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I’m getting a vasectomy which was planned before this Supreme Court thing. Gonna cost me like $2K, doctors gonna slice a hole in my sack, telling me to expect pain in my groin area for a week. I keep thinking…how many men are actually doing all this because of some political headline? Probably not many, many of them won’t shave or wear a clean shirt that often.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:17 PM
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I don’t really get the “CMV” dynamic in this subreddit. If you make an “affirmative claim” your post gets tagged as CMV and nobody is allowed to agree with you unless they are inside a special automod post at the absolute garbage bottom of the thread. It’s not really a debate anymore because anyone who agrees with the claim gets deleted. You can propose an idea but it’s basically an invite for the hive mind to oppose and crush it. I just don’t get it, seems stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:19 AM
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Everyone will start making excuses for their shitty texting, however I’ve never gotten past a first or second date with a girl that wasn’t responsive with texts. I’d be ok with it, I don’t need to text someone constantly, but it never ever happens. Responsive = some immediate responses, sometimes a few hours, never going overnight unless they reply with a convincing excuse the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:13 AM
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Everyone will start making excuses for their shitty texting, however I’ve never gotten past a first or second date with a girl that wasn’t responsive with texts. I’d be ok with it, I don’t need to text someone constantly, but it never ever happens. Responsive = some immediate responses, sometimes a few hours, never going overnight unless they reply with a convincing excuse the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:06 AM
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Definitely agree there is an obsessive hyper fixation on youth that permeates culture, politics, media, and almost everything. Like, the idea of an immature and reckless, but idealistic young adult. There’s other ways to get things done in the world but people absolutely fall for that image every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:19 PM
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A social network for dudes with obnoxious exes/baby moms that is just dossiers on her favorite things and turn-ons, so some dude can show up and give her the D and she can leave your ass alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:18 AM
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First 2 episodes were pretty damn good so far
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:12 AM
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About to betabux my left hand by making it use the mouse
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:07 PM
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cut teachers and nurses, two groups who pretty much already date blue collar, and the disparity between men and women with degrees drops significantly Yes this is what came to my mind. Additionally I would add that healthcare and teaching aren’t necessarily the highest satisfaction careers right now. After a few years coming home dead tired and stressed, many women are content to wife up then work part time/stay at home mom if they can possibly afford to. They don’t want to grind themselves down…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:12 AM
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Giving my sexual best to my hand
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:29 PM
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I was going to say, for how much women supposedly care about this, it comes up late or never during the early dating/screening process. If women actually cared about men’s cleanliness, you’d see pics of clean apartments on tinder, or men would talk about it in opening convos more often. In reality nobody cares about your living space unless it’s exceptionally amazing or terrible. Women just don’t care about it as much as they claim they do. My pet theory is, beyond extreme neglect cases, cleanli…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 01:57 PM
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its simple: every woman I’ve ever been with negatively judges the cleanliness of other women’s houses. I’ve been around the block. It’s always the women gossiping about this topic to each other, never the men. Men, you’re having to clean houses thoroughly and obsessively because you girl is worried about being judged by other women. In the grand scheme of things no it doesn’t matter if you got busy and a few things were left out, BUT if one of her girls show up and sees a messy house, they will …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 01:18 PM
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Definitely agree people are too pushy with the timelines. I think it a a consequence of everyone pushing major life milestones into their mid-30’s. Now that I’m in that age bracket I’m starting to see the downside of all the extended adolescence that a lot of people took. I am done with new kids and am taking my time, but a lot of people are in this mad rush against the clock that makes no sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:15 PM
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How old is everyone advocating for this? I’m in my 30’s and I feel like most attractive women I happen to see “in the the wild” are married. I would have to get over the fact that I’m probably hitting on a lot of married women, who probably kinda know what I’m up to chatting them up in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:07 PM
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People are all saying they only hate video games if you’re addicted, but I disagree and think that’s the “safe” answer. Back when I played, my then-wife would be mildly annoyed even if she was falling asleep on the couch watching season 1000 of procedural crime drama, and declined my request to watch a show together. It would always come up in arguments “you’re playing that damn game” even though I did it after getting declined by her. There’s more to it than video game addiction. Women just hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:09 PM
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CMV: all women are shallow hooers who will do nott have sex with me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:44 PM
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Some 64% of women are now bread-winners or equal earners in their households This percentage includes single mothers. Yes,she is the breadwinner in a household consisting of her and her 5yo -. - LOL, this kind of misleading statistic kind of tanks the article for me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:14 PM
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She thinks he is out cheating. Really going to war and die with the homies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:26 PM
