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Being lean and being confident are the two things that every guy can control that make a huge difference.
/r/seduction06/07/26 05:28 PM
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Date and cold approach are totally different in this regard. Cold approach you want to make your mark and leave on a high, too early if you will. You should be gone before the awkward silence has a chance to pop up. On a date, silences will happen, let it linger for a bit. I have a few conversation starting thought provoking questions/statements that I got to that keep the date on her toes and genuinely help me get to know her.
/r/seduction02/07/26 10:05 PM
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There are major overlaps but “closing” is unique to game.
/r/seduction01/07/26 11:23 PM
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Treat them like regular people. Be charming and teasingly forward.
/r/seduction01/07/26 08:37 PM
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It’s not a pickup line it’s a simple opener, hey I like your shoes. The theory is less thought more action. This makes one less thing to over think, one less excuse. If you are marketing this towards guys with approach anxiety, they likely don’t have the skill and confidence to use a spicy pickup line on a random girl.
/r/seduction13/06/26 02:10 PM
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The user puts in a keyword and the app generates a harmless, simple opener with that topic. Simple instructions are easy to follow.
/r/seduction13/06/26 01:53 AM
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If I think about a specific girl as someone I want and I build the approach up in my mind, then yes I have anxiety. If I give no fucks, don’t overthink and just say some friendly or dumb shit naturally, I don’t have anxiety. The art is kind of not giving a fuck, as opposed to overthinking, and the anxiety goes away. That’s why I say keep the approach small, you don’t have to be some instagram rizz master with a hidden cam.
/r/seduction05/06/26 02:21 AM
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Another thing about getting over approach anxiety is that you don’t have to go all-in right from the outset. Just make a quick quip or strike up a conversation about something dumb. See how they react and go from there.
/r/seduction04/06/26 02:08 AM
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I think it’s just the new name for being charming (chaRISma) and making others enjoy your presence. I think internet culture equates rizz with being pretty forward about romantic interest in girls, but I think that only works well for a very small number of guys. Just always be charming, if you need lessons then watch interviews with guys like Ryan Gosling, Glen Powell and Craig Ferguson (Craig is really good being on the edge of jokey but earnestly sexual). I wouldn’t advise copying them but I …
/r/seduction28/05/26 03:01 AM
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This is a huge point. Being comfortable with lingering eye contact is huge and girls pick up on it. You don’t want to stare all the time. Pick your spots and make it intentional and unmistakable.
/r/seduction24/05/26 01:31 PM
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Going by myself, in the right mindset, is better than going with certain of my friends. Some friends just get in the way and make things harder. Some friends bring the whole mood and vibe up.
/r/seduction23/05/26 05:35 AM
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Disagree. Be the best looking version of yourself. You expect her to be.
/r/seduction19/05/26 10:20 PM
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It’s better to be situation specific, but you can repeat a specific theme. I feel like noticing their clothes, in a non sexual way, is a pretty safe opener. I wouldn’t comment on a tight fitting shirt or that her ass looks great in those pants, I’d say those shoes are dope. Your jacket is wild. If she’s wearing a graphic tee make a comment on that. Has a cool hat, etc. Girls like being complimented for their style, if she’s receptive to that compliment then the real trial begins (and where pract…
/r/seduction14/05/26 01:42 PM
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I’d say you can go as high as 20% if you are strong (big chest, big arms, wide back, big shoulders). But the weaker you are, the better you look with lower body fat.
/r/seduction10/01/26 11:27 PM
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Talk to girls like they are cute co-workers you run into in the office kitchen. Say hi, make them laugh or smile, quick small talk, tell them you’ll see them later, and be on your way.
/r/seduction10/09/25 09:01 PM
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Agree. File this under, Always Be Charming.
/r/seduction07/06/25 09:13 PM
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Pre-made lines are almost always corny and don’t work. You have to say something casually and low-key. You’re just opening the door. Once you do, if they want to walk through, you will know.
/r/seduction06/06/25 12:05 AM
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Same.
/r/seduction11/05/25 07:50 PM
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39 with a 24 year old GF. Older dudes can be low-key major catches, it just isn’t readily obvious to most girls. I’m in good shape, good job, good living situation and decent car. I have disposable income for dinner, and fun dates. I have my own hobbies and friends so I’m not constantly up her ass, and I’m happy to be on my own. I don’t think she could ever go back to dating dudes her own age, she’s basically said as much.
