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100% truth. Look up "Extreme Ownership" by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 04:22 PM
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There was an episode of red man group where they talked about women "disqualifying" guys to avoid rejection. It can definitely happen.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 11:30 AM
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If they lose their cool you call attention to it. "Calm down, man" "You seem angry what's bothering you"
/r/TheRedPill08/08/18 02:10 AM
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If you invite a girl back to your place five minutes after meeting her, she’ll probably say no. Not always. But it can be done.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 12:29 AM
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Powertalk allows you to say things without officially saying them. As an example I knew this spergy guy in college. He would ask me about his girl problems, I guess he thought I knew better, and in relative terms I did... anyway rather than tell him directly that I thought he was just being used for attention, I just told him that I never take a girl on dates until after we've fucked. So I can't be held liable for saying "she is just using you" ... as in, he can't really mention me, "so and so s…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 02:29 AM
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FWIW I found something relevant on legalzoom re child support in cases of non-paternity (emphasis mine): But, paternity has been voided in some cases where there is strong evidence that the man in question is not the father. The men involved were able to obtain scientific evidence through DNA testing that the child truly was not theirs and they were able to convince the DA or the courts to make an exception. The lesson: All men faced with a claim of paternity should request DNA testing before ad…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 04:30 AM
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I just downloaded it, about ten pages in. Thanks for the recommendation.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 11:00 PM
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I think you are falling into a particular trap with this line of thinking. A woman engaged in a conscious and rational exchange of sex for your attention / commitment is seeking to meet her provisioning / security needs. A woman's visceral sexual attraction comes from subconscious cues of genetic fitness, not the exchange of value. She should want your genes (AF) not your provisioning (BB). Plenty of otherwise high status guys are firmly in the Beta camp when it comes to how they relate to women…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 10:58 AM
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Life is too easy for you, take more risks.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:23 AM
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"My friend thinks you're cute" is a shit test. It might happen to be true, but the girl saying this is shit testing you. You hit on the girl saying it, trust me, she is the interested party, not the friend.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 05:21 AM
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You may have what is sometimes called "Celtic hip", or deep hip sockets. I have the same problem, I learned the hard way that going ass-to-the-grass will necessarily throw my lower back out. It's a mechanical reality. Just squat as low as you can go without sticking your butt out, it isn't a big deal.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 02:57 AM
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It's called "dominating" the conversation. But by all means, shut the hell up and let me lead.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 09:36 AM
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what do you do with an individual who is especially envious and is trying to tear you down Don't give a fuck. Easier said than done, but that is your answer. When you are concerned with what person X is saying about you behind your back, you are in their frame. Don't be in the frame of somebody who isn't even present, that is weak, and yeah people can smell it. If you are going to be successful you are going to be polarizing, this is just the way it is. I led a TA session once, it was a cryptogr…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 08:57 AM
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Play the game better, make them look stupid, and don't assume superiority unless the game is over.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 07:27 AM
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You practice enough that it harms your social life.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 06:03 AM
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Those who would sacrifice Liberty for Pussy shall have neither. ~ B Frank
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 07:15 AM
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I always thought of mystical/spiritual talk from a woman as a shit test. If you engage sincerely, you are exposing yourself as irrational or effeminate and you fail. Mock her mercilessly, or play along with obvious sarcasm or amused mastery and you pass. I learned this the hard way. Try it out and see first yourself. Spiritual talk is an excellent opportunity to demonstrate your masculine virtue.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 07:50 PM
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find a personal trainar If you are in college take the 1 credit weightlifting class.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 08:29 PM
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Excuses are the bricks that built the house of Shame.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 08:25 PM
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Game, all day, errday, sorry your game sucks bro, work on your frame and go lift some more. You ain't dickin boxes by tickin boxes, gotta be real on this, she a lil more observational than you so its gonna be hard till you get head right, Peace.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 06:11 AM
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Bro this milf told me she loves that beta boy but then it was like that bagel joint so I wasn't sure if it was a shit test or not I just asked her if sheshe's a fan of cream cheese do you think I passed or did I just weird her
/r/askTRP03/07/18 03:37 PM
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"I'm not having sex with you tn" Right up there with "I have a boyfriend".
