cutezie Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Ugly men have a right to be angry An ugly man wants a girl who will have sex with him. An ugly woman wants a future, not a guy with a fetish for ugly chicks. I mean these are terrible, insulting 2-dimensional caricatures of people I'm using here, but then so are you by not acknowledging that other people also have a right to respond to angry guys by dismissing them and calling them incels or whatever they want as the situation merits. You have every right to be angry, but you're not going to solve anything with it. Nobody will. …	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/20 03:06 AM
1	Ugly men have a right to be angry If you're going to be cynical I will be cynical back to you. You still haven't explained how you think society should help "ugly men" who are angry. What should I do as a woman next time I see an ugly man saying how he hates women. Should I just pull up my dress and bend over for him right there or should we get a motel room first? What exactly should we expect society to be able to do on a strange, general level for this undefined group that may or may not even consist of people who are actuall…	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/20 03:00 AM
6	Ugly men have a right to be angry Okay so what does that "making life better" look like in this specific example? I want to know what you think our society needs to do for angry people that will help them not be angry. Does it mean forcing women to have sex against their will with people they're not attracted to like incels seem to love to fantasize about? Or does it mean reaching out and having kindness and compassion towards someone who is angry and saying hurtful things? And if it does mean this, please explain to me how that…	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/20 02:55 AM
1	Ugly men have a right to be angry could be their fault for being ugly, could be society's fault for not accommodating their looks, could be women's fault None of these make any sense though. Maybe there's no fault. Maybe the universe doesn't care and doesn't make things fair for everyone. Maybe holding onto anger over things you can't change is just going to make you feel worse and worse and waste whatever enjoyment you could potentially feel from this existence.	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/20 02:50 AM
19	whats wrong with red pill. Manipulation is abuse. At the very least, it teaches people that there’s some kind of fuzzy line between healthy relationships and gaslighting and manipulating your partner, which is just terrible.	/r/ExRedPill	05/04/20 08:13 PM
1	Virgin shame has ruined dating for me. I can't be optimistic about new romantic opportunities simply because so many women find virginity a turn off At least now I understand why nobody wants to get close to you. Hint: it has nothing to do with sex.	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/20 11:03 PM
2	Virgin shame has ruined dating for me. I can't be optimistic about new romantic opportunities simply because so many women find virginity a turn off I can't respect you as an intellectual. We're most certainly not equals here so I don't care about earning your respect. You came here looking for help with a problem that most here are telling you is in your mind, and blowing your top at everyone who is being kind and polite instead of having a shred of self awareness. You're a kid, not an intellectual. Grow up a little and then we can talk about if I want your respect or not.	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/20 10:56 PM
1	Virgin shame has ruined dating for me. I can't be optimistic about new romantic opportunities simply because so many women find virginity a turn off The things you need to hear aren't always the things you want to hear. You came here asking for help, this is YOUR show. If you don't like how it's playing out, write a different plot. Or better yet, stop being an asshole to people who are giving you life advise that you asked for. I hope as you get older and get the help you need you lose this weird fucking attitude. Because honestly, is this working for you? Are the things you're thinking and feeling helping you right now? Go ahead, last word.	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/20 10:54 PM
2	Virgin shame has ruined dating for me. I can't be optimistic about new romantic opportunities simply because so many women find virginity a turn off I'm tired of hearing that there somehow some correlation between happiness and sexual success because there's not. I'm not saying that, you're the one here saying your unhappiness has something to do with your virginity, when they are not at all related. I haven't given you advice. I've told you that in a good relationship your sexual history is not a factor. If someone shames you or insults you, they're not your friend and they're certainly not your lover. If you want that kind of good relation…	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/20 07:44 PM