/r/seduction01/04/25 12:58 PM
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If you’re worried about it, all of your energy should go into pleasing her. Your nut is a distant second. Take your time with her. Listen to her body. And get in there with your face.
/r/seduction18/03/25 02:50 AM
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Tell her you’re interested but act as if you aren’t.
/r/seduction22/01/25 02:11 PM
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Bro, always.
/r/seduction08/11/24 10:11 PM
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Clean everything (most importantly bathroom, sheets and couch). Tidy up, soft lighting, I like champagne (or Prosecco), soft music, and I like to play a simple game (like go fish or mancala) as it requires interaction, offers plenty of escalation opportunities, and is also a distraction if y’all are feeling nervous.
/r/seduction30/10/24 02:07 AM
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I get soft rejected all the time. I’ll strike up a conversation or make a comment and see what kind of response I get. A lot of times if it’s neutral or negative and I just move on (soft rejection). If I get positive feedback then I’ll keep going and that will usually turn into my going all in, which at that point if I get rejected I would consider it a hard rejection and it does happen, maybe I missed the signs or maybe she actually does have a boyfriend. But the hard rejection happens at a muc…
/r/seduction26/10/24 09:07 PM
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The worst thing that’s gunna happen is that the girls you want to get with but haven’t, you still aren’t gunna get with. You don’t lose anything by not getting them.
/r/seduction03/10/24 01:43 PM
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Kind guy game, for sure. Nice guy, I don’t think so unless your value is clearly and obviously through the roof.
/r/seduction13/09/24 08:04 PM
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Mostly yes. But. Sometimes no.
/r/seduction06/09/24 12:16 AM
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Just look at her and lean in. She’ll make it easy if she wants it too.
/r/seduction04/09/24 02:34 AM
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Make her want it. Kiss her neck, rub her legs/butt, etc. then escalate if she responds well.
/r/seduction31/08/24 03:23 PM
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It helps if you become a “regular” at a couple prime spots. Building report with the staff gives you social credit and girls notice. I try to position myself physically so where I am near potential targets so that I’m not making an across the bar move every time. That way I can make a quick comment or two about things that are happening around us. For instance when I go to rooftop or deck bars. I try to hang near the place where people take selfies, which I can offer to help with and naturally s…
/r/seduction23/08/24 02:49 AM
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Just do it. Grab a high traffic bar seat at a high traffic bar. Be friendly to everyone, especially the bartenders. Order something to nibble on, preferably something clean (no chicken wings) that won’t get stuck in your teeth. I like to alternate beer and diet soda so I stay in the groove. Confident body language always and when you make contact with someone, be confident and don’t linger. I like to say a quick quip or two and see if they engage me from there. I recommend this with everyone, no…
/r/seduction22/08/24 11:45 PM
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I’d friendly pull back. She has your insta and number. Post cool shit that you are doing and maybe she will reach out in the future. Overextending at this point will gain you nothing.
/r/seduction22/07/24 08:58 PM
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House parties are significantly easier in my experience. There is a baseline level of assumed social vetting if you are at a house party. Also a house party can give multiple different experiences so you can lean into the one you are most comfortable with.
/r/seduction09/07/24 10:40 PM
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A good rule for me is not have oral/vaginal sex with girls that won’t suck/lick your finger after it’s been in them. If they don’t want it near their mouth after it’s been inside, you don’t want your dick or mouthy near it either.
/r/seduction05/07/24 04:12 AM
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It’s more about the person that is doing the cheating vs the partner.
/r/seduction04/07/24 10:17 PM
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There are things that you can do to nurture the romantic feelings between yourself and her, but if she’s hard out, it’s really really difficult. You cannot be clingy or needy. Your interested in her, show it, but don’t over show it. You have places to go, people to see and good times to have. Don’t linger around her even if she shows interest. You cannot treat her like a priority right off the bat. I know it sounds weird and manipulative but it’s true. Treating a woman like a priority happens mu…
/r/seduction03/07/24 11:51 PM
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Just be a good friend and the spark may still burn down the line, or it may not. Can’t control people like that.
/r/seduction17/06/24 11:17 PM
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Being socially “suave” requires practice. You have to figure out what works for you and how to play up your natural strengths. Be interested but don’t chase.
