cummingouttamycage Archive

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–	What do you think about hoe_math ? did I not just say that it's rare for people to meet up in the first place? Nobody is looking for a "free fuckbuddy". "Not using it seriously" =/= looking for a quick fuck... it means they don't see it as the end all be all, or something to religiously check, update and dedicate a significant amount of time to using. They get overwhelmed and exhausted by the apps and shut them off. i think people do see themselves as using it earnestly, and genuinely believe themselves to be taking it seriously …	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/24 04:29 AM
–	What do you think about hoe_math ? For many people, a dating app is a tool in their back pocket and not their primary way of meeting people. a swipe, a like, whatever, is easy, and it's not "go down list, check boxes, hot, yes" as a conscious choice. it's passive. often up to chance. some days you're swipier than others. Maybe you're more selective in general because apps feel bleak in the first place. If you're a woman with friends and social connections, the amount of time you spent on your dating app is brief. It's not your on…	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/24 12:58 AM
–	What do you think about hoe_math ? “Excuses” how? Are you referring to the dating app statistics? After I have clearly stated that how people swipe on dating apps doesn’t reflect how people choose dates in real life? Too many people think “putting themselves out there” is being on a dating app while spending the majority of their time in their house, and then getting mad at other people because they “feel invisible” (have seen women do this too). The complainers are almost entirely the chronically online people who don’t go outsi…	/r/ExRedPill	21/01/24 06:50 PM
2	Age gap relationships? I’ll answer this earnestly, though I would recommend not thinking of dating as “targeting”. a majority of married couples are within 2-3 years of one another, age wise (something like 65%). Like 87% of couples are within 7 years of each other. <6% of couples have a 10+ year age gap. The older people marry, the more likely they are to have a bigger age gap. Half your age plus 7 is actually a good rule of thumb. It’s a good range that’s not too limiting, and tends to reflect an age you’d find attr…	/r/ExRedPill	13/01/24 05:44 PM
2	Challenging the "Red Pill" Notion: The Diverse Spectrum of Womens What you're describing isn't a "spectrum", it's categories and boxes, featuring borderline cartoonish archetypes. Men are either "alphas", which comes with masculine traits and rude behavior, or they're "betas", where they're less masculine and polite. And women are either "likes sports and luxury travel, and are fine with alpha behavior" OR are "introverted and romantic, with hobbies, who feel mistreated". That's not how it works. There are plenty of men who have all the superficial traits that…	/r/ExRedPill	10/01/24 09:06 PM
2	What do you think about hoe_math ? ... Interesting choice of a comment that, like a lot of hoe_math's videos, lives in extremes. I've seen the "delusion chart" and i know what it's supposed to be a parody of. Is it humorous, and does he deliver the message in a fun way? Sure. But, if anything, the thing about women "ranking men they're familiar with pretty fairly" is that they're incorporating personality into the mix... even if you're intentionally trying to go based off looks alone, subconsciously, you can't just un-know someon…	/r/ExRedPill	22/12/23 06:36 PM
3	What do you think about hoe_math ? Exactly. Like, of course you “won’t exist” to someone who doesn’t know you exist. And I get it, dating is harder for introverts. And if you’re a guy in a male dominated field (school/work), with traditionally male interests, yeah, you’re gonna have less encounters with women. But that doesn’t mean women are deliberately deciding against you or choosing to ignore you. I know saying “just put yourself out there!” Is cliche and a dead horse, but there’s some truth to it. A lot of the guys, these “c…	/r/ExRedPill	19/12/23 08:38 PM
2	What do you think about hoe_math ? I went down this rabbit hole out of morbid curiosity. Im usually very good at finding people who make a lot of effort to not be found… couldn't figure much out for him. Not a ton to work with. As far as his personal life, he’s very good at keeping that private, but pretty sure he’s some sort of remote worker in cybersecurity (explains the privacy thing), and in his late 30s. My speculation based on recent content is that he got laid off or was fired from his full time job (happening a lot in tec…	/r/ExRedPill	17/12/23 06:59 AM