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Don't have sex with drunk people, bad idea. Okay to go to have fun but I wouldn't sleep with someone who's hammered.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 03:14 AM
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The problem is you're not describing a girlfriend, you're describing a therapist. Being patient if you're in therapy is one thing. Expecting women to act like a therapist is NOT. Random girlfriends are not usually trained counselors and a trained therapist if they're an ethical one anyways; wouldn't find it appropriate to be the therapist of their spouse or partner.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 03:12 AM
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"Slut, whore, skank" are just words the patriarchy uses to try to abuse and control women. Wanting and or having sex is normal. Do we call animals "whores"? No. We're animals too, but we forget that as it conveniences us. Long story short I found out that she would do a bunch of slutty things like gang bangs and excessive hooking up as a coping mechanism for depression. Did SHE say she'd have sex as a coping mech or did you assume that? My suggestion: You do not sound even a little bit ready for…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 02:33 AM
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For real. The guy is ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:39 AM
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Hard to tell if joking or serious. Stopped watching about 3 minutes in.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/20 06:50 PM
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If I read your response, I wouldn't have even bothered replying at all. You sum it up perfectly. When people talk about woman as if they're another species it's alienating; no wonder people the least bit healthy are generally repulsed by that kind of attitude.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/20 09:22 PM
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I'm not getting the vibe OP is here to learn and instead is just pandering to angry misogynists.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/20 09:18 PM
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I don't know but have you ever lived as an unattractive male before. I have seen otherwise "unattractive" people who are healthy, happy and well adjusted develop relationships despite the obstacles you have convinced yourself make it "impossible" to do so. You either choose to make excuses and be miserable, which appears to be your current choice OR you deal with your issues and hopefully, will become less miserable and eventually, when your whole life isn't obsessed with why you can't have a re…
/r/ExRedPill13/10/20 09:10 PM
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You can't say incels have mommy issues when no woman finds them attractive and they will likely live a life being ignored by the opposite sex. What you're failing to grasp here, is that the REASON that person is so unattractive is very often trauma aka "mommy issues" they just have shuffled under the rug, ignored, tried to just generally make excuses not to manage and those feelings bubble up as unhealthy beliefs and behaviors. You can't say that MGTOW have mommy issues because they find the mod…
/r/ExRedPill13/10/20 08:14 PM
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Basically, they need therapy for unaddressed or misaddressed mommy issues. Not shocking, but not an excuse to be abusive and hateful and the problem is those types are looking for excuses to be hateful and that's just not acceptable. You can be sad. That sadness is not license to harm others, and sometimes, men misconstrue their pain to be some kind of excuse to cause harm and that needs to be corrected not just for their mental health but the betterment of society.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/20 04:32 PM
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All of those things would be considered mommy issues, sure.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/20 10:40 PM
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What do you need explained about "mommy issues" ?
/r/ExRedPill11/10/20 08:57 PM
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Mommy issues, mostly.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 05:52 PM
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The article I read was not suggesting "self improvement so you remain desirable". No one is hating on people staying fit and what have you. That's not the issue people have with red pill. The issue people have, per that article as an example, is red pill as a theme encourages abusing women.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 06:24 PM
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Do you get the dread game is 100% abuse, then?
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 06:06 PM
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Uh-Huh and redpill pushes a lot of PUA ideas along with their own. Is this an accurate description of the "dread game"? Want to make sure we're talking about the same thing, because that sounds pretty toxic and insanely abusive.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 05:56 PM
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First thing off the top of my head is negging. That's abuse. For starters.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 05:46 PM
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Then why are you even here? You don't seem like you genuinely give a shit to understand the issues with red pill based on how you talk about women.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 05:43 PM
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The fact the red pill philosophy is in large part a guide on how to abuse and take advantage of vulnerable women. You do realize this, right?
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 05:40 PM
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Yup. I've experienced that before. Lack of reciprocation is a buzzkill and signals to me they're not interested so I move on.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 05:29 PM
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No, I don't want a man who's going to be abusive. Is it true that women have an inner soul that feels good whenever their man punishes them( You realize that's abuse right? If it works, it tends to be because the woman was abused in childhood and you're causing more damage to an innocent person. No, healthy people don't want to be "scolded" by anyone. It's not a gendered issue how people love. There's a variety of love languages that can apply to both men and women. If you open up with someone a…
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 05:28 PM
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You sound like you still have a lot of work to do to break free from the brainwashing red pill did on you. It depends what kind of person you want to be. Are you comfortable with abusing people just to get laid?
