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That’s quite the temper tantrum to have about not being able to attract Stacey.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 04:32 AM
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Damn if I had an annoying wife I’d get a divorce not shoot up a church. Male logic is so hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:48 AM
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I have no idea what the answer is. Can you pls tell me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:57 AM
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Mass shootings are like 97% men tho Why so disproportionately male compared to even other violent crimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:54 AM
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No you didn’t. I’m saying your explanation doesn’t work because men and women both do that yet men and women do not both do mass shootings (outside of a few outliers). If you want to suggest a cause, it needs to explain why only men are responding in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:42 AM
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Aren’t women also political and terminally online as much as men are?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:38 AM
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The church shooter had a wife and kids. I thought our mass shooting problem was bc women’s standards were too high? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:57 AM
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“Nothing to be gained” as if having a nice time with another human being isn’t what we’ve enjoyed doing for millennia. Read a poetry book and get off the internet for an afternoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:55 AM
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Less women can afford to keep a stay at home spouse than women who can afford to let a scumbag crash at their house and eat their food.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:17 AM
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the failure rate is too high to keep saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:50 PM
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> Guys talk a lot of shit, this is something a guy would typically learn early and how to roll w it. y'all can't keep saying this w the male suicide rate where it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:44 PM
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so why do trans men face transphobia?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:43 PM
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nope military is hierarchy, not cooperation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:00 PM
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> I don't 100% agree because you don't always need to have physical dominance to dominate someone. i agree thats why i gave other examples of control: "threats, intimidation, manipulation" > If I just pinch a woman but still abuse "abuse" is used in a bunch of different ways. an "abusive relationship" is where one person has the power (through whatever means) and controls the other. if you can control another person through pinching, then it is an abusive relationship if you cannot control anoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:59 PM
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violent good guy vs bad guy while women are playing house (cooperation games)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:55 PM
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can't please em
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:53 PM
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the other kind of men are gaslighting women that chad doesn't actually lie or mislead them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:53 PM
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> "Whenever a man says that women also enforce gender roles on men, a common response is, 'Men are the ones who created these patriarchal standards in the first place.' Therefore, it’s not women’s fault for what men did." its not about fault. its about joining together to get rid of something that is toxic for both of us. if men don't want to end patriarchy, then we can't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:25 PM
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ex: boys play war with toy guns, girls play house with barbie dolls
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:24 PM
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not really, you can just look at violence statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:23 PM
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abuse = one person controlling another through threats, intimidation, manipulation or actual physical harm if you are not being controlled, for instance if your partner isn't big enough to physically harm you and no other kind of intimidation/threat is present, you should leave the relationship. if you are being controlled through verbal abuse, for instance, then i completely agree with you that male victims should be treated the same way female victims are. men themselves say men are desperate …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:23 PM
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"> I truly think most women are completely clueless to the issues men face." i think women are aware of the issues men face because men are very loud about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:19 PM
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can you give some examples of valid complains men should have about relationships that aren't taken seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:17 PM
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at a regular social gathering like a thanksgiving dinner, there is no heavy lifting. men sit around all day while women do all the planning, cooking and cleaning. in the old days this was "fair" because the men paid for it. now they maybe pay for half.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:16 PM
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feminism literally teaches that men are victims of patriarchy too. and that some women are the villains of patriarchy and men are the victims (ex: a mom enforcing gender roles on her little boy).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:10 PM
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supposedly men don't lie or mislead women about wanting a monogamous relationship with them, so i'm not sure why anything would change as society accepts polyamory more. men say we're already doing the things that would lead to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:09 PM
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has anyone said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:08 PM
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men will always complain they used to complain women were a ball and chain now they complain women don't want to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:07 PM
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do your best and do it with good intentions and apologize if you misstep. that's what i do and it works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:06 PM
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sure but other kinds of women aren't liked by men whereas those women's male counterparts don't experience any issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:06 PM
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> We can also see this in women post covid era. Post-COVID, the percentage of single women reporting weekly sex declined from 49.2% to 40.5%, and those with at least one partner in the past year fell from 58.7% to 50.8%. huge win for the red pill, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:05 PM
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> I truly think most women are completely clueless to the issues men face. ya'll are constantly screaming about it tho? men literally shoot up schools every week over it? the person you're responding to is right. i feel terrible that my awkward nephew who i love very much will very likely face a lot of difficulty in dating. But i am not in favor of like... returning financial pressure to women so that they are forced to date men when they would otherwise stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:04 PM
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> Chads might be sleeping with multiple women, but they're not fathering children with multiple women for the most part. gonna get harder and harder not to do that as birth control and abortion become more restricted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:03 PM
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so the 80/20 thing won't be an issue in the future bc all kids will be chads kids? so women will like all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:02 PM
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when i had a low n count i only wanted to date low n count men i guess we aren't so different
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:43 PM
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thats not sluts business tho? its not their fault if you can't attract a virginal woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:42 PM
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i just did? poc are people. they are included in my genderless argument about why people are less into dating than the in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:11 PM
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just saying it doesn't make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:19 PM
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so you agree, mixed signals = no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:16 PM
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🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:08 PM
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dating is like going out to eat. there are lots of places to go out to eat and its up to you to read reviews and make good choices. but, if overall most of the time you go out to eat your experience is unsatisfying (or dangerous, damaging, etc) then you will be less interested in eating out. you might even invest time in learning cooking skills and get to a point where you feel your own cooking is superior to anything you could get at a restaurant. because we treat each other so poorly, romantic…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:51 PM
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you're almost there!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:51 PM
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gay men don't have a shortage of friends
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:51 PM
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thats how you go to jail
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:50 PM
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you're telling me you "don't know" how you can have control over a rape fantasy that's in your own head? if you're saying you can't control a rape fantasy you play out with another person, congrats, you agree with the point i just made.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:45 PM
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haha so "do charity work for straight men or we will continue to oppress you" cool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:43 PM
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i dont even know what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:35 PM
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and moral
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:34 PM
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we still do it in 2025
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:07 PM
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i dont, shes rich at least. i worry about the poor women who get told they'll be taken care of as long as they're a wife and mom who end up destitute because, shocker, we live in capitalism where you have to be self-sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:26 PM
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you're denying that we socialize men to act tough and women to act nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:24 PM
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he was def both.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:20 PM
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what would the gay men get out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:57 PM
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according to this guys logic too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:57 PM
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just like how racists don't think anything is "actually" racist. they are against racism in theory, but never in real life when it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:57 PM
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if they do... they are misandrists. the person i'm responding to is denying that he is a misogynist after describing himself saying misogynistic things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:56 PM
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see this is why erika kirk is a loser. because she does ALL FUCKING THAT for a group of people who will turn around and call her a whore 😂 now THAT is a SUCKER.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:54 PM
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some people are unhealthy. some people are illogical. > Do murderers pretend to consensually murder others to act out their fantasy of murder but with consent?? this is a great example because you actually can't consent to be murdered. you will still go to jail. it is still a crime. we dont even allow dr. assisted suicide in the us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:37 PM
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I enjoy drinking water. I don't enjoy drowning. I enjoy inviting people over to my house. I wouldn't want a home invader to show up with a gun in the middle of the night. A fantasy I control where nothing goes beyond my boundary is enjoyable. I wouldn't even play this fantasy out w a man i trusted 100% because its just not the same. He's not a mind-reader, there's gonna be something that goes to far. I don't like that even a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:37 PM
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My parents were republicans.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:35 PM
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christian nationalism is red pill and it's the future of the republican party, who currently control all three branches of government. people are speculating erika kirk will be vance's VP nomination. I don't think that's "losing the culture war".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:34 PM
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source?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:31 PM
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or they can just drop the toxic beliefs about masculinity that negatively affect their health and quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:30 PM
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not even just looks, but we socialize men to act tough and women to act nice, so actions too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:29 PM
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the way men talk about empathy/show empathy for others. like when a female teacher rapes a male student, im irate. the women in the comments are irate. you know who isn't irate? the grown men in the comments saying they raped boys probably had a great time and they are jealous of them. like if we can't get on the same page about what is good and what is bad, it's hard to extend effort towards someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:28 PM
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so do you think its okay for women to be misandrist bc they've been raped or dated shitty men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:22 PM
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> It's because most men don't understand how the family court system is so rigged against them. it isn't. in the us it is extremely hard for a bio parent to not get any custody. and men get primary custody more than women when both ask for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:18 PM
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> It's this weird, strange thing they fantasize about over and over again. its really gross i could never date a girl who really wanted a big wedding. i think its gross but unless she is very wealthy, it's also a being responsible with money thing. even if i wanted to spend a ton of money on a single party, weddings are so cringe! it's just not it for me. thankfully i date men and most of them would be fine eloping.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:17 PM
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when i snap, i don't say misogynistic things. if you say misogynistic things when you snap, you're a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:14 PM
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so then it doesn't fix 99% of problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:47 PM
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and if they don't? you said 99% of problems would be fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:06 PM
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it doesn't matter if its a reasonable expectations. it matters if they will change their behavior, which most cheaters won't. if they had the moral strength to not cheat, they would have already not cheated. what do you do in that situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:54 PM
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only if you think people change their actions when asked 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:36 PM
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slow down and wait for him to make the next move. i want to be on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:02 PM
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> Would vanish if individuals addressed issues directly. Husband not up to scratch? Communicate directly. If his actions change? Problem solved. His actions don’t? Do with this information what you will. you can't even solve the problem in your hypothetical. so how would the complaint "vanish" if addressed directly and he doesn't do anything to change? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:01 PM
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> No matter how attentive they are, I simply don't trust men to be equal parents. so we're tolerating open misandry now?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 07:59 PM
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why
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:57 PM
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yeah i def agree there are bad and gross ways to ask or reasons for asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:56 PM
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> A first date is fairly low stakes. for you. not for me. the more time i spend with someone, it is harder to think clearly about them. i would rather get as much of the big dealbreaker stuff out of the way as fast as possible before my judgement is clouded. that is how you "choose better". > For a lot of people, work is just a paycheck and that's fine. i will learn that about them when they talk about their job. my follow up question if they aren't passionate about their job would be what they …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 06:23 PM
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jobs are fun stuff to me 🤷‍♀️ Lots of people like working and you don't know until you ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:45 PM
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easy when you dont have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:44 PM
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its how you spend 40+ hours a week how are you gonna get to know someone without knowing what they do all day, most days? thats just dancing around a boogeyman for no reason. > The purpose of the date is to have fun together and talk to each other. how are you supposed to "choose better" if you're just supposed to "have fun"? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:43 PM
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mixed signals = no
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:01 PM
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wouldn't this explain men's poor mental health? if you have to be a bad person, you won't respect yourself. if you don't respect yourself, you will haver poor mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:08 PM
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so you can't name any kind of praise women get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 02:49 PM
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what praise? from which groups in society?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:49 PM
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what praise? from who?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:54 PM
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source that this would improve mens mental health and not make it worse? do murderers have better mental health than non-murderers?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:44 PM
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> When men contribute to society they get nothing in return. what do women get in return for contributing to society?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:41 PM
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what you described is how most dates women are accused of using as foodie calls go.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:19 PM
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so you were on a foodie call?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:08 PM
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wouldnt it be easier for you guys both to put yourselves first and support each other as you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:59 PM
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so men aren't checking out of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:36 PM
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yeah but women also dont wanna sleep with bi men. gender roles are for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:21 PM
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> Men will simply do the minimum and check out of society, and live in modest solitary contentment. so why would women want to be around people like this? let men check out and let women run society then since you're saying men don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:05 PM
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id agree with that, i think most people underestimate the amount of people who are bad at spotting manipulation and/or how hard it is to get away from them when you're stupid/desperate in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:39 PM
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some people are good at manipulation, some people are bad some people are good at spotting a manipulator, some people are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:37 PM
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reddit makes it very hard to scroll and find a specific comment. i wasn't bitching, i thought i was being helpful and even said I will go look after.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:37 PM
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> Internet rabbit holes, lack of connections, distorted versions of reality and general nihilism are to blame. women face these same problems tho? so what explains the gender gap when it comes to violence? especially mass shootings?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:34 PM
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> even the gendered differences in impulse control are exaggerated. The difference is definitely there, but not massive. so what would you attribute the gender gap in violence, especially mass shootings, to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:32 PM
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how would conservatives not be to blame for over-producing violent men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:30 PM
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its definitely related. violence is gendered and violence affects dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:30 PM
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really? i think you're confusing getting a handful of women who are into you when you catfish as a rude chad with getting 95% of women interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:30 PM
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what does college have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:27 PM
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i thought this was about desiring a boring guy vs an exciting guy? what "attitude" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:26 PM
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what does that have to do with all male prisons?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:25 PM
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i would rather upgrade my house than go on vacation. its stressful and i dont like being away from my dog!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:06 PM
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i would only date a boring responsible man. luxury cars and dubai disgust me. i think you're talking about the top 20% of women who are stacies and able to get flown out and such. like yeah if you're all competing for stacey i can see why you feel inadequate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:04 PM
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i thought patriarchal men were protectors? why would a protector make fun of someone for being weaker than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:04 PM
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so why didn't you try and commit to women when you were young and in social settings with women? maybe they think you've hit the wall and are no longer interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:03 PM
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who do you think is perceived as more masculine by men: donald trump or tim walz?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:01 PM
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its applauded in all male prisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:58 PM
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do you know about copy/paste? if you memorize ctrl x and ctrl v it takes 2 seconds. i'll look.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:54 PM
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any evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:54 PM
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i think this whole issue is just about when a victim is saying what they went through, to not be rude and play armchair quarterback. like yeah, hindsight is 50/50 but why are you bringing it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:53 PM
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> The difference is that women are specifically attracted to really shit behavior lets say this is true some of that shitty behavior is also applauded by men and seen as masculine. for instance, a man being violent makes him more manly in the eyes of other men. do you think men have a responsibility to not consider shitty traits to make someone more manly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:49 PM
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> We do but they don't always want us. if they're wholesome, they want wholesome men, period. i'm not using wholesome to just mean average, i mean actually good and oriented towards morality. all the christian women who want husbands. this is a subset of women that should have a 1-5% singleness rate, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:48 PM
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lots of single girls in church pining for a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:41 PM
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so go for wholesome women instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:41 PM
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you think 95% of women go for hot assholes? its like a loud 50% at the absolute max.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:33 PM
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what companies are getting rich off the gender war?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:33 PM
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no the root of the gender war is that men generally want women to submit to them, cook/clean/care for kids and go 50/50 on finances. that's a losing deal for women, so less women are interested in men than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:32 PM
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congrats you invented machiavellianism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:30 PM
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don't men have a phrase "don't stick your dick in crazy" because the women they are most attracted to are... also not good for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:29 PM
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well yeah what stops me is that i have low anxiety and drama in my life because i can respect myself if i lied, i would have more anxiety and drama men seem more comfy living a lower quality of life with anxiety and drama
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:14 PM
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nope, if you look at the comments section when a teacher rapes a male student, the women will be outraged, calling it rape, and saying she should be in prison. the men will be saying they wish they could be the victim, its not rape, etc. they might even say "if it was a man people would be more outraged" all the while THEY are the ones who are not outraged enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:08 PM
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oh got it, mine too. but maybe just my mom was easier on that one bc she was guilty 😂😂🤣 their big thing was lazy people, anyone on disability, anyone who didn't work, have a nice yard, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:25 PM
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were you upper class or umc? maybe it is more of an upper class thing my family are super judgemental and shit on everyone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:22 PM
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it seems like you are intent on misunderstanding whatever was said to you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:16 PM
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minimum 2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:15 PM
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i mean, how do you explain maga then? (genuinely i'd love to understand this better, i'm half joking) 🙏 i feel like my inclination (via growing up super religious) is that everyone is pretty smart no matter what "walk of life" they come from but then i talk to most people and their basic reasoning skills are just so bad. like how smart can you be if you don't have a scaffolding to build off of? and it's worse with red state people because they don't even get the foundation of a good k-12 educati…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:13 PM
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i think im gonna be a republican from listening to financial audit i cant w everyone in the military getting 5k a month indefinitely for disability
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:08 PM
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as someone w divorced parents and an absent father, i've literally never felt shame about being a bastard? like it just occured to me reading this now, at 40 that i fit the criteria and i've never thought about it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:07 PM
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then use the correct word paying for your kids is very different than paying for your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:05 PM
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lower class has the most absent parents
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:04 PM
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do you feel like leo in The Departed?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:03 PM
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lots of upper class fams force you to ignore/put up with family members bad/illegal/dangerous actions bc that family member holds the purse strings, too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:01 PM
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honestly i'd rather someone supress than their issues explode violently out of them, but obviously the goal is having healthy emotional hygeine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:01 PM
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thank you for saying this bc i honestly gaslit myself growing up that people from all walks of life are the same and then i'm surprised pikachu face when people say things like "if i didn't lay with a man and make the child why would i care if its hungry" (just an example of the last time my mind was blown by a perspective from someone i assumed was socialized in a dif class).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:00 PM
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> Completely different is an exxageration. UMC men have raped, beaten, killed, and cheated just like poor men have. The difference is upbringing, not really the money. Well, money has helped men GET AWAY with doing more awful shit, but thats about it. yes umc and poor men are immoral/bad people in similar percentages but *how* this looks is different. and i agree that umc are more likely to get away with bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 09:56 PM
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i mean i constantly observe that i have different social norms as someone who grew up UMC from specifically blue collar people. i was raised not to raise my voice or fight or be aggressive, its considered the height of tacky. blue collar people think this means you are submissive and weak. it is a big culture difference and it matters in dating because of your interpersonal dynamic, what you can be attracted to and what kind of guy is gonna embarrass you socially. > I made this post because I fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 09:53 PM
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> Many men are not going to have a problem misrepresenting themselves to have it if they know that it’s only for short-term. Why should they feel bad about it? because lying is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:33 PM
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yes in my opinion: hiring a photographer to take photos of you is desperate and tacky displaying those photos is desperate and tacky not limited to weddings
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:32 PM
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i guess. i think the pictures just look tacky and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:12 PM
13

