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It’s bad because it says some lives are better than others
/r/MensRights19/05/23 03:23 PM
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Oh ok I see. That makes sense it should be hated equally if man or woman
/r/MensRights17/05/23 07:01 PM
7

I still think both is still bad
/r/MensRights17/05/23 06:56 PM
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Parts of Africa?
/r/MensRights17/05/23 06:47 PM
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Africa, India, Indonesia, Malaysia, the Maldives, Pakistan and Sri Lanka. In the Middle East, the practice occurs in Oman, the United Arab Emirates and Yemen, as well as in Iraq, Iran, Jordan and the State of Palestine
/r/MensRights17/05/23 06:02 PM
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It happens with women too. Genital mutilation is bad for everyone.
/r/MensRights17/05/23 05:22 PM
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At least you still had them and love them lots and lots.
/r/MensRights17/05/23 04:11 PM
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Kids are still beautiful and precious though
/r/MensRights17/05/23 04:11 PM
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Which country though
/r/MensRights16/05/23 07:30 PM
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As a Brit I’m not, also where are u from then?
/r/MensRights16/05/23 07:18 PM
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I don’t know, it depends on what they say.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 07:11 PM
-4

There are nice British people and maybe they mean more extreme versions of actual misogyny.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 04:53 PM
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I think it’s openly nasty things being said about women that they need to moderate
/r/MensRights16/05/23 04:51 PM
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I think it’s more based on how resonance what you are saying is.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 04:51 PM
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No idea I guess more with similar thoughts to them will reply to you Edit: maybe they read the first part of my comment and downvoted before they read the second part
/r/MensRights12/05/23 12:26 AM
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It’s just hard because a lot of them present to be wanting a relationship and then they don’t and I hate seeing so many of my friends upset by all this. It’s sad.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 12:09 AM
58

It seems like people were trying to make it so everyone who could have raped is revealed in order to protect women and make them wary of people who are accused of rape. But this will sadly backfire and many innocent men will be shunned and even loose jobs or assaulted because of a toxic ex claiming this.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 11:33 PM
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Everyone has the potential to be bad and good it’s human nature. I’ve seen women be awful to men and men be awful to women. The main reason why I made my post was that men seemingly have this tendency to use women then throw them aside. Like I have seen happen to many of my friends who are lovely girls and loose their virginity to some guy and want a relationship and everything with him and they want nothing to do with her. Like a girl I know is the sweetest kindest most genuine person ever and …
/r/MensRights11/05/23 10:39 PM
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No I’m just saying that they have the potential to be bad
/r/MensRights11/05/23 09:47 PM
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Thank you! I feel like so many people on this sub label me as like a man hater when I don’t hate men and think they should have rights I just have a more subjective view and am not radical feminist just like believe in feminism and women’s rights but I think everyone should have rights. Like I’m curious about men’s experiences I guess and this sub always gets recommended in my home page
/r/MensRights09/05/23 05:29 PM
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Omg I remember now! I just remember your redditmoji though not your name hahaha
/r/MensRights09/05/23 05:12 PM
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Erm yes? Also how do you remember me 😭 wait I’ll look for u
/r/MensRights09/05/23 05:10 PM
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Yes? Why wouldn’t I? I mean we have different views on promiscuity and what that means but ye I agree.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 05:07 PM
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Oh so it’s like pride and wanting to be men. I get that and yes I think people have different strengths and weaknesses like I know loads of women that can open bottles and I can’t. But I’m a lot more emotionally intelligent than my boyfriend because he doesn’t understand his emotions when I can look Dee in myself and understand mine. Also he can like do clever things and is a lot cleverer and funnier than me in general. We all have strengths and weaknesses and it’s actually narcissistic to not a…
/r/MensRights09/05/23 03:17 PM
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Hmmm that’s interesting. So that’s how guys think. Tbh I thought about that and I do some of those things and don’t do some. So I guess I bring some stuff to the table, though I guess we all have positives and negatives.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 03:05 PM
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What do you mean by masculinity on their terms. Also most western women aren’t hoes at all, only a few hookup. There is sex before marriage but that isn’t promiscuity.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 02:52 PM
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No but you can judge character
/r/MensRights09/05/23 02:50 PM
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My boyfriend is nothing like that but he’s 1/100. Like you don’t get many attractive men looking for a serious relo like him.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 12:41 PM
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American girls are awful. Im saying this as a woman. Just their attitudes are like wtf. Thank god I’m not American
/r/MensRights09/05/23 12:16 PM
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All? Which one haha
/r/MensRights09/05/23 12:13 PM
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Ok that is pretty accurate, I like the darker parts of my boyfriend. Though I don’t want him to abuse me I love him and I like him when he is nice to me. He’s like complicated but I like his darker side sometimes and I find is lighter side cute too.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 11:27 AM
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Wow ok that makes sense, my boyfriend is a caring person and I love him for that. He also have another vibe to him where he doesn’t give a fuck which I like too, like his attitude. Like he had a very strong worldview and is nice to me.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 11:24 AM
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Most people don’t cheat even though it’s sadly normalised. He should marry someone with mutual love and trust who he knows loves him and will be faithful.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 11:19 AM
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What is your definition of promiscuous and no effort then, what is your definition of an ideal relationship. I think it’s bad to generalise all women as hoes, western women are nice people too, some bad some good.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 11:05 AM