/r/seduction06/06/24 01:07 AM
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Girls want to have fun, so you should try to have fun with them. If they are responsive to that, great. If not, try again.
/r/seduction24/05/24 02:47 PM
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It only matters if you think it does, or if she does. You got the date so apparently it doesn’t matter so don’t think about it.
/r/seduction23/05/24 04:28 PM
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There is lying to get sex and lying to keep a conversation loose, fun and playful. I don’t think the latter is a major issue.
/r/seduction19/05/24 04:30 AM
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Just tell him you think he’s cute and want to kiss him. If he says no, now you know. If he says yes, great!
/r/seduction01/04/24 07:36 PM
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I think that is a wise move. Good luck!
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:38 PM
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Needy and the truth is a thin line, especially early in a relationship. I think being honest and direct are good traits, but say your piece and let it be. Keep your message (singular) short and confident and don’t keep hitting back if no response.
/r/seduction31/03/24 10:54 PM
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I think you had an opportunity to be more direct. Something like, “hey really enjoyed our time together last night and would like to see you again.”
/r/seduction31/03/24 09:47 PM
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This may be the best, and simplest, advice I’ve seen in here. Bravo.
/r/seduction16/03/24 05:52 PM
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Don’t listen to that. How tall are you, keeps it playful and light. Most girls love that goofy shit if they are already into you.
/r/seduction14/01/24 03:28 PM
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This is not the onion?
/r/MensRights06/07/20 11:42 PM
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I think we just disagree. The women could have been paid more for international duty by the USSF and had the NWSL pay their league salaries. But they elected not to do that. From a pure statistics standpoint, you are correct. But this isn’t pure statistics. To me, it’s disingenuous for them to compare 2 to 4 (Without including 1) because they specifically chose to have their 2 income lower. They took a discount on 2 to have their 1 income paid by USSF and have better benefits and be more stable.…
/r/MensRights01/08/19 12:39 PM
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The USSF has nothing to do with the men’s second source of income, which is irrelevant to any discussion regarding the women’s complaint of pay from the USSF. The women agreed to essentially be paid less for one job to have better pay and benefits in the other, which makes the comparison relevant.
/r/MensRights01/08/19 01:17 AM
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The women chose to get paid from one source for both jobs in the last CBA. It’s one agreement. Comparing the women’s CBA to the men’s CBA means you compare a + b to B, because the men only have B (the men to not have C in this Scenario because the USSF doesn’t pay their club salaries). It’s like saying I’ll do two jobs for the price of one and then complaining that one of your jobs is underpaid because the guy who said he would do one job for the price of one is making more “per job”.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 10:45 PM
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From the USSF’s perspective it is cash out to women players either way. When Rapinoe (just as an example) is very publicly complaining that the USSF, specifically, doesn’t pay her fairly when compared to the men and the USSF shows all compensation items related to Rapinoe that it pays - isn’t it then unfair for her, and others, to say to ignore certain compensation items the USSF pays because they are misleading? Especially when her reps negotiated for the items they don’t want included in the c…
/r/MensRights31/07/19 07:58 PM
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They certainly can. The USSF pays both international and NWSL salaries for international women players. The USSF only pays the men for their international time. The women, and their reps, specifically negotiated it to be that way during the last CBA. To exclude that money would not be telling the whole story.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 07:01 PM
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Not entirely accurately stated. The USSF pays for both the “international” (USWNT) and “national” (NWSL or club team) salaries for women players that participate in both. Whereas the USSF only pays the men for their time with the USMNT. It’s not apples to apples, but this really isn’t an apples to apples issue. Also, I believe the women and their reps purposely negotiated for it to be this way.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 06:53 PM
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I'm pretty sure Wonder Woman was positively reviewed on this sub.
/r/MensRights26/02/19 04:45 PM
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If he cared about the environment I wouldn't mind another 4 years of trump.
/r/MensRights03/01/19 01:02 PM
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Got a state job out of college that required physical fitness standards. Shifts, pay, overtime and vacations were partially determined by how well a person performed compared to the standards for their age group and sex (other portion was test results of Written exams). All of the young women in my class finished in the top 20% percentile highest rated people, even though they were average in he test taking, because their physical fitness standards were a complete joke compared to the mens. They…
/r/MensRights14/06/17 03:47 PM
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