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 10:05 PM
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Reminds me of myself in college. Just be good looking with some cachet, talk to girls and "escalate kino" .... easy. defenestrated Thank you for using this word.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 06:50 AM
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Reads to me like you didn't read the sidebar. Also females have always been the sexual selectors If one gender in a species shows exaggerated secondary sexual characteristics this is evidence of selection by the other gender. Women's exaggerated breasts, asses, and neotenous faces are considered evidence of Male selection on females. Chad is picky, you are picky. Picky males and the women they chose outbred the males that weren't choosy.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 10:17 PM
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Does autism prevent you from learning a second language?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 08:42 PM
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Thanks man this actually makes sense.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 03:47 AM
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I'll let you know when I figure it out. I can tell you what I've been trying though, just get used to opening strangers generally. Go to new places and just walk around - you have nothing to lose where nobody will ever see you again. But, I still clam up when it's an HB.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 02:03 AM
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Wow... I thought this would be about a different kind of mental stimulation, such as getting out of your comfort zone socially and powering through it. Or the mental rewards of a dangerous hobby. To me that kind of activity wakes your brain up like no other. And this is coming from a guy with an MS in a stem field. "Intellectualism" is fine and has its place but it seems more like daydreaming to me now, I'd rather have to think fast and clearly when my ass is on the line.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 05:42 AM
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Because girls never ask literal questions.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 01:36 AM
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This is a conspiracy theory. Because Chad would also have to be lying to the CDC, by a lot. You mean 20%, or 5%, or even 1% of their sample of men know about this charade and run with it? Because it would still show up in a sample of a few thousand. Is Chad a savvy insider to this hoax, purposefully avoiding responding honestly to surveys about sexual behavior? This sounds out of character for Chad. When did he learn this? Do women test you to see if you will keep your mouth shut? I feel like th…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 12:59 AM
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Any woman that has had even half my n count is not relationship material. Pump and dump only. Consider how similar feminism is to the cuck-hamster: "There is nothing wrong with slutty women. Also, don't hold women accountable for their actions. You need to accept that. If you are angry or disgusted you are probably a bitter virgin lol"
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 06:57 PM
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insecure, hyper-competitive fucks It's definitely out there. Don't get so triggered by the accusation. Plus where is this actually happening? Don't tell me you pathetic fucks actually pick on wimpy kids at the gym - hilarious - this is solidly middle tier behavior. If you want to move up, have some respect for yourself, because you are a tool, and your girlfriend wants my dick, just sayin.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 04:47 AM
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b-b-but you can't hate them for being what they are! Nothing they do is their fault!
/r/MGTOW05/07/17 01:13 AM
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There have been studies on cuckoldry in modern populations. It is about 1-3% in the US & Canada (unknowingly raising another man's child). http://blogs.discovermagazine.com/gnxp/2010/06/the-paternity-myth-the-rarity-of-cuckoldry/
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 07:04 PM
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This is a tough one to swallow, but I have some help for you. Think about third world dictators. Does it really bother you that they aren't brought to justice? Sure, some of them eventually get what is coming to them, but many more never do. Cosmic justice isn't ever going to be meted out to the villians of this world and you shouldn't let it bother you. Sure, you can savor the moments when they (shitty dictators) are dragged outside their palaces and beheaded, but to hang your hopes on this out…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 05:29 PM
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For the sake of general public knowledge, what are your maxes on the major lifts, and what is your height & weight?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 01:00 AM
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Good. Let the hate flow through you. Male violence is good and natural. Society requires that we temper the instinct, but we don't need to think of ourselves as broken for having the desire, nor is the desire morally wrong in and of itself, however it would ultimately (and obviously) destroy the society if we were to go completely feral. So most men, also possessing a civic instinct, understand the trade-off they are making between civility and violence, and are willing to be civil when they see…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 05:34 PM
