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I like your take a lot and I will admit I recognize myself in it, although I am not 100% red pill myself. I just have one problem with your statement: "No individual should know this level of detail such as hypergamy, or AWALT etc. to such a degree. Why not go out into the world and put the learning to the test?" So two things here: Why should individual not know about these things. While I understand that someone in puberty who is still developing mentally might take this things in bad faith an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:17 AM
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Extremely disingenuous question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:38 PM
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It didn't work out. In my social circles, I was known as a guy who really wants family and people were looking at that like some crazy conservative sh**. Worst thing is, since I started hiding my family ambitions, my luck in the dating world increased.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:00 AM
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About not having a common past. I literally know people who do not give a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:12 PM
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Amen brother or sister
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:11 PM
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I was not alone until this point in my life. Simply put, relationships did not work out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:10 PM
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Truth be told, I legit think most people simply do not care about that, so maybe we should adapt?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:07 PM
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One commentator here mentioned something which truly resonates with me. I am 32 atm, and whoever I find now will not be someone I shared my youth with. While to many people it may seem I am living in my own past, this thing really matters. From poverty to where I am now, I was not with my "future SO", but the "future SO" will benefit from my years of living in modesty and saving money for future. Now, what other commentator did not touch upon, but I will: once you get in relationship, girls from…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:38 PM
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As I said, there is bad advice. It takes same wisdom to recognize good advice as it takes to recognize bad. Failing is failing neverthless
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:45 AM
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I did not want to just get it wet and it probably had influence. I do not want to show off, but somehow when I get into relationship I always do it with a girl few levels above me in attraction scale. And I will not lie to you, it played to my ego a bit also.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:30 PM
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So discrimination is ok in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:18 PM
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I am not sure about desperation part. There was something missing in my life for sure, but I would not bet majority of desperation came from need for sex. I am in much "stupider" mode when I want some companionship, while when I just want to "get it wet", somehow I think more straight. Relationships started in different ways, but nothing out of ordinary (meet at work, through friends etc.). Also I am incapable of faking my intention, I am as transparent as it comes. My main problem in relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:01 PM
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That is the Romeo and Juliet scenario and I understand this perspective. But in my opinion there are more cases where people got in trouble for not listening to their elders. There is good advice and bad advice, but more often than not, I notice people skip over good advice and expect later on to not be reminded they were warned. Just my two cents
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:51 PM
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If we are all individuals left to our own devices, I would expect for countries to be organized in a fashion that if you have a problem, fix it yourself. However, in most countries there is a significant expense in giving money to poor people and kids who get raised in the poor environment. Remove this from society and only then I will accept we are not part of the collective. And sorry but your last paragraph is just not balanced, women get to explore, while guys get to work? Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:47 PM
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Not so much, because from my experience, a lot of people around me would avoid so much emotional trauma if only they listened a bit more to their elders. Part of being younger is being rebellious, but in my book it is not an excuse for stupid decisions. Therefore, the electric plug comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:41 PM
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It wasn't actually the low point in my life. I actively dated bitches (LTRs), because quite honestly, I was complete freaking moron blinded by lust. I really had lustful sexual lives with my GFs (not that I had it a lot in my life) and due to inexperience I couldn't recognize some character traits on them which would later bite me in the ass. Also, I never click with low-n women, mainly because I am extremely talkative and jokester and they always think I am some kind of "player" and start avoid…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:39 PM
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Depends on where you live. Where I come from, you are definitely in the minority. I was like you, until I F'd it up bit later in my life :) So it is more of recognition that you survived where I died ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:24 PM
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I am going to bite: why is it normal that people have multiple relationships and flings? What is the benefit of it? Before you answer to figure out yourself, my immediate counter question is did you put your fingers in the electric plug to realize it will kill you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:23 PM
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We are thinking along the same lines, what I wanted to point out is that existence of marriages in today society is not proof that people are finding their happiness and love. I am not sure how old are you, but I lived throughout 90s where divorce was being normalized in the society (I come from a place where arranged marriages do not exist for already some time, so most married people were married by choice) and that definitely left "a stain" on my way of thinking. I would say that existence of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:21 PM
