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Yes, considering there are a bunch of old, middle aged couples. Go to a casino and find several older couples, not all are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:40 AM
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A lot of women seem to want to do sex work, which is fine. The current state of prostitution is just very bad. Human trafficking is horrible and illegal. Those women don't have a choice and are abused/mistreated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:14 PM
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The term "pick me" is disparaging to women and is toxic. Women should just accept women, without feeling the need to shame them. If someone wants flings that is great, I'm not shaming them. You shouldn't assume a woman wants flings based off of a piercing. How is that "pick me"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:38 AM
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I support prostitution if it's legalized and heavily regulated. No more women on street corners please.. how about buildings/facilities for these women to go work at? And they NEED to be health tested, as do CUSTOMERS. Full STD panels required for ALL. Completely consensual, and maybe expensive to keep riff-raff away, and to also provide a decent income for the women and the work they are doing. To maintain the facilities also, provide medical care to the employees, etc all costs money. Prostitu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:34 AM
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I dated with purpose and I'm in a committed relationship now. I've always dated with a purpose, since I was young, and I've always gravitated to alt fashion. I don't think you should assume a woman with a septum piercing will want a fling, without asking first. Any woman can be looking for non-serious relationships, regardless of how she looks. All a septum piercing indicates is that the woman likes piercings. Septums are cheap at $50 average and quick to get at a tattoo shop. I do think those w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:32 AM
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I had a septum ring before and I have always been monogamous. One can make assumptions but just know there are always outliers. I have 2 tattoos, one of bats and the other a dagger, and I'm a pregnant mom looking forward to being a homemaker. I will get more tattoos, also.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:38 PM
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Me while I am pregnant 🤣 I don't wear makeup at all, I wear an XL t shirt, no bra ever, shorts or skort, and croc slides for comfort. I wear this everyday pretty much, unless I am going on a date with my man. Only my man finds me attractive, looking the way I do, or dolled up. Versus the days I used to do my hair, wear tight clothing/dresses, did my makeup more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:46 PM
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Depends on the guy, but there are a lot of men who actually like these (alt girls in general), if you go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:42 PM
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If he says he rescued cats and kittens, I would be inclined to think that his home smells like horrid cat litter, ammonia, and shit. His home has cat hair on everything. Cats on countertops, tables, everywhere. I have also met quite a few people that "rescue" cats but they don't spay/neuter them, and they let them roam outside, which harms native wildlife btw. I don't like cat nutters as a woman. Toxoplasmosis is real, and as a pregnant woman, it can severely harm my baby. Toxoplasmosis makes ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:39 PM
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I love this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:55 PM
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I love that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:52 PM
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I did animal husbandry, farming, and occasional partying. It doesn't have to be boring, or one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:51 PM
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I used to be a stoner and my bf and I were avid lovers of psychedelics, but then I got pregnant, and now we must abstain until I am done breastfeeding. So like, next year sometime? Lol. But even then, I don't feel it's right to get too fucked up with a kid, low doses for a loooong time. Those who use drugs recreationally are a small niche of people. This sub I notice a lot of very judgemental women, who I guess never do anything at all. The guys seem to be regular guys, the most regular guys do …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:48 PM
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His fav music artist is Elton John. I said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:26 PM
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Because she is judgemental and wants to find a reason to shit on someone else's relationship and circumstance. She needs to do some self reflection. We'll get married eventually. We have other priorities right now for the baby, namely a house. We'll probably get our marriage done in Vegas, because it's quick, cheap, and easy. But he knows I want a really nice ring and a nice wedding, which all costs a lot of money. He isn't going to cheap out on things that he knows will make me happy. My mom do…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:22 PM
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The women I know are doing well. All being taken care of. Some just recently got married, after 1-6 years or so of being with their man. Before I got pregnant, my bf was taking care of me, and is still taking care of me. He paid off my credit card debt for me ($3k) before the baby. Amongst other things... he has dropped a lot money on me. Do you have a man taking care of you? Have you ever had a man take care of you? Did your dad take care of your mom? I just quit my job, and he is taking care o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:07 PM
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Well, 2 people have to be at least somewhat attracted to eachother, to even spark interest between eachother. 2 people have to get along in the way of their personalities. My bf and I laugh a lot together, I couldn't be with someone that doesn't make me laugh, and I can't make them laugh. To be with someone long-term, you have to enjoy their company. If there are men who think it's their looks that are keeping them from getting a girlfriend, perhaps they should keep an open mind, and an open hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:51 PM
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I'm grateful to have a child and I'm grateful that my child has a good dad. Who knows how long I would be waiting.. I'm almost 30, after 35 the risk of having a retarded child; handicaps and deformities, plus miscarriages, goes up way more. A lot of women have children before getting married. Most people I know waited until later to get married. Right now my man is working 70 hrs a week to add to his savings for us to get a house. So I'm not sure why you think it's not looking good for me. Every…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:11 PM
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Yes, everyone is judgemental. Judgemental is bad when the person has a negative opinion of someone else, and would want them to change, or find some way to hinder them, instead of letting them be. Not accepting someone for who they are. I didn't say the guy not into me was bad, but my exes were bad! You don't know me, nor what I find attractive, and what I don't find attractive. There could be plenty of good fellas I find attractive! How would I know if they weren't asking me out? My bf messaged…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:02 PM
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I don't know. I do know that not a lot of women have access to sweetie pie men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:56 PM
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Obeying the law, eh. I hate hardcore bootlickers. It's okay to bend the rules a little bit if it's not harming anyone. I'm raising a dove that is technically illegal to do, but I'm not harming anyone, or the dove, by doing so. When it is capable of flying away, I will put it outside (it's verrrry clingy though, I will say). What makes a man bad? IMO verbally abusing his gf is a big one. I've been with guys that were extremely argumentative, to the point of yelling at me and getting angry if I di…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:13 PM
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A lot of people do it. I didn't start consistently working til I was 24 years old. You just have to be OK with starting small. When I worked at a golf course, I met SO many wives and moms, doing retail or working kitchen side in the restaurant. Most women in retail and fast food are likely to be moms and wives. Taking care of a house, a child, and a man is a full-time job and not as easy as you think. It's a lot. Your priorities change a bunch when kids come into the picture. Especially if you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:53 AM
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My bf is attractive to me also, and he isn't conventionally attractive, either. When I was single and using dating apps, I could not find someone like him. I live rurally, he lives in the city, an hour and 38 minutes away from eachother. When we first started talking, he wanted me to catch a rave with him down where he is, but then I showed him how far I am on the maps app. He said he doesn't want me driving that far, it could be dangerous for me. So we planned a date and he drove to my area ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:51 AM
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We are going to wait for a little bit, we don't have to marry right away. What matters is that he is there and being a good partner to me, and our kid. I got pregnant at the beginning of our relationship, so. Our original plan was to be together for a couple of years then get married and do kids, but that didn't happen. Isn't it a risk for him also? I could do what every other woman does and collect child support and make his life terrible. But I'm not going to do that. He's a good man. Very dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:18 AM
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I think that's why a lot of SAHM's go onto school or get a job when the kids are going to school themselves. If they're staying at home for 18 years or more, that's weird. I couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:05 PM
