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curious_life_asdf/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:03 PM
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I didn't exclude myself from anything; merely stating that people with self-worth issues are gravitating to those who confirm this in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:16 AM
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People who grow up in dysfunctional homes date walking red flags, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:58 PM
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Thank you. Hope you find what you're looking for, stranger!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:22 AM
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I'm also kind of invisible generally; being "ok in life" is kinda table stakes. I try to have some social hobbies during my free time, where I can show my strengths and be at ease. Also helps to have friends who invite you to places and introduce you to people. And I got some success with OLD. Maybe there's a couple of things you can work on, like hobbies or charisma to be where you need in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:45 AM
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Ugh, that's a very personal choice, and no one can tell you what's best. Personally, I'd rather have had the discernment and emotional maturity I have now to pair with a compatible woman, and live a life full of love. Children are simply a manifestation of that love - and it really, really sucks for them when that love dies. Also sucks doubly for you. Would I recommend this path to a friend? No. Getting divorced with children is very painful. That said, I fully accept my life as it is now, I lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:16 AM
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Depends, but within 8 years either way, which keeps things on a similar level of life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:11 AM
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Um, ok :) I opened this account as I was experimenting after my big breakup. I was wondering how prevalent fwb was with women 30+. I'm actually in a similar fwb/situationship right now, which I'll probably end or clarify very soon as it's getting unclear. I've had a pretty serious gf for a few months, and quite a few dates in between, most of them very positive experiences. No BS on the being seduced story, I was actually quite shaken for my own personal reasons, I don't need to prove it. I'm no…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:08 AM
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You forgot nature vs. nurture, survivorship bias, and just open any social psychology textbook, and give me the index section.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:57 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:56 AM
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How? He uses TRP, HMV etc. and created a "funnel" for himself. It's transactional because he wines & dines them, tells the same interesting stories, uses technique in the bedroom, sends them all the same memes & texts. Even when he's with one "seriously", it's only serious for her. Trust me, he is miserable. Maybe not as miserable as if he were a lonely basement dweller, but it's the other extreme. How I act has had all the impact. Maybe my words haven't fully conveyed all I do, but these are th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:16 AM
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Haha, good for your friend! I'm a bit more "manly" where interests are concerned, but I've grown my social and emotional intelligence enough to have lots of common ground with many of the women I meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:57 PM
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Hi, It's not simple, and I still get rejected by women who don't like what they see, or who don't like my baggage, or I'm just not as genuine/grounded/cool when I'm next to them. No silver bullets, friend. I have a friend who's perfected a "system" whereby he gets girls left right and center, and has tons of sex. He dislikes women and sees it as transactional. He's miserable. So choose your goals carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:53 PM
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Thank you, fellow journeyer! I'm just dating casually now, however the knowledge of whom I'll show to my kids, eventually, gives a high dose of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:48 PM
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Hey! Thanks) We're amicable. We are 50-50, but I still do lots of housework on my off days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:44 PM
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We're 50-50, but I'm also doing housework and prepping for kids' time with me on my "off" days. Adulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:34 PM
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