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| 1 | How to interpret signs of interest at the gym and approach a girl who keeps staring at me?Mix up your routine to see if she continues to be around. | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Girl declined valentines dayTo some, it is, to some, it is not. That said, if you feel that way, why would you put yourself into a race knowing your second? Dating someone caught up on their ex is not worth the mental bandwidth, in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 08:28 AM |
| 0 | Best YouTube videos about text game? Or how to text a girl.Those videos are stupid. Women are just people; just text them like you would text a friend. If things escalate, go with the flow and don't be pushy. Most importantly, at the beginning, texting be used to set up dates, not discuss each other's life history, and save that for the date. Frequent texting should is best after frequent outings. | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 08:27 AM |
| 4 | Girl declined valentines dayYou're overthinking it, either A) She genuinely has plans; 5 dates don't mean dating to her B) If something has changed, there is no reason for you to start making up scenarios in your head like "because or her ex." Just be normal, and if she starts being cold, then you pull back too and cut your losses. | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 08:23 AM |
| 20 | Is this a no?When someone tells you their busy, don't push them, fuck them. Just tell them, okay, cool, let me know. Ball is on their court; if they're interested, they'll reach out. | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 08:19 AM |
| 5 | Do I salvage or walk away?Give her space and leave her alone. If she engages again, be her friend and don't make a move again. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 11:00 PM |
| 4 | How do I deal with a woman that's painfully shy?Let her set the pace. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 12:30 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]I feel what your saying, I do but it is also clear that you shoot your shots and whoever is interested cool, if not, you move onto next. But read this young man's, post, he is in dire need of confidence. Women run at first sign of desperation. When I'm at the bar, I am there to have fun and enjoy my friendships not to pursue women. Being easy going and fun in nature exudes confidence and when a women gives a sign then I approach. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 05:48 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]Sweating women this much will only result in keeping them away. Continue to woke on yourself and thru bettering yourself, the women will come to you. Women like confidence and resolve, which can only be achieved when a man looks to master his own life. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Is double texting okay?Yeah lol, I feel you. Seems like only they CAN be busy haha. Cheers bro, and good luck. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Is double texting okay?She pulled back because she thought you both wanted different things, you asked her to meet to discuss in person then she tried to meet up several times with her but you were busy. She cut her loses and moved on, not saying you did anything wrong but she probably perceived you weren't serious at all. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 05:47 AM |
| 1 | First date tips?Be yourself, don't try to be cool and act differently than you would around others you know. Keep it simple and keep it chill | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 03:56 AM |
| 11 | You need to know how to manipulate girls to keep themThis is the lamest shit I have ever read. Men, you don't have to play these stupid games; all you have to do as man to take charge of your life is: Find a purpose Set career goals and crush them Work on bettering yourself everyday Respect yourself and draw confidence from that If you do these 4 things, that put yourself above all else then in return you avoid needing to manipulate people. Why? When you become a better version of yourself, then you command respect from others. As far as women go,… | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 10:42 AM |
| 2 | How would you reply?Phone numbers are to be used to set up dates, not have lame ass conversations like these. Not trying to be harsh but ask her on a date and make these types of conversations into a playful experience in person. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 06:33 AM |
| 10 | How do you recover when you cancel on a girl?If she doesn't understand that life happens, then you dodged a bullet. | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 07:41 PM |
| 5 | Shit test?Walking away is the best way to value yourself and your time, if some gaslights you, cut your losses immediately. Just keep looking, and you can look to hook up while looking from something serious. | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 05:38 PM |
| 4 | Shit test?They all do, but insecure women make these tests more dreadful and more often. If you're constantly being tested, walk away. | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Is it normal for a girl to randomly block meSome people just block, it is better to focus on other things than trying to figure out this particular individuals criteria. | /r/seduction | 02/04/21 06:26 AM |