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I am sorry, but wtf.....? You obviously have previous trauma with guys who "love bomb" you and you proclaimed them red pill because you do not like both things and your brain said "enough of description". And because you have trauma, you are literally the proof this shit works :) Someone who is a bit of a pushover is not a normal person. This is your extreme selfishness literally swimming out of your mouth. For you the normal dude is someone who is going to let you walk over him here and there. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:11 PM
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How do you explain the whole cultural shift to make divorces normal? Every divorce was preceded with marriage and when divorce happens: "CaN yOu bELIeVe iT?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:54 PM
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I do not want to be devils advocate. But every girl somehow claims that their guy doesn't use the "game". Yet every guy will admit he snatched that girl using the "game". Btw, you completely misrepresented pill logics, because your guy actually sounds more "red pill" than "blue pill", as in he put the effort in to be attractive and was grinding success, which is kind of in the center of the RP philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:53 PM
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That is literally what I said :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:45 PM
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My hats off to you. I am aware people with head on their shoulders exist, just they are very few and in between. Kudos to you ;) P.S. Sue me, I am not paying you :P
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:40 PM
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Being conscious is one thing, but the society back then didn't give any social importance to such dilemma. From that perspective it is a new phenomena in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:35 AM
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Erotic validation was almost nonexistent in context of marriages in previous times and was only "introduced" in the sexual revolution. The real dilemma which you are alluding to is a bit different in my opinion: "why commit when empirical evidence indicates that the commitment is not a requirement for the sex". What most people fail to realize in my opinion that the value of deeds provided to you is almost completely dictated by the context and someone's past sets the part of the aforementioned …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:11 AM
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If being a player is not seen in positive light by women, how do you think these guys became players? The more I read some female responses here, the more I understand why intimacy is something completely incomprehensible to them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:44 AM
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I did give you upvote, but still I am sorry you feel like this, since it is almost like I read my own thoughts. I will assume you are in your 30s, so a sincere question; when do you feel was the last time you truly loved your GF if you had any recently?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:47 PM
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I agree men aren't traditional. But come on, really, do you think women do not expect men to be traditional? Many people here have tried to give reasonable and nuanced answers, but I will be blunt as it goes. Whenever I had casual sex with a girl (most of them feminists) and I decide to not pursue relationship, I am called shallow and claims of me using that girl are being thrown around. It doesn't matter that those girls would usually be the loudest one in preaching sexual liberation. "It is aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:09 PM
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I would change "humour" to "humour type". I am really cynical and dark in my humour so either a girl will hate me or absolutely adore me. No middle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:54 AM
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Fair enough, this is already a subjective difference between us, but I definitely see how your view could be more valid than mine ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:38 PM
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Bro, I am not a conservative. Can you write one sentence without anything you assume in your head. No, you can't. The reason for my vocabulary is simply put that you are person not worthy of respect by everything I read here and you always look to elevate yourselves. That gf you have, go and talk to her like that ;) Must be a catch
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:34 PM
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Btw, I just saw your other comments hailing communism. Sorry for calling you asshole, just a complete moron and hypocrite. Peace out,bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:25 PM
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I am sorry but what my problems? I literally wrote that equation out of my personal experience. Do you have comprehension problems dude, like wtf? Or are you just trying to find the reason to pat yourself on the back for sticking your dick in someone? Honestly you leave impression as such an asshole just trying to poke at someone The responsibility part is just something I was thinking I was writing to other person (I had a discussion with a girl in parallel), my bad on multi tasking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:24 PM
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About your last paragraph, I never wanted to claim that, maybe I just wrongly expressed myself. I am a type of person who never blames my exes for my relationships, I always blame myself for allowing them to happen. I hope you understand while I do empathize with you, I still hold you most responsible for your own dating life by extension. But that doesn't mean you are bad or lost value. Just human who at the end of the day is going to be slightly judged by other humans ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:19 PM
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I am so sorry that it happened to you. I shared your pain few times in my life also. Never accept it and stay strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:34 PM
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Only and only if other side reciprocates. And btw, you literally do not need to put effort in relationship for sex, that is literally the point of the whole sexual liberation. For you all seems transactional quite honestly with zero self responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:23 PM
