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Which height is exceptional?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 12:45 AM
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“Exceptionally height”? Most women don’t want to date Gumby the green giant either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 12:36 AM
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Can you give me some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 12:18 AM
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i cherry picked mass shooters bc that's the typical incel crime. when we talk about the men left behind by women's "high standards" and men say men will become more violent as a result, this is what we are talking about... it happens all the time i just think its interesting that men with nuclear families aren't doing better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:26 PM
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its weird to call the standards "so incredibly high" when they are things like "im attracted to him, makes a similar amount of money to me"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:16 PM
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>Society is going to crumble without structure and nuclear families in place the last couple mass shooters have literally had nuclear families
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:14 PM
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they'll either lower their standards or stay single based on which sounds more appealing to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:13 PM
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i guess men should stop fucking with women's feelings then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:12 PM
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I thought men liked pick mes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:11 PM
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because "single woman" makes it seem like those women aren't choosing men, which hurts OP's feelings. so, he has to make up a fantasy about how these women are humiliated and dominated by alpha men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:10 PM
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so you have statistics that ugly men rarely cheat, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:09 PM
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can a woman be single and not looking without being an alpha widow?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:08 PM
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i thought maybe you hadn't realized how it will negatively effect your life. seems you don't care and i've exhausted my interest in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 10:08 PM
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none of my business
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 09:59 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:46 PM
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I just gave you one. Misanthropy will hinder your health, happiness and earning potential. None of my business tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:33 PM
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Yes. How do you know that is what is actually happening and not just your perception from consuming so much red pill content?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:29 PM
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Wait so you don’t know women are responsible for like 85% of consumer purchasing in the us? That would explain it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:20 PM
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Misanthropy isn’t healthy for you and is going to make it hard for you to get the things you need in life like social relationships and good paying jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:18 PM
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I think I hit a point where they weren’t listening to no so I just slept w them to get it over w and get them out of my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:16 PM
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If you can’t attract one that’s on you 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:58 PM
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Bc they purchase for the family. I told this guy to purchase for his family instead and he said it’s women’s work. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:54 PM
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That’s quite the temper tantrum to have about not being able to attract Stacey.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 04:32 AM
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Damn if I had an annoying wife I’d get a divorce not shoot up a church. Male logic is so hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:48 AM
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I’m not? You gave a cause. I pointed to a control group to show you why that w explanation is wrong or incomplete.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:46 AM
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I have no idea what the answer is. Can you pls tell me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:57 AM
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Mass shootings are like 97% men tho Why so disproportionately male compared to even other violent crimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:54 AM
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What do men do in their natural state? Let me guess, it’s something I would be called a misandrist for suggesting men enjoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:53 AM
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And that’s why advertisers cater to women. You walked into the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:52 AM
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No you didn’t. I’m saying your explanation doesn’t work because men and women both do that yet men and women do not both do mass shootings (outside of a few outliers). If you want to suggest a cause, it needs to explain why only men are responding in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:42 AM
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Generally you need to buy groceries for your kids every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:41 AM
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Aren’t women also political and terminally online as much as men are?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:38 AM
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You both work for the good of the family unit and you both share equally in the fruits of your labors. If one person in the couple is lazy and comfy taking advantage of the system, it will never be healthy or balanced no matter what rules you make. You can only do this arrangement w someone you’ve vetted and trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:33 AM
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How can you sleep w someone you aren’t attracted to? Yes I find it hard to meet men I can become interested in and all the guys I’ve been super interested in have “grown on me” but I’ve also lost attraction to men during/after sex so it’s not like that always works. I’d say slow down and wait to have sex until you are attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:31 AM
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Maybe you have the kind of male humor that women don’t like. Men can think you’re hysterical but women aren’t your audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:28 AM
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If men want to be pandered to it’s pretty easy, take on more of the grocery shopping for the family. Go clothes shopping w your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:05 AM
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Even when they tell me they don’t I assume they’re lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:04 AM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:03 AM
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I mean Russian women have better boundaries than American women and are better equipped to interact with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:02 AM
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Thank fucking god
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:59 AM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:59 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:59 AM
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Literally. If men can’t control themselves the government needs to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:58 AM
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The church shooter had a wife and kids. I thought our mass shooting problem was bc women’s standards were too high? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:57 AM
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In order for that to be true there would have to be a very large percentage of men that are bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:22 PM
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Women can get sperm anywhere if they can’t get a man but still want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:18 PM
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You aren’t a provider if your wife has a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:17 PM
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How does that help boys have strong male role models
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:42 PM
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“Nothing to be gained” as if having a nice time with another human being isn’t what we’ve enjoyed doing for millennia. Read a poetry book and get off the internet for an afternoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:55 AM
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Yes that was specified in that commenters scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:01 AM
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Women who single out short men to bully are misandrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:00 AM
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No one but a misogynist singles out fat women to bully
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:44 AM
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Math ain’t mathin
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:39 AM
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Wdym? Every guy who rages at society as an incel would rage at his wife if he was married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:36 AM
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Yeah within groups that often do terrorism they aren’t at the top. Most groups don’t do terrorism tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:36 AM
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Why do you think the gender wars are ending? I agree btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:34 AM
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Legalize abortion then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:32 AM
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Wait you think it’s not misogynistic to randomly attack fat women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:31 AM
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And the familicides
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:30 AM
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80% of what you watch is written by men and 90% of it is directed by men, and this is increasingly male dominated from 20 years ago. And I don’t have the numbers but it’s not controversial to say the people picking/funding which media gets made are also mostly men,
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:29 AM
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Incels are an overrepresented group in terrorists and mass shooters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:26 AM
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Read a poetry book and stop edgelord nihilism-ing away your one wild and precious life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:25 AM
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Why does someone have to be unique for you to care about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:24 AM
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Those men take their rage out on their wife and kids instead of becoming a terrorist. Either way someone is getting terrorized. Note that this is not about all men but men that become/would become terrorists without a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:22 AM
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Less women can afford to keep a stay at home spouse than women who can afford to let a scumbag crash at their house and eat their food.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:17 AM
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the failure rate is too high to keep saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:50 PM
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> Guys talk a lot of shit, this is something a guy would typically learn early and how to roll w it. y'all can't keep saying this w the male suicide rate where it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:44 PM
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so why do trans men face transphobia?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:43 PM
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i believe they are following orders, not cooperating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:41 PM
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nope military is hierarchy, not cooperation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:00 PM
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> I don't 100% agree because you don't always need to have physical dominance to dominate someone. i agree thats why i gave other examples of control: "threats, intimidation, manipulation" > If I just pinch a woman but still abuse "abuse" is used in a bunch of different ways. an "abusive relationship" is where one person has the power (through whatever means) and controls the other. if you can control another person through pinching, then it is an abusive relationship if you cannot control anoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:59 PM
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violent good guy vs bad guy while women are playing house (cooperation games)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:55 PM
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facts over feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:55 PM
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can't please em
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:53 PM
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the other kind of men are gaslighting women that chad doesn't actually lie or mislead them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:53 PM
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> "Whenever a man says that women also enforce gender roles on men, a common response is, 'Men are the ones who created these patriarchal standards in the first place.' Therefore, it’s not women’s fault for what men did." its not about fault. its about joining together to get rid of something that is toxic for both of us. if men don't want to end patriarchy, then we can't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:25 PM
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ex: boys play war with toy guns, girls play house with barbie dolls
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:24 PM
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not really, you can just look at violence statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:23 PM
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abuse = one person controlling another through threats, intimidation, manipulation or actual physical harm if you are not being controlled, for instance if your partner isn't big enough to physically harm you and no other kind of intimidation/threat is present, you should leave the relationship. if you are being controlled through verbal abuse, for instance, then i completely agree with you that male victims should be treated the same way female victims are. men themselves say men are desperate …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:23 PM
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yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:20 PM
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constant fighting is not "fine" for kids based on health data instead of your personal feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:20 PM
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"> I truly think most women are completely clueless to the issues men face." i think women are aware of the issues men face because men are very loud about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:19 PM
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can you give some examples of valid complains men should have about relationships that aren't taken seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:17 PM
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at a regular social gathering like a thanksgiving dinner, there is no heavy lifting. men sit around all day while women do all the planning, cooking and cleaning. in the old days this was "fair" because the men paid for it. now they maybe pay for half.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:16 PM
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feminism literally teaches that men are victims of patriarchy too. and that some women are the villains of patriarchy and men are the victims (ex: a mom enforcing gender roles on her little boy).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:10 PM
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supposedly men don't lie or mislead women about wanting a monogamous relationship with them, so i'm not sure why anything would change as society accepts polyamory more. men say we're already doing the things that would lead to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:09 PM
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has anyone said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:08 PM
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men will always complain they used to complain women were a ball and chain now they complain women don't want to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:07 PM
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do your best and do it with good intentions and apologize if you misstep. that's what i do and it works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:06 PM
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sure but other kinds of women aren't liked by men whereas those women's male counterparts don't experience any issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:06 PM
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> We can also see this in women post covid era. Post-COVID, the percentage of single women reporting weekly sex declined from 49.2% to 40.5%, and those with at least one partner in the past year fell from 58.7% to 50.8%. huge win for the red pill, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:05 PM
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> I truly think most women are completely clueless to the issues men face. ya'll are constantly screaming about it tho? men literally shoot up schools every week over it? the person you're responding to is right. i feel terrible that my awkward nephew who i love very much will very likely face a lot of difficulty in dating. But i am not in favor of like... returning financial pressure to women so that they are forced to date men when they would otherwise stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:04 PM
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> Chads might be sleeping with multiple women, but they're not fathering children with multiple women for the most part. gonna get harder and harder not to do that as birth control and abortion become more restricted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:03 PM
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so the 80/20 thing won't be an issue in the future bc all kids will be chads kids? so women will like all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:02 PM
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are you suggesting alexander the great was in control of his emotions? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:01 PM
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im celibate and dont watch porn bc its disgusting and unhealthy i have the most energy i've ever had tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:57 PM
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that's totally false my guy friend was just describing how "powerful" he felt over the weekend going to parties with a really hot friend who was visiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:57 PM
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not if you complain about school kids getting free lunch (the correlation is its okay to frivolously spend money, but you better also be a generous person)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:56 PM
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ew im already grossed out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:55 PM
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women read more than men tho book clubs are female coded and cats are male coded: https://www.petfoodindustry.com/pet-ownership-statistics/news/15705361/study-more-men-than-women-own-cats
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:55 PM
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i love deadpan humor but im a giggler
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:54 PM
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incredibly charming incels should try it!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:53 PM
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if im talking, i'm laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:53 PM
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studies say that's not what's best for kids tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:53 PM
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have you read any research that says unhappy parents who are together are better for kids than happy parents co-parenting is? i think as long as the parents are co-parenting there isn't a difference in married/apart what's bad for kids is fighting parents whether they are together or co-parenting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:52 PM
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i want a russian woman for every american man they're equipped to handle yall, we are not 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:51 PM
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and yet it is not the attention of bmi 19-21 women this post is designed to elicit attention from. curious. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:50 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/8eh2xmzvckrf1.png?width=1196&format=png&auto=webp&s=2fd3f7efe166f04d831a9278c9c154b4b9e3d983 metaphor for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:49 PM
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when i had a low n count i only wanted to date low n count men i guess we aren't so different
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:43 PM
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thats not sluts business tho? its not their fault if you can't attract a virginal woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:42 PM
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if you were, you'd know that "experience" in logic is irrelevant. all that matters is if your argument is literally logically correct (a math equation).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:39 PM
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okay so def not someone who has taken philosophy 101 take some logic tho! you need it!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 09:17 PM
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what does society have to do with personal relationships? i want to contibute to society whether or not i am in a personal relationship. i assume you are saying men do not, which is why they are paid money. if they dont work those jobs, women will do them. the #1 deterrent to women going into those fields is knowing they will be harassed by their male coworkers. funnily enough, i am childfree. i like working. i like contributing. I pay out the butt for school taxes in my blue state and i love it…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 09:12 PM
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logic is math
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 09:02 PM
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im sure its just as important as when young women couldn't find partners
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 09:02 PM
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i just did? poc are people. they are included in my genderless argument about why people are less into dating than the in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:11 PM
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just saying it doesn't make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:19 PM
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saying “there’s a gang violence problem in the black community” isn't racist i mean its not *not* racist. i'd need to know the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:16 PM
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so you agree, mixed signals = no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:16 PM
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🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:08 PM
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dating is like going out to eat. there are lots of places to go out to eat and its up to you to read reviews and make good choices. but, if overall most of the time you go out to eat your experience is unsatisfying (or dangerous, damaging, etc) then you will be less interested in eating out. you might even invest time in learning cooking skills and get to a point where you feel your own cooking is superior to anything you could get at a restaurant. because we treat each other so poorly, romantic…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:51 PM
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trying to decide whether you've taken philosophy 101 and think you're edgy or if you haven't even taken that yet
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:55 PM
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so now its a problem? why wasn't it a problem when it was mostly young women in church who couldn't find a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:54 PM
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i mean we could stop deporting people if we just need more workers if you only want babies of a certain skin tone, you could probably just write checks to women who have babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:53 PM
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you're almost there!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:51 PM
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gay men don't have a shortage of friends
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:51 PM
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thats how you go to jail
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:50 PM
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i asked if the commenter thinks its okay since he was defending making misogynist comments bc he "snapped" it helps to read the thread and not just randomly reply to people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:50 PM
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feelings maybe but when you take it to violence, obviously not. men kill women way more than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:49 PM
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ah charlie kirk's legacy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:47 PM
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you're telling me you "don't know" how you can have control over a rape fantasy that's in your own head? if you're saying you can't control a rape fantasy you play out with another person, congrats, you agree with the point i just made.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:45 PM
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you dont have rights to someone else's body you are responsible for any children you create act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:44 PM
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haha so "do charity work for straight men or we will continue to oppress you" cool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:43 PM
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then the government shouldn't have to apply more pressure for women to depend on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:42 PM
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it shows whether he has a double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:41 PM
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i never robbed a bank and im still not rich, meanwhile the men willing to rob banks get rich. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:37 PM
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as opposed to what? project 2025 is about getting women to be dependent on men and trapped with them. its the spiderman pointing meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:37 PM
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i dont even know what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:35 PM
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and moral
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:34 PM
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we still do it in 2025
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:07 PM
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i dont, shes rich at least. i worry about the poor women who get told they'll be taken care of as long as they're a wife and mom who end up destitute because, shocker, we live in capitalism where you have to be self-sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:26 PM
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you're denying that we socialize men to act tough and women to act nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:24 PM
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> The collection of these statements presumes that were it not for the risk of competition you would be interested in dating and being sexually intimate with such men, and that thus you are limiting your set of potential partners (because of their acknowledged attractiveness) to a set for whom there is less competition (because they are less attractive). yes. because, for the reasons i described, alpha men are not attractive. we don't live in a fantasy world where alpha men don't carry those ris…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:23 PM
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i didn't settle, these were all men i simped for because i was so attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:21 PM
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he was def both.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:20 PM
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> Did they have hobbies you found interesting why would you date someone who didn't have hobbies? like yeah for instance one of them was a big reader which i found really hot, he was also in a motorcycle club which i found really cringe and embarrassing > Did they have good game they were good talkers, not in the sense of being a charming salesperson, but the kind of guy who can carry a conversation with a woman. lots of men don't like talking, especially culturally in my region where men are mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:06 PM
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no i'll settle for being single over fear of competition but i would never settle for a man, i don't know what i'd get out of that. i've simped for all the men i've dated or else i wouldn't have dated them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:59 PM
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what would the gay men get out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:57 PM
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according to this guys logic too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:57 PM
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just like how racists don't think anything is "actually" racist. they are against racism in theory, but never in real life when it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:57 PM
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if they do... they are misandrists. the person i'm responding to is denying that he is a misogynist after describing himself saying misogynistic things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:56 PM
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see this is why erika kirk is a loser. because she does ALL FUCKING THAT for a group of people who will turn around and call her a whore 😂 now THAT is a SUCKER.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:54 PM
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some people are unhealthy. some people are illogical. > Do murderers pretend to consensually murder others to act out their fantasy of murder but with consent?? this is a great example because you actually can't consent to be murdered. you will still go to jail. it is still a crime. we dont even allow dr. assisted suicide in the us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:37 PM
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I enjoy drinking water. I don't enjoy drowning. I enjoy inviting people over to my house. I wouldn't want a home invader to show up with a gun in the middle of the night. A fantasy I control where nothing goes beyond my boundary is enjoyable. I wouldn't even play this fantasy out w a man i trusted 100% because its just not the same. He's not a mind-reader, there's gonna be something that goes to far. I don't like that even a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:37 PM
