curtains20 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	8 mistakes guys make on a date that make you look like a fool If I’m actually concerned she not gonna show (which is pretty strange to begin with, not sure I’ve ever actually had to do this) I’d just ask. I wouldn’t play some weird mind games and make up some silly lateness story. I don’t care how she sees it 😂 Anyone who actually thinks there’s something wrong with you for confirming plans isn’t someone you should care much about anyway Bottom line problem is that making up some lateness excuse is because you actually do care whether she’s gonna judge you…	/r/seduction	22/09/24 05:14 PM
1	What should I do if a guy hits on my GF at the gym? Literally ignore it/be amused by it unless she wants you to get involved.	/r/seduction	02/09/24 04:45 PM
19	How do you pass the "I am too pretty for you" "I don't see what do attractive about you" when you're clearly good looking and she is interested too??? Jesus why waste time with such an annoying person to begin with. Save your energy for people who don’t suck.	/r/seduction	19/10/22 10:50 PM
15	How to politely tell girls that you don't want to stay in touch? Man I’m sorry but the way that OP describes his encounters and the people he meets, along with some of the absolutely unhinged suggestions in this thread are so sad to look at. Like omg, writing a breakup message because someone you briefly met texts you a bit after you left town? It’s super uncool, unnecessarily mean and thoughtless. Do you think you’re the center of the world or something? These women are probably just living their life and sending you a nice message and mostly forgetting abou…	/r/seduction	14/08/22 11:32 PM
4	Getting shamed for dating women younger than me its fine to date younger people, but to call someone 35 "too old for you" isn't cool for various reasons. You can just not agree to the setup if that's something you believe, but don't tell other women that women very slightly older than you are too old for you. It's often going to make them feel bad and insecure about their age. You can have whatever preference you want, but you should handle it with more grace and empathy towards other people in regards to vocally expressing your preferences.	/r/seduction	01/04/22 04:53 AM
1	My tipps for dates over the years Man everyone on this subreddit is a weirdo. Yup every single time the girl’s gonna go home and fuck you on the second date because you did your weird little kiss thing 😂 How about this: kiss someone when they definitely want to be kissed. If you’re actually cool, they will make it super super obvious. You won’t have to ever “pretend it didn’t happen”. You shouldn’t have to play these weird guessing games and run these experiments on girls because if you’re a decent and fun person, what both peop…	/r/seduction	18/03/22 06:53 AM
20	Went on 3 dates with a 10/10: My experience (so far) How many times do you have to put down and insult each of these women just so you can sound cool on the internet?	/r/seduction	15/01/22 11:29 AM
2	Girl i've been dating for 2 weeks has started to send me a lot of heart emojis, what do i do? Like I said, if you are naturally needy or smothering, work on that. So like don’t do things that are needy or smothery like sending endless nonstop texts. But also don’t intentionally ignore her when having a normal conversation and send emojis when it feels natural and not over the top. Just try to make sure your level of excitement is proportionate to hers. If it’s a lot more than hers then try to hold back a little bit. But don’t hold back to manipulate...hold back to be kind to her and not …	/r/seduction	08/01/22 11:43 AM
1	Girl i've been dating for 2 weeks has started to send me a lot of heart emojis, what do i do? Everyone is different, the emojis have nothing to do with it. Work on being the coolest person you can be and then most people aren’t gonna be bored of you. But really just be yourself. If being yourself is like super needy, smothering or negative, then work on that in the meantime.	/r/seduction	08/01/22 11:17 AM
5	Girl i've been dating for 2 weeks has started to send me a lot of heart emojis, what do i do? Just be normal and nice. Send emojis when you want to, and don’t if you don’t want to. Don’t worry about all the “you want her to miss you stuff”. Thats manipulative. You say it feels like a game but thats because you are making it into one. Just be yourself.	/r/seduction	08/01/22 10:36 AM
7	i need to escalate but can't figure out how. Keep hanging out, don’t worry about escalating. If it’s supposed to happen it will and it will be very obvious. There is no rush.	/r/seduction	08/01/22 10:31 AM