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YMMV. Seems like a consolation prize. Plenty of fun stuff happening away from the prying eyes of the internet. From where I'm standing, social media popular is kindof making up for not being / having been popular in real life. But I mostly cheer them on, because why not, it doesn't hurt me and I like to see people succeed.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 01:14 AM
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"Simultaneously" was my nod to that archaic fact. Chad loads boxes into UPS trucks and got his GED at 25.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 01:06 AM
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Career, income, educational attainment. Correlates with IQ, not n-count. Play the long game. I'm 33 and this matches what I've seen among my friends and acquaintances - guys making bank worked hard and are also smart. Smart guys who are 'conscientious' do well. If you are Chad and simultaneously smart, then... just watch your back, the hate brigade has it in for you. And if you are stupid, ugly, and unmotivated, then curse the gods.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:04 PM
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This really needs to be spelled out for newcomers. I mean the implications, not the fact itself. Women as a group are systematically lying on surveys, lying to men in general, and have been doing so for the millions of years of evolution that led us to our pair bonding instincts. Our ancestor didn't pair bond, neither do our closest living relatives. They deliberately bred this beta behavior, by reproducing with men who displayed it, long enough to turn us into what biologists recognize as a pai…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 05:37 PM
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We, as human beings, are able to transcend beyond our evolutionary urges After a life of unbridled hedonism, or "art" as you referred to it, you aren't going to turn around and "transcend" anything. Though it is telling that you know this is around the corner... you know your "art" partners are too high value to ever commit to you, so you will ultimately have to face this fact and "transcend" your urges, as in, lower your standards and put on a front of reformation to snare a male of comparable …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 05:42 PM
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Keep in mind that in our natural environment there are a lot of checks on their behavior. They have this tendency to seek out higher quality mates, called hypergamy, but, male dominated societies have a tendency to punsih infidelity, either with death, or by ostracsism. According to science, the cuck rate in hunter gatherers is around 10%. Also according to science, matriarchy is a myth. The AF/BB thing is there, you can definitely use this knowledge to push their buttons, but it isn't like it i…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 11:37 PM
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I have my doubts that you actually followed a workout/meal plan designed by professionals, did it for three years, every week, and didn't see good results. I suspect you don't follow a plan, don't stick to the meals, or just don't put the intensity in needed for progress. I see this all the time at the gym I go to - guys are doing light weights, barely showing any visible signs of exertion during their exercises, and have little to show for it. You don't want to hurt yourself, but at the same ti…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 07:52 PM
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Thanks for dropping some truth bombs here. Play out the warring tribes game for a million years or so and you get what you see: relatively monogamous mating. Extra pair paternity in modern hunter gatherers, and estimated in our ancestors, is around 10%. It isn't nothing, but far from only the top 20% mating. It hurts that I might be part of the losing end of the evolutionary equation (polygynist) but all things considered it is a good time to be an outlier.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 01:17 AM
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If life is unfair, then you can't accept blame for your circumstance, and you can't expect hard work to pay off. If you are blaming others for their failures, and even more praising your success as the result of hard work, it sounds to me like you actually think life is fair.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 04:08 PM
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Real men is the answer, hopefully. Being of the same or similar ethnicity makes it easier to absorb and assimilate your competition, so sub-populations that have developed more traditional structures will have a head start against immigrant cultures attempting the same. Swedes will flock to a strong Swedish masculine culture before converting to Islam.
/r/MGTOW25/05/17 05:13 AM
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Yeah, but they really aren't pulling their own weight. They are supported by men. Society functions just fine with only men working, but - just imagine the reverse! I'm not a tradcuck.
/r/MGTOW25/05/17 04:40 AM
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The 19th amendment, ratified in 1920, made that legally the case.
