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How many men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 10:07 PM
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A majority of old men that cheat or have casual sex are doing it with older women, not 20 year olds. Fact Check: FALSE
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:19 PM
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So you're saying it's a trade-off?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:25 PM
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Super self-centered post, tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:02 PM
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Even now, they can only make one mistake and they're screwed. Once a woman has a kid, she is essentially fucked. Right. This is why societies throughout history have strictly limited access to women for sex. It was to protect women, and ensure that children had men to support them and the women that had them. Feminists changed all that. They railed against a "patriarchy" which was essentially create to sacrifice men for the sake of women and children. What have they wrought?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 02:47 PM
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I've known lots of women that were into gay male porn. At least one of them told me it was better because men can't fake it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:26 PM
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women get slut shamed for getting assaulted You must live in Saudi Arabia, because I know of no other place where this happens. I understand what you mean about women being humiliated, but that's something different. Men are humiliated by society ANY time they are the victim in any encounter. Not understanding this indicates you do not know any men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:47 PM
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Nobody has to. And if you don't see the humiliation factor for men, you don't know any men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:45 PM
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Why do you think a man humiliated by being sexually assaulted would subject themselves to further humiliation by going to the police about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:27 PM
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User name checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:11 PM
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That's not the tip we're looking to give them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:06 PM
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Sexual power is the greatest of all human social powers. Women have always held this power exclusively. Brutality only shapes society when cultures clash violently. Societies internally are shaped by women, because societies always value them the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:53 PM
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That's western culture now. It's called an engagement ring, and you're expected to spend 3 months salary on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:39 PM
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it’s only in the past 20-30 years are we truly seeing female sexuality unburdened by men & women able to be truly sexually free So like 1990's? Nah, your premise is flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:43 PM
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Yes, men should learn misandry so they can hate themselves! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:54 PM
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No, the point went WAY over your head. It's not women creating those groups. Often it's men, NGO's run by men, corporate sponsorships created by men on the boards. Because that's what's expected - women need help and support. You missed ALL THE MONEY! Because society values women. Men are disposable. THAT is the point. you probably still won't see it. Men? Yea, man up!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:44 PM
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Google "Women's support groups". WOW! Look at all those organizations, must be a lot of money going into all those organizations. There's even a map to find the closest one! Now Google "Men's support groups". Huh. It's like nobody cares... suck it up, men. man up!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:12 PM
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No, I didn't imply that, you inferred it. You've identified the problem (too many single young men). And yet, you default to blaming men, like always. Plank, mote, etc. But this is what society has done. The stereotype you're promoting is the one society promotes, even though those men are rare (this is called confirmation bias). What are the stereotypes of women that media portrays? Pretty much all successful, strong, independent (and often promiscuous), heroic, and if they're victimized it's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:05 PM
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It's not items on the list that are unobtainable, it's the tiniest fraction of men that will meet all of them, when the actual details of the vague items are revealed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:33 PM
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That's because all the women in your age range have hit the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:27 PM
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Mutual sexual attraction was part of the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:04 PM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that law against gay propaganda targeted at children, not gay propaganda in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:01 PM
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She SAID pets. But, of course, it's going to be either dogs or cats, and the opposite will be a deal-breaker. Imagine if he was into fish aquariums. Do you think that would meet her standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:37 PM
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Do you think she'll be able to find out if they "have similar kinks" the first time they meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:35 PM
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Not only is the list unreasonable, she demonstrates vagueness that will result in even greater demands. Emotionally stable, is in touch with their feelings, can show their vulnerability and be there when I'm vulnerable Is in a good mood more often than in the opposite of it Supportive, honest, caring, attentive Acts according to their morals Patient to my quirks and doesn't get irritated with them There is no way she is going to be attracted to a guy like that, she is certainly not going to find…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:34 PM
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^ mic drop
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:02 PM