| 11 | After first date, she said we're going to the movies "as friends"What is there to play? She was very clear she isn't interested. Cancel date and move on, just ask for raincheck and simply don't pursue anymore. If she is playing a game, you pulling back might result in her interest but as it stands, looks life the friendzone. | /r/seduction | 16/08/20 10:49 AM |
| 14 | Women don't friendzone you. You friendzone yourself.Okay that is cool, I retract my previous point. Hope things continue to get better bud, best of luck. | /r/seduction | 11/08/20 01:12 PM |
| -10 | Women don't friendzone you. You friendzone yourself.The whole demeanor of your post, it just sounds like your worked on yourself specifically to attract women. I may be tripping but seen many dudes fall down this rabbit hole, and I think a man should begin his quest of improvement based on himself, good things come along and unfold based on a better version of oneself; but those things should not be the catalyst. Edit: spelling | /r/seduction | 11/08/20 12:56 PM |
| -10 | Women don't friendzone you. You friendzone yourself.Nah bro, you're putting the pussy on the pedestal; while I'm happy that you're doing much better, the reality is that a man should better himself for himself and women appreciate confidence. That said, many men out there get friendzoned regardless of what they can offer and their directness. | /r/seduction | 11/08/20 12:47 PM |
| 7 | Is it even possible to hit on a girl/woman without making her fall in love and then hurting her?No woman will fall in love if you hit on her. | /r/seduction | 17/07/20 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Americans of seddit, at what age does it become unusual or odd for a guy to be going out on weekends at bars and clubs to meet women?No age, You can find people of all ages at bars, of course some cater more to younger crowds but really no age. | /r/seduction | 05/07/20 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Dm me for more 🖤🔥How bigg a trap? | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Dm me for more 🖤🔥Issa trap | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 09:12 PM |
| 3 | 5 Reasons Girls REJECT You INSTANTLYAny list like this is so stupid, every interaction is different just like every woman is different. Men- be cordial, respectful and confident. That's it | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 05:14 PM |
| 7 | Does negging work on girls who are ignoring you?Move on before you become a stalker. Leave the young lady alone, she isn't interested. | /r/seduction | 31/03/18 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Never had a girlfriend or picked up a girlBe confident, the first hint of desperation will send the girls running away. Work on your conversation skills and highlight your attributes. | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 06:35 AM |
| 1 | What to do when girl is obviously trying to get your attentionStart by smiling and introducing yourself, just talk to them about school and the rest will come to you. | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 02:28 AM |
| 1 | I am 22, never wore any cologne/perfume. Are they really effective?Perhaps they don't have the effect we desire on the opposite sex but when I use cologne and I smell, it makes me great. Perhaps for no other reason but a boost of self confidence, I think it is worth it. | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Is it bad if I tell a girl that I want to fuck her but nothing more than that?Nope, not at all, in fact being honest it always the way to go. | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 02:32 AM |
| 1 | I need a plan with this chick from classNext time you see her, ask for her number, that's it. | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 09:45 PM |
| 1 | I choke around girls I likeGive her a call xD | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 04:39 PM |
| 1 | I choke around girls I likeI'd ask her out in person, makes much more of an assertive impression. | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 08:01 AM |
| 2 | I choke around girls I likeI don't think your problem is necessarily lack of conversation, I think you are struggling with making the first move. What you do mentally prepare yourself, and next time you see your crush, keep it short and sweet and ask her on a date. Get her number, text her to make plans, initiate conversation and figure out what she is like in order to have conversation to rely on during date. Be yourself, just take the leap. | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 07:51 AM |
| 1 | When making sexual approaches to a girl is it really better to be indirect more than direct?I try to figure out how assertive they are in what they are currently doing when you interact with them, then try to judge how direct/indirect I should be. | /r/seduction | 18/07/17 06:24 AM |
| 3 | When making sexual approaches to a girl is it really better to be indirect more than direct?Women likes different forms of seduction, you have to study her a bit in order to decide how to approach her. | /r/seduction | 18/07/17 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Girl flaking and becoming less interested?I'd move on, to be honest. | /r/seduction | 15/07/17 07:31 AM |
| 4 | I've never been more confused...Just move on, no reason to go through the emotions of an unanswered 3rd message without a reply. She has your number, if she wants to see you again, she'll reach out. | /r/seduction | 11/07/17 07:04 AM |
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