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DISCUSSIONcupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:52 AM
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#JustLVMThingscupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:04 PM
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RANTcupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:31 AM
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LVM LOGICcupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:24 PM
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#JustLVMThingscupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:25 AM
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NAH, SIScupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:49 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨cupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:36 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEcupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:35 AM
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RANTcupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 07:34 AM
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#JustLVMThingscupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:19 AM
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RANTcupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:10 AM
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#JustLVMThingscupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:01 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEcupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:50 PM
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DISCUSSIONcupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:39 PM
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WHOLESOME CONTENTcupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:32 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEcupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:29 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEcupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 10:51 PM
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DISCUSSIONcupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 12:21 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEcupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 11:51 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨cupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:30 AM
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#JustLVMThingscupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:07 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨cupcakedreamz/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:32 AM
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The way he talks about a woman who is a 'prize' 🤮🤮 Talk about entitlement🙄 I swear the lowest, scummiest of men will still think they 'deserve' a woman who has model good looks and a banging fit body....yet they aren't worth the gum on the bottom of our shoe! Always a red flag when a man talks negatively about a womans body, especially one he doesn't know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 12:14 AM
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This is exactly how I feel about a toxic girlfriend I just cut out. Never ending complaining about so many areas of her life. If I offered advice I thought would help she would get passive aggressive, ignore me then respond on another day changing the subject. Not to mention excessively texting me, sometimes 8-10 in row and they're sporadic all over the place, different topics. She has also made negative comments on my appearance and as well as about supposed close friends of hers. I finally had…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:58 PM
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Ok thank you. We definitely don't work together. With a LVM I know to just cut him out and block but have never been in a situation with a toxic girlfriend like this before. I have her blocked already!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:46 PM
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I have a toxic friend I finally decided it was time to cut ties with. Is it recommended to just go no contact??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:41 PM
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Wow😳 Just googled him and second article that pops up surprise surprise said he was obsessed with porn(as a child no less). First article says he was a misogynist cheater. What an absolute horrific case😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:31 AM
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I have secondhand embarrassment for her🤦‍♀️ oh girl NOO🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:12 PM
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I want a 24hr womens only gym🥺 I would def sign up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:02 AM
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Ok the vote is off...I meant to select yes🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:21 AM
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And just so everyone can get the visual, the photo scrotebag was commenting on was of this model on a bed in sheer lingerie with her ass sticking up and ass exposed🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:23 PM
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Was her original post deleted? I tried searching and can't find
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:37 PM
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Agreed! The way she jumped to his defense because these scrotes are feeding her pocketbook 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:15 PM
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Its disgusting how many men do this, you can scroll thru comments on almost any models post and find them🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:13 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 110%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:13 AM
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I can see your post here🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:17 AM
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They won't swipe, match or message those women anyway so why is it necessary to even put, scrotebags😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:58 AM
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Right?! Don't you love how that's always their #1 complaint
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:46 AM
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He's not even remotely attractive 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:46 AM
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I wish they would stop. I get cute alot too, because I am attractive but not conventionally hot either. I mean babies are cute, my dog is cute...I'd rather have someone where I am 'beautiful' in his eyes after he knows me, if that makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:30 AM
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🤮🤮🤮 I always wonder if anyone ever matches with such garbage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:24 AM
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2 buck Chuck at Trader Joes🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:37 AM
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Right? Disgusting. Shaming her when she was only 18 and didn't even want to do it. I feel sorry for her, also seems like her mother was more concerned with the Hilton image over being there emotionally for her daughter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:14 AM
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🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:40 PM
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I wish I could! I didn't even screenshot him since I knew we couldn't post it here😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:32 PM
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Immediate red flag. He wants someone young to manipulate!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:29 PM
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Agreed🤮 Always an automatic red flag!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:26 PM