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My parents were republicans.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:35 PM
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christian nationalism is red pill and it's the future of the republican party, who currently control all three branches of government. people are speculating erika kirk will be vance's VP nomination. I don't think that's "losing the culture war".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:34 PM
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source?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:31 PM
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or they can just drop the toxic beliefs about masculinity that negatively affect their health and quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:30 PM
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not even just looks, but we socialize men to act tough and women to act nice, so actions too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:29 PM
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the way men talk about empathy/show empathy for others. like when a female teacher rapes a male student, im irate. the women in the comments are irate. you know who isn't irate? the grown men in the comments saying they raped boys probably had a great time and they are jealous of them. like if we can't get on the same page about what is good and what is bad, it's hard to extend effort towards someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:28 PM
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the fact that you can be the chadiest chad on tinder and not every woman will swipe right on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:27 PM
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idk they all pursued me and were smart and fun to talk to. i actually have never dated a man i met in a group setting like that, we built a connection privately first.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:23 PM
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so do you think its okay for women to be misandrist bc they've been raped or dated shitty men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:22 PM
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> It's because most men don't understand how the family court system is so rigged against them. it isn't. in the us it is extremely hard for a bio parent to not get any custody. and men get primary custody more than women when both ask for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:18 PM
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> It's this weird, strange thing they fantasize about over and over again. its really gross i could never date a girl who really wanted a big wedding. i think its gross but unless she is very wealthy, it's also a being responsible with money thing. even if i wanted to spend a ton of money on a single party, weddings are so cringe! it's just not it for me. thankfully i date men and most of them would be fine eloping.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:17 PM
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i assume "alphas" are cheaters. i'd never date or even sleep with a celebrity, for instance. and if he's the most popular guy in the group, i'm not attracted to him because i'm not attracted to the drama of constant competition. i think your advice is if you are only interested in Stacey aka male hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:15 PM
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when i snap, i don't say misogynistic things. if you say misogynistic things when you snap, you're a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:14 PM
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there is a finite amount of women who are so insecure and/or desperate that they will put up with an abuser or cheater. if you want to compete with other abusers/cheaters for that finite pool of women, you can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:13 PM
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so true ese!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:03 PM
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"Do with this information what you will." not a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:17 PM
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no? charlotte is extremely beautiful and doting. she met her match, just not in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:51 PM
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so then it doesn't fix 99% of problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:47 PM
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yes? sorry, did you mean men who don't have *anything* going for them? in any case men make up 80% of writers and 90% of directors in Hollywood. and that trend is becoming more, not less, male-dominated
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:46 PM
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and if they don't? you said 99% of problems would be fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:06 PM
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This famously happened in sex and the city with Charlotte and Harry. in any case men make up 80% of writers and 90% of directors in Hollywood. and that trend is becoming more, not less, male-dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:04 PM
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it doesn't matter if its a reasonable expectations. it matters if they will change their behavior, which most cheaters won't. if they had the moral strength to not cheat, they would have already not cheated. what do you do in that situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:54 PM
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only if you think people change their actions when asked 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:36 PM
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slow down and wait for him to make the next move. i want to be on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:02 PM
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> Would vanish if individuals addressed issues directly. Husband not up to scratch? Communicate directly. If his actions change? Problem solved. His actions don’t? Do with this information what you will. you can't even solve the problem in your hypothetical. so how would the complaint "vanish" if addressed directly and he doesn't do anything to change? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:01 PM
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> No matter how attentive they are, I simply don't trust men to be equal parents. so we're tolerating open misandry now?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 07:59 PM
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why
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:57 PM
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yeah i def agree there are bad and gross ways to ask or reasons for asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:56 PM
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> A first date is fairly low stakes. for you. not for me. the more time i spend with someone, it is harder to think clearly about them. i would rather get as much of the big dealbreaker stuff out of the way as fast as possible before my judgement is clouded. that is how you "choose better". > For a lot of people, work is just a paycheck and that's fine. i will learn that about them when they talk about their job. my follow up question if they aren't passionate about their job would be what they …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:23 PM
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jobs are fun stuff to me 🤷‍♀️ Lots of people like working and you don't know until you ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:45 PM
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easy when you dont have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:44 PM
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its how you spend 40+ hours a week how are you gonna get to know someone without knowing what they do all day, most days? thats just dancing around a boogeyman for no reason. > The purpose of the date is to have fun together and talk to each other. how are you supposed to "choose better" if you're just supposed to "have fun"? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:43 PM
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not in america. it is extremely difficult to keep a bio parent from their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:41 PM
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being a mother already does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:20 PM
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it gives you more access to your partners money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:17 PM
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it sounds like there aren't enough good men to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:14 PM
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my dad didn't teach me how to fix anything, how to workout or how to choose a career. how are you measuring how common this is? espcially considering how many men abandon their kids completely?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:42 PM
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its not even about wants. you NEED money to survive. if you have having a baby, you are unable to work. best case scenario all you lose is a few weeks of pay and half a year of your professional reputation as it counts towards advancement. and then the added pressure of providing for a baby and those costs along with childcare costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:40 PM
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sad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:39 PM
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mixed signals = no
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:01 PM
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you'd be fuckin crazy to in my opinion. but lots of people want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:59 PM
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can't argue against vague claims
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:58 PM
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i advocate not getting married/mixing finances to begin with. but if you want kids, then you have to do all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:57 PM
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i just said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:56 PM
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wouldn't this explain men's poor mental health? if you have to be a bad person, you won't respect yourself. if you don't respect yourself, you will haver poor mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:08 PM
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name the specific flaws that women say are worth leaving a relationship over that aren't worth it. be specific. we can't argue over vague complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:06 PM
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so you can't name any kind of praise women get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 02:49 PM
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what praise? from which groups in society?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:49 PM
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what praise? from who?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:54 PM
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source that this would improve mens mental health and not make it worse? do murderers have better mental health than non-murderers?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:44 PM
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because its hard to be attracted to men just from a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:42 PM
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> When men contribute to society they get nothing in return. what do women get in return for contributing to society?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:41 PM
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you aren't. it's only if you get her pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:41 PM
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good. i accept that as at least being consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:33 PM
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what you described is how most dates women are accused of using as foodie calls go.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:19 PM
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so you were on a foodie call?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:08 PM
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> If we are talking about women leaving restrictive abortion states in the US, I'm not sure why you're trying to make freedom of movement within the US, which is a constitutionally protected right that both major political parties acknowledge, into a political issue. so you're against the government tracking women's movements between states? which vance continues to suggest we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:03 PM
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wouldnt it be easier for you guys both to put yourselves first and support each other as you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:59 PM
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in my pro-social blue state we'd do just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:48 PM
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the right hates refugess i thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:42 PM
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we did just fine when all the men left for wwII and women took their jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:37 PM
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so men aren't checking out of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:36 PM
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"just move states bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:28 PM
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or that most women vote for harris/walz idk why yall are only counting white women? thats weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:23 PM
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didn't more women vote for harris and walz tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:22 PM
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yeah but women also dont wanna sleep with bi men. gender roles are for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:21 PM
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joint 401ks too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:13 PM
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then create a fair, safe way for men to opt out. because what you're suggesting means men will never wear condoms again. they'll just force women to get abortions based on their whims. and they aren't even legal right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:13 PM
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easy to not want to keep score when youre the one coming out on top
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:12 PM
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> when you get into the weird world “he should make up for lost wages, calculate the lost value, etc” it gets meticulous to the point of it not even really being a team effort anymore. i mean this is why alimony exists so we do it anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:11 PM
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relationships are a partnership thats why the womans 100% sweat equity should be met with the man's 100% financial equity in the situation of having baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:11 PM
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many of them are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:09 PM
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i mean women literally lost rights we used to have in the last couple years
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:09 PM
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> Men will simply do the minimum and check out of society, and live in modest solitary contentment. so why would women want to be around people like this? let men check out and let women run society then since you're saying men don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:05 PM
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every single republican in my life told me it would never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:11 PM
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id agree with that, i think most people underestimate the amount of people who are bad at spotting manipulation and/or how hard it is to get away from them when you're stupid/desperate in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:39 PM
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some people are good at manipulation, some people are bad some people are good at spotting a manipulator, some people are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:37 PM
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reddit makes it very hard to scroll and find a specific comment. i wasn't bitching, i thought i was being helpful and even said I will go look after.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:37 PM
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> Internet rabbit holes, lack of connections, distorted versions of reality and general nihilism are to blame. women face these same problems tho? so what explains the gender gap when it comes to violence? especially mass shootings?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:34 PM
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> even the gendered differences in impulse control are exaggerated. The difference is definitely there, but not massive. so what would you attribute the gender gap in violence, especially mass shootings, to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:32 PM
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how would conservatives not be to blame for over-producing violent men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:30 PM
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its definitely related. violence is gendered and violence affects dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:30 PM
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lol the "privilege" of body autonomy makes it seem like you think the default is others get to decide what to do with your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:24 PM
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> feminists have long ago achieved their goals. women in the us have less rights now than they did under obama...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:22 PM
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really? i think you're confusing getting a handful of women who are into you when you catfish as a rude chad with getting 95% of women interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:30 PM
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what does college have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:27 PM
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i thought this was about desiring a boring guy vs an exciting guy? what "attitude" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:26 PM
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what does that have to do with all male prisons?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:25 PM
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i would rather upgrade my house than go on vacation. its stressful and i dont like being away from my dog!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:06 PM
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i would only date a boring responsible man. luxury cars and dubai disgust me. i think you're talking about the top 20% of women who are stacies and able to get flown out and such. like yeah if you're all competing for stacey i can see why you feel inadequate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:04 PM
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i thought patriarchal men were protectors? why would a protector make fun of someone for being weaker than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:04 PM
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so why didn't you try and commit to women when you were young and in social settings with women? maybe they think you've hit the wall and are no longer interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:03 PM
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who do you think is perceived as more masculine by men: donald trump or tim walz?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:01 PM
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its applauded in all male prisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:58 PM
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do you know about copy/paste? if you memorize ctrl x and ctrl v it takes 2 seconds. i'll look.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:54 PM
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any evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:54 PM
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i think this whole issue is just about when a victim is saying what they went through, to not be rude and play armchair quarterback. like yeah, hindsight is 50/50 but why are you bringing it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:53 PM
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> The difference is that women are specifically attracted to really shit behavior lets say this is true some of that shitty behavior is also applauded by men and seen as masculine. for instance, a man being violent makes him more manly in the eyes of other men. do you think men have a responsibility to not consider shitty traits to make someone more manly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:49 PM
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> We do but they don't always want us. if they're wholesome, they want wholesome men, period. i'm not using wholesome to just mean average, i mean actually good and oriented towards morality. all the christian women who want husbands. this is a subset of women that should have a 1-5% singleness rate, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:48 PM
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lots of single girls in church pining for a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:41 PM
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so go for wholesome women instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:41 PM
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you think 95% of women go for hot assholes? its like a loud 50% at the absolute max.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:33 PM
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what companies are getting rich off the gender war?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:33 PM
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no the root of the gender war is that men generally want women to submit to them, cook/clean/care for kids and go 50/50 on finances. that's a losing deal for women, so less women are interested in men than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:32 PM
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congrats you invented machiavellianism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:30 PM
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don't men have a phrase "don't stick your dick in crazy" because the women they are most attracted to are... also not good for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:29 PM
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well yeah what stops me is that i have low anxiety and drama in my life because i can respect myself if i lied, i would have more anxiety and drama men seem more comfy living a lower quality of life with anxiety and drama
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:14 PM
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nope, if you look at the comments section when a teacher rapes a male student, the women will be outraged, calling it rape, and saying she should be in prison. the men will be saying they wish they could be the victim, its not rape, etc. they might even say "if it was a man people would be more outraged" all the while THEY are the ones who are not outraged enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:08 PM
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81% of women vs 40% of men are the shoppers for the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:31 PM
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women spend more on family needs, men spend more on wants for themselves. -- forbes 2025
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:29 PM
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oh got it, mine too. but maybe just my mom was easier on that one bc she was guilty 😂😂🤣 their big thing was lazy people, anyone on disability, anyone who didn't work, have a nice yard, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:25 PM
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were you upper class or umc? maybe it is more of an upper class thing my family are super judgemental and shit on everyone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:22 PM
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it seems like you are intent on misunderstanding whatever was said to you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:16 PM
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minimum 2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:15 PM
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i mean, how do you explain maga then? (genuinely i'd love to understand this better, i'm half joking) 🙏 i feel like my inclination (via growing up super religious) is that everyone is pretty smart no matter what "walk of life" they come from but then i talk to most people and their basic reasoning skills are just so bad. like how smart can you be if you don't have a scaffolding to build off of? and it's worse with red state people because they don't even get the foundation of a good k-12 educati…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:13 PM
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i think im gonna be a republican from listening to financial audit i cant w everyone in the military getting 5k a month indefinitely for disability
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:08 PM
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as someone w divorced parents and an absent father, i've literally never felt shame about being a bastard? like it just occured to me reading this now, at 40 that i fit the criteria and i've never thought about it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:07 PM
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then use the correct word paying for your kids is very different than paying for your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:05 PM
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lower class has the most absent parents
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:04 PM
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do you feel like leo in The Departed?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:03 PM
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lots of upper class fams force you to ignore/put up with family members bad/illegal/dangerous actions bc that family member holds the purse strings, too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:01 PM
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honestly i'd rather someone supress than their issues explode violently out of them, but obviously the goal is having healthy emotional hygeine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:01 PM
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thank you for saying this bc i honestly gaslit myself growing up that people from all walks of life are the same and then i'm surprised pikachu face when people say things like "if i didn't lay with a man and make the child why would i care if its hungry" (just an example of the last time my mind was blown by a perspective from someone i assumed was socialized in a dif class).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:00 PM
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> Completely different is an exxageration. UMC men have raped, beaten, killed, and cheated just like poor men have. The difference is upbringing, not really the money. Well, money has helped men GET AWAY with doing more awful shit, but thats about it. yes umc and poor men are immoral/bad people in similar percentages but *how* this looks is different. and i agree that umc are more likely to get away with bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 09:56 PM
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i mean i constantly observe that i have different social norms as someone who grew up UMC from specifically blue collar people. i was raised not to raise my voice or fight or be aggressive, its considered the height of tacky. blue collar people think this means you are submissive and weak. it is a big culture difference and it matters in dating because of your interpersonal dynamic, what you can be attracted to and what kind of guy is gonna embarrass you socially. > I made this post because I fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 09:53 PM
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so you rewrite the concept to exclude ways men have harmed women before the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:28 PM
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> As opposed to women, who are famous for sticking around to solve problems in a relationship instead of immediately cutting ties and finding another guy, right? the issue is women try to fix it and are ignored and so when they leave, men think they "immediately left out of nowhere"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:40 PM
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so it wasn't a "gender war" when beating and raping your wife was legal and women couldn't vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:39 PM
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not all abusers are the same, just like not all criminals are the same. some are white collar, some are trailer trash. some are easy to spot, some are smart and hard to catch. some have an easy time getting women, some have a hard time getting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:38 PM
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you're imagining the word "only" tho i guarantee 99% of women are talking about how personality matters more than men think (as personality matters less to men), not that its the only thing that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:36 PM
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> Many men are not going to have a problem misrepresenting themselves to have it if they know that it’s only for short-term. Why should they feel bad about it? because lying is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:33 PM
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yes in my opinion: hiring a photographer to take photos of you is desperate and tacky displaying those photos is desperate and tacky not limited to weddings
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:32 PM
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i guess. i think the pictures just look tacky and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:12 PM
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you just said its cost you every relationship you've had.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:09 PM
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you make it seem like men are just bad people... i think men want to be able to respect themselves. i've met men who value their word and they seem very mentally healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:08 PM
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thats where i learned my social skills 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:06 PM
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i didn't say "all potential dealbreakers" i think you know when there's big stuff and you catch yourself lying or being intentionally vague to cover it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:05 PM
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he doesn't want to respect himself? also lots of things happen differently than you plan in life. the woman he lied to could come back into his life in a different way (work, social circle, family, etc) and expose him as a lying creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:36 PM
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yup, if you want low drama you can't create drama by lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:35 PM
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men can have lots of experience and still be really bad, usually its about effort more than experience but im sure experience helps you relax, which can't hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:35 PM
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i mean dif between not telling each other everything and purposely obscuring something you know might be a dealbreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:34 PM
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have you considered getting treatment for your addiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:33 PM
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its normal to want something just bc its expensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:32 PM
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i think they're sooooooooooooooooooo embarassing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:31 PM
7

