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What's insane? That people have emotional intelligence?
/r/ExRedPill30/03/26 04:31 PM
7

Clearly they know since they don't ever talk to you. Men online think no one can tell that their core is rotten and then are shocked they have poor relationships since "no one even knows!!!" They know. Your life is proof. Idk what else to tell you.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/26 04:25 PM
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"Nah women are disgusting" Direct quote from you a few days ago. You can't understand why no one will have sex with you when the reason is right in front of you. I guess you just need to meet someone who hates themselves enough and will use you as self harm lol
/r/ExRedPill30/03/26 04:17 PM
5

Then why would anyone describe you as kind?
/r/ExRedPill30/03/26 04:11 PM
4

All women are different and will make their own decisions, but I would think it's that even if Mr right wanted to have sex she may stall that to build a connection first.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 04:55 PM
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He answered this directly. "Second, she is NOT looking for Mr Right. In fact, if she meets Mr Right she might change her plan and decide NOT to have sex tonight because this feels real"
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 04:32 PM
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Honestly I rarely get into those details because why would I want to know that from my friends? If they say they hooked up with someone last night, then that's all I need to know. If I wanted a play by play I'd just go have sex with someone myself.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/24 05:48 PM
2

Your last paragraph is gold
/r/ExRedPill03/08/24 05:24 PM
5

This also shocked me lol that's a very high number to use as "average". I'm not sure I know any woman who has slept with 15 different people (then again, it's not a common conversation topic). I do know some men.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/24 05:23 PM
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Why would having sex with a lot of people change the way someone views relationships? Sex can just be sex, not related to a relationship at all.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/24 05:21 PM
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I'm not offended 🙄 I'm annoyed because your responses were mansplaining and it's condescending.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/24 11:56 PM
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Just curious, did you even read what I said? Because what I said was that misogynistic men freak out, not that they simply decline my offer. And I also said it was me paying for something, including a round of drinks. Not just dinner. I have had men pay for me, I've paid for men. But I have had men yell at me because I would not let them pay. That is a misogynist. Talk to a therapist if you insist on taking issue with something that has nothing to do with you. I'm not a child and don't need you …
/r/ExRedPill23/07/24 03:34 AM
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I really don't care where it comes from. You don't get to just decide that you are the only one who gets to pay. It's not your decision to make, because I am as much of a person and I can also really super want to pay. Of course most people initially refuse, that's fine. But with misogynistic men, it escalates into something ugly. They get genuinely angry and feel insulted. It is not generosity if the other person cannot refuse. It is not a gift if the other person is not allowed to refuse. You …
/r/ExRedPill23/07/24 01:56 AM
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It's almost like they just hate women lol they are disgusting. The arguments I have are ridiculous, men trying to convince me that they're giving me a gift. It's not a gift if I can't refuse it! And it's not a gift if I can't also give it to you, you asshole. Why do you get to give the gift and not me? What is that really rooted in? Why does it make you feel inferior but I'm supposed to be grateful? Ugh.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 03:37 PM
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While I've read that a lot online, I have never experienced it IRL. And I think if they're that far gone, you should be able to feel their entitlement when you offer to pay. It's really one of the best tests I have with dating lol the best men react appropriately when I offer to pay (which is to thank me and offer to pay for the next one).
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 02:31 AM
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A good temperature check I do is insist on paying for dinner, a round of drinks, etc. Not splitting it, paying outright. It surprisingly upsets a lot of misogynistic men, who freak out.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/24 11:57 PM
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I need someone with emotional maturity and self awareness. A lot of times that can look like sensitivity. I'm really tired of being a mother or a therapist to my partners. I can't play that role anymore.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 03:34 PM
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I completely missed out on that and life never really turned out like I thought it would. I'd be surprised if that was tied to your dating history. It's easy for us to put all of our issues onto one problem, but that doesn't make it true.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/17 02:14 PM
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Dating at 20 isn't late at all. I'm 24 and I haven't really dated yet but don't mind. I guess it depends where you live.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/17 07:44 PM
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If you want to message me feel free. I'll probably get back to you sometime tomorrow when I'm in a better mood. My pet just had surgery today lol and I'm a very worried mom.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/17 01:53 AM
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Just wanted to provide you the source to help out, like I said earlier not really interested in arguing. I'm not the person you had been replying to. Was just reading the thread.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/17 01:46 AM
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I didn't say I had a problem with this. I just provided the link. I do actually have a problem with it, but I wasn't intending on discussing it. Others may be up to explaining.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/17 01:36 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2kid7t/the_rational_male_last_minute_resistance/ Not the sidebar, but a link I could grab on mobile.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/17 01:22 AM
22

You can very easily learn that lesson in an environment less toxic than TRP
/r/ExRedPill10/12/16 06:09 AM
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Women only have control over you because you let them dictate all of your thoughts, feelings, and actions. They are not telling you what to think, feel, or act-- you're fabricating that conversation in your head. However, the result is very real and that's hard. I think this is a self esteem thing, if how you feel about yourself and your place in life hinges on seeing a woman in a magazine. That's a really deeply rooted issue, and it will take hard work to fix. I think it would be helpful for yo…
/r/ExRedPill06/10/16 12:16 PM
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Wow, I feel so sad for you. I don't even know what else to say.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/16 03:24 PM
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You're very fragile :/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 08:18 PM
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Is your masculinity so fragile that me implying you don't get laid completely crushes it? :( You seem very upset. I'll lose a few pounds just for you bby :* I'm sure being at such mercy to your emotions is exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 08:14 PM
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Keep trying! You'll get there!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 08:12 PM
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So close, but still a miss. Try a different tactic. Maybe you'll even make me shed crocodile feminist tears! Also, I took out the shaming part before you replied because I saw rule 2 and didn't want my post deleted. If you can see, there's no edit indication because it was done so quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 08:11 PM
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I'm a woman, but good try. I'll give you another shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 07:50 PM
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Why do you refer to women as "females" in your title but to men as "men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 07:48 PM
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as a man, you are selling yourself Yeah, and as a person. Every person, man or woman, has to sell themselves. That's how life works. This isn't specific to men.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/15 05:37 PM
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it depends on the person at hand Directly contradicts all women are like this (AWALT) so...
