cynar Archive

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19	How to escape black pill ideology? First step is to recognise that there is a major problem. You seem to have done that. The next is to recognise that you are being sucked into a cult, using age old tactics. They break down your self confidence and support networks, then tell you the old way out is deeper in. First steps, cut all contact, both direct and indirect. It's a gravity well, the closer you are the more it pulls, and so the harder it is to fight. No reading websites, no messaging people involved. The next is to accept th…	/r/seduction	06/08/22 11:23 AM
8	Detained by police for "Man with child" On its own, it's often fairly useless. However it can help form a pattern of behaviour. Either with the complainant over multiple instances or over multiple complainants. It's a lot harder to demonstrate a pattern retrospectively than to get it documented as unacceptable as you go.	/r/MensRights	03/08/21 12:25 PM
1	Organizing a second date whilst on a first date Best way to do it. Just set it up so the idea of what to do comes up 'naturally', then turn it into a fixed date. It's not desperate or needy if done right, it is forward and shows interest in her (most girls are quite insecure about whether a boy likes them). It also makes them invest in you while there feelings are strongest. It is also harder, emotionally, for them to flake if they we looking at you when they agreed. Phone and text are a lot more impersonal and easier to bail from later.	/r/seduction	01/02/16 09:43 AM
3	I'm going to do it seddit. I'm going to a party tonight all by myself. This may seem like nothing for some of you, but its scary as hell for me. Any tips? Best method is the triangle system. Let your eyes flick between both theirs and their mouth. It holds attention and eye contact, without being intimidating or creepy.	/r/seduction	15/09/12 12:04 PM
1	A new one regarding the wage gap that I have no answer to. When I have computer access again, I will. (Currently working at the Olympics) From memory though, only half the babies had there outfits swapped. The toy preference followed the outfit. There might be an underlying native preference but, in this experiment, it was overwhelmed by culture.	/r/MensRights	05/08/12 06:11 PM
2	A new one regarding the wage gap that I have no answer to. To be fair, that has been shown to be mostly imposed subconsciously by guardians. Can't link to the study from my phone, but it was along the lines of dressing girl babys as boys and vice versa. They were then left with adult supervisors who were told it was a study into how babes react with strangers. The baby's ended up with a toy bias based on what the adults thought they were, rather than their true gender.	/r/MensRights	04/08/12 02:49 PM
6	What is your original romantic/seduction move that has made you the most proud? Just an FYI. Introvert and Extrovert don't refer to wither you are outgoing or reserved, though they often correlate. They refer ,for want of a better explanation, to how you recover mentally. An extrovert gains energy from being in a crowd. Working alone tends to drain them, while being in a group makes them thrive. An introvert gains energy from personal contemplation. They tire in a group, but recover when they have more personal space. It is perfectly possible to be a loud, outgoing introver…	/r/seduction	03/06/12 11:44 AM
6	Feminist: There won't ever be a male Pill, and it's all because men are irresponsible bastards. P.S. Women worst affected. The issue is, it's VERY hard to render a man infertile in a temporary way. Biologically, the male body is a sperm delivery system. Therefore it's primary function is VERY robust. We have many ways of rendering a man totally infertile, unfortunately, most are permanent. We can also render a guy fairly infertile, on a temporary basis. Unfortunately, 'fairly' does not cut it when it's 1 shot=1 kid! The difficulty is doing it fully, but temporary, with no serious side effects.	/r/MensRights	08/08/11 01:47 PM
1	I got a call from a single mom I met once. She wants help spying on her ex because he is letting their kids play outside unsupervised. Want to guess what I told her? The irony mark is near enough perfect for this؟	/r/MensRights	22/07/11 10:08 AM
7	"It is awful" to prosecute a 15-year-old girl who told a rape lie that got a boy arrested, says women's rights advocate Rape is grossly underreported as is. For every false accusation I bet there are a dozen rapes. Obviously I have no facts to back this up, so I would love it if someone could correct me. Rape is grossly overreported as is. For every rape I bet there are a dozen false accusations. Obviously I have no facts to back this up, so I would love it if someone could correct me.	/r/MensRights	26/01/11 12:58 AM
8	"It is awful" to prosecute a 15-year-old girl who told a rape lie that got a boy arrested, says women's rights advocate The case against the woman CANNOT be simply that she couldn't prove rape. It MUST be to show both active lying, knowledge of the consequences of her actions and lack of coercion. Proving those 3 is the equivalent of female rape. In which case, sentence like a ton of bricks. But we mustn't risk pushing for a move too far the other way.	/r/MensRights	26/01/11 12:56 AM