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I asked a guy I matched with tonight what he did. He just says 'sales'...same thing his profile said. I said ok sales in what? 'I work for Nordstrom'.....girl it was just a retail sales job🤷‍♀️( This is not to offend anyone working retail. I have in the past.) But the way he went about it good god. I notice more and more profiles now that just say 'sales'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:46 AM
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I had one guy on OLD tell me he wanted to sail the world soon, yet he was looking for a 'relationship' 😂 Hard pass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:42 AM
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This is really sad. She literally has herself in a position of getting violated over and over. I literally want to vomit at some of the stuff I read. I hope she can get out of doing that. I would not feel safe AT ALL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:31 AM
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The mods made a recent post stating to make sure all identity is concealed in posts to keep this FDS sub from getting shut down. If I could I absolutely would show you all🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:18 AM
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And what if it's a girl? What a POS.! How about just be happy to have a healthy child?! 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:07 AM
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Oh look another LAZY scrote...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:35 AM
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😂😂😂 if only I could show his photos, not even good looking on top of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:06 AM
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I know, straight up clown shit 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:02 AM
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43 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:59 AM
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Also what's up with hike date suggestions? I love hiking but doesn't mean I want to as a first ((cheap ass)) date. My safety is my number one priority. I'm not about to go hike somewhere remote with someone I barely know and get all sweaty. These guys never consider our level of comfort and safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:46 AM
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Amen sista! I had the same experience with Hussey's advice as well ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:14 AM
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So so true! I had these exact suspicions over a complete utter narc I dated last year. One night he was over my phone was charging. I asked if I could borrow his phone to use the internet. He had no problem letting me. We just had dinner and he passed out with in minutes of giving me his phone. I noticed female texts popping up and had suspicions for quite some time (he was normally very weird with his phone so I was shocked he let me use it- dumb me ignored so many red flags for SO long). When …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:26 PM
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This is great advice, thank you 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:19 AM
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"How bout we meet at the laundromat? I gotta do my laundry anyway" 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:17 AM
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God I have run into this more times than I could count with OLD. They ALWAYS have a lame excuse as to why they want to get off the app, and they all of a sudden get uninterested when you tell them no 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:42 AM
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What an entitled scote, who thinks every woman that exists should be a perfect 10 soley for his viewing pleasure 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:37 AM
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Eww this reminds me of a few I've dated. I wear light natural makeup (full face but my skin looks like skin)...and even still some of them got really nasty. I just won't tolerate it anyway. Straight up neg in my opinion. They really try to take a stab at our self esteem...boy bye👋🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:41 AM
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Both women are beautiful queens and his ugly ass would never stand a chance with either of them. Men are always so intimidated by confident women🙄 Negging just infuriates me. Wish we could wipe these types of men out😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:01 AM
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Do we have to conceal photos if their name, location etc is covered??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:47 AM
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That last comment is savage, love it 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:43 AM
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Right?? I had no words🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:18 AM
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And he probably expects you to come crawling back 🤢 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:15 AM
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They are just so foul, it literally turned me off in every which way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:19 PM
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I was once engaged to a man like this. I did ALL the cleaning. I'd spend hours deep cleaning the house and scrote would throw his dirty underwear on the floor right in front of the laundry hamper. We actually had several arguments over it. Stupid me stayed with him TOO long wasting time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:23 AM
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Heartbreaking to hear her cries😥 I can't imagine how traumatizing this was for that poor little girl. She's going to forever remember her father NOT protecting her. Fucking scumbag🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 12:47 AM
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This is so sweet🥺 Reminds me of my grandpa who would literally do anything for my grandma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 09:04 PM
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Thank you for posting this. I had no idea😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:51 AM
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Just straight embarrassing 🤦‍♀️🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 11:38 PM
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I'm with you I have a major gluten allergy so its always a challenge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:16 PM
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Thanks for pointing this out!👏 Past pickme would feel 'stuck' on the phone and like I had to be nice or answer everything they ask
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:17 AM
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Nicely worded! I'm taking note 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:15 AM
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How do I get around men asking this question? Or how would you respond?They always ask what you're looking for, what you want in a relationship/man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:09 AM
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His photo 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:48 PM
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Girl I know. I can barely find one age appropriate man I find attractive. I'm 36 but am always told I look 10 years younger and work hard at taking care of myself. It's like scrolling thru one washed up dude to the next 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:00 PM
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🤣 I can't unsee this now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:28 PM
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He probably worked on his flexibility just to do this🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:03 AM
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What a whiney toddler! It's like he didn't mature past age 3.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:46 AM
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Porn sick limp dicks! They have literally ruined themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:08 AM