you just said its cost you every relationship you've had.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:09 PM
1

you make it seem like men are just bad people... i think men want to be able to respect themselves. i've met men who value their word and they seem very mentally healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:08 PM
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i didn't say "all potential dealbreakers" i think you know when there's big stuff and you catch yourself lying or being intentionally vague to cover it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:05 PM
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he doesn't want to respect himself? also lots of things happen differently than you plan in life. the woman he lied to could come back into his life in a different way (work, social circle, family, etc) and expose him as a lying creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:36 PM
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yup, if you want low drama you can't create drama by lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:35 PM
1

men can have lots of experience and still be really bad, usually its about effort more than experience but im sure experience helps you relax, which can't hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:35 PM
1

i mean dif between not telling each other everything and purposely obscuring something you know might be a dealbreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:34 PM
13

have you considered getting treatment for your addiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:33 PM
0

its normal to want something just bc its expensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:32 PM
1

i think they're sooooooooooooooooooo embarassing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:31 PM
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no one is loved back perfectly all the time. everyone who tries to love will experience unrequited love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:31 PM
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We don’t even have the same rights as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 07:52 PM
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Was it not a gender war when it was just men keeping women down without women advocating for our rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 07:52 PM
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So do it without a woman. Plenty of kids need a foster dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:43 AM
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I don’t think men give compassion often.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:52 AM
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Single men and single women are not the same. Idk why you’re acting like those are the same options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:20 AM
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I mean this is America
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:19 AM
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If they find a way to make is safe and not increase sex trafficking. Like in theory I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:19 AM
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Men don’t wanna offer deeper foundations. Most of the men here think talking to their partner is a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:18 AM
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Okay but she isn’t talking about your bf who can clearly attract someone. She’s talking about men who are unhappy w their options
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:17 AM
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I don’t want a virgin but ran thru men are a huge turnoff. Never understood people who hook up w celebs for instance. Nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:07 AM
2

Is that not the same for non-Stacey women? You don’t get what men offer to Stacey either. They’ll offer you crumbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:06 PM
2

Okay so your issue is not every man easily gets tons of women, not most men being single or unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:52 PM
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Whatever it is, you’re wrong that we’re the most free ever. I see why you’d be anxious to change the subject tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:28 AM
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It could be solved by simply agreeing on moral behavior which good men and women would be willing to do. It’s the bads holding us back.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:21 AM
1

But most men aren’t single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:19 AM
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How can “women” — such a large number of women that you don’t need to say “some women” — be choosing bad men unless bad men are so abundant they are hard to avoid?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:11 AM
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I’m less free than my mom was 10 years ago. We went backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:59 PM
1

Do you really think most men are forever alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:58 PM
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It’s mostly cause those things are hard to do as an involved parent/pregnant person. The less involved parent can focus on their career. Not all parents get that luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:26 PM
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How do men make up most of the military if girls take orders better? HUH?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:25 PM
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Both can be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:23 PM
2

You like everything you try? I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:26 PM
3

How does that fuck your brain up?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:15 PM
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Porn affects the brain differently than reading. It’s specifically switching between videos of people having sex that fucks your brain up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:46 PM
1

Fair enough then!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:20 PM
2

Do you want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:14 PM
1

Well yeah abandoning your kids is awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:00 PM
5

It says taxes disproportionately fund women 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:10 PM
5

The conversation wasn’t positive things about men. It was that supposedly our tax money goes to women. I corrected that misunderstanding. Our number one tax expense is men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:43 PM
3

Dishonest how?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:20 PM
3

Isn’t it republicans (leans male) who want more spending on military and police than Dems (leans female)? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:55 PM
7

Same with women. It is extremely difficult in America to keep a bio parent from their kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:10 PM
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Nope. When men ask for custody they get it more than women. You see more women get custody bc men don’t want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:25 PM
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No they don’t. When men ask for custody they get it more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:14 PM
2

Lmao wait until you have a real problem. It’s gonna blow you away.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:06 PM
5

Sure he can. Ask for custody if you have kids. Have a 50/50 financial relationship if you’re married.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:03 PM
6

Oh no. Not someone complaining. How will men endure this suffering?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:02 PM
4

Our taxes mostly go to programs that protect us from men (military, police).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:01 PM
8

Things are going well then they suddenly change after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:02 PM
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Women are afraid of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:17 PM
2

I guess you’re not talking about rape then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:15 PM
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It’s not irrational if women abuse men all the time….
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:15 PM
1

Sure but we live in capitalism so most couples can’t afford that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:26 PM
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Duh? They’re fuckin strangers. Why would you trust a stranger? 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:24 PM
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Doesn’t have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:23 PM
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Then I guess it’s good to confirm the person you’re having sex with actually wants it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:45 PM
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Just like fight and flight, some people fawn when they are panicking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:45 PM
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Pressure is coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:43 PM
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If men were more afraid of women I’d believe that women are as abusive as men. The issue is men aren’t afraid of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:41 PM
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How would I know? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:36 AM
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🤷‍♀️ I’m not voting for someone just bc they’re a dem but I’ll sure as hell vote for someone to keep a rapist out of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:19 AM
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I don’t want to be sexualized by stranger. I want to be sexy/attractive to attract someone to not be a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:18 AM
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Never once have I had a guy stare at me while I was dressed sexy and liked it. The goal is looking good. Not having a guy look at you. If I could press a button that meant I could dress sexy and not have men talk to me, stare at me or touch me I would press it. They can see me from afar I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:55 PM
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You said monthly. Most people don’t do that. Your weird criteria is the problem. I don’t deny women donate money and like to choose female centered orgs when they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:19 PM
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Nope. Working on my own on a computer for 8 hours and then parenting for 3 is easier than screaming kids the whole time. People are different. You sound more suited to take care of kids than work. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:18 PM
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It’s not reasonable or sane to vote for a rapist. And yall weren’t even forced to make that choice. You could have picked any Republican to be the nominee. Surely there are many talented republicans who aren’t rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:16 PM
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lol I don’t think every parent feels that way, no. Teachers are getting pushback on parents reading to their kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:35 PM
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You think most women are donating $60 a year to one of these? I don’t. Also men’s health gets more research money anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:33 PM
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So vet for the ones that really want kids, the more the better. Career women who only want an equal partner will up front tell you then don’t want kids or want 1-2.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:32 PM
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And the welfare of their children, or else they wouldn’t support their husband financially while he stays home to parent all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:19 PM
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Maybe for you. I find working to be easy and enjoyable. I find being around very small children to be hell. My sis felt the same and has a stay at home dad husband. She feels trading places would be a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:18 PM
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Not many men do the first thing either. Most women don’t do the first thing for women, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:16 PM
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Society can do lots of things to help lots of people. We’re moving away from that, collectively, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:15 PM
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We lost two female presidential candidates to a rapist. No, I don’t think people listen to women more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:13 PM
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What is men’s level of empathy that we are comparing women to?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:13 PM
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I don’t think it’s only online, but it’s def a certain kind of women and at least the other half (if not way more) aren’t that… Why don’t men date maga women? They’re certainly not saying this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:03 PM
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Yes. Flirting isn’t a marriage proposal. You can flirt and get to know them more and change your mind. You aren’t committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 06:06 PM
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Yes I’m single and yes everyone I meet is a stranger. Even if they are objectively attractive they’re still a stranger and I’m uncomfy w strangers sexualizing me bc who knows if they are trustworthy? Every guy I’ve ever been deeply attracted to was a stranger I kept at an arms length until I got to know them better. I feel like that’s somewhat normal and definitely healthy. You let your guard down as you build trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:21 PM
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I’m not attracted to strangers so it’s all men for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:16 PM
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Idk I like being sexy for myself and the girls and sometimes the gays. If even an extremely attractive man gives me attention I’m gonna be scared and not like it. It’s a strange man. I get many women would like it but not me and I feel op is def talking about me 😂 attention from stranger men that is not extremely casual and polite makes me feel unsafe. I literally dress sexy way less than I otherwise would be I know it comes w unwanted attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:15 PM
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Because it’s creepy. Go look at porn or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:12 PM
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In the tool maybe. Not in the effort I expend. I just don’t think the analogy makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:09 PM
1