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My past relationships were with bad men, and they weren't conventionally attractive. I got with them because I thought they were good at first, but over some months their true colors came out. We ended up not getting along in the end. I would never marry them, or raise kids with them. Men like my bf are very rare IMO. He is very kind and patient. Not argumentative at all. Very supportive, and always willing to help others. What I love is how much we talk. Other guys are always too busy or someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:04 PM
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My dream was to have a family. It is finally coming true at 28 years old, I will be 29 when my daughter is born. I have a fantastic boyfriend. We never argue, and we spend more time laughing together than anything else. I look forward to having my own place provided by my bf, especially having my own kitchen 😩 I look forward to turning our future house into a home, not hiding in my bedroom 24/7, having my own livingroom, and raising our baby girl. I've never been career oriented; most jobs I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:23 PM
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Not everyone is meant to make children!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:34 PM
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I've always wanted to be a housewife and SAHM, and I've always gotten hate for it, since I was 16 years old!! From other girls/women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:36 AM
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🤷🏻‍♀️ I dunno. I do think master degree men probably would be embarrassed to bring home a Sonic cashier, or gas station clerk, or grocery bagger back home to mom and dad. She could be the sweetest lady in the world, but she's not going to get picked by the nuclear power plant technician, Space Force astronaut, or rocket physicist. She'll probably get picked by a coal miner or welder, though. They like pretty cashiers who can cook and are family oriented.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:05 PM
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Another word would be sneaky link, side piece, situationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:37 PM
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This, so much this!! Food service workers for example. They are so heavily needed. But almost everyone looks down on us, judges us. If food service wasn't a thing anymore and suddenly everyone had to cook and meal prep at home for their work day/work week, it would be utter chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:35 PM
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My bf is a trucker and I don't mind. I work in a restaurant and I genuinely feel like a lot of people look down on that. My bf doesn't, he said my job and/or income doesn't matter to him. However, when I was single, my mom was so sure I would attract a pilot or some guy working for the government that makes a lot of money. I'm pretty sure those men with college degrees look down on people like me working in food service. I've read that they prefer women in the same tax bracket as them, education…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:32 PM
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Wouldn't have to yell if people just listened the first time when you asked nicely. I'm very fortunate that my bf likes my blunt and honest personality. I'll teach our son to be loud also when needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:18 AM
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That and they can't afford the more expensive women. But there's already so many Asians and Latinas already in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:01 AM
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I chatted with a guy on POF years ago that like, HAD it with Asian women, and he was pretty conservative himself. He switched his focus to hispanic women, oh god. I've actually seen this a lot! Speaking as an asian woman, I'd say we're actually pretty domineering and pushy. Quiet at first, which causes people to assume a lot. We have another side behind closed doors. Whatever mama says, goes! Mama is the boss! Or else we'll get our stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:57 AM
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"Filipino looking for foreigner husband" yep
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:51 AM
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Tbh. Why go overseas? Just move to a major city in NA. Isn't Toronto absolutely teeming with Asians? You can find everything in Los Angeles. More Hispanics here than in Mexico itself lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:50 AM
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I've looked at that subreddit out of curiosity and I've noticed there is a heavy fixation on women from Latin American and Southeast Asian countries. Not so much men going for Eastern Europe, like Slavic women? Makes it kinda seem like they're going after certain women because it seems easier to them... I'm sure Slavic women are a bit picky and don't want losers.. But like honestly, assuming these men are majority white, why wouldn't you want a hot blonde or brunette? That would give you kids th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:44 AM
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Yes, like I've had to yell at people at my job, and a lot of little shits. The word "people" doesn't equate to "all male humans", like you just assumed a lot and jumped the gun hella. I've never gotten into yelling matches outside of my own relationships, and in my current relationship, my boyfriend isn't argumentative. I've yelled back and forth between my own mother and I lots of times. My dad wasn't a yeller-- he preferred discussion, and is a lot like my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:37 AM
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I had bad experiences when I was younger so, I'll only have sex outdoors in like a camping setting, or just something more comfortable and safe, no risk of others popping on in. I'm old and stiff, even riding cowgirl hurts the shit out of my knees, I'm fine with a bed. But good for you and any of your future boyfriends. Have fun and stay safe!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:32 AM
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I agree!! A couple honestly shouldn't be so averse to having sex in a hotel. And it's not like they have to spend their entire time there-- they can go out, do stuff, and come back later! But a lot of people are cheap, and don't want to do that, much less also leave the room to go do date stuff on top of spending money on a hotel. Really most people would rather fuck in their car or outside somewhere, to me that screams low effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:26 AM
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I'm sorry, who said I yell at men? The last time I yelled at a man, was an ex-boyfriend, 2 years ago, because he wouldn't back off when I asked him to, and I was in tears. Usually men in the wilderness are very polite people! But preteens and disrespectful children? Are getting yelled at.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:21 AM
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That's why it's better to stay at home and save for a house!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:20 AM
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I imagine people are cheap, and really not invested enough in the other person to spend $60-$100+ for intimacy. It's sad, but yea.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:54 PM
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On some issues, yes. I'm not very progressive about LGBTQ matters, for example. Afaik, he doesn't seem to care so much. He has no LGBT friends.. or friends of friends. I'm openly transphobic, but he doesn't mind. He's not hard left or far left.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:44 PM
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I guess it's good we're not in a relationship then! You do you! I will yell at whoever deserves to be yelled at. You'd be surprised at how non-confrontational most people are, or like people don't expect you to say anything back, once you do, they're like shocked and shut the fuck up real quick. Even if you're just calling them an asshole out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:39 PM
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Yes, luckily he is very simple! He likes homemade food, and spending time with me on our days off. He isn't into receiving gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:36 PM
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He just never tells me "no" and never rains on my parade. He always meets my needs and wants. Other men are like "I want this, I'm going to do this, my woman must follow and do what I want". I'm like "I want this, I want to do this, it would make me happy." and my bf goes "Alright I should make this possible for her, whatever makes her happy." For example.. most men I talk to that have discussed a future with me, left my chickens out of it 😟 I guess living in a suburb or a city is a MUST.. an ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:12 PM
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I'm more confrontational than he is. I've never fought anyone physically so far in life, but I've yelled at many 🤣 I believe in keeping a firearm or two in the home for protection, rather than calling 9-1-1 and waiting some minutes for police to show up, while during those minutes a burglar/predator/rapist/criminal can run amuck and cause damage. My bf is from the city and isn't too familiar with firearms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:58 PM
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Haha, in my relationship, I'M the leader/boss, and my bf is the provider. I'm the protector too, I suppose. I'm very protective of my bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:29 PM
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Amen to that!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:26 PM
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I lean right on some issues, lean left on others. It's been my experience that conservative men don't provide. I've dated/relationshipped a few and they've actually complained to me like the cost of what I order on a menu.. no joke, in my early 20's an ex bf complained to me "why did you order a shrimp quesadilla? they cost more, that's rude, a chicken tender basket is cheaper". And conservative circles are full of men with red pill ideas, they don't really value women. I was with a conservative…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:25 PM
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The idea of someone else raising my baby sounds awful! Omg! What's the point of being a mother if not to be there for your child, especially for all the firsts? First smile, first burp, first fart, first shart, first giggle, hiccup, nap time, cry, first word, etc etc. Boobs are for breastfeeding and you're not going to use them to feed your baby? The best thing for them? What? The best part of being a woman is the ability to carry and nurture life. Yes it's feasible. My bf makes 6 figures, not 8…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:01 AM