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 05:22 PM
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The pattern is essentially, last I knew, the more educated someone is the less likely they are to cheat. The rule is even more true for women. Are we really shocked though? More educated people having healthier relationships makes sense, I think. It follows basic logic. Same rule for marriages too. The more educated people are, the more long lasting they tend to be. Should people stay in bad marriages where they're unhappy or being abused? People have more freedom to leave toxic marriages. This …
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 05:13 PM
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I've never heard of him. Maybe he's only a "big deal" to his followers.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 05:02 PM
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I feel that pain. I was in a situation where I was paying 50-50 unbeknownst to me with someone making 4x the money I was. It wasn't even about the money so much as the unfair burden that ends up putting on a person. I was struggling, he knew it, did nothing when he could have. I felt so betrayed. Glad that's behind me. I hope that young women puts that terrible situation behind her too. He blew up telling me I’m letting my single friends get to me and that he’s not a simp or a “50/50” type guy. …
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 06:14 AM
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Finally, I would like to share that I believe most field reports to be false. 100% Can't agree more. Their field reports and those super fake throwaway sexist dating posts seem to all come from the same people perpetuating a false fantasy world.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 08:59 AM
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The "wall" is the point where women no longer fall for manipulation and realize these RP idiots for what they are -- PATHETIC LOSERS. So true. The older you get the easier it is to sniff out the bs and fake bravado.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/20 05:44 AM
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There's a bunch of accounts that suspiciously don't sound like it was created by a woman. They troll dating and realtionship subreddits as well for the unaware. To me personally, it's pretty obvious most of the time when a guy is pretending he's a woman.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/20 05:31 AM
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Its nothing but pure piss, vinegar and envy. Mostly a warped sort of bitter envy. The thing is it's all about what they would do if they were a woman. Then they project those ideas onto women as if women must behave like men trapped in women's bodies. Therefore, women must be sleeping all over like mad in private because that's what some men might do. But, in reality, most women I know just don't behave that way and wouldn't want to no matter how attractive they are. It's rare to meet people who…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/20 04:58 AM
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When I say red pill is abusive what you're saying here is exactly what I mean by that. Red pill teaches/encourages men to be abusive. To others and themselves.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/20 06:34 AM
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It's a consequence of cognitive dissonance imo. When you're attached to a belief challenging it can be uncomfortable. Smoking is a popular example. Such as a smoker telling themselves if they eat healthy it will cancel out the problems of smoking. It does not. The fact it does not is the dissonance part.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/20 06:02 AM
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I noticed that as well. Many posters not looking to change but rather just posting to soapbox and complain. What's the point? If people aren't trying to better themselves and repeat break rules, they should be banned. People like that are discouraging to people who see what a mistake they made, following an ideology that.... encourages abusing people. Imo, that's the big take away not to forget. Red pillers are abusers.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/20 07:19 AM
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You're not being honest and by being honest I mean you're not answering my questioning openly to learn, but rather.... you seem to looking to dig your heels into beliefs you know are hurting you otherwise you wouldn't post so much about them in an attempt to try to understand and deal with your issues. I notice this kind of attitude that you think feminism is somehow responsible for managing your personal issues as a man. As a woman, seeing a man try to tell women oh yet here is another thing we…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/20 02:54 AM
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What doesn't line up with reality about feminism? I'm not sure we're talking about the same thing or not. That's why I'm asking. Also, why do you think it might be that uniquely male experiences are not the focus or main mission of feminism? This comes back to if you understand the actual HISTORY of feminism and what it means. It sounds like you're projecting your mother as the be all end all of "feminism" and I'd suggest that's very short sighted, limiting your ability in which you see the worl…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/20 02:21 AM
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But you can see how that will turn some people off of certain things especially if they're not too well-versed in it I can see how what will turn off some people? Not sure exactly what you're referring to? And I think that's the main problem with mainstream feminism at least of what we think of it because as you mentioned the problems are different that should be respected equally and valid, a lot of people's experiences are not treated as such especially in feminist places such as uniquely male…
/r/ExRedPill04/07/20 03:29 PM
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The problem with comparing and contrasting is it becomes this game of who has it worse. Way, way too often it's only used as a tool to try to dismiss a woman who's shared some kind of horrible personal experience. It's not about who has it worse. It's about respecting our experiences are DIFFERENT YET EQUALLY VALID. There's an old saying comparison is the thief of joy or something like that. I think it fits nicely here. If people are comparing/contrasting in good faith, it's less so a problem mo…
/r/ExRedPill04/07/20 02:52 PM
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It sounds to me in the nicest way possible is you're wasting your energy on him when it deserves to be on you right now. Most of all, trying to make sense of crazy will drive you nuts. You can't logic with crazy at times and on some level need to accept that or you will go on and on searching for a key, an answer, something to give you solace. Solace for what? You're not crazy. You were in a terrible impossible situation that would be difficult for anyone. Have you heard the phrase you can't set…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/20 05:38 AM
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/r/MurderedByWords would like this.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/20 05:28 AM
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