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Yes, it wasn't my intent to disparage all Muslim societies. Certainly there are plenty that are not still living in the dark ages, just as there are few Catholic societies that still burn and torture heretics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:58 PM
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I never said it was a response to "hypergamy". Hypergamy in our sexually open, egalitarian society, which has spent a couple of generations encouraging women to be promiscuous, results in a similar circumstance: a large segment of young men with little to no hope of relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 11:49 AM
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No, but you can confirm the result with other studies such as speed dating sessions, real life mixers, etc., and if you get the same result (you do) then you know that it's real and not some photo-based effect. So modern western society has now developed a serious problem with lots of young men left out entirely. Societies in history have dealt with this issue in various ways, from pederasty in ancient Greece to female genital manipulation in West African societies to extreme oppression of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:15 PM
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I don't have to imagine it - you're demonstrating it perfectly! lolololololol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:10 PM
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HAHAHA! Imagine being so deluded that you refer to someone pointing out actual quotes from an organization's own documents as a "conspiracy theory"!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 11:34 AM
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I do, I just disagree with what they are, while you are beholden to a group of collectivists demanding global governance with a tyrannical set of oligarchs in charge. If you bother reading their entire "human rights" statements, they make sure to be very clear that what they are talking about is that they get all the power, and your "human rights" mean nothing if it gets in the way of their agenda. This is a direct quote: "These rights and freedoms may in no case be exercised contrary to the pur…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 11:12 PM
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This fallacy is termed "appeal to authority"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 06:40 PM
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And there is no difference between declaring access to health care as a human right and access to sex as a human right. Zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 09:35 PM
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But they didn't have the pill and an entire population of women that can be promiscuous as they want without paying any consequences. We've only had that for about 60 or 70 years. Long enough for culture to entirely change around it. And now society is seeing the consequences of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:27 PM
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It's exactly the same as saying health care is a human right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:17 PM
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Whatever you're thinking about, here, it ain't humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:13 PM
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Emotional arguments are worthless. Here are some facts: Women initiated 69% of all divorces, compared to 31% for men. 54% of divorced or widowed women do not want to remarry compared to 30% of divorced or widowed men. Women are more likely to get divorced shortly after a high-level promotion. A man’s divorce risk is nearly 33% higher when he is not working full-time. If a man provides 80% of the household income, he might not suffer a huge financial loss after divorce and might even marginally i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:37 AM
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I said "in practice" and you mention laws. No, that's not how it works. Men are disposed of, jailed if they don't pay, and are given, at best, "visitation" to their children, as if they're not really even their kids any more. If the woman wants the house, she gets the house. If she doesn't want the house, the man must pay her 1/2 of its worth in cash, and is forced to sell it if he must.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 05:33 PM
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FALSE Not the way it works in practice. Especially if there are kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 02:56 PM
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Women are women, what they're doing is pretty inherent, really. Modern technologies and social progress have changed how those behaviors affect society as a whole, and the result it not good for men or women. It leaves us with too many women single late in life, too many single mothers or mothers with bad or absent fathers, and too many disaffected men with no meaningful familial roles. Historically it points to trouble. Ancient Greek society had a way to deal with it. Islamic society had a way …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 04:52 PM
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I haven't seen any studies that show anything different, old or new, or of whatever age. It's not like those studies were done during some previous generation or something, they're perfectly relevant. There are a lot of women that experience cognitive dissonance when they learn about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 04:29 PM
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Using the word "hero" instead of the OP's "Nice Guy". Just using a different term in exactly the same way is a transparent attempt to avoid the topic the same way the OP said everybody was doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 04:25 PM
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I believe you just exemplified the straw man that the OP was talking about. Often I've noticed the one arguing that they do get laid always manages to circle the topic back around to "Nice Guys", thereby avoiding the topic at hand completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:48 PM
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Actually, studies show that women see 80% of men as below average looks. Men don't have this skewed perspective on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:46 PM
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Downvoted for multiple usages of "tryna"
/r/askTRP09/05/21 03:25 PM
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You're overthinking it. Plenty of girls will be attracted to your type. Also, it's an advantage. Trust me, you'll be far better off in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:49 PM