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Is it bad my bf paid for my $325 makeup and skincare products at Ulta? Idk but I loved how the cashier smiled at us when my bf pulled out his card and told me to put away mine. I make way less than he does, and that $300+ would have stung me a bit, so I'm really glad he was able to help me in that regard. It would be difficult if he was broke, yes. Our relationship is taking a traditional turn because we have a baby on the way and, he thinks it's best I stay at home once it is born, and I raise …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:40 AM
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Not married yet, unplanned pregnancy between a gf and bf. We just welcome it with open arms and see it as a good thing, instead of bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:22 PM
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Thank you! I decided to not have a family with the wrong one! I waited, now at 28, I met the right one, and we are expecting a child by the end of the year! My man is so gentle and not neurotic!! Men I met in the past had issues and I used to think something was wrong with me! Why do I attract alcoholics and felons?! Literally 2 of my exes! Men with anger problems! Me walking on eggshells constantly, gotta watch what I say or it's argument/yelling/crying time :( So I took time off of dating for …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:14 AM
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I turn 29 this year and my bf is turning 31. We are expecting a child this year. We'll be married and have a house... I personally feel incredibly blessed.. I don't think my situation is average at all. I only just learned he earns 6 figures-- I had no idea when I started talking to him. I don't know what a "safe" guy is. But if anyone meets someone who is willing to take care of them no matter what, that person is their person of their dreams! Every parent with children wants the best for their…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:58 AM
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I agree!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:18 AM
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Am I the only one who hates the idea of a coffee date, because coffee makes my breath STANKY and I know that shit will ruin a date? Lmao. Does no one else's breath stink from coffee? My bf and I's first date was a movie, then we figured out the rest from there. We were friends before the date.. I asked him if he could pay for the tickets and popcorn because I only had 27 dollars in my bank account from paying bills and rent 😬 he said no problem. Trust me, I was embarrassed to tell him that. Afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:34 PM
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I know, this guy 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:20 PM
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Different strokes for different folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:19 PM
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Some men do enjoy spending on their loved ones. I know I like to give and spoil my bf and my pets! I always have a deep urge to get my cats new toys, even though they have so many already.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:18 PM
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I think this guy has a bad relationship with his mom tbh. The way how he posts about stuff indicates he did not grow up with both parents present and to show him an example of a loving relationship between two people. I think he is damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:12 PM
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Well not just running obviously, working out in general will help. You gotta stretch, too! Do mobility as well. If you find a life partner, you don't have to worry about one's desirability at any age. I'm quite blessed my man prefers natural and the beauty of aging! People look "bad" when they're old. They're old. I love me a cute old man or cute old woman! I love cute elderly couples!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:38 PM
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I mean if you're 50, you're 50. Naturally old people look better than those old celebrities that look like literal monsters! Like Madonna. It's scary af! Old people can do things to improve themselves (like running/exercise, sunscreen, drinking lots of water) rather than going under the knife and looking like a creature to try to look young! When I'm 65 I'll be chilling being 65. When I'm 70-80+ I hope I am a grandma! A proper grandmother to my grandchildren. My argument is that people shouldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:04 PM
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Idk, for me the oldest I'll go is 5 years older than me, anything more than that no thanks. My bf is 2 years older than me and I think it's perfect! In most cases, many much older men have kids, are bald, are overweight... same can be said for older women. That was my experience when I used to try OLD. 35 year old men have kids :/ eugh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:01 PM
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Aging is a part of life. I really wish red pill weirdos would stop obsessing with youth.. like, everyone gets old and unattractive. Looks fade! Women get old, and so do men!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 12:50 PM
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I ask a lot of questions and I determine compatibility based off of our conversations. For example, I was with an alcoholic during covid and I looked over some things he said. In our early stages of dating, I remember him asking me if his drinking was OK, which me at the time just thought, and told him, why wouldn't it be OK? You're a grown man, you can handle yourself. I have learned that a normal person, without a problem, wouldn't ask if their drinking is OK. Most adults drink socially. He dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:08 PM
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OP is definitely single.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:15 PM
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Right, gifts are just a nice bonus. The personalities must match well between 2 people. I love conversation with my man. No conversation = no connection IMO. It's horrible when you gotta pull teeth with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:12 PM
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Exactly!! We all love to flex those things, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:04 PM
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I definitely would not accept anything from some random guy, lol!! If some guy was like "here's a porsche" I would say "no thanks" lmao. Like, a big reason I am with my man is that we ACCEPT eachother. No judgement of eachother.. it's huge. We're both insecure and other people would surely judge us.. a woman would judge him for being a little chubby perhaps, a man would judge me for me having a flat ass, or my teeth even. My man has braces so he understands, despite my insecurity he always affir…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:04 PM
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I'm introverted, and through years of being with extroverted men, I have learned that introverted men are the way to go. I really think extroverts prefer other extroverts. Extroverted men are a bit draining...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:11 PM
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I'd say I'm average looking or a little above average with makeup on. I think my bf is average to society's standards, but to me he is cute! Personality is everything! Looks fade.. how does anyone wanna be with a conventionally attractive person but (for example) they hate dogs, they hate cats, say "EUGH" to homeless people, treat servers like crap, they got a fat ego and are perhaps quick to temper. Also think like, the person attracted to you for your looks only isn't there to stay for the lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:35 AM
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Hey I tried white guys and maybe it's just cause I live in a conservative area and men out here suck, but whatever! The one for me and is treating me right just happens to be Mexican 🤷🏻‍♀️ I always thought I'd end up with a white guy personally, but it didn't work out that way! It would not be removed as racism because I've said elsewhere that I'm not attracted to black men or dark skinned men and ain't nobody removed that. I caused a bit of a stir, but fuck it! Maybe if I'm ever single again I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:08 AM
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It's called double standards But don't be offended Everyone's experience is different dating. Like for example I've heard of and seen men try Asian women but like having a bad time with them, so they switch their fixation to latina women, and for whatever reason their dating experience becomes substantially better. It's whatever to me, not my man so not my business. Or there's people that wouldn't date/marry outside their race at all and they can go on to say whatever.. again, not my business an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:58 AM
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Dawg I have no fucking idea. Not all white guys obviously, but the ones I dated who were like conservative, never supported me wanting to dance and go out and have fun. People being obsessed with white men is like some type of internalized racism? Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:58 AM
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California's been a melting pot for as long as I can remember. I'm white/asian mixed and I've been with primarily white men, and it hasn't been the best. My parents are very old school, my dad italian catholic from the east coast and my mom just korean. Mom always said "find a man like daddy" and the white guys out here aren't like my dad. Not very good manners, poor dating behaviors, boys seemingly unable to show that they can provide throughout the relationship, and the dreaded Christianity bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:00 PM
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I love that!! 💖
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:55 AM
