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| 1 | What matters the most for a man?exactly. Only you seem to get it The actual answer is 'status', BUT as you rightly say, it needs to be on a certain level, and nobody on seddit is gonna be drake or whatever, so it's not worth worrying about The answer then, is looks. (because game and confidence on a girl who isn't attracted to you is useless ) | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 07:28 PM |
| 0 | What matters the most for a man?status (although it's not realistic to think about that. Not many of us are gonna be famous athletes or rappers etc) So really, it's looks, then game (looks get your foor in the door. If shes not into, then your 'game' won't help) | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Can you guys explain this?Yes. He likely needs to improve his looks so that he has a chance to 'game'/seduce the girls. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 08:11 PM |
| 5 | Can you guys explain this?Or he's just old , fat and bald or something, and he's hitting on hot 19 year olds. 'Game' has it's limits! lol Looks get you in the door, game closes it | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How to start a conversation with girls?type in 'infields' in youtube to get an idea. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 11:43 AM |
| 4 | This shit easier than I thoughtgood job. It's not too hard, right. Just keep shooting your shot | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 07:00 AM |
| 1 | How many of you on here have actually improved with women after spending time on here?you'd get beaten by me, and MURDERED by my handsome wings lmao | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 06:55 AM |
| 3 | Men's style 101looks come first when it comes to female attraction, tbh A confident guy who she thinks its ugly isn't getting her. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Sex appealgym, fashion. That's basically it (unless you wanna go extreme) | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | How many of you on here have actually improved with women after spending time on here?there's some laughable advice - one virgin was saying it's all about pheremone aftershave or something lmao! But overall it's OK - it's not rocket science. Approach girls. Flirt. If they think you're hot, it will lead to sex if you're not an idiot | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Remember Simple Pickup?simple pickup opened lots and lots of set lol | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | How does my Friend get all the girlsWe were literally just walking this week and a random girl just starts talking with her friend/man right there idk about how she would fuck him. that confirms it's nothing to do with his game or anything else. Just his looks. Don't worry about it | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Did my first cold approach in my life and it felt goodgood job | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How does my Friend get all the girlsbuy a bottle of pheremone oil or one of the aftershaves with pheremones in it if you want to bang any hot girl you see | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 05:52 PM |
| 13 | How does my Friend get all the girlsprobably better looking than you realise Guys aren't often good at judging other guys looks | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 03:45 PM |
| 23 | Approached my gym crush, it was the most awkward interaction I've ever hadi think people don't tend to include actual verbals in their field reports anymore becuse redditorts will always just use that as teh reason for the rejection, no matter what. If he opens direct adn says 'hi, I thought you were cute', people say 'never tell a girl she looks cute! Open indirect with a comment on her clothes'. Then if he opens indirect with a comment on her clothes and gets rejected, people comment 'never comment on a girls clothes! that makes you sound gay! Open by telling her sh… | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Approached my gym crush, it was the most awkward interaction I've ever hadit's a numbers game You took your shot and she wasn't into you. It's all good. Doesn't sound THAT awkward either, tbh There's nothing you could have done. On to the next!! | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 08:30 AM |
| 3 | Do you guys think Indian PE is legit? (The guy from playing with fire)A million times this lol If you saw uncut, unedited infield of the top coaches, or better yet, actually went out with them for a night, you'd no longer be especialyl impressed with any of them. They all get rejected and ignored just as much as the rest of us. It's a numbers game. They get laid because they put in the hard work (numbers. Increase the odds of stumbling upon a girl who likes you) | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys think Indian PE is legit? (The guy from playing with fire)None of us obvoiusly know either way, but what i'll say is that this is a business, and pretty much all of these coaches have been found out to be bending the truth or outright making things up at one point or another lol Hell, make a fake profile using his pics and see if you get the same results. | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Community is not helpfulI think it can seem very unhelpful because there's just so many moving parts. It also doesn't help that every single PUA expert disagrees about literally everything when it comes to 'game'. They all break each others rules, but all can show some success. But then how much of that success is simply a result of playing the numbers game? I'd say possible all of it! All of the 'best' get rejected so much that you start to wonder how relevant their game and techniques even are. I'm starting to think … | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 12:13 PM |
| 2 | How do you make conversation more fun?there's a big thing in hte community about how you shouldn't ask girls questions and how it's 'interview mode' and boring and how you shouldn't ask her things like what she does for a job or her age or what she's up too etc, and so they instead use all these techniques and stuff and make random statements, but I swear all it seems to do is make girls think you're a bit unusual lol I honestly sometimes think the best advice is to just 'be normal' and ask her things about herself after you open li… | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 10:02 AM |
| 2 | How do you make conversation more fun?I think a lot of the time it's just not your fault I approached this really cute girl on Saturday with confidence and used an obserfvational opener, and then went into some cold reads about her, and I even transitioned into some lines that I got that evening from a freind who sent me Todd Valentine new course so I know what I was saying was good game (flirting/teasing/assumptions etc) but she couldn't have cared less lol. The whole time it was just me gaming a girl who seemingly had no attractio… | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 07:26 AM |
| 129 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?I saw this asked before on this sub and the general consensus was along the lines of (paraphrasing from memory): ''I actually don't mind being approached, as long as it's not at a time when I clearly look like i'm busy or i'm doing something where i need to concentrate like i'm working on something etc. Most importantly I need them to be able to take a hint and stop trying to 'win me over'. I'll make it pretty clear after you've approached if you're someone I want to be approached by (you're my … | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | "Looks don't matter, it's your personality that counts."he would have no idea what redpill and bluepill even mean, although he's no idiot and he's aware that he's good looking and that this is what gets him girls. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/09/22 04:44 PM |