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Women by-default aren't the problem because they haven't broken from the script, only men have (become soft, submissive, weak, etc.) I get your point, but this is complete bullshit. In fact, I could argue that the deterioration of masculinity in men is likely caused by women breaking the script. 70 years ago, women weren't going around sleeping with every chad that got them wet. Women withholding sex until they were in a long term monogamous relationship is how humans lived for 10's of thousands…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:31 PM
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More. Much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 11:28 PM
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Need something better, like a Berkey with the white extra filters
/r/askTRP29/03/21 02:36 PM
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You're right about that - but that was the point I was making in this context, which was about dating apps. Dating apps provide an extremely shallow view of the people you're looking at to date, and profile pictures are the weightiest part of the selection. That's why it's a losing game for men. The top 20% of men get all the dates, and learn they don't have to try hard to get laid, thus the type of behavior the OP had to deal with. This is a common and well-known phenomenon, which is why I felt…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:52 PM
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I mean, I'm not a statistician. They stated it as 80% viewed as below average in looks. In a normal distribution you would have 1/2 above average and 1/2 below average. 5/6 is 83.33%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:21 PM
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They're not. It's just that women PERCEIVE 80% of men as below average looks. So for things like dating apps, where that's always the first impression and frequently the first hurdle, it's that 20% of men that get all of the dates. Here's the chart from the study: https://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/2pac0i/men_youre_ugly_women_80_percent_of_men_are_below/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 07:15 PM
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Keep in mind that for women, 80% of men are BELOW average looking. So to you, they were average looking. But they're in the top 20%, so they're used to women responding to them easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 04:08 PM
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"relatively normal looking" is a high bar for most guys. Women upwards of 80% of men are below average in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 04:02 PM
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You're kidding yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 03:59 PM
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Actually, the rate of death from bad prescriptions or medical mistakes is VERY high. Medical errors cause an estimated 250,000 deaths in the United States annually. As many as 80 percent of medical bills contain at least one error. A little more than 4,000 surgical errors occur each year. It’s estimated that 7,000 to 9,000 patients die every year from medication errors. Sometimes these doctors face lawsuits, NEVER are they held criminally liable. It just doesn't happen, yet they do make lots of …
/r/askTRP08/03/21 02:20 PM
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I've never met a guy that does that. Is it really a thing? Seems like a rarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 08:22 PM
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You could say that there are some women that don't play coy, hard-to-get, whatever you want to call it. But yes, it is a thing, and most women do it. Denying it like you have done is very surprising to me. It's just denying reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 08:17 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 08:43 PM
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So you don't use calendars? If that's the case, it STILL makes more sense to call instead of texting. "Hey can I come over and fuck you right now?" is bound to work better over a voice call than over text messaging.
/r/seduction17/11/16 12:14 PM
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Stay away from Tinder. It's a trap. Until you've hooked up with a few girls, avoid any online dating stuff like the plague. You haven't said anything about how any of those interactions have gone. Did you detect any interest at all? How do they respond to your questions? Are you getting numbers? Do you call? Have you been on any dates?
/r/seduction17/11/16 03:06 AM
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If I get a girl's number, I NEVER text her as a first contact. I make a phone call, and suggest a date. Have a couple of them lined up if she is "unavailable" for the first one. That conversation will determine quickly if you're going to get with her, or if you should just delete the number.
/r/seduction16/11/16 08:20 PM
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Pretty insecure attitude. You're threatened by an ex from 5 years ago?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 01:28 AM
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It wasn't his ex. It was a female friend.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 01:20 AM
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No, but right now I feel like I shouldn't be on Reddit because I really have some shit to get done.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 01:56 AM
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They're actually in denial. They firmly believe certain myths, and refuse to accept factual information that doesn't fit their narrative. Delusional.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 03:55 PM
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As for being a better conversationalist, active listening is your friend. As odd as it might seem, you put yourself in a better position when you stop thinking about what to say next, while she's talking.... And focus on taking in what she's saying. Exactly, this is great advice. I also find that it helps a lot while she's talking to imagine her lips wrapped around your cock. It really helps to get yourself focused on your goals and relax into just letting it happen.
/r/seduction19/10/16 03:17 AM
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This is my special power! IDGAF.
/r/seduction19/10/16 03:12 AM
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Plenty of gyms offer trainers, and if you can't afford that, you've got to build your own program. You might meet someone at the gym willing to help, but absolutely do not rely on that. This is a good place to start: http://stronglifts.com/5x5/ You're gonna have to get used to being hungry to get that weight off. Sorry. It's gonna be hard. Just make sure everything you eat is good nutrition. Since you'll be working out, you'll need plenty of protein, but don't neglect veggies, vitamins, etc. AVO…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 12:51 AM