no one is loved back perfectly all the time. everyone who tries to love will experience unrequited love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:31 PM
10

social skills are very important. that's part of the good public school does, giving kids opportunities to socialize and practice their relationship and team building skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:30 PM
1

I just said I support equal privacy laws. I don’t support anyone burdening taxpayers w their babies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:25 AM
1

Nah I’ll support a genderless medical privacy amendment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:22 AM
1

Haha I mean we know abstinence only fails at a population level already?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 05:15 AM
3

I think the government wouldn’t want to do that bc men would just never wear condoms again and pregnancies would skyrocket for single mother homes and taxpayers would have to support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:05 AM
2

Because they can’t get pregnant? It’s okay w me if we keep the laws gender neutral and just say no one’s medical records can be turned over to the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:03 AM
1

I gave an example. Women’s right to body autonomy has been taken away.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:40 AM
3

I support free vasectomies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:39 AM
1

This is the reason you can’t say feminism has gone too far, bc our basic rights were taken away. Pre roe being overturned I think this was a fair enough argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:28 PM
2

I don’t understand the way you guys talk. Like I don’t buy you are too dumb to follow the conversation so are you just playing dumb so I stop responding? Why respond at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:27 PM
3

And yet our rights were taken away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:07 PM
1

Oh I def did not realize you meant a full matriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:06 PM
2

why do republicans keep asking this? do y'all live under a rock? maybe turn off reddit and watch the news once in awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:47 PM
2

how do they act like liberals?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:38 PM
2

how are trad women hypocrites?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:21 PM
3

if we have the same rights then an argument can be made that feminism's work is done. you cant make that argument when women's rights were literally just rolled back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:20 PM
3

medical privacy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:06 PM
4

why not date trad women? it sounds like you're describing liberal women, which you dont like anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:20 PM
5

gotta give women their rights back before you say feminism has gone too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:19 PM
3

my sister is the sole breadwinner, her husband takes care of the kids and cooks and cleans.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:18 PM
14

> You wouldn't have to "provide" if society wasn't set up to make new mothers desolate and dependent. this is the answer. 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:16 PM
13

literally, very few men can afford to have a gf or wife that doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:16 PM
3

then they need to offer something else whatever you offer, its gotta even out to around 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:15 PM
1

then they need to offer something else
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:15 PM
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We don’t even have the same rights as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 07:52 PM
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Was it not a gender war when it was just men keeping women down without women advocating for our rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 07:52 PM
1

red pillers getting a glimpse into how people will mourn them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:22 PM
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So do it without a woman. Plenty of kids need a foster dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:43 AM
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I don’t think men give compassion often.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:52 AM
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Single men and single women are not the same. Idk why you’re acting like those are the same options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:20 AM
2

I mean this is America
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:19 AM
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If they find a way to make is safe and not increase sex trafficking. Like in theory I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:19 AM
4

Men don’t wanna offer deeper foundations. Most of the men here think talking to their partner is a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:18 AM
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Okay but she isn’t talking about your bf who can clearly attract someone. She’s talking about men who are unhappy w their options
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:17 AM
4

I don’t want a virgin but ran thru men are a huge turnoff. Never understood people who hook up w celebs for instance. Nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:07 AM
2

Is that not the same for non-Stacey women? You don’t get what men offer to Stacey either. They’ll offer you crumbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:06 PM
2

Okay so your issue is not every man easily gets tons of women, not most men being single or unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:52 PM
1

Whatever it is, you’re wrong that we’re the most free ever. I see why you’d be anxious to change the subject tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:28 AM
1

It could be solved by simply agreeing on moral behavior which good men and women would be willing to do. It’s the bads holding us back.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:21 AM
1

But most men aren’t single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:19 AM
2

How can “women” — such a large number of women that you don’t need to say “some women” — be choosing bad men unless bad men are so abundant they are hard to avoid?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:11 AM
1

I’m less free than my mom was 10 years ago. We went backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:59 PM
1

Do you really think most men are forever alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:58 PM
1

Bro discovered morality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:57 PM
2

It’s mostly cause those things are hard to do as an involved parent/pregnant person. The less involved parent can focus on their career. Not all parents get that luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:26 PM
0

How do men make up most of the military if girls take orders better? HUH?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:25 PM
1

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:25 PM
0

Both can be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:23 PM
2

You like everything you try? I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:26 PM
3

How does that fuck your brain up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:15 PM
5

Porn affects the brain differently than reading. It’s specifically switching between videos of people having sex that fucks your brain up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:46 PM
1

Fair enough then!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:20 PM
2

Do you want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:14 PM
1

Well yeah abandoning your kids is awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:00 PM
1

Taxes pay for police and fbi in addition to military…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:46 PM
1

Because we also have to protect ourselves from American men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:39 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:55 PM
1

Yup and American men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:40 PM
2

Men are the burden. The reason we need to fund police and military is to protect ourselves from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 10:28 PM
1

What do you mean? You don’t think we pay salary and benefits to the military?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:20 PM
5

It says taxes disproportionately fund women 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:10 PM
5

The conversation wasn’t positive things about men. It was that supposedly our tax money goes to women. I corrected that misunderstanding. Our number one tax expense is men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:43 PM
3

Dishonest how?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:20 PM
3

Isn’t it republicans (leans male) who want more spending on military and police than Dems (leans female)? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:55 PM
7

Why do men have to pay to fight in court but women don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:35 PM
3

🤷‍♀️ I’d rather make my own money than trust a man is gonna take care of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:28 PM
7