| 5 | What does my friend mean by “stop trying”?He was approached by a girl twice that night. I asked him how tf he does it So he's very good looking if girls are approching him. His advice is so silly lol It reminds me of a field report I read where someone was making loads of approaches using 'game' but he was getting rejected, but he mentioned how his handsome friend just spent the night playing on the fruit machines and girls kept trying to pull him, and all of teh 'advice' on seddit was like 'be like your friend? Notice how he was just c… | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 08:20 AM |
| 1 | "Looks don't matter, it's your personality that counts."i find it beyond laughable that this 'girls don't care about looks', 'girls aren't visual' is still told to guys lol. (obviously mainly in the pickup industry etc) It's honestly the same as being told 'women don't have taste buds adn can't taste food' or something. It's just obscene lol. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/09/22 07:22 AM |
| 3 | For guys who have gotten into cold approach and started feeling confident about it, what’s your success rate like?in fairness that was daygame. I'd expect his results to be a fair bit better if he was too appraoch girsl in bars. (many who are there to literally find a guy they like and hookup). Also if you wait for IOI's in a bar like my handsome friend does, his appraoch to lay ratio is through the roof! But janka approached girls without IOIs. And in the day. You need to really get lucky. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 06:51 AM |
| 6 | For guys who have gotten into cold approach and started feeling confident about it, what’s your success rate like?I don't believe so - I have lots of his writings. I'll see if i can find his quote i'm thinking of, but 2.2 rings a bell lol you might be thinking of his phone number to lay ratio? | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 10:03 PM |
| 28 | For guys who have gotten into cold approach and started feeling confident about it, what’s your success rate like?i'm not sure i'd worry about what a redditor tells you tbh. Infields give you an idea of what the pros get. In fact, daygame legend Paul Janka said his approach to lay ratio is 2.2% I believe. That's with all of his infinite game knowledge. Nobody here knows more than him for example. So don't expect an easy ride! It can be fun, though ps - I also wouldn't get too caught up in comparing your results to others. There's some seriously important variables, some of which are completely out of your c… | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 09:41 PM |
| – | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsLike they say, 'looks get your foot in the door, game closes it'. if you have no game you might struggle. But of the girls don't think you're hot, then it's already game over | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 08:45 PM |
| – | phillipines, cambodia to pick up girls, is it easy?my bad. I didn't read your post properly and thought you said you were white. I'm white, but i'm not really that attracted to Asian women in general, so haven't bothered going there myself | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 01:41 PM |
| – | phillipines, cambodia to pick up girls, is it easy?If you are white guy from the US or whatever, then either will be a lot easier than what you are used too. A lot. (although i have read that although a hell of a lot easier, it's not QUITE the cake walk it was 10+ years ago) | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 01:09 PM |
| 1 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...I call it what it is, nature's calling, its always there, nagging you when you see an attractive girl that you cannot have. even for fairly good looking guys there will be a huge percentage of super hot girls who just aren't into him and who he cannot have. It's just life. Exception is if you are ridiculously handsome, and also ideally rich and famous lol | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 11:37 AM |
| – | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsBut 'gIrLs ArEn'T ViSuAl' ?? - why are they suddenly into you now that you look better?!!! haha good job dude. Enjoy it | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 11:02 AM |
| – | Approached a lot of girls in the club this weekendthis is a game/seduction sub in case you didn't know haha | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 09:00 AM |
| – | Approached a lot of girls in the club this weekendgood job I approached this weekend too. One thing is that i'm starting to think that it's just not your fault if the interaction goes nowhere. It's like the success of the interaction is kind of pre-determined One of the sets was this hot hungarian girl and I was using assumption stacks and some ToddV pushpull lines, building premise, talking super slow etc, and even though she wasn't super mean, she just wasn't giving anything back and so naturally the interaction just stalled out. I was kind o… | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 07:07 AM |
| – | Do you only initiate/show interest if it is obvious that the girl is into you?the most important one is 'does she want you' haha. That's why you need to shoot your shot, escalate, and find out. If not, move on to the next girl until you find one who does want you | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 07:20 AM |
| 2 | I started cold approaching for 2 weeks and im loving it!!good stuff dude! It's fun sometimes (although the really mean, bad rejections aren't fun haha, but on we solider!) | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up there?i think 'the game' is the biography. and the mysterymethod tells you exactly what to say at each stage. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 08:14 PM |
| – | Did I fuck up there?did you try it? I gave it a good go years back. Girls didn't seem to get attracted by the stuff in his book (dhv stories and negs) Did you give it a go? It tends to get ridiculed on here from what i've seen and is considered way out of date and wrong, so was suprised to see someone advocate it | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 08:07 PM |
| – | Did I fuck up there?i've read mysterymethod of course. But in real life, he gets rejected a lot too good to have certain 'beliefs' even if they are not true if it helps you appraoch, but they're certainly far from the truth in general ps - girls certainly do approach! maybe it's because i'm younger than you and things have changed, but i have good looking friends who get approached and hit on non stop | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 07:48 PM |
| 3 | 1- 10 how can the voice increase your value?you have a penis.... you are her type. Haha! I like the idea. But in the real world that's certainly not how it works. Girls reject guys on sight all the time. but yes, she certainly is my type. But that's not the 'only question' (because they will oftne rekject you! haha. SO what really mattesr if you are HER type) | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Seduction tricked you and that's the way it's "supposed" to work.but isn't that kind of denying game and seduction? | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Seduction tricked you and that's the way it's "supposed" to work.Once I changed all of this and started socializing like a normal guy, women were almost too easy. so drop the techniques/game and just be normal and chat basically? (and if she's not ito you accept it's out of your control kind of thing? game can't really help?) | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 01:23 PM |
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