cursive_lines Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage?	DATING ADVICE	cursive_lines	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 12:10 AM
3	Accidentally sounding rude/sassy	ADVICE	cursive_lines	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/21 04:43 PM
1	Why are women expected to “do it all”, nowadays?	DISCUSSION	cursive_lines	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/21 05:01 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Accidentally sounding rude/sassy That is a really good point. It might be my facial expressions that give the wrong impression… hmmm… well, I have attention deficit disorder so I often look very spaced out especially in conversation so this might be wrongly interpreted. That is more difficult to control though. I’ll try to be more mindful of this. Thanks!	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/21 05:08 PM
3	Eyebrows Could you send me photos of the before and after? I’m honestly so insecure about my thinner brows because they look very sparse unless I fill them in. I used to overfill them to be more like the thicker brows trend and ever since I stopped doing that, I feel that my face also looks more feminine but I don’t know if it looks too thin now, especially if I don’t fill them in. I love the slightly arched brows look too, so many actresses from old hollywood in the 40s-60s had awesome brows!	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/21 05:05 PM
1	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? I don’t know because he thinks that if we dated then he would not be able to control himself from having sexual relations with me? I mean I get it.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/11/21 06:38 AM
1	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? Not sure what you mean… It’s because he likes how I look, he told me. Even if I look crappy for a few hours, I’m not going to suddenly lose my many years of results from lifting/pilates/running/other-exercise/diet.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/11/21 04:11 PM
1	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? I want to agree with that but honestly, I have over 100 friends at my college and I will tell you that less than 7 of them are female, which directly reflects the ratio of male to female students in my major. I agree that I can’t just be friends with him probably, because there’s a background of feelings, but I cannot believe that men and women can’t be just friends because at my school, that’s my only option.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/11/21 04:07 PM
1	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? I mean I focus most of my time on my schoolwork and work so i don’t think I am vain or superficial, in my opinion. I would say that if I leave the house to see friends, most of the time I try to look close to my best. Or if there is an event to go to I’ll try to look nice. But day to day, I don’t get super dolled up or anything. He sees me mostly in my very casual makeup-free look. Occasionally he will see my effort looks. I want the relationship to work but I’m not going to stop improving mysel…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 07:05 PM
1	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? Saving this comment. The harsh reality that I need to accept. Its hard because he is one of my closest friends and I see him almost every single day. I may need to cut him off in the romantic sense and restrict our friendship to being strictly friendship, and ignore our past of flirting and any further signs of flirting/feeling. I have the option of cutting him off in a few months (because he is moving home for a few months while finishing school) but I don’t know if I want to do that because I …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 04:17 PM
1	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? I believe he discusses it often with an older brother and his parents, all which are religious and support/ignite his core values. If someone has never had a relationship, and thinks they are going to know “the one” upon first meeting without any sort of relationship or friendship beforehand, they might be disappointed to find out that’s not how real life works. I don’t think you can determine relationship compatibility until you have dated someone. He says he is ready to find “the one” but he h…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 04:08 PM
1	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? Thanks for your advice. I agree with you. It’s just kinda hard to accept especially when you feel what might be love for someone. I should focus my energies elsewhere and find a captain instead of being the chaser. Thanks for reminding me of the truth.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 04:01 PM
1	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? I don’t think it’s that… I think it’s just because I’ve been active for a very long time. I wasn’t genetically blessed, I worked for every good physical trait of my body, so it’s not like I’m showing off cleavage or anything (I don’t have any to show off, lol). Self improvement is one of my main focuses and part of that is taking care of my body. You would think that this is a trait that is a positive especially for a relationship because I work hard to improve my appearance. I don’t think he un…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 03:58 PM
3	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? I agree. He doesn’t think I’m the one to marry because I’m too tempting because he’s attracted to me… that makes no sense logically. I don’t want to move on but I might have to. It’s difficult because I almost have unconditional love for him so even with rejection I won’t give up. I have the same values as him and we are like two halves of a whole. He tries to hide his jealousy sometimes but I call him out on it and he knows it’s wrong to do but he told me he can’t help it. I really hope this is…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 03:34 AM
1	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? Yeah unfortunately. Thanks. I hope it goes well eventually if he gains some sense	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 03:27 AM
1	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? He is very interested in marriage, he just thinks I cannot be the one to marry because he is too attracted to me and he did not feel true love at first sight upon meeting me. I think that second part is just an excuse from inexperience. This is why I am confused at what approach to take because I cannot make him gain insight that only comes from life experience	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 03:27 AM
6	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? He has made it clear to me that he wants to find the one to marry now, that he wants to be in that relationship. He thinks that I am not the one because he didn’t feel that upon first meeting me. But I think this belief stems from his inexperience in relationships (the inexperience being none at all). We are best friends and are greatly attracted to each-other. I don’t see this as a negative.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 03:26 AM
3	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? I agree. I think an important part to remember is that he never had a relationship. I don’t think he knows how a relationship works, especially a long term one. He wants to be careful about who he marries. He believes that he will know true love upon first meeting, but I think this is unrealistic.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 03:24 AM
2	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? He has a few years before then, he has made that clear. He does not want to get married before then. It is not an option for him and his situation. I want to get married and have a family as soon as I know in a relationship that it is the right time.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 03:23 AM
3	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? Yes I told him I want a long term relationship and I want the same things as him. I date other men because he rejects me and i think I need to move on but then dating other men doesn’t feel right in my heart, so then I break things off with them. I was in a relationship a little under a year ago which he criticized heavily, and since then I haven’t been in a relationship but I went on a date or two. So I haven’t really been “dating” many men, I am very sure that nothing feels right except for my…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 03:21 AM
1	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? He really wants a family and marriage, as do I. We want the same things in life. He told me that he doesn’t think I’m the one because he believes that he will know if someone is the one upon meeting them. I think this is unrealistic and “love at first sight” isn’t real, I think he is inexperienced and confused. I just don’t know what to do because I can’t change his mind but he does like me. He cares for me and shows it.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 03:18 AM
2	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? He was open with me in conversation that he had feelings for me and liked me for a while. And then proceeded to tell me that he didn’t like me and he couldn’t date me because he would be too tempted. Very confusing.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 03:16 AM
6	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? I agree. It’s very confusing. I think he is very inexperienced and doesn’t know what he wants	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 03:15 AM
2	He won’t date me because he’s saving himself for marriage? The thing is that I am a Christian and I have the same beliefs as him. We are very much similar.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/21 01:07 AM