/r/ExRedPill17/08/15 02:26 AM
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It's been a year so I've started to move on, It doesn't seem like it if you're pining to get her back. however everything I've learned from TRP prevents me from ever fully trusting a woman No, it doesn't. You prevent yourself from ever fully trusting a woman. TRP's main schtick is that it takes away personal responsibility for actions by parading around pretending it instills personal responsibility. You, apparently, are still having issues with that. Whatever you are feeling is on you. They don…
/r/ExRedPill22/06/15 07:04 PM
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It sounds like your best bet might be to move on. Not everything can be salvaged and not everything should be. You made mistakes and you need to face the consequences. That's life, and sometimes it hurts.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/15 06:20 PM
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it seems logical and understandable to me ... So? Just because something seems logical and just because you understand it doesn't at all have anything to do with its correctness.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/15 08:57 AM
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I totally agree with you. I'm trying to frame this in as neutral a way as possible to encourage OP to be open to my suggestions.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/15 01:34 AM
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I'm not sure whether they're more bitter or afraid that it'll all be in vain. I think that argument can be applied to any movement ever, yet other movements still manage to garner traction. So I doubt that's the reason MRAs aren't making a lot of positive influence. Ideally online, or a book. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't think a book is a good resource. Firstly, there is no academic support of the men's rights movement, so I don't think a book like that even exists. Any books written abo…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/15 04:22 PM
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Thank you for clarifying. That's definitely a legitimate issue. Gender roles dictate that men aren't allowed to have feelings, and if they do they definitely aren't allowed to speak about it. That has all kinds of repercussions, from men who are survivors of abuse being unable to find help to men who are simply having a hard day but feel as though they can't turn to a friend. Right now, the men's rights movement is more focused on discrediting feminism than helping men, and that's unfortunate. T…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/15 12:46 AM
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You're not really saying anything in this post, which is pretty impress considering its length. So I don't know how you think people will be able to help.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/15 12:19 AM
1

In most Western countries females have higher rates of suicidal ideation and behavior than males, yet mortality from suicide is typically lower for females than for males. That is a leading statement that already has an answer. Men tend to use more effective methods like guns while women tend to use less effective methods like pills. It's trying to answer a question that's already been answered, and in doing so it's providing a false narrative. The different methods between men and women can be …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 06:02 PM
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Your quote attempts to explain male suicide rates with gender role imposed difficulties. But women attempt suicide at the same rate as men, which suggests it's not impacted by gender roles. Or maybe it is, but the information you gave doesn't suggest that in the slightest. Wikipedia is not an article. Quoting Wikipedia doesn't mean what you quoted is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 04:38 PM
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This is untrue. Men attempt suicide at the same rate women do, men just tend to be more successful which is why their suicide rates are so high. By no means do they do it more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 04:12 PM
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Is it fulfilling to go through two months of someone's posting history?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/15 12:01 PM
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Because they're whiners and the friend zone doesn't exist? It's the most ridiculous excuse to explain a lack of sex life ever. I've hooked up with a bunch of my guy friends because I respect them and think they're cool.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/15 02:42 AM
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As a woman, I really doubt that's true. Most women, in my experience, form sexual attraction from an emotional bond. It takes a while. So if you're not going from friends to something else, you should take a good look at yourself in the mirror. If your house smells like shit, your office smells like shit, and your car smells like shit, you should check under your shoe. For me, I refuse to get into a relationship with someone who doesn't have their shit together. I'll be friends with these people…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/15 02:04 AM
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I would suggest not looking at women as something to "get". We're not video games you can pre-order. And your self proclaimed lack of physical attraction and bad personality isn't the female gender's fault, yet you seem to be blaming them for it. Work on your self image, dude. That's the best thing you can do for yourself. Go talk to a counselor. Make yourself whole before you look for your other half.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/15 01:42 AM
1

Um, that doesn't address my point at all and that could very well be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 01:43 PM
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Has it ever occurred to you maybe men identify as feminists because they are allowed to have their own opinions and simply are feminists? It's hilarious you seem to think that your own personal experiences can be projected on all men ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 11:20 PM
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my darling LOL who even are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/15 07:19 AM
2

Can we please stop just assuming TRP has "truths" to tell? Your title saying "the truths" is ridiculous. Like there's some TRP book with a hidden list of biotrufs that you only share amongst yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 01:47 AM
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More than one problem can exist in the world at any given time. The validity of your problem is not diminished in the light of other problems. But if you want to be told that your problem is just as, if not more, important then that's completely different. If you feel the need to make this a competition, then you will be hit with hostility. But if you acknowledge the issues of both sides, then there isn't a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 10:07 PM
2

You see right through me. I'm impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 04:46 PM
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I don't. People search my post history and try to use it as ammunition.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 01:16 AM
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You think people caring about other people sucks??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 10:25 PM
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So what? People with waifus exist online. I don't give them any attention. It's Tumblr. By constantly referencing them, you're validating their position. They would have no voice if people didn't constantly complain about their voice. Tumblr SJW do not "have a pretty prominent voice in the feminist movement today". Which you just admitted. They have no voice. They are non existent. Jezebel you can argue does, but not "SJWs" on Tumblr. Being passionate about social justice is an amazing and respe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 08:55 PM