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That’s my point: people say things like this. However in reality, people generally take care of their own pet peeves first, and make a token effort at best towards their spouse’s, if they’re feeling courteous or guilted into it. It’s never equal 50/50. Just the way human nature is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:04 PM
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Side theory: “equal roles in marriage” is a goal not worth chasing, and just a scapegoat for people who are unsatisfied in their marriage. No one actually expects this, but it’s a nice cover story when you are no longer attracted to your spouse. No one wants to tell all their friends and family they lost sexual attraction or want something new and exciting. In general people fall back on sexist tropes when unsatisfied, rather than face what’s really going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:29 PM
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I’m not saying I condone it, but most established couples I talked to are like once a week if that, which makes me think that’s medium. I think the user base here is hornier than the median.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:04 AM
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Cheaters in an established relationship are a bit fucked in the head; they can’t stand on their own; they crave the approval of others to an unhealthy degree. I dont think it matters which gender. If they were independent, well adjusted people they wouldn’t be seeking out others for validation. Approval and validation are more important to them than being a respectable spouse. If someone thinks like this, it’s very hard to drag them back out, as you are trying to fight their emotional desires wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:07 PM
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“Under the sea” is god tier
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:32 PM
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Dude’s name is literally “Prince Charming”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:27 PM
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To troll their family
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:11 PM
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I think a pretty high percentage of people willfully deceive (maybe 50%+), but you can improve your odds a lot by having standards. After getting burned a few times, I rarely get caught by this now. At least one smiling face pic without sunglasses, and at least one full body pic. If they look like they were taken on an iPhone 1, they probably were taken 10 years ago. It’s crazy how much you can deceive with just face pics. Sometimes it’s just 5 face pics in a row and I’m like ha ha not this time…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:46 AM
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Yes no shit I’m talking to other girls right now, just remarking on how boring it is to hang in this girls DMs. Was expecting it to be more fun for some reason. You’re saying the same thing I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:06 PM
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Had a pretty short but intense period where I hooked up with this girl like 5 times over a week or two. Went our separate ways on good terms. Now she’s seeing a different guy but I’ve been hanging around in her DMs. Thought this would be more fun and scandalous but instead i kind of feel like a simp. She kind of flirts a little bit, but not worth ego stroking this girl forever with slim chance of ever hooking up again. I don’t know how people start affairs and shit, this is insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 09:04 PM
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Thanks for posting this, I was interested in this video but was just far too lazy to make a post about it. Going through a divorce with a SAHM really changed my perspective on that lifestyle. Yes you have people who sacrifice their career. But no one tells you is the other side of the coin: a lot of people think they are going to “ride off into the sunset” and coast through life as a stay at home parent with no ambition, no goals, no hobbies other than basic parent duties. Every person in my nei…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:26 PM
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It would be pretty chill to get high on soma and do orgies TBH
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:30 PM
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I think this gives them a LITTLE too much credit, in that they are joining in the behavior too. It isn’t just the gross old men corrupting the innocent women. They’re seeking out the behavior themselves and getting something from it too. In that sense, it reminds me of how cheaters always accuse other people of cheating, because they’re always thinking about it themselves. If you’re someone who’s used sex to get ahead, and been successful at it, you’re always wondering when someone else is going…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:21 PM
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I pretty much agree with this. I’m always surprised how many people get hostile when you suggest this type of boundary, like they want to believe the world is sunshine and rainbows. Affairs and cheating aren’t logical calculated decisions that people get into. They gradually develop an inappropriate relationship then “find” themselves in these situations all the time, and backwards rationalize why they didn’t do anything wrong. Much better to establish a line that should never be crossed in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:57 AM
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I dont really think you need the big social network to date people today. I do fine using OLD for dating. When I try to make friends and expand my social circle it’s just that: finding new friends and things to do. It’s a ridiculous roundabout way to actually find dates. You can’t be genuinely interested in people and hobbies if they’re just a vehicle for you to date someone. Also it’s typical low grade life advice: people applying what works for THEM and their situation, and trying to force it …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 03:49 AM
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Oh no you summoned them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:17 AM
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I was 100% sure I failed my security+ certification exam and somehow passed that piece of shit. I have since forgotten every single thing from that dumb exam.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:32 AM
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I can’t get past the fact that many wheels are consumables, i.e: must be disposed and replaced. Most doors are one and done. I feel the pure might of capitalism would propel wheels into the lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:22 AM
