The best relationships I've had have been when they're starry eyed about something you weren't overthinking and just liked to do because you liked to so it, for whatever reason.
Most guys tend to get a lucky opportunity for sex with a girl they perceive to be within their league once or twice a year or so at the least. Hopefully they haven’t “settled” at that point in time because that’s when cheating happens. It’s always shocked me that women knowing how men are don’t account for this. Not to say those women want anything serious.
I could literally feel the attraction evaporating any time I’ve done this. From the perspective of a woman looking for a partner who is “strong” in any sense of the word I understand.
The 200 drinks per night, to be fair if he has so much money that it doesn’t matter to him then fair play. I just know from experience that if a girl is attracted to you, everything that seemed so hard she suddenly throws in your lap.
Not true in a mental health/self esteem sense. Don’t know why it’s so hard for your lot to give us the same breathing room in regards to how we FEEL (believe it or not we are people).
Way too many racists on this subreddit to discuss this with them honestly. They can’t relate and their bitterness (due to racist beliefs and concerns) will just steer them down the “black people are the problem” path. Most people willing to discuss it here won’t know very much and will likely just start dog-whistling. The red pill community is pretty racist.
The problem you have here is that the women who post on here don’t have the amazing amount options you think they do and are actually much more likely to go for this “nice guy” than you realise. By nice you really mean overly shy and passive. Girls with a lot of options go for attractive guys who exhibit toxic behaviours but they are too busy having fun to be on Reddit.
No one likes being punished for another’s actions so I fully understand. For me even a whiff of gameplaying turns me right off and I would just stop pursuing. Everyone’s best relationships start with intense physical attraction right from the get go.
I would say the equivalent would be when men sleep with women they don’t particularly like the personality of/find attractive just to have sex at that point in time.
A woman wins when she has sex with a man she is attracted to, women do enjoy sex. A woman banging a guy she knows she can’t hold down is still a win for her.