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I give myself gifts all the time! He doesn't have to, but I appreciate that he does! I usually don't tell myself no when I want something and I have the money for it. That's my form of self-love to myself and it's what I was doing in my single, healing phase. With or without him, I'd still be doing me and spoiling myself! I had a poorly relationship beginning of 2022 where a guy lovebombed me but then quickly turned around when he thought he had me, and he completely changed. THAT relationship w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:32 PM
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I'm his first girlfriend. We both live in the moment and are just cherishing everything. We both intend on long-term. Why would a guy drop $300+ on someone for a music festival if he just wanted to smash? Or show his mom a Polaroid pic of us that he keeps in his wallet. Or add me to his friend group's discord? I don't see him as a bank account. He's my boyfriend who allows me to be in my feminine. I love his kind personality. He reminds me much of my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:21 PM
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Men naturally like to provide for their woman. I've asked him if he has a problem with anything about myself, including that I only make minimum wage. He said he doesn't care. He was raised by his parents similar to how I was raised; the men have to be the breadwinner. He and I share a common interest in music, and we've been to a lot of the same music festivals! He lives very close to a venue in SoCal that is used for a lot of festivals. So driving to him is no problem! I go there all the time.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:49 PM
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Leftovers? I sent him home with a bunch of groceries and fresh food! (He doesn't like gifts though) We're going to Skyline this weekend together! All a man wants is a loyal woman that treats him right! I don't have to list all the things I do for him in return :) we do talk a lot, though! He's not a servant, he is my boyfriend! I don't even have to ask him to buy me stuff, he just does it because he thinks of me, and I love that! But I love that it makes random people on reddit mad that a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:16 PM
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Yes, this! I was love bombed by a guy who bought me a really nice, high quality, really beautiful promise ring after dating me for like 2 weeks. He said he wanted to marry me and spend the rest of his life with me, said he would take care of me and the whole script. I went across the country for him, to his home in AL (I am from CA) and he blew up on me with his anger!! I drove all the way back home, because I'm not spending the rest of my life with someone that thinks it's okay to scream at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:43 PM
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I make fun of retarded people 😩 lmaooo My humor offends most other women! But not men usually. My bf cracks the fuck up at my humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:38 PM
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I make jokes with my bf like "if you do this/don't do this I'll tie you up and let the geese pinch you" (I have 2 geese which are pinching machines) I'll never actually tie him up and put him in the goose yard. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:36 PM
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I met my bf because he saw me post on Reddit, saw me link my IG, and followed me! We went to an edm festival for new year's, not together though. But he said he saw me walking around and DMed me after new year's. Been chatting since! He asked me out and asked if I wanted to do shrooms.. I said hell yeah. Our date went great. He bought me VIP to a fest next weekend. Drives an hour and a half to see me (we live that far apart). He brought my mom flowers when he came to the house for the first time…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:39 PM
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Lovely way of putting it!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:23 PM
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Men will rarely approach you at the grocery store or whatever. If you're at a bar, or club, rave, concert, or some place with alcohol, they probably will.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:03 PM
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I'd say she should find a man that wants to go clubbing with her. Clubbing isn't just for singles. Dancing is a fun activity to do with a bf or gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 12:45 AM
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I'm waiting patiently for an asian guy because I'm asian (half) and like, asians are lean people and breed like rabbits, we're attracted to eachother clearly. I tried giving hispanic men a chance but nahh. I'm honestly not that interested in growing my ass, I'm very comfortable and confident in the body that I have. I do just enough to keep healthy, besides that meh 🤷🏻‍♀️ I see no need. You're not a homosexual if you like pussy. I'm very straight, hella straight. I experimented with a friend whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:35 PM
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I'm not trying to be snobby, I am proud of my weight I will say and my metabolism because it could be so much worse. I turn 30 in 2024 and I've been lucky especially not having kids. 5'2" women will more likely blow up I think than women on the taller side. I'm 5'8 with a slouch, 5'9 or maybe 5'10 even (I've seemed taller than supposed 5'10 men) with a straight posture. Ectomorph people are lanky mfers. A lot of women I know who are 5'6 and shorter have gained substantial weight either due to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:27 PM
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I've had men reject me because I'm skinny. They wanted skinny but like with a big ass. I grew up with people, my own parents, family members, friends of family, telling me that skinny is better than fat. Skinny/petite is the desired body-- is what I was told. And it's my genetics. Now men want thick women, but watch when those same thick women hit 40 they'll blow up like Squidward when he ate those krabby patties. My dad always used to pride himself on having a petite wife and he was making fun …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:44 PM
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Everyone has a different opinion of what beautiful or handsome is. White people are ehhh. Her man probably ugly af.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:56 AM
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Ma'am, I could never marry someone like this. I dated someone with anger issues, who had ADHD, for 2 months. And apparently he couldn't do anything about the way he expressed his anger due to his ADHD. His family made excuses for him up and down.. I said I'm out! I'm not being with someone that thinks it's appropriate to scream at a woman when in disagreement over something. We talk it out like 2 normal adults and logic triumphs feelings, so no yelling. Dawg was crazy. Why don't you just leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:16 PM
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Nope. Been there, done that. I am not a caretaker mommy gf. And it seems fucked up, because I may have autism as well 💀 however I'm really good at masking, and I can actually read people 85% of the time. I don't need a caretaker bf or someone making excuses for me. I absolutely hate the idea of having to tell a bf how to act or behave.. that's especially nightmare territory in bed. Imagine lowering your standards so much that an autistic guy doesn't know how to eat pussy, or something similar. D…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:11 PM
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You know it's okay if someone isn't your type. It's acceptable to be attracted to your partner. A man doesn't have to settle for someone he isn't attracted to, like a woman doesn't have to settle for a man she isn't attracted to. As women, let the men pick us. I met mine on fb dating which is nice because it shows you who liked you for free and you can go through and pick out who liked you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:10 PM
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I have tried in the past and it didn't work out for me. Sound advice from my male friends, you have to let the man pick you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:45 PM
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I'm tall and I attract beta males a lot.. though I wouldn't call myself an alpha female. Got tired of attracting cringey guys so I waited for a non-cringey man to pick me. Beta males just are not my thing. To me, it's a strange feeling when I have more masculine energy than the one with the penis and balls. I'd rather be alone than be with a feminine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:42 PM
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Aww, my dad did military and did finance. He was pretty empathetic and a real nice dad. Had a masters degree also so he could rank up in his career.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:31 PM
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I also said it has to be communicated to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:06 PM
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Facebook has a dating feature. I'm a very easy going person in general, very chill and down to earth, as my friends say. I prioritize fun and would like a partner to enjoy life with. I'm not interested in having kids.. not really. Not unless the man is wealthy and can afford a wife and SAHM. But even if I were a mom/wife, I'd still want to go out and do stuff. I'm a raver, if that's relevant. I'd want my future adult children to rave with me and be safe. Self-expression is very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:12 PM
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I'm glad that you get it. I think the standard for this situation is different for women than it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:57 PM
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On FB dating it shows you who has liked you and allows you to swipe through the people who liked you, instead of like the general stack of people that most people swipe through. I go through the men who have already liked me, so there is at least a definite match (and I can see what kind of men I attract). A lot of men have a bit of vague bios. The ones with obvious red flags, I do swipe left on. However, I've only been on 2 dates. Both were not compatible and it's just a part of the vetting pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:51 PM
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Saggy boobs and fat, or saggy boobs and skinny? Yea well we all have our own preferences and our preferences aren't the rule. You may like single moms, but the majority don't. I don't like single dads because I don't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:41 PM
