cumslutitup Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	REMINDER: It is natural to want and to have sex. letsgeneralizeaboutwomen	/r/seduction	31/12/20 06:26 AM
1	Is 28 too late to start hooking up more? It’s not very obviously an expression. In fact you should google this phenomenon of society referring to women as girls where as men are referred to as men.	/r/seduction	28/11/20 09:32 AM
1	REMINDER: It is natural to want and to have sex. That question is laced with assumptions.	/r/seduction	28/11/20 09:21 AM
2	A new perspective on approaching woman? You should talk to a therapist or try to work through this personal problem before dating. You have identified two incompatible desires: You want new approaches to women in the dating scene, but you say that you will end up viewing them as having depreciated in value if they end up liking you because of you view yourself. That’s not necessarily fair to the women who like you then. But it seems like you want to understand and resolve your issue. i would focus on understanding why you do that befo…	/r/seduction	28/11/20 08:56 AM
2	A new perspective on approaching woman? I guarantee everyone’s advice on here is terrible. Go in feeling the connection (we are all humans) Have a less involved ego. Be a person. people like to do things (fucking anything. Reading? Making wood cabinets? Drawing? Plants? Volunteering? Do stuff you like to do, or explore what you like to do. People [females] appreciate that and will see you as legit/real/independent). And be able to reflect on yourself. Be compassionate to yourself (and others ie a chick who may ignore you). and tbh, lo…	/r/seduction	28/11/20 08:50 AM
1	How do you not let yourself get carried away and scare potential partners off? Alsooooo tune into Matthew Hussey for insight on developing creating and maintaining attraction!	/r/seduction	14/09/20 10:54 PM
2	How do you not let yourself get carried away and scare potential partners off? You just got to keep manifesting, and working on manifesting that calm energy. (Don’t tell yourself you suck at keeping partners/not scaring them off- that’s not the thing you’re not being good at, there is more accurate phrasing of the ‘problem’ you’re getting at that once excavated will be more insightful and prompt you for more positive desirable results.) I’ll link an article later if I can find it that gives advice for staying calm and balanced when you meet someone who is so awesome that i…	/r/seduction	14/09/20 10:53 PM
2	Texting is fucking my game up Timing is everything. I might not answer a stranger for two days but when I do, then I’m available.	/r/seduction	18/08/20 05:55 AM
6	REMINDER: It is natural to want and to have sex. are there other women in this thread right now?	/r/seduction	11/08/20 04:12 AM
1	Is 28 too late to start hooking up more? To the 3 paragraph, i used the word "connections" to sum up all of the various types of sexual relationships/encounter. I'm currently seeing a person and I actively know I am not interested in a serious relationship because of other life goals. But I also don't think of it as casual. It is kind of the exact thing I want in life right now however it has the potential to get complicated. So I am also coming from a perspective of "what are the things this male is doing that are working for me (attr…	/r/seduction	11/08/20 03:57 AM
5	REMINDER: It is natural to want and to have sex. What do you mean “full of shit about their sexual desires” ?	/r/seduction	10/08/20 05:06 PM
4	REMINDER: It is natural to want and to have sex. Yep	/r/seduction	10/08/20 05:06 PM
11	REMINDER: It is natural to want and to have sex. Agreed. It’s like “who can you trust” and then other men are upset that we can’t trust them. Well at least I use that to weed those people out. A person can be sexual to any degree no matter their gender.	/r/seduction	10/08/20 05:05 PM
10	REMINDER: It is natural to want and to have sex. It kind of sucks when considering who projects the slut shaming.	/r/seduction	10/08/20 05:04 PM
0	Is 28 too late to start hooking up more? I won’t lie, this subreddit intrigues me as a woman viewing it. If more men thought about sexuality differently I think they would experience more sexual encounters. I get the heebie jeebies when 28 year old females are referred to as girls. I’m 28 and I’m a woman, not a child lol. For this guy though, the OP, perhaps teachings on abundance may help in your desires. Also, why do you want to be the guy who says “I’m bringing home a girl” ? For status? That’s not attractive AT ALL. And if that’s y…	/r/seduction	08/08/20 07:19 PM
2	Is 28 too late to start hooking up more? Lol wow holy shit. I appreciate the true randomness to your patterns.	/r/seduction	08/08/20 07:09 PM
1	I finally got really hot girlfriends... and then lost them. Don't make these mistake too As a woman/human I’m not a fan of using ‘hot’ as a description word for people I find attractive. I enjoy being called it but I get so confused because we all grow up not realizing that beauty is subjective only to find out that it is. I think personality and chemistry is what really makes or breaks a person’s ‘hotness’ though. So I can’t identify looks until I know personality. I think I’ve been told repeatedly I fit the 8 category, but i mean I think only 10’s exist bah wow sorry I’m way too o…	/r/seduction	30/07/20 06:56 AM
1	I finally got really hot girlfriends... and then lost them. Don't make these mistake too Thank you I more agree with this	/r/seduction	30/07/20 06:49 AM
1	I finally got really hot girlfriends... and then lost them. Don't make these mistake too Like I bet if someone showed me a 10, I’m guessing my reaction would be “meh” but I’d go gaga eyes for a 7, for example.	/r/seduction	30/07/20 06:49 AM
5	I finally got really hot girlfriends... and then lost them. Don't make these mistake too I mean I guess for younger folks. If you’re actually good in bed (not just a violent thruster, being good = being good at communicating) and have hobbies and are emotionally available, you’ll meet someone within no time. Also maybe don’t think of ‘hot women’ as a category of women? I’m a female and pretty much every woman I encounter is hot. It erks me the wrong way when I hear ‘hot women’ I’m just not exactly sure what men are talking about when I hear that.	/r/seduction	28/07/20 02:25 AM
1	Vulnerability v. Neediness Very well said	/r/seduction	22/07/20 09:55 PM