0	Paying for her Personally, if I asked them out, I tend to pay. It's all down to how you do it though. Keep it low key when you go to pay. If she acts like it was you job to pay, don't bother with a second date. If you meet some resistance ("You sure?" etc) I love to throw out the line "I've got the meal, you can get the tip." or something along those lines. Depending how much they tip, it's a wonderful judge of what sort of person they are. Also, you tend to get both the benefits of being a 'gentleman' by payi…	/r/seduction	24/01/11 06:53 PM
1	Women more likely than men to faking illness for days off Testosterone makes the body divert resources to muscle bulk etc (looking 'manly). This diverts energy from the immune system etc. Therefore, in order to code with an infection requires the body to divert a greater % of resources from normal use to the immune response. This is what makes you feel tired and ill. That and the social response of men is a lot more toggle like. Either 'fine' or 'ill'. So the % of 'bad' illness seems a lot higher since the guy hides the more mild ones totally. As for e…	/r/MensRights	23/01/11 05:54 PM
5	The Tide has Already Turned The issue I see from this is less feminism and more the fact that services industries tend to only churn wealth rather than generate it. A strong economy need to maximise the flow of wealth. Churning does this well, so long as the net inflow of wealth exceeds the net outflow. Service industries tend not to help on this front. Eventually there's not enough wealth to churn and the services industries fail. The big issue is that women tend to opt for service industry (white collar) jobs over wealth…	/r/MensRights	24/12/10 07:48 PM
2	Grandfather accused of rape. Child Safety Department refuse to amend his records even after he provided them with DNA evidence proving his innocence. Women as victims claims another one! By the sound of it a jobs-body bureaucrat wasn't doing their job and got burned when there boss got a phone call from a local paper.	/r/MensRights	15/12/10 04:16 PM
3	Hey guys, I'm meeting up with a guy from online tonight. I'm nervous as hell. Any tips? Avoid, avoid, avoid! If your nervous, it's way too easy to overshoot the mark!	/r/seduction	13/12/10 03:44 AM
1	Girl, 16, jailed after lying about rape after cheating on boyfriend. The problem is that any review will be jumped on by the nutjobs to try and reduce the number of 'rapists' who 'get away with it' due to lack of 'evidence'. The woman's word should be enough!!!!	/r/MensRights	08/12/10 10:51 PM
1	Girl, 16, jailed after lying about rape after cheating on boyfriend. Remember, most real rapes have a psychological component too them. The mere fact that it 'could' happen would deter the victim (Same effect as the lottery, it 'could' be you). However I agree with you, the whole system could use an examination and an overhaul, unfortunately it's unlikely to happen.	/r/MensRights	08/12/10 12:33 PM
2	Girl, 16, jailed after lying about rape after cheating on boyfriend. only once convicted, I believe	/r/MensRights	08/12/10 12:28 PM
12	Male star leads field hockey team through playoffs. Debate sparks because he is a male dominating in an all-female sport. Fair or foul? girls can play in boys hockey, but not vice versa. A classic example of sexism. Reverse the gender, and it would have the feminists up in arms!	/r/MensRights	17/11/10 12:31 PM
5	What is the best seductive smelling men's bodywash or shampoo Musky is good, BO is bad. BO is caused by bacteria feeding on old sweat. You need to shower enough to keep the levels down. A useful trick if BO's a general problem, mouthwash. It's designed to wipe out smell causing bacteria. Use a cloth to wipe anywhere that generally smells while showering and rinse off. Instant manly scent with little/no BO.	/r/seduction	12/11/10 11:39 AM
1	Is it okay to give your number to a girl first, Without her asking? Don't bother giving her your number if she doesn't give you hers. The only time it works is if you don't even bother asking her for her's. It's a physiological reversal game. In her eyes, you have to be so confident in yourself, you've walked off leaving her with the only way to move things on (by calling you). If you have her number/facebook etc, it will not work. Even then, it wont work on quite a few girls. When it does work, however, it does amazing things. Suddenly, they are the one chasing…	/r/seduction	02/11/10 01:01 PM
19	Time Wasters: How do you spot them? Generally, she's not interested in you directly, she just wants to prove to herself she is still attractive. As soon as you start showing proper interest, that proves it for her and she looses interest. I know a couple of guys how have played that sort to a one night stand, but not much more. Personally I find they are way too much effort, just use them as DHV, it's what they are doing with you themselves anyhow.	/r/seduction	02/11/10 11:52 AM
3	Sedditor Locator Guildford At least I'm not the only one over this way!	/r/seduction	01/11/10 02:17 AM