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It's a part of the vetting process, but the majority of men on OLD don't seem interested in commitment. I don't "choose" them, so like on FB dating it allows you to see who liked you and you can swipe through those people. Very few even make it to the first date stage. It is hot garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:38 PM
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Before a woman gets pregnant, perky and bouncy is natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:29 PM
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That's a very niche percentage of moms, not the majority that people see day to day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:28 PM
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Same here. Like, FAT. I love being slim/slender. I look at my mom's body and I don't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:26 PM
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What's sad is that many men I talk to on FB dating, if it progresses any, aren't down to meet my mom or establish bf/gf status.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:24 PM
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It is! But most men seem to be uncomfortable. So it's like, wasting my time. It's sad because my mom wants a SiL to spend time with and treat like family. The last bf that came over left kind of abruptly in the morning, my mom offered him some tea or coffee and he was like "no I gotta go". My mom asked me if she did something wrong :(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:22 PM
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Sex isn't scandalous to me. If a man lives with his parents it's fine but, I would hope his parents are OK with him having sex at home, because it's not his house and I hate to be THAT person. Nothing is worse than to be an unwanted person in someone else's home. Or for your man's parents to think of you as a slut or something else negative. It's a situation that needs to be communicated between all parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:52 AM
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She wants somewhere to have sex comfortably, maybe? I'm 28 and I still live at home 🤷🏻‍♀️ can't have sex with a guy here unless we establish bf/gf status, he meets (and gets along with) my mom. A man that lives by himself, I'd be able to have sex with at our own desired, mutually communicated pace, without meeting eachothers parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:47 AM
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Aren't passport bros losers, anyway? I've watched a lot of 90 day fiance and their spin-off shows, the man going for a foreign wife is always lacking in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:05 PM
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I have outside dogs for this reason 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:46 PM
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Had a younger man interested in me last month and I didn't like how meek, or submissive he seemed. If that is the right word. For example, I invited him to a camp fest and when he wanted to do a group photo, he told me, and I told him to go tell everyone else. In the same manner, he wanted to do something so he went over and told one of my friends that is almost 40 years old, and that friend told him to go tell other people instead of trying to delegate him to do it. Be mature, be assertive, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:43 PM
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I'm the opposite of the wall theory. In my early 20's, all I wanted was to find a good man and have a family!! It never happened. Kept dating men who were unsure of what they wanted, or they wanted to wait until much older to have kids and settle down. So naturally I would dump them and keep looking for someone who wanted marriage and kids. Would meet someone and they seemed ok, but they don't have their shit together/aren't husband quality. It was frustrating. Now I am 28, working, enjoying lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:35 AM
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My hoe phase was age 19-21. My parents sheltered me pretty heavily.. thought I was going to wait til marriage. My dad died when I was 16. Fell out with my mom very badly. Moved out with first bf and we didn't work out. 6 months living together and I broke up with him. Moved out and hopped on Tinder.. my body count went from 1 to like 15-20 in those 2 years. Wild. At first it was fun getting to experience what else was out there.. then I stopped after getting pregnant from a 2 month relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:24 PM
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I think so, too. I don't meet too many people who don't form attachments with their bf/gf unless they have avoidant attachment style. Which I don't think has anything to do with how many people they've slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:11 PM
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I've never had a man ask. I don't ask who I'm dating or am potentially going to date their number.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:09 PM
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It just depends on the man tbh. I've noticed that with the men that I personally hit on, all they want is sex. However the men that think I'm cute and have a crush on me, are very sweet and they take their time to get to know me. Even though my body count is 27. 🤷🏻‍♀️ which includes both relationships and hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:16 PM
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My body count is 27 and I get super attached in relationships. I've never cheated. Hoed around a little too much when I was 19-21. After that, did relationships and got attached, stuck around longer than I should have for emotionally damaged men, or in toxic relationships where all we did was argue, all I did was cry. I must be an outlier 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:12 PM
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They're not pedos. There was a 83 yr old in my DM's and I'm 28. I was like WTF. Bro old af, wrinkly, bald. Saying he looks younger than his age and acts younger. Go back to the senior citizen home. They're just unattractive and a lot of us don't want them. For me at my age, mid 30's is okay. 40+? No. Even if they're good looking they probably got some kind of baggage such as divorced and kids. I don't want to deal with that. I also don't wanna marry someone that's going to die and leave me a wid…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:56 AM
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Fr, old men are crazy. Keep ya ugly, fat, wrinkly, bald headed asses away. Pot belly pig looking asses. No amount of money can sway me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:42 AM
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After dating a southern guy and feeling more like a utility to him than a girlfriend, YES I can say that relationships are more openly transactional. It does not change my pursuit for a cute, golden retriever bf, and a relationship built on attraction and love. It just makes it a lot harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:31 PM
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I have generational wealth, also. Hmm maybe having a baby one day is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:27 PM
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That and being me 🤷🏻‍♀️ I'm not sure what else a man would want unless he communicates what he wants. My dad was a provider and my mom didn't even provide sex, they were only in the bedroom for making babies. But my mom cooked. Some men just want a gf or wife who'd be okay with that set up. You think housewives and SAHM's do anything spectacular for their man? Besides just being loyal to them and being there for them? Lol. Some men are just naturally more nurturing than others and give the world…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:49 PM
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For example, and this is really specific, but living in a dingy trailer with your SO. Like, just stay home until you can afford an apartment or small house to rent. Or room with someone and save that way for your own place. I don't know what it is with white boys and living in trailers. Me personally I can't do a trailer with another person, like maybe for a vacation purpose, but not to live in indefinitely with another person. I would go crazy not having my own space to myself. Or for example s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:05 PM
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If he's hot and fun I wouldn't mind, just as long as he understands it's not something that will last years and years. I don't want to be a widow looool
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:14 PM
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Yea I can't relate to rich people at all. Actually, sometimes they infuriate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:02 AM
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I guess it would depend on the guy and the woman. I'm 27, and I don't want to date a young guy, not younger than me. I like men in their early to mid 30's. I feel like they're more likely to know nu metal bands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:54 AM
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I am 27. I've had a relationship every year since I was 18. I think I'm just too open minded and accepting of people, even if they're depressed or kinda weird. When I was younger all I wanted was to find a good husband type and have a family, but could not find one man that was prioritizing his life to achieve those things. Guys that either wanted children after 30 or didn't know what they want. Now that I'm older, I no longer want kids, and want someone that wants to enjoy life with me. I was w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:50 AM
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It usually comes down to wanting different things out of life, different lifestyles, different values, or something about their behavior is not something I want to deal with for 20+ years. I'm not super social or popular, so I've never had a bf where we already knew eachother. All my exes have been men I've gotten to know as I've dated them. Sometimes as they get to know me, they don't like something as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:39 AM
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I've been with depressed men, and my issue was is that they thought I was going to fix their problems. I can lend a listening ear and offer sympathy/empathy, but it is up to the individual to help themselves. They have to find their "why" to improve. I can always offer help or a solution, but I'm not their therapist. I used to be very depressed myself. So I get it. But I never expected anyone to fix my problems for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:53 PM