2	Virgin shame has ruined dating for me. I can't be optimistic about new romantic opportunities simply because so many women find virginity a turn off It sounds like you need mental health care honestly, you're really unhappy and whatever pain you're feeling is blinding you to optimistic messages, to good feelings, and the understanding that people giving you advice, even if it's hurtful to hear, is simply people trying to help you with a problem. I definitely don't think being a virgin in your early 20's is your problem, I think it's something deeper that you should work out so you can see good things again, because you seem dark and miserabl…	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/20 06:12 PM
2	Virgin shame has ruined dating for me. I can't be optimistic about new romantic opportunities simply because so many women find virginity a turn off It sounds like you rather have validation than hear that your own attitude can fix your problem. I mean, that's fine. We all need to vent at times, but seriously your embarrassment and demoralization is being generated inside your head. It can be overcome and defeated with your own thinking process. Nobody owes you anything, you didn't mess up, society doesn't have a terrible problem, nobody is to blame, not you nor others, nor does it need to be a crippling issue unless you cling to it. Be wary…	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/20 05:18 PM
5	Virgin shame has ruined dating for me. I can't be optimistic about new romantic opportunities simply because so many women find virginity a turn off You're facing a giant problem in your own head. You're hung up on potential outcomes, possible problems, probabilities. If you're in a good relationship, they will care far less about your sexual history than what kind of person you are to be around. It's just not that big of a deal unless you have a sexual dysfunction. If a girl likes you, if you are close enough to get naked together, it's because you both want to be close and intimate, and if you're hung up worrying that you're not going to "…	/r/ExRedPill	30/03/20 03:15 PM
3	Autism, TRP and alternatives There are a lot of high-functioning people with autism who manage to succeed socially, have families, have happy lives. They don’t get there by being assholes, which is what TRP boils down to, being a selfish prick. Don’t do that to yourself, you will deny yourself so many wonderful opportunities for a loving, happy relationship with a kind person. Rethink everything your doing and your ideas about your condition, get extra support and seek out the wisdom and advise of others who have had to mee…	/r/ExRedPill	15/03/20 04:38 AM
9	Reading FDS and pinkpillfeminism subreddits as self sabotage It's one of the easiest things in the world to find someone who hates you. There are billions of people in the world, so there will be inevitable places where you can find people who hate something arbitrary about you and want to vent about it. As a girl, trust me, I know this all too well, except in my case, and probably the cases of more than a few, it's a lot harder to avoid those kinds of people and places. But you have to be a living embodiment of that meme of the kid putting the stick in h…	/r/ExRedPill	13/03/20 01:15 PM
2	We should stop bullying nice guys. Nice guys do not make themselves and are products of mixed messaging and upbringing. Everything you're describing is as much a personal issue as a societal issue. I'm not saying it's okay, but I warn you that you need to realize that what you're describing is a bad relationship, not a bad world. I had to learn this as well. Too many young people, again men and women, see a bad story or have a bad thing happen to them and assume the world is bad. If you assume badness from everyone, you are exactly what you're preaching against. And by drawing equability between racism and relati…	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/20 02:38 PM
2	We should stop bullying nice guys. Nice guys do not make themselves and are products of mixed messaging and upbringing. I've been through this for decades. Advocating is a nuanced thing and you're going to get attacked for it and you're going to get depressed as a result and you're going to hurt if you don't do it right and don't recognize your own personal feelings at stake. Trust me, I've been fighting this fight for years, and as a feminist i do care and I AM telling you how to do this properly. If you are trying to help people, and you don't give the right considerations about it, you're going to be labeled a…	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/20 02:24 PM