So then they don’t find it valuable. They do it anyway bc it’s useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:28 PM
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I don’t think that makes sense. Why would men find giving validation to be valuable?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:04 AM
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Yes that’s the fantasy. Having the opportunity to cruelly reject a woman they couldn’t get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:59 PM
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I’m glad you understand these are not the same groups and I also wish we had better words. “Incel” needs to change too, but there’s not a better word yet to describe online misogynistic communities. I really wish there was. Would “lonely men” work for your purposes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:48 PM
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I’ll bring up looks not being the biggest factor bc I think it would shock men how attracted I get to someone whose personality I like, while they were average looking when we met. Not because looks don’t matter at all but bc this seems v foreign from how men talk about attraction working for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:06 PM
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Many feminists agree w you. The fairy tale/magic fix/fantasy of romantic love/nuclear family makes capitalism go 📈
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:05 PM
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So male attention is worthless without commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:00 PM
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Literally
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:54 PM
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It’s the fawn response. Like fight or flight evolution makes some animals go along w prey instead of fighting them. Fighting and running done work when you’re heavily outmatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:44 PM
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Read it in this book, https://dn790007.ca.archive.org/0/items/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:17 PM
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That’s the revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:05 PM
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It’s not just misogynistic it’s misanthropic. Never met a misanthrope that was healthy or happy in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:06 PM
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Gotta be a red state thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:32 PM
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That’s capitalism for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:05 PM
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They don’t even like women 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:04 PM
3

This is so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:02 PM
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Lmao it’s bc everyone assumes she’s making it up and is therefore a bad mom. Not that fuckin hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:02 PM
5

A fact is propaganda?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:24 PM
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If I provide it, will you admit you’re wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:10 PM
7

Yes, easier. When you have kids, doing what is easiest for yourself but worse for them is being a shitty parent, deadbeat dad, negligent and possibly abuse depending on the situation you abandon them in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:09 PM
9

Tf are you taking about? Men are more likely to get custody than women if both ask for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:00 PM
7

I mean obviously? A huge population is hard to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:59 PM
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Not really. Dads get custody more than moms when they ask for it. If a mom accuses a dad of abuse she is statistically more likely to lose custody than if she keeps his abuse a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:58 PM
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A mother who accuses a father of abuse is statistically more likely to lose custody than if she keeps the abuse a secret. In the us it is extremely hard to keep a bio parent from their kids. There’s an app that family court uses for contentious coparents. 100% of communication is supposed to be done through the app. Just use the app and parent on your days. I don’t get how that’s hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:55 PM
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Um what? If she’s a terrible person abandoning your kids with her is even more abusive. Do yall have no instinct to protect your own children?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:48 PM
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Wow that’s a huge population of incompetent bums.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:10 PM
9

1/4 of divorced men abandon their kids completely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:49 PM
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Which would mean you’d be in favor of a balanced relationship like I’m suggesting. 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:48 PM
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Men are an even bigger tax burden. If we did t have to protect our society from men we wouldn’t need a military of our size or so many police and prisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:30 AM
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I measure it more by the opportunity cost of not spending that time energy on financial security for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:29 AM
6

They want us poor, exhausted and desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:41 PM
6

Is it immoral to be in a relationship where you know your partner is generally more giving than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:21 PM
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Alimony is for the financial security one partner forwent for the couple/family unit, either bc one person has kids or one person is wealthy and would benefit from a rested spouse that caters to them/manages their lives. If youre a childfree 50/50 couple it makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:20 PM
1

You just said the women were announcing it everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:12 PM
10

How are men’s bodies more utilitarian when they can’t even create life?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:30 PM
1

So only sleep with people you get married to. Not everyone lives in the footloose town.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:18 AM
1

So then what are women supposed to do so men don’t “get away with it”? Marry every guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:24 AM
2

Oh. So anything other than marrying women (a punishment I guess?) is “getting away with it”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:27 AM
1

Unfortunately nature doesn’t take maturity into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:48 PM
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Sure. I think you’re a fucking idiot if you dont have a vasectomy and have sex and say you haven’t @consented to parenthood” or if you abandon your child. Works for either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:42 PM
2

Lots of kinks and paraphilias disturb me. The normalization of bdsm is insane to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:11 PM
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I have never seen one 🤷‍♀️ (Not saying they don’t exist, but idk how common it is. And I hope men pick those women)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:06 PM
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It’s not a kink it’s a paraphilia. Idk how they measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:05 PM
2

What are some reasons a woman gets back w an abuser? I want to see if you are knowledgeable about this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:04 PM
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“Have used” vs who is on the app for the whole 5 year period. Most women delete within 2 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:55 PM
3

Idk bc how can it be “monster paint” if plenty of men hear the story and defend the man’s actions? Men think the behavior is just fine, so then it’s obviously not being portrayed as monstrous. It’s just that men and women disagree on what behavior is acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:53 PM
3

Hybristophilia is not that common tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:51 PM
10

Yeah they’re sharing the small pool of women who have a mental disease that attracts them to criminals. Enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:51 PM
5

If they can get away with it why are women breaking up with them or complaining about them? That’s not “getting away with it”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:50 PM
0

I wouldn’t describe a guy w a million video games and no financial security as a “chill minimalist”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:00 PM
1

Nope. Just an average woman. Men don’t leave women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:26 PM
1

Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:52 AM
3

Seems like men haven’t been happy throughout all of history. Can’t please em.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:51 AM
2

I will be judgemental as long as men are judgemental. I ain’t playing by different rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:50 AM
1

Then those women can get all the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:29 PM
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I don’t know but ew, leave me out of it. Surely there’s some kind of whore meeting place you can find women into casual sex at.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:21 PM
1

I don’t care how many men it is, we want to be invisible to those men especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:18 PM
3

No all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:17 PM
2

Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:08 PM
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Men never shut up about those women. Every time they see a woman w a nose piercing they have yo go up to her and say how unattractive it is. I’m talking INVISIBLE, not TARGET.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:07 PM
4

if given the option the vast majority of women would pay money for glasses that cause them to become invisible to men. what freedom!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 09:18 PM
3

what does that have to do with what i said?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:32 PM
0

name some.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:05 PM
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> If you are a normal decent person then you should have no problem with the concept that "good people should be rewarded and bad people should be punished" - this is a simple truth that makes the world a better and safer place. and how are individual men responsible for rewarding good men and punishing bad men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:05 PM
1

Sure there is. It’s a moral failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:25 PM
1

What qualities do they possess or actions they do make them good? Be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:24 PM
12

It is labor. Knowing it is valuable doesn’t make it effortless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:21 PM
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For free? If it would save humanity surely we can at least offer universal paid maternity? Not hospital bills for prenatal exams or labor and delivery?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:19 PM
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Men do it 9:1
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:34 PM
1

I can’t wear cheap jewelry, I’ll break out in hives. I need a material that doesn’t irritate my skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:04 PM
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Men rape and murder women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:00 PM
1

That sounds toxic and dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:52 PM
1

Nope. Non-feminists would be excited to meet someone who shares their values.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:51 PM
1

You don’t ask any get to know you questions before asking someone on a date? There’s your issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:50 PM
2

So ask if they are feminist before the date. Non-feminists won’t be offended by this question. That’s what I just said. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:49 PM
2

Why not just ask if they’re feminists before asking them out? Traditional women won’t be offended and will be excited to say no and meet a traditional man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:27 PM
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🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:23 PM
2

Do you ask women you don’t like on dates? Or what is “letting” vs “wanting” here?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:22 PM
6

Less women are trapped. Many have not realized the cage is unlocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:14 AM
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I dont believe it’s true, but there’s guys w no allegations to move on to. It’s vetting, not a trial.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:59 PM
1

What “blind trust” are you referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:45 PM
3

Ok. So here’s a difference between us. It sounds like you’ve never spent time falling for someone, got your heart broken, later found out they were hiding a relationship and had everything click into place about what was happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:39 PM
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One of the most common posts is “this guy is actually married”. P helpful info to know about the men I see on apps. You’d think good guys would find that a benefit too, as it pulls bad men out of the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:48 PM
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dont even know what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:06 PM
3

if i was dating men in my circle, i wouldn't have to ask strangers about them. feel free to list better/more reliable sources of information i can access about men i meet through the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:05 PM
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if you dont find your male peers a trustworthy source of information, that sounds like a men's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:02 PM
2

Isn’t choosing better paying attention to a guys reputation?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:01 PM
1

But yall say you want to act just like Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:43 PM
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False dichotomy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:11 PM
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I’m not saying it’s untrue that men went to prostitutes. I’m saying good luck lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:09 PM
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Which is?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:35 PM
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Condoms weren’t invented
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:34 PM
1

Why wouldn’t they want hotter girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:31 AM
3

Lmfaoooo As if I would assume he wanted commitment 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:37 PM
2

we got the right to vote. we can have bank accounts and buy houses. i feel like you have never read about feminism and are getting mad at your own ignorance. > The crucial part, however, is that she actually went out and did something. praising a murderer for murdering is fucking sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:05 PM
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you're the top 10% and you're still on apps? math aint mathin (but i agree that women's profiles are also commonly really bad, maybe just less creepy ones)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:03 PM
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> Aren’t men and women equal? i protect someone if i can i use my other gifts to help those around me as i can i dont help people because i think i'm better than them? or that they are lesser than me? it has nothing to do with equality. In a healthy community, everyone would help each other. if you aren't skilled or gifted or in the opportunity to protect, there is no moral issue with you not doing those things. help in the ways you *can* instead of getting hung up on gender roles. > I’m an advo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:59 PM
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I mean getting men to get an std test is really hard so “disease free” isn’t making the point you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:34 PM
1

You have no argument so you resorted to ad hominem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:44 PM
9

So then you don’t need a partner who works full time. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:58 PM
2

That’s weird. I don’t associate w anyone who yells in anger. Yet I have many 10-20 year plus close relationships w friends, family, coworkers, bosses, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:56 PM
1

so then you understand how valuable your preference is in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:27 PM
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yeah i'm not compatible with someone who speaks this way. you sound angry and judgemental. i aint doin that. "allergic to bs" and "no drama" were automatic left swipes from me when i was on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:25 PM
2

the military and police and prisons would all not need to exist, or would need to exist at 1/4 of their power (and expenses) or less if men could control themselves. that's what we spend all our money on. they're the tax burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:24 PM
1

then men in those countries can say women have the right to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:22 PM
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yeah i ain't doin all that. go find someone willing to be poor and survive off one income. then she can wait on you all day and night.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:19 PM
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If they’re both working full time that’s a sucker deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:19 PM
4

Other common reasons for divorce: addiction, abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:18 PM
4

How tho? I treat people I like different than misogynistic strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:17 PM
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To point out that people who say they were blindsided by divorce are usually lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:16 PM
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I don’t think it’s rare for divorce to mostly be someone’s fault. The top reasons for divorce are: infidelity, addiction, money problems, abuse and just not getting along. Infidelity, addiction and abuse are only one persons actions. And money problems could also be one person behaving recklessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:14 PM
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I mean I can tell when I’m treating someone poorly they don’t have to yell at me about it. You can also point stuff out without being aggressive about it. Like saying it but dropping it if the other person gets defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:11 PM
4

The same reason people drank the koolaid at Jonestown
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:58 PM
4

Wait what? You think we spend more on welfare than the military?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:57 AM
4

I didn’t speak for them. I literally said they said they were happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:57 AM
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What a weird way to think. Having a difference of opinion isn’t “robbing someone of their autonomy” get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:39 AM
4

Who is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:38 AM
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Bc I know you won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:38 AM
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That sounds like a nightmare. If it’s easy, everyone would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:18 AM
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My mom wasn’t there 😂 this is my dad’s family and they were divorced. Nice try tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:17 AM
0