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You wouldn’t. Though maybe if your American? Im not an American and I’m guessing many members of the sub are. Like america is the peak of individualistic culture, everyone is out for themselves. Everyone is taught from a young age to be opinionated and loud. American culture just isn’t the vibe sorry not sorry. Like I remember going to America and talking to this American boy about a party or something and he said “so you were popular at school then, when I was at school I was really popular” I …
/r/MensRights09/05/23 11:03 AM
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Ooo that makes so much sense like I view long term and committed relationships the same, like if I broke up with my boyfriend I couldn’t immediately start having sex with others because I’d be upset and wish it was him which isn’t fair on me or the other men.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 07:12 AM
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Hmmm I guess we have diff views then because our friends diff sexes
/r/MensRights09/05/23 06:37 AM
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What do you mean by what else offered
/r/MensRights09/05/23 06:35 AM
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Huh are you talking to me or my friends or women in general here. I’m not any link in any failed relationship I just feel like from what I’ve seen only 1 in 100 guys actually want a relationship. I was just wondering why that is.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 06:34 AM
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Hmmm I guess that makes sense
/r/MensRights08/05/23 11:20 PM
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Don’t think like that you are worthy of love. If you want marriage and kids then go for it.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 11:19 PM
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Aww that’s great you have found a lovely woman. I think personal liver experience is the best to go from because it has reasons behind rather than just numbers. I guess we both have diff lives.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 11:17 PM
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I guess that’s true like men and woman can both be bad but women are always assumed by most people to be in the right. I feel women give up more maybe because other girls will encourage to do because women go to friends for advice so they will be like “he’s toxic you should divorce”. The man doesn’t talk through so he’s come to the decision slower so woman beats him to it.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 11:14 PM
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U should go do it, if not you will only regret, you deserve love and happiness ❤️
/r/MensRights08/05/23 11:12 PM
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Sorry I was just expressing my thoughts. Like I was trying to think why women initiate divorce more. And I have seen more men be hurtful in real life. I was just wondering if it was what all men wanted like to hookup or actual commitment. Aka do u want commitment
/r/MensRights08/05/23 11:11 PM
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I’m guessing that’s due to mutual miscommunication and the women wanting out/an escape. Most women are trustworthy and I’ve seen a lot of men be bad to women before.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 11:04 PM
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It’s likely reported more for queens. Both men and women can be violent but society was more shocked when women were violent so it was remembered more
/r/MensRights08/05/23 10:30 PM
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Will do hahhahaha
/r/MensRights08/05/23 04:31 PM
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I’m dyslexic
/r/MensRights08/05/23 04:02 PM
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Oh yes I feel like I agree totally with everything you have said. Like for me I’m not bothered by having a career, my friends are similar, we just study and work because we have to and it’s just a meh kind of attitude. I’m just praying I win the lottery and can just live my life as a vibe
/r/MensRights08/05/23 03:59 PM
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I don’t know it just seemed like the guy who made the comment was dissing women for marrying successful men. Like that’s fair for women to do if they want
/r/MensRights08/05/23 10:37 AM
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No I mean as in if you are a woman you can opt out of work if you want to. Like if you don’t want work as a woman you either start a business/earn a lot and retire early or marry rich. Do you understand?
/r/MensRights08/05/23 09:32 AM
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Ye but you can opt out if successful man. So like he was saying he thinks women want successful men to not work and should work anyway. I was confused because I thought most on this sub didn’t want women to work.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 09:16 AM
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That you think women shouldn’t work?
/r/MensRights08/05/23 09:05 AM
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Hmm it depends though and I do see that yes that makes sense. Like if I could press a button to give my boyfriend a billion then I would.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 09:04 AM
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I love my boyfriend and he is very special and not my personal slave
/r/MensRights08/05/23 09:02 AM
-1

Stop being mean to him
/r/MensRights08/05/23 09:01 AM
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But women have to do that too and we aren’t any for wanting men and not working/sucessfulish men
/r/MensRights07/05/23 11:33 PM
-9

Why would you rather work if you could not work
/r/MensRights07/05/23 11:32 PM
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Don’t think like that not all women are like that you will find love
/r/MensRights07/05/23 11:31 PM
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What do you mean aren’t those articles confirming to your gender expectations
/r/MensRights07/05/23 11:29 PM
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I just got “aspiring cat lady” because I put no obese or like married, also put like 40k for the salary and 5’8. Like those aren’t high standards at all like I think it’s wrong. Like I’m allowed preferences. No obese isn’t fat phobic.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 05:57 AM
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Idk how I feel like birth rates are falling like that not mysogeny to point out but mysogeny happens in society so I’m not sure. It’s all too confusing lmao
/r/MensRights07/05/23 05:25 AM
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Idk my boyfriend was crazy and is crazy now but like he been blatantly on drugs and the police’s turn a blind eye. He’s a white man. Erm ye like he crazy and still crazy like he went doctors and got blood test after drug and I was like “what if they realise u drug” and he like “they won’t”. But like I worry about him. I think he went the Gold Coast yesterday. Like he a Gold Coast boyyyyy. At least women protected so like because I’m protected I could protect my boyfriend and my kids will be prot…
/r/MensRights07/05/23 04:25 AM
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Like how has it changed sorry I’m hungover haha
/r/MensRights06/05/23 12:58 PM
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What it like now? How it not the US?
