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That just reminded me of something whatifalist said: "not being able to talk about toxic femininity is an element of toxic femininity" Source: youtube (Toxic femininity starts at 1:03:13)
/r/MensRights21/07/26 05:23 PM
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Austria: Currently: 6 months of military service or 9 months of civilian service. In our federal constitution you will find §7 "All citizens are equal before the law. Privileges based on birth, gender, social status, class, or religion are prohibited.". However, half a page later there is §9a "Every male citizen is subject to military service." (IANAL, i hope i translated it properly) At the moment, our government is planning to extend military service by 2 months and civilian service by 3 month…
/r/MensRights21/07/26 04:47 PM
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Are you okay with France banning men from getting DNA tests on their children, without permission from the woman first? Your wording sounds like Germany (You need your child's consent to collect a DNA sample. However, since children are unable to give consent, the consent of all legal guardians is required. That's why you need your woman's consent.) France is harsher: In France, it is illegal to take a paternity test. Only courts are allowed to order a DNA test.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:55 PM
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Austria: Since 2024, they have been slowly closing this gap: Raising the standard retirement age for women till 2033 Colums: date of birth | women's age | earliest retirement date
/r/MensRights09/03/26 05:34 PM
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Simple control question: "Why do you think many men care about women’s bc?"
/r/MensRights15/10/25 06:38 PM
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Anime: "Evil Lord of an Intergalactic Empire!" Isekai usually use truck-kun to "switch" between worlds. In this series, however, a cheating woman is used to bring about the downfall of the main character. It stuck with me because in the first episode MC figures out that his child is not his child because he is unable to donate blood. They even show a blood inheritance table. It is a fitting plot for this sub because he has to pay child support even though his daughter is not his child and he did…
/r/MensRights07/10/25 07:37 PM
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Sorry, can't remember the source. From my memory: Males self exit is often not caused by depression. The cause is more likely hopelessness. The final path is thus chosen based on a rational logical decision. That's why I think /u/Shinra_tenseiiiiii is correct. Male spaces can help men to find their hope/purpose again.
/r/MensRights08/08/25 01:21 PM
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Roughly a year ago i watched some interviews with the Youtuber WhatifAltHist. From my memory: He talked about the same societal collapse as you did. AFAIR there should be a talk where this is his main focus. There was one interview with a slightly different angle and i think he predicts a civil war in the US within the next few years. Honestly, i doubt that such a future will materialize. In the last third of one of his longer interviews he talked about toxic masculinity/femininity. Or to be mor…
/r/MensRights01/06/25 02:15 PM
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Your idea got adopted to an anime this season: I'm the Evil Lord of an Intergalactic Empire! It is an isekai and unlike the typical death by Truck-kun, paternity fraud plays an important role in his demise. E1 contains a blood type inheritance table ~11:50.
/r/MensRights03/04/25 05:47 AM
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Most did not have arranged marriages. I believe it would be better to use the term "forced marriage". In an arranged marriage the couple could still say no. Their partner finders (either parents or external match maker) would find a different partner. Which means that even in an arranged marriage they have/had options and as such a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:27 AM
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Illegal is an interesting term in this context, because you can forbid it without making it illegal. Germany: DNA samples require the consent of the person it is taken from. => The baby needs to give consent. => The baby is to young to give consent. => Both caretakers need to give their consent. => Now the guy is forced to ask his wife/girlfriend to consent. Which is basically the core of every paternity test topic on ppd. Women admit that it is an horrific idea to ask them for consent. So in Ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:15 AM
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except France And Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:56 AM
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to have 1 romantic encounter Also many of those encounters are not ltr material. => They are still at 0 options for the ltr they desire. Women on the other side have most likely some ltr option. They may not be attracted to their friendzoned orbiters, yet they still are a valid option. Those men on the other side have 0 ltr worthy women being attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:29 PM
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breakups are often times harder for the man than they are for the women. You forgot that women tend to monkey branch. When she is initiating the breakup she has already emotionally left him. He on the other side does what men attempt to do when something breaks apart: he attempts to fix it. So he is even more invested than usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:37 AM
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There is just one major issue: mb is breaking that commitment before retracting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 11:43 AM
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Your question reminds me on a chart i bookmarked: Chart #2 at ~3:32: 8 Charts That Will Change The Way You See Dating
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:45 PM
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96% of construction If i am not mistaken, construction also covers supporting roles like planning the construction work. It would be interesting to know how many of these 4% women work in an office job. I wouldn't be surprised if the percentage of men in physical construction jobs is even higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:31 AM