You date him then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:16 AM
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Bc police and military are more expensive than welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:03 AM
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I don’t see how. When someone lies to you about how great their life is, do you want what they have? I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:02 AM
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How do you live off the government? Isn’t there like 1% fraud in welfare?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:01 AM
10

So mandatory vasectomies would help?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:46 AM
9

Unless you count all the police and military we need to have bc men can’t control themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:46 AM
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You’re being obtuse. Saying single moms are a tax burden is demonizing them. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:45 AM
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Pointing out the argument is flawed is not that emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:44 AM
7

It ends the argument that men make that women are a tax burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:43 AM
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In elementary school I wrote in my journal I wasn’t going to get married bc I watched all the women in my family serve the men for no reason. The men were not providers. All of those women worked full time and some were breadwinners. The men just sat there. All the women would say their marriages were a fairy tale but I had eyes and ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:42 AM
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And not everyone who doesn’t go to therapy isn’t. Glad you’re getting this now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:25 AM
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Oh so you’re just making shit up. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:18 AM
2

Lmao living in denial is weak
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:05 AM
3

A very picky, persnickety person, reserved, distrustful
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:05 AM
2

And the shittiest people will insist they don’t need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:04 AM
1

I doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:03 AM
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Def not instagram. LinkedIn is prob best.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:19 PM
3

Why are 99% of them men? To answer your question… bc they are shit moms? They obviously don’t have an empathetic adult around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:13 PM
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It’s weird either way but obviously I’m less afraid of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:12 PM
2

I’d be harder on someone who needs therapy but refuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:12 PM
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Plenty of people who desperately need therapy believe they have a mind that doesn’t need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:11 PM
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The less social media the better but no online footprint at all is a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:00 PM
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Ok I don’t trust a random man’s assessment of that but if you have something verifiable we can talk about go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:26 PM
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That’s how you raise a school shooter If a kid doesn’t have at least 1 empathetic adult in their life who buffers the hard parts of life for them, they don’t reach emotional maturity by 18. They go through life breaking down or having tantrums whenever they get overwhelmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:50 PM
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Except for the pedophilia and sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:49 PM
4

Guess what? Lots of weak willed people exist. Better that they improve themselves through widely available means.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:48 PM
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So willpower is superior to therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:47 PM
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I mean I’m not raising a kid w a guy who votes down school levy’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:46 PM
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How did women do this work without being forced by men? 🤔 Why can’t men do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:45 PM
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Most parents don’t teach their kids how to handle big emotions in a healthy way. That is why most adults can’t handle their big emotions in a healthy way. And we live in a hyper sensitive, over sensitive to rejection, passive aggressive culture bc of it. And those parents obviously can’t teach their kids what they were never taught. I indeed think therapy could close this loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:44 PM
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Wdym? I think red pillers don’t care about/value these things. Not that they are incapable of experiencing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:28 PM
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Men was the topic being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:54 PM
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I mean those aren’t red pillers answering. I already know blue pill men say they value normal relationship things like companionship and having someone to talk to. Red pill men say women are only good for sex and babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:50 PM
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There’s a reason the most gung ho trad wives are always young women who haven’t lived the life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:47 PM
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Then put them in jail. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:41 PM
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Well that’s all we use em for
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:38 PM
3

So just being anti taxes in general? Not paying for public education, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:29 PM
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Can you give me one specific example of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:22 PM
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I mean do you think scumbags of either gender are rare?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:22 PM
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Men really are falling behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:18 PM
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FOUR KIDS?? Jesus dude use a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:18 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:17 PM
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So unless you meet her at 18 you don’t get her best?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:13 PM
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But they still think she’s ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:10 PM
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Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:10 PM
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And we know men are rarely scumbags
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:09 PM
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Ain’t no condom trustworthy enough in the world 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:25 PM
1

So how would it work w a woman who wants romance? You’d just fake it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:54 PM
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100% bc they’ll say they don’t even talk to their best guy friends about deep stuff. Obviously not all men, I have a great emotional connection w a close male friend but he’s gay fwiw.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:13 PM
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I think women want emotional connection and men just want someone good enough to fuck, introduce to their families, and do activities with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:04 PM
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Do you like romance? Do you have romantic thoughts? I guess I fell for stereotypes bc I thought autistic men were uninterested in lovey dovey romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:02 PM
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So you agree, women literally don’t have the right to choose as op claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:32 PM
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Every life has worth and deserves dignity. That doesn’t mean I want to fuck them. A fetus is alive and I’m fine w abortion. I eat animals and plants that are killed (and usually tortured, if it’s factory farmed meat) just for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:32 PM
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🙄 I’m guessing you found it and it says there’s good and bad, not that I wasn’t correct that it raises incidents of sex trafficking. Those are different arguments you’d have to present.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:10 PM
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Not sure how you’d even do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:05 PM
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Women literally don’t have the right to choose what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:59 PM
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Men are comfy w riskier situations than women. It’s also easier to be an armchair quarterback.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:57 PM
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You can’t base it on your feelings. Look at the data. Legalization increases sex trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:53 PM
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Notice how you didn’t bring up the welfare of sex workers once.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:52 PM
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> So yeah, some people’s feelings should be very invalidated. by who? random people on reddit? i mean its a free country and they're gonna do that regardless. by the friends and family they go to for support? you'd have to show me that invalidating their feelings is effective at getting them to change their behavior. i would guess a more effective way is to validate their feelings and then MOVE ON to what they can do to avoid it next time or make their situation better instead of GETTING STUCK a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:09 PM
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haha right thats bs for sure men don't compromise unless they have to and when they have to, they treat you worse for it as if its your fault they chose you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:06 PM
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When I talk to men about sex they say I’m lying when I talk about deep feelings like sex being mystical, enriching, wholesome. That’s how little they can relate. I’d love it if men felt the same way about sex as me. That would be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:23 PM
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Nothing I disrespect more than super short women who insist on dating really tall men. Y’all look weird af.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:22 PM
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What’s the advantage of your wife being with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:35 PM
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Ok and?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:59 PM
1

Never seen a woman say men shouldn’t approach women at a party.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:58 PM
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“Doesn’t matter that I use words without knowing what they mean” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:57 PM
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*that’s how uninterested they are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:55 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:40 PM
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The actual studies that say women have lower self esteem than men. You’re talking about how that self esteem manifests.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:30 PM
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What are you talking about? The 1950s WERE atomized. The nuclear family was pushed over community. And if you think we need homogeny I have news for you: that means women shouldn’t be with men as we are actively socialized into non-homogenous roles/values.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:56 PM
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“Let go or get dragged”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:09 PM
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i mean when i was sexually assaulted at the playground at age 5 by an older boy, i told his mom and she said "that's just what boys do" so i reasonably feel "boys will be boys" is bad. anyone who excuses women sexually assaulting boys should also be in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:50 PM
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I’m thinking about it like the last couple times I’ve meet someone interesting are like yoga class where there’s 9 women to the one guy. Like the men who can hang are just rare and have lots of options bc lots of women meet their criteria. Idk I tried to watch the Taylor swift podcast and I couldn’t bc the kelce boys were screaming and stuff, I just can’t deal w normie men. Obviously they are both good looking, wealthy, etc so I am not saying this as an insult. It’s my taste and what I can put u…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:05 PM
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Sure. They can compare me to the better looking women my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:42 PM
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Not really. It’s rooted in gender roles. We socialize men and women to be incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:41 PM
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Okay? Don’t sign up then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:27 PM
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Nope. Saying I don’t connect w people isn’t an insult. If I said most men were losers then you’d have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:27 PM
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Firemen are paid public servants who receive taxpayer money in exchange for providing a service. Also my mom was a fireman so stfu 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:14 PM
2

Yes and my solution is a solely me solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:13 PM
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You made a factually incorrect claim so I pointed it out. Now you won’t be embarrassed next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:12 PM
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It sure as hell doesn’t revolve around a random stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:11 PM
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It’s easy for me to meet women I connect with, it’s rare for me to find men I connect w.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:56 PM
2

Which men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:55 PM
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“At least incels loathe themselves” Acting like women don’t have lower self esteem than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:55 PM
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It’s bc men don’t care about the mess they leave for their loved ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:33 PM
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There are plenty of hotter, younger women for them to go for. There are not enough men like this for all the women who want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:33 PM
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Yeah there’s not enough men like this for all the women who want one. That was the foundational belief of FDS. You’re delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:31 PM
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Your claim is factually wrong lol. Women in the west have lower self esteem than men. You can google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:30 PM
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“Apparently not” yet they don’t hire men for morgue work for exactly this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:39 PM
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No thanks I’m good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:39 PM
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So do dead bodies and chicken sandwhiches.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:36 PM
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Why would I care what a stranger wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:35 PM
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If they weren’t better the man would have picked someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:35 PM
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No. If I thought I’d meet a wholesome person who wanted a healthy partnership w me? Then yes. But I dated for 15 years and the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:35 PM
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Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:51 AM
1

So companies require a workforce to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:27 PM
1

Do you invest in the stock market?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:36 PM
1

are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:23 PM
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> Women will benefit from men’s end regardless. and men will benefit from women having children regardless. > How does a single man benefit from women’s end? google "why is population collapse a problem"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:57 PM
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> if I am taxed so much I can't buy a house 🙄 taxes are not the reason you can't buy a house. i had to pay extra taxes (short term capital gains, the worst kind) in order to sell assets and buy a house on my single in come with my liberal arts degree in philosophy 🥴 if i can do it, you can do it. > me not paying taxes causes society to fail you have so much money society will fail without your taxes, yet you can't buy a house? > If we changed taxes to only apply to women, would you rather societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:27 PM
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women contribute more to children, which we need in order for society to function as much as we need money. thats the reason women make less money than men (and contribute less taxes). its a sweat equity vs liquid equity situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:18 PM
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men are free to live outside of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:17 PM
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🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:52 PM
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I’m just trying to understand sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:46 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:31 PM
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No im asking you to be specific. Of what consequence is “not being blameless”? Zero humans are blameless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:29 PM
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You have described them as wholesome or moral tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:10 PM
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So then show us the wholesome, moral men who get no interest from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:47 PM
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I mean no one in life except for babies are “cleared of wrongdoing” so I don’t really get what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:36 PM
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Sorry I forgot how important pronouns are to you people. Okay so your partner rapes you. Should he or she go to jail? Or not since you chose him or her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:32 PM
6

What does “on you” mean, specifically? You think it should be legal for men to beat their wives bc the wives signed up for it? (I don’t think you think this, I’m asking you to be specific about what you do mean).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:20 PM
3

I mean, is it no longer illegal to steal your car?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:19 PM
4

So what? It’s not illegal or immoral to lie to yourself and get preyed on. It is immoral (and sometimes illegal) to prey on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:18 PM
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If you want to read about the different between an abused person who becomes an abuser and an abused person who doesn’t, Alice millers For Your Own Good is a fascinating read. Her research says the difference is whether the child has a single empathetic, supportive adult in their life to help them cope. It’s also very inspiring to try and be that person for kids/victims you meet in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:16 PM
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They aren’t on trial. No one is innocent or blameless in life. But we don’t get our actions dissected unless we hurt someone or commit a crime. If a guy rapes a woman, it’s irrelevant if she is a toxic person, for instance. Being toxic isn’t illegal, rape is. It’s still immoral and illegal to rape someone, even if they are a bad person. Everyone looks back and sees mistakes they’ve made. That’s why the phrase “hindsight is 20/20” comes from. It’s still illegal and immoral to rape someone even if…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:12 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:08 PM
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I’m saying I thought you meant women were baiting and switching, not you. I guess I don’t see it as a hook if it’s something you keep doing. But I’ve never had a dead bedroom so I don’t really get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:36 PM
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I thought women initiated 80% of divorces? I don’t think chads and Stacey’s are very happy as a group or as a couple. Keeping up w the joneses is miserable, if you look at what makes people feel satisfied or happy w their lives, it’s none of the stuff that makes Chad Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:34 PM
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So if it’s a tradeoff then it’s not a hook? I guess your wording made it seem like a bait and switch but I could be wrong that that’s what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:32 PM
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Viable strategy for what? If you stop having sex w them, they leave. So not commitment. If it’s a relationship w good sex, then it’s not a hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:27 PM
3

