customerservicevoice Archive

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2	Posted this on r/ask women but Karma was too low! I really need an answer or conversation around this rant :( Although I don’t like what feminism has become*, I actually think feminism works for me. Most of the men, activities & all around lifestyle associated with it doesn’t interest me whatsoever so my bubble exists outside of feminism. Let women stop shaving their armpits & become CEO’s… that left SO MANY MEN for me to choose from because if were being honest, most men don’t prefer this modern day feminist. In comparison to women before, I actually think we have it easier. No one expects us to be sup…	/r/RedPillWives	26/06/23 02:02 PM
3	Tea Time As a former athlete this post gives me hope haha. I’ll be returning to soccer in a few weeks after two years off the ball and 30 pounds. Yikes.	/r/RedPillWives	18/09/21 09:52 PM
1	What are you reading, listening to, watching? I absolutely have! ROW aside, it's one of my favourite series. I may even like it more than GOT. Adolin, Sylphrena & Shallan are officially on my list of baby names!	/r/RedPillWives	30/08/21 11:21 PM
6	What are you reading, listening to, watching? Reading: Fires of Vengeance (The Burning II) Listening to: The Pillars of Creation. I like fantasy lol	/r/RedPillWives	30/08/21 10:21 PM
1	If I meet my future partner at work or school, how do I make it clear that while I'm in school and working, I'm ultimately not trying to live my life in a very masculine energy? Stay in your feminine energy as much as possible. I love this. I used to get so much shit for "dressing up" to play soccer because it's a sport & looking good "shouldn't" be a priority. Well, it was for me! I loved soccer, I just didn't want to look like a POS while playing? Where did I meet my husband? Soccer! He used to watch me play because I'd be out there score goals with eyelash extensions on, haha.	/r/RedPillWives	20/08/21 09:46 PM
1	If I meet my future partner at work or school, how do I make it clear that while I'm in school and working, I'm ultimately not trying to live my life in a very masculine energy? The main reason I got back into serving was because I missed my feminine energy! I echo what other posters are saying here & I'd find a PT job that caters to that part of you since it's just a job - not what you plan to do forever. It worked wonders for me. I liked my other non-serving job because it was physical (being thin is important to me), but because of this I was in a bad uniform & dripping sweat. It was not... appealing, lol. It was only PT so I asked myself what can I do to make some e…	/r/RedPillWives	20/08/21 09:41 PM
1	How are you all doing? How long were you away, lol? That's a lot to happen!	/r/RedPillWives	20/08/21 09:37 PM
5	Can you suggest some movies/serials about feminine girls? Man Men, assuming you can compartmentalize yourself & remember the show was taking place in the 50’s. Why Women Kill. The Good Wife/The Good Fight Handmaid’s Tale. As much as I hate Serena, she managed to look elegant in modesty style clothing. Big Love Killing Eve	/r/RedPillWives	01/08/21 03:40 PM
2	What are you reading/watching/listening to? Reading: ‘Skinny’ by Donna Cooner. It’s a light YA fiction about an obese teenager who has gastric bypass. It talks about her struggles mentally, physically, emotionally, etc. I’m getting very serious about my weight loss so I like to immerse myself in weight loss related books, TV shows, etc. Keeps me motivated & on track. Listening to: ‘The Pillars of Creation’ by Terry Goodkind. It sounds Christian, but it’s actually medium-fantasy. It’s the 7th book in a series, but acts as a stand-alone. Mo…	/r/RedPillWives	27/07/21 01:10 AM
6	Tea Time I think it’s taking lurkers like myself to realize this is a safe space? As someone who got downvoted all to hell on other subs for everyday things occurring here I’m still nervous I’m ‘wrong’ about my lifestyle	/r/RedPillWives	21/07/21 10:54 PM
2	Own Your Stuff that's a great suggestion. i rarely bottle feelings or relinquish control, i just think it's best for both of us if i do it in this specific situation. and yes, i've absolutely set a date in which i'm going to suggest a few things. next weekend, for example, i want him to move all of the furniture form the basement upstairs, reorganize the new TV/gym room & organize the flooring that we took up in a more convenient way for it to be put back down & so it's out of the way for the work i KNOW will …	/r/RedPillWives	02/07/21 05:22 PM
2	Own Your Stuff OYS: Me: 34; Husband: 35; 0 kids; 1 dog (love of my life); PT work/PT SAHW (15 h/week) although i'm starting my own business the basement leaked & rather than place blame (i've been telling him there was a moisture problem since we bought the house which he ignored) or freak out about the costs i just shrugged it off as something that happens to homeowners. at least we have a beautiful home to own, right? i want him to know i'm grateful for it. (although i'm busy crying, making phone calls about…	/r/RedPillWives	01/07/21 03:54 PM
2	(6/25) What are you reading/listening to/watching?! the nightmares are what i like, lol. i like being scared. i like going to bed scared. i also like the wasteland feel of it all. we get so focused on vacations and houses and cars it’s nice to just go back to basic survival. it’s not really about the zombies for me because i think that concept is pretty ridiculous, lol, but i enjoy the survival and the threat. i like supernatural horror as well. knowing is an older movie with Nicholas cage that i rewatch often and it always gives me me shivers. h…	/r/RedPillWives	26/06/21 12:29 AM
5	(6/25) What are you reading/listening to/watching?! watching solo: fear the walking dead. I kind it because it’s not as gruesome as the walking dead. we need some new characters, though. no one is overly interesting. watching with a friend: the 100. i hate that the main cast are teens. so their decision making skills are all tweeny. i like all of the issues. who’s worth saving? who’s not? who can survive? who can’t? why can some characters end up in leader roles while others end up as targets? i love post apocalyptic shows. not so much for the vi…	/r/RedPillWives	26/06/21 12:18 AM