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I wonder if one of my countries laws would apply to your scenario. To be specific section 95, Failure to Provide Assistance (click "SHOW TRANSLATION" below the 2 paragraphs).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:32 AM
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I usually read your messages and i come to the same conclusions. I would also argue that you of all people are low effort, because you show no consideration for people who read your comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:23 PM
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I am sorry to say that, but please work on your comments readability.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:15 PM
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So you're saying that a man who is penalized for things he can't control (height, d size) should show solidarity for a woman who could control her weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:26 AM
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Some forms of psychological violence have more serious effects than physical violence (leaving aside the extreme case of murder).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:55 AM
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Work out at the Gym. Think further. Just a matter of time till such bots include a companion AI. An AI that can hold basic conversations and assist you with your tasks. An AI with baked in loyalty. An AI forcing them to improve their moral values.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:37 AM
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By your definition - all men - make a first move, because all of them give subtle hints towards women they are interested in. Do you know realize the flaw of your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:08 PM
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They give you hints such as repeated eye contact, body language, smiling. You could argue, that those signals are subconscious. As such classifying those as "first move" is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:54 PM
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They fail to highlight the prerequisite They also don't realize that some of their subconscious prerequisites are in conflict with their conscious desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:18 AM
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The Gender equality paradoxon comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:50 PM
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Your observations could also be interpreted as a lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:00 PM
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How many "modern" marriages last a lifetime?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:53 PM
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It is related. Women lying to their husband will also lie to their child. They can't risk that the child tells the truth to their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:13 PM
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Different angle: Doesn't the kid deserve to know who his biological father is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:19 PM
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Yes it is a double standard Women value experience, men value purity. Both genders have different standards. => It is not not a double standard. This detail is much more important than you might think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:47 PM
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democracy This term is also an interesting one. Currently in central Europe the term democracy is used to convince people to not vote for alternatives. What they actually mean is "representative democracy". In Germany as well as in Austria the biggest opposition parties have one thing in common. Those want to establish elements of "direct democracy" according to the Swiss model. The ruling parties mental acrobatics seem to work like that: Direct democracy would allow populists to establish a dic…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:29 PM
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financially responsible Don't forget the issue of denying that man his own legacy. Everyone seems to act as if it is a trivial offense. In my opinion such serious fraud should lead to consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:46 PM
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Good luck. Hint: counterexamples exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:18 PM
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Everyone on the demand side would do the same. A claim that would first have to be proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:53 PM
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You are derailing the core of my argument since your first answer. You are not accepting my fictional scenario. Typical behavior for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:43 AM
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Yeah i am already aware that you are a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:08 PM
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The aspect are getting hung up on is completely irrelevant to my thought experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:53 PM
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I remember that i once seen a video where an Asian explained that behavior. One thing stuck. Since Asian women are still expected to take care of the elderly, white men offer them the chance to escape this future. I am unable to judge if that statement has merit. Nevertheless, it stuck because in my country it is normal for nursing homes to take on this role.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:25 PM
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Both information are plausible. Most likely none of them would be made available due to privacy issues. At least in Europe it would violate laws with certainty. You could say: but system could never know BC. Yet in such fictional world its also possible. Whenever an XR user had a hookup he can simply tell this the system. Also don't underestimate the core ability of AI. As someone already mentioned, AI is dumber as people think. But at the same time AI is brilliant if it comes to digging through…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:27 PM
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Lets go full fictional
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:15 PM