1	Reddit: Tonight I hit a woman. Women's muscles tend to be keyed to fine control, while men's are geared for power. While a woman can gear her body for power (or a man for control) It requires a lot more effort than an otherwise equal man would need.	/r/MensRights	31/10/10 10:04 AM
3	[FR] Finally manned up, good times were had. In which case you still get to avoid sleeping in a cold bed on your own! :)	/r/seduction	21/10/10 07:03 PM
1	How to you become Alpha? As I said, best bet is practice. Either in front of a mirror or in person. The mirror thing will look and feel ridiculous, at least initially, but keep at it. Just so you know though, a quick grin on the way out the door isn't really long enough. It need to be about a minute for the feedback to kick in properly. This will make you smile naturally a lot more, as well as training your muscles in producing a natural smile on command. Confidence comes from using it when it makes no difference. Test …	/r/seduction	14/10/10 08:29 AM
2	A tip for opening people which you don't know well [kind of FR] Question is do you really want a girl who's likely to keep swinging past you in the same way?	/r/seduction	14/10/10 12:51 AM
2	How to you become Alpha? Confidence: A case of fake it and it becomes real. Best training is to put yourself in a situation where you can act ridiculous overconfident without long term consequences either way. Lets you practice being confident without repercussions Walking up to totally random people for a chat works well. You don't care either you get burned or not, because you'll likely not see them again either way. Size: All about projection. Look people in the eye when talking. Keep your arms to your sides generall…	/r/seduction	14/10/10 12:45 AM
1	How to go to the clubs alone (meet women, etc.) Most people just see you interacting, not how the interactions went. Other than the ego damping, it's still generally good.	/r/seduction	14/10/10 12:09 AM
1	Saw this picture somewhere else on reddit, wondering what seddit thinks about this and similar situations In the right situation, yes. Most girls aren't used to having to chase the guy. It changes the playing field quite a bit once that mentality kicks in.	/r/seduction	13/10/10 11:40 PM
3	If a police officer told a woman that if she broke the law she'd be raped, he'd lose his job. Apparently male rape is an acceptable thing to threaten someone with. I see crap like this all the time, and I feel like I'm the only one who takes it seriously. And how does that not make loads of money for the people running the 'for profit' prison?	/r/MensRights	12/10/10 01:02 AM
1	Larry Summers, Harvard's dean, says that sexism doesn't really explain the skewed gender ratio in science, and provides hard proof. He's fired after that. The point of what I was saying is that a greater number of males will want to go into science that females. Assuming IQ is a good proxy for scientific ability, that ratio will be about 2/1. What you call interest, is generally a result of cultural pressure.	/r/MensRights	13/09/10 08:10 AM
1	Larry Summers, Harvard's dean, says that sexism doesn't really explain the skewed gender ratio in science, and provides hard proof. He's fired after that. I agree with you, we are not there yet. From what I remember at Uni, the ratio was about 10-1 or worse (physics) with professors etc. It takes time to change, so that might just be lag from more recent changes, but even so, there is still work to do.	/r/MensRights	13/09/10 08:06 AM
1	Larry Summers, Harvard's dean, says that sexism doesn't really explain the skewed gender ratio in science, and provides hard proof. He's fired after that. Depends which scale we are talking about as well. Though 149 is VERY high on most scales. I prefer using percentiles, it allows for cross test comparison.	/r/MensRights	13/09/10 08:04 AM
2	Larry Summers, Harvard's dean, says that sexism doesn't really explain the skewed gender ratio in science, and provides hard proof. He's fired after that. You have to be careful with this, I'm using IQ as a proxy for scientific ability. Not everyone with a high IQ is good at science, and not everyone who is good at science has a high IQ. Would still be worth a look, but there would be quite a few confounding factors to account for.	/r/MensRights	13/09/10 08:01 AM
1	Larry Summers, Harvard's dean, says that sexism doesn't really explain the skewed gender ratio in science, and provides hard proof. He's fired after that. On a side note, Lions and wolves also invest a lot of time in their offspring. There are several competing reproductive strategies that humans use, however. The most relevant here is the shoot and run. Where one partner does a runner after conception. Since it's a lot easier for the male to do this than the female, you end up with a lot more single mums than single dads from it. Also remember that the difference does not have to be major the difference in Standard Deviation is only around 7% the…	/r/MensRights	13/09/10 07:58 AM
0	Larry Summers, Harvard's dean, says that sexism doesn't really explain the skewed gender ratio in science, and provides hard proof. He's fired after that. The ratio is 140+ if you want to play with it in open office calc, the formula is =1-(NORMDIST(C8;$C$4;$D$4;1)) C8=cutoff point C4=Mean D4=Standard Deviation That will give you the percentage of the population at or above a given value (in this case IQ)	/r/MensRights	12/09/10 09:56 PM
