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Wrong sub...
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/20 06:35 AM
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I mean, how old are you here?
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/20 05:05 AM
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"Should" means "I want". 100% this, OP.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/20 05:01 AM
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This situation would give me high anxiety... she told one man she went on a date with in jest that she "hates all men", almost proudly telling me that afterwards and how the guy's look was just total shock and disbelief. Ah, so I'm guessing she is a part of that whole "supremacist movement" among jaded women that hate men? Yeah, I would be avoiding this woman for how she talks and approaches situations. You need to surround yourself with high-quality people - not her.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/20 02:30 AM
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I just want to be a woman... My advice to you here is to try and implement that strategy into your personal life as much as you can. date and be in a relationship (I want this) First off, you need to understand that there is a difference between 'dating' and 'relationships'. You need to understand that there is a dating phase (vetting period) before there is even a relationship; especially, if you feel like you have a bad time in this space. Also, it's mentioned all the time here, but you need t…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 06:04 AM
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Do NOT do this. I cannot stress this enough, OP... This is a trainwreck waiting to happen.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/20 12:52 AM
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I just started an exercise routine (weight lifting) because I'm skinny fat. I know what you mean here! Keep up a consistent routine, that is key!
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/20 02:04 AM
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I love the list!
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/20 02:04 AM
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I highly recommend getting into therapy, developing a healthy routine (i.e. lifting regularly, cardio, hobbies, etc.), and a good, solid diet (lots of greens). You have a lot of work to do and you need to establish a base first.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/20 02:03 AM
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On Friday he came around and said that he may need to move back to his home town and continue applying there. This sounds like the main issue of him breaking up with you. Why did he lead me on like this? He didn't... Life happened.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/20 04:11 PM
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I can't believe I'm telling a guy to do this, but you should start reading "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi. Based on your long comment, you have a lot of work to do on yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/20 07:39 AM
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Most women posting here are looking for a male-led relationship. I don't this male user understands this philosophy...
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/20 07:35 AM
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That doesn't really matter too much OP since you are in the dating phase with this guy - not in a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 04:11 AM
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I (24F) posted in r/relationshipadvice Good lord... You should have come here first! Anyone else stick it out for the better? Or ripped the bandaid and left "potential"? Let's not ignore the fact that you are not interested in carrying on here. Move on. You need to learn to vet men better during the dating phase, before even considering entering into a relationship with a man. I recommend you to start reading up on the info that the mods have provided here on this sub. In addition, you need to u…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 04:09 AM
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You are in the dating phase; not the relationship phase. Period.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 04:05 AM
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The Practical Guide to Men: How to Spot the Hidden Traits of Good Men and Great Relationships Written by Dr. Shawn T. Smith
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 04:03 AM
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Sounds yummy!
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/20 03:21 AM
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Women need to stop dating men like projects. It just doesn't work. This is something more women need to understand here...
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/20 02:21 AM
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I couldn't have said it any better myself!
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/20 03:51 AM
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This guy you are calling a "boyfriend" sounds more like a plate or a guy you are in the dating phase with...
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/20 03:49 AM
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Coworker recently opened her relationship with her husband so they could both ‘experience more.’ I don't feel sorry for anyone who "wants" to try an open relationship/marriage, then they figure out it doesn't work or they deal with some BS like this... My advice? I would be avoiding this co-worker like the plague. I mean do not even talk to her about your personal life. I avoid people like this as much as I can. You start to "friend" this woman, you will turn into a loser just like her. Avoid an…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/20 04:46 AM
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No kidding...
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/20 04:43 AM
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Here is the thing, OP... We (women) are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. I'm not sure where you got the "90 days" from to vet them, but in my experience, it can take much longer than that in the dating phase before even entering into a relationship. If you are in the dating phase with an HVM, then he will not be as quick to jump into a relationship since he has options compared to an LVM who might rush you into a relationship. You need to understand that you might b…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 05:33 AM
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Ignore her and keep doing your thing. I’ve only been there a month. Will this just take time? What should I do? Your priority should be you and focusing on your job - not her. Easier said than done, I know. But, this woman has a whole parade of red flags coming my way from your post, which does not only surround how she acts around the male colleagues. For the most part, I can guarantee you that some people there know what's going on, or, they will know what she is up to at some point. This isn'…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 05:02 AM
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This comment pretty much sums up everything you need to know, OP.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/20 02:55 AM
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The problem with that sub and a lot of the people involved in that sub is that they take everything to the extreme. Spend some time over at /r/deadbedrooms and read through the stories of women who were involved in relationships with men who neglected them sexually for nofap.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/20 05:58 AM
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Was this guy running game on me? It sounds like he was trying to the entire time... Either way, this guy was extremely unprofessional and did not focus on his job. Depending on my mood around this, I might be inclined to call the Walmart you were at and explain to them your situation. In addition, I would go to the normal place you usually go for your car. I would never bring my car to any Walmart to work on my car; especially, for a $12.99 oil change...