/r/MensRights06/05/23 11:56 AM
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My boyfriend Brisbane and he only been arrested once so it not as bad. Idk what it like though you prolly no better than me.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 11:54 AM
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No stop being shitty
/r/MensRights04/05/23 04:52 PM
1

Guns are illegal? Wait are there more woman farmers or something?
/r/MensRights04/05/23 02:34 PM
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I guess like I never said it didn’t happen to men just that women are in more danger when it happens. Let’s maybe agree that we equally defenceless against gang violence but men have a higher chance of defending on one on one. Like one on one against a man I’d have no chance, a man would.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 06:10 AM
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Idk who that is
/r/MensRights04/05/23 06:06 AM
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Ohhh ok ye I was offering an explanation for them. I guess it could and a lot of people view woman badly anyway.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 03:41 PM
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Omg sorry can you explain what you meant like i don’t understand what you are saying if that’s ok with you. What is badly behaving women?
/r/MensRights03/05/23 03:30 PM
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I’m not why do you think that and what’s wrong with being new to Reddit and how can you see I’m new to Reddit?
/r/MensRights03/05/23 03:29 PM
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I’m just asking questions
/r/MensRights03/05/23 03:28 PM
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We’ll be prepared for what comes next when misogyny become mainstream. Because like you said, “badly behaving women will provoke society” at large into woman hating, right? Maybe I misinterpreted?
/r/MensRights03/05/23 03:27 PM
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Just because my boyfriend isn’t depressed doesn’t mean he’s had a perfect life and he has actually likely struggled more than most men and has had sad moments but he hasn’t cried in years because he can’t see the point in crying. Like I actually find it hard to believe that most people here had a worse childhood than him but he is alright now. also how is what makes a man a man being called into question by women? The world is shit but it’s shit for everyone. Also people would care if you died s…
/r/MensRights03/05/23 03:26 PM
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So you don’t know the first thing about me and took it upon yourself to call me a “badly behaving woman” and now I’m “hopeless”. I was asking you to explain what you were saying and instead you were cruel to me.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 03:16 PM
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The physical fact that women are physically weaker than men.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 03:15 PM
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Can you explain what it was that made it so hard for her?
/r/MensRights03/05/23 03:15 PM
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Ohh ok I understand, so like the struggles of life increase throughout your life. Like u slowly become aware of the world. Tbh that’s true for everyone and everyone has challenges they face based on money, race and gender. Wait ok so this is what I have understood by this so you have a straight white man who is fed privilege and goes on to be successful, e.g. Donald trump/Elon musk. They then create an example for the rest of society to view straight white men as those in charge and in power. So…
/r/MensRights03/05/23 03:14 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/MensRights03/05/23 07:12 AM
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My boyfriend isn’t toxic and he’s not depressed so u clearly are wrong about that being something you have to develop
/r/MensRights03/05/23 07:09 AM
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Are you saying I’m a “badly behaving woman? What?
/r/MensRights03/05/23 07:06 AM
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But why how can it be that bad for all men? My boyfriend isn’t depressed?
/r/MensRights03/05/23 07:05 AM
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Ok I understand that but doesn’t change the fact that I am powerless against any man.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 06:38 AM
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Oh ok fair enough then. I don’t think you will get jumper by loads of people so try not to worry and dont annoy anyone and u will be fine
/r/MensRights03/05/23 06:22 AM
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Is that because there are more homeless men?
