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| 4 | Anyone feel like it’s a shame how much energy is being diverted away from things that truly matter to this?That’s what people who haven’t been married think lol. Sex dries up friends… | /r/seduction | 07/07/26 09:16 PM |
| 1 | She slept with another guy quickly, but is taking things slower with me. How should I interpret that?Get a hotel next time and play your cards right. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 04:16 PM |
| 1 | If there's no way to actually date women who aren't attracted to you; aren't incels and looksmaxxers kinda... right? :|Don’t use logic on women! | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 11:08 PM |
| 17 | Sex is not happening to me at all!I’d recommend leaving and finding somewhere else more permissive to live | /r/seduction | 11/04/26 10:14 AM |
| 3 | I Just Broken up with my girlfriend for not being honest. Please give a read.I think it’s “Hinglish” aka Hindi and English pidgin | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 01:37 AM |
| 10 | I Just Broken up with my girlfriend for not being honest. Please give a read.Yeah that’s the thing, he expects a double standard, he gets to make her remove people but not the other way around. The whole thing is ridiculous but it clearly shows he thinks he’s so special he gets his own rules | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 01:37 AM |
| 1 | I Just Broken up with my girlfriend for not being honest. Please give a read.Well you demanded her remove that friend, and she asks you to do the same thing, you’re a hypocrite. Doesn’t surprise me she added the old dude back to get back at you. 100% she’s justified. Maybe you should have remembered what you already asked her to do and now you refused to so the same thing. | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 01:35 AM |
| 6 | My date was late and waited until the time of our reservation to let me know so you know what I did…I blocked and left.If you’re the one who’s going to be late it’s on you to inform the other side, regardless of sex. This is ridiculous | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 03:31 AM |
| 8 | My date was late and waited until the time of our reservation to let me know so you know what I did…I blocked and left.The excuse she was late because she was getting ready for him is lame. She can prepare and be on time, especially for a first date. First impressions are everything. And lack of communication until the last minute is also bad. She could have texted earlier when it was looking like she would be late, but she didn’t. Glad OP cancelled the date and left | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Guys who focused on career/ambition in college - when did women actually start caring about that?Don’t trust anyone you met after you got your money/success. Try to find a down to earth woman in college who isn’t into all the flashy rich/famous/posting experiences on social media crap. Be very careful whom you decide to marry. Get a pre-nup. | /r/seduction | 16/02/26 09:49 PM |
| 30 | Home dates --- how to smoothly transition from cooking to sex?”You’re willing to get sick to have sex? Lol. If she’s telling the truth yeah that’s the risk. If not it’s her rejecting you | /r/seduction | 14/01/26 01:26 AM |
| 0 | How I went from being a virgin to having meetings and sex.Well I’ve been a virgin since November 10th, 1444. I come from your same home town though;) | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Dating women closer to 40sYou don’t have to date people you aren’t attracted to. Date who you like don’t worry about what other people think | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 04:05 AM |
| 0 | What is New York City really like today for day/night game (cold hard truth)Who will be NYCs Timur to save the day? | /r/seduction | 26/12/25 01:45 AM |
| 6 | My long term crush let's me cuddle but shoots me away if I push to far...really like herYeah she’s friend zoned you. Your best play is find another girl, actually get in bed with her, let your crush find out it happened, see how she responds. Even then would you want a lover who only wanted you when another woman wanted you? She just would want what she can’t have in that situation. Either way find a different woman | /r/seduction | 26/12/25 12:51 AM |
| 4 | Showing emotional intelligence on profileThey figure it out over time thru spending time with you. Based on your actions | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 09:59 AM |
| 13 | Showing emotional intelligence on profileYou don’t. It’s impossible on the format. They have to give you a chance meet and date for them to see that. | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 09:33 AM |
| 3 | Are bars and clubs still worth it in 2025?Congratulations on being one of the hot guys women want | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Club flirting adviceMost American women will just take you for the free drink and not even kiss you. Must be the accent lol | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 09:18 AM |
| 6 | How do you actually attract the calm, grounded guys instead of the high-energy party types?Try Swipe on guys with bad pictures, boring profiles, no social media linked. Basically if a guy has all that high energy stuff on his profile he’s probably going to be that way. | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 11:17 PM |
