
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Can any of you just please go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:17 PM
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The real red pill is the commie pill
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:56 AM
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Most people aren’t in extreme categories like that lmao, it’s not either a 10/10 sexy horrible man or a 2/10 ugly sweet Quasimodo, it’s all the shades in between that make up most of the population. Same with women. I think people here are only exposed to other people online or through the modern dating scene (which is manipulated by the late stage capitalism that isolated and secularizes us all, and commodifies people and sex) and can’t fathom that the majority of people in the world are just r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:26 PM
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That’s cool for them, I don’t judge them for living their lives how they want to. It’s not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:41 PM
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Entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 06:08 AM
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Do you think the unabomber would be up for something like this? https://youtu.be/EjidrUoHvPs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 01:39 AM
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I like long faces and sleepy eyes on men, not sure why or what could have conditioned this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 01:07 AM
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When you let it break your confidence. Sure, there’s many women who won’t date short men, but there are women who do, and you ruin your chances with those women when you act insecure and clearly aren’t confident in yourself because of your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:43 AM
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They’re both awful ways to live life as they ignore fundamentals of human satisfaction, but I would say life of purpose because it sounds pretentious enough to fulfill me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:23 AM
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A life unbothered and unknown, preferably by myself in a lofty northwestern pacific cabin unaffected by the woes of society and the terrifying ordeal of being known.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:15 AM
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Congratulations! You’ve unlocked the achievement “women!” Keep playing to unlock the achievements “first base” and “pussy”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 01:20 AM
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Perhaps because any writer knows the success of your metaphor is hinged upon the quality of said metaphor. Comparing women to dogs and mythical beasts aren’t quality comparisons, so they fall flat. Perhaps pick up “on writing” by Stephen King and then read enough Stephen King to understand that he doesn’t adhere to most of his own advice. That’s what the red pill feels like, and that’s an example of a good metaphor. Also the concept of dragons is a nebulous one at best, everyone has their own in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 01:17 AM
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Maybe because women aren’t dogs and happen to be people with their own conscious thoughts, dreams, goals in life, personalities, etc. Interesting how they keep being compared to animals and children by men on trp and this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 04:39 PM
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I will HAVE to make do with a socialist if I can't find a comrade, anything but a fascist or a capitalist. Or a lib/moderate (capitalists). Shudders....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 10:09 PM
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I think women are, on average, more attractive than men are as well. A woman rated a 5 will look better than a man rated a 5, women who are perfect 10s are more attractive than men who are perfect 10s. The fairer sex, as it goes. My ideal woman crush is leagues above my ideal man crush, but I still love them both. Of course, all of this is subjective. What a man thinks is in his league will be his subjective opinion based on how he interacts with the world, same with women. A lot of people can o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 08:52 PM
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Sadly, he's taken, as all high quality men are. If only Fidel were still alive and kicking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 08:48 PM
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I think most people have to be a multitude of facets to earn anyone quality's attention or commitment. People don't fall in love with looks alone. However, what those facets are varies for most people. Not everyone seeks out the classic housewife/provider traits in others. Some people are attracted to humor, talent, attitude, values, intelligence, passion, dedication, etc. And how each of those areas are quantified can vary to the tastes of each individual. For instance, I am attracted to passio…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:59 PM
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> More and more women choose to be hotter guys' on-call sex toys. For the same reasons that many men choose to pine over hotter girls than settle down with an uglier girl, both groups want the validation of being chosen by hot people even if their habits are detrimental to their long term happiness. Women don't want to be pump and dumps for average to good looking guys, but choose that role because they are insecure and looking for validation they think male attention will bring. Men will likewi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:50 PM
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Tell me why I have such immense affection for Steve Buscemi then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:39 PM
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I wonder what satisfaction these kinds of guys get from curating these strangely specific commandments. A fascinating look at someone who seeks to mindbreak themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:03 PM
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Yeah!! Why can’t we go back to the good old days where he says ooga and I say booga and then we smash in a cave next to the fine art?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 01:50 PM
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Their knowledge of X-men and their devotion to communism are the main things I look for before deciding to be attracted to a man. Also his proximity to old, barricaded mines.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 01:26 PM
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I would be Wolverine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 08:34 PM
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It’s the difference between fucking a woman and fucking the idea of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 04:26 AM
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It's not to say "omg humans are so complex and special!!!" it's to say that only thinking about people in binaries is going to skew your perception and offset your interactions with them. It's the destination of ouroboros.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 04:08 AM