/r/MGTOW25/05/17 12:33 AM
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You are the prize - while she pours hours and hours of her life doing everything the game tells her to do (would you kindly?), you are getting "played" with by more women than you can count.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 02:19 PM
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What you are calling shit talking I would call gossip. It's the crab bucket. Shit talking is usually done to your face, isn't serious, can be funny, and if somebody gets butthurt it just shows their thin skin. If people aren't trash talking I don't trust them, gossipy types are polite to your face. And gossip only works if everybody is doing it to everybody else, not always the case, but if you only hang with people like that it can seem like everybody does it. My closest friends, the ones of th…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 01:40 PM
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Women fucking love me. You should try the dark side.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 12:21 AM
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Where MGTOW agrees with TRP: Recognizing how women tick Encouraging you to be your own man for the sake of your own happiness Seeing the feminized social conditioning in the mainstream culture Not marrying Where MGTOW disagrees with TRP: Cutting off all ties with women is an optional part of MGTOW. TRP makes a joke of this idea, e.g., "less competition for me" See above
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 04:22 PM
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That is a good point. I tried to cover for this with "perpetually escaped property" for this kind of scenario. But if you are already at "objects"... you aren't blue pill. I would say if you have abundance, loss of an iPhone doesn't hurt you too much. And I'm not saying you should view the relationship as ownership, but that you should adopt the mindset that this is what women are, regardless of their current societal status. Which is actually more humanizing than thinking of them as objects.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 01:22 AM
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Biologically, males are the superior physical specimen to a very large degree. Twice the upper body strength, 1.3x lower body strength, 1.3x lung capacity, 10% more red blood cells. Another notable difference, more than 10x the amount of testosterone, which has a huge impact on many organs, and especially temperament. And the list goes on... we are so obviously different, I question how it is that you honestly believe you identify with the temperament of a female.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 12:59 AM
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it is SOCIAL CONDITIONING But in actual fact... the belief in gender equality is the result of social conditioning.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 12:21 AM
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Thanks. I agree, with whoever it is that said it, that feminism is just a shit test on the whole society. So this is a way of nuking that shit test.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 11:04 PM
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Yeah I wasn't very clear. I agree with what OP said about it. The guy with the girl, boyfriend or not, is a cuck. The guy getting harassed kept his cool and didn't bite, held frame, and she seemed to be turned on towards the end. That is a faithful summary.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 02:33 AM
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"What's her name?" is what really sold it for me.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 05:29 PM
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Guy is definitely a cuck. He has all the mannerisms and speech pattern of a cuck. Girl, "ah, look at you." "are you getting laid?" "Oh, you want to be touched sooo bad..." "What's her name?" Its pretty obvious if you watch it.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 09:34 AM
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Whether you are a rank beginner or a master of your craft, you should be asking "what can I do better" instead of "how good am I". "You gotta reach for the top to stay on the mountain"
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 08:23 PM
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If they 'change characters' they feel it is legitimate, because all guys really care about is if they are a slut right now.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 07:07 PM
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What brought me to red pill awareness was my sudden success. I still thought these girls were innocent, and just 'sluts' for me. I still had a very blue pill view of women and their behavior. That is still loserish but I wasn't really 'losing', just very naive. I would say this is true of a lot of red pillers. Experience with women will lead you here just as much as constant frustration.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 07:07 PM
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I don't know why you are getting downvoted, this is the truth. I could never understand why being in a relationship made it so much easier, and me more motivated, to get some side action.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 05:51 PM
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This, and all posts like it, is supplicating to the feminine imperative. As if the feminine imperative is good for men, like what feminists claim about feminism. Are you a feminist?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 02:24 AM
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She would fall asleep when we had plans This is the lamest excuse. The thought of you believing this makes me cringe. Next her and never look back.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 09:51 PM