4	Sex is like a play. Intercourse is the final act, not the entire show. The preceding acts are talking, touching, building tension, and foreplay Lol. What possesses some dude to write this as tho he has figured out the universal secret to all women is beyond me.	/r/seduction	12/12/21 08:26 AM
2	If a guy replies a girl immediately over text or answers her questions logically, he's just being a good person and down to earth. Can someone explain me why this doesn't work in dating? people can tell based on your actual personality when you have things going on in your life, and sometimes it has nothing to do with your text reply time. Manipulating your reply time to make a woman think some fake thing about you is ridiculous. I reply to people when I want to reply to them, which sometimes is immediately.	/r/seduction	28/01/21 10:47 PM
3	I like her, she likes me, she doesn't date shorter than her 😬 Just don’t bother. Total waste of time to spend any more energy on this girl.	/r/seduction	24/08/20 04:25 AM
26	How To Get Women Who Friend Zoned You To Want To Sleep With You Yes this post is unbelievably stupid. There are a million girls out there and you’re sitting around writing 100 paragraphs on how to get this one specific girl who doesn’t like you that much to like you. It’s ridiculous.	/r/seduction	06/05/20 03:39 PM
-1	Feedback welcome (Went for a run 2 girls dismissed me) Are you somehow living in a world where there's not a pandemic? Now is not the time to go up to random strangers in the park.	/r/seduction	20/04/20 03:15 PM
0	How To Stop Being Needy. Why Neediness Is The Mother Of All F*ck Ups And How To Avoid That Mind Set How many times does this asshole have to talk about “fat ugly chicks”. Like is it really that hard to phrase things in the way that a decent person would? It’s so pathetic.	/r/seduction	31/12/18 01:37 AM
142	After 100+ first dates, my rules on making them go well First post in this subreddit that hasn't made me want to throw up. This is a major achievement. I can't believe that someone here is willing to write that you can go a first date without kissing a girl. Usually it's some ridiculous variation of "you are a pussy if you aren't constantly trying to escalate physically from the moment you meet a woman".	/r/seduction	19/05/16 04:39 AM
-1	Woujo's guide for succeeding on dates You can't be serious? A 30 point plan on things you should do and think about on your date. How about just be fun, confident, listen to her and have interesting conversations. I mean leaning back on your chair. You really have to analyze every little detail to death? OMG this subreddit is amazing.	/r/seduction	13/05/16 07:53 PM
1	This Sub-Reddit is absolutely terrible.[META] FWIW I read this forum for the amusement factor only and find almost all of the posts to be garbage. Not all of them, but most. One thing I love is how every advice filled post is full of as much profanity as possible as though the OP is screaming to some drunk friend at a frat party. It's always: YOU NEED TO WAKE THE FUCK UP AND GO OUT THERE AND DO SOMETHING. LEARN A HOBBY, TAKE UP A NEW LANGUAGE, BUY NEW CLOTHES AND FUCKING TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE. It's just so weird, and then it gets upvote…	/r/seduction	29/04/16 01:20 AM
3	"All guys want is sex" shit test or you could just behave like a normal person who doesn't have a prepared line that they are instructed to say "word for word", and instead just say something that feels natural at the moment, and not worry about whether something has been field tested or not. It's amazing that someone really thinks that you must spout out a line like this word for word, without any alterations, and somehow this is the ironclad correct way to deal with a situation and gets a million upvotes. This kind of crap do…	/r/seduction	26/02/15 06:57 PM
3	After being stood up on a date, this guy reacted in the best way possible. Well played. Omg whatever he's just having fun. People sitting here judging everything about his behavior like they are some kind of dating kings are the ones who are definitely not "reacting in the best way possible".	/r/seduction	08/02/15 11:45 PM
2	A Facebook Gem about "Nice Guys" This post and about 75% of the comments in this thread make me wanna throw up. Go run around being alpha males. Girls do like nice guys, if you don't think so it's because you have a twisted definition of what "nice" means.	/r/seduction	22/09/14 08:32 AM
9	A girl wouldn't kiss me on the first date - I debated asking her on a second date, until I read this link. Agreed, one of the stupidest dating articles I've ever read in my life.	/r/seduction	16/08/14 02:07 PM