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Thinking of women as a monolith in nature, focusing on the "rule of women" is a black and white way to think. Rather than treating women as individuals. As it would be with humanity as a whole, which is quite complex. Usually people who think in such binaries are trying to cope in one way or another. You are dense or disingenuous if you don't understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 03:50 AM
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And I could say the same for black and white thinking, which the RP relies on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 03:40 AM
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Focusing on the exception not the rule is dumb. It's not dumb, it's extraordinary. Expect more for yourself, if you are focused on the bleakness of the majority, focus toward the exceptions. If you truly believe this is the nature of women, why even try with the majority of women? To subjugate them and put them in their place? To prove your worth as an alpha man? Or shit test them into showing they AREN'T part of that 90%?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 03:33 AM
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My viewpoint is more in tune with the lines of reality affects fiction rather than fiction affecting reality (as was the example you used.) I believe that the reality of men being hurt or rejected or having some kind of trauma related to abusive women or bullying causes men to seek female and romantic validation out of insecurity of not being enough, and many of those men are on TRP. Not all, but most. Some of TRP tries to compartmentalize female nature into easily digestible bites for the gapin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 03:24 AM
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Nope. I have a healthy view on men and women. I just simply like my own company and am comfortable in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 03:19 AM
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I could, if I wanted to. I have other focusses in my life right now, mainly creative pursuits. Though, I'm not against it if it were to occur naturally. I just don't seek people out for those purposes anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 02:49 AM
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I think the most dismal attributes of the dating market can be attributed to the dating app culture we cultivated. When better options are seemingly a swipe away, it leads people to never be satisfied or present, and they don't focus on actually trying to create a worthwhile connection to the person they are with. Also emotionally immature and insecure people who are very much not ready to date feeling the need to date in order to seek validation for themselves. There should be a necessary amoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 02:33 AM
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Yup, I mentioned that it may lead to dead bedrooms. Attraction is a necessary part of all relationships. A guy may be dating a girl he finds more attractive than him, and a girl may prefer his personality to his looks, but as long as the girl also finds him attractive in some way then that relationship can flourish. If the girl doesn't, it will lead to a dead bedroom. Similarly, I knew a man who sad that he dated a couple girls before who he was totally in love with personality wise, they starte…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 02:22 AM
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Yes. Yes it does. Though you can reframe that in positive language and have it be just as true, or even moreso. But I'll allow this definition. So you agree with that point at least. That's good, common ground is okay to have in these discussions. I come at this critiquing trp from the point that it hurts men's mental health more than it helps it. I am more concerned with the healing and the ultimate happiness of those individual men who do need to heal from the traumas that they have been throu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 02:18 AM
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All I want now is to laugh at their misery, tell the truth to others,and maybe inflict some of the pain they inflicted on me on them. laugh at their misery inflict some of the pain they inflicted on me on them. These are statements indicative to retributive justice. I never said he was wrong in feeling the way he is. I understand his deep hurts and traumas, but I’m also suggesting that he tries to reconcile and heal them as it would be the most productive for his personal growth and happiness. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 01:09 AM
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If it helps, it always does hurt at first. But, it gets better. It deeply saddens me that you have experienced this and my dms are open for you at any time. Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 01:01 AM
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“Imply” being the keyword here, as you just attributed your own definition to a definition which is specific. In psychology, gaslighting refers to a very specific process of emotional abuse. If you want to point out an answer is bullshit, just point it out. This is the problem I ultimately have with trp, is it makes men incapable of being genuine or honest, and instead inducts them into patterns of mind games, manipulation, and refusing to show any vulnerability lest they be branded a “beta.” Al…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 01:00 AM
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The trauma of rejection is a deep woe, and you must take the steps to heal from it. Experiencing so much rejection will create insecurity and doubt within yourself, but you can heal from it. I wish you luck in your journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 12:56 AM
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Warning men is fine, and noble, being able to tell other people red flags and what to look for is absolutely conductive to preventing it from happening again. I’m not against that aspect of trp and I think more open communication about relationship toxicity and potentially abusive situations will do everyone good, no matter on if it’s exposing men or women. One therapist is not indicative of the entire industry, you have to find therapists that will work with you. I have had my fair share of unh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 12:53 AM
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I am not. He said directly that he wanted to see women in the same pain he was in, which is retributive justice, the act of him being on trp and warning people isn’t an act of revenge. Please read his entire reply to understand what I was responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 12:39 AM
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I didn’t say the example itself is abusive and will destroy a woman, I’m saying that common tactics employed and suggested by trp are emotionally abusive. The suggestion that gaslighting is okay because it put someone in their place for daring to ask a question or engage in banter with someone, is what is suggestive to abuse. Gaslighting itself is an abuse tactic, you suggest it could merely be abusive in specific circumstances which would be more apt for the term lying. Gaslighting is conscious…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 12:37 AM