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Defining yourself as a man and developing yourself as a man in the sense of being mentally and physically tough This is the exact opposite of feminism. You are not a feminist. Feminism wants to break down gender roles and expectations. You're saying that they should be more present. Please do not call yourself a feminist. You aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 08:47 PM
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Can we stop saying "SJW" like it's an actual thing? Stop turning social justice into something people should be ashamed. Like WTF is this world coming to. And the "SJW" of which you speak don't exist in the real world. Whenever someone brings that up I just roll my eyes. Most of the shit perpetuated by Reddit like "shitlord" doesn't actually happen. Some 12 year old posted it once and now everyone thinks SJWs are taking over the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 08:42 PM
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Most guys ... don't make getting big and strong a priority And you claim you're a feminist? What? Feminism is mostly about breaking traditional gender roles. You are just playing into them. Just because you're liberal doesn't mean you're a feminist. I don't identify as liberal and I consider myself a feminist. I'm assuming you use the feminist label to give yourself some false credibility when you make statements like "basement dwellers and virgins".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 08:37 PM
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I don't believe people come there for an easy fix of their sex lives. ...Really? That is the main reason people go to TRP. Because they can't get laid and want to figure out how. That is literally why they go. To figure out some easy fix for their sex lives. They literally define themselves as: The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. It's all about sexual strategy. What could be easier than determining the person you're pursuing …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 08:32 PM
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TRP has a vibe that if you don't agree with their viewpoint, you're immediately banned. TRP says that they are "the truth" and are brutally honest, but they tell men exactly what they want to hear. That women are a game, and that if you learn the rules you can play them. Who doesn't want to hear that there is a simple formula for having sex? They spout it off as this inconvenient truth, but it's exactly what they crave. In that sense, it is a safe space. No one is allowed to come in and tell the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 07:01 PM
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Being a woman, or a feminist does not make you a social pariah. On the internet? Yes it does. I've gotten a ton of not so nice PMs. I've had people dismiss me on things completely unrelated because I identify as a feminist. It's just funny at this point, though. Maybe you should seriously thinking about why you're getting thousands of downvotes instead of going "wahhh feminists".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 06:55 PM
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Caught me ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 01:04 AM
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There are a million subs for everything. They overlap and it's not a big deal. I see nothing wrong with including fitness tips in TRP if that's such a huge part of their goal. There are weight loss subs that have nutrition tips all the time, even though they're not a nutrition sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 08:27 PM
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Then why do people post field reports? Why not post tips on fitness, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 07:02 PM
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all he told you is he engaged in questionable dominance play What? She was struggling, so he pinned her against the wall with her hands above her head so she couldn't physically move. And then told her that she has no power. Can you seriously say, with a straight face, that's not rape? Because if that's not rape, then I would love to hear what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 08:37 AM
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I'm confused. How am I hysterical... ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:40 AM
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Edited to preserve anonymity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 11:33 PM
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There isn't an equivalent for rape, which is why it is so difficult to prove. It's usually not done with an audience, and there are only two witnesses with their own personal agendas. But does that somehow imply it doesn't happen? Like, what kind of fucked logic is that? Because a situation inherently leaves little evidence it can never have happened in the first place? If I sing to myself in my room and no one is around to hear, did I never sing in the first place? Like jfc what kind of mental …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 11:01 PM
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You should read 1984. Absence of evidence of an event does not mean the event literally never existed. Of course, legally someone cannot be found guilty. But to somehow equate our justice system to reality is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 10:59 PM
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Edited to preserve anonymity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 10:56 PM
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Wait, I thought that previous comment was sarcasm. Now I'm confused. I retract my upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 10:55 PM
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tells him not to be so aggressive Should we tell murderers not to be so aggressive? Like wtf kind of advice is that. He raped this poor girl. He literally pinned her against a wall and told her she has no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 10:44 PM
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I feel nauseous right now. I can't believe I just read that. I pray to God that is a troll. EDIT: OMG why did no one in the comments point out this person fucking raped her? There was one comment that explicitly called OP out that I could find. JFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 10:40 PM
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I have access to it at my university. I should have seen this as an issue, but was on a university computer and it automatically let me through.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 11:54 PM
2

I still don't think you know how support groups run. Time and time again it has been shown in studies that indulging in your anger only increases your anger. It's a common misconception that it's good to "let it out" but it's actually not. I'll include one study here. http://psp.sagepub.com/content/28/6/724.short
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 09:56 PM
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Ah, gotcha. Being on Reddit has shown me that I'm just really gullible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 09:44 PM
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How at all is it misleading?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 09:40 PM
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I don't think you understand how support groups run. Have you ever been in one? They aren't like the movies. They hardly focus on the actual traumatic event.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 09:38 PM