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First and foremost, I am sincerely sorry for your negative experiences, hopefully future gets better. My question was influenced by some anecdotal experiences, but if you do not fit the mold, actually my hat off to you. Just a word of advice (if I may): many men can smell "problems with exes" and will not consider you girlfriend material because of it (I will admit, I also think like that). If you see every future male through the lenses of old a-holes, you will put yourself in very dark place. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:04 PM
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I am sorry, but either you are disingenuous or intellectually limited. Nowhere in my post I alluded my wishes or anything similar, I was just trying to pinpoint of the reality many people face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:59 PM
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Did you ever receive advice to avoid such type of men? And now honestly, did you dismiss that advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:37 PM
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And again, did you ever put your fingers in the electric plugs. How can you know it won't kill you if you never tried it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:53 PM
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Everyone makes mistakes along the way, I am no saint either. But guys have far more steady preferences compared to the girls. Another thing about your comment, yes that young girl maybe used you for a car, but a car is much cheaper than a house. Again latter is more effort needed. One nasty joke in my country is: "Main difference between a hooker and a wife? Hooker is cheaper" What you lack in your understanding is that things sometimes take time to build. For example, I am from poor background …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:51 PM
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If downs are induced by one person, it is not a relationship problem, sorry. And I really do not get how do people do not understand following mathematics: steady casual sex > rare committed sex + responsibilities What part of this do you not understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:27 PM
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Let me try another angle on this topic, since it has been discussed ten years on this subreddit and it always goes in circle. Let's completely also get rid of the value system (youth, beauty etc....) Now, even most women would admit that their preferences changed over years from excitement to stability. And it happens around late 20s/early 30s. Not only that, but most women admit that their previous choices were stupid etc. Now big question for you, why would anyone want to date someone who admi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:07 PM
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Sorry, but my experience is completely different. During my PhD days, I was actively playing basketball and I was playing in the band. However, girls would always ask me: "What else am I doing in my life?" because for them, doing a PhD in physics is simply boring and I should overcompensate with interesting hobbies, so in the end, I could only talk about playing in band. Not a single girl had a steady hobby which was going for multiple years, but are constantly jumping hobbies after month or two…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:31 PM
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Self esteem is a nice catch phrase, where you are not in position to admit why you actually love your partner. I had a slight glow up phase in my 20s and suddenly all people that thought I was arrogant, suddenly were admiring my self-esteem (still cannot believe this happened to be honest). Also, when I stopped having financial problems, suddenly everyone noticed my boost in self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:19 PM
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For a person in 30s, you for sure sound like someone in high school
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:48 AM
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I think you missed one huge point, young people are not delighted to follow advice. I heard many advices like this fall flat regardless of gender in that demographic. It sucks but it is what it is. The part where you write about girl "stringing" the guy, I think it is not a gender thing, but much rather an individual thing. Every girl with backbone says no clear as day, the ones who string are usually completely useless in every aspect of their lives, since confrontation is a skill which needs t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:34 PM
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You do not understand the difference between to give something or to be paid to give something. Huge difference. Once again, I dated girls who thought like that and guess what they continued dating till today, because at the end of a day, everyone tolerates it for a month and goodbye. Same way you are not accenting your boyfriends, but the man you date.....huge difference
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:25 PM
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Ok, you lack reading skills
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:03 PM
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What seems to completely go over your head is that the way you act reflects on you. You cannot just put "I want this so what" label on it and think it excuses your behavior. If two parties think in the way "I will not do something for him/her until he/she does it to me" than nothing will happen. You are detriment to your relationships and definitely not a contributor. ​ "The ones I want to date don't mind" Let me reveal you a secret as a guy, we do not mind when we observe a woman as ass and tit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:30 PM
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I get irritated by any human being who is purely driven by emotions, because it shows the lack of maturity, intelligence and self-control. I am not saying everyone should be stoic monks who never experience any emotion, but how you react upon it is what it counts. When it comes to "forcing compliments" in relationship, God how I hate it. I give compliments pretty often, but it is never enough. One aspect which I did not see anyone touch upon, at one moment her compliments lose all credibility, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:54 AM
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Answer my question. Btw your empty phrase talking is really reflecting negatively on you. I hope for you, that live you do not sound like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:16 PM