1	How to stop seeking validation? i’m not saying the masses are an equal substitute for your husband. just a substitute. the more value other people have in you (however shallow) the more your husband is likely to notice. that’s been my experience, anyway. the point is one person can’t be the source of your validation. you gotta make your own. of course we want our husbands to notice. I just did a pedicure and he didn’t notice, but you know who will? at least 3 women at the bbq tomorrow. one will even say something like ‘my feet…	/r/RedPillWives	18/06/21 02:20 PM
3	How to stop seeking validation? i started inviting people over. nothing like having other wives gush about how clean your house is to get the validation you crave (which is totally valid, IMO) without being LOOK WHAT I DID! my husband rarely comments on my appearance and that pisses me off so I started posting nice pics on social media. He may not saying anything but the 1k views tells me he ‘saw’ if that makes sense. i started finding ways to make and receive my own validation.	/r/RedPillWives	18/06/21 12:02 AM
5	I need some rpw encouragement job loss is extremely stressful, especially in our dynamic when a huge part of his identity revolves around being the breadwinner. when we went through something similar (oh, 8 years ago now) i just started working more. he may have told me (and himself) that we would be financially fine, but i straight up wasn't comfortable without his income. rather than blame him or try to get him to do something extremely difficult he may not be ready to do, i just did it myself. for about 9 months i worked …	/r/RedPillWives	16/06/21 06:27 PM
2	Dealing with monotony i tend to rinse dishes in hot water and set them to the side to be used later. I always empty the dishwasher before starting to wash dishes. i always clean all pots. i use a warning tray to heat plated food. this way I can enjoy dinner and not worry about the cleanup. laundry room forced to organize, but i finally found a system. every this has a place so i can get through the chore half asleep. if there’s a task I loathe, i try to find away to treat myself to enjoy it. for example, i used to ha…	/r/RedPillWives	08/06/21 12:46 AM
2	Defining the use for a room. i’m pretty intense about my room organization. i get really out of sorts in mess. i don’t have a junk drawer. what’s helped the most is constantly tossing or donating things. for example, on the weekend i bought a food sever-it’s a huge metal piece of equipment used to keep large amounts of food warm. husband asked if I wanted to keep the box. it’s a huge box. i said no-i will find a place for it in my kitchen if that means i have to rearrange and throw things out. he also bought a sprinkler hea…	/r/RedPillWives	08/06/21 12:40 AM
1	Tea Time i’ve been a lurker for awhile, but wasn’t really sure I fit in. some things have shifted in my life so am trying to find a new subreddit home and after reading the intro i realize i might (just might) belong here. I’m so happy. i use the word ‘value’ a lot and when i saw it in the intro i was ecstatic. I’ve been made to feel bad or dirty in the past for these thoughts and there was a likeminded community just waiting for me! getting real serious about my weight loss. when i snap, i snap and beco…	/r/RedPillWives	08/06/21 12:34 AM
4	OP discovers that the woman he's been dating hid the fact that she has a kid. People defend the woman for lying by omission. Two dates he fucking paid for. Where’s his $200 compensation for what was fairly an automatic deal breaker? No need to introduce your kid, but at least be honest it exists.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/06/20 12:47 PM
5	Springtime musings... I've had that before. I think I still have it from time to time, lol. We're kind of targets subbing to this, but I like the posts here.	/r/RedPillWives	18/02/20 06:56 PM
5	Springtime musings... We’re renovating our bedrooms and even though they’re empty I just love standing in those rooms admiring all of our hard work. I love how they’re so Instagram worthy rooms. It’s my happy place right now especially because there are windows that overlook the huge backyard so I get to feel the weather without freezing.	/r/RedPillWives	18/02/20 06:25 PM
7	Springtime musings... Who down voted this lol	/r/RedPillWives	18/02/20 06:23 PM
2	Help. I hate cleaning So you want to want to clean? That's a good start. It doesn't sound like your marriage dynamic is forcing you to do anything you don't want to do, you're just not sure how to get started and make it enjoyable. I love cleaning, but only certain types. Maybe you just need t figure out what "type" works for you and go from there? For example, I hate vacuuming. So I bought a Shark robot. I run it daily (sometimes twice daily) and I only need to do a thorough vacuum once every 4-6 weeks or do. My flo…	/r/RedPillWives	01/02/20 03:53 PM
1	Did you improve your marriage by becoming more submissive? I definitely let him take of the role of Boss when it comes to house projects. It's not a complete act because I don't really know shit, but I do tend to oversell it as most of what he knows I could probably Google. He likes being the foreman of the household so I let him as much as I can. He's quite handy, but I let him "talk down" to me when he explains how to use certain tools. (Aside: When I say I let him "talk down" to me I don't mean I let him abuse me; I just mean I let him get all cocky …	/r/RedPillWives	10/01/20 02:42 AM
1	Besides going to the gym, what are some other ways for men to feel a sense of confidence? Keep your home renovated, clean and stylish. Invest in it. Mortgages are expensive. Respect it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/19 02:59 AM