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Question For Mencupcakegensis/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:11 AM
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Purge Discussion!cupcakegensis/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:02 PM
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People also idolize those on socal media so it will probably make you more interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:46 PM
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It's biology, height for most of human history was more controlled by the ability to get food then genetics. Humans beings are attracted to things we associate with survival (large breasts in women, height in men).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:26 PM
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Attractiveness is finally in its early stages. A blooming crush can be swayed or dismiss by the smallest of things. A deep desire can outlast the largest of storms though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:51 PM
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I think the world needs more sunshine so I provide a light. Meaning I try to be kind to everyone sometimes people think I'm flirting but I don't mind. I enjoy giving kindness into the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:50 PM
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I think most women want equals. Since the average median income for women is 900 a week and men is 1,000 I don't think anyone wants to settle for lower. If you make a certain level of money you probably want someone in the same league, same with looks. If you are driven you probably want someone with drive. You described a career woman who makes 60,000 so someone who is above average financially. In order for her to be convinced to share her resources she is going to want above average suitors e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:47 PM
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It's kind of like watching nickacado avocado or similar trainwreck style youtuber. I think k most humans have a weird sick fascination watching people ruin their lives or do cringy stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:47 PM
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I think medium Town. I've lived in all three and have to admit in every one I'm appalled by the men who pull women ( short, ugly, unemployed, mean, no goals, no charm , terrible personality) but I think medium towns of around 50k was where I saw the most girls who had boy friends that were lower then them in looks, worked part time or unemployed, and made the girls do all the house work/ date planning / paying for everything. my friends were elated when one friends boyfriend held a part time job…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:23 PM
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I mean we've a been afraid of a woman before. Teachers, moms, doctors, policewoman all intimidate us. I know in my debate club many people were intimated by a specific girl who could win at any style with no prep. There is a bully in an office I use to work that most of us were intimated by.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:31 AM
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I think being a good roommate is hard for alot of people. It takes consideration which isn't taught in today's culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:07 AM
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People should be judged by the content of their character not on their birth circumstances. I think that male only and female only spaces are fine but female and male conditions for different jobs are ridiculous. If a firefighter needs to lift 100 pounds it shouldn't matter if it's female or male.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:33 PM
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Not always hornier then women alot of my friends talk about being hl and their partner being ll
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:14 PM
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Being good roommates, good friends, and good lovers. Those are the three cornerstones of a relationship. Also realizing fair isn't half and half and that's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:09 PM
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Men always want sex/ are the hornier of the sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:07 PM
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Sure you will
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:28 PM
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What ever makes you feel better honey
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:36 PM
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Typical man, can't support his opinions and tries to go for an emotional appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:12 PM
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I go to a young women's Bible study. I'm in a smallish city and it has over 40 girls under 25. You are so young that college events might fit you better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:47 PM
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Church event was big. My mom had a single women's Bible study that once a month had a shared study with the single men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:44 PM
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I do what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:42 PM
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Really, I'm wrong with my definition of what I prefer? Do you have any proof to your statement or going off emotional gibberish like a typical man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:36 PM
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I'll take being single for life then ever going back to not having a bank account or not being able to own property. The freedom of being in control of your own assets is worth more then any "saftey" given by gentle men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:21 PM
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I might have a dad kink but I like cargo shorts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:54 PM
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Probably being kind, showing respect to others, and being in areas where women are around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:32 PM
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I'm going to the beach today this is awesome advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:29 PM
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Do you have any source on women owing more then men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:29 AM
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This is so sad. Why dis you post this?? I had no idea it had gotten this bad. It doesn't feel like this. Where are these obese people? I feel like whenever I got out like 1 in 10 are overweight :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:26 AM
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Is this the average or the mode? Most college guys can deadlift over 200 (from what I've seen). Most over 80s can't lift their arms.In my 25-35 year old workout group the guy dead lifts hover around 250-300 way more then any of the girls weigh. So I feel we should probably look at this by age and country lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:20 AM
