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| 14 | Let's have some fun! - People on these sub often point out dealing with 'uninteresting men/women' as a struggle when dating and relationships. So let's see... What makes someone interesting (or uninteresting) in your eyes? *provide examples! | Discussion | cutiebby | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:03 AM |
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| 2 | What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women?I don't know how old you are but probably at your familar places where you feel comfortable in, if you're a regular you'll probably meet new people. But don't be in places just looking around for who to date, be there for the hobby, the entertainment, the compromise, the activity or whatever helps you develop as a person. School, work, gyms, friends meet-ups or small parties, clubs for common interests, cafeterias, etc are some common places | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 01:25 PM |
| 1 | What are the signs that a man doesn’t “get” women?It's probably because you're acting like dating apps are the only way to get a relationship, you won't find that on a place where the main principle is to choose people based on their appearance for one night stands, if it all starts the wrong way you can expect for it to magically get any better. Try dating irl and you'll likely find much more different women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever get insecure when artificial women are considered beautiful?I do compare myself because a lot of them are gorgeous but I don't feel bad about it anymore because I understand that It wouldn't be fair to think badly of myself for not having a look that is only achievable with surgery/fillers/Photoshop, etc. When I see a "perfect" woman irl and I start to feel jealous I just prefer to think that they had surgery and/or a lot of money for the sake of my own mental health, most of the times it turns out they do. Then I just think about myself and how much I l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/22 06:29 AM |
| 5 | Women love it when men impress themSorry to tell you but you don't keep your standards THAT high if you stayed on that date long enough to see this guy eat his boogers more than once... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 01:00 PM |
| 3 | depression is getting in the way of my goalsThank you for this post. I've realized that femininty for me is not just being beautiful inside and outside, having a pretty face, cooking delicious meals, being full of positivity and smelling like roses all day. It is too facing my problems, recognizing my rage and dreading thoughts, facing my fears, it's my will to live, my attempts at being a better person every day. These weeks had been hell for me and i felt so scared, uncomfortable about my body and face, disturbed by small things and uns… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/22 09:02 PM |
| 2 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?Glad you liked it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 07:53 PM |
| 4 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?I think some guys interpreted this as in "if you have one of these then I'm not taking you into account and you're ugly" I mean, sure, some women will discard men for small details as these but smart women won't, maybe we don't like your haircut and your clothes are weird but you are interesting, funny, charming, masculine, etc. of course I'm going to want to date you and maybe as we go further into our relationship I can recommend something that fits better for you, I think that counts as accep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 03:44 AM |
| 8 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?Yeah, I bet no man is going to be squeaky clean after a 500 mile motorcycle ride, repairing a broken water main, fixing their car or whatever situation in which is obvious they are going to get dirty, and it is attractive to us because it's a clear display of masculinity. Now, a well worn jacket can be a statement piece too but I'm talking about an everyday casual look, for example on a date, you don't want a man that is covered in mud or sweat no matter how adventurous and manly he is, you know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 03:11 AM |
| 34 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?I want to elaborate about being unkempt because i've met a lot of men who think that just means not showering or doing basic hygiene habits such as brushing your teeth, keeping your nails clean and short and so on, of course that's important but i think many men don't go over that. Even if guys are clean, being unkempt also means their clothes don't compliment the body type, aren't ironed, have lint, are stained, torn or deformed. The hair looks dry, damaged, tangled, has a bad haircut or styled… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 08:30 PM |
| 7 | Two Weeks in and Too soon?I think it means he likes you! But two weeks isn't enough time to get to know someone and it's much less to decide if you want to date. So don't tell him you want to go further, even if you're already excited about that idea. I would also like to suggest that you take some distance, I understand that spending time with someone you like is tempting but I wouldn't recommend you meeting with him every night or spending hours texting/talking on the phone as the excitement can wear off quickly. Let h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/22 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Describe someone you initially found physically unattractive, who over time became sexually attractive to you. What did he do that made you attracted to him?I wouldn't call it a fetish cause it's not something sexual and I don't feel attracted to every fat guy. But before him I didn't find myself attracted to these type of guys, he looked pretty much like this singer: https://www.instagram.com/p/CXxA2xXA-Uv/?utm_medium=copy_link | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 02:02 AM |
| 15 | Describe someone you initially found physically unattractive, who over time became sexually attractive to you. What did he do that made you attracted to him?My ex boyfriend was fat, had an ugly unkept beard and a bad sense of style but I started liking him physically because he had a sexy voice and vast knowledge about social sciences, literature and philosophy. Now I find myself somehow attracted to fat men with beards, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Looking for suggestions on feminine literature!Thank you! ⛄ | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Looking for suggestions on feminine literature!Sorry, I don't have any recs :( but I wanted to ask, what do you recommend by Dostoevsky? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 02:24 AM |
| 2 | How long should I wait before sleeping with him?Even if you like him a lot, remember that if you sleep with him very early into the relationship, he could think that you are easy and won't take you seriously. Wait enough time for him to show that he is interested in getting to know you and is willing to respect your limits, that process takes about 3-5 months. If he wants to have sex and you ask for him to wait and he does without getting angry or weird, it's a good sign. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/21 06:53 PM |
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