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What about women which voluntarily objectify themselves? Do you think Kardashians are more followed by women or men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:58 PM
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I am sorry, but which part of your brain does not understand the most obvious thing: he is attractive to the most attractive women on planet
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:35 PM
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Just admit it, you do not like STEM people because it is not a profession that you will proudly show off to friends. And being an engineer definitely correlates more to the competence compared to charisma or emotional intelligence. Do not take this as a personal attack, but in my experience people who use catch phrases like social and emotional intelligence are usually gaslighters with no capacity of self reflection. Example: if your gf is complaining for no reason (flip the genders if necessary…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:03 PM
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To some extent I agree with you, but expecting someone to constantly be kind to others, while that same thing is not reciprocated to the person in question is borderline mental torture. The stupidest analogy I can think of is that you are forced to cook for some people, but are forbidden to eat with that same people. At one moment, you will start resenting cooking and soon enough you get boggers and come (oh boy do I love that Southpark song)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:37 PM
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Also additional thing about "past is in the past". Most people want ambitious partners and are dumbfounded when they figure out that someone with ambition has a past of ambition. In many relationships I had to answer to girls how I got my saving, live independently in my early 20s from poor background etc. etc. What always actually proceeds from this is that they do not respect such a life decision (which emotionally hurts me more than anything), because you guessed it "past is in the past", but…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:28 PM
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You are fighting a battle which you cannot win, because most people accept below average stuff in their life with mantra "I am happy with what I have". Second of all, most of people are narcistic as f*** and honestly do not care about others. Look at most people down here how they are defending it through the lens of "been there, done that, not interested anymore". Now anecdotal evidence why this line of thinking is extremely hypocritical. My ex found out I took my previous ex on two week road t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:48 AM
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Could have been, but maybe he just enjoys it......who would know
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:08 PM
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While I generally agree with this sentiment, I saw married people with children who have that look. Additionally, you are aware this is just reverse of "cat lady"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:19 PM
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Dudeeee. You have seasonal jobs at touristic places. As someone who grew up in touristic environment, fix your own life before you go on shitting on some 19 year or 20 year old. Fast forward 10 years and most of your colleagues are going to be miserable, including probably you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:28 AM
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As a late bloomer myself, this just reads depressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:11 PM
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For me, making feel someone special is not just connected to sex. I was talking about a relationship as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:01 PM
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I just disagree with one part of your post. In general, yes making a woman feel special will probably spice up your sex life, but only under one condition: if she is actually grateful for your effort. I sincerely believe I made my exes feel special, but the idea of reciprocity with some of them completely went over their head. I hope I did not maybe sabotage some part of my relationships due to not being grateful for something, because it is by far the stupidest way to sabotage a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:28 PM
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I am not a huge advocate for celibacy do not get me wrong. However, your question is why are they doing it and not the other thing. My elaboration summed up: because they can
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:10 AM
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They do it because there is no consequence to having a hoe phase. And most arguments I read here are in my humble opinion, idiotic. "I need to figure out what I want in a partner"/"I was experimenting" Most people that say this only apply this to love life and nothing else. Where I come from it is pretty normal for a person to work same job from college to retirement and I never heard people saying that that they need change jobs to figure out what they want. Because guess what, it takes work "I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:50 AM
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I understand your take, but you are a bit off with your guess. I am not in USA so the divorce is not as harsh as is there, so the marriage is not a retirement plan. Also character wise, it is visible from the start I cannot be either fooled or controlled and most of the time, they never even know the amount of my salary or savings. Example, when I have some extra costs, they always jump in with offering to lend money. Only after 3,4 times it occurs to them, money ain't that problematic. Plus, 5 …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:36 PM
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Where did I say I was left? I literally said I dumped them (get reading skills). I give every person a bit longer chance, because in my opinion 99% of people always present themselves in their imagined form not true form. They were not carefree travelers, but they wanted to leave such an impression. Every single one of them. English is not my native language, but really......saying females somehow dehuminazes women? Is the word feminism or womenism? 50% is still risky btw. I will assume you did …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:09 PM