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/20 05:57 AM
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I spend a lot of time over at the /r/deadbedrooms sub and I will tell you that I wouldn't/will not get into a relationship with a man who is an LL, low interest in general intimacy, and/or involved in weird groups such as nofap (i.e. issues towards sexuality). This is one of the primary drivers on why I will not jump into a relationship with a man right away and vet him out for a longer period of time.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/20 05:39 AM
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However, when Richard Cooper says it. It's coming from a place of anger, resentment, and insecurity. It's coming from a place of, "All women are whores and will leave you for another guy they perceive to be a better option for them". I'm so mixed on the kind of advice that Richard Cooper gives to men because half of it I do agree with, while there is another half where I think he can take things out of context.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 05:41 PM
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“It’s just your turn” is kind of a damage control rationalization that gets used in case things go south for whatever reason This is so key here.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 05:24 PM
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I just want to share that when you own your sh*t around working out & eating healthy that you look & feel way better compared to making excuses not to put your health first.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 05:10 PM
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You are most welcome! Finally, I want to recommend you to read this book: "The Practical Guide to Men: How to Spot the Hidden Traits of Good Men and Great Relationships", written by Dr. Shawn T. Smith. This will help you out a little bit more when it comes to vetting men that you are interested in getting into a relationship with.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 09:05 AM
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Yes and no... When I was in therapy a handful of years back, my therapist was showing me a lot of research around "how long it takes to get to know someone" (in general). Basically, how someones actions match their words; you need time for that. For example, I have dated guys where I thought everything was going well in the beginning, then around the 6 to the 8-month mark, I would start learning things about them through their actions that I wasn't a fan of (i.e. excessive drinkers, etc.). I hav…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 08:28 AM
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Yes.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 08:21 AM
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That's why you need to get a dating pool of a handful of different men, which will allow the cream to rise to the top. Don't rush into a relationship either; spend around 6 months (min) vetting these men.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 08:20 AM
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I'm sorry, but you are wasting your time... Get out there and get some men in your dating pool to vet out for a 'potential' relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 08:18 AM
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I do it because it's my choice and because I love and respect my bf, I always make sure to put him first and no one else. (Except family of course) I agree with you on this 100%. My issue with "guy friends" in the past, such as the high school & university days, had to do with the fact they used that as some "excuse" to get close to me and then proclaim their love for me (extremely beta and unattractive behavior)... This happened with every single guy that "called me their friend"... I always to…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/20 04:26 AM
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In fact I honestly think a man being best friends with a girl gives me major red flags (unless shes a lesbian or family member) if they are just casual friends that's ok, but going out one on one together is just wrong... I agree with you on this 100%; considering, I'm not one to "hang out" with men as friends... This guy is definitely cheating on OP with this woman, no questions asked!
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/20 11:55 PM
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This woman isn't a "friend"... Leave.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/20 11:54 PM
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You should have moved on from this guy in the early stages of the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/20 12:16 AM
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months, and we are both in our late 20s. How long did you two spend in the dating phase before moving into the relationship phase? Seven months doesn't tell me (some of us) a whole lot here... How long did you date before becoming an official couple? Was it 2, 3, 5 months!? It's hard for any of us to give you solid advice until you break down when both of you became an "official" couple.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/20 12:11 AM
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An unpopular truth (that comes from clinical research around dating and relationships) around a lot of people out there; especially, those on the relationship subs on Reddit is the following: Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 06:36 AM
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I second "hug"; especially, if the guy you are about to see had any flirty text conversation beforehand!
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 05:42 AM
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You are so young that you should not be worrying about "being alone" or having these negative attitudes. But yes, I do recommend that you read the book. You will get some advice when it comes to vetting men for relationships and how to navigate and take your time. There is no need to rush into one.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 03:49 AM
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You are most welcome! Again, you are only 18 years old! You are learning so much about yourself right now that these experiences are important for your growth. I actually recommend a book for you to read... The book is called "The Practical Guide to Men: How to Spot the Hidden Traits of Good Men and Great Relationships", written by Dr. Shawn T. Smith. This book will give you some interesting facts and things to keep in mind when you are dating men for a potential relationship. Always remember th…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 03:18 AM
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Also, don't accept expensive gifts from men. You're not a virginal romance novel heroine. You don't need to feel indebted to anyone. This all-day long...
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 03:03 AM
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You are most welcome! I honestly recommend you to be vetting the men you are in the dating phase with for at least 6 months to get a good read on them. If you are seeing another guy (similar to this situation here) that wants to rush into a relationship within 6 or so months, be very wary of his intentions... High-quality men aren't so insecure that they won't submit you into a relationship ASAP. Slow down, turn off the afterburners, and let the cream rise to the top, trust me...
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 03:01 AM
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I have been talking to a guy who lives six hours away from me for about a month. I'm not a fan of long-distance and I don't recommend it to anyone. He’s fairly optimistic about us pursuing an LDR with me despite never meeting me. Red flag... Find someone who is closer and isn't interested in "rushing" into a relationship... He believes in two years I could eventually live with him as he believes he’d be settled by then. He talks about marriage and kids excessively. Multiple red flags... Honestly…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 02:33 AM
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If you have moved from the dating phase into the relationship phase, then I don't see a problem. The only issue I have is if you two are still in the dating phase and both have not mutually agreed to move forward into the relationship phase. That is when things can get a little sticky...
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 02:12 AM
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I want to add some other advice that hasn't been shared yet, but I do recommend the following: Eat healthy Work out regularly Cut out alcohol (limit it as much as possible) No drugs (i.e. stop smoking) Develop a good skincare routine I hope this helps!
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/20 11:45 PM
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Both of you should be in a 'win, win situation' with this relationship. You should feel respected and valued by him. You should be a compliment and valuable addition to his life.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/20 06:59 AM
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There is only one question to ask here: Do you feel respected in this relationship? Your answer should dictate what you do moving forward.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/20 06:45 AM
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I might be a bit late to this post, but I want to recommend a book to you, OP. You should read Dr. Shawn Smith's book; "The Practical Guide to Men: How to Spot the Hidden Traits of Good Men and Great Relationships" -- very good read. Ideally, from a lot of the research that I have done and read from clinical physiologists around dating and relationships, you need a solid 6 to 8 months vetting a partner for a relationship, and at least 2 years vetting a partner for marriage. In that book I recomm…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/20 12:01 AM
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