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You absolutely will find someone who doesn’t mind, or perhaps will even like, your height. I personally know many women attracted to “short kings” perhaps the women you are attracted to are the type to be very young and beautiful without much life experience, introspection, or emotional maturity. Perhaps you are young yourself. I’m young and unmarried which I only point out as a lot of women in this sub tend to be older and happily wed. I have never had a relationship or a sexual encounter and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 12:31 AM
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Some people have values that aren’t in romantic pursuit or validation. Most of my personal goals don’t align to having romantic validation or a partner, but if it happens with the right person I wouldn’t shy away from it. I have a lot of creative goals and fulfillment, as well as close interpersonal bonds that keep me from being lonely. I’m also very young. I have learned to like myself at this young age and like being alone with myself,P just as much as I like spending time with family and frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 12:15 AM
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Here is a bitter reality: yes, life would be easier if you were more attractive, wealthier, had access to better opportunities. This is in all aspects of life and not just dating. However, only focusing on what you lack and convincing yourself that you are incapable of being loved or happy because of that is more detrimental than being without those qualities. You don’t need female validation to accept that you have inherent worth as a human being, you don’t need hoards of women slobbering at yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 12:01 AM
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I believe you should look into the harmful affects of retributive justice, it will not give you the inner peace or happiness you think it will. Focusing your life on your traumas and inflicting those miseries unto other people rather than living for your own happiness and mental health will decline you faster than any relationship with a malicious woman would. I’m truly sorry you have went through a lot of emotionally toxic and terrible relationships with women, but you must seek to heal these t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:53 PM
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https://archive.is/K0Hd1
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:49 PM
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A confirmation bias which will leave you self martyred and miserable. Confidence, stability, and ingenuity go much farther than that, but if you walk around with a chip on your shoulder due to perceived ostracizing for your height, looks, or socioeconomic level then people will adapt to that insecurity and be repelled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:47 PM
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You are using the term gaslighting wrong. Perhaps to emotional immature women looking for a hook up, they don’t seek personality, but most women who seek to develop relationships do value personality over looks. They also value stability over looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:45 PM
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Everything is a shit test, everything is a transaction, this is a bleak way to look at life, relationships, and other people. Men claim to give themselves to philosophy, and only read nihilism because it validates their despair. This is quite similar to men who seek trp. Men will shed themselves of ingenuity and hope because it’s harder to be vulnerable and honest than it is to wear an armor that they feel will make them accepted, and it hurts them long term. It’s not a moral high ground, it is …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:41 PM
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I couldn’t have said it better, though I’ve tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:34 PM
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Because it’s not about sex, it’s about validation. The method in which gaining that validation, to men of trp, is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:30 PM
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Maybe you should have taken the communism pill instead. Aka the real red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:28 PM
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You need to reconcile the trauma of that experience in a healthy and conductive way that leads to your healing rather than holding bitterness and resentment to all women. Yes, women will hurt you. Yes, men will hurt women. That doesn’t mean that every single person you meet is out to get you and will leave you high and dry. You are self sabotaging your own resilience and desires to have a genuine and fulfilling relationship by masking your trauma and hurt with a subreddit which exploits that rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:25 PM
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One of the tactics to respond to “shit tests” (which are literally either just questions or banter) is called pseudo gaslighting, and the description of implementing it is literal gaslighting, so I wouldn’t say it’s bad faith to call some of the tactics championed there emotionally abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:18 PM
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It doesn’t address the real issues, which is that most of the men that are attracted to trp sub are suffering a kind of trauma or deep insecurity that they can’t or won’t heal from, expecting this subreddit and sex with women to heal it for them using simple ways to solve complex issues. It doesn’t give men genuine confidence, understanding, or healing, but teaches them how to become manipulative and jaded in order to achieve female validation. The men attracted to the red pill think they need f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:09 PM
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No, women in America date similarly. Most women in America prefer personality and settle for what is considered subpar looks, which is why sex in relationships and dead bedrooms can become an issue if the girl isn’t intimately attracted to them. Unless you’re referring to obese people, but most young women (women in their teens and twenties, maybe even early thirties) are at healthy weights. Statistically, women are more likely to start gaining weight as they age, but this is due to letting them…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 11:02 PM
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In times of trouble, people desire simple solutions to complex issues. It makes the world more digestible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 10:18 AM
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The most overarching trait of attraction for women is stability, both financial and emotional. Financial stability is not just a gold diggers plight, but an indicator that being with that man will lead to comfort ability and less stress or threat, as well as show he is mature and in a place in life that he is able to take care of himself and potentially a partner. Just as men want to be nurtured by women, women also long to be nurtured by men. Emotional stability comes in the form of confidence …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 09:40 AM
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