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"if x happened it would be so awful but x is my literal life lmao" why do women always say shit like this wtf. "yeah I'm ok with short guys but my boyfriend is 6'5" kek
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:13 PM
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lol yeah this is the way. if you just go "ok so what's your body count" you're going to get shut down immediately. if you act sort of mildly kinky and interested they'll spill, but at the end of the day I'm just trying to figure out of she's ruined her ability to pair bond or not lmaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:15 AM
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50 year old men and 20 year old women dont date, but lots and lots of 18-25 year old women prefer 25-35 year old men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:44 PM
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Yeah I think it all comes down to exchanging dating pools. Women like older men, men like younger women. Young men can only really date women roughly their age, but young women can date as old as they like. As people get older, women's dating pool shrinks because they wont go that much younger, but mens dating pool expands because they can still date women their age but also have a constantly growing pool of younger women who are interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:43 PM
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On god I thought that shit was a meme but I'm 26 now and have had three different women who rejected me in high school hit me up in the last year lmao. Shit is so gross
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:41 PM
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I think in an ideal world, you meet "your person" fairly early, from 16-20, when you both have low (ideally 0) n-counts, and you make it work and stick it out and truly love each other. Obviously, it doesn't work out like that for most people, but I think you should always strive to make "the next one" count. I think it's kind of fucked to intentionally run around banging as many people as possible, although I understand the appeal, I really do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:03 PM
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I think the overwhelming majority of non-monogamous people simply don't engage in serious relationships, open or closed. They casually date and hook up to get their sexual needs met, but never take the next step to boyfriend/girlfriend relationships. Of the non-monogamous, I think people in open relationships are a fairly small percentage, if I had to guess. I think this largely stems from a fear of commitment and/or FOMO. People hear about how amazing it is to be this liberated sexually promisc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:59 PM
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I have never given a single fuck about rejection, and pursued women relentlessly as a teenager. When I was around 20, the Me Too movement happened and I began to watch as many men in the media and in my social group were suddenly "outed" for their behaviors, a lot of which was truly awful, but a lot of which was innocent stuff a lot like what I did, asking women out, pursuing, being active in a dating scene, etc. I became very afraid of having my life ruined because of something I said while app…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:57 PM
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honestly I think it has way more to do with 1) no one having any fucking money and 2) men hitting on women being insanely demonized by the media. I know a lot of guys that are just straight up scared of talking to women because they know guys who've copped a charge over nothing and don't want it to happen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:11 PM
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agreed, but can you blame inexperienced guys for not getting the message? most guys I know (who weren't good looking for their entire dating life) ended up in a situation where the explicit response was "hmm idk maybe... let's be friends" but didn't understand that implicitly that's a "no"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:54 AM
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it seems pretty rare ime for a girl to "make a guy wait" but then actually fuck them at some point. it seems much more common for girls to immediately jump into bed with guys they actually like and guys they don't like get sort of strung along and left on the backburner, never getting into bed with her but never outright getting rejected either, and ending up in romantic limbo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:32 AM
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I feel like 18 at 18 is pretty fuckin nuts, but 35 at 35 is pretty meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:28 AM
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I'm pretty similar to you, at 18-20 I thought 1-3 was quite a lot already, and any more was major hoe shit. Now I'm 26 and anything under 10 sounds reasonable, 10-20 is getting up there, 20+ is probably hoe shit. For reference, my count is 4, 1 LTR, 1 FWB, 2 ONS. I also turned down quite a bit of sex in high school and college because I didn't (and still don't) enjoy the idea of being promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:27 AM
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honestly it's as simple as put on muscle, lose fat, wear lifts in your shoes. that's the big 3. if you want to get slightly more complicated, take better care of your skin, hair, and wardrobe. nuclear hot take: most guys have an acceptable personality, at least on the surface, to date. if you maximize your looks, it's very unlikely that your personality will hold you back in a major way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:47 PM
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I think that yeah, guys are fairly bad at reading signals, but the problem is that the signals are mostly incomprehensible or so subtle I have no idea how you're supposed to pick up on it. Some of them are fairly obvious, like "I smiled and touched a guys chest and arm to show interest," which I think most guys would pick up on. At a level more subtle, it's "I smiled at a guy to show interest," which can very easily be assumed to just be someone being nice. At another level it's "I glanced at hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:25 PM
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yeah, I don't think any of my friends were dating people that much older or younger, but I think the most common age gap was senior boys dating sophomore girls, so 15-17 or 16-18.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:13 PM
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yeah it's one of those things where, I think if you're getting ready to settle, it's a neutral or even good thing? but if you just want to fuck around, it's the worst possible thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:07 PM
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I'd say it's a yellow flag past the age of like, 21. It's not too weird, but I would wonder if there were some religious or sexual hangups at work. Women get sex thrown at them too often from too early an age to not have sex unless they really truly don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:05 PM
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well yeah it's one of those "one or the other" things where it's either a completely conscious choice not to have sex, or they're absolutely insane. it's pretty easy to tell the difference though, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:04 PM
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yeah, in my social group the girls were almost always starting earlier than the boys, because they were hooking up with guys a couple years older. then when the guys were older they started hooking up with girls a couple years younger lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:03 PM
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