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IMO the state really just does not care, and does not want to wade into the intricacies of people’s relationships. “Be civil for the kids” is just an extension of this. They just don’t want people to protest, so they appeal to your guilt. They don’t care about kids, except for the fact that a bunch of kids being put in the street will make people get angry at the state. So the state finds the easiest way to stop that from happening. No fault divorce is just them applying the same principle: thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:08 PM
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divorce does not make them happier. My divorce definitely made me happier. But I think it’s rare for both parties to be happier. One or the other maybe, but rarely do I hear both sides from the same divorce gained happiness. More often one party is very much aggrieved by the situation, or their bad decisions led directly to the divorce happening, and they are not happy about it. So I would imagine it’s hard to increase average happiness through divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:58 PM
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I live in a neighborhood with a lot of average couples who have been married 10+ years. Most of the men are “eh, whatever” types. Don’t seem to get excited by much, don’t seem super ambitious or active. Probably met some girl and were like “eh, whatever. This works I guess”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:02 PM
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Yeah that was a really depressing take by OP. No wonder people don’t want to be in a relationship if that is how it’s characterized by people. Obviously they were making a straw man (“lust filled exciting perpetual romances”) but I notice a lot of people doing everything they can to distance themselves from physical intimacy. Like adopting a posture where it’s completely unrealistic and out of the question, and it’s your fault for expecting this unrealistic thing in the first place. Instead of j…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:46 PM
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This is what I feel like I am doing. When a girl is attracted, I am still the same asshole I always was, but my dopey tendencies have no effect on her. It’s like magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:54 PM
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I don’t know what this effect is, but I look at myself in the mirror after a workout like daaammnn swole as fuck today, then snap a pic with my phone and it looks like shit. Like what the hell
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:11 PM
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(Scrolls through page after page of “Bigger cumshots”)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:31 PM
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Maybe women instinctively know that if all women TRULY spelled out the full extent of female sexual selectivity and hypergamy to men, the bulk of men would see how much of a zero sum game this is. I think women are very concerned with being perceived as kind and caring and thoughtful people for social capital. To the extent they hide their true nature it is for this social benefit, not because men will oppress them. If they were worried about oppression they wouldn't be out doing the abrasive fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:40 PM
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That list of matches you get with tinder gold is like walking into the DMV on a random Tuesday.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:33 PM
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That is probably the counterpoint: none of what I said matters if the girl is attracted, so why chase some fence sitter with lies of omission
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:18 AM
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Girl that ass is the opiate of the masses
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:02 AM
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Guys do you just tell girls you’re liberal if they ask? I’m really more of a moderate, but apparently women think “moderate” is code speak for closet nazi, so maybe I should recalibrate? Funny hearing girls talk about “muh values,” every girl I speak with MAYBE votes once every 4 years, and does some slacktivism like change their FB pic. If you just tell them you’re liberal it never comes up again. If they actually do talk about politics constantly they’re probably not a match for me anyway. Plu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:37 AM
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After dealing with this and reading a lot of other peoples stories, I don’t think it’s a logical calculation being made. Many cheaters cannot really justify their thought process other than “I felt like it.” Or they backwards rationalize some reason that isn’t really a justification for cheating. I think it’s morally weak people who feel an impulse for short term pleasure and they just take it, and aren’t really thinking about consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:10 AM
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Hi reddit, I hooked up with a divorced lady then later tracked down her ex husband to ask if he was chill with it AITA?💀💀 (archive in case deleted)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:19 PM
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Baby moms can collect royalty checks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:00 PM
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Not proud of myself for laughing at this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:16 PM
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Sent her a stupid gif. Yet another L You misspelled W
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:49 PM
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Imagine sticking your dick in this 🤖
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:13 PM
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I would pay for a super dislike
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:44 PM
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https://m.imgur.com/gallery/7lZwLKc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:43 PM
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I have a weird theory that dating apps offer a more male-oriented marketplace and are therefore favored by males. Likes are an explicit, overt expression of interest. Women seem to prefer ambiguity and deniability. They want to “send signals” so they can deny attraction ever existed, rather than get overtly rejected. They instinctively try to create a field of orbiters they can subtly encourage or discourage. “Friend zoned” = frustrated orbiter that can’t break through. She doesn’t reject him un…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:33 PM
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I keep saying this but follow people’s divorce stories: “he/she left me for a coworker” is one of the most common stories. Everyone says they’ll never do this but it happens. Like they say people bend the rules when attraction exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:32 AM