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venting is fine in my opinion, I don't know why people would come to the conclusion it is unhealthy This is not an opinion. You are going against fact. It's not like someone just decided to think it's unhealthy. There have been a ton of studies done, and feeding your anger only increases your anger. I will list one study cited almost 500 times: http://psp.sagepub.com/content/28/6/724.short There are dozens of others. It's not up to your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 09:36 PM
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I would never go into a place where women talk about their problems and tell them to shut up and get over it If your problems involve degrading half the population, then I would tell you to shut up and get over it. If my problem was degrading half the population, then I hope someone would tell me to shut up and get over it. Like, if I got robbed by a black person and resolved to never have a relationship with a black person again (MGTOW), then I hope someone would whack me upside the head. Every…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 09:34 PM
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There are a lot of sex negative feminists. I'm not sure why you think there isn't. They don't try to hide themselves or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 09:30 PM
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And all men, too! And all people are capable of murder. Do I get a prize for stating an obvious fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 04:41 AM
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Because it's a ridiculous term and it's offensive that it's put in quotes, implying that the person is skeptical of its legitimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 05:07 PM
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"marital rapist" What do you mean by marital rapist? And why is it in quotes? Do you just mean a rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 08:27 AM
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I always forget you're a parody account and I get so angry before it dawns on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/15 11:32 PM
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Absolutely. There are well known journals and infamous journals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/15 11:15 PM
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Not when it comes to studies. That is why there are independent variables and a ton of studies done on the same thing. I'm oversimplifying this, but research doesn't work the way you want it to. If it did, we would know far less than we do now because we would have made baseless assumptions about our observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/15 02:25 AM
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Neither of us are capable of "analyzing" this data. It's one thing to acknowledge it, it's another thing to assign it value.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/15 01:36 AM
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And what do you mean by "probability"? You can't just assume what is more probable. That's also an assumption which you should not do. Any intro psych class explains this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/15 12:56 AM
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It's easy to infer from the data, though. That is a horrible idea. What? You should never "infer" something from data. If you're such a fan of science and statistics, that should be the last thing you would want to do. I'm going to randomly infer from the data that women "initiate" divorce more frequently because their male partners are terrible and cheat on them all the time. So I totally just proved that men are worse than women! CHECKMATE. Do you see how ridiculous that is? There are a millio…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/15 10:34 PM
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I think by "nice guy" OP doesn't mean guy who is nice. Nice guy has become a term for something much different on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/15 03:30 AM
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Well, now that you have officially declared it. You should probably also officially declare that TRP is better than TBP so that we can all stop debating. It only takes on sentence with no reasoning or support.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 08:34 PM
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Because you're a woman and you most likely don't even know the other side of that problem (the combination of both feeling unrequited love which gets exacerbated by the lack of other options to fall back on; which isn't that rare for guys). Are you seriously trying to tell me I've never felt rejection? I was in love with one of my really good friends for eight years. I couldn't feel anything for anyone else because I couldn't stop thinking about him. I had to hear him tell me all about his girlf…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 08:24 PM
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Your response before had nothing to do with the poster you replied to or the original point of the thread. It was a teenager's way of discrediting something without putting in any effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 04:37 PM
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How many times have you heard a guy complaining because a woman makes it clear she's not interested in him? That's what they refer to as the friend zone. There is no stringing along. And it's called being friends. Jfc. There's nothing abusive about friends with benefits just because it's not a relationship and there's nothing abusive about being friends just because it's not a relationship. They're all different ways of relating to someone and you can't float in and out of all three. I can't bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 04:23 PM
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👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 04:20 PM
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Wow you're really edgy. Respond to the point or don't say anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 04:17 PM
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I'm sorry, what? If a woman and a man are friends, and the woman doesn't want that relationship to turn into something it's not and makes that clear to the guy, that's not emotional abuse. To use red pill terminology, it's like having a plate versus a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 04:11 PM
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You literally just said to be treated like a grownup you have to admit you're a child. Are you high?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 07:13 AM
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Isn't the poster of that thread the creator of TRP? Can you REALLY dismiss it so easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 07:07 AM
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The title of Blizzard games is not a life philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/15 02:51 PM
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If you take the stance all women, then it means all women. If it's not all women, then fix the language. A token slogan of TRP shouldn't be so blatantly incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/15 02:12 AM
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You do realize you've called me a bitch a few times, right? You don't think that's excessive? I hope you get better, even though you probably don't deserve my sympathy. Get help. This isn't about "legal matters", this is about your mental health. I'm not arguing with you about legal matters. I hope you get help, but I can't make you. So good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/15 03:25 AM
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You see how much you're reacting to nothing? You see how much you're defending something that I never even attacked? You're saying I'm wrong, but I never even took a stance. How can I be wrong when I never made a claim? You are paranoid because you are attributing these things to me for no reason. Other than your paranoia. Just the fact you can't acknowledge that a medical expert might know more than you on this one subject shows your irrationality. Dude, I've been there. Get help. Your life wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/15 02:55 AM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night. Try talking to a professional. You might feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/15 02:26 AM