5	Larry Summers, Harvard's dean, says that sexism doesn't really explain the skewed gender ratio in science, and provides hard proof. He's fired after that. Evolution wise, there are good reasons to expect men to excel slightly more. It all comes down to the currency of evolution, prodigy. Excelling is a risky business. Breaking from the norm could just as often be detrimental as advantageous. If a woman does above average, her child rearing ability is still limited by biology. If she does well below average then it drops off. If the average is close to maximum, then the pay-off for attempting it is poor. A man's reproductive ability is only limited…	/r/MensRights	12/09/10 07:11 PM
5	Larry Summers, Harvard's dean, says that sexism doesn't really explain the skewed gender ratio in science, and provides hard proof. He's fired after that. 140 is 72/28. About 2.5 to 1 male to female I used IQ for want of a better measurement. It's one of those measurements that is perfect nowhere but useful across the board. I'd imagine there would be a link between high IQ and scientific ability as well (though I've no figures to back that up with).	/r/MensRights	12/09/10 07:01 PM
9	Larry Summers, Harvard's dean, says that sexism doesn't really explain the skewed gender ratio in science, and provides hard proof. He's fired after that. Just did some figure playing with IQs (yes i know, but it's the best proxy i could come up with the figures for). Based on figures of Gender \| Mean \| SD Male \| 103.08 \| 14.54 Female \| 101.41 \| 13.55 (taken from here) And assuming a cutoff of 130 you would expect a ratio of 65/35 male/female. Does anyone have the current ratio working in science to hand tom compare it to. In theory, any deviation from that ratio would be social pressure effects as opposed to natural ability. Note: results are onl…	/r/MensRights	12/09/10 06:11 PM
4	Fourteen Years in Jail on Alimony Contempt Charges More like he finally got it to a judge who actually looked at it and thought WTF!?! Before actually doing there job.	/r/MensRights	09/09/10 11:58 PM
4	Single men and women should receive the same tax benefits and penalties as married couples. No one should be punished being asexual or uninterested in marriage. Better solution, sales tax based on % of payment, with a flat rebate (say $10K). $10,000 a year is a LOT to someone on low income but comparatively little to those at the top. Also has the side effect of making illegal workers a lot less cost effective (assuming a company has to prove the expenditure was wages or be taxed on it).	/r/MensRights	27/08/10 04:11 PM
1	Advice for a man whose wife may be trying to set him up with CP internet searches for a custody battle Fire will only destroy the controlling electronics, not the platters themselves. Welding thermite would likely do the job, but applying that reliably to the patters themselves would be quite hard.	/r/MensRights	20/08/10 05:11 PM
1	Advice for a man whose wife may be trying to set him up with CP internet searches for a custody battle While drilling a few holes will make the drive none functional, not much data will be destroyed. Unless you scan the drill all over the surface, most of the data can still be recovered. But in that case, an angle grinder is just a quicker version. Also remember, if the police think your hiding evidence of child pornography they will make EVERY effort to recover the data!	/r/MensRights	20/08/10 05:07 PM
1	Advice for a man whose wife may be trying to set him up with CP internet searches for a custody battle Have you ever actually tried to destroy an HDD? A hammer will destroy the drive, but not the platters. Not much short of total disassembly and meticulous use of an angle grinder on the platter surfaces would reliably do it. Even shattered platters still have most of their data, and while it's not easy to recover it, the police have methods to do it.	/r/MensRights	20/08/10 07:34 AM
3	Advice for a man whose wife may be trying to set him up with CP internet searches for a custody battle BAD idea! All she has to do is blow the whistle and not only is their kiddy porn, he he tried to distroy the evidence!	/r/MensRights	20/08/10 12:24 AM
3	Advice for a man whose wife may be trying to set him up with CP internet searches for a custody battle It's worth checking the internet router. Most have some form of throughput monitoring. Some even look for keywords to log. They also log the time and source of the event. All he then has to do is report finding it on the router logs and pass it to either his lawyer or the poice directly. If his wife is the only one home when the logs were made... Also, it's a lot easier to explain a missing router than a missing computer.	/r/MensRights	20/08/10 12:20 AM
4	Woman 'rammed stiletto through boyfriend's eye during taxi row' - cleared of all charges on the orders of a judge. I agree. When they cant even get the victim to testify :/ All they can say for sure is the guy ended up with a shoe in his eye, and no-one involved can say why.	/r/MensRights	04/08/10 11:33 PM