Same with women. It is extremely difficult in America to keep a bio parent from their kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:10 PM
5

If that were true feminism would have never been invented.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:09 PM
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Nope. When men ask for custody they get it more than women. You see more women get custody bc men don’t want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:25 PM
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No they don’t. When men ask for custody they get it more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:14 PM
2

Lmao wait until you have a real problem. It’s gonna blow you away.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:06 PM
7

Forced? Lmao. My life is awesome because I have a good job. The other option was to rely on a husband to survive and be at his mercy. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:04 PM
5

Sure he can. Ask for custody if you have kids. Have a 50/50 financial relationship if you’re married.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:03 PM
6

Oh no. Not someone complaining. How will men endure this suffering?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:02 PM
4

Our taxes mostly go to programs that protect us from men (military, police).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:01 PM
5

Because pregnancy and child rearing and capitalism aren’t compatible. Can’t make yourself vulnerable and do free work when everyone needs money to support themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:41 PM
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Puberty is at like age 13. Teen pregnancies are automatically considered high risk. You don’t know what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:22 PM
10

Back to enslaving women!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:21 PM
9

Not just university.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:20 PM
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What do men have to do w the fertility rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:19 PM
8

Things are going well then they suddenly change after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:02 PM
1

I don’t debate opinion differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:35 PM
2

You’ve discovered opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:22 PM
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Women are afraid of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:17 PM
2

I don’t understand why you’re arguing with me. You think it’s harder. I think it’s easier. You are clearly more suited to parenting. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:17 PM
2

I guess you’re not talking about rape then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:15 PM
0

It’s not irrational if women abuse men all the time….
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:15 PM
1

Sure but we live in capitalism so most couples can’t afford that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:26 PM
3

Duh? They’re fuckin strangers. Why would you trust a stranger? 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:24 PM
2

I disagree. I’d rather work than parent all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:24 PM
2

Doesn’t have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:23 PM
4

Then I guess it’s good to confirm the person you’re having sex with actually wants it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:45 PM
2

Just like fight and flight, some people fawn when they are panicking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:45 PM
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Pressure is coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:43 PM
1

If men were more afraid of women I’d believe that women are as abusive as men. The issue is men aren’t afraid of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:41 PM
2

Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:41 AM
1

How would I know? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:36 AM
2

🤷‍♀️ I’m not voting for someone just bc they’re a dem but I’ll sure as hell vote for someone to keep a rapist out of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:19 AM
1

I don’t want to be sexualized by stranger. I want to be sexy/attractive to attract someone to not be a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:18 AM
1

Never once have I had a guy stare at me while I was dressed sexy and liked it. The goal is looking good. Not having a guy look at you. If I could press a button that meant I could dress sexy and not have men talk to me, stare at me or touch me I would press it. They can see me from afar I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:55 PM
2

Sometimes there’s something wrong w kids. You never know. You could get one w autism that screams all the time. Having kids is such a huge risk. One person in the couple should prob be wanting to dedicate their lives to parenting. I’m aware shitty jobs exist. I don’t have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:51 PM
2

You said monthly. Most people don’t do that. Your weird criteria is the problem. I don’t deny women donate money and like to choose female centered orgs when they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:19 PM
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Nope. Working on my own on a computer for 8 hours and then parenting for 3 is easier than screaming kids the whole time. People are different. You sound more suited to take care of kids than work. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:18 PM
2

It’s not reasonable or sane to vote for a rapist. And yall weren’t even forced to make that choice. You could have picked any Republican to be the nominee. Surely there are many talented republicans who aren’t rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:16 PM
2

lol I don’t think every parent feels that way, no. Teachers are getting pushback on parents reading to their kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:35 PM
6

You think most women are donating $60 a year to one of these? I don’t. Also men’s health gets more research money anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:33 PM
2

So vet for the ones that really want kids, the more the better. Career women who only want an equal partner will up front tell you then don’t want kids or want 1-2.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:32 PM
1

And the welfare of their children, or else they wouldn’t support their husband financially while he stays home to parent all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:19 PM
2

Maybe for you. I find working to be easy and enjoyable. I find being around very small children to be hell. My sis felt the same and has a stay at home dad husband. She feels trading places would be a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:18 PM
1

Not many men do the first thing either. Most women don’t do the first thing for women, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:16 PM
4

Society can do lots of things to help lots of people. We’re moving away from that, collectively, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:15 PM
1

We lost two female presidential candidates to a rapist. No, I don’t think people listen to women more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:13 PM
2

What is men’s level of empathy that we are comparing women to?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:13 PM
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I don’t think it’s only online, but it’s def a certain kind of women and at least the other half (if not way more) aren’t that… Why don’t men date maga women? They’re certainly not saying this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:03 PM
3

Yes. Flirting isn’t a marriage proposal. You can flirt and get to know them more and change your mind. You aren’t committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 06:06 PM
3

Yes I’m single and yes everyone I meet is a stranger. Even if they are objectively attractive they’re still a stranger and I’m uncomfy w strangers sexualizing me bc who knows if they are trustworthy? Every guy I’ve ever been deeply attracted to was a stranger I kept at an arms length until I got to know them better. I feel like that’s somewhat normal and definitely healthy. You let your guard down as you build trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:21 PM
1

I’m not attracted to strangers so it’s all men for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:16 PM
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Idk I like being sexy for myself and the girls and sometimes the gays. If even an extremely attractive man gives me attention I’m gonna be scared and not like it. It’s a strange man. I get many women would like it but not me and I feel op is def talking about me 😂 attention from stranger men that is not extremely casual and polite makes me feel unsafe. I literally dress sexy way less than I otherwise would be I know it comes w unwanted attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:15 PM
6

Because it’s creepy. Go look at porn or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:12 PM
1

In the tool maybe. Not in the effort I expend. I just don’t think the analogy makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:09 PM
1

So then they don’t find it valuable. They do it anyway bc it’s useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:28 PM
2

I don’t think that makes sense. Why would men find giving validation to be valuable?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:04 AM
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Yes that’s the fantasy. Having the opportunity to cruelly reject a woman they couldn’t get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:59 PM
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I’m glad you understand these are not the same groups and I also wish we had better words. “Incel” needs to change too, but there’s not a better word yet to describe online misogynistic communities. I really wish there was. Would “lonely men” work for your purposes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:48 PM
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I’ll bring up looks not being the biggest factor bc I think it would shock men how attracted I get to someone whose personality I like, while they were average looking when we met. Not because looks don’t matter at all but bc this seems v foreign from how men talk about attraction working for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:06 PM
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Many feminists agree w you. The fairy tale/magic fix/fantasy of romantic love/nuclear family makes capitalism go 📈
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:05 PM
2

So male attention is worthless without commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:00 PM
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Literally
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:54 PM
2

It’s the fawn response. Like fight or flight evolution makes some animals go along w prey instead of fighting them. Fighting and running done work when you’re heavily outmatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:44 PM
2

Read it in this book, https://dn790007.ca.archive.org/0/items/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:17 PM
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That’s the revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:05 PM
6

It’s not just misogynistic it’s misanthropic. Never met a misanthrope that was healthy or happy in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:06 PM
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Gotta be a red state thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:32 PM
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That’s capitalism for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:05 PM
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They don’t even like women 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:04 PM
1

I would slide into their DMs instead of making my life harder than it needs to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:04 PM
3

This is so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:02 PM
6

Lmao it’s bc everyone assumes she’s making it up and is therefore a bad mom. Not that fuckin hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:02 PM
5

A fact is propaganda?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:24 PM
7

If I provide it, will you admit you’re wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:10 PM
7

Yes, easier. When you have kids, doing what is easiest for yourself but worse for them is being a shitty parent, deadbeat dad, negligent and possibly abuse depending on the situation you abandon them in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:09 PM
9

Tf are you taking about? Men are more likely to get custody than women if both ask for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:00 PM
7

I mean obviously? A huge population is hard to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:59 PM
12

Not really. Dads get custody more than moms when they ask for it. If a mom accuses a dad of abuse she is statistically more likely to lose custody than if she keeps his abuse a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:58 PM
13

A mother who accuses a father of abuse is statistically more likely to lose custody than if she keeps the abuse a secret. In the us it is extremely hard to keep a bio parent from their kids. There’s an app that family court uses for contentious coparents. 100% of communication is supposed to be done through the app. Just use the app and parent on your days. I don’t get how that’s hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:55 PM
9

Um what? If she’s a terrible person abandoning your kids with her is even more abusive. Do yall have no instinct to protect your own children?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:48 PM
13

Wow that’s a huge population of incompetent bums.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:10 PM
9

1/4 of divorced men abandon their kids completely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:49 PM
1

Which would mean you’d be in favor of a balanced relationship like I’m suggesting. 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:48 PM
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Men are an even bigger tax burden. If we did t have to protect our society from men we wouldn’t need a military of our size or so many police and prisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:30 AM
3

I measure it more by the opportunity cost of not spending that time energy on financial security for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:29 AM
6

They want us poor, exhausted and desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:41 PM
6

Is it immoral to be in a relationship where you know your partner is generally more giving than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:21 PM
3

Alimony is for the financial security one partner forwent for the couple/family unit, either bc one person has kids or one person is wealthy and would benefit from a rested spouse that caters to them/manages their lives. If youre a childfree 50/50 couple it makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:20 PM
1

Slide into their dms, that’s how tons of couples meet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:37 PM
1

because they are posting it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:28 PM
1

You just said the women were announcing it everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:12 PM
10

How are men’s bodies more utilitarian when they can’t even create life?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:30 PM
1

So only sleep with people you get married to. Not everyone lives in the footloose town.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:18 AM
1

So then what are women supposed to do so men don’t “get away with it”? Marry every guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:24 AM
2

Oh. So anything other than marrying women (a punishment I guess?) is “getting away with it”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:27 AM
1

Probably not lol https://preview.redd.it/1cl24v9h7glf1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dcb1f65492097cad2540e1343dcb1615bae10954
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:27 PM
1

Unfortunately nature doesn’t take maturity into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:48 PM
2

Probably not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:45 PM
0

Sure. I think you’re a fucking idiot if you dont have a vasectomy and have sex and say you haven’t @consented to parenthood” or if you abandon your child. Works for either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:42 PM
2

Lots of kinks and paraphilias disturb me. The normalization of bdsm is insane to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:11 PM
2

I have never seen one 🤷‍♀️ (Not saying they don’t exist, but idk how common it is. And I hope men pick those women)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:06 PM
0

It’s not a kink it’s a paraphilia. Idk how they measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:05 PM
2

What are some reasons a woman gets back w an abuser? I want to see if you are knowledgeable about this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:04 PM
2

“Have used” vs who is on the app for the whole 5 year period. Most women delete within 2 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:55 PM
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Idk bc how can it be “monster paint” if plenty of men hear the story and defend the man’s actions? Men think the behavior is just fine, so then it’s obviously not being portrayed as monstrous. It’s just that men and women disagree on what behavior is acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:53 PM
3

Hybristophilia is not that common tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:51 PM
10

Yeah they’re sharing the small pool of women who have a mental disease that attracts them to criminals. Enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:51 PM
5

If they can get away with it why are women breaking up with them or complaining about them? That’s not “getting away with it”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:50 PM
0

I wouldn’t describe a guy w a million video games and no financial security as a “chill minimalist”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:00 PM
1

Nope. Just an average woman. Men don’t leave women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:26 PM
1

Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:52 AM
3

Seems like men haven’t been happy throughout all of history. Can’t please em.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:51 AM
2

I will be judgemental as long as men are judgemental. I ain’t playing by different rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:50 AM
1

Then those women can get all the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:29 PM
3

I don’t know but ew, leave me out of it. Surely there’s some kind of whore meeting place you can find women into casual sex at.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:21 PM
1

I don’t care how many men it is, we want to be invisible to those men especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:18 PM
3

No all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:17 PM
2

Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:08 PM
5

Men never shut up about those women. Every time they see a woman w a nose piercing they have yo go up to her and say how unattractive it is. I’m talking INVISIBLE, not TARGET.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:07 PM
4

if given the option the vast majority of women would pay money for glasses that cause them to become invisible to men. what freedom!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 09:18 PM
3

what does that have to do with what i said?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:32 PM
0

name some.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:05 PM
7

> If you are a normal decent person then you should have no problem with the concept that "good people should be rewarded and bad people should be punished" - this is a simple truth that makes the world a better and safer place. and how are individual men responsible for rewarding good men and punishing bad men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:05 PM
1

As opposed to what? Abortion? They don’t like that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:33 PM
1

Sure there is. It’s a moral failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:25 PM
1

What qualities do they possess or actions they do make them good? Be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:24 PM
12

It is labor. Knowing it is valuable doesn’t make it effortless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:21 PM
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For free? If it would save humanity surely we can at least offer universal paid maternity? Not hospital bills for prenatal exams or labor and delivery?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:19 PM
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Men do it 9:1
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:34 PM
1

Why would you want to go on a date w a feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:25 PM
1