2	We should stop bullying nice guys. Nice guys do not make themselves and are products of mixed messaging and upbringing. I read this whole thing and read all your comments here. Maybe try to talk about this over on /r/menslib, a productive community that actually cares about guys from what I've seen. But I warn you, you have to get that chip off your shoulder. It sounds like you're trying to be an advocate for guys who have no social experience. That's great. But lets not fool ourselves into thinking that there aren't also plenty of people, men and women alike, who are selfish. People have the propensity to be bad…	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/20 02:10 PM
4	Women at work Wtf this isn’t a dating advice sub this is for guys who are trying to get rid of toxic attitudes like Redpill. Just talk to her and ask if she wants to go out I mean how hard is it if she already flirts with you and you talk every day. Have fun and get to know her.	/r/ExRedPill	14/01/20 04:50 AM
1	Can anyone relate to this or am I alone here? Lol do all the reflecting you want, don’t let that shit run your life though. Bro.	/r/ExRedPill	20/12/19 03:15 AM
8	All women are submissive Woman here, I like different kinds of sex depending on how I feel. Unless my partner doesn’t make me feel like a human and expects particular, generalized behaviors from me, then no sex. None.	/r/ExRedPill	06/11/19 01:02 AM
8	Go fired after walking out of therapist Office. Is there any point in trying to be attractive anymore. It’s a temp agency, it’s not like you got kicked out of a board room. The bigger deal is you got meds so take them. Fuck “attracting women” or feeling hurt about your temp agency, you’re on a road to getting better feeling and that’s a step far too few people will take, so focus on that and remember that any discouragement you feel along the way is your unhealthy brain attacking you. Once you feel better you’ll get a better job than a shitty temp agency, you’ll want to socialize, you’ll meet peo…	/r/ExRedPill	05/09/19 06:47 AM
15	How to ask a girl straight-up that I want to feel her breast without creeping her out Everything you’re thinking, go train yourself not to think that way and don’t go outdoors until your brain works again.	/r/ExRedPill	03/09/19 06:29 AM
3	How to be more attractive to woman Your biggest problem is not your appearance, but the fact that you’re trying to attract girls who are just as young, insecure and unsure of what they want as you. In fact, speaking from my own experience as one, teenage girls are dumb. So are boys. So there’s very little to worry about in trying new things, talking to girls, getting rejected, changing your look or your way of speaking and so on. Nothing you do right now is going to really matter so think of this as your “newbie zone” where you c…	/r/ExRedPill	22/08/19 11:59 PM
2	Communities like the red pill, but less red pill-like. That’s a much more concise and relatable answer, I’ll even try to find what you’re looking for, I’ve seen a lot of “was a neckbeard” recovery stories, accounts of growing up and succeeding at goals and such, I’m about 75% certain there is a place where such things are compiled but not sure.	/r/ExRedPill	22/08/19 03:51 PM
5	Communities like the red pill, but less red pill-like. See, your question and follow up made it sound like you’re looking for a community to make you feel a certain way more than anything, and there’s a big difference between learning self improvement and encouragement and just getting validation.	/r/ExRedPill	22/08/19 03:37 PM
7	Communities like the red pill, but less red pill-like. And maybe you aren’t getting the point of my reply, which you are welcome to take or leave, but assuming a lack of understanding is not the best look. Let me use a condensed version: you’re not going to find exactly what makes you feel good online, nor should you.	/r/ExRedPill	22/08/19 03:20 PM
18	Communities like the red pill, but less red pill-like. I think you’re looking for a sense of community, not ideology. Make friends and get the fuck off the internet, everything here is toxic if you’re toxic waste barrel, to spin a phrase. Start filling yourself with better stuff, stuff you won’t find by reading people pretending to know anything on reddit or anywhere online. You’re already getting infected with emotion-canceling internet speak like “cuck.” Don’t let yourself get filled any more waste. Want to know how to better yourself physically? …	/r/ExRedPill	22/08/19 01:53 PM
11	Isn't oneities a normal thing? If you think that’s remotely true you’ve had some bad experiences or a complete lack of experience in adult, emotional relationships.	/r/ExRedPill	04/08/19 08:56 AM
1	I have recovered from the red pill, but I still have a problem: I don't understand (heterosexual) women's sexuality at all now. K.	/r/ExRedPill	29/07/19 07:33 PM
4	Question about gender differences in breakups Also get outside and take your meds and get off this sub.	/r/ExRedPill	29/07/19 12:49 PM