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I'm with you there. I'm an older guy, too, and it's been about 6 years since I did any lifting. But I'm still in better shape than 90% of the guys my age around here. So if that's my goal it's a pretty useless one. Besides, at this point I'm competing with a lot of younger guys at the bars. So, yea, I have some bigger goals than comparing myself to average guys my age. It's gonna take more work now than it did when I was younger, but I've accepted that now. It's just the way it is.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 12:36 AM
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That's the way I always see it. Who cares what kind of shape you're in right now - if you're at the gym working, you're trying to improve yourself. That's the important thing.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 12:24 AM
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DAMMIT! Okay - I'm calling it "coincidental", then. All straight.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 12:22 AM
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... not that there's anything wrong with that ;)
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 12:20 AM
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I weirdly want to hear the rest of this story...
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 12:15 AM
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Is it true that all weight lifters are bi?
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 12:12 AM
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Gee I thought I was reading a crosspost from Criagslist M4M "missed connections" for a minute, there.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 12:10 AM
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I only mentioned the responses to accusations because you claimed that some case where an accused rapist got a light sentence was proof that the mythical "rape culture" was actually real. This article is also proof that it does not. Men that stop rapists is also proof. Media portrayals of rape, rapists, and victims of rape is also proof. The severe penalties imposed on the vast majority of convicted rapists is proof. There are many others. Indeed, rape is so vilified in our culture, that it impo…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 12:23 AM
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I don't know what you're talking about, but it sounds like bullshit. What do you call it when an entire college lacrosse team is shut down, suspended, subjected to persecution and harassment for over a year due to a false rape allegation? Not rape culture. What do call it when a fraternity is shut down, kicked out of their school, suspended, trashed in the media, screamed at everywhere they go, over a false story in a magazine about a rape that never happened? Not rape culture.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 11:30 PM
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This is just additional proof that "rape culture" is a myth. Sorry, but unless you're a radical fundamentalist muslim living in a culture of the same, you do not live in a culture that defends or encourages rape of any kind - just the opposite.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 10:41 PM
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House of Cards is very popular. I run into lots of people that have seen it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/16 11:29 AM
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TV and movies is a good place to start. You can easily segue into interesting topics based on the symbolism in the stories.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/16 03:13 AM
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Once a girl mentions boyfriend I excuse myself from the conversation. Yea, I actually don't. Girls do that for two reasons: Either to let me know I'm not going to get anywhere with them, or to see if it will turn me off from pursuing her (this is regardless of whether or not they actually have a boyfriend). I just do / say something at that point to let them know that it doesn't affect my intentions. Sometimes it turned out they didn't have a boyfriend and ended up with me. Sometimes it turned o…
/r/seduction13/10/16 02:24 AM
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Number One Occupation. It's my Number One Occupation.
/r/seduction13/10/16 01:48 AM
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And accused of child abuse!
/r/askTRP12/10/16 03:01 AM
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You haven't by any chance seen or heard anything of Alatar or Pallando? Pretty sure they sailed west last year.
/r/MGTOW11/10/16 01:32 PM
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Funny - perpetuating the old "we live in a rape culture" myth. I guess it's true, but only if you subscribe to the PiV is always rape viewpoint. BTW - no, that post is not parody or satire.
/r/MGTOW10/10/16 11:57 PM
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I think you're seeing it from a rather narrow viewpoint. Being alpha doesn't necessarily mean just being the loud dumb handsome jock. (The term for that is "Chad"). Alpha just means you're the leader. And being natural at that you can certainly have plenty of success in business. It doesn't mean you're automatically incompetent.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 09:14 PM
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I had to literally sit back and think, "so wait, people actually categorize others into orders of importance??HAHA what idiots!" Well this is just naturally how social interactions work. It's not something people do consciously (except when you examine it, you see it happing). It true of most other animals, too, as you pointed out (dogs, apes, etc.)
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 08:53 PM
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Well, if that's the guy in the picture, he's far from handsome. So it's not surprising someone would take issue with his statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 07:18 PM
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Columbia University. Yea, this kind of stuff just isn't surprising any more. Is it PC gone too far? Yea, but it jumped the shark years ago. It's really just a parody of itself now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 07:11 PM
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FTFA: “Just read any newspaper — people get killed for playing music too loudly, and women get raped in the subway; there are fiends everywhere,” Ms. Pasqualino said. “This was not a question of Turkey or of religion.” Lesson NOT learned!
/r/MGTOW10/10/16 04:49 PM
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Trump was telling a story about an event that occurred a long time ago (maybe years). He had just married Melania earlier that year (2005) from the tape. He had been single since 1998. So it's more likely he was single at the time.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 04:59 PM
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They already did, but it's being ignored because everybody wants to talk about the Trump tape instead. Brilliant timing for the distraction by the Clinton-coordinated mainstream media.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 04:53 PM