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Okay, I can't do this anymore. This is too funny. You need to go see a fucking counselor, man. You obviously have no concept of slavery or oppression and you play the victim like you won a Golden Globe. You sound paranoid as fuck. It's okay to have different beliefs, but they're running your life. That's not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/15 06:00 PM
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Seriously. It must be terrible to be treated like a slave. Who said that black people have the monopoly on slavery?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/15 05:32 PM
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Sounds like you have everything figured out. Let me know when you move to Uruguay, a man's paradise. And when you convert all your cash to gold reserves. I'll make sure to congratulate you when all is said and done.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/15 06:40 AM
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I'm happy for you. I'm sure there's some way to put money on the fall of Western civilizations. You should look into that. You'd make a killing, and then you can buy women to sleep with you in Uruguay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/15 06:27 AM
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Please, by all means, immigrate to a country where "no such culture & laws exist".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/15 06:01 AM
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You still seem to think I'm arguing. I'm not making an argument. Why is that so difficult for you to see? I'm explaining my apathy. And you are purposefully misinterpreting it. You need to get a hobby or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/15 10:11 PM
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I don't care to convince extremists of my opinion. I'm open to discussing with people who are also open to discussion, whether or not they agree with me. Not people who don't even have a fundamental understanding of a commonly discussed term. I'm making no argument, so I'm not sure why you're dismissing something that doesn't exist. I don't spend all of my time pointlessly debating people who aren't willing to listen to anything other than themselves speaking. I have a higher standard for myself…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/15 09:40 PM
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Ah I have zero idea because you said so. Great argument. Yes, if someone said the Earth was flat I would tell them they have zero idea what they're talking about and not bother going further because they are so removed from reality it's not worth my time. You obviously don't even understand what patriarchy means. It has nothing to do with individual men at all, let alone a demon (?) inside them. It has to do with a society built around benefiting men in many areas. It was built by both men and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/15 07:19 AM
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The "patriarchy" is a made up word. It stretches the category of insane men to include "regular men", insinuating that there is a demon inside all of us ready to be unleashed, and we should be shamed for it before it even happens. You obviously have zero idea what you're talking about. When some of your bitterness dissipates, I would love to speak with you about it. Until then, any discourse with you is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/15 06:56 AM
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And feminism is an easy target for women hating, because God forbid a woman is treating like a person and not an object.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/15 10:57 PM
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Thanks, but no thanks. I think I'm alright without your input.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/15 07:52 AM
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It didn't get a rise out of me. I actually said I didn't care either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/15 04:16 AM
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Please, use one person as a representation for a much larger community. I'm not the one who loses in that scenario. I shared my view with OP because he asked for it. Congratulations on viewing the situation differently, but I'm pretty sure he didn't ask for TRP opinions, but feminist opinions. So good try.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/15 01:56 AM
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I already told him how I reacted, which was apathy. It's not my issue you're having so many problems reading both my and his post. Go find something better to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/15 01:26 AM
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And I'm explaining, no, that doesn't make me jump up and down with joy because it's a ridiculous statement. I don't know how much more clear I could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/15 01:19 AM
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Joyful as another man voluntarily removes himself from the possibility of being a rapist? Go back and read OPs post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/15 01:15 AM
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Good luck! Feel free to shoot me a PM if you ever want feedback or advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 08:40 PM
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A few weeks? That's not very long at all. It took me a month or two to meet someone on OKC, and I'm a girl (as in I probably get more inbox messages). It takes time. You should make an OKC account and post it on the subreddit for feedback. They're great about helping.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 07:44 PM
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Well, why is that so surprising? You just used an example of going to a club. Are you expecting to meet high quality people there? Have you tried online dating? Have you asked a friend to set you up? Have you tried anything other than doing the same thing over and over again? Platonic friends can give insight. Creepy usually isn't an isolated thing. But try asking your male friends, as they may be more comfortable being honest. However, don't completely write off that your female friends are cor…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 07:06 PM
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Don't ask someone who you don't know well that question. It's a terribly uncomfortable thing to ask, because what is she supposed to say? It's inappropriate. Ask a good friend of yours who would feel comfortable answering. I can't believe that you've put so much effort into this when you've never even gotten an outside opinion. This seems very, very internal. I can't imagine you could have possibly taken any productive steps if you never even knew the problem to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 06:37 PM
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Have you ever asked someone if you come off as creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 06:32 PM
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But the difference is no one has ever told OP he is being creepy. I think a lot of this is in his head.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 06:30 PM
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Tell me more about the relationships other people have had. You seem to know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 05:58 PM
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But why are you giving an example of that belief?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 05:57 PM