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Obviously TRP is a lot if hard work, that pays off. So hard work is no myth. The thing the good boys call "hard work" is really just following the rules, never taking risks and expecting a reward. A reward they didn't earn, by my account. And I could be accused of being a good boy - I have a graduate degree in STEM, I'm even an Eagle Scout, but I always hated the rule worshipping chumps expecting things to just fall in their lap because they did what they were told. As if the world owes them pre…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 05:24 PM
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Mysogyny, yawn. It's not really acceptable in the long run... it's called the anger phase and it eventially passes. In the meantime, women at large seem hell bent on confirming everything TRP sidebar says.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 03:59 AM
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Just to give you an idea of where I'm coming from, where I grew up (southern Florida) there was a significant population of fundamentalist Christians, though I'm not one myself. I hooked up with one in high school. She was a creationist, argued about evolution with me, and really believed in saving herself. She would 'hook up' but was really adamant about not giving up the prize. I just didn't feel like it was worth it since most other girls were putting out, so I moved on. But I can see that n=…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 05:19 PM
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Saving herself is not really an option. Go for n < 10. And I would consider Ned Flanders a low quality option.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 04:52 PM
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You could check out the Red Pill Women subreddit. Women following their 'sexual strategy' often leaves them unhappy and ironically childless later in life. They might have a great time hooking up in their 20s, but their CC ride might end with no or low quality actual mating opportunities. So you should make it abundantly clear what it is that men value in women for a commitment. Make sure she knows that a pump and dump is unlikely to lead to commitment, and that high n-count in a woman is not an…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 04:41 PM
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| Reality and female perception are two very different things. Well that is the definition of the wall. There becomes a disconnect between their perceived and actual value. Eventually they figure it out, this is the Epiphany phase.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 05:32 AM
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The higher N-Count and the higher the age of the woman the more shit you will have to have. No, this would imply they are higher value than their younger and lower n-count competition, which aint so. Their SMV is lower. Men don't value a high n-count, we aren't women, we don't care about preselection. A high n-count post wall hag is about as low quality a female as there is. They can't demand shit, unless you are a filthy spineless beta who doesn't know better.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 01:16 AM
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Meh. I've had plenty where all I did was fuck them and make them giggle. Some liked to cook for me, do my laundry, another would buy me bottles of wine... they serve me and do it happily. And they were all afraid of being replaced. So...
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 01:29 AM
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And I got accused of being a misogynistic brogressive dude bro They paid you a complement right there.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 02:57 PM
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Women act like little girls around real men. Playful, carefree, cheerful little girls. It does crush them to be rejected by these men, to be fair, but what you are saying is that they fear your lack of need, which is simply not true. It is your lack of need that makes them feel comfortable in your presence. Now what is definitely true is that women will try to qualify themselves to real men, motivated by a bit of anxiety perhaps, and you can get some of this in your life just by following MGTOW …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 03:33 PM
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Hierarchy is everywhere because people, especially people at the bottom, are constantly evaluating their position within it. Guys in the 1% don't care if you are top 50%, 80%, or whatever. They don't give a shit where you rank, because they are way above you. Hierarchy is a perception, and most people perceiving it are underlings, since they outnumber the rulers. The king is only the king because everybody believes he is. If everybody decided he were just a goofy guy with silly clothes, his rule…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 11:42 AM
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I'm not a psychologist but this reads like early stage oneitis. You are in the thrall of a romantic fantasy and need serious help. This genre of post is plague spore. A young guy had a 'good conversation' with a girl, and he thinks she is really 'intelligent' or otherwise virtuous in some way, which he was able to deduce by the fact that she was totally into X during this conversation. The underlying reality is that her girl-game got his emotions swelling with a naive and romantic optimism, and …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 09:39 AM
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Yeah but the flipside is that getting rejected by Chad is pretty brutal. It can be a life changing event.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 01:24 AM
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Any woman who'd be with you must really hate herself to sink so low. Teachable moment here. I'm going to white knight and defend m'ladies. First LTR was a girl who I encouraged to go to college. Her family didn't want her to go, I encouraged it, I told her she could do it, and this mattered to her. You see I fucked her mercilessly, a lot, and she respected me. I always had options and she knew it. Bobby blue-pill beta's words of encouragement are nearly as meaningless as his mangina. Oh and she …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 09:55 PM