Right. Plus if regular sex guaranteed no cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:17 PM
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Ah ok. Not that obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:17 PM
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My great grandma quit school, worked her whole life on the farm and put up with an abusive husband for 80 years (my family lives long). I ain’t doin all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:12 PM
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Right. Men constantly talk about how disgusting they find the women they sleep with and how a woman is a stage five clinger if she expects anything but ghosting after sex. Then they expect us to believe women think they’ll get commitment out of sex? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:38 PM
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It majorly relieves my anxiety to not have anything I’m hiding. That doesn’t mean I tell anything to anyone. But there’s nothing I’d keep from a partner if they wanted to know. Same goes for my close friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:16 PM
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So is it misandrist w the other commenter says “almost every man lies” or is it the plausible deniability that makes it fine? Of course not know what you want isn’t lying. No one is saying that. You are making up a straw man argument. You seem to agree w me as you expand on that so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:13 PM
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I don’t really see how that’s natural
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:12 PM
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You don’t think hot men get caught lying to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:52 PM
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Wdym? He’s acting like white men dont do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:13 PM
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I always say this. It’s a drunk words sober thoughts thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:29 PM
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Do you think cave men had to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:29 PM
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What is the obvious reason you wouldn’t do an open relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:24 PM
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God I love being celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:13 PM
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Nah “you’re only as sick as your secrets” is totally true. You don’t have to share w just anyone but it’s about not letting shame control you and having self-respect when making choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:12 PM
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To trick women into sleeping with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:09 PM
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“Men break your trust but it’s your fault for trusting them”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:08 PM
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“Men lie for sex” But when I say that I’m a misandrist. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:02 PM
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Nope it was the feminist website jezebel 200 years ago when it happened
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:59 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:49 AM
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One is a right one is hurt feelings 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:36 AM
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He was tired of his gfs leaving him so… Finish the sentence. So he found ways to manipulate and prevent them from leaving. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:19 AM
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The trick is they think it’s a great deal not realizing how it traps them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:09 AM
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“Yet to be called out” So how did you hear about it 🙄 Google it, there are articles calling her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:09 AM
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No one is saying men’s right to vote should be taken away.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:49 AM
8

hasn't even been a decade since hef died? and he was dating the whole time?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:44 PM
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no they were white and white men like you excused them same people now clutching their pearls when immigrants do the same thing they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:40 PM
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agree. most cheaters aren't going to even pretend to do what they'd need to for me to trust them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:23 PM
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op gave that example
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:21 PM
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absolutely, hef would trick his gfs into leasing luxury cars they couldn't afford and then pay the lease monthly so they couldn't leave him without having thousands of dollars to buy a new vehicle since they could't afford the lease on the one they had. one of a thousand ways shitty people like this trap and manipulate partners. its not like he was just hot and so women threw themselves at him out of real desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:12 PM
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hugh hefner ran a sex trafficking ring he was getting women by preying on vulnerable girls, making them promises, trapping them through financial abuse or worse, etc. he wasn't a "playboy" that got women because they freely were attracted to him and wanted to be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:10 PM
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if he were extremely contrite and suggested a handful of things he was going to do differently to ensure he would never make that mistake again. any backsliding and he'd be gone. op is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:09 PM
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correct choice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:08 PM
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Define "date irrationally" you're using a lot of abuser logic. men shouldn't settle for unfair, unhealthy relationships like the one you are describing. the woman in this situation is at least borderline abusive. "we have helped them make their dreams come true and lived happily ever after." gotta be psychosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:05 PM
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so they are or are not concerned about their safety?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:03 PM
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you haven't shared any.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:37 PM
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flair says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:04 PM
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so you have no data. you're just making guesses based on your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:04 PM
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Based on what data?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:29 PM
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The don’t have to “detect” them. They test. That’s what flirting/dating is. If someone can’t easily be controlled/manipulated they move on to easier prey.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:26 PM
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Red pillers are inherently conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:25 PM
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The starting point has nothing to do w rate of change.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:25 PM
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My rapists were white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:15 PM
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The older women will tell young women these men are just preying on them. Men say they’re just jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:15 PM
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So the bandwagon women aren’t concerned about their safety?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:14 PM
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I’d be more validated by finding a mutual partner than some yokel I can manipulate. Y’all are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:07 PM
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At the same rate everyone gets more conservative w age or is this special to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:06 PM
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Yeah bc immigrating to the us is a great idea right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:04 PM
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That’s extremely unattractive. I’d lose self-respect for myself and attraction to the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:04 PM
1

How? Trad wife culture is on trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:02 PM
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I would be unhappy if I had “the advantage” over my partner I’d feel like I was forcing his hand. I want a mutual partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:00 PM
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I don’t think red pill men are likely to attract abusive women. Toxic and mentally ill? Sure. But abusers seek out someone they can manipulate and control, not another abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:59 PM
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Red pill doesn’t value healthy relationships. They value running through women and getting a woman to be your bangmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:58 PM
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Lena Dunham got cancelled over that idk what you’re talking about. If anyone liked amy Schumer she would have gotten cancelled too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:45 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:55 PM
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Why would I
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:55 PM
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You’re making up lies. I guess that’s what maga does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:54 PM
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His ex wrote it in her book.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:49 PM
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Didn’t say they were. Reread the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:48 PM
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If they wanted to they would
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:48 PM
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I thought aggression was why the pay gap exists/doesn’t need to be fixed? Women just need to negotiate as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:54 PM
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How are they held accountable now? We have a wfe beater president.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:53 PM
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I’m going to spend my finite resources on those who reciprocate. Good luck tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:52 PM
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ok? i'm not arguing you should care. i am pointing out what is happening to people like this and why people value relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:33 PM
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yeah def not owed this is about forming relationships where people will do these things for you. because you do similar things for them/have a relationship where you care about each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:15 PM
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from what i remember, being happy/pleasant to be around ("perma pollyana"), cooking "engagement chicken", endless beauty tips, endless sex tips
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:15 PM
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do you think babies inherently deserve to be looked after?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:13 PM
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and they shouldn't. no one should. it is not healthy. the age-related aspect is that these things increase as you age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:13 PM
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everyone can get so sick they need help from others. -- i needed someone to bring me gatorade during a sudden terrible stomach flu (in my area you can uber eats this, but not everyone can). it sounds so simple but i literally couldn't do anything. just looking at my phone was difficult. -- i needed someone to wait 2 hours in the doctors office for me to get an outpatient procedure and then drive me home, make sure i got situated bc i was high on drugs. you cannot get an uber home from an appoint…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:09 PM
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i've been reading about how to improve my chances of men being attracted to me since i was a pre-teen so i'm not sure what you think this has to do with women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:56 PM
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no i think unconditional love doesn't exist, but you can aspire to it as a parent for your child. thats really the only time I think. i wouldn't want to be loved unconditionally either. its creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:55 PM
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> I agree technically, how would you call being valued for something you were born with and did not work for? conditional love based on genetic luck
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:35 PM
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wasn't "women and children first" a myth? like the phrase was created bc men would trample women and children on their way out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:35 PM
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seems like they dont care about their own well-being either so fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:13 PM
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i mean are women even valued for that? we recently passed laws in the us that raised the maternal and infant mortality. if women (or babies) were valued so much, the laws would have immediately been ammended when people started dying. It's now years later and nothing has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:03 PM
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its not unconditional love to be valued for being a birth machine tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:02 PM
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i dont think they value it enough to try. I dont think loving someone is so difficult that they couldn't figure it out if they were so inclined. honestly idk what the narrative is among lonely older (40+) men who are getting to the part of life where you need support from others (like, if you get sick, for instance) and really see how you'd benefit from all kinds (not just romantic) or deep relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:01 PM
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what specifically do you think constitutes "chad treatment" and "stacy treatment" ? i agree there should be a baseline of respectful, loving treatment towards the people you date or else no one should fuck with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:06 PM
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I was saying they are equally bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:01 PM
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Not sure how you got that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 08:24 PM
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This is the same argument leftists use to argue against the nuclear family. Why does every family on a block need their own lawn mower?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:29 PM
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Same men wonder why they don’t get matches
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:24 AM
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I do know what it is. It’s getting close to cumming and not cumming. What I don’t know is how thats supposed to be my business. “I have no idea what that means” refers to whether that’s a yes or a no to my question,
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:16 PM
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Blindly googling “edging” is what I’m unwilling to do. I can’t control what will pop up. Reddit is moderated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:15 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:50 PM
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Men complaining about paying child support did that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:06 PM
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I don’t get how
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:32 PM
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Oh well then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:19 PM
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It’s phone sex babe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:19 PM
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Then don’t do it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:49 PM
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I’m not doing research for a casual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:48 PM
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That’s what I assumed and I opened my phone today to a bunch of videos of him jerking off yesterday so I guessed wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:47 PM
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I’m talking about your weird photoshop
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:47 PM
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Condomed sex is still risky. I think it’s crazy yall are comfy w those risks. For a few minutes of fun w a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:46 PM
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🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:45 PM
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Strong and healthy relationships take willingness and effort from two people. If your partner thinks you’re just being too sensitive and nothing needs to change, there’s not really anything you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:43 PM
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I have phone sex w this guy I’ve known for years sometimes. We haven’t even seen each other in real life for years. It’s casual. But for me casual still means I’m respectful and try not to hurt feelings/be rude. He always talks about edging like I’m supposed to know what that means. “Do you want to get off with me today?” “Maybe, I’m edging” I have no idea what that means, he won’t be more specific, and that’s a term I am absolutely not googling. I don’t watch or like porn. I don’t want to “do r…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:41 PM
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It’s inherently risky so idk why we’re acting like it’s aspirational. You can get lifelong disease or be coparenting w a dramatic random for the next 18 years. For what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:56 PM
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I mean I’m happy they ban that too 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:54 PM
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“And got away with it” As opposed to what? What’s the other option? The 1% of rapists that go to jail? And that’s reported rapes. The guy didn’t report (like the vast majority of rape victims). What do yall think happens to rapists? Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:53 PM
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Yall made that pretty obvious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:51 PM
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2% of your taxes go to lifelong disability payments for vets. Do you think those should end?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:04 PM
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So if I believe I should help me neighbor I also have to suck his dick??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 04:05 AM
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Maybe incel, but asshole and loser aren’t slurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:58 PM
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I mean I’m still gonna stay single if I’m not attracted to my looks match or if my looks match can’t be a wholesome person with his shit together (I’m 40 so not in my 20s where most people are struggling). I’m not attracted to most men (until I get to know them) so I don’t see how this would be the gotcha moment you think it’s gonna be. I’m not attracted to plenty of men who I already know are more attractive than me. But put me in a class or social group w 20 below average men and I’ll find one…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:19 PM
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If you’re already complaining about men and apps why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:14 PM
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I think it’s kinda weird there isn’t more crossover. I’m even weirded out I personally have never been in one. It seems like the kind of thing I’d find helpful or at least interesting. Like, I look up the criminal records of men before I go out w them even. But idk. Facebook is a maga cesspool and I don’t trust the moral compass of the women I see being involved in them. I want a guy who reads and doesn’t cheat. Baby drama, etc is so far over the line for me it’s not even fun to read about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:14 PM
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I mean good for you guys if women are saying that? Those are the conservative women yall wanna date. I do get a lil MAGA flavor from these groups, which is kinda why I’ve never joined. I don’t think the women I’ve seen post have the same taste or moral compass as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:10 PM
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Referring to women as bitches will do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:06 PM
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If you say “I went on a date w an asshole who did/said x” your comments will be full of “well you should have chosen better”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:21 PM
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Great. That seems incredibly helpful for news purposes too. We had something like that in my state but then Elon sued us bc he wants fake news to continue to trick people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:30 PM
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Idgaf about having a man at my level if I have to be financially dependent on someone else. Obviously that is not a trustworthy system for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:29 PM
1

Why would society not exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:02 PM
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So legalize abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:02 PM
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Idk what you’re talking about. I’m talking about how attracted I am to them. You’re talking about attraction like it’s static and universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:45 PM
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Same 😟
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:44 PM
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As soon as I find out they don’t like me a switch flicks and I lose attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:44 PM
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But either way if she says “I went on a date w an asshole” the response will be “choose better”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:44 PM
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So what you mean is good for MEN. Not good for society. Women are half of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:41 PM
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What has the government regulated to improve women’s mental health?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:37 PM
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When?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:33 PM
1