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So you're basing your entire decision on something that doesn't exist? You say you're doing this because you come off as creepy, but no one has ever confirmed that. And, trust me, after ten years you would have heard at least once. You can do whatever you want, but don't pretend this decision is because of other people. It's because of your own deep rooted insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 05:56 PM
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Has a woman ever told you you were creepy? How many? And when?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 05:44 PM
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But how does that fit in this context at all? It doesn't answer a question or contribute to the discussion. It just seems like you're looking for an excuse to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 05:38 PM
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This post is beautiful 👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 05:07 PM
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Dude, you have some serious self esteem issues. No, I do not jump with joy that a potential rapist has removed themselves from the dating market. What? What does that even mean? Should I be happy if a friend of mine decides to never leave the house again because then she's less likely to kill someone? Your logic is ridiculous. What program are you talking about? And why would I care whether or not you get with it? Dude, it's your life. If you're not hurting anyone, it is none of my business. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 04:56 PM
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I don't know why you included that bit about the patriarchy. That seems to be totally irrelevant. Are you hoping to get a rise out if people? Newsflash, no one except you will care if you go your own way. It's your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 04:51 PM
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I just wanted to pop in and say I'm really proud of you for losing so much weight and going back to school. That takes a lot of motivation and hard work. Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 04:49 PM
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So if you didn't have an answer... Why did you give an answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/15 08:01 AM
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I have no idea what you're going on about. Yes, there is an opposite viewpoint. No, Elliot Rogers didn't hold that viewpoint. So yes, I will acknowledge the viewpoint he actually had.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/15 04:40 PM
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Do people over the age of 16 still actually say butthurt? And yes, I reserve the right to be offended by someone who encourages rape. I won't be ashamed of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 08:48 PM
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We are the protected sex because we're viewed as toddlers. Did you even read my comment? Or do you have selective hearing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 04:30 PM
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Honestly, I don't give a shit if it's an ad hominem. I'm glad it was brought up because I don't want to interact with this person in any way shape or form. Same with Hitler. I'll just ask someone else if the sky is blue. Fuck people who think like OP. I don't care if it's a logical fallacy you salivate over on Wikipedia.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 08:34 AM
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Done! http://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2s2t0x/if_make_up_and_dressing_up_is_something_women_do/cnlo2u4
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 08:31 AM
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Because women are seen as equally helpless and innocent as toddlers. It's not a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 08:25 AM
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You do realize he wanted to cage all of the women, right? And use them as sex slaves for reproduction? And his plan was to annihilate as many women as humanly possible, all if he could. The men he killed were just inconveniences, not part of his ideology. Way more Russians died in world War 2 than Jews. We sympathise with the Jews more closely because no one wanted to exterminate Russians. If possible, all the Jews would have been slaughtered. It's the same with this. Although more men, or Russi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 08:23 AM
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Are we just saying random words now? Duck and terrain! Igloo and crafts!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 08:20 AM
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Yet you seem to think that the solution to his problem lies in the behavior of women. Seriously think about that as you read over the second half of his "manifesto".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 08:16 AM
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I also read his manifesto. The entirety of it. You should not feel sorry for him. He killed people who trusted him and many he never met. Whatever he was handed in life does not equate to his reaction. It is completely from within, and I refuse to sympathise with someone so vile inside. I am someone who suffers from mental illness, but at the end of the day we are responsible for our actions. He should not be excused. And bullshit you think that if he realized women were "shitty, manipulative, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 08:11 AM
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He's really tough! He can probably kill you. What an alfalfa.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/15 07:53 AM
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You're pushing all the blame. I haven't done anything. I just think it's hilariously hypocritical that you get mad at someone for being biased, and then follow with your own bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 07:27 PM
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It's literally the product of a study, jfc. There is no bias. It's the product of a study. If you're obsessed with science and biotruths, you should be salivating over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 06:35 PM
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I'm pointing out the irony that you tell women they're complaining about men, but you're the very men they're complaining about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 08:03 PM
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Maybe because they keep hitting asshole TRPers who emotionally abuse them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 07:03 PM
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Please correct me if I misunderstand. You're asking why we don't frequent a chat room? Why would I want to "chat" with people I don't agree with? I post here so that I can engage and others can see and learn from that engagement. I'm not interested in becoming buddy buddy with TRP people. Or really any people on the Internet. I love reddit, it's great, but I'm not looking to have casual conversations on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/15 07:40 PM
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No, I'm not. He compared men dying by suicide to women, so I compared women attempting suicide to men. It is literally the same thing he did, and I did this to illustrate a point that his statistic doesn't mean much without an understanding as to why it is happening. He used men's deaths to illustrate a point, and that was misguided because that is not the reason why. The reason why is well studied. So I explained the reason why, and used another statistic out of context to prove my point. I'm n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 09:23 AM