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Yeah, we all love women. TRP is a discussion of sexual strategy, not MGTOW. Wherefore anger? There are a number of things that are true about women, which if they were true of you as a man, would be something you would hate about yourself. Such are the fundamentals of TRP. This is a radical departure from the mindset of your typical feminized male, who has been told that women and men are equal. Upon swallowing the pill, he is angry at women for not living up to his expectation, even though it i…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 01:36 AM
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he must convince others of the authentic nature This really is wrongly conceived. Confidence is the unbreakable frame. It is outcome independent, because outcomes don't break your frame. The moment your mindset depends on other people, you are doing it wrong. For example you notice some scrubs don't take you seriously and then you what - change your behavior in response? No. Fuck them in their stupid cunt faces. It is always a shit test. Confidence defined in terms of how other people react is a…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 04:12 AM
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I can relate. As for how to handle extreme emotional spikes - kill it before it starts. Don't revel in it. You should value your frame, and being under the spell of your own emotions weakens it. There is really no easy answer, especially when you are in a full blown feels attack. What do I do? As many pushups as I can. The elevated heart rate and endorphin rush can shock your mind back into sanity. Lifting has helped immensely in keeping control of myself emotionally.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 11:12 PM
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Dude get your fucking shit together. Is this a joke? Lose some weight you fat fuck, and seriously I never want to hear this shit again about crying and snot on your face. That kind of emotionally self absorbed crap is woman talk. This is a man space. Emotions are fine but we control them.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 05:48 AM
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Why did I like watching Baywatch? Did anybody ever have to tell me? Was it ever explicitly discussed? Of course not. I think there is a "feminine conspiracy" but they certainly don't have weekly meetings. Women understand the functioning of the feminine imperative innately. They don't have to discuss it with each other to be consciously working together.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 10:34 AM
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Again... I'm not even saying anything controversial. Just read the sources if you doubt me.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 11:46 PM
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I took a class in primate social structures, as it relates to anthropology, through evolution. We analyzed specifically the mystery of human male parental investment, which is rare even among mammals. The issue is well developed theoretically. I'm just sharing. Read the link I gave to The Evolutionary Psychology Handbook. I didn't say anything that isn't well within the 101 level. This stuff is just too relevant to not share.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 11:31 PM
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I'm likely well over 200 by now. ... you're likely well over 67 by now.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 09:46 PM
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I was actually comparing chimps and bonobos to each other, since they are very similar, but differ in this crucial way. But if you don't believe me, then believe The Handbook of Evolutionary Psychology.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 07:55 PM
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Yes - if she gets pregnant by another man, you spend time and resources on another man's kid. Otherwise known as being a cuck.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 07:39 PM
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It is of course natural for females to fuck around, which is why males develop countermeasures, namely not investing if their paternity is in question.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 07:38 PM
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As a male, your instinct to "LTR a female" is really just "help raise offspring". If the females are promiscuous, it is unlikely the offspring are yours. The "I will fuck them but not care for them" instinct is a way of protecting you from investing in somebody else's babies. My point is that clearly we can respond to the environment - if they aren't being (perceived as) sluts, it becomes a good idea to invest in them. If not, then no.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 07:02 PM
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We are like the chimpanzee, and not the bonobo, to the extent that males mate guard and as a result invest in the offspring. The correlation between paternal investment and genetic paternity likelihood is the key point. Guys don't mind sluts. They mind investing in sluts. Or put another way, males of a species will invest in the young if there is some certainty of their being the genetic father. The point of using chimps and bonobos as examples is that they are otherwise very similar to each oth…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 06:54 PM
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Firstly, all males outrank all females. Females are not deposing anybody. Second, the males form what is called a "linear dominance hierarchy". Googling "Chimpanzee Social Structure" I found this good resource: National Primate Research Center, U Wisc. But other similar pages from other universities I'm sure would yield about the same description. And most importantly, the priority of access model: Priority of Access Model Females do sometimes mate outside of this pattern, but it generally fits.…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 06:44 PM
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Define "Want". "This is not to say that it is natural to not want to fuck them - more precisely, it is natural for a human male to not want to LTR such a female."