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I got a cut on my foot from snorkeling, but now I'm not sure if I put and bandaid on it and wear tennis shoes or let it breathe with flip flops.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:04 AM
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Boyfriend says: we both know we could easily replace each other in seconds but neither of us would find someone of this high of caliber so it doesn't phase him just like a star athlete doesn't worry the team will pick one of the millions of fans begging to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:00 AM
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Virginia, I wouldn't be with a guy who bought sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:50 PM
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No I don't enjoy physical intimacy without emotional connection
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:49 PM
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Honestly I have a 35 friend who can get any guy in the club you will be fine honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:48 PM
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6 foot 5 inches
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:56 PM
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God everything his ideas on pedagogy and the human mind. He had read the newest research on PBL. He had such vast knowledge of classical vs romantic music and had ideas I had never heard of with music theory including how he thought certain pieces could be played more musically based on the history involved with the the piece. He talked about how a musical program he was championing in Venezuela saw a lowering of all violent crimes involving adolescence perpetrators after its implementation. We …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:46 PM
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I'm confused by this do guys actually think penis makes women grow extra labias
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:20 AM
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Because if you needed to attack someone your knife was already in your dominant hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:34 PM
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3 - female
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:18 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:13 PM
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No thanks, being at risk of an abusive relationship I can't get out of
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:15 PM
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That's a no from me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:38 PM
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Option 2
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:35 PM
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God first his smile. I walked up to him at a coffee shop and when I talked to him he looked straight up from his laptop and his smile shown. The way he looked at me made me feel seen⁰ for the first time Second was his intellect. He talked with such elegance and went so deep into his ideas. I felt imeadatly enthralled in everything he said. He was also so kind. His charity eked into every aspect of his life. We couldn't go anywhere in town without someone running up to him thanking him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:34 PM
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What's FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:47 PM
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I second this guy retain your sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:46 PM
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Honey I have seen a 45 year old woman pulling mad tail at a college bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:38 PM
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I enjoy sex with my partner plenty! He is a gentle and incredible lover!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:13 PM
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I'm not sure if you read my previous comment but my partner and I have a healthy and wonderful sex life!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:04 PM
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Yep! Not every vagina can fit every penis. It's okay
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:58 PM
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You're so sweet thank you so much!!! I never thought this would ruffle so many feathers!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:28 PM
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My doctor and partner disagrees! He enjoys that it is tight and I enjoy that he doesn't go "balls deep".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:27 PM
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The reading comprehension comes in the word might. I might not be able to fit you all. That implies some fit and some don't
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:23 PM
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That's a medical condition categorized as being afraid causing muscles to tighten. I'm not sure why you think I have that. Some people are bigger some are smaller, some are more sensitive some are less. I've got a clean bill of health I'm just little I can have sex just fine!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:50 PM
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I have and somepeople just roll that way. I was told I could stretch it if I wanted too but I prefer just asking my partner to be gentle!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:23 PM
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I think we need to talk about old and young here. There isn't much difference between 25 and 30. If we are talking 20 and 40 that's a different story. Most women want to be liked for more the their looks. The problem with dating older men is that they normally only see me for my body. I've notice the trend where my intellect is passed over and I'm not taken as seriously. My prefrence is someone around my age. Someone who challenges me and I can challenge him. I want someone I can build a life wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:21 PM
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Going too hard. I'm pretty delicate and small. Even super excited I might not fit you please don't push into my cervix. Please don't use your entire fingers and please please please don't put more then one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:11 PM
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You must be fun at parties, what do you want a peer review journal on how many asains are okay with prematertial sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:07 AM
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My boufriends mom is asain and she has switched from pressuring us to get married to pressuring him to get me pregnant. Soooo, I think it might be normalized lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:12 AM
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I don't kiss until after the 3rd date and don't like physical touch on the first date. I'm kind of old fashion so I don't want to have any kind of physical intamcy until I love yous are exchanged at least. I prefer to wait until we are both committed and thinking long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:07 AM