/r/MensRights03/05/23 06:08 AM
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I was just asking like you are saying being a man is so bad she killed herself but the vast majority of men dont
/r/MensRights03/05/23 06:07 AM
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I don’t think that I think being homeless is awful. I was only pointing out the fact that women can’t physically defend ourselves so we are in more physical danger IF someone decides to attack. I feel bad for homeless men too and they deserve hugs
/r/MensRights02/05/23 11:06 PM
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I just am terrified of someone jumping out and grabbing me or the streets and raping me. Like I need at least either a group of other girls or my boyfriend to be with me or else I’d get really scared.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 11:04 PM
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Idk I don’t feel safe on the streets at night unless I have somebody with me
/r/MensRights02/05/23 10:56 PM
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I’m not? It’s not less urgent but women are more in danger.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 10:39 PM
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Oh ok I’m wrong. Why did that happen? If that’s the case why don’t all men kill themselves. My boyfriend has never struggled like that.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 10:39 PM
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Women are more likely to get raped.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 10:36 PM
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Yes and it’s not because I know that if I got homeless I wouldn’t be able to physically defend myself against attacks from anyone who wanted to take advantage of me because I’m a woman. I don’t feel safe walking streets at night time and I literally have gotten shouted at and cat called. If I was homeless with nobody around anything could happen to me.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 10:36 PM
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What do you mean? I agree with u more men are homeless but are less in danger by being homeless. I think we meant different things when saying suffer, maybe less affected/less in danger because they can protect themselves more than woman can.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 09:29 PM
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I’m not? I was just curious and sharing opinions. You are being cruel to me
/r/MensRights02/05/23 09:18 PM
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What’s wrong with engaging with it? That’s really mean thing to say I haven’t said anything impolite I was just curious and shared my views.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 09:09 PM
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I thought it was equal women and men homeless so I guess I was wrong but I guess maybe it’s more urgent to get women off street because if I was homeless I could get raped and murdered so easily. So more men are homeless but men suffer less from being homeless. Less women are homeless but suffer more from being homeless.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 08:57 PM
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I was thinking more that they are the ones at the top not that all white straight males are privileged. I’m white myself so ye but like there is still racism in society and I’ve seen people be called racial slurs. I’m so sorry that you went through that hugs ❤️ that must have been traumatic for you hope u happy and healthy now ❤️❤️❤️
/r/MensRights02/05/23 08:54 PM
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No, I’m not saying better or worse I’m just saying that millionaires like Elon musk are straight white males. There are many homeless women and men they are equally in a bad situation. Maybe women more because we are physically weaker so unable to fight off attacks
/r/MensRights02/05/23 08:17 PM
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Wdum? This post? It got recommended to me. I’ve posted here before and this sub is constantly recommended to me by Reddit.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 08:11 PM
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I don’t think she killed herself because of that I saw on a tiktok that it was actually about something else.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 07:02 PM
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White straight males are actually highly priveliged in society. Working class and supporting the working class doesn’t make anyone a victim or not a victim?
/r/MensRights02/05/23 06:59 PM
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I don’t know a lot of laddish culture isn’t just being macho it’s the whole roadmen trend. Also a lot of them are very macho like you said. I have nothing against I’m just saying that’s a reason for people to view them badly.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 04:01 PM
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No I’m not asking what was he wearing or talking about him in general I am just saying like UK isn’t super feminist and there is a laddish culture maybe provoking people to view men negatively. Obviously nobody agrees with murder
/r/MensRights02/05/23 03:59 PM
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I didn’t think so as a uk citizen. Like a lot of boys have a very laddish culture. Maybe the fact that so many boys are like that leads to misandry against them all?
/r/MensRights02/05/23 08:25 AM
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It’s fair enough it’s her job, they should have kept jonny doing stuff too though
/r/MensRights01/05/23 10:39 AM
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Ye that not true. Like I picked my boyfriend over a perfect looking guy who all my friends liked because of his personality. My boyfriend handsome too but it’s his soul that makes him handsomer and I love him for his beautiful soul.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 10:49 PM
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I’ve looked it up and it’s basically primal urges? How is it affected picking partners and contraception. Also I wouldn’t say people do “mating dance “ now I think things are beyond primal stuff
/r/MensRights27/04/23 12:26 PM
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Nope what does it mean sounds funny ngl
/r/MensRights27/04/23 06:21 AM
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I don’t think it that extreme. Most things aren’t taken to the police. My boyfriend stronger than me and I’m not afraid of him, just strength in guys is kinda scary how strong they are. Did you just say lizard brain lmao 😂 Most people have internal views so like if u asked they’d give you opinions.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 10:05 PM
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Yes but men can always use strength to defend themselves. Men could hurt women more if they wanted to. Tbh most men could prolly pick me up and throw me if they wanted. Feminism is about equality in the eyes of most feminists not privileges. You likely get the impression from radical feminists who make the news more.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 09:11 PM