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I dated an older man for a few months and I liked that he was good with attention. I know other women who are with older men and they all say the same thing-- good with giving attention, good with sex, more gentlemanly, etc. It could be better if you don't want kids as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:58 PM
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Right. I'm not looking for a rich guy. Ideally I'd like to marry someone who enjoys me as much as I enjoy him. Similar lifestyle, similar values, similar needs and wants. TBH I don't think I'd pair well with a rich guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:53 PM
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Who said I'm trying to get the top 1%? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:51 PM
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I know a couple of women in their early 20's dating men 20 years older than them. As long as it's consensual and they're happy, to me it's not weird. I've dated a man older than me as well, 11 year age gap. My dad is 13 years older than my mom. I've noticed the same recurring comments from myself, my friends, and my acquaintances regarding dating older men. Seems like they're better with attention and making one feel loved and supported.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:50 PM
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Men who are older and hot can get hot, young women. They'd only need money if they're overweight. If you're 40+, fit, fun, interesting personality, you're good to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:57 PM
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I'm a woman who is in a relationship nearly every year at least once, but has never been married. I get dates no problem. I just don't settle. I definitely could have been married by now, if I had settled. I'd rather be alone than settle, and be potentially unhappy, have kids, divorce, create a broken home! No way. Most of my exes wanted to marry me or tie me down, I just told them no and bounced.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:55 PM
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We don't want to be a caretaker. It'd be different if like you've been with your partner for x amount of time, are very invested with eachother, and your partner degenerates health wise. (I mean I sure as hell don't want to be a caretaker.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:49 PM
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I'm a pretty good partner, I think. I'm quite doting and accomodating when I really like someone. I'm detail oriented-- if a bf tells me he likes a certain thing, like his favorite food, his hobbies, passions, favorite show, I will go out of my way to get him gifts related to that. If I were to be a housewife, I would have no problem cleaning and taking care of things around the home. I also have a high sex drive and I give a mean BJ 😂 But I don't want kids. Sex is very much a love language to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:45 PM
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No, we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:05 PM
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Depends on the woman. I am also introverted and not much of an initiator, so I imagine it would be hard to get anything going with someone who is super introverted. When I was younger I dated a man with asperger's and overall it was not a good experience. He was older than me, but childish in many ways. He'd walk on his tippy toes in public while we were out together, which is embarrassing. He did not respect little rules in my home, like putting the toilet seat down after he pees. Obviously at …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:04 PM
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Problem is a lot of men don't provide, besides the bare minimum, and expect women to be thankful and not ask for anything else. I like working because I get money and can pay for the things I need, and the things I want. I can pay off my car, and buy tickets to festivals, buy more chickens/chicken supplies, buy more clothes, more accessories, etc. But trust me I'd love a man to provide all this for me! I can stay home and he can pay off my car and buy us both tickets to festivals. Sounds great. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:41 PM
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He's a good size, thick, high sex drive, pretty good
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:44 PM
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Is spot on. I've only ever been attracted to older men that are physically fit and are at least a little cute in the face. I'm not attracted to the balding beer belly bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:42 AM
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I'm 27 and my bf is 38. He's hot though lol. One of the few older men that stays in shape. As one gets older it doesn't seem as bad? Problem is I look much younger than my actual age so-- when we go out in public, we get looks and stares. People look at him weird. Essentially strangers see a near 40 yr old man with someone that looks barely 20/21. But I'm almost 30! SMH. I have two homegirls who are in 20 year age gap relationships. One 22 and the other 26, their man's in their 40's. They say th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:39 AM
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Whoever wants to be the provider I guess. I haven't paid for a date since I was 18 years old. With my current bf our first date was the fair-- I drove and he paid for the tickets, ride wristbands, and food/beverages. I was shocked tbh because most men won't do that these days, shit the ride wristbands for the both of us was $120. I was like "are you sure?" and he said yea no problem. Maybe if a man isn't broke or struggling, he doesn't care as much. Seems like as long as I drive, which I don't m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:18 PM
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Like squatting on top of a man going up and down is horribly uncomfortable. I can't do it. I tried once and was like holy shit, OWW. I don't know how porn actresses do it, but good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:53 PM
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Anal is a dealbreaker for me. That hole is for pooping. Not for things to go in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:50 PM
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Hair pulling during doggy doesn't work for me and my nerd neck. Makes it awkward and hard for me to breathe. I can't imagine it being attractive to a man. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:49 PM
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My first bf, when I was 18, was a mama's boy. She was telling him things to tell me, and controlling a lot of things. This boy never paid for any of our dates because of his mom. Lol. We lived like 2 hours away from eachother, and instead of pushing him to get a job and a car to see me/pick me up, she insisted that I was the one to do that. I think his mom was a liberal and wanted him to be with someone egalitarian, which is weird because her husband was spoiling her and all that. My mom hated h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:08 PM
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I won't eat a man's ass without a ring. Lol. It's not really something most women desire to do. I know I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:46 PM
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My man doesn't need porn if I am at his house. When I'm not with him, I can't control what he does. However, he asks for me to send him pics of myself, and it looks like videos are next. I am the only porn he needs. When I'm with him, I'm always sexually available, there should be no need for him to go look at porn. We be banging at least twice a day, three times sometimes. We're both satisfied. Honestly, when you like or love someone, it feels devastating if they need the sight of someone else …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:44 PM
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They do! Lol. Most men don't really want an OF gf. I've heard men say over and over that they don't want a pussy that hundreds of other men have seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:01 PM
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Also, delicious food being made for you everyday. Ain't nobody want to eat hamburger helper, hotdogs, or mac n cheese after a long day at work. Homemade Asian meals are amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:56 PM
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US military has been doing it for years. Source: me, an air force child with WMAF parents. Lol. Now dating an older man in the air force and he can't get enough of me. Our sex life is amazing. Me being half American, we can bond and connect over things, it's not totally alien. With a foreign wife, unless she is very educated internationally, there will be some differences. I don't know what it is with Asian women from the old country, but a lot of them lack tact. My mom has never heard of saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:54 PM
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I'm not bothered by fish pictures, but for some reason I am just not attracted to men that have fish pictures along with snowboarding pics. Maybe it's because I've never been snowboarding. Seems like a middle class or upper middle class, white person hobby. "Look I'm so cool!". Yes, yes. I also wasn't into the "well traveled" looking men. TBH I was more wondering who took these pics of them? I ended up matching and now LTRing a kind of a plain looking man, simple selfies, him golfing. I work at …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:39 PM
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They're looking for a pickme to prove them wrong. Ain't nobody got time for that. I always swipe left on those guys. Insecurity is not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:30 PM
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I'm afraid the guy might be a hoe if he is so willing to share his body, publicly, like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:27 PM
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My dad was my best friend growing up. He passed away when I was 16, which gave me daddy issues in the form of attachment issues (I get attached too hard to men quickly) and abandonment issues (I don't want them to leave me). I've had a long time to work on it, though. I have a toxic trait of being overly protective, perhaps possessive, but I've always been this way. In the first grade I had a "boyfriend" that I would follow around and would not let the other girls play with. According to my pare…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:58 PM
2

