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1	I got a girl's number on the bus and I asked her out a few days later. I got rejected, but it was such a nice rejection and the whole experience boosted my confidence a bit. For anyone who fears rejection and for any women who's unsure about how to reject a guy, this is the way it should go down: I had a similar direct rejection earlier this year when I asked a girl out. She just straightforward said, "No." Not in a harsh way, but in an understanding way. Her face had a look of sympathy. I tried rephrasing the question and asking about going out for different things on different days and she kept at it - "No." It was refreshing to be turned down so bluntly yet so kindly.	/r/seduction	02/09/12 07:18 PM
5	Why Looks Don't Matter The point of the post is to work on yourself to become what you consider attractive.	/r/seduction	20/08/12 01:12 AM
1	Stop Negotiating With Yourself. Yes. You. "Many people negotiate too much with themselves. Rather than going after their dreams, they construct a medley of reasons why they shouldn't have what they deserve." What do savvy people do instead? They walk in and say, “Want to sell me that car? I’ll give you $30,000 right now. Deal?” What’s the worst that could happen? The salesperson might laugh and escort you out. I work in auto finance and I assure you this would never happen. With that high of a percentage of the car paid off in cash, the dealership would try to make it work somehow - likely with a few different loan options. Though they probably wouldn't take the $15,000 cut.	/r/seduction	14/06/12 03:32 AM
7	Advice from an experienced, natural 68 year old man. Never divorced with a wife who is still dreamy-eyed for him. I look at it like this: Don't let other things control you - weather it's women, your job, parents, friends, whatever. Be self vindicated. This is what it is to be a man.	/r/seduction	20/03/12 02:48 AM
1	Advice from an experienced, natural 68 year old man. Never divorced with a wife who is still dreamy-eyed for him. Your local library.	/r/seduction	20/03/12 02:42 AM
7	[For Newbies] Nice Guy Syndrome: What it is and why you should kill it with fire [LONG] A good way to look at it that sometimes helps me is to think, "If a guy friend was acting like this, would I help?" It can sometimes help me see that I'm in it for the wrong reasons or that I've been a doormat just because she's an attractive girl.	/r/seduction	24/10/11 07:20 PM

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