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I’m not saying the majority are bad I’m just saying a lot of them are and men are more dangerous than women. Ye I’ve never heard mansplaining used in a real life scenario, only by Americans on tiktok. I wouldn’t say feminists hate men, just want equality
/r/MensRights25/04/23 04:24 PM
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I wasn’t talking about like drunk rape I’m just like talking about the chances of a stranger overpowering u. Rape on all contexts is awful. I think physically men are at an advantage than women. I don’t think it feminism it just society in general that create that sex positive narrative. It’s more boys than girls. Like boys in general fuck around more and stuff. I think porn a big cause of it and that’s what boys like. A lot of people act bad when they are drunk and that’s just a fact in life. M…
/r/MensRights24/04/23 01:11 PM
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Oh ok fairs I see your point. Maybe try normalise safe sex more then. If things norm then u fix root of issue.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 11:50 PM
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30 percent isn’t a minority. Ok I see your point, there are solutions but people are at fault for the no condoms. I was just trying to think of a way to solve the problem without telling them they are wrong.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 02:39 PM
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Men are physically stronger than women. Like women couldn’t overpower a man unless they drugged him. Like yes there are some strong women who could beat weaker men but stronger men can always beat women. Like my boyfriend can easily grab stuff out of my hand but he’s never physically violent with me but when we are playing he’s a lot stronger than me like he can pin me down with one hand even when I’m literally using my legs to try push up. I’m not weak by any means, I used to play sport and I g…
/r/MensRights23/04/23 09:49 AM
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Idk ye it’s cheap I guess, maybe it should be a norm just to buy loads of condoms and stick them in a bowl at a party or something. Also most guys can get with women unless they are really weird. It’s the same for dating with guys and girls really. Also at parties a lot of people just have sex for the fun of it so loads of guys are having sex at parties.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 09:16 AM
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I wouldn’t say women are more sexually active, both can have risky sex obviously. Go get pregnant there also needs to be a man there. So it’s both male and female reckless behaviour. Go fight it I think free condoms would be a big help. That’s just an idea of mine.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 11:27 AM
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I meant like you can pick up a lot of free ones from like the supermarket. Ye men often are the ones people expect to carry because they are usually the ones that are the most flirty and expecting of sex. Like some people don’t plan to have sex.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 09:52 AM
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I’m glad you ok as an adult and caring about others. That why I posted on this sub cuz they defend him an not me like the other one. Ok both men and women can do sexual harassment but I definitely wouldn’t say it’s a joke. The majority of women don’t “cry wolf” and definitely not just by being flirted on. It’s still a sad thing that causes people to suffer because of men. Men can be assaulted too but that’s rarer than women. Women are in more danger from that than men. I’m not a fighter and I do…
/r/MensRights22/04/23 09:50 AM
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You poor thing were you emotionally abused and insulted as a kid? No child should grow up like that sending all my love and hugs❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I like tried to post subjectively and like admitted where I was wrong and that we were both wrong and explained my inner conflict and people were just attacking him. I was like, I want to be told if I was in the wrong so I can change behaviour. Btw the definition of feminism is defined as “the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sex…
/r/MensRights21/04/23 09:58 PM
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Ye maybe it doesn’t apply joke to English like some things might make sense in some and not others. I think they should be free tbh so people can get them in bulk when having a party, like if condoms aren’t available people go without. Like so many of my friends will just go without when having sex unless condom there at that second.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 09:09 PM
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I don’t know like I think it’s hard to stop and just saying that people shouldn’t won’t make everyone stop. Like me myself will use both condoms and pill for protection but others don’t so maybe making them more available will encourage to use. Stds awful and so many have them. It so sad and upsetting that people get lifelong diseases like that. I hate thinking about it because I want there to be a cure for hiv but there isn’t and so many innocent people are suffering for life. Do you mean like …
/r/MensRights20/04/23 10:08 PM
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Ye I’m thinking of going therapy and getting help cuz I have other issues too and am very anxious and stressed and just a bit unstable emotionally. Ye I posted here because I didn’t want people’s first reaction to be “omg he evil dump him” because I don’t want to do that and that’s not advice. Like I’ve gotten better advice here. Thank you and yes I’m going to take first step and thank you for hoping for me :) I’ve just talked to him about the picture and he was like I only send when you are tox…
/r/MensRights20/04/23 10:02 PM
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Women don’t like men do more manual labour and women do other jobs. Like creative jobs are more women dominated. Like I do acting and plan on making that my main job and quitting my old job and doing acting full time. Acting is a creative hard job. Both men and women are into it.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 09:09 PM
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He takes me out every weekend, tbh I pay for most of his shaving stuff and shampoo like I insist to buy or else he will buy bad ones that are bad for his hair. I also style his hair all the time and have bought him most of his clothes.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 09:06 PM
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Everyone is afraid of people leaving them like me probably more than most because I had a couple really toxic relationships in the past that have messed me a bit. I guess but I’d tell him first and like we’d decide together. Tbh I likely wouldn’t get an abortion and me getting pregnant without wanting to is unlikely but like I personally wouldn’t abort because me and him are financially stable enough to look after kid. I support abortions in other women if they were in my situation and wanted an…