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https://www.amazon.com/Natures-Way-Coconut-Oil-16/dp/B00J51RB3E/
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 12:18 AM
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But you've done that, right? You've been attracted enough to a guy to sleep with him that night? If so, did he mislead you about your intentions? Were you just "taking a chance"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 06:31 PM
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He didn't say anything about dating her.
/r/seduction07/10/16 01:42 PM
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Another smaller point. Since when do only singles have sex? People in relationships have sex outside of them all them time. This. Not a small point at all.
/r/seduction07/10/16 01:42 PM
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Well, right, I didn't say it's only one way. Women like taller guys (biology), and wealthy guys (biology), so, yea, it's certainly both ways. Women are looking for different attributes than men, it's all normal and nothing to bitch about. As far as lifestyle, it's not that, because I can't even find women my age that could get to know my lifestyle. Maybe it's just where I'm looking. I don't do any online dating, so I mostly go to bars / clubs / festivals and the like looking. All the women my ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 11:45 PM
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Using this data, they determined that the physical attractiveness of a potential mate was more important to men than women. Right, it's just biology. and how women are only good for their looks As above, biology. Men are attracted to women based almost almost exclusively based on looks. As an older man, I have no problem dating women my age. When I put myself back on the market, I discovered that this was extremely difficult. I've had more success with younger women (in their 20's). I'm a little…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 11:27 PM
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Wait. That can't be happening to you. It MUST be your personality. Every woman I've ever met told me that looks don't really matter, because that would be shallow and they aren't like that. You must be doing something wrong, then, because all the women say looks don't matter.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 10:53 PM
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Maybe they're just protected bruised egos by blaming the women. I mean, is there any man in existence that EVERY woman they encounter would be attracted to? Looks AND personality wise? I think not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 10:50 PM
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Looks like you fucked that up pretty good. Next.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 03:01 AM
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It already has! Where have you been for the last ... let's see... 12 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 04:47 PM
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Overall, I think it has made me less attractive to men. Yeah my abs are pretty flat now, but what's the point if you have big thighs and a smaller butt? Well as a guy, I may be in the minority, but big thighs are a huge turn-on for me. Shapely butt is important, but small is fine. You sound really hot to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 11:16 PM
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There is absolutely an implication in your post that all men are willing to commit rape. For instance: I'd think unattractive men are more likely to commit the former. You don't even bother with whether men are actually capable of rape at all, just the type of rape certain men may be inclined to commit. It's all over your post. How many rapists do you think get laid regularly? How many guys who get laid regularly become rapists? As I said, rape is not sex. The frequency getting laid has no beari…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 11:36 PM
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Failing at social skills does not create rapists, nor does desperation. Rape is not sex. Just as the folks over at /r/incels do not consider paying for sex to be something that satisfies their desperation for an intimate connection, they would not see rape as satisfactory, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 11:18 PM
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I don't know what the OP means by it either. That's my question. It means "no birth control"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 11:26 AM
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Wait... wut? Anti-feminism? Advocates for getting rid of birth control? That doesn't sound right...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 12:28 AM
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This is real phenomenon. I noticed it too and never had an explanation for it. This seems like a good theory.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 07:38 PM
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Right. Oh, you were having an affair with him? Well, good thing he's dead now, then. Also, you're out, because you're sure to do that again.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 03:04 PM
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ankward Nice. I'm going to use that term from now on!
/r/seduction24/09/16 02:51 PM
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Nope. He said he talked to counselors. Clearly, antidepression medication is not indicated. And those SSRIs are dangerous, and can lead to worse depression and suicide, especially for someone his age.
/r/seduction23/09/16 11:16 AM
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Coke, opiates, and downers being the BAD drugs - stay away! Psychedelics can be very useful, true, but you need a guide.
/r/seduction23/09/16 11:13 AM
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Sorry, but I don't think online dating is good advice for him. It's isolating, it's great for girls and sucks for guys, and frustrating. He has to get out there and interact with people, and practice social skills. You know one thing I did? I did volunteer work. You can work at animal shelters or for organizations like the Special Olympics. It helps your self esteem because you're helping people (or animals) that need it, AND there are LOTS of girls around. Try that instead.
/r/seduction23/09/16 11:11 AM
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Yea, I can relate. I was in pretty much exactly the same situation myself, and know where you're at. What's really missing isn't someone else, it's YOU. Know yourself, love you who are, and be yourself. That probably sounds ridiculous, but there's not a lot I can say that will help. It's a journey. But here is something I can tell you: I know that right now, there is a girl or girls in your circle, around frequently, that REALLY like you. I know because I've been where you are, and totally misse…
/r/seduction23/09/16 11:04 AM
1