Logic isn’t word play.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:43 PM
1

I can’t wear cheap jewelry, I’ll break out in hives. I need a material that doesn’t irritate my skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:04 PM
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Men rape and murder women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:00 PM
1

That sounds toxic and dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:52 PM
2

And you don’t want to date any feminist women I thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:51 PM
1

Nope. Non-feminists would be excited to meet someone who shares their values.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:51 PM
1

You don’t ask any get to know you questions before asking someone on a date? There’s your issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:50 PM
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So ask if they are feminist before the date. Non-feminists won’t be offended by this question. That’s what I just said. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:49 PM
2

Why not just ask if they’re feminists before asking them out? Traditional women won’t be offended and will be excited to say no and meet a traditional man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:27 PM
1

🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:23 PM
2

Do you ask women you don’t like on dates? Or what is “letting” vs “wanting” here?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:22 PM
6

Less women are trapped. Many have not realized the cage is unlocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:14 AM
1

I dont believe it’s true, but there’s guys w no allegations to move on to. It’s vetting, not a trial.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:59 PM
1

What “blind trust” are you referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:45 PM
3

Ok. So here’s a difference between us. It sounds like you’ve never spent time falling for someone, got your heart broken, later found out they were hiding a relationship and had everything click into place about what was happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:39 PM
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One of the most common posts is “this guy is actually married”. P helpful info to know about the men I see on apps. You’d think good guys would find that a benefit too, as it pulls bad men out of the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:48 PM
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and it will be a beautiful day 💜
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:08 PM
2

i agree w that. i think most people would date the right person of the same gender if we weren't socialized into thinking hetero was the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:07 PM
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dont even know what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:06 PM
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if i was dating men in my circle, i wouldn't have to ask strangers about them. feel free to list better/more reliable sources of information i can access about men i meet through the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:05 PM
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if you dont find your male peers a trustworthy source of information, that sounds like a men's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:02 PM
2

Isn’t choosing better paying attention to a guys reputation?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:01 PM
5

Well yeah we have to go based on reality and not what men could hypothetically look like if they put effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:59 PM
3

Do you think way more women than men are bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:59 PM
1

But yall say you want to act just like Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:43 PM
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False dichotomy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:11 PM
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I’m not saying it’s untrue that men went to prostitutes. I’m saying good luck lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:09 PM
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Which is?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:35 PM
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Condoms weren’t invented
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:34 PM
1

Why wouldn’t they want hotter girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:31 AM
3

That’s how I feel about cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:00 PM
2

No I just said he can Venmo me the split, 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:53 PM
3

Lmfaoooo As if I would assume he wanted commitment 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:37 PM
3

Yeah that’s not good enough. I’m gonna need the Venmo and then we can go 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:34 PM
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i dont understand working a full time job and coming home to do more cooking/cleaning/etc than your partner. are they sending you a venmo with the split?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:21 PM
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we got the right to vote. we can have bank accounts and buy houses. i feel like you have never read about feminism and are getting mad at your own ignorance. > The crucial part, however, is that she actually went out and did something. praising a murderer for murdering is fucking sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:05 PM
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you're the top 10% and you're still on apps? math aint mathin (but i agree that women's profiles are also commonly really bad, maybe just less creepy ones)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:03 PM
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> Aren’t men and women equal? i protect someone if i can i use my other gifts to help those around me as i can i dont help people because i think i'm better than them? or that they are lesser than me? it has nothing to do with equality. In a healthy community, everyone would help each other. if you aren't skilled or gifted or in the opportunity to protect, there is no moral issue with you not doing those things. help in the ways you *can* instead of getting hung up on gender roles. > I’m an advo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:59 PM
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“If you’re talking to men who are trustworthy” Well yeah, that’s the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:37 PM
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I mean getting men to get an std test is really hard so “disease free” isn’t making the point you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:34 PM
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There's actually an argument to be made if there was no welfare behaviour would change. I think that's the point men are making when they say the government is destroying families, it's logically sound. and what happens to the children who rely on something like SNAP in the ??? years it would take for men to take care of their own children again?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:07 PM
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you dont have to be. you can agree the logic of both arguments is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:10 PM
1

Wait you are denying the police and military exist mostly to protect us from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:57 PM
1

You have no argument so you resorted to ad hominem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:44 PM
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So then you don’t need a partner who works full time. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:58 PM
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That’s weird. I don’t associate w anyone who yells in anger. Yet I have many 10-20 year plus close relationships w friends, family, coworkers, bosses, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:56 PM
1

so then you understand how valuable your preference is in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:27 PM
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you accused me and i defended myself from "speaking for them". now you want to talk about whether they are lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:27 PM
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yeah i'm not compatible with someone who speaks this way. you sound angry and judgemental. i aint doin that. "allergic to bs" and "no drama" were automatic left swipes from me when i was on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:25 PM
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the military and police and prisons would all not need to exist, or would need to exist at 1/4 of their power (and expenses) or less if men could control themselves. that's what we spend all our money on. they're the tax burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:24 PM
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then men in those countries can say women have the right to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:22 PM
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yeah i ain't doin all that. go find someone willing to be poor and survive off one income. then she can wait on you all day and night.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:19 PM
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ok well i guess we disagree i think school shooters are pathetic weak babies and you think they are superior to veterans with ptsd.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:18 PM
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If they’re both working full time that’s a sucker deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:19 PM
4

Other common reasons for divorce: addiction, abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:18 PM
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How tho? I treat people I like different than misogynistic strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:17 PM
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To point out that people who say they were blindsided by divorce are usually lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:16 PM
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I don’t think it’s rare for divorce to mostly be someone’s fault. The top reasons for divorce are: infidelity, addiction, money problems, abuse and just not getting along. Infidelity, addiction and abuse are only one persons actions. And money problems could also be one person behaving recklessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:14 PM
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I mean I can tell when I’m treating someone poorly they don’t have to yell at me about it. You can also point stuff out without being aggressive about it. Like saying it but dropping it if the other person gets defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:11 PM
4

The same reason people drank the koolaid at Jonestown
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:58 PM
4

Wait what? You think we spend more on welfare than the military?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:57 AM
4

I didn’t speak for them. I literally said they said they were happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:57 AM
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What a weird way to think. Having a difference of opinion isn’t “robbing someone of their autonomy” get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:39 AM
4

Who is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:38 AM
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Bc I know you won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:38 AM
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That sounds like a nightmare. If it’s easy, everyone would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:18 AM
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My mom wasn’t there 😂 this is my dad’s family and they were divorced. Nice try tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:17 AM
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You date him then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:16 AM
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Bc police and military are more expensive than welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:03 AM
1

How is a school shooter not weak? They’re literally having an emotional outburst bc they can’t control themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:02 AM
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I don’t see how. When someone lies to you about how great their life is, do you want what they have? I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:02 AM
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How do you live off the government? Isn’t there like 1% fraud in welfare?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:01 AM
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A school shooter, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:47 AM
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So mandatory vasectomies would help?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:46 AM
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Unless you count all the police and military we need to have bc men can’t control themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:46 AM
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You’re being obtuse. Saying single moms are a tax burden is demonizing them. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:45 AM
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Pointing out the argument is flawed is not that emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:44 AM
7

It ends the argument that men make that women are a tax burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:43 AM
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In elementary school I wrote in my journal I wasn’t going to get married bc I watched all the women in my family serve the men for no reason. The men were not providers. All of those women worked full time and some were breadwinners. The men just sat there. All the women would say their marriages were a fairy tale but I had eyes and ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:42 AM
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Uh no you missed the guy who thinks he doesn’t need therapy that does. He’s delusional about his emotional state being okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:40 AM
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Thank you! 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:39 AM
1

And not everyone who doesn’t go to therapy isn’t. Glad you’re getting this now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:25 AM
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Oh so you’re just making shit up. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:18 AM
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Lmao living in denial is weak
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:05 AM
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A very picky, persnickety person, reserved, distrustful
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:05 AM
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And the shittiest people will insist they don’t need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:04 AM
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I doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:03 AM
4

Def not instagram. LinkedIn is prob best.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:19 PM
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Why are 99% of them men? To answer your question… bc they are shit moms? They obviously don’t have an empathetic adult around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:13 PM
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It’s weird either way but obviously I’m less afraid of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:12 PM
2

I’d be harder on someone who needs therapy but refuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:12 PM
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Plenty of people who desperately need therapy believe they have a mind that doesn’t need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:11 PM
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The less social media the better but no online footprint at all is a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:00 PM
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Ok I don’t trust a random man’s assessment of that but if you have something verifiable we can talk about go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:26 PM
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That’s how you raise a school shooter If a kid doesn’t have at least 1 empathetic adult in their life who buffers the hard parts of life for them, they don’t reach emotional maturity by 18. They go through life breaking down or having tantrums whenever they get overwhelmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:50 PM
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Except for the pedophilia and sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:49 PM
4

Guess what? Lots of weak willed people exist. Better that they improve themselves through widely available means.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:48 PM
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So willpower is superior to therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:47 PM
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I mean I’m not raising a kid w a guy who votes down school levy’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:46 PM
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How did women do this work without being forced by men? 🤔 Why can’t men do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:45 PM
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Most parents don’t teach their kids how to handle big emotions in a healthy way. That is why most adults can’t handle their big emotions in a healthy way. And we live in a hyper sensitive, over sensitive to rejection, passive aggressive culture bc of it. And those parents obviously can’t teach their kids what they were never taught. I indeed think therapy could close this loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:44 PM
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Wdym? I think red pillers don’t care about/value these things. Not that they are incapable of experiencing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:28 PM
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Okay so this is a good scrap and I’m glad it exist for weak women. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:55 PM
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Men was the topic being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:54 PM
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I mean those aren’t red pillers answering. I already know blue pill men say they value normal relationship things like companionship and having someone to talk to. Red pill men say women are only good for sex and babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:50 PM
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Sorry the government also harms the week. But the government exists bc we are interested in protecting the weak. We want an orphan to have somewhere to go. We want to protect individuals from abusive employers, predatory businesses, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:21 PM
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Except even if someone consents to be murdered you still go to jail. The government protects the weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:13 PM
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There’s a reason the most gung ho trad wives are always young women who haven’t lived the life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:47 PM
3

Sure. Just like when the government throws someone in jail for murder it’s kidnapping.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:43 PM
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Okay so like I said, the government protects the weak in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:39 PM
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Wouldn’t a person w ASPD believe might makes right? And if you can manipulate someone in a relationship to give more than they get that’s just their fault for being weak?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:36 PM
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Some people are too weak to ask or wrongly assume their partner will treat them fairly. The government is there to protect the weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:19 PM
4

What benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:45 PM
2

Then put them in jail. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:41 PM
5

The children being cared for doesn’t do anything about the financial sacrifice of motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:41 PM
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Well that’s all we use em for
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:38 PM
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If I have kids yeah, I need state protections bc I’m giving up my financial security. I’m childfree and don’t plan to mix money w a man ever again so I’m red pill approved 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:35 PM
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So there’s literally no reason to give your best years to a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:30 PM
3

So just being anti taxes in general? Not paying for public education, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:29 PM
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Holy shit so she gave you her best years and you haven’t even proposed?? 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:25 PM
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Can you give me one specific example of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:22 PM
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I mean do you think scumbags of either gender are rare?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:22 PM
3

Are you single and what’s your age?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:21 PM
3

Men really are falling behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:18 PM
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FOUR KIDS?? Jesus dude use a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:18 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:17 PM
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So unless you meet her at 18 you don’t get her best?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:13 PM
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But they still think she’s ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:10 PM
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Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:10 PM
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And we know men are rarely scumbags
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:09 PM
1

Ain’t no condom trustworthy enough in the world 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:25 PM
1

So how would it work w a woman who wants romance? You’d just fake it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:54 PM
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100% bc they’ll say they don’t even talk to their best guy friends about deep stuff. Obviously not all men, I have a great emotional connection w a close male friend but he’s gay fwiw.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:13 PM
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I think women want emotional connection and men just want someone good enough to fuck, introduce to their families, and do activities with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:04 PM
1

Do you like romance? Do you have romantic thoughts? I guess I fell for stereotypes bc I thought autistic men were uninterested in lovey dovey romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:02 PM
1

So you agree, women literally don’t have the right to choose as op claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:32 PM
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Every life has worth and deserves dignity. That doesn’t mean I want to fuck them. A fetus is alive and I’m fine w abortion. I eat animals and plants that are killed (and usually tortured, if it’s factory farmed meat) just for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:32 PM
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🙄 I’m guessing you found it and it says there’s good and bad, not that I wasn’t correct that it raises incidents of sex trafficking. Those are different arguments you’d have to present.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:10 PM
1

Slippery slope is literally a logical fallacy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:08 PM
2

Not sure how you’d even do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:05 PM
2

Women literally don’t have the right to choose what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:59 PM
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Men are comfy w riskier situations than women. It’s also easier to be an armchair quarterback.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:57 PM
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You can’t base it on your feelings. Look at the data. Legalization increases sex trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:53 PM
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Notice how you didn’t bring up the welfare of sex workers once.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:52 PM
1