/r/MensRights20/04/23 08:55 PM
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Feminist is believing in equality between sexes. Google it and see the definition. Like I believe equal pay and women should be doctors and able to do stuff. I allow my boyfriend to pay things for me because he likes to do that and treat me well
/r/MensRights20/04/23 08:38 PM
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He pays? He’s the one taking me on a date like that’s his treat to me, it’s a present. I bought him a birthday present that’s the same thing. He’s just being generous.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 08:07 PM
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Free contraception is a good thing and it’s not making men pay for it what? Like it benefits men AND women and sexual education and free available contraception would prevent all those abortions you talk about. Maybe people don’t use protection or use pull out instead. Some people believe pull out is an actual method. Like free contraception is a good thing.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 08:06 PM
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I don’t think it that extreme. But ye I see your point. Tbh today I’ve listened to him and stuff. Idk like nobody actually views men like that. That likely stuff u have read online or smh. Or maybe my area diff to yours if that your reality. Wish u the best in life ❤️
/r/MensRights20/04/23 06:59 PM
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Ok so I’ve googled up and like I think it good for men to take girls out on dinner dates which my boyfriend does every Friday / Saturday which is really nice. He’s sweet. Like I said we have good relo just bad debates. Like he does treat and talk to me in traditional way which I deserve.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 04:43 PM
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Erm nothing because I don’t like confrontation. Tho one time I was with a couple guys and they were making fun of this girl for her weight (she used to go there school but they literally left school ages ago and we were in public place) they were full on shouting and I told them to stop being horrible and me and my other girl friend chided them. But it needs to be extreme for me to say anything because I’m not confrontational, unless I’m literally talking about political views then I’ll just say…
/r/MensRights20/04/23 04:08 PM
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It’s really hard to take the pill effectively to prevent pregnancy and so many women don’t realise the consequences of this. Like what’s wrong with free contraceptives that a good idea to have them easily accessible to everyone. What that got to do with cheating? Also abortion is a panic button to 99% of people. Like nobody uses it as contraception, it’s just because people don’t use contraception effectively due to lack of understanding
/r/MensRights20/04/23 02:01 PM
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Because men sleep around way more so there would probably be drive through abortion clinics where they get them every month. Like guys would get them more than girls cuz I no so many guys that sleep around. Like so many guys would.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 01:56 PM
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I’d never flat out insult the kids tho. Wdum like leave my boyfriend? Loads of people break up like I wouldn’t compare it to literally killing u to save a Fetus which is way more severe. I trust him on a lot of things but not completely. I didn’t say all right wingers only the ones in power who brainwash everyone else. Politicians are evil like we should just not have politics and like not have governments. Oh ye no like it wasn’t blackmail just a picture that was really scary and triggers paran…
/r/MensRights20/04/23 01:47 PM
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Ye like that’s what he says like he keeps saying it’s human life and says it’s sad that it’s normalising murdering people and “mass human sacrifice”. I try explain but nothing I say can get through to him
/r/MensRights20/04/23 06:43 AM
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Can u tell me? That’s like subjective I have a rough idea but I can’t put into words like I don’t want to misrepresent if u get me. Also like feminism is just believing in equality
/r/MensRights20/04/23 06:25 AM
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I think it’s more he genuinely thinks it’s murder
/r/MensRights20/04/23 06:24 AM
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Ok thank you that’s what I’ll try to do like just be more calm with him. Thank you :)
/r/MensRights20/04/23 06:23 AM
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With kids there’s no worry of them leaving me and the idea of him leaving is what triggers me. Like I constantly need to know that he cares. I’m emotional but I wouldn’t get angry with my kids and I would fuss them a lot like I do with my dog and my cousin. I’m also good with kids and literally have worked with kids before. That’s the thing though like we agree and disagree on things it’s weird having the same opinion. I just disagree with him being anti abortion and also right wing as I view th…
/r/MensRights19/04/23 09:57 PM
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Abortion as healthcare is a must in all scenarios. Also nobody uses abortion as only form of contraception. Contraception doesn’t always work. Like the pill is only 97% accurate if taken correctly and that is hard to do like I will often forget and don’t take it at a set time. It’s hard to do that. Like condoms and pill are the way to go but many people aren’t aware/think it’s not necessary due to lack of knowledge on contraception. There should be free contraception available to all.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 09:30 PM
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I know but I worry if that’s what he would want and he would do that if he had the choice. I would never stop loving my baby even if I was angry at them. If anything I’m more likely to spoil them. Like my little cousin we go in a shop and I will literally get him everything he asks for and spend way too much money on him haha. Tbh I was explaining what he had done that was wrong because he does bring up personal things. I don’t think only bad things he has good qualities I was just stating the b…
/r/MensRights19/04/23 08:59 PM
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Still in the US and other countries women are literally dying and not having access to the abortion. I think you can’t judge until you know the full picture and people should have the right to make their own decisions. Guys are the ones that would use abortion as contraception if they got pregnant, 99% of women don’t. Everyone should have reproductive rights.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 08:53 PM
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Oh wow so a lot agree with my pov. Idk it so uncommon for people to disagree and it’s such an extreme view. I don’t understand why he thinks tbh
/r/MensRights19/04/23 08:26 PM
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Why does silly things like politics matter when it comes to love?