It totally depends on the situation. At one time I had a blanket policy that I don't buy drinks for chicks. But that was when I was young and "poor" and everyone else where I went was, too. And I had a lot of girls buy ME drinks. I drank for free a lot. I'm older now and the places I go to now don't serve beer in plastic cups. I still don't buy drinks for women as an opener or semi-opener, but once I've got a rapport going and already detecting some genuine interest, then, yea, when I order a fr…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 12:38 AM
2

Now onto your critic of PUA (I hate that word as much as those who were called that way). That's because the actual word you are looking for is "critique".
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 12:27 AM
4

Don't approach a group. Pick one and approach HER. Show a little confidence, ignore her friends, and you can pull her away. Check out the group for a bit and you'll get a feel for which ones really have an interest in dancing. They'll be watching the dance floor, maybe looking around a bit. Going out alone is EASY! Your best friends are the bartenders. Talk to them like you've known them for years. Unless the place is really busy, they're happy to talk, and you're not sitting there like you don'…
/r/seduction23/09/16 12:20 AM
2

Thanks, unnecessary apostrophe guy!
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 11:40 PM
2

That's not happening in New Zealand. The men are out there with the sheep.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 02:07 AM
10

Well if you're "not really even into casual sex", you aren't the girl he's looking for...
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 07:03 PM
2