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You could argue that sudden improvement spikes are plausible. Use the past as evidence. AI did not learn human languages due to engineers direct efforts. It reached it nearly magically when the model size exceeded a previously unknown threshold. Engineers and researchers where mainly responsible for allowing to run big models.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:28 AM
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Sex robots. Seriously. Companion robots. Imagine a loyal AI capable of assisting you in your journey. Imagine that AI inside a pleasantly looking robot. Would women be capable of competing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:18 AM
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you normally wouldn't know Lets go full fictional: Let us start with something that will probably be accepted by our fictional twisted society: Women will see their dating partners financial data. To compensate for this, we also try to display data that might interest men. Lets fictionally assume that you always see the BC of your potential partners. In my fictional example, i imagine that players only being interested in hookups will have it easier than ever. But men searching for a long-term r…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:59 AM
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Maybe his question needs to be extended in a slightly different direction: Would it be legit if he takes a little bit of the family's monthly income to build up a secret fund? Also abusive women exist. For example a longer period of silent treatment can be classified as psychological violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:13 PM
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, women are every bit as predatorial as men Anecdote: She was in hear early 20s and had a perfectly healthy relationship with a guy roughly her age. She left him for a 20 year older guy. The reason was that the other guy owned a business and had lots of money. Her hobby was her horse and she simply needed that. In that scenario, which one should be classified as acting predatory? He, because he targeted girl half his age? Or she, because she clearly targeted his money? Both? Or none, because bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:22 AM
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It is not an absolute measure that compares all men with each other. It means to be top 20% of one specific women's perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:35 AM
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I think it's unreasonable to call a successful person a sociopath I never did. Yet there are some studies available that suggest that the percentage of sociopaths are higher at the top. All i did was offering an explanation for that effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:09 PM
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In France it is forbidden by law to make paternity tests. In order to get one, you first need to convince a court to order one. In Germany it is forbidden to make a test in secret. It is mandatory to ask people whether they agree to provide a DNA sample. As a baby is not capable of giving consent, both caretakers need to consent. => The law requires him to ask her. Would she consent if she was a cheater? Technically Germans are attempting to stop paternity fraud, but they specifically mean appar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:54 PM
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Quite frankly, if childrearing was easier than working a full time job, more dads would choose it. But they don't - surveys show lots of dads prefer working. You forgot some factors: Typically his job pays better than hers. => Both partners decide that it is the better choice if he focuses on work. It makes economic sense that he adds some working hours while she reduces hers. (You could argue that causally, this was her decision because his job was of relevance for her to choose him) Typically …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:24 PM
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Unfortunately, the ones at the top rarely care about the rest. Sociopaths have a higher chance of reaching the top. Their traits are an advantage. Especially their moral flexibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:07 PM
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A girl will reject u even if she likes u and finds you attractive just because her friends are nearby. AFAIR: there was a study that suggested that women reject more likely/harshly if she was rejected some days earlier by a guy she desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:24 PM
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Sorry i always forget that there are women like you who are 1) toxic and 2) incapable of dealing with logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:25 PM
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and should focus on behavior Sexual past is a reflection of this person's behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:17 PM
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This sub tends to ignore another type of men: Men who have always deliberately kept their distance from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:28 PM
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don't like it whenever it's the other way around. It is often even enough to be treated in the same way as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:17 PM
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Loyalty is a virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:56 AM
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because of their loneliness This part should be emphasized. Especially because she used the term "pity sex". Most women don't know the level of loneliness many guys are experiencing. Also it is a lie that men are only interested into sex. In most cases they are dating in order to find companionship but sadly settling for sex because that's all she is offering.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:02 PM
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Your study is a bad example as true love will be formed over time. Love at first sight is mostly sexual attraction. If i would attempt to proof your point i would search for breakup studies. Especially if one gender has a higher tendency to breakup if their partner has lost their job (usefulness).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:44 PM
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Some would phrase it like that: only men are capable of unconditional love. Here in this thread many seem to use the term "romantic love". I wonder, which interpretation they mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:41 PM