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It drives me crazy because I want to father kids and build a stable family (my parents divorced, so it is my deep personal wish), but I cannot say a name of a single girl I know that I would want to marry. Dating wise, standard is pretty low, but for relationship I am getting pickier and pickier with age. Probably way too much picky
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:37 PM
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I will answer you, but then I will critique a bit how you approach your topic. I am in my early 30s, highly educated, finances are still on a rise, but I am already in the position to be a sole provider to a family with two kids in my estimation. Third one would be hard, but soon in future, I will probably be in a position to provide up to 4 kids and a SAHM (I am using SAHM due to it representing financial extreme, not that I am searching for one). Recently, I got out of a bit longer relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:46 PM
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Care to elaborate this comment a bit more?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:26 AM
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This is sooooo high school
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:55 PM
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I agree with you, that is why I do not buy this thing where most girls say they want someone with whom they can talk about intellectually deep stuff. From my experience, casual photographer BSing about chakras can always get more girls compared to someone who knows actual stuff on the deep level. But, that makes most girls liars and that is a huge problem if you want something serious with them. I only asked once a girl how she improved my social life and she started crying immediately, since of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:22 PM
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For me this topic is pretty interesting, since most comments are in complete opposite of what I observed. Have a PhD in physics, Petrol head, play guitar and piano and yet with every GF they never found that interesting enough and more than once I heard comment "how I do not do much in my life". Because I have tendency to keep the conversation going I would always ask what is missing and every f****** time "We do not go out in theaters or something like that". And every time, I was more artistic…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:53 PM
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You do you. I am not lying. If I would lie, it would be much better. Ragu is elementary recipe which anyone can do, Merlot is bought from the supermarket 2 meters outside of my apartment (not mansion). It is not that complicated to make stuff like this when you are adult. Also, I am not winning fake medals, nor winniing fake missions, just goofing here and there with my friend, I rarely game solo. It just serves as a relaxation after hard day. But this last paragraph of yours, bitch you just cro…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:37 PM
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I was not precise in my original response now that I reread it, so sorry for moving a goalpost a bit. But as I said, two of us are like minded, moderation is the key. I guess what I was trying to say is that the "rule of moderation" is not applied equally to every hobby (which you also explained in your last paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:28 PM
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This subreddit did not change any of core opinions I have, but definitely some nuances were added to my opinions. While I have a lot of female friends, there are perspectives which they are probably not comfortable sharing in person, but the anonimity gives a lot of courage to many people (me included) so some of my opinions were heavily challenged here. But to be completely honest I read every comment here with a pinch of salt, since a lot of comments sound like they are written by peoplr who l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:25 PM
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I am just mixing a nice ragu for 3 hours. That is why I have time atm to promptly answer. Ingredients are bought by money ehich I earned this morning and later on my GF is going to enjoy a nice Bolognese with some Merlot. But if she sounded like you, ex in a second. You do have a problem :*
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:19 PM
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Videogames is a pretty low investment hobby so there are more peopl e consuming it. For being a petrolhead you need certain finances and not everyone can afford it. I understand where are you coming from, do not get me wrong, we are more like-minded than this conversation might indicate. It is just that I cannot escape the feeling that some of your opinions come from a stereotype which gamers have. For example, Vin Diesel is a complete nolifer who is hardcore into World of Warcraft. But because …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:16 PM
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I have a real job, thanks for caring for me you are so sweet. Guys love good meals, go in kitchen and become a real woman. If you cannot you are loser. See how idiotic you sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:05 PM
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First of all, I wasn't discussing porn, since we have similar opinion in that part. Sorry for not being clear in my previous responses. Look, some people are passionate about hobbies, but we only stigmatize gamers. I know a person who is passionate about pottery. Guess how many that guy had dates xD. Have you ever heard someone claiming that pottery can be addictive etc.? Plus, I met one girl over games, while for example with guitar I met zero. Also, I am petrolhead and got 0 dates on account o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:03 PM
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If you read my comment there are questions about travel. Can you answers those. It highly depends what games are you playing. In same time I was a waterpolo player and I competed in Dota with group of friends. Both things from social point of view brought similar challenges. And I earned more money with Dota compared to waterpolo. Now you answer my questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:55 PM
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Free time is something one has when all obligations are done. Inside obligations I count all of family time, gf time etc. If you said all the time, I would agree with you, but an functional adult is allowed to do in his free time only one hobby if he has only one. My last 3 gfs complained about my gaming, although I never took time to game over hanging out with them. And I mean it, never. Earned more money, higher educated than all of them, have my own place unlike them, have plethora of hobbies…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:27 PM