/r/MensRights19/04/23 08:25 PM
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He disagrees with all abortion so I worry if I was pregnant with his kid he’d save the kid over me. I know he wouldn’t but I worry. I would never tell my baby I regretted them or wanted to abort them. They could literally be the worst human being ever and I would never hate them. I will raise them not to be awful human beings but I will always love them unconditionally. He brings up some personal things about my past and things about me that he doesn’t want our kids to inherit. He also has a pic…
/r/MensRights19/04/23 07:25 PM
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I actually believe it’s more of a blur when it becomes a child, like it gradually forms from completely not human to a baby. It’s better if the abortion has to take place to do it earlier but some people have teen pregnancies or are raped and have no way to look after a baby so they end it before it has the chance to begin. I don’t think it suddenly becomes a life at 5 months but it’s at such a point where it’s too developed to end. It’s not yet the same as an actual baby but it has reached a ce…
/r/MensRights19/04/23 07:19 PM
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I don’t think men are evil. I just said that in the moment. I’m not sexist at all and I’m not a cult member
/r/MensRights19/04/23 06:08 PM
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I mean as in like physically able to survive with all help
/r/MensRights19/04/23 06:02 PM
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Aww thank you I hope we agree soon too. Idk I’ll stop saying that and ye I just don’t really care about politics so I will just do same as my friends
/r/MensRights19/04/23 05:36 PM
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I don’t really know the law and rules. I just want my daughters and sons to be happy. I agree with the abortion law in the UK. He doesn’t agree with it at all and calls it murder. In his opinion all abortion is murder. I disagree and think that it’s only up to a certain point as the Fetus isn’t sentient and can’t survive outside the womb until 22 weeks. Which is why I think 22 weeks. So no he doesn’t think accessible but rare he disagrees with them completely.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 05:34 PM
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What do you mean what’s a traditional woman and what’s non traditional like what are your examples.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 05:30 PM
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I’d always side with my son because he’d be my child and blood over everything is another deep value of mine. I’d still love my son even if he was on drugs. He will always have a home with me. Also if believe him over his gf unless proved otherwise by court, then I’d be disgusted and disappointed if he was bad but I wouldn’t stop loving.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 03:51 PM
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Okie I’ll try stop also I won’t teach my kids they evil at all
/r/MensRights19/04/23 03:39 PM
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I’m trying to do that but I just get emotional and either get upset or angry when we argue and can’t stay not emotional
/r/MensRights19/04/23 03:38 PM
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Okie u Mande some good points I’m leaving the house in 5 mins but I’ll reply. I guess we could both agree to disagree tbh
/r/MensRights19/04/23 07:06 AM
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Wdum other subs ban people? I think they ban people if they say anything that’s morally wrong but that’s subjective. Like if I told some of my friends my boyfriend didn’t believe in abortion they would all think he’s pure evil.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 06:28 AM
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I wouldn’t call my son evil ever. Like I’d never say anything to him that would suggest he not amazing. Also feminism is good and none of my friends would insult my son if I had one.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 06:25 AM
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That is what I do though like I don’t care about anything else I just want him which is part of reason why I view politics as small but it’s a big thing for him so idk.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 06:10 AM
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That sounds like a good idea thank you 😊
/r/MensRights19/04/23 06:07 AM
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Wdum how?
/r/MensRights19/04/23 06:05 AM
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Posting here because I want to hear from his perspective too. I want very wide range of advice if that’s ok
/r/MensRights18/04/23 10:44 PM
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U could have given as an argument, I was just stating mine as a woman because I literally no how women think, u are welcome too
/r/MensRights30/03/23 08:52 AM
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No but a lot of examples are online ones rather than real life. Like the thoughts and feelings of most women aren’t represented by statistics. I’m not denying your lived experience u just haven’t given me one.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 08:30 AM
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Huh that not the case real life just this small community. Like most WOMEN aka real women not online women, don’t view men as disposable. Just like a lot of people online have very extreme views on things. Also men aren’t always on receiving end and neither are women, it not that black or white.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 08:29 AM
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That’s not true tho
/r/MensRights30/03/23 07:20 AM
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It defo not widespread. It sad people think that and I’m acc so confused. Like as a woman I cans deny that being true.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 07:19 AM
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Lmao that’s not true at all. I’d understand is you were saying looks instead of money, but not money. Character is most important.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 07:16 AM
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It is based on what other girls say too
/r/MensRights30/03/23 07:12 AM
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They don’t, I, a women, know more about myself than math. I don’t marry for money at all
/r/MensRights29/03/23 11:04 PM
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That’s not true we marry for love, sure rich is nice but love is most important because a lot of rich men are nasty
/r/MensRights29/03/23 10:16 PM
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They aren’t what the
/r/MensRights29/03/23 10:14 PM
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Women don’t use our partners as cash machines that’s actually not nice to say and really sexist. We date for love not money!
/r/MensRights29/03/23 10:13 PM
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Aww I’m flattered and there’s lots and lots of nice western woman too 😊
/r/MensRights03/03/23 07:41 PM
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Ooo snazzy, wait so you still don’t like western women then?