2	I have recovered from the red pill, but I still have a problem: I don't understand (heterosexual) women's sexuality at all now. I don't feel like asking my women friends about this because it just seems like a very weird conversation that they wouldn't be comfortable to have with me Oh, I wouldn't mean talking to friends, rather the person you're dating. I mean, I've always been of the belief that if you're both willing to get nekky together then you should also be able to talk about it. Many people don't though because they're shy or awkward talking about what they like, but once someone does start that conversation it …	/r/ExRedPill	29/07/19 01:55 AM
13	I have recovered from the red pill, but I still have a problem: I don't understand (heterosexual) women's sexuality at all now. Okay, as a woman, here's what you need to know about what all women find attractive in men: Ask them. That's right, the best way to know what someone likes is to talk to them. Stop trying to be sexually attractive to a girl right away, instead be generally attractive, and this can just be by being a good conversationalist. Part of what makes a woman feel comfortable enough to be sexual and attracted to a man is by feeling safe. A lot of guys get really confused by this principle because they see…	/r/ExRedPill	28/07/19 07:14 PM
28	How do I even begin to find a gf when I have autism? You sound like people warm up to you when they get to know you, and probably especially when they know what issues you're dealing with, so that's obviously the first path, getting to know more people. There are a lot of autistic people who learn to have and maintain a relationship and family, so maybe also consider autism support groups and others who have been down this road before. I know redpill is going to seem attractive to you because it lays out a lot of systems and rules and seems to mak…	/r/ExRedPill	28/07/19 04:53 PM
2	TRP beliefs destroying a beautiful relationship - need help I'm glad something I said helped, I really am. I'm a girl, I love my relationship with my guy and really, genuinely like men, probably close to how guys like girls. It's natural, it doesn't need to be complicated. I'm sad so many guys are screwing themselves over with all of these internet groups that think they found some answer for a problem that doesn't exist. To your question: let's say I change my beliefs but the thoughts keep coming They will, but that's not you, that's your brain. One of …	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/19 08:28 AM
7	TRP beliefs destroying a beautiful relationship - need help Evolutionary psychology the way redpillers and their ilk use it is a load of steaming pony poo. You can't come up with a conclusion that makes you feel a certain way and then look for the evidence to support it, that's backwards from how science works. That's how religion works. Everything you wrote down may be true in some cases with some people here and there and some of it can be accurate, especially if you're looking for those things, and it sounds like you are. You might not think it's in y…	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/19 06:28 AM
9	Red Pill Nihilism. You’re depressed. Depression twists your world view to the worst case scenarios about everything. All of these redpill tropes you’re describing are like cartoons of reality, punchlines to dark fantasies. In the real world men and women of all kinds meet and interact and even love each other and women love men and don’t want bad things to them. Are there shitty people? Yes but you’re not obligated to suffer through shitty people, especially because it makes you weird if that’s what you’re expecti…	/r/ExRedPill	23/06/19 11:21 PM
2	Negative belief about women and sexuality that I'm struggling with So the idea that men no longer "have it" when we get into our late 20s feels pretty insulting. You're creating problems in your own head and allowing them to have power over you.	/r/ExRedPill	25/02/19 05:02 AM
2	Negative belief about women and sexuality that I'm struggling with There is a very toxic redpill mindset that women generally want "two" different men, one to have sex with and one to marry. It's fucking offending honestly. It seems like an idea that was formed from a spiteful little shit who got cheated on and instead of learning from the experience decided to infect other males with his toxic hatred. People want all kinds of things, relationships exist on a vast spectrum. Most decent people get to a point in their life pretty quick that they want to start inv…	/r/ExRedPill	25/02/19 01:25 AM
2	Negative belief about women and sexuality that I'm struggling with Jesus. lol that’s all so far from my own reality that I don’t even know how to begin deconstructing it. Get off the internet and get to know some girls and ask what they find attractive in a man. You’re gonna get things like beards and security and experience at life and being able to handle themselves. That’s generally what most girls over teenage years will like, but most of all we like guys who don’t give a fuck about what society thinks they should look like or be and just wants to live life…	/r/ExRedPill	24/02/19 06:13 PM