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I will be blunt in this response. Idiots have idiotic opinions l, that is it. Check most of responses and you will see that the gamer is always assumed to be addicted. Simply put, a lot of girls do not like it as activity and are full of stereotypes. I was raised in family where guys were often hunters and fishermen. They would go for full weekend with their friends doing their own thing and never have I ever heard they are considered addicts. When I bought guitar and jammed in garage with my fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:15 PM
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Why is it always assumed that the gamet is addicted and not functional. I saw my gf drink a glass of wine yesterday.....can you believe what an alcoholic?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:10 PM
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Some games require dedication and talent. There is a reason competitive games have top of the crop people. Let me guess, in your free time, you do not like stereotypes? Does traveling require talent? How many people are making money of travelling?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:07 PM
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How many hobbies does an individual has to have in free time for your taste?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:04 PM
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Most girls I know are self sufficient and despise feminism. You are just extending definition of feminism to suit your narrative. Egalitarianism is the correct word for having opinion that everyone should have equal rights and I am 100 percent for that. I understand there are double standards for both genders in certain situations, yet I never heard feminists as a whole to protest for something where guys are behind. For example, feminism secured gender only scholarships to fix the gender disbal…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:57 PM
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Equality? But you probably do not want it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:11 AM
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Blatant sexism to be honest. Also if above is something that should be valued, why do we tell nice guys that being nice is not enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:50 AM
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Dude, your story does not add up. Like at all. Plus, from your other comments it is visible you are low-effort hypocrite. Peace out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:18 PM
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From my experience, women do not want man with high standard but with the standard which is just slightly below her. Whenever I reject or leave a girl I never heard: "wow, good for you have standards", but rather "why cant you see I am perfect for you". Also most women who claim this are narcissist. This is the easiest way to self boost without doing or achieving anything. How many times I heard girls claim that they like that thier man has standards, but everytime I knew guy from before, they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 09:47 AM
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Your question misses the point. You are turning conversation who is more personally hurt, instead of acknowledging that crime is a crime. If someone doesn't mind being ass grabbed in public and someone comes and feels her out (complete stranger), is it a crime or not without explicit consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:14 PM
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Do you understand the concept of committing a crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:39 PM
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Sorry, but what? Do you even get what it means to be a parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:12 PM
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Sometimes I wonder how can a developed human brain reach conclusions like these?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:26 AM
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I said every time: "Do not expect relationship." Thry just ignored this sentence every time and labeled me as an asshole. I never lied like that to girls. However, they always ignore this statement and expect relationship. Also, of course, I get labelled an asshole everytime. Ok, once was I a complete asshole to FWB. Her: "Real man see more than sex in woman." Me: "Yeap and they usually see more in women who do not fish for relationship with sex" She did not take it well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 02:08 PM
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It does not matter whether they are selfish or not. My question was targeted at your definition of empowerement, which btw, is incredibly narcissistic and dangerous. If this is the type of empowerement women are searching for.......dear lord
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:44 PM
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Would you say criminals are empowered?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:07 PM
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Are we the same person? One of more often things that happen with me is my weed smoking. I am not a stoner, just like a puff when I get rid of all real life responsibilities. However, there is always one ex whi did all the drugs and suddenly it is my fault they dated them...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:34 AM
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As someone who was not very popular during teen years, I found that both males and females insult the same way when you are not popular. When i would respond to male, fair game, but if I responded to women, women would claim fair game, but males would run to the defence of those individuals. Point of the story, male thirst is the one who is saving women from criticism. Girls bitch about girls all the time and that is the most hardcore criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:15 PM
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Trust me, go for it. Nothing to loose. If you get burned enough times, once the normal guy appears, you will be undatable (source: my experience with latinas, had to dump every single one)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 08:51 PM
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Yeah, most of my male friends from Mexico were complete assholes. But to be honest,all Latinas were defending them and calling me way too traditional, so towards them no empathy. But since you seem a like a nice person to chat, stay strong and eventually you will find someone normal. Ok, it is Mexico, relatively normal ;) Best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 08:39 PM