Oh so do you not know condom use is already low amongst men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:49 PM
1

A woman could get an abortion bc pregnancy makes her feel slightly uncomfy and that’s A okay with me. I think our concerns should go to living babies and children and ensuring their needs are met.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:48 PM
1

Well that’s shitty. I hope their dad can help them cope w having a shit mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:14 PM
1

Men would never wear condoms again in this scenario. They can just force women to get abortions/abandon it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:54 PM
1

Your values are clear when you compare women’s body autonomy, which has a rising mortality rate, to men being forced to care for their already existing children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:59 PM
1

the women who do this are responsible for their own decisions and the attending karma/reputational damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:31 PM
6

> So yeah, some people’s feelings should be very invalidated. by who? random people on reddit? i mean its a free country and they're gonna do that regardless. by the friends and family they go to for support? you'd have to show me that invalidating their feelings is effective at getting them to change their behavior. i would guess a more effective way is to validate their feelings and then MOVE ON to what they can do to avoid it next time or make their situation better instead of GETTING STUCK a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:09 PM
2

haha right thats bs for sure men don't compromise unless they have to and when they have to, they treat you worse for it as if its your fault they chose you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:06 PM
0

"don't act surprised when they take any and every chance to spite you." i'm not surprised. I said they do it and now you confirm they do it. so we finally can agree at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:06 PM
1

Sure. In countries where you need the moms permission to paternity text your own child I think that’s insane, for instance. Anyone w custody should be able to swab their own kids cheek without the other parents knowledge or permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:25 PM
0

When I talk to men about sex they say I’m lying when I talk about deep feelings like sex being mystical, enriching, wholesome. That’s how little they can relate. I’d love it if men felt the same way about sex as me. That would be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:23 PM
2

Nothing I disrespect more than super short women who insist on dating really tall men. Y’all look weird af.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:22 PM
1

Gross. We’re not anywhere near each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:32 PM
-1

Police believed gabby petito was battering Brian laundry 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:30 PM
1

I already listed ways I do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:29 PM
1

We’re not on the same side, this is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:04 PM
1

Good for her 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:04 PM
1

Yes of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:55 PM
2

Pregnancy in America is more deadly than all but the most dangerous jobs by mortality rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:54 PM
5

Ok same for women, so if it was just that you’d have a point. But pro life laws have raised the maternal and infant mortality rates, so that’s a different thing that is not an equal burden on the sexes. Plus I thought pro lifers were like… pro life?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:17 PM
2

I’d have to look into it not just take your word on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:12 PM
5

How have pro life laws negatively affected men’s mortality?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:12 PM
0

Anything in the us?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:50 PM
6

Yeah I don’t expect “reciprocity” for simply not taking someone rights away or even voting to make their lives better. I’m childfree and vote for school levy’s and free lunch for school kids. I don’t expect parents to do anything for me to make it fair. That’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:50 PM
-3

So which laws are based on the Duluth model?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:19 PM
-2

So no policies you can name.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:02 PM
8

You’re suggesting single career women aren’t shamed? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:50 PM
-1

What policies?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:49 PM
-3

Not caring would be not voting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:49 PM
8

It is sad. We should work towards becoming a higher trust society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:43 PM
23

Voting for policies that raise the maternal mortality rate goes beyond “not caring” to actively harming.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:41 PM
3

You want women to date crooked men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:17 PM
6

What’s the advantage of your wife being with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:35 PM
2

Ok and?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:59 PM
1

Never seen a woman say men shouldn’t approach women at a party.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:58 PM
3

“Doesn’t matter that I use words without knowing what they mean” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:57 PM
4

*that’s how uninterested they are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:55 PM
1

Yeah I wouldn’t date a crooked man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:43 PM
3

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:40 PM
2

The actual studies that say women have lower self esteem than men. You’re talking about how that self esteem manifests.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:30 PM
1

No I’m like the parent of my parents and my older sister and I’ve always been the person who gives more. I don’t have anyone looking out for me more than I’m looking out for me. I have to figure out how to live a full life with myself at the center of it because I can’t trust anyone else enough to rely on. I truly think this is cultural brainwashing. Like yes we are a social species and we live our best healthiest lives in interdependent communities. But what we think that looks like is… a socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:42 AM
1

Yessssssss I’m ready w the moodboard and google docs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:55 AM
1

I think finding distress tolerance techniques w your therapist and finding things that make you feel good about life that you can enjoy alone (I’m alone, I do this, it helps, just saying like art projects/wAlks/my dog/my friendships/reading) would be the most helpful. You did ask but I feel it’s good advice 🤷‍♀️ good luck to you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:55 AM
1

Right I prefer to ask any question I’ve ever wondered about their field and have them spoonfeed me a ELI5 answer it’s so good 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:41 AM
2

Ok fair enough, that’s pretty short. I live in a place where men are 175 cm on average. Sorry you have to deal w that. 🙏❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:00 AM
1

Yeah I mean pick a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:55 PM
2

How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:11 PM
1

Effective = accomplishing your goal. In this case communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:59 PM
15

What are you talking about? The 1950s WERE atomized. The nuclear family was pushed over community. And if you think we need homogeny I have news for you: that means women shouldn’t be with men as we are actively socialized into non-homogenous roles/values.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:56 PM
1

Rugged individualism/capitalism is indeed one of the main culprits. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:54 PM
1

Yes women should also think in terms of what is effective vs their personal preferences while communicating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:53 PM
2

You don’t have to do anything. You can do what is effective, or you can do what is ineffective bc you feel it “should” be effective. If I was trying to fix a car and the fix described in the manual wasn’t working, I would continue tweaking until I found a solution that was effective. But I’m logical, not emotional, so 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:21 PM
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“Let go or get dragged”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:09 PM
5

How do you meet women without them knowing your height? Maybe that’s something to screen for before investing in a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:06 PM
1

I mean it’s up to you if you want to be effective and communicate or be stuck being upset at how communicating “should” be easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:06 PM
1

> The word isn't the problem. The emotional connection to the term is the problem. so you see how choosing a different word would fix that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:52 PM
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i mean when i was sexually assaulted at the playground at age 5 by an older boy, i told his mom and she said "that's just what boys do" so i reasonably feel "boys will be boys" is bad. anyone who excuses women sexually assaulting boys should also be in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:50 PM
0

It sounds like we can find better words so that we stop speaking past each other then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:28 PM
3

That would be a much more helpful criterion!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:07 PM
1

I’m thinking about it like the last couple times I’ve meet someone interesting are like yoga class where there’s 9 women to the one guy. Like the men who can hang are just rare and have lots of options bc lots of women meet their criteria. Idk I tried to watch the Taylor swift podcast and I couldn’t bc the kelce boys were screaming and stuff, I just can’t deal w normie men. Obviously they are both good looking, wealthy, etc so I am not saying this as an insult. It’s my taste and what I can put u…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:05 PM
1

Sure. They can compare me to the better looking women my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:42 PM
2

Because you’re comparing me not insulting men to men insulting women. Men don’t say they “can’t connect” they say women are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:42 PM
2

Not really. It’s rooted in gender roles. We socialize men and women to be incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:41 PM
6

Supply and demand. If people didn’t volunteer the job would pay more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:32 PM
1

If it’s not an insult then there’s no issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:32 PM
4

Okay? Don’t sign up then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:27 PM
3

Nope. Saying I don’t connect w people isn’t an insult. If I said most men were losers then you’d have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:27 PM
6

Firemen are paid public servants who receive taxpayer money in exchange for providing a service. Also my mom was a fireman so stfu 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:14 PM
2

Yes and my solution is a solely me solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:13 PM
2

You made a factually incorrect claim so I pointed it out. Now you won’t be embarrassed next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:12 PM
7

It sure as hell doesn’t revolve around a random stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:11 PM
3

It’s easy for me to meet women I connect with, it’s rare for me to find men I connect w.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:56 PM
2

Which men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:55 PM
3

“At least incels loathe themselves” Acting like women don’t have lower self esteem than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:55 PM
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It’s bc men don’t care about the mess they leave for their loved ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:33 PM
2

There are plenty of hotter, younger women for them to go for. There are not enough men like this for all the women who want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:33 PM
3

Yeah there’s not enough men like this for all the women who want one. That was the foundational belief of FDS. You’re delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:31 PM
1

Your claim is factually wrong lol. Women in the west have lower self esteem than men. You can google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:30 PM
1

“Apparently not” yet they don’t hire men for morgue work for exactly this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:39 PM
2

No thanks I’m good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:39 PM
2

So do dead bodies and chicken sandwhiches.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:36 PM
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Why would I care what a stranger wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:35 PM
3

If they weren’t better the man would have picked someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:35 PM
3

No. If I thought I’d meet a wholesome person who wanted a healthy partnership w me? Then yes. But I dated for 15 years and the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:35 PM
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Yes that’s one of the most attractive jobs a man could have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:42 PM
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And also people who aren’t actually knowledgeable or think they are bc they saw 1 YouTube video.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:41 PM
1

When in history did men not give a shit about their reputation?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:16 PM
4

Men explaining something to me that they are very knowledgeable about is the hottest thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:53 AM
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Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:51 AM
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How do you know they get bored vs not wanting to date you for any number of reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:51 AM
2

Looks like it’s 17%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:06 AM
1

That’s not what I asked. You said “a lot” I asked you to define it bc i want to know if you understand what kind of a percentage of your taxes go to this. It’s not like most of your taxes go to social programs. Unless you count things like veteran benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:20 AM
2

So you’re just saying shit hoping it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:55 PM
1

Define “a lot”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:01 PM
2

Women don’t exclusively benefit from taxes. Do you not drive on roads? Live in a country which has a military?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:34 PM
1

So companies require a workforce to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:27 PM
1

Do you invest in the stock market?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:36 PM
1

are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:23 PM
2

> But there's no rules on which to apply "best judgement". correct. "best judgement" is what you do when there isn't a clear rule. > Social skills need rules and norms to work from. wait you're claiming there are no social rules or norms in culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:00 PM
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> Women will benefit from men’s end regardless. and men will benefit from women having children regardless. > How does a single man benefit from women’s end? google "why is population collapse a problem"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:57 PM
4

“Select few” I thought it was 80% of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:47 PM
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By “correct” you mean “risk free” which has always been true in the history of humanity. You have to use your best judgement, be polite, and take no for an answer. Best you can do. You can also complain about it. Just like women complain about being approached when they don’t want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:46 PM
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> if I am taxed so much I can't buy a house 🙄 taxes are not the reason you can't buy a house. i had to pay extra taxes (short term capital gains, the worst kind) in order to sell assets and buy a house on my single in come with my liberal arts degree in philosophy 🥴 if i can do it, you can do it. > me not paying taxes causes society to fail you have so much money society will fail without your taxes, yet you can't buy a house? > If we changed taxes to only apply to women, would you rather societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:27 PM
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women contribute more to children, which we need in order for society to function as much as we need money. thats the reason women make less money than men (and contribute less taxes). its a sweat equity vs liquid equity situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:18 PM
9

men are free to live outside of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:17 PM
0

🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:52 PM
2

I’m just trying to understand sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:46 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:31 PM
2

No im asking you to be specific. Of what consequence is “not being blameless”? Zero humans are blameless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:29 PM
1

That would also depress me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:12 PM
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You have described them as wholesome or moral tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:10 PM
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So then show us the wholesome, moral men who get no interest from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:47 PM
1

I think from my childhood I’m scared of unhappy men. So if I can’t make him happy at the beginning of a relationship when it’s easiest to do so, I get a major internal signal to cut rope and bounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:41 PM
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I mean no one in life except for babies are “cleared of wrongdoing” so I don’t really get what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:36 PM
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Bc if he doesn’t like you then he immediately becomes unattractive. The idea or forcing or tricking a guy into something is repulsive. The idea of sleeping w a man who doesn’t like me is repulsive. The idea of living w an unhappy man is both scary and repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:34 PM
6

Sorry I forgot how important pronouns are to you people. Okay so your partner rapes you. Should he or she go to jail? Or not since you chose him or her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:32 PM
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I never thought the man was repulsive. I find the whole arrangement repulsive. Not sure what I would even get out of doing all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:31 PM
6

What does “on you” mean, specifically? You think it should be legal for men to beat their wives bc the wives signed up for it? (I don’t think you think this, I’m asking you to be specific about what you do mean).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:20 PM
3

I mean, is it no longer illegal to steal your car?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:19 PM
4