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Might as well be comfortable since they want to invest in a $2 coffee we could afford ourselves and we're supposed to be impressed 😂 I hate the coffee and drink 'date' offers. It's a hell no to both now😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:07 AM
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Really grinds my gears when men do this to us. I had the last LVM I dated do this shit to me over music and movies I like. When he came over one night and we were going thru my dvds...."Gee you like Clint Eastwood?! You have Mad Max?! You bought these on your own? Are you sure??" 🙄🙄🙄 We had originally met on Tinder. After he messaged me I commented on a song he had posted on his profile. A band I have listened to since the 90s....yet his dumb ass thought I was making it up so he'd like me😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:00 AM
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Ewww he is gross on every level🤮🤮🤮 Who the hell does he expect to match him?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:12 PM
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I was in this situation with my ex fiance. I was in a bad place emotionally when I met him and he took advantage of that. After I moved in, he told me I didn't have to work he made enough. I did the cleaning and cooked everything from scratch. He made decent pay when we first got together, however no surprise became incredibly controlling with money. I couldn't pick certain items at the store. He'd criticize how I washed dishes, telling me I should do it his way. It escalated worse. If I needed …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:11 PM
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I'm convinced most men have no brain at all....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:19 AM
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Right there with ya sista 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:15 AM
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I have no idea but he did it with likes and comments too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:56 AM
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Funny the last LVM I was with did this too. Followed several IG models, and even women he dated in the past. We never followed each other tho I knew his IG. I noticed he was really sneaky on IG trying to hide likes etc. If a photo had 30 likes for example, only 15 would show. He was a complete an utter liar and found out the day after we first slept together he gave his number out to 4 women at work. He was a bartender. I'll never date another, they're all bad news.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:44 AM
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These guys are complete wastes of time. They will drag their feet, they want nothing serious yet will try to manipulate ✋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:40 AM
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When a man says this believe him and RUN. I had a LVM I met last December do this same shit and waste my time. If only I had found FDS sooner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:11 AM
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So disgusting 🤮 Last LVM I dated swore he was SO hygienic yet he'd hop in bed at night and I'd always ask him aren't you going to brush your teeth?? I was surprised he had nice teeth but this became a HABIT. Literally too lazy for basic hygiene. 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:03 PM
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Translation: 'Don't judge a book by its cover because I'm a man child loser still living with mommy and daddy and don't have my shit together, probably never will, and have nothing to offer the opposite sex' 🤡🤡🤡 My ovaries shriveled up just reading his bio
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:56 PM
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Used and manipulated 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:46 PM
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The amount of men I've seen lie about their age on OLD is insane. They never look younger. I've been an Esthetician 15+ years and can spot it a mile away🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:40 PM
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I literally had to stop reading the comments, they were beyond infuriating I can't believe how many times I read some variation of 'he has a right to FEEL this way!' And ''I'd feel the same if it were me' 'you gotta live with your past' The advice this poor woman is getting ugh....she needs FDS!🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:05 AM
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Ugh one scrote in the past would say he 'NEEDS to get the pOiSoN out' 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:37 AM
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Ew I've had way too many experiences with men OLD who want to take you out bit want you to plan/pick everything. L-A-Z-Y!!! It always screamed lazy and quite frankly uninterested. Seriously no way will I tolerate that again (thanks to FDS)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:36 AM
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The words lazy and selfish sum up these low value scotes....yet they will bitch and complain when they're not getting any 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:02 AM
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Then it would have probably turned into his nasty rape fantasy scene🤦‍♀️ I can't believe these guys...ALWAYS turns sexual 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:24 PM
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He is so full of himself. Probably negs her constantly. I hope she dumps his ass ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:21 AM
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Actually I've seen a lot of LVM on social media. Going through comments on a random Instagram chicks post. I'll see numerous comments from married men! It's pretty gross and I bet they do it behind their wives backs🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:35 AM
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Yesss! Level up sis 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:30 AM
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Oh definitely! Little did I know that was the very start of him tearing me down. Took time to rebuild confidence after leaving. Now in a much better place especially after finding FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:28 AM
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This was my ex fiance to a T. Couldn't apologize for anything EVER. The relationship got so bad back then I found myself apologizing for things he would do. Completey crazy right? It eventually got so toxic and he became emotionally abusive, tearing down any shred of self confidence I had left. He bought a new house the last year and a half of our relationship. When we moved in and had sex for the first time in that house we were both lying there naked afterward. He smacks my ass and says, 'Gonn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:07 PM
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An even more disgusting video came up when I was watching this one. YouTuber: Minister Jap Channel, Video titled 'An overweight female is a sign of failure'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:55 PM
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Ewww some of the comments from men on that video are appalling🤢 One comment said (summarized) "if she expects me to provide, then she needs to equal a prize. Men aren't going to work hard for years for a woman who is an average prize' The more I see from men the more I don't mind staying single. So disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:39 PM
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Beautiful ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:42 PM
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Wow!! The ultimate LVM douchebag! The last time I had a man on OLD ask me if I had snapchat (he asked for this not my number, red flag) I told him no I'm not 12 (he was 40) and got so offended 😂 Its hilarious I've had more than one save my number for years. Four years ago I had a missed call. I didn't recognize the number. The voicemail was muffled. I blocked my number and called back, it went to his voicemail where I found out. It was a man I went on a dare6 with TWO years prior and was ghosted…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:37 PM