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Oh, haha. You're talking about my mod position on the Kailyn thing. I just became a mod, like, a day ago. This subreddit is an extension of another site that is currently exploding in a comedically spectacular way. A lot of the users have migrated over to the subreddit until another site is created. I'm only a mod to help prevent doxxing information spread about the owner of aforementioned site. The current mods are not crazy familiar with Reddit and were overwhelmed by the sudden traffic. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 09:20 AM
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By comparing unsuccessful suicides by women (lesser consequence) to successful suicides by men (greater consequence) as if they are equivalent, you are just confirming the idea that weak men are generally despised. No, he was drawing conclusions based off of a statistic he obviously doesn't understand. THis is how the topic was brought up: And that's why men commit suicide 3 times more often than women. I wanted to clarify what that statistic meant, and that it is not at all what he implies. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 06:44 AM
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You've failed to clarify what "the true nature of women" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 04:14 AM
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Come on, even you know why that argument doesn't hold up. The age of a movement has no indication on its success. If you can't grasp that, well, I'm not sure what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 04:12 AM
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This argument is consistently brought up to diminish the fact that men die at three times the rate of women from a certain cause, in this case suicide. It's not an argument. It's a fact. It's not an opinion I'm parading around. I will say this again: it is literally that men use more effective methods like guns. Women are twice as likely to attempt suicide. Men are three to four times more likely to die by suicide. This is not an argument, it is a fact. Guess what, no matter how much hand-waving…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 04:08 AM
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I'm sorry, what does that have to do with anything? Is your goal to have a discussion about the reducing birthrates and marriages, or just to diminish women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 04:07 AM
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No, it's literally men use more effective methods like guns. There's a ton of studies conducted on the discrepancy of suicides between men and women. Instead of grasping at straws, do yourself a favor and utilize Google. You'll find all your answers there so you don't have to fabricate reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 02:58 AM
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No, the pool of married couples are shrinking for a ton of reasons. Religious influence is going down, women are more likely to have their own careers and don't need to get married... the list goes on. You can ascribe whatever fucked up TRP theories you want to this. Both of these phenomena have been studied by people smarter than you or I, and it has nothing to do with "betas".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 02:54 AM
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Yeah, except it doesn't quite work that way. Look at OkCupid stats, for example. I think it was like 9-to-1 skewed towards man opening. Oh, and make sure to send a "non sexual" opener "that mentions something about my profile" and make sure your message "includes the word cauliflower so I know you truly read ALL OF THE THINGS". What does that have anything to do with the goals of feminism pushing women to approach men first? It's just an example of why it would be helpful to encourage feminism. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 02:39 AM
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And that's why men commit suicide 3 times more often than women. Um... no it's not. Men die by suicide more often than women because they are more likely to use more effective means, like guns. Women are more likely to use pills, so actually die by suicide less frequently. Women actually attempt suicide twice as often as men. Please don't say things that are completely unfounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 02:37 AM
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Feminists don't care about truth or consistency Wow, I never knew I didn't care about truth or consistency. Thanks for letting me know!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 02:33 AM
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This is already happening with the shrinking birth rates Um, no. That's because of the availability of effective birth control. This is why developed countries have decelerating populations while underdeveloped countries do not. It is due to the accessible birth control, not TRP or "sexodus".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 02:30 AM
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the red pillers should debate with /r/feminism, or /r/2x No, this sub is a debate sub. It is literally in the title of the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/15 06:11 PM
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I love your flair. I am in awe of its beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/15 06:51 AM
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If we're not worthy opponents then why are you on this sub? Oh, because you're full of shit. Stop replying to blue pillers if we're such a waste of time. I personally thank you in advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/15 06:50 AM
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Beautiful is subjective. As made obvious by this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 08:20 AM
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But we can all just wear the same clothing all the time, so no one can trick us with more flattering clothing. It's also not a given that make up is deceiving. For instance, purple lipstick is obviously not deceiving. No one in their right mind would think that was natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/14 09:58 PM
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Men, most of whom are kind-natured and not TRP men, don't intentionally deceive and manipulate women. But you just said that men don't intentionally deceive women, yet you gave an example of a man using something to intentionally deceive a woman just as often as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/14 07:08 PM
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Clothing is also supposed to make you more attractive, for both genders. That's why we have so many different types of clothing for different body shapes. Does that mean clothing is also deceptive?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/14 06:54 PM
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Does any man genuinely think a woman could have purple lips? Make up isn't meant to be deceitful. It's like clothing. No one expects you to believe that your shirt is actually your skin. If I was wearing a "natural" look and someone asked me if I was wearing makeup, I would say yes. Just like if someone asked me if I straightened my hair. It's not deceitful, it's just another way to present yourself. Like clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/14 06:46 PM
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You can consider it lost if you'd like. Everyone is entitled to their own perspective. But that's not where I'm coming from. What kind of wilting flower can't take a little aggression, the world's not your mom, it's not going to pull it's punches with you. As I outlined above, there was no reason to engage the way they were. I can engage with others who are less hostile. I enjoy debating, but I don't enjoy being insulted. If you don't think "wilting flower" is insulting, then you can debate with…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 03:46 AM