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 01:47 PM
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Agreed... but I think the resistance to adopting this mindset is rooted in the fact that it represents a female centered mating model.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 12:44 PM
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But I'm the 7th guy she's fucked. You are the 21st guy she's fucked.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 11:22 AM
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No way - two girls is easier than one. They will almost always weaken each other's frame.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 05:04 PM
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PICK UP AND SPINS HOLY SHIT THEY LOVE THAT SHIT A less audacious but still effective alternative is the "aggressive hug". You initiate the body language signals same as for a normal hug, but crucially, speed up the "pull them towards you" part such that it noticeably jerks their body mass. They will then collide with your chest, and then you squeeze hard, and hold. You are demonstrating your comfort with putting their body mass under your control, similar to the spin move. Watch to not catch the…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 11:13 AM
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Except the men actually reproducing are still the betas marrying post wall sluts.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 01:35 PM
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If you are here reading this, then your attitude is almost certainly a part of why attractive women don't find you similarly attractive. Approaching and failing will eventually grant you outcome independence, a simple fact of human nature. Eventually your hindbrain will realize that nobody is punishing you, the lowly beta, for approaching the most attractive women. You will gain ease in the interactions, the IDGAF attitude, because seriously who cares if you fail - apparently nobody. Armed with …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 05:22 AM
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If you are new, encountering TRP is potentially a vital turning point in your career as a man and as a human being. It might be the first lighthouse you have ever seen, having spent your youth adrift in the great bluepill wasteland. Don't feel ashamed of yourself for needing time to wrap your head around reality and get through your anger phase. That being said, I agree with OP. Always remember your goal is to take action in your life, not read about it. "There is a difference between knowing th…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 09:48 PM
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I relate to this. The single mom will invariably expect her oldest son to be the man of the house. "Emotional incest" is about right. I think it is important to recognize that the situation was shitty. But on my good days, I instead focus on the upside. I learned how to manage the personality of a woman. For the sake of all of us in the house, this woman needed management. So I did that. If my attitude at the time could have been put into words, it was something like, "Who is going to be a man a…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 09:30 PM
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She does admit that female behavior is the reason men don't want to commit. This is a necessary first step, however hamstery the wording of this realization.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:51 AM
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I don't care if the model fits the data. I only care that it has predictive value. If a theory correctly predicts the outcomes of experiments, then the theory is valuable.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 04:55 AM
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"Best" is always subjective. Your SMV is subjective. It will vary with context. Beliefs based in objectivity are easy to maintain... just point to the evidence. Subjective beliefs require frame.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 09:31 PM
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Excuses are the bricks that built the house of shame.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 01:45 AM
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Channel the anger and LIFT.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 07:26 PM
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Channel your depression into a sarcastic wit.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 01:47 AM
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Given the visceral response of all but the hardest OG red pillers to this kind of "revelation" I suspect not a single nice guy is cheering this kind of thing. Things are bad but they aren't that bad.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 07:50 PM
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I had a girlfriend who wore the same jeans almost every day, because they were really expensive, and you could usually only smell her crotch-rot if you put your face near the zipper and took a big whiff. But once you knew her stench, you could sometimes catch it when she walked by. They are gross, foul creatures and they know it.
/r/MGTOW22/02/17 05:45 AM
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Women are incredibly insecure. Once they find a pattern that works, they milk it for all it's worth. Only the ballsy ones get a kick out of coming up with a new shtick for a new dick. They just aren't that creative. It's not like those are gems of English prose you have listed there. ... but writing it all down? She sounds like a psychopath.