So what? It’s not illegal or immoral to lie to yourself and get preyed on. It is immoral (and sometimes illegal) to prey on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:18 PM
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If you want to read about the different between an abused person who becomes an abuser and an abused person who doesn’t, Alice millers For Your Own Good is a fascinating read. Her research says the difference is whether the child has a single empathetic, supportive adult in their life to help them cope. It’s also very inspiring to try and be that person for kids/victims you meet in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:16 PM
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They aren’t on trial. No one is innocent or blameless in life. But we don’t get our actions dissected unless we hurt someone or commit a crime. If a guy rapes a woman, it’s irrelevant if she is a toxic person, for instance. Being toxic isn’t illegal, rape is. It’s still immoral and illegal to rape someone, even if they are a bad person. Everyone looks back and sees mistakes they’ve made. That’s why the phrase “hindsight is 20/20” comes from. It’s still illegal and immoral to rape someone even if…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:12 PM
1

I’d literally rather die a virgin but whatever they wanna do I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:09 PM
2

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:08 PM
1

I’m saying I thought you meant women were baiting and switching, not you. I guess I don’t see it as a hook if it’s something you keep doing. But I’ve never had a dead bedroom so I don’t really get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:36 PM
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I thought women initiated 80% of divorces? I don’t think chads and Stacey’s are very happy as a group or as a couple. Keeping up w the joneses is miserable, if you look at what makes people feel satisfied or happy w their lives, it’s none of the stuff that makes Chad Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:34 PM
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So if it’s a tradeoff then it’s not a hook? I guess your wording made it seem like a bait and switch but I could be wrong that that’s what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:32 PM
1

I’m not making a moral judgement. I think it’s sad and unnatural that men have to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:31 PM
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Viable strategy for what? If you stop having sex w them, they leave. So not commitment. If it’s a relationship w good sex, then it’s not a hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:27 PM
3

Right. Plus if regular sex guaranteed no cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:17 PM
3

Ah ok. Not that obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:17 PM
6

My great grandma quit school, worked her whole life on the farm and put up with an abusive husband for 80 years (my family lives long). I ain’t doin all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:12 PM
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Right. Men constantly talk about how disgusting they find the women they sleep with and how a woman is a stage five clinger if she expects anything but ghosting after sex. Then they expect us to believe women think they’ll get commitment out of sex? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:38 PM
1

Ok so yeah, not something I’d expect cavemen to do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:32 PM
1

A porn star is the exact opposite of a cave man? I’m talking about pre social expectations around sex/existence of porn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 06:01 PM
1

Okay. So please confirm you don’t believe hot men lie to women before I spend time on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:55 PM
1

I’m not saying my bf doesn’t do it. I’m doubting cave men did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:54 PM
1

It majorly relieves my anxiety to not have anything I’m hiding. That doesn’t mean I tell anything to anyone. But there’s nothing I’d keep from a partner if they wanted to know. Same goes for my close friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:16 PM
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So is it misandrist w the other commenter says “almost every man lies” or is it the plausible deniability that makes it fine? Of course not know what you want isn’t lying. No one is saying that. You are making up a straw man argument. You seem to agree w me as you expand on that so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:13 PM
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You knew exactly what I was talking about a few comments ago. I’m not playing games with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:13 PM
2

I don’t really see how that’s natural
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:12 PM
1

You don’t think hot men get caught lying to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:52 PM
0

Still pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:56 PM
2

I mean… we all know men mock empathetic, educated men. Let’s not play pretend. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:56 PM
1

Afghan.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:50 PM
1

You just said it yourself. You think other cultures have a higher tolerance for rape. 🙄 Yall are fucking blind to your own culture. We have a rapist president.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:35 PM
0

Wdym? He’s acting like white men dont do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:13 PM
1

“Women cannot tolerate honesty” Aka women are able to not date me when they don’t like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:58 PM
7

I always say this. It’s a drunk words sober thoughts thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:29 PM
3

Do you think cave men had to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:29 PM
2

So 13 is hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:27 PM
8

What is the obvious reason you wouldn’t do an open relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:24 PM
1

That’s one of the most pathetic things I’ve ever heard in my life. “Sneak and look” at your own fucking tax returns. Jfc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:20 PM
0

How are you focusing on trafficking then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:17 PM
1

God I love being celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:13 PM
6

Nah “you’re only as sick as your secrets” is totally true. You don’t have to share w just anyone but it’s about not letting shame control you and having self-respect when making choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:12 PM
4

To trick women into sleeping with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:09 PM
16

“Men break your trust but it’s your fault for trusting them”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:08 PM
8

“Men lie for sex” But when I say that I’m a misandrist. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:02 PM
1

Male culture doesn’t value education. They think it’s gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:00 PM
0

Nope it was the feminist website jezebel 200 years ago when it happened
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:59 AM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:49 AM
8

One is a right one is hurt feelings 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:36 AM
8

He was tired of his gfs leaving him so… Finish the sentence. So he found ways to manipulate and prevent them from leaving. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:19 AM
5

The trick is they think it’s a great deal not realizing how it traps them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:09 AM
1

“Yet to be called out” So how did you hear about it 🙄 Google it, there are articles calling her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:09 AM
8

No one is saying men’s right to vote should be taken away.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:49 AM
8

hasn't even been a decade since hef died? and he was dating the whole time?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:44 PM
0

no they were white and white men like you excused them same people now clutching their pearls when immigrants do the same thing they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:40 PM
5

agree. most cheaters aren't going to even pretend to do what they'd need to for me to trust them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:23 PM
16

op gave that example
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:21 PM
23

absolutely, hef would trick his gfs into leasing luxury cars they couldn't afford and then pay the lease monthly so they couldn't leave him without having thousands of dollars to buy a new vehicle since they could't afford the lease on the one they had. one of a thousand ways shitty people like this trap and manipulate partners. its not like he was just hot and so women threw themselves at him out of real desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:12 PM
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hugh hefner ran a sex trafficking ring he was getting women by preying on vulnerable girls, making them promises, trapping them through financial abuse or worse, etc. he wasn't a "playboy" that got women because they freely were attracted to him and wanted to be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:10 PM
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if he were extremely contrite and suggested a handful of things he was going to do differently to ensure he would never make that mistake again. any backsliding and he'd be gone. op is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:09 PM
7

correct choice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:08 PM
0

Define "date irrationally" you're using a lot of abuser logic. men shouldn't settle for unfair, unhealthy relationships like the one you are describing. the woman in this situation is at least borderline abusive. "we have helped them make their dreams come true and lived happily ever after." gotta be psychosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:05 PM
-1

so they are or are not concerned about their safety?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:03 PM
3

you haven't shared any.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:37 PM
0

flair says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:04 PM
5

so you have no data. you're just making guesses based on your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:04 PM
6

Based on what data?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:29 PM
7

The don’t have to “detect” them. They test. That’s what flirting/dating is. If someone can’t easily be controlled/manipulated they move on to easier prey.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:26 PM
1

Red pillers are inherently conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:25 PM
4

The starting point has nothing to do w rate of change.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:25 PM
7

My rapists were white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:15 PM
6

The older women will tell young women these men are just preying on them. Men say they’re just jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:15 PM
2

So the bandwagon women aren’t concerned about their safety?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:14 PM
4

I’d be more validated by finding a mutual partner than some yokel I can manipulate. Y’all are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:07 PM
6

At the same rate everyone gets more conservative w age or is this special to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:06 PM
1

Yeah bc immigrating to the us is a great idea right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:04 PM
8

That’s extremely unattractive. I’d lose self-respect for myself and attraction to the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:04 PM
1

How? Trad wife culture is on trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:02 PM
4

I would be unhappy if I had “the advantage” over my partner I’d feel like I was forcing his hand. I want a mutual partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:00 PM
8

I don’t think red pill men are likely to attract abusive women. Toxic and mentally ill? Sure. But abusers seek out someone they can manipulate and control, not another abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:59 PM
5

Red pill doesn’t value healthy relationships. They value running through women and getting a woman to be your bangmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:58 PM
1

Lena Dunham got cancelled over that idk what you’re talking about. If anyone liked amy Schumer she would have gotten cancelled too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:45 PM
2

No it’s not I just read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:30 AM
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https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2016/10/24/documenting-trumps-abuse-of-women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:11 AM
5

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:55 PM
2

Why would I
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:55 PM
4

You’re making up lies. I guess that’s what maga does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:54 PM
1

You can.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:53 PM
8

His ex wrote it in her book.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:49 PM
0

Didn’t say they were. Reread the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:48 PM
2

If they wanted to they would
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:48 PM
4

I thought aggression was why the pay gap exists/doesn’t need to be fixed? Women just need to negotiate as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:54 PM
12

How are they held accountable now? We have a wfe beater president.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:53 PM
3

I’m going to spend my finite resources on those who reciprocate. Good luck tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:52 PM
2

to explain why relationships are valuable and why people put effort into them and how people who dont will be fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:37 PM
2

im not trying to stop them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:35 PM
2

ok? i'm not arguing you should care. i am pointing out what is happening to people like this and why people value relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:33 PM
5

yeah def not owed this is about forming relationships where people will do these things for you. because you do similar things for them/have a relationship where you care about each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:15 PM
6

from what i remember, being happy/pleasant to be around ("perma pollyana"), cooking "engagement chicken", endless beauty tips, endless sex tips
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:15 PM
2

do you think babies inherently deserve to be looked after?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:13 PM
7

and they shouldn't. no one should. it is not healthy. the age-related aspect is that these things increase as you age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:13 PM
9

everyone can get so sick they need help from others. -- i needed someone to bring me gatorade during a sudden terrible stomach flu (in my area you can uber eats this, but not everyone can). it sounds so simple but i literally couldn't do anything. just looking at my phone was difficult. -- i needed someone to wait 2 hours in the doctors office for me to get an outpatient procedure and then drive me home, make sure i got situated bc i was high on drugs. you cannot get an uber home from an appoint…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:09 PM
4

i've been reading about how to improve my chances of men being attracted to me since i was a pre-teen so i'm not sure what you think this has to do with women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:56 PM
5

no i think unconditional love doesn't exist, but you can aspire to it as a parent for your child. thats really the only time I think. i wouldn't want to be loved unconditionally either. its creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:55 PM
5

> I agree technically, how would you call being valued for something you were born with and did not work for? conditional love based on genetic luck
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:35 PM
5

wasn't "women and children first" a myth? like the phrase was created bc men would trample women and children on their way out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:35 PM
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seems like they dont care about their own well-being either so fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:13 PM
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i mean are women even valued for that? we recently passed laws in the us that raised the maternal and infant mortality. if women (or babies) were valued so much, the laws would have immediately been ammended when people started dying. It's now years later and nothing has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:03 PM
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its not unconditional love to be valued for being a birth machine tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:02 PM
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i dont think they value it enough to try. I dont think loving someone is so difficult that they couldn't figure it out if they were so inclined. honestly idk what the narrative is among lonely older (40+) men who are getting to the part of life where you need support from others (like, if you get sick, for instance) and really see how you'd benefit from all kinds (not just romantic) or deep relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:01 PM
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what specifically do you think constitutes "chad treatment" and "stacy treatment" ? i agree there should be a baseline of respectful, loving treatment towards the people you date or else no one should fuck with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:06 PM
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I was saying they are equally bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:01 PM
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Not sure how you got that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 08:24 PM
2

This is the same argument leftists use to argue against the nuclear family. Why does every family on a block need their own lawn mower?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:29 PM
1

Who are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:08 PM
1

Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:08 PM
4

Same men wonder why they don’t get matches
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:24 AM
0

I do know what it is. It’s getting close to cumming and not cumming. What I don’t know is how thats supposed to be my business. “I have no idea what that means” refers to whether that’s a yes or a no to my question,
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:16 PM
1

Blindly googling “edging” is what I’m unwilling to do. I can’t control what will pop up. Reddit is moderated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:15 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:50 PM
5

Men complaining about paying child support did that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:06 PM
1

I don’t get how
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:32 PM
1

Oh well then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:19 PM
1

It’s phone sex babe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:19 PM
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Good luck w your STDs and child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:50 PM
1

Then don’t do it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:49 PM
1

I’m not doing research for a casual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:48 PM
1

That’s what I assumed and I opened my phone today to a bunch of videos of him jerking off yesterday so I guessed wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:47 PM
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I’m talking about your weird photoshop
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:47 PM
6

Condomed sex is still risky. I think it’s crazy yall are comfy w those risks. For a few minutes of fun w a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:46 PM
2

🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:45 PM
3

Strong and healthy relationships take willingness and effort from two people. If your partner thinks you’re just being too sensitive and nothing needs to change, there’s not really anything you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:43 PM
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I have phone sex w this guy I’ve known for years sometimes. We haven’t even seen each other in real life for years. It’s casual. But for me casual still means I’m respectful and try not to hurt feelings/be rude. He always talks about edging like I’m supposed to know what that means. “Do you want to get off with me today?” “Maybe, I’m edging” I have no idea what that means, he won’t be more specific, and that’s a term I am absolutely not googling. I don’t watch or like porn. I don’t want to “do r…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:41 PM
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It’s inherently risky so idk why we’re acting like it’s aspirational. You can get lifelong disease or be coparenting w a dramatic random for the next 18 years. For what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:56 PM
-4

I mean I’m happy they ban that too 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:54 PM
5