2	Something about the men of TRP and MGTOW that almost no one mentions. Seriously I want to talk to you more. I don’t think that you are a bad person but you’ve probably dealt with a lot of tiresome shit and that’s the chink in the armor that redpill and the like prey on. I’m also well aware of the idea in these spaces that you need to avoid female fishermen and that you’re not supposed to trust a fish, because only a “fish catcher” knows all the tricks. Again, I’m not ignorant, I’ve been around a few and I don’t want to presume you haven’t but I also want to give g…	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/19 04:38 PM
1	Something about the men of TRP and MGTOW that almost no one mentions. Thank you.	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/19 06:53 AM
5	Something about the men of TRP and MGTOW that almost no one mentions. I can't even... I mean, really? The whole community is intimidated by women with opinions, it's why they make up all these rules for manipulating and controlling women. It's the foundation of the whole thing existing. If I were a guy and used the word "fuck" in a reply, you wouldn't have blinked. You and I both know this. I am familiar with TRP, and the moment I smell it on a guy I don't get near it because I want real relationships, with people who are honest and open and have human emotions. A…	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/19 06:49 AM
6	Something about the men of TRP and MGTOW that almost no one mentions. Sorry my cursing offended you, I forget how delicate and sensitive alpha males are. TRP calls abuse by different names to make it palatable to naive and simple minded men who don’t want to deal with real big person adult emotions. The kinds of people who see a “female” with strong opinions and strong language and get so intimidated they have to invent stories in their mind about what kind of person she must be and other assumptions. But I’m sure none of that sounds at all familiar to you.	/r/ExRedPill	17/02/19 11:08 PM
1	Something about the men of TRP and MGTOW that almost no one mentions. K	/r/ExRedPill	17/02/19 01:21 PM
12	Something about the men of TRP and MGTOW that almost no one mentions. Abusive and controlling and with really backwards ideas about roles in relationships with profound distrust for me because of my gender... FUCKING CLOSE ENOUGH Jesus you fuckers are so dense and defensive when someone calls out your little fantasy club.	/r/ExRedPill	17/02/19 01:20 PM
16	Something about the men of TRP and MGTOW that almost no one mentions. One guy who got close to me was typically redpill in that he didn’t trust me, always tried to control who I was friends with and how I talked to other people, thought I was the naive one and thought every other guy was trying to get with me, even casual friends I had long before I met him. The relationship didn’t really get anywhere because I saw he was potentially abusive. But he displayed a shocking level of denial about what a good relationship is supposed to be like. He was never able to obj…	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/19 09:51 PM
3	Struggling to believe current societal conditions can foster an environment where women give love to men Thank you. I feel bad for him but he's definitely got some issues and is trying feebly to undermine... everything, everywhere.	/r/ExRedPill	01/12/15 05:08 PM
5	Struggling to believe current societal conditions can foster an environment where women give love to men He does nothing but post on reddit about how much he hates women. Look at comment history and time stamps... I'm estimating 5k - 10k words every day about how horrible women are. So probably not a troll... more likely someone with deep mental problems.	/r/ExRedPill	29/11/15 10:44 PM
2	Struggling to believe current societal conditions can foster an environment where women give love to men A lot of what you're saying sounded really odd or contradictory to me, so before I decided to try to piece together a puzzle and figure out why you have these ideas or what I could say to make you realize that your viewpoint is somehow radically skewed by a personal filter, I looked through your comments. Yikes. I'm sorry you have some serious issues that will prevent you from ever establishing a healthy relationship with the opposite sex unless you actively accept that your negative perspective…	/r/ExRedPill	29/11/15 09:08 PM
7	Struggling to believe current societal conditions can foster an environment where women give love to men Fix your depression! I'm a girl and love men. I'm sure just saying that makes you think of some kind of stereotypical redpill vision of a "slut" but the truth is I'm just a fairly average a heterosexual girl who enjoys to get to know (good) men, to fantasize about romantic relationships, to have love and be loved, which I'm sure you have at some point or another. I have had boyfriends and loved deeply at least once or twice. But I also have my own needs, which are as deep and nuanced as what you…	/r/ExRedPill	13/11/15 07:42 PM