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They're always so butthurt when they learn they aren't the special snowflake they thought they were LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:03 AM
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"...find my porn elsewhere" So basically he is still going to watch porn and support such a disturbing disgusting industry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:01 AM
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Ewww I had an OLD dude I dated for a month a YEAR ago text me the other night. They always come back🤮 Notice they never say who they are in the first text...like they expect us to have them saved forever in our phones, pathetic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:43 AM
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Exactly. I don't want ANY one getting close to me in public
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:20 PM
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I learned my lesson here for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:19 PM
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Oh I know! My sixth sense was on. I loaded my car fast and returned the cart. Walking back I saw him walking out. I pretended to be on my phone and went back to my car. Then I waited to see him drive off first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:18 PM
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How sad is it that she even has to ask what to do? ((Dump his ass)) Disgusting he would literally beg her to do something she clearly wasn't comfortable with. I bet this sick fuck was getting off on her asking him to stop P.s This reminds me of the time an online dating dude told me his kink was hitting and choking women. Then he asked me if we ever became a couple would I be down...blockblockblock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:49 AM
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I can't tell you how many men on OLD try this its sickening 🤮 I love your last response to this tool 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:07 AM
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The scrote is butthurt 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 11:10 PM
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Sheep🐑....the thing is MOST men are trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 11:05 PM
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I literally gag at pet names. I can't believe how many men on OLD do this 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:36 AM
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Good lord he is too lazy for literally basic hygiene. How the hell has she stayed married to this clown?! Disgusting 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:31 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:55 AM
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I feel you! I had a horrible experience with the last guy I dated a short while back in December. This was long before I found FDS. He was an ultimate LVM douchebag. Manipulated me, lied, used, crossed my boundaries. (He too convinced me to have sex without a condom. Even tho I consented I was uncomfortable. The sex was nothing to write home about either.) I've had so much bottled up anger for months since it ended...mostly at myself. I continusly tell myself I should have known better, spoke up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 06:39 AM
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He's so cheap he can't pay for your non alcoholic beverage of choice, because if you're using him for 'drinks' surely you're a gold digger 😂😂😂 I can't with these tools 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:11 AM
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Omg I'm with you I would have left his ass so fast. Selfish prick...the audacity of these LVM🤦‍♀️ What show is this from??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:23 AM
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I couldn't help but look her up and she has some other questionable video clips....very pickme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:00 PM
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Nah sis, me and my mouth are good. I'm not blowing no clown🙅‍♀️ What nasty shit advice....good lord🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:31 AM
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Clearly porn has burned off the last of Ryan's brain cells
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:16 AM
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Exactly! And dude is a selfish fuck for wanting to take the baby's food!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:13 AM
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Exactly my thoughts 🤦‍♀️ I think I'll keep my dignity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:21 AM
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What a tool! Hope women keep nexting his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:50 AM
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I love it when the trash takes itself out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:17 AM
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Completely agree and unmatched him after!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:54 PM
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My ex fiance said incredibly hurtful comments to me. I had gotten sick and gained weight in our relationship. I was definitely uncomfortable with it, also was the only one who actually worked out. (He had actually gained a lot of weight himself and got a big gut think he was super insecure about) The last year and a half of our almost 4 year relationship is when the comments started. After we moved into our new house and had sex for the first time in it, I was lying there naked and we were cuddl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 07:40 AM
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Hell yes! 🤘 A woke band for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:00 PM
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Sounds like a real winner🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 12:55 PM
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Ty! Just saw it after posting this. Signed up🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:07 AM
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It would be nice to know if we had another site/message board set up😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:51 AM
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I just peeped that sub and wow its disturbing. Looks like a ton of underage girls posting nudes. Makes me sick. I'm just so beside myself that anyone especially young girls would post nudes on the internet....there forever 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:06 AM
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So disturbing I have no words😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:58 PM
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WTF there is a sub called 'childporn'?! How is this even allowed???🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 09:14 PM
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Lol! This reminds me of a 38yr old mans profile I came across that said 'I don't ever want to grow up' 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:33 PM
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Ewww his teeth🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:26 PM
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That sub is a joke! The first post that came up for me was a young woman with a very stunning face. The comments from men are pathetic. They know they'll never get a woman as beautiful as her so gotta lower her self esteem a notch or two. I don't understand why people want the opinion on their looks from literally disgusting small dicked losers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:08 AM
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Rolled my eyes so hard. What a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:01 AM
21

