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The people on tiktok are so god damn cringey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:40 PM
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I was kind of shocked when I realized how totally normalized this is now. I don't kink-shame but the degradation pr0n is all over the place now and it's really, really unsettling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:59 PM
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Men who have a Discord and won't let you see what's on it, who they talk to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:00 PM
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Loves to play devil's advocate. THIS!!!! I just said it as well, but absolutely this. Any man that can't allow me to have a negative opinion/reaction to something and validate it.... oooof, big turn off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:58 PM
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YES, or says shit like "you clearly hate me, don't you?" Anything to pivot the situation so they can be a victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:57 PM
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This is really weird and random but any man that idealizes people, can't allow you to have a negative opinion about someone. Let me explain: In my relationship with my ex, I was always the cautious, overly critical one who would really size people up when they came into my life. I've always been this way and thusly, I have pretty good perceptions of other people. Whenever I met someone that my ex knew somehow (a coworker, an old friend) if I got bad vibes from that person I'd openly say that the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:54 PM
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Oh my GOD. My ex was totally the type that wants this kind of girl. I swear to god...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:41 PM
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That isn't a van though, that's a Winnebago and those things are 50,000+ and come with a bathroom in it!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:40 PM
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Girl, that is the 30 year old man's dream. Every guy I know wants to do this and I can not disagree more with it. Fuck alla that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:40 PM
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I don't know if I would. That sounds uncomfortable and I doubt I'd ever want to "chill" in his van. So yeah, probably not. But this is so funny to me because my ex-husband wants to live in a van. I don't get the appeal of that. I never want to do that - ever. I like my air conditioning and my bathroom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:38 PM
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I have no earthly idea, to be honest. I have theories. A lot of kids growing up feeling unloved, not seeing a good healthy relationship and no idea how to be in one. A lot of narcissism and selfishness brought about by our culture? I don’t quite know. I wish I knew the answer. The thing I see more and more often that seems to be a trend is that a lot of men don’t grow up - period. They are infantilized for many years and grow up finding women to take care of their lazy asses instead of wanting t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:13 AM
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Couldn't have said it better myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:42 PM
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First of all, no. Second of all, NOPE. I'd argue that it would be the opposite. When you don't have someone to cater to you 24/7 and are left to your own devices you have to figure it out for yourself. Yeah, maybe you're not the with regulating when things have to get done all the time and let things "go" more often but you know when and how to do it. I was a latchkey kid from the time I was in 4th grade (by choice) and because of that, I learned how to do a lot by myself. I became independent a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:20 PM
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The trick is finding someone who feels lucky to have you. That's it. That's the secret. You have to find someone who considers you a marvel, loves the good and bad parts and thinks you're amazing. Not someone who will take any and all abuse, but someone who is fascinated and intrigued by you so much that they want to stick around and read the next chapter. The problem is so many people (especially men) these days look at women as obligations, people who take up their time and resources, etc. A l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:26 PM
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HAH, wow I didn't know women were doing this. That is insanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:42 AM
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I mean.... she may have been that way publicly but that doesn't mean behind closed doors she didn't ride his ass or have it out with him. Also, you're saying she should have seen it coming. Who SEES their spouse murdering them coming? I mean, unless she overhears him on the phone with the hitman? And that he would come after his own kids? No, m'am. No one can see this. Pyschopaths and sociopaths are good at manipulating people and wearing many faces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:53 PM
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YES. THIS. Women do not get a pass. My ex-husband started talking to this woman online. We were moving towards separation but still married, nothing had been signed, he was still living with me, etc. WE WERE STILL INTIMATE. When I found out about it, I reached out to this stupid ass girl to tell her "he's married, you need to back off". I had it out with him, obviously. She told me "of course, girl code, I wish you the best" yadda yadda and then 4 days later had added him back, unblocked to him,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:44 PM
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People are god damn crazy. I didn't know people like that existed. So, they're excusing murder of his pregnant wife and 2 children because she was "annoying" and he was "pushed". What did his kids do? I better not meet any of these nutjobs on the street because they're going to get these hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:40 PM