Ex wife out of the picture is bad. Then they are there 24/7. I’d much rather share.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:32 PM
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Why would you desire someone who doesn’t desire you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:28 PM
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Half of Americans can’t read so that’s something to consider
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:17 AM
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Read a memoir if you don’t understand that’s what I did instead of sitting around saying “I dont understand” my whole life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:16 AM
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“If you meet in person” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:15 AM
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Nope. Most people are in denial that they are being abused. It only becomes clear in hindsight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:31 AM
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By the time you meet friends you have been dating for awhile… you walked into the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:31 AM
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Yes. So after several dates. That’s what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:09 AM
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And you’ll still say she should have chosen better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:08 AM
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If you go on a date or a couple dates and a guy is an aashole. Then it still happened. They will say “I was on a date with an asshole” and you tell her she could have chosen better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:24 PM
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So just like men assigning women numbers 1-10
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:31 PM
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I’ve never heard that from my doc and I’ve taken cold turkey breaks when it’s been hard to find (gotta love American healthcare) without noticing anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:46 AM
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It doesn’t matter if you have adhd or not if you don’t have a doc monitoring you… that’s why I said you are conflating things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:08 AM
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What does having adhd have to do w it? I think you’re conflating people abusing adderall w prescription adderall use. Yeah using any med without a doc is risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:42 AM
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Why is testosterone safer than adderall?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:49 PM
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No it’s not okay. But you can leave someone over their poor mental health. So that pressure will exist 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:49 PM
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And men are welcome to think that’s not wholesome and not date women. You’re arguing against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:47 PM
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So? It’s bad enough to desire it. Being too unappealing to actually get it isn’t a flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:36 PM
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Evolved past long term relationships. So you agree w op there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:35 PM
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So explain why the don’t represent most men. Cause I would guess they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:34 PM
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Teen dramas on the cw (female gaze) have had emo guys doing this for 25 years. I believe Seth cohen, the inventor of the emo guy, was on a cw teen drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:24 AM
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Can you just answer the question? I’m curious too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:23 AM
2

So you don’t believe in joint physical custody?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:01 AM
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That’s a shame I think one week on one week off should be the automatic custody arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:40 PM
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Breastfeeding takes 8 hours a day when you start whether you pump or feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:36 PM
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🤷‍♀️ my nightmare is being alone w a baby
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:36 PM
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I think diet and exercise is something SOME people can’t get under control until other issues are fixed. For me those things take work, sure, but it’s more like a barometer of how my other stuff is doing than something I do on purpose if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:54 PM
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This is how you end up paying allimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:53 PM
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That’s a good idea!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:52 PM
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I’ve gotten banned for blocking someone who made fun of my rape. Apparently it’s hard to read the thread or something. Which isn’t a big deal people should be able to block who they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:51 PM
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They want a trad wife who also works full time 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:50 PM
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No they aren’t. Men get custody more than women when they ask for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:48 PM
3

By what metrics is a nuclear family better than living w the grandparents?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:48 PM
23

Men have literally made this argument to me. “They won’t die so”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:47 PM
28

Says no one who has ever been alone w a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:47 PM
5

Except it’s easy to do this w my female and (gay) male friends. I have no issue finding people I can have balanced relationships like this w. Just straight men. If you’re saying straight men can’t do it then the conversation is more, what kind of partnerships can straight men and women really have?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:46 PM
8

No idea. They’re free to be shitty people. They just can’t claim to be better than other shitty people without being liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:43 PM
10

The unchosen men claim to be a better choice than the chosen men. So they should act better or they’re liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:28 PM
2

That’s my point. The clutch their pearls about a very specific kind of life. They don’t have a baseline reverence for life that justifies infringing on someone else’s autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:13 PM
1

I can’t control what you assume my feelings are. I can only argue about my stated claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:26 AM
1

I can’t do everything myself. The things I believe are the most important and uniquely on me to do, are what I put effort into.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:30 AM
1

I’m a voter. If I’m a political organizer I expect to be paid for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:00 AM
1

I’m not creating a political coalition.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:29 AM
3

But murder laws don’t cause the number of murders to increase. Unlike pro life laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:13 AM
3

And yet women still die bc of pro life laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:04 PM
6

If that were true those same people would be just as upset about other murders, like Gaza.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:03 PM
2

The abortion ban is “used against men” Yes men are the real victims of abortion bans. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:19 PM
2

There’s more work in life than parenting and paid jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:52 PM
1

Yeah that would have been very dif :/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:17 PM
2

No one is asking for that. You’re making up a straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:07 PM
1

So it’s good when women dox rapists. Since it’s retaliation against someone who is actually bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:09 AM
2

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:08 AM
8

So when it’s easier and requires significantly less time and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:07 AM
29

Never had a man fix an electronic wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:03 AM
24

Absolutely. I was in my diary in elementary school saying I wouldn’t be a mom if I had to be like the women in my family working all day then coming home to have to serve food to men who did nothing to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:03 AM
18

This is why women don’t like financially 50/50 men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:00 AM
3

They could be single and sleeping around
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:12 PM
2

So then it’s also fine when women dox men, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:05 PM
2

So then it’s also fine when women dox men, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:05 PM
3

Boyfriends are already committed tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:05 PM
2

“Those men” I’m talking about serious boyfriends not randoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:12 PM
3

So you understand how women are accumulating body counts then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:11 PM
0

So you have a gendered double standard. That’s sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:11 PM
-1

Okay you do or don’t believing doxing is: 1) accountability 2) good ?? Or is this just a “women bad” post?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:35 AM
3

So how young were you the first time you offered marriage to a girl? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:34 AM
5

Exactly most women I know (and granted I went to religious school so more on the conservative side) wanted to get married in their early 20s. Men didn’t want commitment. They’d rather wait until women had more sex partners in 10 years I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:33 AM
0

Then it should have been easy to explain what I was getting wrong instead of changing the subject to how you don’t wanna answer questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 08:02 PM
4

Are men no longer being taught basic morality like lying is wrong? I’m a millennial and I have had guy friends who pride themselves on their word meaning something. I guess gen z is dif?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:59 PM
3

You’re saying doxing = accountability? Interesting. So men should also be doxed as a means of accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:57 PM
1

I asked two clarifying questions already.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:56 PM
0

Okay I misunderstood. You’re saying human males as a whole aren’t leaders. They need to be led by women. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:33 PM
0

So rapists are leaders?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:23 PM
1

So men aren’t leaders?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:32 PM
4

What percent of Tea posts were revenge porn for you to say it was “exposed as a revenge porn app”? Like I think every instance should be investigated and lead to charges, but which other apps do you characterize as “revenge porn apps” bc they’ve been used to disseminate it? Be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:55 PM
9

Lmfao how did you fall for the dumbest shit? Abortions past birth? Bro that’s homicide and it’s always been illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:41 PM
4

You’d have to explain why, not just make a claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:40 PM
5

Then why do republicans have to lie about it on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:39 PM
2

I prefer someone with a busy job. I don’t want kids and I’d love to have a partner but I like to have lots of my own time. Plus medical workers are so smart and I find it fascinating to hear about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:48 AM
0

Most assaults are someone you already know and trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:09 PM
0

So you see how useless this advice is. ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 03:03 PM
3

Most sex doesn’t feel intimate/make me cum If it did yeah I’d feel the same as you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:54 PM
1

What do you think “prude” means?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:53 PM
2

The orgasm gap
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:52 PM
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Source that this has changed? Or did you base it on your feelings instead of facts? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:05 AM
3

How is that dying off?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:04 AM
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And yet they don’t. Most marry women in their own class.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:05 PM
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Bro half of Americans can’t read. This is what most people are like. Gotta remember that if you’re educated you’re very far away cognitively from the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:04 PM
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It moreso proves the opposite as so many men posted are ugly and poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:02 PM
2

You’re describing the difference between passing emotions and rational decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:16 PM
3

Tf do you mean dystopian? That sounds beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:15 PM
0

Well you made a straw man of what feminists say so of course those things are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:18 PM
1

So agree that gender roles shouldn’t be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:20 PM
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So how are they lying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:16 PM
1

So you’re hiding your identity from women you sleep with?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:29 PM
4

Follow all the advice you give to women about avoiding rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:17 PM
6

You’re saying ghosting someone after sex is acceptable? As a reminder ghosting isn’t just mutually petering out. Ghosting is when someone is talking to you and you just ignore them. Kinda sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:06 PM
1

So the women you have sex with can’t actually consent bc you are lying about what they are consenting to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:34 PM
1

How is that doxing? If you’re dating in real life they already know your identity. That’s what I dont understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:33 PM
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So then you agree women aren’t all going for chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:27 PM
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How do you think that is mutually exclusive w what they said?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:27 PM
1

What does being doxed mean in a dating context? Sorry I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 10:56 PM
1

That makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:05 PM
2

What does being “doxed” mean in the context of dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:54 PM
1

Does it feel shady to you still? Or is it completely stigma-free in your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:53 PM
1

I mean would you keep dating him? I wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:53 PM
1

What people do you need safety from that you need to lie to dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:52 PM
2

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:51 PM
1

Dealbreaker. It happened once and it felt so shady and creepy. Blocked. Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:51 PM
1

Is that not already the case? Yes I am already insecure that men don’t have to choose me and could choose someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:49 PM
2

Yeah. Women are socialized to follow rules, cooperate w others, be good girls Men are socialized to break rules and go after the top prize. Obviously one group will care more about being moral than the others. This is an issue w gendered socialization not biological difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:43 PM
2

🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:38 PM
1

That’s impossible unless you buy a surrogate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:35 PM
2

They shouldn’t feel ashamed for being vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:33 PM
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🤷‍♀️ make a better system then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:32 PM
2

So then those men aren’t marriage material whether they offer it or not…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:17 PM
2

Because men and women value different things. Most men don’t even value becoming an emotionally mature, healthy partner. They value other things and may simultaneously struggle to find women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:16 PM
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Makes no sense to say a man is emotionally what women want and doesn’t want marriage. Those things are mutually exclusive. Totally fine for men to not want marriage, but then they become unattractive to me. So it’s not like those are the men I’m pining after. I pine after men who could give me a healthy partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:15 PM
8

Most impressive male comment of the month 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:57 PM
2

okay but in a divorce what other option is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:42 PM
5

thanks for saying this, the leagues stuff gets repeated so often and so vehemently its hard to remember that there are still some healthy people who don't assign everyone numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:41 PM
0

its hard to fight for men's lives to be better when most of the people you are fighting are men and then they turn around and act like their issues are ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:40 PM
1

in the us men get custody more often than women when they ask for it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:39 PM
3

what do you mean by "losing custody" like you get divorced so you dont see them every day anymore bc you have shared custody? or would you only consider it "losing custody" if you literally had no custody at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:39 PM
4

men get custody more than women when they ask for it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:38 PM
1

So the laws benefit rapists more than victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:12 PM
0

Why? We don’t have a better court. If we had one, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:52 PM
1

How is it false accusations? She explained exactly what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:19 PM
1

An a list celeb is disease ridden and prob mentally ill
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:16 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:10 PM
1

I’m not doing all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:10 PM
1

So in the uk 99.9% of rape victims are forced to keep their rapists identity a secret?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:09 PM
1

Amy Schumer is a rapist. Not sure why you think I’d defend her just bc she’s a woman. I guess that’s another difference between the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:04 PM
0

Sounds like we need a better court then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:04 PM
0

I have social skills so I’m not worried about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:03 PM
0

I’m glad you see the connection between misogyny and csa material.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:01 PM
0

Then don’t agree to vague ideas. Talk it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:44 PM
5

I want someone to lead our country. I don’t want to blindly follow whatever that person says. What kind of leader would want blind followers? 😬🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:42 PM
2

Then he should have made sure his partner was cool with what was happening,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:47 PM
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None of my exes have anything bad to say about me since I treat people well. An app like this would benefit me as a good woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:46 PM
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How? That would benefit me as a good woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:45 PM
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Mark Zuckerberg made that and he became a billionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:45 PM
2

I mean only going up to 170 is kinda crazy. That’s why there’s not even an “overweight” category for the taller girls. But yeah totally fair enough. I always swipe left on the fit comments but then some guys are like I just want someone to eat healthy w me and I’m like maybe I’m doing too much bc I do want a partner that eats healthy w me but yeah. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:56 PM
2

Interesting. I would say that’s regular fit ish. For some reason I was thinking “reasonably fit” ventured into overweight. Just curious tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:40 PM
2

So if her bmi is 35 but she’s on Ozempic and loves making healthy food, that’s “reasonably fit” to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:38 PM
1

No im suggesting we literally pay them to punish bad people. Ostensibly they do their job some of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:30 PM
1

Sure but you can’t convey what that is to others?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:27 PM
3

Isn’t that what parents and cops are for?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:51 PM
2

Neutral already exists so I’m not talking about that. Aspires to be moral, tries to do the right thing, values moral things (telling the truth, helping others, generosity, community, nurturing, being a good steward of the earth). How are they oriented and how do they reflect on their choices? Most bad people are so bad at pretending to be moral if you ask them their values (and to be specific) they won’t even think to say these things. They’ll say like “everyone contributes equally, privacy, not…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:49 PM
2

What bmi is reasonably fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:30 PM
1