1	Vulnerability v. Neediness I mean you’re right about stuff here, but I’m not digging the “yours for the taking” language. We’re talking about people ya’ll.	/r/seduction	19/07/20 06:48 PM
1	Vulnerability v. Neediness I’d like to add that she might still not know if she’s attracted to you yet! Be confident about it. Being okay with being rejected= sexy and confident. (It means that you prioritize you over the other person [you can still like someone even if they’re not sure about you, but there is only one YOU so dont be that sure about anyone who becomes unsure of you]) So NEVER express sadness over rejection in front of the person rejecting you. That’s how you ACTUALLY gain control of the situation. “I’m bu…	/r/seduction	19/07/20 06:47 PM
1	Vulnerability v. Neediness So wait the female says that during LMR? I think it all goes back to timing. If you feel ‘rejected’ you ducked something up with timing.	/r/seduction	19/07/20 06:42 PM
1	Vulnerability v. Neediness Hmmm but how will she/they ever know? (I am F28) There is a subtle play to it all I think! If idk if the guy is into me, I won’t think of him like that. Which can either work in favor of the person who does like me, but can also work against the person who likes me. Coming onto too strong isnt sexy, but never expressing the intention isn’t sexy either. I really think timing is everything.	/r/seduction	19/07/20 06:41 PM
1	Vulnerability v. Neediness What is LMR?	/r/seduction	16/07/20 04:18 PM
1	Vulnerability v. Neediness Yeah don't get mushy, but I actually think telling someone something along the lines of "I want to get to know you better" is pretty communicative. Or being like "hey I kind of like you" or idk dropping hints that youre into her and being okay with it if you get rejected. being okay with rejection gives the other person an opportunity to see how confident you are too.	/r/seduction	14/07/20 10:27 PM
1	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 43 Progress Report Those are called women	/r/seduction	11/07/20 09:18 AM
1	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 43 Progress Report Only if I can call males of any age by the term boy	/r/seduction	11/07/20 09:18 AM
1	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 43 Progress Report I just meant that as advice for someone trying to get a number from the perspective of the person giving the number.	/r/seduction	11/07/20 09:16 AM
1	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 43 Progress Report Most people have an inherit distrust of strangers also. So keep that in mind for successful social interactions. I don’t think it’s smart to ask a woman for her number right away. It’s 2020, a phone number means different things than it did 20-40 years ago. I don’t give my number to just anyone. Phone number = pressure and suspicion for me and I know I’m not alone. A low investment interaction isn’t going to warrant me giving my number to anyone (and it’s only going to be low investment in a col…	/r/seduction	10/07/20 05:48 PM
1	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 43 Progress Report I mean I feel like getting someone’s number is tricky, I personally get weird about it. The interaction has to be really good for me to dish out my digits. Cold approaching in places like a cafe you both come to often- now that has potential. You will see them again and can build that connection before soliciting for digits.	/r/seduction	10/07/20 05:44 PM
-1	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 43 Progress Report If we’re talking about adult females, remember how important it is to use the word ‘woman’ because a ‘girl’ is a minor (under 18).	/r/seduction	10/07/20 05:42 PM
5	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 43 Progress Report Practice cold approaching anyone and everyone within reason. Warm up your social side. Be the person who wants the cashier to have a good day. Be the person who makes an on point joke with the fellow customer while grocery shopping. Say hi to people when you go for a walk (unless it’s really late at night and it’s a female- because that can be real creepy and aggressive) Practice cold approaching on people who also seem socially warmed up. If you go by attraction you might miss social signals th…	/r/seduction	10/07/20 05:40 PM
8	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 43 Progress Report What is the “one year cold approach” ? I just looked it up. I’ve been cold approached and vice versa. I often have great luck with this especially in day time hours. Best cold approach ever was in a museum in NYC....the gueggenheim ugh I know I just spelled that wrong. I am F (28) and they were M (probably same age) it would have been successful it I didn’t have a bf at the time and the museum had only an hour until close. I later saw him cold approach another F around our age and it made me chu…	/r/seduction	10/07/20 05:26 PM
2	If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chance Lol ‘deal with’ ?	/r/seduction	12/06/20 08:27 AM
3	If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chance I think the post is saying if you only approach women with your sexual interest, it’s boring. And super undermining, like I want to know who you are because we’re social creatures. But yeah same deal i guess	/r/seduction	12/06/20 08:25 AM
6	If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chance I mean if you’re going to be a partner make sure you’re on the same page about what each other means to each other. Someone might see you as their whole world, so recap, make sure they’re as independent as you or sincerely admire your independence. I’ve had it both ways and both are rough.	/r/seduction	12/06/20 08:23 AM
3	If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chance Yeah like they’re just trying to get our attention with flattery/sexual interest, but the above instruction is actionable and reasonable and raises quality of life	/r/seduction	12/06/20 08:21 AM
1	If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chance Have all the above the listed necessary criteria and know how to communicate with me (something done by taking a few-more meet ups to pick up on and by asking questions about how to communicate with person) and it is ON. ~goddamn i can’t wait to see the positive results, there might be more sex hap	/r/seduction	12/06/20 08:19 AM
2	If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chance yes X100000 It honestly doesn’t really matter how ‘hot’ you are I can’t even see if you’re hot without the criteria mentioned above	/r/seduction	12/06/20 08:12 AM