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This is true. I made out with this Catholic school kid at his house because he was super into me and it was TERRIBLE. He put so much pressure on my mouth, it was SO aggressive. About 5 mins in I couldn't take it anymore and I pushed him away saying it was not cool and I wanted to stop. I just said something like "this is hurting and it's not fun" and he got pissed. When I left the next day he told all his friends I SUCKED at kissing, I was a whore, etc. Turned it around on me. So then all his fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:36 PM
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I feel like the women who do it are doing it out of necessity, therefore they're doing it because they have to feed their families. The men who sleep with prosts are usually doing it because they love to sleep with other women, love non-committal sex and like to give their money to strangers. Not even the same in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:33 PM
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This ALWAYS gets me about men. It's ok for men (totally ok) to mistreat and shame women for how they look, never date women who they don't find attractive or ticks ALL the boxes, etc. But GOD FORBID a woman puts down her foot about a really weird and frankly grotesque fetish that her boyfriend/husband/whoever has it's something to be ashamed of? No. You're not saying "you're an awful person for that fetish", you're saying you can't jive with that and it really upsets/grosses you out. That's OK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:23 PM
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Ohhhhhh myyyy goooooddddd The amount of people, including women, who have tried to shove the idea of polyamory/swinging/open-relationships to me really disgusts me and it's this insidious thought that keeps cropping up being disguised as being "open-minded". No, my mind isn't open to that. It doesn't have to be. If you're looking to freely fuck whoever, whenever, you don't need to be in a relationship with me. Period. Why do I have to be open-minded? I know what I want and don't want. I don't ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:14 PM
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Holy hell... 😔 your poor mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:43 PM
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Wow. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:33 PM
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PREACH! As a mom of two boys I work extra hard to try to instill very basic and fundamental respect of women in my kids. One is 13 and I always tell him I’ll never not call him out if he treats a girl disrespectfully. But if he does, and he most likely will screw up, don’t anyone look at me. I did my damndest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:32 PM
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Everywhere I read it says twin flames are like a love connection that is “otherworldly” and it’s the missing piece of you 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 02:03 PM
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You hit the nail on the HEAD. My ex husband got involved in the spiritual community and you want to know how many women in the short time he’s been interested in it have told him they’re his twin flame? Meanwhile he gaslit me and emotionally abused me for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:39 AM
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OH MY GOD. It’s even worse when your husband turns to spirituality and starts spouting the same exact bullshit. He “found his twin flame” and it wasn’t me. Then she abruptly dumped him. We are now divorced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:37 AM
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But asking forgiveness of a victim is asking for them to take ownership of what was done to them, when it's not theirs to own or accept, acknowledge or deal with. People should get over the idea that we have to forgive anyone. We don't have to live with our fists clenched, sweating, enraged but we also don't have to FORGIVE anyone for anything at all if it's not in our hearts to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:08 PM
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To me, there is a big difference between people who are clearly established adults dating people older (30 year old dating a 40 year old) and the phenomenon of very young women in their early 20's and late teens dating men 10+ years older than them. One is definitely an age gap, the other is super predatory. What do you have in common with a girl that is 22 when you're 32? Hopefully not much, or else you're doing life wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:53 PM
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Smoothbrain, LMFAO! But also, it's denegrating themselves. So, you can be tricked and manipulated into doing something you really don't want to do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:39 PM
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This is what my ex did to me. Tried to string me along for a while, whilst talking to another girl, 10 years younger than him, that he met over social media. He calls her "his friend" but then has 3 hour phone conversations with this girl in the middle of the night. Absolutely revolting. He was stringing me along just in case this new chick doesn't pan out. Oh well, not happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:13 PM
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Because it's so "wimpy" to need your girlfriend or be attached to anyone. Being attached is a female emotion, apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:35 PM
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As an entire culture, we definitely have been raised to accept it. To accept it, take it, and blame ourselves for it. That's the best part. It's OUR faults.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:18 PM
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I mean, there's a huge difference between salivating over someone and you know, making it a hobby to check out other people and people who literally just acknowledge other people are attractive and go on with their day. When I'm in a committed relationship other people just aren't important to me. I don't make a man the center of my universe but I'm definitely focused. Men who aren't focused can go be with someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:09 AM
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I feel this. Getting out of a 13 year relationship and I am not going to be loyal to anyone until it’s time to really be loyal. Tried that and it didn’t work first time around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:25 PM
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