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Nawww lol too much school I'd still be half a mil in debt at 30 lol but close.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:56 PM
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Like my job? I work in medicine. I saved half lived on half.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 01:34 AM
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It was comparing Gene's of siblings I think I'll see if I can find it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:17 AM
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It really depends I mean a month is the fastest a year is the slowest
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:37 PM
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Woman here, I don't think they are really that different for me. I feel it about the time I say I love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:43 PM
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I got to be honest I hardly ever feel a guy is "hot" until I've developed an emotional connection. I can see a man is beutiful or cute but I don't get that feeling of wanting a man unless we click.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:07 PM
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I remember reading a study looking at the DNA of humans that realized as a whole humans are monogamous. I only put the two years because that's what most of the studies I have read focused on lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:49 PM
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Well, I want a life partner. I want someone I can build with. That we have similar life goals and can go after them together. I want someone that until death tears us apart has my back. A lifelong relationship is worth so much to me that I am willing to sacrifice all the time it takes to find the right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:54 AM
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I know for me I've rationally told myself it's okay for a guy to talk to multiple women during the first stages of dating, but it kills my attraction if I know he is playing the field. If we go back to biology, women are looking for a male that can protect her and her offspring for about two years. Humans are basically useless for the majority of pregnancy and after birth. A man that isn't committed is a liability for a women because if he decides to run off with a different woman, she will be l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:44 AM
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I think it's disgusting to hook up period. I don't mind if other people do it. You do you, but the idea of having sex with someone you aren't in love with revolts me. Sex for me is the most intimate beutiful thing you can do with someone and I could not imagine sharing that with someone I am not fully committed to. Like this is the one act we can do that can create life, bring an entire soul into this world, for that reason alone it deserves more respect than a hook up. That being said people wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:36 AM
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I have one so not to rare. He believes every gender has the right to pick if they want to be more submissive or dominant. We just lined up. We have friends with reverse roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 03:17 PM
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I am blue pulled because I think every woman should have the choice for what they want and I know all women don't want what I want
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:49 AM
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I've never heard of a girl running off after agreeing to go home with a guy, you must be doing something really weird to scare girls off like that. *edit to addespecially after they get into the same lyft together
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:35 PM
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I'd say date a virgin but hymens can be ruptured by a bike ride and can regrow. There really is no way of knowing, you can just put it out there on the first date and hope that people will be honest. I want a guy who is kind to people, I will never be able to know if he is kind to animals/babies unless I watch him 24/7 . In dating you just have to trust your partner not to lie to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:34 PM
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I saw them go home together, but hey maybe he was reading her bedtime stories
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:21 PM
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For me I prefer a more dominant man, I love when my guy takes the reins but also someone that respects and cherish me. I want to show him love through supporting his descions and life goals. I want to be the soft to his strength. I want to make him dinner after work. This is why my relationship works he respect my opinions and thoughts but ultimately makes the decisions. He pushes me towards growth and I support him with his. We both are equals when it comes to our love of life so we both chase …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:13 PM
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Ehhhhhhh, I see guys that are super below average pulling drunk girls who just want a dink and a free drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:05 PM
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Alone 1000% alone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:34 PM
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Because it's about wealth not purity, the tradition only started because queen Victoria did it to show how wealthy she was to have a dress made out of lace that she only wore once. After that not wearing white wasn't saying you were unsure but said your were poor and people still don't want to be seen as poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:30 PM
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I haven't heard anything about it, I think the people who are most scared of vaccine side effects didn't get the vaccine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 01:15 PM
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They were all different studies but since children are more likely to be born out of LTRs then in them, I think it would be pretty even but I'm not sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:15 AM
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That's what I was thinking! Isn't the average starting salary for someone with a college degree like 60k?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:07 AM
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I mean men have been taking care of finaces only because it was seen as disgraceful that had a wife thay works but women (of middle to low class) have taken care of their domestic needs it has been reciprocal. I'm not sure you know a lot of high earners guys, but what I know is they aren't going down to the McDonald's to look for a wife. Some women have a thing for sugar babies and want to support hot dudes in exchange for arm candy and stay at home dads are becoming more and more common but I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:03 AM