To some people. I’m not dating him if I don’t think he’s a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:30 PM
2

Immoral people do better at anything in life. Bc they are okay cheating. That’s like being stumped that bank robbers can get rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:29 PM
1

The women who go for explicitly (not hiding it) toxic men are also toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:28 PM
1

Yeah posting people’s locations would be fuckin weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:00 PM
2

What country can you not mention a guys name on social media without his consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:41 PM
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No they don’t. I could share an image, a screenshot of a text, a name, etc of a guy right now without his consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:36 PM
1

That’s what I’m saying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:18 PM
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If he doesn’t like what I bring he’s free to not talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:18 PM
1

I have no control over what a man values me for. That’s his responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:17 PM
-5

So just like social media. That’s the individuals responsibility not the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:16 PM
3

Why would anyone want to keep their partner from leaving? That makes no sense. If you want to leave you immediately become value-less to me and I’ll help you pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:48 PM
6

That entirely depends on what the other person values, not what you bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:47 PM
2

I’d rather not date than have to go through all this. I’m sure many use it to earnestly warn others, and some use it for revenge. I guess it’s better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:47 PM
-5

What would be illegal about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:46 PM
4

Ozempic for heterosexuality would SELL.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:45 PM
2

You’re mad men have to pay for their own children?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:29 PM
2

If that were true Chad wouldn’t have to lie in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:27 PM
2

I agree it’s not easy to spot abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:26 PM
8

If it’s so easy to spot red flags in men why can’t men agree on a list of dealbreakers thorough enough to vet out ~90% of bad men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:37 PM
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With no evidence 😂 it’s just based on his feelings and fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:00 PM
2

Because accomplished women never complain about men 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:33 PM
0

I can’t argue against vague claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:27 PM
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Validity for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:01 PM
6

I’d be fuckin shocked if most men even thought of it as a “main girl”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:00 PM
5

Nope. A situationship = undefined relationship. Just because you haven’t said “I’m monogamous” doesn’t mean you aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:48 PM
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I mean the pay gap already exists and the government doesn’t do that so I guess you’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:46 PM
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Marital rape was legal and most women had no money to leave their husband if he beat/raped her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:45 PM
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Not sure, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:45 PM
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Crazy that men are so concerned w making women uncomfortable by approaching them/getting rejected if this is true. Also if a man ever says “happy wife happy life” to me we’re breaking up immediately. Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:33 PM
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Whereas when men were in charge it was only an unmitigated disaster for women. I see how you’d prefer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:30 PM
1

Most men don’t even do 1.5
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:28 PM
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So get mad at Chad for lying/obscuring to women that he is pursuing other women. Some women don’t care, but most do and would choose being celibate over sleeping w a man who is actively pursuing other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:27 PM
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Ok. So do you not realize men are more dangerous or are you playing dumb to troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:42 PM
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Better than dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:14 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:13 PM
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What law are you referring to? Quote or link it pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:13 PM
2

This is a no true Scotsman fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:25 PM
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The reverse is true tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:49 AM
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I find it p easy personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:48 AM
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I mean men could literally just be moral but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:37 AM
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Our president says he grabs women by the pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:35 AM
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I thought men were leaders?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:34 AM
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A home is automatically more deadly when a man lives there
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:28 AM
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So how did misogyny exist before feminism then…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:28 AM
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I’m not in control of men’s personal emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:13 PM
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So women shouldn’t have sex w men at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:32 PM
2

You literally asked me for examples and now you’re mad I gave them to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:40 PM
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https://nypost.com/article/inside-americas-men-only-golf-clubs/ Ny tennis and racquet club: https://courts.club/the-glided-age-clubs-of-new-york/ https://beafreemason.org/masonic-life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:18 PM
1

Men do have exclusive places.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:02 PM
0

Is monogamy promised in this friendship?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:01 PM
1

So we can’t do anything unless it’s perfect Victims suffer bc… you need to feel everything is perfect?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:55 PM
1

Can you explain what you mean by friendship? Bc obviously men and women have very different friendships w each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:47 PM
4

What else do men want us for other than looks? I was unaware it was deeper than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:40 PM
-5

Not sure why you jumped into our convo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:05 PM
2

What nagging?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:34 PM
1

If you can’t keep women safe it’s literally not a “shelter”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:08 PM
5

What feelings should a man not validate in his loved ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:07 PM
3

Loneliness epidemic explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:01 PM
10

I’m going to suggest the issue is your social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:13 AM
6

“Those type”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:49 AM
16

Sounds like you bring it up to troll women and then play victim when they call you out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:48 AM
8

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:12 AM
9

I mean how would they know your dating preference? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:12 AM
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No. Children are a common good. Not a hobby. Don’t date a single mom if you don’t want to. But if you announce your preferences to troll women, you are a gross person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:11 AM
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Prob the women you look at post thirst traps for men… that’s kinda the point. Normal women prob post stuff for themselves/friends and sometimes hope it makes an ex regret losing them or a new crush give them a like. But they absolutely aren’t throwing bait out hoping that random men dm them. (Again not that these women don’t exist, that it isn’t most women). When a guy I don’t know follows me I just preemptively block him. I don’t want weird messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:52 PM
2

“Recent body weight control enthusiast”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:36 PM
1

Most men can’t get that tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:35 PM
2

As opposed to what? Yeah if there’s a better option let’s do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:31 PM
2

Yes bc we need money to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:30 PM
2

Yeah capitalism is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:01 PM
4

Do men need as much sleep as women? That’s not what I’ve read. Also If you’re American I have some bad news about what the big beautiful bill is gonna do to healthcare wait times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:58 PM
2

Zoom out Suffering is inevitable But you can react to that in healthy or unhealthy ways. Or you can think about it like “what helps me be effective towards my goals? Suffering exists but there are more and less effective ways to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:57 PM
1

I’m not interested in men who wanna date everyone/anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:41 PM
9

Bro you’re describing the plot of Mean Girls That’s literally what drama is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:29 PM
1

Men say “vet better” to women who are mistreated, not just women who have compatibility issues
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:11 PM
1

If bad men are rare and most men are good, why is betting so important? It’s almost as if this argument rests on a large percentage of men being nefarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:39 PM
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They’ll admit it’s generally true but still assume the women they sleep with are desperate for THEIR commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:35 PM
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I thought the haters would approve of them deciding to… share less 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:04 PM
-3

Misogynists are just giving excuses for their misogyny bc they don’t want to take accountability. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:52 PM
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That doesn’t explain the difference between sex and gender tho? You explained the difference between masculine and male.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:12 PM
1

How do you see them meaning different things then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 05:25 PM
3

And yet he still had to rape. Guess he was lying as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:50 PM
2

What
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:49 PM
1

Why would we need two words to mean the exact same thing? There’s no issue w sex meaning biology and gender meaning social performance. Every conservative thing anyone wants to say about trans people can still be said with sex = biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:49 PM
2

You’re claiming Trump hasn’t enforced no DEI?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:17 PM
0

You’re making up a lot of stuff to get mad at. No one says every child has an infallible sense of their gender. It’s just that sex is biological reality and gender is how you think about and perform sex socially. Seems obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:13 PM
0

The control would be trans people who received no care. Not non-trans people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:10 PM
1

Biological reality and social performance are obviously two different things. I don’t think anyone disagrees that both things exist. So it makes sense to have two words to describe two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:09 PM
1

America already got rid of DEI so you can stop using it as an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:07 PM
2

DEI has already been scrapped… Expecting men to start thriving again any minute. No excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:06 PM
6

I’m so happy more women are thinking reasonably about the financial costs of pregnancy and motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:05 PM
2

If this were true men would not need to lie or obfuscate that they are pursuing other women. Sure some don’t and some women are fine w it, but generally a woman will leave you if you are honest about pursuing other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 01:59 PM
1

Men. The ones who are supposedly unavailable due to monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:03 PM
2

Is he not single?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:17 PM
2

Rape
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:17 PM
2

They value love less than survival
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:17 PM
1

For how long?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:16 PM
2

So we’re responsible for men’s actions but we don’t get any of the power or money that leaders get.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:16 PM
1

That’s supply and demand. It’s acknowledging reality not making an argument for how you think things should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:56 PM
1

So women are the leaders of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:55 PM
3

I’d rather pay for someone else’s than have my own. I’m not doing the Charlie work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:54 PM
0

Sperm banks exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:52 PM
5

Lmfao I wish my biggest complaint was not getting commitment 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:10 AM
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No man is so ugly he can’t find a sex worker
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:31 AM
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I googled it and thought the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:30 AM
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Right like if it’s just his face they’d just do it doggy style.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:29 AM
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“Sex workers won’t take my money” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:28 AM
1

I imagine the former guy wants someone who wants to go to car shows w him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:36 AM
1

So then you aren’t looking to date someone who finds it cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:33 PM
3

Ok. What percent of men do you believe own a car that appreciates in value?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:31 PM
10

You think only Chad doesn’t commit? Bffr
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:30 PM
12

The 20 other guys thing isn’t gonna change if you sleep w her tho? I don’t get how that relates. If it’s about “getting her” sex doesn’t do that. If it’s just about getting sex, why care about the 20 other guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:30 PM
10

I think every woman has tried this. Maybe not Stacey. Ugly men didn’t treat me any better or even differently than average or hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:27 PM
1

So sub 1% of men. You grasp my point then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:36 PM
-1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:03 PM
4

Tom cruise hasn’t been attractive to women in decades Great filmmaker tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:01 PM
8

I think the women who hate fish pics don’t want a guy who lives that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:01 PM
1

A car isn’t an investment. It does not appreciate in value.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:57 PM
1

I didn’t say all versions of masculinity were equally effective in attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:33 PM
1

I wouldn’t guess that would be an issue for men? I thought they didn’t care if a woman was poor. Not trolling, genuinely find that surprising fwiw.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:47 PM
0

I don’t think that’s their goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:46 PM
1

If she’s also vetting for personality that’s all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:45 PM
3

There’s sex jokes in Disney movies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:30 PM
1

I can’t imagine you have trouble finding a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:10 PM
1

The assumption I’m referring to is that women select based on superficial reasons and dont also vet for whether he is a good person. And that men not selected for superficial reasons would pass the good person vetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:09 PM
2

Now I thought men were logical
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:08 PM
0

If you don’t care you don’t care. I think understanding things is cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:11 PM
1

And the fact that some are so big you literally can’t see children around you!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:42 PM
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A lot of assumptions you’re comfy making
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:40 PM
1

Yeah I def live in a place where it’s cringe to be flashy. If you live in Miami ignore me. Women are different there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:37 PM
2

Nothing cringier than a car pic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:36 PM
1

You can believe a small dick isn’t the end of the world, not prefer xl dicks, and still acknowledge men overcompensate due to their own shame/social stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:35 PM
1

They all have loans on them too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:34 PM
1

Not a cool interest
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:34 PM
6

Pavement princesses lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:34 PM
2

Do you fight off men w a stick? Lmao Every single guy seems to want to go to car shows and have you sit on the back of his motorcycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:33 PM
1

Nothing cringier than posting pics of a car
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:32 PM
6

A man driving a paid off car is sexy. Except still not giant trucks or luxury cars lol. I like nice things too, cars are just cringe tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:30 PM
1

Ok “get status” is the first real answer I’ve gotten. That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 01:17 PM
8

We live under capitalism. We have chosen as a society to live under a system where duty doesn’t exist. It’s seen as emotional and inferior to making money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 01:13 PM
1

A man and a woman casually sleep together. It is neutral, no one says or does anything that would hurt or antagonize the other person. But then they slut shame her, talking down about/to her after the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:04 AM
1

What? We are talking about women in general, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:00 AM
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Some, some wouldn’t care. Women sexually harass and assault too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:09 AM
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Guess I am an extreme outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:08 AM
4

You know you can use your fingers and do penetration while giving oral right? Not being adversarial I don’t disagree w what you say. Just suggesting a good compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:08 AM
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There’s no such thing as true masculinity it’s just a social construct. It changes from time to time and place to place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:32 AM
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Masculinity is whatever a culture agrees masculinity is, it has no ontological meaning. It’s a social construct. Insofar as masculine = men and whatever men do = masculine. Masculine is whatever each individual man does, you can’t be more or less masculine just like you can’t be more or less male.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:30 AM
2

Which one says men do it every time they have sex 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 01:05 AM
1

Nothing is “always healthy” so that’s meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:46 AM
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If they wanted to do stuff w your body they’d already be doing this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:41 AM
3

“First” You think men are eating women out AFTER sex? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:33 PM
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Good! And I hope women appreciate it cause it’s very rare!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:31 PM
1

Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:30 PM
0

👑
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:28 PM
1

Okay and what about that makes men want to hurt her…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:23 PM
2

Yes I’m talking about a situation in which the woman did nothing or else obviously I wouldn’t be puzzled by the men also hurting them back…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:23 PM
3

I think that’s delusional. Ugly men aren’t more moral. In fact you often see them fantasizing about being chad and having the opportunity to mistreat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:22 PM
3

Kinda paints men as sociopaths?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:18 PM
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If this is true why don’t men do down on women every time they have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:16 PM
1

So the problem is just you want it more often? Or what does variable mean in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:16 PM
2

You’d think! I’m def aware of this trope. Maybe it’s bc my fam is conservative evangelicals but I was taught it’s mean to be suspicious and you should trust/be inviting to others. Plus I was simultaneously that that pleasing men and getting a husband is the #1 milestone I should aim for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:33 PM
2

Do you think most men aspire to be moral?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:28 PM
2

I’m specifically talking about men who treat women they’ve slept w worse than a stranger off the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:28 PM
4

Whatever you want to call it. Why do some men treat women they’ve slept with worse than they’d treat a stranger off the street? Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:27 PM
1

Aren’t they both ugly? I haven’t seen them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:26 PM
0

An individual doesn’t pose a threat to the ruling class. That’s why firing or harming individuals doesn’t result in a class war. You can’t be serious w this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:24 PM
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So you’re saying having a sex drive makes you want to treat your partners bad? Or do you not understand what I’m saying? My sex drive is part of why I like treating my lovers well…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:44 PM
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No lol. Plenty of people (men and women, but more men) simp for the ruling class to their own detriment. Ruling class would have no power if this wasn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:43 PM
3

What do you get in life without rejection and failure? I’ve literally never tried something and found lifetime success on the first try.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:42 PM
3

It’s dumb to think exceptions don’t exist. But already said it’s rare and most men won’t meet a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:41 PM
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Schadenfreude. Because it makes them feel good to put others down. They have a false sense of a scarcity of resources (insecurity) so to dominate the competition they put others down. They’re scared, dumb and bad. But also my point was about being hurtful towards someone you slept with. A 1:1 relationship not shaming a vague group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:39 PM
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They don’t have to do it for that reason. It’s still true. And I can’t think of any reason for having sex that would cause you to treat the person you had sex w bad unless they did something bad. Generally you treat people neutrally unless you have a reason not to. So why treat a sex partner worse than a stranger off the street? Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:38 PM
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I agree it’s a larger % of men, I don’t agree that the amount of “too ugly” women is minuscule. I’d guess 5% for women and 15% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:29 PM
1

Aka a third (at least) category
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:26 PM
5

🎯 Suddenly they see the value in social safety nets and grasp the concept of privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:25 PM
2

So they were npc followers. Yeah I can see how that set a poor example for their grandkids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:24 PM
3

I just said there’s a hot prince in the little mermaid but not only does he not save Ariel, the cost of pursuing him seemed not worth it. Are there ugly women in Disney who get the hot prince?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:24 PM
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Why do men slut shame then? Never made sense to me. You enjoy an intimate moment w someone, a beautiful human experience that we’ve been doing since the dawn of time. A rare moment of connection in a lonely, dystopian world. And afterwords you… mock her?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:18 PM
3

What did they have to go through that’s so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:15 PM
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Capitalism eroded the belief that other humans are important and we need each other/should work together for the common good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:14 PM
3

The only Disney movies I remember watching are the lion king (romance is there but kinda irrelevant?) and the little mermaid (hot prince but he doesn’t save her and it’s actually kinda a mistake for Ariel to care about him in the first place bc of what it costs her)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:13 PM
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Yup. It’s a scam that serves the wealthy ruling class. Not that love doesn’t exist or that relationships can’t be good, healthy, wholesome just that the image of hetero relationships/marriage is as fake as a burger in a fast food ad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:12 PM
1

Whatever will they do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:10 PM
3

And the craziest part is men will get so mad if you say “good men are rare” but then insist trolling is normal for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:10 PM
3

Omg exactly! Growing up I was told men are just like women! Oh my god was that wrong. It led me to be extremely naive and get taken advantage of bc I assumed good intentions 🤦🏻‍♀️ Since I would never want to hurt someone I thought the same was true of the men I met like a fucking idiot 🤡 Yes women also hurt and take advantage of men, but 1) I’m talking about my experience and I haven’t experienced that 2) gendered socialization means that men and women don’t have the same values, so obviously th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:07 PM
3

Why are male figures not around…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:06 PM
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I’m ok w being approached at a club/social gathering even if they aren’t attractive, I’ll be polite I’m never ok being approached on the street even if he’s attractive, it’s scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:06 PM
3

Why didn’t grandpa’s set them straight
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:05 PM
1

Except models aren’t the most attractive people… Most people would prefer someone slightly less underweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:04 PM
3

Never heard of body hair being a fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:03 PM
1

“Myth of a unicorn” Just bc you don’t find a unicorn doesn’t mean they don’t exist. Exceptions to every rule exist. That’s life. If you’re saying it’s bad advice to think you’ll get a unicorn, I agree w you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:03 PM
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Women didn’t set that system up And men are fine w winner take all approaches in other areas of life (capitalism) so it doesn’t make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:01 PM
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It’s not as if men are benevolent and value fairness. Men love hierarchies like capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:59 PM
1

Bc cultural values inhibit profit. Every capitalist society will eventually become what we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:09 PM
1

Bro what? Feminists can’t breastfeed?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:04 PM
3

Does that mean the man is gestating for 9 months? Does he go back to work and pump?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:49 PM
2

Put your thinking cap on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:42 PM
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Guess they don’t value women then. So then I’m not gonna feel sorry for them that they don’t get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:27 PM
1

That’s capitalism baby
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:54 PM
5

She would still lose financially even if he took paternity leave. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:53 PM
7

Surely ugly men can go to Coachella? The answer is that women’s tastes vary but it’s not 1:1 w every man. Just like some women are too ugly for men, some men are just ugly. I’d say it’s the bottom 20% of men. Doesn’t mean average men are hit on as much as Chad. It means some women will prefer the average man.👨
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:47 PM
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Nope. My logic is they would value women bc they are rare. Not as a tactic to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:59 AM
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I honestly think men would treat women better. It doesn’t add up to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:33 AM
2

It’s not “the media” it was the fbi making incels a watch group. And it’s not used as a synonym for male virgins. It’s used as a synonym for misogynistic men who are gathering online. Women also have mental health issues. They turn that hate inward and are more likely to self harm while men are more likely to harm others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:58 PM
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That explains why men are lonely I guess. This is how yall treat each other. It’s not like you were even debating he was literally just saying “I’m depressed” and you had to shit on him for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:25 PM
2

But it’s not synonymous with trans women Like some predators use Christianity to hide themselves. Acknowledging this doesn’t mean the average Christian is a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:16 PM
1

Why would they be evil bc society misunderstands them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:16 PM
1

Intersex people prove it’s more than two. This is such a dumb argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:15 PM
1

Wow. So you don’t know that debate has nothing to do with being rude?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:56 PM
6

The only time you don’t say disgusting things is when you’re in “high society”?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:53 PM
0

That’s a tautology
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:52 PM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:51 PM
1

I haven’t read people saying most rapists arw incels. I think incels being dangerous has to do with mass shootings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:50 PM
2

That’s literally average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:24 PM
1

Or maybe the men who think they are average are below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:23 PM
2

I think that anyone would think virgin males are overrepresented in this sub based on the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:21 PM
2

Not everything depressed people do is aimed at “helping” Jesus. This is such a rude way to interact w people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:20 PM
0

Do you ever make friends on reddit? I’ve made some just from ppl dm-ing me about shared interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:19 PM
5

Desperation makes people easy targets is what I imagine he’s referring to. (No disrespect intended)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:18 PM
-4

So you don’t believe op?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:17 PM
4

Okay? And I want to marry a billionaire doctor. I don’t wanna be cucked by settling for someone poorer and dumber. You’re just describing hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:55 PM
6

Wow. So you can’t even think of a socially acceptable way to phrase it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:53 PM
1

Yup! It def happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:27 PM
1

It sounds like you’re agreeing w me so idk what the “and yet” is doing here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:27 PM
6

i dont see "blind support" a lot and im guessing youre assuming someone disagreeing w you is "blindly supporting women" but yeah feminists, male feminists, people in any group can be toxic. predators often flock to things like christianity bc it gives them the veneer of being a good person. this is also true of feminism but the structure is a little less friendly (bc less blind trust) than christianity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:46 PM
11

Why do men insist on describing everything in the grossest possible way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:35 PM
0

i was talking about the way men talk there specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:43 PM
17

so have kids young then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:32 PM
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I can’t argue against a vague claim. I do often use gender neutral language when talking about things like abuse. I know how important pronouns are to you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:54 AM
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I think it’s possible men irl are less misanthropic, but they’re also dumber than men online so it evens out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:28 AM
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yea i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:21 PM
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astrology is just a vehicle for talking about personality and preferences for 95% of people who talk about astrology. (astrology is the word you're looking for, hororscopes refers to something specific). just like people talking about their favorite colors or favorite fictional characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:56 PM
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i play dumb sometimes but its not weaponized incompetence, i just like to observe people's behavior before i let them know i'm not dumb since its an assumption people already make about me based on some random factors i dont want to go into.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:54 PM
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if a man doesn't know how to boil pasta he can just search for a youtube video and learn how in 60 seconds if he uses "i dont know how to boil pasta" as an excuse for why he can't do that, then its weaponized incompetence
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:53 PM
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> So even though the husband is clueless when it comes to boiling pasta, the husband gets to feel like the adult by shaming his partner for being more unhinged. damn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:52 PM
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men are infantilized constantly by women who make excuses for why they can't parent, express themselves, pick up something from the grocery store, maintain friendships, remember their mom's birthday, etc. i think men and women are both fine pretending men are too dumb to do these things. in reality, men just dont want to live in the same world women do and they should just say it instead of pretending to be stupid. "i dont care to remember my moms birthday". "i dont care to pick up the kind of f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:51 PM
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average misanthropic trumper
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:05 PM
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men are allowed to complain everywhere in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:37 PM
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in what way is he a philosopher?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:34 PM
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jizz jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:22 PM
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"There nothing wrong can be for a man, but a woman might see something that a red flag for her" this is big. the way men talk to each other is absolutely insane. they're free to do it tho! but the problem is when they think this is how they can talk to women (or god forbid, professionally).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:22 PM
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hahahaha the fact that you didn't mention the #1 reason: he said something creepy shows how different men and women's dating experiences are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:21 PM
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he probably said something creepy without realizing it. men and women are socialized into non-compatible gender roles. what men think is normal and funny can be creepy and barbaric sounding to women. because there are so many bad men, we are on high alert for signs he is 1) a lightly bad person/boyfriend 2) looking to pump and dump 3) incompatible OR 4) an actual evil predator. this is especially true when its someone you don't know by reputation, through friends or in person. the more of these …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:18 PM
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name a political philosopher you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:07 PM
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> America just funds everything by leeching off the rich and the rich amass wealth by leeching off the labor of the poor and then leeching off the government when their poor workers rely on government welfare to survive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:06 PM
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no its not lmfao. if i was wealthy i'd move to switzerland.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:06 PM
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yes usa is a shithole
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:46 PM
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who?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:31 PM
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do you date someone because "what's the harm in it?" or because you want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:31 PM
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Yearning is easy. Sustained actions are hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:52 PM
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Sure Jan
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:51 PM
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What does this have to do w my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:58 PM
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I know immoral con artists who rob banks and great guys. Guess who is richer?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:58 PM
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It’s easy to be an armchair quarterback.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:57 PM
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Yeah but you can’t expect people to listen to your “women ignore good guys like me” sob story when in the next comment you reveal yourself to be a piece of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:56 PM
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It’s a debate sub. When people make poor arguments I’m gonna point it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:55 PM
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You think women should want to be with you, the man who doesn’t believe in human rights? And you think you are a better option than other immoral men despite literally openly admitting you don’t believe in human rights? Is this cognitive dissonance?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:35 AM
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You’re assuming those men would be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:33 AM
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Ok so your argument is men don’t have agency?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:41 PM
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so all those men are sharing the limited number of women willing to go on apps
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:28 PM
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so men on apps are sharing the small number of women willing to go on apps
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:27 PM
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> Right? I'm kind of appalled that so many young women allow men to be terrible in bed. i'm not his mommy. if he doesn't please me I won't see him again. but if he doesn't listen to me when i say what i like, i'm not gonna get more aggressive about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:44 PM
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So not realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:37 PM
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