You go girl! Sounds like much better options 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:54 AM
55

The amount of unattractive tech slobs I come across with this mentality is disturbing. Oh the arrogance!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:21 AM
73

It's like every man is endlessly 'window shopping' with women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:10 AM
42

Right?? I despise men talking badly of others total immediate red flag. At least he showed his true colors immediately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:03 AM
50

The comments under various news station clips of this story on YouTube are disgusting. Men arguing that these women are lying, and poor Ron anyone could get their life destroyed by lies, 'me too' fakes...All that porn they watched contributed to their teeny tiny pea brains now🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:29 AM
15

Exactly my thoughts...vomit inducing 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:26 AM
26

'women are so upset when they lose their looks' Gross. How about we talk about how most aging men can't even do bare minimum hygiene? The number of fat, balding, unkempt turds on OLD is astonishing. These LVM lose their looks, lie about their age, and still want a trophy young perfect 10 woman (and even think they 'deserve' one🤢) Good luck losers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 09:18 PM
2

And porn induced ED for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:28 AM
36

Agreed! I tthink I threw up in my mouth just reading that🤢 I think we can almost guarantee he's a porn addict and a prime example of what it does. With his misogynist language, manipulation, projection, gaslighting....this man is a ticking time bomb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:45 AM
7

Well said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:39 AM
5

Ugh making fun of your depression. Never stay with anyone that does this. I was previously engaged which ended over a year ago. During the last year and a half of that relationship my depression peaked and I became suicidal. I hid this from him and only confided to my mother after awhile. When I finally had the courage to talk to him and tell him I was not only depressed but feeling suicidal his response? "You must want attention" I felt like absolute scum. The person you're engaged to telling y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:35 AM
3

I feel you on this because I am highly introverted. According to my personality test over 70%. When I was younger is used to be a massive insecurity for me as well. Not feeling social enough or 'good 'enough because of it. My social circle is small, but frankly I have no qualms over it now. I prefer it that way. A small group of people I truly trust and can count on. At the end of the day we need to own who we are. Have confidence, self love, self awareness. DO NOT CHANGE WHO YOU ARE FOR A MAN! …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:41 AM
47

Just WOW. I wish we didn't have to share the world with literal human scum like this man🤦‍♀️ I hope this poor woman leaves him immediately and is able to realize her self worth and value. Unfathomable manipulation and abuse. (Also wish she'd join FDS, she could use the help and support)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:28 AM
1

It would be to hard for me to reccomend specifics since I'm not personally analyzing your skin. I would definitely read reviews for Estheticians. Via yelp or google searching. Would highly reccomend finding an Esthetician certified in Lira products. Just a line I personally love that is very results driven. You can find a place thru Lira's website liraclinical.com and look up reviews👍
/r/askFDS25/06/20 03:18 AM
1