“And got away with it” As opposed to what? What’s the other option? The 1% of rapists that go to jail? And that’s reported rapes. The guy didn’t report (like the vast majority of rape victims). What do yall think happens to rapists? Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:53 PM
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Yall made that pretty obvious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:51 PM
4

2% of your taxes go to lifelong disability payments for vets. Do you think those should end?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:04 PM
26

So if I believe I should help me neighbor I also have to suck his dick??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 04:05 AM
3

In my view and given history has included moral infanticide in different cultures, I’d draw the line at sentience. You are using “whataboutism” wrong. Someone valuing human life in one circumstance more than another circumstance is relevant when they’re trying to push their beliefs onto society. Why would we only be pro life towards some groups of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:51 PM
1

Now it’s groups of families 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:47 PM
1

It’s not comfort and sanitation. It’s a stable environment to have babies in. For most of our lives women are just 9 months away from being incredibly vulnerable. Men would like stability as much as women if they also faced that danger. This is why women invented agriculture. To have stability/food without having to follow game as it moves throughout the year. Not really sure how to argue w your personal feelings about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:02 PM
1

Maybe incel, but asshole and loser aren’t slurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:58 PM
1

Sure. People are forced birthers or pro-choice for a variety of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:55 PM
1

“Societies” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:45 PM
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Before that it’s a fetus. Whats hard to understand about that? One day it’s rape if you sleep w a 17 year old, one day it’s not. That’s how things work. You can google the sorites paradox if you want more examples. Not sure what observing/ultrasound has to do w it. In my view sentience would be the hard line, and birth is another perfectly fine place to draw a line. Aside from my personal views on a society level I think we need to look at how much we value life across the board. And how much we…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:44 PM
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Lots of things are alive that aren’t a person. Plants are alive. Animals are alive. Are you a vegan? Or are you only concerned about viable human life? Yes only one “person” was killed. I don’t know how you think that means it wasn’t more tragic bc loved ones who were expecting a baby soon are now also grieving that loss. People also grieve when they discover they are unable to have kids at all and no life was even lost. Why would I tell people their feelings aren’t a big deal just bc I don’t fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:37 PM
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I mean I’m still gonna stay single if I’m not attracted to my looks match or if my looks match can’t be a wholesome person with his shit together (I’m 40 so not in my 20s where most people are struggling). I’m not attracted to most men (until I get to know them) so I don’t see how this would be the gotcha moment you think it’s gonna be. I’m not attracted to plenty of men who I already know are more attractive than me. But put me in a class or social group w 20 below average men and I’ll find one…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:19 PM
2

If you’re already complaining about men and apps why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:14 PM
2

I think it’s kinda weird there isn’t more crossover. I’m even weirded out I personally have never been in one. It seems like the kind of thing I’d find helpful or at least interesting. Like, I look up the criminal records of men before I go out w them even. But idk. Facebook is a maga cesspool and I don’t trust the moral compass of the women I see being involved in them. I want a guy who reads and doesn’t cheat. Baby drama, etc is so far over the line for me it’s not even fun to read about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:14 PM
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I mean good for you guys if women are saying that? Those are the conservative women yall wanna date. I do get a lil MAGA flavor from these groups, which is kinda why I’ve never joined. I don’t think the women I’ve seen post have the same taste or moral compass as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:10 PM
1

Referring to women as bitches will do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:06 PM
1

Who pays for studies to be done just for virtue signaling? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:05 PM
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I am real. I very sincerely don’t think it’s wrong, at any point. Cultures throughout history have practiced infanticide (which is obviously worse) when they didn’t have the resources to care for another mouth. It was considered a failure of the community to provide not a moral failing of one individual woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:00 PM
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It’s literally a superstition that it’s “baby murder”. I can’t debate about your personal superstitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:58 PM
1

Nope. It exists bc it would be exhausting to have to watch your back to avoid getting murdered 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:56 PM
2

It sounds like a threat. “Fuck us or we’ll destabilize society” Like the kind of thing terrorists do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:30 PM
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Then keep it out of politics.government shouldn’t be enforcing people’s superstitious religious beliefs on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:28 PM
1

Yes. That’s safer. It’s also public info w a paper trail. Everyone dismisses abuse as “he said she said”. I ain’t putting myself in that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:28 PM
1

Why would studies push fat acceptance?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:24 PM
1

If you say “I went on a date w an asshole who did/said x” your comments will be full of “well you should have chosen better”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:21 PM
1

I have more protections from the state than I do from a husband. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:55 PM
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You are the one w the opinion that’s only been around since republicans realized they could use it for votes. Catholic saints performed abortions and they were considered miracles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:31 PM
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Great. That seems incredibly helpful for news purposes too. We had something like that in my state but then Elon sued us bc he wants fake news to continue to trick people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:30 PM
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Idgaf about having a man at my level if I have to be financially dependent on someone else. Obviously that is not a trustworthy system for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:29 PM
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Well you’re in luck bc abortion is neither murder nor child sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:28 PM
1

Why would society not exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:02 PM
0

So legalize abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:02 PM
1

What’s a topic you are very educated about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:47 PM
1

Idk what you’re talking about. I’m talking about how attracted I am to them. You’re talking about attraction like it’s static and universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:45 PM
2

Same 😟
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:44 PM
5

As soon as I find out they don’t like me a switch flicks and I lose attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:44 PM
1

You don’t have to meet them. You have to understand the reality that they exist. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:43 PM
1

But either way if she says “I went on a date w an asshole” the response will be “choose better”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:44 PM
1

…. Bro you gotta get outside your bubble
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:43 PM
1

That’s why you read more than one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:42 PM
1

No it’s not the only reason. Tf? It’s a tool shitty people use for evil. For most people it’s not about manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:42 PM
5

So what you mean is good for MEN. Not good for society. Women are half of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:41 PM
1

What has the government regulated to improve women’s mental health?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:37 PM
4

When?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:33 PM
1

Ex wife out of the picture is bad. Then they are there 24/7. I’d much rather share.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:32 PM
3

Why would you desire someone who doesn’t desire you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:28 PM
1

You are very sheltered if you think everyone in cities can read.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:09 AM
2

That’s what I believe after reading lots of books about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:08 AM
3

Half of Americans can’t read so that’s something to consider
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:17 AM
6

Read a memoir if you don’t understand that’s what I did instead of sitting around saying “I dont understand” my whole life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:16 AM
7

“If you meet in person” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:15 AM
10

Nope. Most people are in denial that they are being abused. It only becomes clear in hindsight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:31 AM
2

By the time you meet friends you have been dating for awhile… you walked into the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:31 AM
5

Yes. So after several dates. That’s what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:09 AM
1

And you’ll still say she should have chosen better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:08 AM
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If you go on a date or a couple dates and a guy is an aashole. Then it still happened. They will say “I was on a date with an asshole” and you tell her she could have chosen better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:24 PM
3

So just like men assigning women numbers 1-10
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:31 PM
1

If they make time to actively parent and teach their children skills, make sure they are developing in a healthy way, their needs are met, etc then yeah, that’s great!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:14 PM
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Yeah that’s why I feel I’m 5-10 years away. I need to be a lil better about holding my ground in in person conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:11 PM
2

Yup. It’s always the young ones saying it’s a great lifestyle. Never the people who’ve done it for 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:08 PM
2

Same 🥰 Also have always been open to being a step mom. And in 5-10 years maybe I’ll start fostering teen girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:35 PM
2

If kids don’t have at least one empathetic parent they can’t reach emotional maturity. Note that empathy = support, teaching skills to process hard emotions NOT (this is important) being overly permissive Neither of those things are traumatizing, I agree. Not sure that anyone in the world thinks they are so you’re prob safe there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:33 PM
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It’s bonkers to know that kids make you more vulnerable (vulnerable people are easier to manipulate) bc you have less money, time, energy and have a child to protect? This is so obviously true? You dont have to think most or even many people want to manipulate people through kids to acknowledge it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:12 PM
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I’m maybe a little sad but I 100% know it was the right decision. Only thing is if I could be a dad instead of a mom (as in, someone else is the primary parent) it would have been nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:10 PM
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I was too and I was very independent and very proud of it. But I was emotionally stunted bc my mom was too busy (and emotionally immature herself) to teach me how to deal w big feelings. I had panic attacks all day every day for 15 years (I thought I just had anxiety and this is how everyone w anxiety felt) and basically had to go through a class of adults learning how to process emotions. There are actually skills parents need to actively teach children and it is not happening bc parents are to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:08 PM
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That’s how we ended up with a society w no emotional resilience (easily offended, argumentative). That’s what happens when you don’t emotionally mature bc your parents were not parenting you, they were just “watching” you. It turns out you have to actively help your children develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:06 PM
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If you were a shitty abusive man, would you not impregnate women you wished to trap with you? How else could you ensure you have access to them indefinitely?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:04 PM
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Now young trad wife influencer women are saying it too. 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:03 PM
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If the average American were in a better position that would be good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:02 PM
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I’ve never heard that from my doc and I’ve taken cold turkey breaks when it’s been hard to find (gotta love American healthcare) without noticing anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:46 AM
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It doesn’t matter if you have adhd or not if you don’t have a doc monitoring you… that’s why I said you are conflating things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:08 AM
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What does having adhd have to do w it? I think you’re conflating people abusing adderall w prescription adderall use. Yeah using any med without a doc is risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:42 AM
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Why is testosterone safer than adderall?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:49 PM
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No it’s not okay. But you can leave someone over their poor mental health. So that pressure will exist 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:49 PM
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And men are welcome to think that’s not wholesome and not date women. You’re arguing against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:47 PM
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So? It’s bad enough to desire it. Being too unappealing to actually get it isn’t a flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:36 PM
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Evolved past long term relationships. So you agree w op there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:35 PM
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So explain why the don’t represent most men. Cause I would guess they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:34 PM
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You want me to suck dick for votes. I’m telling you right now you cannot control me like that 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:05 AM
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Logic isn’t cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:04 AM
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Teen dramas on the cw (female gaze) have had emo guys doing this for 25 years. I believe Seth cohen, the inventor of the emo guy, was on a cw teen drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:24 AM
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Can you just answer the question? I’m curious too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:23 AM
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You feel you’re being lectured by someone posting a political thing on their social media? Like does a meme count? I’m trying to understand if you’re really talking about people who lecture others or just people who post memes you get offended by.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:09 AM
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🤷‍♀️ you can take my life but you can never take my freedom I’m not gonna coddle people into doing what is right. I have to also maintain the will to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:03 AM
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Define “constantly lecture”. What does that look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:01 AM
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So you don’t believe in joint physical custody?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:01 AM
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I’m not their mommy their karma is their business
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:46 PM
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That’s a shame I think one week on one week off should be the automatic custody arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:40 PM
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Breastfeeding takes 8 hours a day when you start whether you pump or feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:36 PM
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🤷‍♀️ my nightmare is being alone w a baby
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:36 PM
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What if they are morally superior? Obviously there’s a spectrum and some are above others, and if you care about it more it seems likely you put more effort into it. That’s just life. Like dating someone with more wealth bc having a good job is important to them. I’m sure you do some stuff better than others too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 06:04 PM
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Why would you leave then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:58 PM
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Read man’s search for meaning by Victor frankl. This isn’t logical. It means your children have no meaning until they have kids. Everyone is always just a placeholder w no meaning themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:58 PM
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You’re applying your values to someone else. Not everyone values what you value.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:56 PM
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Ok but literally
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:55 PM
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I think diet and exercise is something SOME people can’t get under control until other issues are fixed. For me those things take work, sure, but it’s more like a barometer of how my other stuff is doing than something I do on purpose if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:54 PM
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This is how you end up paying allimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:53 PM
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That’s a good idea!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:52 PM
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I’ve gotten banned for blocking someone who made fun of my rape. Apparently it’s hard to read the thread or something. Which isn’t a big deal people should be able to block who they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:51 PM
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They want a trad wife who also works full time 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:50 PM
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Oh no not a schedule.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:49 PM
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No they aren’t. Men get custody more than women when they ask for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:48 PM
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By what metrics is a nuclear family better than living w the grandparents?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:48 PM
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Men have literally made this argument to me. “They won’t die so”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:47 PM
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Says no one who has ever been alone w a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:47 PM
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Except it’s easy to do this w my female and (gay) male friends. I have no issue finding people I can have balanced relationships like this w. Just straight men. If you’re saying straight men can’t do it then the conversation is more, what kind of partnerships can straight men and women really have?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:46 PM
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Ok. Then do maternal and infant mortality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:50 PM
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And the total numbers are higher than before abortion bans. As is maternal and infant mortality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:18 PM
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https://www.guttmacher.org/2024/03/despite-bans-number-abortions-united-states-increased-2023
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:46 PM
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No idea. They’re free to be shitty people. They just can’t claim to be better than other shitty people without being liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:43 PM
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The unchosen men claim to be a better choice than the chosen men. So they should act better or they’re liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:28 PM
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