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This is tough since it's different to every person but my perfect guy would act: Gentle would be first, he's soft and sweet with everyone Slow to anger. I want someone I never see mad Focused on self growth Friend to all Considerate to others Conservative in money Be a planner taking the reins when it comes to trips and dates Adventurous I'd want him to push me out of my co.fort zone Sociable, I want him to keep bringing in new people that enrich our lives Focused on strengthening us and our rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:58 AM
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I've never heard of women talking about a cut off salary, most just want someone that matches their own income so they won't have to take care of someone. I graduated school at 22 and made 54k as a nurse and that was considered low for my area. If you get your masters at 24 you can make 80+ easily. The job I'm about to move into pays 65k. So by your standards if I wanted an equal I'd have to date the top 1% of guys my age? I think women who are high earners want guys who are high earners, but I …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:45 AM
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That's a dark way of thinking about it, Ive read study after study that amount of quality friends is a larger indicator of happiness then a relationship. I think human beings need to take a moment and realized we put way to much pressure on love. It's amazing and incredible but not the be all end all for life satisfaction. I'm in love right now and it's marvelous but would I merge all my bank info, neglect my friends or my dreams for it? No that would be silly. I think you can have love while ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:30 AM
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I think even in early 20s dating is a mine field lol! Maybe worse then late 20s early 30s lol, maybe it's just me whining but most guys who try to date someone my age are guys who haven't matured or men significantly older than me with weird age fetishes that want someone they can be condensending too because of the age difference. Sometimes a guy will hit on me because he thinks I'm too naive to understand the difference between a nice guy and a scummy dude that just wants in my pants. Maybe it…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:10 AM
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I remember reading women in relationships with men are more likely to make less money, do more housework, have a higher stress level, have a higher chance of being raped/murdered, and don't have a higher life satisfaction. It honestly doesn't make sense for most women to be with a guy unless she wants to be a house wife but even then it's smarter for her to invest properly and live off passive income. I know several of my friends (women ages 22-35) who never want a serious relationship, because …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 08:31 PM
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Yes of course! If I was with a man who I thought single and he turned out to be married that would be deceitful and should be treated as such. If someone had an STD or STI and lied about it, I think that should be against the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:46 PM
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I get that it sounded insane to me as well, but I started reading into our history as a species and this is the most alone we have ever been it was common to eat most meals with a large group of people and after work time use to be spent almost 100% with others around. I'm a mix I need alone time to recharge, but I need to socialize or else I get depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:54 PM
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More like an ambivert, I need alone time to recharge but get depressed if I have to much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:52 PM
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I do! I've met amazing friends who love the same things I do and are pretty healthy socially
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:51 PM
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Woman here but I try to be social 5-7 times a week. I think I have about a 2:1 men to women ratio. I do everything from church to boating to board games. I aim for two private events (events where the new people I meet is 0, think going on a friend's boat) and 2 public events (events I meet alot of new people ex: Bible studies or skiing) each week. I also don't count any work activities as social activities. I count myself as pretty average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:33 AM
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I agree to some extent, to find a date probably 6 months. To find a life partner that values, respects and shares morality? One with similar hobbies and life goals? Heck people search their entire life for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:28 AM
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Hmm, maybe it's the women you spend your time with? From what I've seen women who are looking for a more traditional relationship will be searching for signs that a guy is ready to settle down. If he doesn't display those signs then they move on. 🤷.I bet early 20s club scene girls who don't want to settle down wouldn't want a guy who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:26 AM
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Depends on where they live, in my home town people are married before 18 so if a 22 year old was looking it would probably take 2/3 years. Also the 22 year old isn't really going to places for relationships. Bars and parties are more for hookups. Does this man/ woman go to church? Play in rec leagues? Join hiking/ camping groups? Do you make a point of going to places where the opposite sex frequent in large numbers? I would say if they don't use online dating 6 months to 1.5 years. If they use …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:46 AM
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I wonder where this 80/20 idea came from if not from tinder statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:07 AM
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Do you have sources for this data?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:09 AM
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Masculine at work feminine at home is my preference for my own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:16 PM
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I would say intelligence is like garlic and onion in a dish or salt and pepper if you prefer. Most foods are inedible without it (most guys are complete turn offs if they are unintelligent) but you can't put them on a dog turd and make it delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:31 PM
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I'm interested in what makes a woman feminine and what you consider "carrying for her weight" to be? I know in my own social circle my friends flip if they see the scale move more then 5 pounds and only one out of 60 girls I know are overweight. It might be a location or an age thing, but it seems to me women care a lot about their weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 11:06 AM