Nah I got more haters than admirers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:41 PM
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I've dated neurotic men before and I had no idea how to help them. I'd offer solutions to their problems, but instead of fixing their issues, they'd rather just be sad about the same thing and drink about it. Continue to be sad. Not fix it. People who don't want help can't be helped. You're absolutely right, I'm not tolerant of overly emotional people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:41 PM
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As a conservative minded woman, I haven't had the best of luck finding a conservative minded man, took a bit. But I did find one. I'm very strange because I don't look conservative. Septum piercing and split dye hair, one side is black and currently the other side is green. I found a man that likes the alt look on women-- let's be real, we're hot lol. I love e-girl eyeliner and makeup. I'd say I'm more moderate. Liberal men are just kind of weird. Liberal people, in my experience, are rather agg…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:55 PM
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I guess it depends on how much a man is crying and what for. Like, if my bf's kids died and he cried in my lap, I would cry with him and hold him as long as he needed. If he's crying because he had a bad day at work, I'd probably be like "huh?" because that's not normal. If he was doing that once a week, crying because work was bad, I'd recommend medication from his doctor, and perhaps getting his thyroid and hormones checked. Similarly I'm sure if I cried a bunch over small things he would also…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:47 PM
1

I've noticed that men have a harder time moving on than us women do. I've broken up with guys and so many of them will contact me asking to talk or something, and I'm like bro, go fuck someone FFS. It's been 6 months, how are you still missing me? I broke up with you, be mad and go fuck someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:42 PM
1