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No, it's a choice not to engage with someone who isn't be respectful. I don't owe them anything, and if I find the conversation, in any way, is inappropriate I don't have to deal with it. I can just go speak with the ten other people who are going to debate with me, but won't insult me. But interpret it as you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 03:06 AM
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That's not an argument to my reply. That's an argument to something completely different. Either tell me why what I said is wrong, or reply to someone else who's speaking about something relevant to whatever it is you want to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 10:45 PM
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You used the word "allow". By describing you, does a person write your destiny? Yes? If that person's description is taken as the truth by others. Are you trying to imply that the impression others have of you has no weight in your life? Because that's simply untrue. If TRP was a widespread philosophy, I would be in a very different place in my life right now. I find it interesting BP women so often conflate worth as a human being with comments on their sexual attractiveness. I don't, but TRP do…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 10:28 PM
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Is that a response to anything I said? Do you think you're disproving that right now? What kind of wilting flower can't take a little aggression, the world's not your mom, it's not going to pull it's punches with you. I am allowed to choose who I engage with. It's a pretty neat thing. I've decided it won't be with you. I hope you find the answers you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 07:07 PM
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I don't mind discussing my sexuality, to be honest. But I know that this isn't a "safe" environment, and there's a good chance that whatever I say will end up being used against me in some form of harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 07:05 PM
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Okay? I was asked for my opinion and I gave it. So... not sure what point you're trying to make. But thank you for the aggressiveness. It really helps your cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 07:04 PM
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But that is implying that the tactic is correct, and I am saying that I do not believe it is. If it were true, then I would not have choices. And I'm saying that I do. So him saying it is true is taking away my choice And I'm explicitly saying I do not like this tactic and do not want it to be involved in my life. At all. And now he's saying he'll still use it on me, and asks how I am in bed. So he's completely ignored what I said because he assumes he knows me better than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 07:03 PM
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Here is TRP constitution: http://illimitablemen.com/understanding-the-red-pill/red-pill-constitution/ I focus on this comment: 02.) – Women are irrational and inconsistent, they have a capacity for logic but they are not naturally inclined to reason with it. Women must exert concentrated effort to be logical as it is not their factory setting, unlike men who are, most of the time, rational in nature. A logical woman is easily baited into becoming emotional. Regardless of her intellect women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 06:57 PM
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I'm sorry, are you ten? Do you really need to phrase your response in 7331 speak? I'm going to say this one more time: if you're going to be aggressive, I'm not going to engage. Here is TRP constitution: http://illimitablemen.com/understanding-the-red-pill/red-pill-constitution/ I will draw attention to this quote: A logical woman is easily baited into becoming emotional. Regardless of her intellect women are much more likely to lose lucidity due to their hormonal composition and natural prefere…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 06:53 PM
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TRP doesn't automatically deem all women illogical. But first can you logically answer this question: What does a man have to do for you to fuck him? Does he have to say "I love you" 20 times? Be good looking? Marry you? If you can't even give a clear cut answer to that, I'm forced to believe that you act on emotions than logic. That's an incredibly poor argument. You haven't proved at all why an absence of an answer to that question would mean I act on emotions rather than logic. You're just sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 06:48 PM
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Let's assume that TRP philosophy is the cultural norm. Everyone is aware of it, everyone believes it. That is essentially the end goal of any philosophy, after all. I would not be allowed to pursue the academic path I am in now (applied physics). I would not be considered "logical" enough, regardless of how logical I actually am. At my core, I am completely "emotional" and I wouldn't be taken seriously. Everyone would think this way, and I wouldn't be given a second glance. I would not be allowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 06:40 PM
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it tries to strip me, as a woman, of my humanity and of my choices. I said it tries, not that it does. I still think that's significant. There's no reason to be aggressive. If you're going to continue to be aggressive, I'm not going to engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 06:33 PM
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This comment demonstrates what I just said very well. Even though I have just claimed that I do not agree with TRP philosophy, you have just ignored that and assumed I do. You have completely ignored my choice, and imposed your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 06:31 PM
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Sorry, I just edited my comment to give specific examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 06:27 PM
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I am actively anti TRP because I believe it tries to strip me, as a woman, of my humanity and of my choices. It attempts to dictate what I do and don't want and gives others permission to assume that role. The only person who is not allowed to decide what I want is, well, me. It says that I am not allowed to be logical, only emotional. It says that I am not allowed to be financially independent, only domestic. It measures my value based on my capacity to bear children. If I don't want children, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 06:24 PM
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If red pillers are so against outside input, then that's an incredibly flawed system. You should always be open to hearing other ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 06:20 PM
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You're still just saying things without providing anything solid. The previous links may not be impenetrable, but they are literally infinitely more effective than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 03:41 AM
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You keep making these statements, but you have no evidence to back them up. /u/bekkjarlalli has given you quite a few resources, but now you're just saying "agree to disagree"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 02:23 AM
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Do you mean "objectively" handsome? If a gun were pointed at my head and I absolutely had to choose one, I would choose person A. I've been with people of below average intellect, and it's a complete deal breaker. I become very condescending and I have a hard time feeling like an equal. It's not a side of me that I like, so I try to avoid traits in another person that brings it out of me. I believe you're getting so many "none" answers on 2XC because many women have "deal breakers", just like ma…
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