cutelikekobra Archive

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2	Even Therapists Don’t Know About Male Sexual Assault Victims Thank you kind stranger	/r/MensRights	20/06/24 05:09 PM
2	Even Therapists Don’t Know About Male Sexual Assault Victims Thank you for your kind and warmth. I am doing okay. Although, my manic episode still haunts me. The episodes of SA are so long ago that they don't bother me anymore. My therapist inspired me to take up psychology. I am en route to become a therapist myself. The frameworks she gave me were incredibly useful in helping me identify my triggers and mood swings. Like it has been 6 years since the mania. And while I have come close to that stage I have been able to identify whether I was going in the…	/r/MensRights	20/06/24 02:57 PM
9	Even Therapists Don’t Know About Male Sexual Assault Victims Got SAed by relatives and househelps (distant older cousin and a maid, separately) at the ripe age of 10 then 11. Got SAed by a neighbour (older girl late teens) and molested. Too young to understand she was abusing me and my brother. (Older than me by 2 years, has polio in leg) When I told my therapist about this, after I had finally broken down due to a manic episode, she was the first person to actually acknowledge this. God bless that woman. I remember I had told an ex about this and she dis…	/r/MensRights	19/06/24 02:37 PM
1	today I realized a brutal truth about males in todays world…nobody cares about us and i broke down in tears earlier People don't care about you. People care about themselves. Most boys realise it in their early teens, and that is when they become men. One of the saddest facts being that once you see that no one really cares when you are suffering inside, you stop caring too. It is really hard to be kind and warm to others when we are cold and lifeless within. People process their sorrow in different ways. Some externalise it. Some internalise it. I was somehow able to build healthy relationships with a few cl…	/r/MensRights	08/06/24 03:21 AM
16	It’s all so exhausting I don't think the people who were so hellbent on deleting old texts are the same people arguing about keeping the sex tape. Having said that. The double standards exist because we have a lot of simps in this world that would do anything to get laid/validated. And, they don't mind bending over backwards for almost any woman. Also, since when have people (millennials) decided that airing their personal affairs for other people was a good thing. I mean, what the fuck. Why be with a person who keeps…	/r/MensRights	16/04/24 05:00 AM
2	How incel issue shows how men opening about their feeling end up badly I say this with a very heavy heart, but, even your mother won't spare you from using your insecurities and emotions against you if she feels offended enough to hurt you. That's how most women operate. While men can be vicious with physical strength, women are vicious with their words. That doesn't mean you stop being emotional in front of the women in your life who care for you (your mother, sister, and later in life your spouse/partner) but, remember that if they use a certain narrative to rile…	/r/MensRights	14/04/24 08:08 AM
2	A loving marriage ❤️ it was never empathy, it was always manipulation.	/r/MensRights	08/03/24 08:35 AM
0	Finally told my wife about some abuse I suffered as a child something. I have never told any other human being ever. I have a slightly different opinion as a man and a psychologist than others. 1. It sucks to be the victim of childhood sexual abuse. The trauma sticks with you. 2. However, that dark episode does not define you. As humans we can survive through anything and everything. We must. 3. Sharing with your spouse or your partner is not the worst idea. In fact, you must find a way to share your story with them. You should share it with them as early as you can. The truly nurturing and kind woman in your …	/r/MensRights	19/02/24 03:06 PM
1	Tell me what masculinity means to you in one word Masculinity to me means standing your ground even when the entire world's burden seems to be on your shoulders. It means embracing your loved ones and protecting them, caring for them and nurturing them.	/r/MensRights	30/04/23 12:29 PM
1	My girlfriend Punched me because I declined sex She is a psychopath. Report her to the cops and run. Run for your life.	/r/MensRights	06/01/23 04:53 PM
1	I feel like we could all use a break. Lets have a fun relaxing post. Fellas, whats something you enjoy doing that isnt typically considered masculine? My cousin sisters used to do it when we would get together in our grandparents country side house, I insisted they teach me. Good times!	/r/MensRights	21/12/22 03:57 PM
2	I feel like we could all use a break. Lets have a fun relaxing post. Fellas, whats something you enjoy doing that isnt typically considered masculine? I love me a cosmopolitan. Can't even feel the liquor, only the buzz.	/r/MensRights	21/12/22 04:56 AM
9	I feel like we could all use a break. Lets have a fun relaxing post. Fellas, whats something you enjoy doing that isnt typically considered masculine? Embroidery. I fucking love knitting things.	/r/MensRights	21/12/22 04:54 AM
1	Why are so many women unaware of the emotional weight of actual labor. You know the type that built the world around them. I think it is mostly the fault of men. We have been serving the greater needs of family and society, taking care of our responsibilities without making it seem like a big thing. I am ready and willing to change diapers and cook for my family (I have been living alone most of my adult life and I can cook almost anything) if my partner can go out in the scorching sun doing the sales job I do everyday.	/r/MensRights	04/07/21 03:44 AM