/r/MensRights03/03/23 07:16 PM
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That’s sweet that you’ve found love and are happy! Like I said western women as while are discriminated against for no good reason because western women aren’t all manipulative and toxic at all
/r/MensRights03/03/23 07:02 PM
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Yassss give opinion like I want to know why u think discrimination to western woman is good cuz I want to give my points to counter your argument to help u grow as a person and be kind and non descrimitory to everyone. Like I won’t be angry cuz we just have diff views I’ll just be like giving u girls perspective. Like if u complain you can’t date but u aren’t putting yourself out there then I’d be like “put yourself out there more and see”. Or if you felt like most women didn’t like men I’d tell…
/r/MensRights03/03/23 04:48 PM
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No explain? Just give your opinion silly 😂
/r/MensRights03/03/23 01:24 AM
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It’s a massive part of raising an emotionally intelligent child…
/r/MensRights02/03/23 01:40 PM
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I’m sorry but what’s the words “all men” got to do with those guys saying I’m proving his point, wasting there energy, and being annoying
/r/MensRights02/03/23 11:09 AM
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Feelings are more important though like when raising a child everything’s about feelings and validating their emotions. You can’t get buy on facts and logic
/r/MensRights01/03/23 11:48 PM
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I’m talking to a guy at moment and have had relos in the past. Like I’m not toxic abd I’m deserving of relos I felt like you were asking that like I gave nothing to be deserving of relo 😂
/r/MensRights01/03/23 11:43 PM
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I’m worthy of a relationship. My love attention and care are the most important things I bring in a relationship
/r/MensRights01/03/23 11:33 PM
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Idk I see your point and I feel like it’s a bit of a vicious dating pool. Like most girls I know go for like the louder funny guys but they are usually the guys that are bad for us. Like a lot of my friends and me have had bad experiences with guys making us wary. But now I’m talking to a very handsome but quieter older guy and I think he’s my soulmate
/r/MensRights01/03/23 11:18 PM
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Exactly like everyone has different opinions and different lives and stories that you shouldn’t generalise (not you just like people in general) and you should like be open minded and kind to everyone
/r/MensRights01/03/23 11:00 PM
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Hahaha you got me very picky with words aren’t you 😂 I meant like feminism is about respect so by being feminist the men are respectful because feminist=respectful MOST OF THE TIME
/r/MensRights01/03/23 10:57 PM
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Or how much time and energy I’ve wasted trying to talk sense and basic human empathy into a brick wall. Maybe u would get a girlfriend if you stopped hating on women.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 10:44 PM
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Yay finally someone that agrees and doesn’t argue like it’s not so black and white! People can be bad people if they are feminists or not feminists, men or woman, because that’s just how things are and every person is different and it is all just political views really.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 10:42 PM
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Not all western women use their men as atms. Actually many of them will use their own money to buy their own things. Like he shouldn’t generalise like that and neither should you. He dubbed all western women below him and undatable aka unworthy of love in his opinion. Male feminists just treat women with respect.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 10:37 PM
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I’m sorry why is that good?
/r/MensRights01/03/23 10:29 PM
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Exactly
/r/MensRights01/03/23 10:19 PM
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It is? He’s saying that I am unworthy of being in a relationship and unworthy of love.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 09:08 PM
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I’m sorry… what. That’s awful to talk about feminists and single mothers like that! Single mothers can be good parents. There’s nothing wrong with that. Anyone can be toxic and manipulative, independent doesn’t equal manipulative
/r/MensRights01/03/23 08:55 PM
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I’m a western woman and that’s really discriminatory and kinda mean 💔
/r/MensRights01/03/23 08:46 PM
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Well who will look after the country if everyone gets drafted then
/r/MensRights27/02/23 01:09 PM
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Like he could evacuate to the country like lots of parents did in the wars anyway and like people can take in but us girls can look after our kids and take other kids in while the men go to war
/r/MensRights27/02/23 01:08 PM
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Not everyone in war dies though but in the first 2 wars it was only men that were drafted
/r/MensRights27/02/23 08:02 AM
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Why do u think?
/r/MensRights19/02/23 08:42 PM
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U disagree with war and think it shouldn’t happen but I don’t think girls should be forced into war, I don’t think men should either but they already are so I guess that’s for a good reason
/r/MensRights19/02/23 08:33 PM
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Boys would be better at war tho because like they play video games so they have practice. Also like women shouldn’t be forced cuz what if they are pregnant or have kids and both parents are off to war like not good. Idk out of people I know none of my girl friends would survive a day with a few exceptions.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 07:59 PM
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Idk like I don’t think I’d be able to fight in a whole war
/r/MensRights18/02/23 11:14 PM
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There is a difference though biologically men are stronger and also are easier to provide for as there are no mensural products which would be added cost. Also found these things written by people that know more than me https://theconversation.com/amp/why-war-evolved-to-be-a-mans-game-and-why-thats-only-now-changing-101473 https://www.quora.com/Why-are-only-men-expected-to-fight-in-war https://www.inverse.com/article/48291-men-women-fight-war-study/amp
/r/MensRights17/02/23 10:34 PM
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It’s because they need them to fight. It’s a difficult situation because it’s sad that some die but the same happened in world war 1 and 2 where many volunteered also. I think those who are fit to fight should fight
/r/MensRights17/02/23 08:22 PM
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