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A recent interview² stuck in the back of my mind. Especially one question. Does toxic femininity exist? Form my dull memory: strategies like shaming, gaslighting or deflecting are all aspects of toxic femininity. But the worst of it: Re-framing terms in a way that you are unable to name them is also a strategy of toxic femininity. Everyone can easily name what toxic masculinity is supposed to mean with one simple sentence. Hardly anyone can articulate what toxic femininity looks like. It’s toxic…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:35 AM
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The main issue is that there are 2 conflicting viewpoints: Normative: A society in which helping seems normal is desirable. As such you want laws, education and tradition to teach such values. Empirical: We know the status quo and society does not deserve to be helped from unknown men. Why should a man stand up for people who don't give a damn about his needs? Additionally you could argue that guys leaning towards empirical are correct to do so. Why? In recent decades, society has already failed…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:51 AM
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There are women who want to date, women who want casual, and women who aren't interested at all. There exists another category: fake profiles / bots Two years ago an advertisement caught my curiosity. The company was searching for people who wanted to earn some extra money by chatting. With a little digging i stumbled across people who admitted that they pretended to be women on dating platforms.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:17 PM
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Usually we ignore "luck" as an important factor. Most people may think that "dating the correct person" is part of being lucky. But its actually worse because exactly the same date could have led to a different outcome on another day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:20 PM
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How about a different angle? If women don't want to be mixed up with female fraudsters, how about talking about possible consequences? Keep in mind, this is not a trivial offense: Let's assume that raising a kid will cost 200.000 USD. Also assume that half of that is financed by him. => 100.000 USD in monetary damage. Let's assume that the man wanted his own legacy. This means that he will be denied the chance to get his own kid with a honest women. => That's a life changing consequence => In ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:13 AM
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We also had consequences. For example in german there is the term "Dorfschlampe". If i am not mistake it's the equivalent of the term "village bike" (direct translation is "village whore"). You can learn a lot from such old terms. Let's look at this example: It was clear that it was about shaming in the local community. Not only did our range change, but we also tend to relocate which means it became possible to "reset" your past. It indirectly contains the aspect of anonymity. Nowerdays hookups…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:31 AM
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Additionally, an old saying comes to mind: "you can either love women or understand them, you can't do both"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:37 AM
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I think another problem should be addressed in the context of this thread: Women are used to feeling an “ick” when a man isn't perceived as being attractive. Are women aware of what men perceive as relationship turn-off?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:55 AM
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In France its forbidden by law (paternity test needs to be court ordered). It is also interesting to look at Germany. Their law demands consent. However, since a baby cannot give consent, both legal guardians must give their consent. => He needs to ask his wife/girlfriend for permission. On the surface level this may seem OK. Yet, in case of doubt, the man has to risk his relationship while she knew exactly who the father was.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:45 PM
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from what I’ve heard That's the important part of your statement. Most men are good men and don't participate in that behavior. But whenever a men does not participate he is shamed as being an Incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:42 AM
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Some of us try to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:01 AM
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women don't actually care how you act, just how attractive your genetics are That's black pill, not red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:15 PM
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Women routinely mistake They also commonly mistake sexual attraction with love.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:40 AM
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a woman using the silent treatment Society only seems to take physical violence seriously. Most people don't even realize that silent treatment is part of psychological violence. They also don't realize that psychological violence can have more serious consequences than physical violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:58 AM
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Minor correction: and blame the all man afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:05 AM
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in a month It would be eye opening if she continues that experiment. Just a matter of weeks till his profile gets close to 0 matches because the algorithm stops showing that profile to females. An alternative setup would focus on required communication effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:57 AM
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It goes even deeper than that. There are also men who avoid women for a different reason: Why should they look for a woman who is highly unlikely to match their desired criteria? For simplification think about a metric like bc. As 2 states that it's easier for predatory men, this caused a decrease of the perceived value of available women. We all know that not all women are like that. But when a college guy is surrounded by 304s, opting out of the dating game is actually rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:27 AM
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