curberus Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Dealing with the catch-22 of desperation Focus on process. Worry less about sex, and more about trying to talk to women. There may be a shortage of women having sex with you, but there is no shortage of women to try talking to. Easier said than done clearly, but it's worked rather well for me.	/r/seduction	30/11/13 04:09 AM
1	A girl I was trying to pursue told a mutual friend she wasn't interested in me. Does this mean I should give up on her and move on? It's a good thing you're allowed to date people outside of your school then! Are you in the middle of nowhere out in buttfuck egypt Kansas or something? 99.783472% positive you have plenty of options if you look around. With all due respect man, you obsessing like this, trying to figure out if you can change her mind by definition is gonna make you way less likely to change her mind. To use the lingo, you're not giving value. To be this hung up implies you don't have your own value to give. You …	/r/seduction	16/10/13 09:12 AM
2	A girl I was trying to pursue told a mutual friend she wasn't interested in me. Does this mean I should give up on her and move on? Yes. She either A) is not interested or B) randomly lies about shit to people in hopes that it gets back to other people. In either situation, it is time to move on. You're 18. You've got TONS of attractive, smart, got-their-shit-together options to choose from.	/r/seduction	16/10/13 08:33 AM
2	[Research] Alcohol breaks brain connections needed to process social cues It's a balance IMO. A drink or so to help loosen up can be more beneficial than the damage done here. I mean, i'd venture a guess that what they're talking about is what causes the loosening up. The risk you're talking about is certainly present, but while it might hurt social cue recognition, it can help with overanalyzing-and-panicking-about-the-worst-case-scenario-itis. Two different problems people have to address, affected in different ways.	/r/seduction	02/09/13 09:25 AM
1	[Research] Alcohol breaks brain connections needed to process social cues Is this somehow not like the most obvious thing ever? This just in, breathing air good for oxygen levels in your blood!	/r/seduction	02/09/13 09:22 AM
1	How to not make it feel like a numbers game? I think what he's saying is he's meeting lots of girls who meet most (of his criteria, but none who meet all of them. Actually, yeah I think I'm agreeing with you here. What is more likely it seems to me is that hes meeting lots of girls who meet some of his criteria, and not realizing that whatever amount this some is, isn't sufficient. IMO (and what I think you're getting at too), OP needs to either hold faster to his standards, or raise his standards enough such that 80% of his desired traits…	/r/seduction	28/08/13 03:37 AM
1	How Can I Help Myself? This. This this this. Unless you are seeeeeeeeriously deformed, odds are it's not your looks. You don't really say what it is about your looks that you think is the issue, but I doubt it's bad enough to cause what you're talking about. Honestly, this kind of thing almost always comes (IME, clearly) from the energy you're giving off. Your first paragraph is a dead giveaway I've spent my life trying to convince myself I'm awesome. It's just not true. I can't ignore the facts. Sounds to me like you…	/r/seduction	09/08/13 02:57 AM
4	7 Ways To Tell If The Girl You're About To Approach Is DTF What if it's not all you see in a woman, but it's all you're interested in right now? Sometimes, when I eat/go outside, I'm doing it for my health and to better myself in various ways. Sometimes, I eat a cheeseburger cause I just really want a cheeseburger, cause they freaking taste good. Why does it have to be black and white? Women enjoy sex too man. There is absolutely nothing wrong whatsoever with going after a girl for sex, as long as thats what you both want and you're clear (even if its i…	/r/seduction	03/08/13 05:39 AM
2	7 Ways To Tell If The Girl You're About To Approach Is DTF No, but you can't live in fear. Absolutely take the proper precautions, carry a condom in a hard case etc. But the only I can be 100% sure I won't die in a plane crash is to never fly, but fuck that, I want to travel. Don't live stupid, but don't live afraid either man.	/r/seduction	03/08/13 05:35 AM
1	Does having a car make sex easier to come by? Depends on where you are man. Been living without a car for a while, and I'm grabbing one soon because while it was fine for just me, now dating it's become a problem. Like throwaway said, you're responsible for the logistics of transport, and because I'm in Phoenix (North Scotts) that means I'm either really limiting my options for location (2 really good bars by me, but kinda small samey crowds, and thats it) or I'm ponying up $40+ a night each way for a cab. When I was down in Tucson (waaay c…	/r/seduction	01/06/13 11:07 PM
3	Does having a car make sex easier to come by? Depends on where you are, in cities like San Fran or NYC not having a car just means you're not megaloaded or not insane, but in Phoenix where I am it usually implies one or the other since its a million and twelve degrees out all summer and things are really, really spaced out.	/r/seduction	01/06/13 11:06 PM