/r/MGTOW22/02/17 05:33 AM
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Young girls ride the CC hoping that Chad will commit to them. They give away sex in hopes of commitment, like the betas give away commitment in hopes for sex. I smell a troll. No girl is daydreaming about settling for some BB after using up her cooter on the CC.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 05:08 AM
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Early to bed and early to rise bitches. - B Frank
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 11:08 AM
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I don't need anything up my ass. I think you're missing the point. Being confident in one's continued ability to meet one's survival needs is a psychological state. The state arises from historical success. True we need to breathe but that doesn't make me needy either. It is confidence in meeting needs that gives the individual an aura distinct from that of the habitual failure. If you are the one who is funding your existence, I find it hard to believe you wouldn't have this aura to some degree…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 10:30 AM
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You dont HUNT unless you NEED I think after the 1,000th successful hunt, I'm not terribly needy, I'm confident that if I go out and put the work in, I'm coming back with meat. And in the paleolithic this means I win at life.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 04:40 AM
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That's a really motivating story. I think a 35 year old with a kid is taking a significantly higher risk by starting a degree program than an 18 year old with mommy and daddy footing the bill. And no doubt attempting to complete a mathematics program, much less get a job in the field, is riskier than Business Administration and going to work for ACME Widget Corp.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 02:27 AM
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Edited because I'm retarded. Congrats OP great FR. Textbook.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 06:11 PM
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As the Emperor of America, Winner of Winners, I am concerned that the masses of angry beta males are spending their time angry, unproductive, and not raising the next generation of tax payers.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 02:55 AM
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The "pussy king" I mentioned in the last paragraph is terrified of losing. The guy is winning, so clearly something must be wrong with him. Men are afraid to appear weak and vulnerable, so they learn bury their emotions ... That is where you need the help of a good woman. This sounds like feminism.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 09:29 PM
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I've learned a thing or two by reading these posts, but I've also noticed some things that could be better. Why is it that 'better' always means 'softer'? The quote you want is, "He who fights with monsters should be careful lest he thereby become a monster. And if thou gaze long into an abyss, the abyss will also gaze into thee." - Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche, from the book "Beyond Good and Evil"
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 08:23 PM
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I had a friend who slayed in high school. Probably still does. But he is definitley not tall or handsome. Not every girl was succeptible but his game was tight and he cleaned up.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 11:55 PM
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News flash, guys lie about money and status to get laid. The RP way is straightforward: lift, eat right, get good at something, practice game.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 03:50 PM
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The fact that you guys bring children into this world knowing what you know about the world. Go ahead. Don't reproduce. The next generation's work will be that much harder, since your RP tendency genes were eliminated. Thanks for nothing.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 06:38 AM
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You can't be ham-handed about it and there is a multiple-stage process to it; Maybe so. But consider why you don't just grab them and start fucking them - is it because you think they would reject you? Would they reject Chad? Obviously not. So the more you act like you need to 'game' them, the more you are indicating to them you are not Chad. This is what Chad does - he notices a girl he wants to fuck standing next to him, grabs her and starts making out, asks if she wants to go back to his plac…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 11:35 PM
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I lived with a couple SOs, an 8 and a 6, maybe a 7 if you like Japanese girls, and lived with some female roommates in college. Most ate like shit, some ate healthy, a couple might have been joggers, but not my SOs - they ate like shit and were lazy as fuck. The Japanese girl could get dolled up in under 15 minutes. Part of their knowledge is tricks and styles that are easy. Long pants to avoid shaving, makeup that can be done on the train or in a car... they definitely didn't all shower every d…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 12:58 AM
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NO. You can easily come off as a loose cannon, a try-hard, very insecure... being alpha is not something to be faked. I'm not saying it is impossible to fake, I'm saying you should not be trying to fake it. Women, and probably all mammals within a few yards, will sense your constantly agitated state; this is not good. A frame composed of constantly monitoring a bunch of tiny details is a weak frame. One based on actual accomplishment and discipline is much stronger. Become the boss at something.…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:09 AM
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A lot of what you described as far as women becoming attractive can be accomplished fairly quickly and only requires knowledge, e.g., how to put on makeup, how to maintain your hair, what kind of clothes to wear... you as a man of comparable SMV have to put in easily 1000x the effort. A serious commitment to lifting, healthy diet, develiping an unbreakable frame, and achieving economic independence for yourself, if that's in the cards, require a relative mountain of effort compared to good makeu…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 05:58 PM
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I would say this applies to women seeking BB as much as AF.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 03:50 PM
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