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Mark Manson wrote about this in Models in a way I agree with. He was saying men evaluate women as a “yes” or a “no.” But women can categorize men as yes, no, or maybe. Basically the longer you stay in “maybe” the worse your chances are to make it to yes. So his whole thing was to polarize women into yes or no quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:39 PM
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I was married to a woman that didn’t go to college, didn’t really value education, and it was sort of a values problem. She couldn’t understand why I thought so much about my career, why I didn’t “tell people to shut the fuck up” at work, why I wanted to get an advanced degree one day. Education and career wasn’t super important to her, and she couldn’t understand why it was important to me. She liked the part where she got money though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:06 PM
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I recently got divorced and have been surveying the landscape for the first time in 10 years. when people offer advice, they always bring their own backstory to the table. I am definitely wary of people who are overly bitter about marriage. Also people who haven’t met someone and have a chip on their shoulder about it. Also people who’ve decided to stay in a sad marriage because it’s easier for them. That’s what life is like with everything, not just dating. You just have to look around and make…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:15 PM
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I think this is accurate, and I say this as a divorced person who has every reason to trash monogamy and marriage. People still want those relationships, but we’re more ok with ending them when they’ve failed completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:12 AM
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If he doesn’t start punching the table and screaming “women are better!!!” into the air within 5-10 mins of intros I usually just leave. Unrelated where are all the good men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:28 PM
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I don’t know, I look around and I think young people still aspire to find someone and get married and live together. Maybe with fewer or no kids compared to 20 years ago. For instance there are a lot of trends on tiktok grumbling about being single or relationship failures, which wouldn’t be happening if people didn’t care about LTRs and marriage. As long as the aspiration is still there, people will keep flinging themself into the fire of marriage, whether or not it’s a smart or logical thing f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:35 PM
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shed a single masculine tear But no additional emotional fallout or baggage beyond the momentary crack in facade. That is gross and needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:03 PM
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Work, trade crypto, sex robot, repeat until you die
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:54 PM
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MUST READ: Arrogant misogynist mansplains to powerful woman on how to confront adversity, invalidates her truth [OC]
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:31 PM
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Having been through divorce, I still think it makes sense if you marry a sensible person and plan to have kids together. I really can’t fault women for wanting a marriage commitment before having kids, because they’re often put in a disadvantaged position as soon as they get pregnant. Men can protect themselves by marrying someone of similar earning capability, so they are less likely to get sucked dry in the divorce. Now I’m done having new kids, and I’m looking to start a new relationship, I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:23 PM
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I also have no idea why any man would want to risk having a housewife though. Definitely agree with this, having been through divorce. Fortunately my ex wife had a degree and viable career path from before the kids. I didn’t plan it out this way, just always encouraged her to do whatever she wanted during the marriage. I still have to pay child support now, but if she hadn’t gotten that degree, it would have been an absolute shakedown. On the other hand, if we made equal pay I’d be giving her no…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:31 AM
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I lived in a pretty modest neighborhood where many families could afford a SAHM, or at least someone who worked so sporadically they were effectively unemployed. It just seemed the stay-at-home spouses were the most anxiety-riddled, miserable people. Childcare isn’t super intense work, it’s just always there, like an ultramarathon. A lot of these people were full time parents for 5-10 years and just stagnating mentally. Most would totally abandon all other pursuits and self-care once they became…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:21 AM
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Going through divorce and following a lot of peoples stories, and yeah it sure seems to happen a lot, regardless of what people may say. You’d think people wouldn’t add more drama to an already dramatic situation, but there are a LOT of exit affairs from previously upstanding people who “would never do a thing like that.” Oftentimes they aren’t clearly vocalizing the imminent end of the relationship either. Just setting themselves up in the background, then the relationship ends when the partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:48 PM
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When you get married and buy a house, it’s not the men who expect a clean house and perfectly behaved kids either. It’s the mothers who are constantly gossiping and shit talking each other. I’ve never once heard another dad comment on the cleanliness of my house, not even once. Always the women bashing each other behind their backs. You’re asked to help out with these things because she’s self conscious of the shit talk from the other moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:01 PM
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71% for a self report study of college students? Honestly not as bad as I would have thought. College is basically the worst case scenario. Cut that down by a large percentage for women lying to virtue signal, and another sizable percentage as these women exit the college environment and become more reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:19 PM
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My ex wife had a bad relationship with her father, and the big problem was that she never dealt with it. Dad suddenly became abusive and abandoned the family when she was at a young age, and whaddaya know, she had all kinds of high anxiety and mistrust with all of her close personal relationships, basically sabotaging all of them. She wouldn’t ever touch this issue, basically chose to ignore it at the expense of the marriage. Not much you can do. After going through that, I always say bad histor…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:30 AM