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My partner and I are extremely growth minded. We go to many events/ lectures/ and retreats with the idea that we can move away some of that ego protection to take a look at those flaws. We discuss monthly our goals, what we want to change about ourselfs, and how we want to change it. We then hold each other accountable for these goals. I think a healthy relationship requires people to be vocal about their partners flaws. Our partner is a mirror for us. I think it would be argument fuel only if; …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:14 AM
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I mean sure you missed out on a kiss but you got a cool friend and friends are so important some may argue more important then romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:42 PM
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Friendly people are friendly people! They are super fun to be around and throw great parties I'd keep her around because outgoing friends like that can always turn a night into a party!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:36 PM
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Love only fades if you let it fade. My parents are still madly in love and stay playful with each other. I'm working on the same thing with my partner!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:33 PM
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Yes, a million times yes. Love is one of the most magical incredible feeling one can have. Waking up every day next to a team mate is so comforting. Seeing your lover bring in groceries for the 1000th time and having your heart skip a beat because of how beautiful they look in the doorway. That feeling of selflessness when you see them sleeping and all you can think about is what you can do to make thier morning easier. The absolute bliss you feel when you can get them to smile. It's so worth it…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:56 AM
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Do you belive women are intellectually incapable of feeling remorse and guilt over their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:14 AM
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I get that I just see alot of guys talking about how bad the world is. It got be curious on what a "good" world would look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:11 AM
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Like lesbians couldn't say they are straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:10 AM
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Have you ever read the sub r/deadbedrooms? It seems like it's more women then men that want more sex in their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:09 AM
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I'm going to honest with you and probably a little blunt, but when was the last time in a newly buding relationship has a woman broke down in tears crying on you about her depression? If you're American then our culture isn't one that rewards sensitivity. Male female heck even children get told to tough it out. It sucks and I can understand you are upset. There is an old saying don't let your crazy out all at once. What that means is we all have baggage, we all know everyone has baggage, but it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:47 PM
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Amen to this 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:35 PM
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Financial domentarixs are insane, but hey I've read that guys are animating animals girls to do the same thing and also getting money for it. Find your niche my dude and work for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:33 PM
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Average is hard to state, I think single women get alot of attention period I think women with partners get much less attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:31 PM
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Women are all different you aren't going to get one answer here, but yes psychologically manipulating a person makes them more codependent on you. These tricks work on men, women, and children. It works until they wise up to it or if they are aware to begin with. Trauma bonding also allows people to manipulate others into staying with them. If your question is, are psychological mind games effective, then the answer is yes. You could probably keep anyone in your basement playing mind games until…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:20 PM
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hm, I've never heard of that. I'm about 3ish years in and didn't feel any special urge to leave at the 2 year mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:22 PM
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Personal question lol I'm early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:23 PM
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7 years older then me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:29 PM
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I don't want to make a guy feel uncomfortable if there aren't interested so I don't want to pursue further
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:29 PM
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I normally look smile and wink when I was single. If he looks away I know he isn't interested. In clubs I love guys who can dance and just seem like they are having tons of fun. Men who dress nice, have a nice physical form, and don't seem to old are all pluses.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 12:38 PM
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A couple years before. Dating feels like trying to find a diamond Ina coal mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 09:09 PM
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I think the high body count grosses me out. One it feels like why should I be with you if literally anything can be with kind of devalues the guy in my mind, two it feels dirty having sex with someone who has had a lot of sex like I might catch something, three it doesn't feel special anymore. If a guy is more exclusive only having 3- 4 partners it feels like being in the VIP to be with him you know? I don't know if its an old figment of being raised religious but if a guy gives it to everyone w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:29 PM
3

My partner was 30 when I met him! My mom was 39 when she met the love of her life. I know men and woman who found love in a nursing home. It is never to late!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:04 PM
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Hm... It's a generalization and as generalizations go pretty inaccurate I think. I believe both men and women base their judgments on how what their partner did in the past will affect the future together. I (woman) listen to a man on a date if he talks about how many places he has traveled I think "Oh he will want to travel in the future this could be compatible. If he talks about a bunch of women he has been with then I think "this man is kind of gross and probably screws anything with a whole…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:49 PM