No, not important.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:08 AM
1

The generational gap wasn't a problem? I always tease my bf about him being older.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:06 AM
2

I'll ask him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:04 AM
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I'm 27 and my bf is 38. I've only gotten hate from men, who see him on my story/posts, they attack him like "ew he's old". Even though he treats me really good and I'm happy, nah let's insult him because we're jealous. The same way that older women attack other women for having an older bf. I'm sure some relationships seem questionable.. like say a 25 yr old man dating a 57 yr old woman, my first thought would be "money", because a geriatric woman is not fertile and can't provide much, other tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:42 PM
1

Yea, settling
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:05 PM
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I'm not offended. Just asking. I wonder what my bf and I are. OP is talking about settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:04 PM
2

And men that put effort into how they look? What if both people in the relationship are high maintenance? Both care about hygiene, fitness, and fashion?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:16 AM
1

Not interested in a hoe of a man for a LTR. I had a brief FWB and honestly I got disgusted by him! He didn't want to be exclusive, and I can't share. I found a man whose older and has had a couple of divorces, but I'd rather have that than a whole hoe. I don't wanna sleep with someone that's slept with half the town.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:12 PM
1

The manifestation gods must have heard me, because I found someone!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:06 PM
1

Not really personal. A lot of us women can pick up on things like that. The bad vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:34 PM
1

Right, probably didn't want OP for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:31 AM
1

The hormones that make us moody and neurotic. I hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:05 AM
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I get dates pretty easily, I just have a hard time finding someone compatible for a LTR. Since being single I've had a pretty good flow of men coming my way and being down to hangout. I have 2 dates this weekend, it's fair season baby, I get to be taken to the fair twice lol I'm not complaining. Gotta get that funnel cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:26 PM
1

True. One of my friends is an INTP and she's actually super hot looking, but kinda cursed as single, she's super blunt and hates feeler men with a passion. She's said so many times "I must have therapist written on my forehead" because of all these sad guys that like venting to her. She straight up doesn't care about people's feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:40 PM
1

A man doesn't have to be politically conservative, I mean I really don't wanna be with some guy and that's all he talks about like, I'd want him to just enjoy the moment with me sometimes. I'd just hope he can understand and support some things. In a relationship I like gender roles, I'd hope someone would be down for that. I don't want unnecessary arguments, either. I've LTRed some conservative men in the past and it seems like they struggle with insecurity. A fest is out of the question for mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:20 AM
1

I adopted the alt look very recently, last year I was plain jane. My life between now and high school was just cutesy, pink, uwu aesthetic. But I mean, I am pretty happy. Teenage me would be in love, and I love that I have financial independence so that I can look the way I want to. To me, the alt style is very beautiful. Wish I could attract a hot metal head guy for a bf. Omg. I'm manifesting so hard but it never comes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:04 AM
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I know I'm pretty cute, also 5'8" and 124 pounds. I'm trying to put on muscle but it's taking a minute, for more weight. It's okay if you don't think I'm cute. Everyone's got a different taste! I typically only like white boys but even they have to have a certain look to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:57 AM
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Probably! But then when they get to know me they're like WTF. I'm not going to change myself though so people can assume more about me easier. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:53 AM
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My personality type is ISTP, we're not meant for most people. Many other female ISTP's also struggle with normal dating and relationships. Lifestyle, personality, willingness to compromise.. which I have little of lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:52 AM
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Dude, I don't know any damn celebrities lmao. I'm a normal attractive woman, not an IG model. I'm also introverted and a farm girl. Even in the boonies ain't nobody wanna tie us pretty ones down lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:48 AM
1

I'm pretty sure I've got basic adulting down..? Work and pay bills? Meal prep? Take care of yourself? What else is there? I'm not career oriented though I think I may have found a passion, for sure. I live at home but I mean my mom lived at home when my dad met her and they moved in when they got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:25 AM
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I'm all that except the fashion and beauty part. Skincare is a serious business and not cheap, and when I have a lil extra money I like to get on romwe and order cute stuff for cheap. Thrift store hauls are fire, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:07 AM
1

What's low maintenance considered?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:27 AM
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Will the popular one let me get in his DM's and fuck with the girls? Or no? Because if not then I guess ole plain roger, but if ole plain roger is too plain and boring, after 2 dates it may be time to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:03 AM
1

Tomboyish when I was younger, these days I don't think so? I have the alt look aesthetic. Pretty much everyone says I'm very reserved. Just quiet cool energy I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:57 AM
1

The guys I date are NOT chads lol. Trust me. Lol. I typically go on dates with average looking white men. They're cute to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:58 AM
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Nope. He said "open relationship". I'm like dude, that's not getting serious. When he said "I'm thinking about getting serious" I thought he meant exclusivety. I like protective men so unfortunately when I do meet someone up to par and he asks me to drop my friend, ole friend is getting dropped. He's a cool dude though, but for a relationship we would never get along. He's very liberal, I am more conservative. The things that are important to him, are not important to me, and vice versa. When we…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:37 AM
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I am wondering the same thing!! Maybe I need to be fat, because fuck. No, I am not in one. I have a FWB for the time being.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:16 AM
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It's true, we do got options. I do got a high sex drive, also. But promiscuous? Mm nah. I tend to stick to 1 person at a time. I have a FWB right now but honestly we only fuck like once a week, if that, just cause we both work a lot and we're both tired bitches that need time to ourselves to recharge.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:55 AM
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From what I have heard about dependas, they don't do much 😂 and cheat, but who knows. I have great home making skills but no one wants to give a chance to see lol. Dating as an ISTP be like-- I am judgemental, though. I wouldn't think an overweight person would make a great homemaker because their knees would start hurting after doing 2 things, or they'd be on their phones all day. On that note, officers and high rank enlisted usually have the hot wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:12 AM
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I swear for us hot women, men don't wanna marry us or we don't get into a good LTR til we're in our 30's. I've just seen time and time again, these hot older people finding eachother after being divorced and going through the ringer. I'm from a small town so when a guy gets with me, or tries to, it's a flex. They're not really valuing me like that. Sad, but true. Men on dating apps be like "I'd love to have a hot emo chick on my arm out somewhere" or quite simply they just wanna fuck. But all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:49 AM
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As an attractive woman, I can confirm this. Don't nobody wanna tie us down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:36 AM
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I know I have orbiters and we women need them, because those are our OF clientele 😂 Orbiters pay to view us, the chads fuck us and take pics for us, also taking advantage of orbiters lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:19 PM
1

Yea, if it's communicated. If not, that's pretty shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:53 PM
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