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It’s complaint number one because it’s favorable grounds for women. If they’re generally unhappy or no longer attracted to their man, they risk looking fickle and vain. Who wants to tell their mother or coworkers that they are bored with their man or have their eyes on other men. Easier to say he’s a slob man child. Everyone will believe her, plus there is an implication that he’s a sexist. It’s not like they suddenly “discover” their man is a slob, he just became intolerable once she was no lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:21 PM
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Divorced now after living in a neighborhood of couples for about 10 years. There is a LOT of utility relationships IMO. Couples who married young-ish, who now have kids, a home, a school the kids attend, and it would be a huge lift to upset the apple cart and exit the relationship. Sure maybe there’s something I can’t see but most or all of these people sure don’t ACT like they are in love with each other. Some of the wives post their husbands basic Valentine’s Day gifts on Facebook, or their da…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:20 PM
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Women: are they too hot
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:43 PM
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I actually feel this happens a LOT. And they’re not gonna come out and say it. They’ll say it’s because he didn’t do the dishes or he left his socks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:36 PM
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This does happen too. I am just saying there’s no guarantee you get actionable, usable communication from your spouse, which is simply ignored. They might clearly tell you a million times, they might not say anything. Or they might poorly articulate what they are feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:20 PM
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From dealing with my own divorce and reading other accounts, I find that a lot of people suddenly and shockingly discover their partner is “unhappy.” My thoughts are that this unhappiness clashes with the person’s identity as a caring person and spouse, to the point they don’t fully express it. They might not even express it at all. Most people are not introspective enough to realize what is going on, and act out in bizarre ways such as an affair or maybe alcohol abuse or depression, rather than…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 01:26 PM
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Is it possible to just value monogamy a little more? Like, not enforce social penalties or ostracism with the power of the state or media, but just accept and encourage it a little more, culturally speaking? The reason being it would put a little more pressure on young people to couple up, and stop hanging in this hedonistic purgatory period of young adulthood. I am old enough to remember the days of the Christian Right that went through the 90’s/00’s and I feel like a lot of what we do today is…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:15 PM
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This is every day when you’re post wall
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:32 AM
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(Mashes left button until console is damaged)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:33 PM
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I wonder how much of the increase in women’s enrollment is due to the healthcare industry and increased demand for female-heavy careers such as nursing. It requires a degree but is a stable career for most, so it’s a safer investment. It’s a tough job and a lot of people burn out, but ideally they get wifed up by then, and either SAHM or work part time. Most men will not be pushed into nursing or healthcare by their mentors the way women would, so they don’t benefit from this high demand career …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:35 PM
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Is 1-2/mo bad for the average married couple? I look around at most comfortable established married couples, I’d be surprised if they were above that, kids or no. I mean you never REALLY know but people get pretty lazy and comfortable, a vigorous sex life would be an outlier to the rest of their lifestyle. For the record I would say we were ~once a week before my marriage went to shit, so I’m not projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 12:11 AM
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Damn is that guy really a 4? I’m a straight male so maybe I have no idea. But he seems like in decent shape and maintains his appearance, not short, based off that one single photo. I get that he is bald but seems to wear it well. idk….from that one photo he looks more presentable than most people i come across. edit: think he’s getting harsh ratings because he’s being propped up as an FDS success story. Lol@ this article trying to whitewash FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:06 AM
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The loss of her libido is genuine and to explain it she will develop all kinds of rationalizations why she isn't in the mood anymore and give any excuse under the sun. Yeah, whenever I hear “it’s because he didn’t help out around the house” I am always thinking to myself…DOUBT. One thing I’ve noticed: if a woman complains her man is not doing enough housework, she automatically wins that argument. Everyone is going to chuckle at the man’s rationalizations and write him off. Therefore a lot of wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:31 PM
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People have misconceptions about cheaters, often assuming they are rational actors, or that they’re acting in response to some stimulus. In reality someone can make this decision internally for whatever reason. The entire process is irrational and emotion-driven. Once discovered they retreat to face-saving that doesn’t make a lot of sense either. I would place our relationship in pretty good shape compared to our peers. If you look at our social media feed, there were date photos, family photos …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:40 PM
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With you on this, OP. Also hard disagree with all these people having such blind, unchecked faith in their partners. Recently posted about my soon-to-be-ex having an emotional affair if anyone needs background check my history. I was completely blown away. It came totally out of nowhere. Things were looking really good for us before she did this. She was absolutely acting suspicious for months. I was prying and questioning her and poking around but she wouldn’t say a thing. Finally caught her by…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:24 PM
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