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Sincere question, why would you toleratr that behaviour, I simply do not get it. I remember she was always commenting how noone was treating her like I did, however, she started taking it for granted
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 08:14 PM
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Croatia, bit lived in Germany and the Netherlands
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:21 PM
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I speak both English and basic Spanish, so highly doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:15 PM
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Brothers in confusion :*
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:53 PM
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Both IRL and OLD. Although in my home country, it only apllies to few OLD dates
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:46 PM
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I told her that one week before that question. Just weird
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:45 PM
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I was moving around, so my phrasing gets a bit off ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:44 PM
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I am agreeing with what you are saying. Nut for an outsider, it seems both genders are doong it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:43 PM
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Are you trying to convince me girls never used this trick. Because, I seen it with my own eyes. Also, ehat is the deal of people adapting to reality by finding the worst common denominator. I am not aiming it at you personally, but I cannot grasp my head around it (hence my username)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:32 PM
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As I said, in my culture that is something you will rarely observe. Also, as a guy you can be with 50 girls in one year, but if there was any time overlap, that is where the line is drawn and you will be bashed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:05 PM
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"Are we for real or not?" I found it strange, because I never had to have this talk in my life. Cultural differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:56 PM
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Where I am from, if you ask a girl out, it is expected you are not seeing other people at that moment. For her and few others, this does not seem to be case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:55 PM
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Of what I picked up from few experiences with North American girls, it seems that just because you are dating for a while, it doesn't mean you are not dating other people, until it is verbally agreed from both sides, even if you had sex together, spent weekend etc. For me that is strange behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:54 PM
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European here, but not from UK. The way I see it the Atlantic separates two different dating cultures. For example, there is no exclusivity discussion in most European cultures and when I dated a Mexican girl I was stunned when she initiated the exclusivity talk (biggest WTF of my life). I believe that this factors to the presence of "soft harems" across the USA and neighbouring countries. Also, social networks were late a bit in the Europe compared to the USA and I believe we as a whole are sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:38 PM
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I believe this is where society interests and ideology disucssions clash very hard. No country ever will provide equity in the case of abortion because it goes against bodily autonomy (abortion, guy wants to keep a baby) and it goes against societal interests (financial abortion). So what you are reading in this thread is basically people trying to rationalize inequality because they would rather die than admit they are having a douboe standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 07:41 AM
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People were raping whom they found, what isvyour point?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:41 PM
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I admit my wording might be slightly clumsy, but supply and demand principles apply to people also. You could analyse the whole dichotomy between low/high value through the perspective of demand (many define it exactly like that)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 02:08 PM
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Balance restores itself. When the new supply & demand is present, the market reacts. Plus, you allready have countries proposing pronatality policies because the trends are clear. The instituion of nuclear family will live on, the same way ot survived last 3000 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:49 PM
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My only indicator so far was how much two-way respect she expects in relationship? If someone expects that relationship doesnt impact their individuality at all, it usually mean that person is only capable of having STR or FWB. Another anecdote, I dated a girl and at one point I made her nice dinner and she started crying. She couldnt believe someone would do that for her. She was 27 and not virgin. Guess the dating history.......
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 12:49 PM
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I agree with the second part, but not first. I am mostly alone and do not mind it, but relationships definitely bring a twist to your life which canot be observed when you are alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:27 AM
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What makes someone who minds being alone desperate or lesser person?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:50 AM
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Please do not take this response personal, as I will answer through lenses of my anecdotal evidence. Most of the time IRL, both male and female vastly overstate what they bring to the table, therefore from the outer perspective it seems like they are having unreasonable standars. For example, I am not a f-boy and have relatively low N count, but still I found myself in a following situation: Her: "I know I am good looking" Me (thinking in my head): "My exes look like Victoria secret angel compar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:39 AM
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