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I think both would be a turn off, if you change yourself and work hard everyday just to be liked then what's the real you? If you have had dozens of partners then it feels like you're the village pogo stick and I'm going to catch a disease off you. I think someone who works on self growth is attractive because I am very focused on that as well, but re inventing yourself for the sole person of being liked feels shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:07 AM
1

It's mostly corprate rentals not private lol but thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 10:11 PM
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I get this hard core. I wanted to be a housewife, but honestly there is no assurance the man wouldn't run off as soon as something hitter came around. I currently buy and rent real-estate and realistically can be earning 6 figs, and work a 3 hour work week before I turn 30. Which means I still have time to have kids and stay at home with them without the fear that someone is going to take it all away from me. I still have a LTR but I don't put all my financial eggs in that basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:45 AM
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Here is an interesting article with links to some studies that shows men do change when they watch porn. https://www.livescience.com/52469-how-porn-affects-brains.html
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:31 AM
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Have you ever heard of death grip syndrome? Men who use porn on the regular actually desensitize themselves so much that normal sex is unpleasurable. It's unfortunately a fairly common ED reason for young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:29 AM
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I wouldn't because of the countess studies showing what porn does to men's brains. I'd rather have someone operating at their prime. Also we work with sex trafficked victims and many of them come from porn. I don't know if I come stomach being with a man who can help people with one hand and use the other to benefit the industry hurting them. Edit to add: I've seen studies that show porn use decreases intelect, creativity, increase adulterous behavior, decrease sexual sensitivity, increases diss…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:26 AM
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Heck some men are chubby chasers! I have an athletic build and have been told to add more weight and to loose weight by the internet. Men come in different flavors and all want different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:22 AM
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Op said she isn't getting as many matches so I'd say that isn't fully true but yeah some men just swipe right on everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:43 PM
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My guy adores me and it makes me blush, giggle, and feel like a school girl everything he puts me on a pedestal. It's funny people like to be appreciated by their significant others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:26 PM
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I get as many or just a few less matches as I do swipes. So 20 swipes would be 18-20 matches. Nothing has changed for me when I was using OLD and I helped a friend make her profile and we were using it last weekend. Men seemed just as interested as before covid. Maybe something is off with your profile? Try different pictures or mess with your bio more!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:09 PM
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That's what I was thinking! Like dang these girls must have super low self esteem to enjoy talking bad about random men. Or putting people on the spot when they are trying to compliment a cute couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:59 PM
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It just seems weird that you would even concern yourself at all with their comments. I think I would see a guy as having higher confidence if he could shrug off a comment instead of making a deal of it. Men who are sure of themselves don't need to make sure everyone knows they are sure of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:57 PM
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You must date a different kind of woman, if she enjoys degrading others. I've never met any woman in my circle who would want to be someone that feels that they need to belittle others. Heck I think more then one of us has stopped seeing men because he felt that "need". If the women you enjoy, enjoy doing that then more power to you, but don't use it as a be all end all blanket case. I have to ask if you think it's an insult when someone comments , "damn your cats is so nice you're a lucky guy" …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 10:58 AM
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I can for one state that the second half of one is wrong on so many levels. It's considered a compliment to say "you must be so lucky", "you got lucky with that one" or "luck was on your side when you met". I remember I was at a fair with a guy (third date) and one of the employees saying something like the above to him while we waited in line for the ferris wheel. He responded in the same way you were describing (maybe for you ect ect) and it was one of the most awkward moments of my life. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 10:21 AM
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I've only brought up body count with someone I've been with 2+ years, but I have to admit if a guy I'm dating says he has or alludes to him having a high body count I get grossed out and kind of loose attraction for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:24 AM
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When this happens normally I get "you're dangerous" vibes and I don't want to be truthful because I'm worried you might hurt me if I say anything more hurtful then "we just don't click" or I've already told the guy and it isn't clicking for example: me: "I didn't feel a spark ​ Him " What does that mean" ​ Me: "We couldn't get a conversation going" ​ Him "what do you mean" ​ Me" It just felt like I was asking questions and wasn't getting a lot to work with" Him: "what does that mean" Me: "Well w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:30 PM
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Gift giving is a love language, if he isn't willing to reprect that then GTFO. Know your worth. Guys will treat you like you tell them to treat you by what you you are willing to put up with. By staying with a dude who doesn't value your love language you are reducing your own value.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 11:41 PM
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It could be you need a guy that spoils you, I've noticed there are dudes who spoil and dudes who don't. If he isn't a spoiler then he never will spoil you, sorry girl.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 11:16 PM
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I have two friends that were arranged to get married. They are actually very happy together and have a great love life so I've heard. Their culture puts alot of attention on learning to love the person. They are honestly one of the cutest couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:34 PM
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