Yea it does seem like the emotional maturity is the main thing younger girls are looking for when they show interest in someone my age (or, in me, at least). And, isn't the oneitis sort of showing a lack of emotional maturity? Or maybe she's seeing it that way? The girls I've met have always been very practical about the relationship. In fact I'd say they'd be just as happy dating an older married guy, except they are afraid of any drama that would cause...
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 03:28 PM
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Well, if that's really what you're looking for right now, then stick to your guns. Sure, keep seeing him, but take it slow. Make sure he really is the "right guy" before you get too intimate with him. The other option, which you don't seem to have considered, is that maybe you'd eventually like to be in that relationship, but maybe you should try some casual relationships for now, and meet lots of guys. Make sure you know what you want. Maybe I'm all wet, here, but after 2 years in a relationshi…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 04:41 AM
3

I absolutely love hot girls in nice boots. The boots almost don't matter, but girls go through a lot picking out boots that they like. So I see a girl in boots I ALWAYS complement the boots. Just a simple "nice boots" works fine. They light up EVERY TIME.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 03:58 AM
1

OK Cupid is pretty much the ONLY online dating / hookup site that works for me to find interested girls. And I'm an older guy looking for younger ladies too. I get about 50% response to messaging, and I meet about 50% of the ones that respond in real life.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 03:54 AM
2

And you still didn't quote the "euphemism" she used...
/r/seduction22/08/16 07:40 PM
2

Do not get involved right now. If she wants to cry and commiserate with someone - don't be that. It's all you will ever be - and next she'll be telling you about this great guy she met... No, let her find someone else for that. Then, when she is really at peace with ending her old relationship, she'll be ready to try something new - keep an eye out - she might contact you again, but most likely you'll need to be in the right place at the right time.
/r/seduction02/08/14 12:28 AM
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So she has herself an obedient little puppy, even though he misbehaves every now and then. Don't worry, she'll finish fixing you after you're married.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 03:50 AM
1

Obligatory reference
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 10:56 PM
2

Seems like the term should really be "sapiophile".
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 10:49 PM
1

You're correct, I did misunderstand you. Thank you for the explanation. Best wishes to you.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 04:32 PM
1

Your dad's bar?
/r/seduction02/12/13 01:03 AM
1

Is everything about dressing and being in shape to you guys? You do realize that there is a lot, lot, lot, lot, lot more to life than dressing nice and being in shape, right? Of course, but those are the absolute basic necessities, and so many guys seem to think they aren't necessary at all. In fact, I would suspect that the reason a lot of PUAs can't maintain long relationships is that the girls realize that there isn't much substance underneath the superficial veneer. Yes, absolutely agree. Ag…
/r/seduction01/12/13 08:10 PM
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So to punish someone that hurt you, your reaction is to punish an entire gender and thrive on bitterness and vindictiveness? Do you think that's going to help you to heal?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 05:01 PM
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The farmhouse churches in Nebraska where these girls can be found are just too far away.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 04:58 PM
4

A Victoria's Secret Model just isn't going to date a fat bald guy There are many examples of this, actually living in his mom's basement That's a different issue. Why would anybody date someone at all if they don't have their life together, don't make an effort to dress well and keep well-groomed, etc. Bald is fine, too fat CAN mean you aren't taking care of yourself, but some guys are large but in good shape. There is the difference.
/r/seduction01/12/13 04:01 PM
1

I have had girls express interest in me all night and even invite me back to their place, but then when we get back to their house they freeze me out and make me sleep on the couch. Why? IDK man, that seems really fucked up right there. Sounds like something vindictive or she was trying to get you away as a favor to someone. But you talk like it's happened a lot, which doesn't make sense, unless you've either got some kind of hideous growth that they didn't see until they got you home, or you ar…
/r/seduction01/12/13 03:34 PM
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Be honest. Stay alpha. Pay attention. That's pretty much it. EDIT: And keep it interesting by always trying new things.
/r/seduction30/11/13 08:23 PM
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