It sounds like you have a great start! Definitely doing more than the average man👏 if you want to amp it up look into monthly facials with a skilled Esthetician as well as chemical peels. Definitely look into a good sunscreen preferably mineral based (especially if you do chemical peels- so so important!) Nice to see you are health concious and with your diet as well These are definite qualities I love seeing in a man👍
/r/askFDS25/06/20 02:54 AM
59

She looks amazing 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:16 AM
1

Disgusting 🤮 I can't tell you the amount of profiles I've come across that actually say 'happily married'🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:13 AM
57

This is the same type of guy that would complain about not getting a blowjob at the same time complaining that the ones he did get did 'nothing' for him because 'she didn't know what she was doing'. I've heard more than one man complain about this, it's nauseating. These dimwits have become entirely desensitized by their porn addictions go figure! They also think just because every woman has a vagina the same moves work on every woman🙄 So, also, lazy dimwits to boot. They also can't wrap their t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:28 AM
98

He's outting himself as being a trash manchild husband and thinks its 'funny'🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:31 PM
2

Happy early birthday and thank you. Love this sub and all the support. Already feeling stronger after reading so much helpful advice here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:13 PM
3

I feel your pain but you're so much better without him and we all support you! I went thru something simular with the first guy I ever thought I 'loved' at 22, when I was young dumb and too naive to know better. We had a group of mutual friends we always hung out with, most of which were couples except one girl(who was also older than me and well aware ex and I were in a relationship). I never had any insecurities. One single girl invited everyone over to her place for dinner. I wasn't actually …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:11 PM
2

As an Esthetician nearing 15+ years I agree with the other comments...WEAR YOUR SUNSCREEN! Take care of your skin NOW before it's too late. The skin around our eyes is 7x thinner and more prone to aging as we don't have oil glands there. A good eye cream. Same goes for your neck. No joke wear this DAILY rain or shine. With online dating and my profession I definitely notice skin in men first. But the men that look the worst for their age I can always tell they got too much sun(damage, hyperpigme…
/r/askFDS24/06/20 12:52 PM
21

And they stay single losers for that reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:28 PM
155

He's only thinking with his little dick brain. Never phased him once that oh gee a woman might be concerned about her safety especially outside at dusk...airheads
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:34 AM
2

Hilarious.! I always notice this too in pics. Ir you can also tell by short arms/hands (for me it's a giveaway). One guy I met from OLD last July said he was 6'1. I am 5'3, I wore 2 inch heels and we were nearly eye level 🤡 So that lie was pretty far fetched! I think a lot of them think just because a woman is petite she'll have no idea and never notice🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:44 AM
12

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:31 AM
83

What a piece of trash. Imagine being this dudes kid and finding out you're referred to as a mere 'sex trophy'🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:18 AM
38

I am literally ashamed at what I put up with sexually with the last LVM I dated. It makes me sick thinking about it. I had a bad knee during the time we dated and he would constantly try to contort my leg into a painful position during sex which caused immense knee pain. I had to repeatedly tell him my knee hurt. I felt like he was trying go act out some porn scene he saw. (Not to mention porn induced ED🙄) I chose to ignore these red flags...many many of them. But this post gives me hope I can o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 07:10 AM
30

Sexually bribing a low value manchild because he can't do the bare minimum and take care of himself jesus🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 07:04 AM
8

Nice to see karma doing its job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:39 AM
1

Add to the mix the 'All Kink Kens' or BDSM Bens... They'll add how they really want a relationship but want someone 'sexually open' and not uptight....sure Jan🙄 Or how hot the 'Happily Married McGees' ? Can't tell you how many of those I've come across
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 03:54 AM
6

I know exactly how you feel! I have been in this situation with men way way too many times (its embarrassing now). In fact the last guy I dated (ended in Jan) did this exact same thing. It's really defeating and hurtful. I was already trying to build myself up in my head to be confident butt naked for sex, then have that happen. Glad I found this sub....just reading here is giving me some confidence back WE DESERVE BETTER!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 03:44 AM
1

I only wear it when I leave the house. If I'm staying home I could fare less. I usually do my makeup really natural and like my skin to look like skin(also an Esthetician). Only if I'm going somewhere concert or something I might go a little more out. I do my makeup for me and me only! If a man doesn't like it he can F off. I'm so sick if hearing some men say that don't like makeup but will also complain you don't look put together etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 10:35 PM
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