| 133 | Does anyone here have any advice for attracting hood chicks?Most guys try to avoid “hood chicks “ but you do you lol | /r/seduction | 01/12/25 12:01 AM |
| 59 | How to pull women on a cruiseOne could also be happy just going on a cruise by itself? Lol | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 01:29 AM |
| 5 | Why all these alpha males on YouTube still unmarried or still figuring it outI know so many more divorced people compared to married it’s not even funny. Being married especially happily is the exception | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 11:29 AM |
| 41 | We've all been wrong about showing vulnerability and women being turned off because of itThis is messed up still. Just shows that the only value a man has in a relationship is providing money and security. It’s so fucked up at this point with lose-lose for guys I don’t know where we are headed as a society | /r/seduction | 22/08/25 07:51 AM |
| 2 | If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head…Only a Sith Lord thinks in absolutes | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Should I be honest to an older woman that she’s my first experience with somebody significantly older?If she asked you directly you should answer honestly. Less is more keep it simple. | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 04:32 PM |
| 2 | She said she was off limits to meWow a seduction post with actual seduction lol | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 04:56 PM |
| 8 | I tried Tinder in Istanbul and...It’s Konstaniyee | /r/seduction | 08/05/25 12:05 PM |
| 19 | When did you realize she was flirting, not just being nice and what did you learn?Wrong. Many men have little experience from women who like them and don’t know how to read their body language. Plus many women aren’t direct and fear outright rejecting a guy | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 07:48 AM |
| 2 | I stopped talking to her, but now she wants to talk!Funny how that works isn’t it | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 01:58 PM |
| 2 | When a lady tells you someone else she's seeing wants to be exclusive, what's your angle?She’s giving you a chance to tell her you want to be exclusive with her. | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 11:16 PM |
| 1 | A dentist asked me if I am married “no” then asked do you live alone?Guys so not used to being hit on or talked to beyond dry polite conversation these days, it’s sad. Some foreigners are much more friendly and open than people in the us (assuming of course you come from the us) | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 10:29 AM |
| 5 | Girl wants to be serious but I don'tSounds like you’re the bad boy emotionally unavailable guy that women love. | /r/seduction | 13/04/25 02:41 PM |
| 0 | Ask her out again after she couldn't make it?“Ok, ball is in your court, when you’re free, propose a time and a place”. Then don’t text her again if she never replies. | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 02:28 PM |
| 60 | You want to know a cheat code? Use sun screen every day.Or just be on night shift like me.. | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 10:02 AM |
| 16 | What to say to "Won't have sex till in a relationship"Yeah. Stop teasing him. Exactly. Don’t leave unless she asks you to, don’t kick her out if you’re at your place, but she doesn’t get to do this shit | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 03:52 AM |
| 26 | What to say to "Won't have sex till in a relationship"Just remember, she’s done it plenty of times with other guys but she wants you to wait.. she’s no virgin. | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 03:51 AM |
| 1 | DON’T SAVE HER, SHE DON’T WANNA BE SAVED.Her name was Methany eh? | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 10:38 AM |
| 4 | Woman wants our first date to be at a college bar?Wear your Jimmy hat | /r/seduction | 22/02/25 08:10 AM |
| 1 | what is dating like for a man in vegas and the male to female ratio.The only state that still has a lopsided male/female ratio is Alaska. | /r/seduction | 22/02/25 03:20 AM |
| 6 | Why are women so stuck-up/ bitchy online?It’s a joke. The Chinese women he’s referring to are the crypto/forex scammers | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 06:26 AM |
| 4 | How to approach guys successfully?Step 7 should be “hey I like you, I’d love to go out on a date with you”. Try it out | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 06:03 AM |
| 7 | A small tip from a girlWhat about guys who you’re not attracted to? Or think they look fat/gross/ugly/short? | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Girls saying “why” when you ask for their number.“Because I want to date you”. There, EZ | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 06:52 PM |
| 4 | Left college dateless and probably headed to South Korea for a year. What to expect?Unless his brother is a total toxic asshole that info would be helpful for him to know, if he keeps it in confidence | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 03:36 AM |
| 11 | Asked out a woman at the bookstore *Cold Approach*Movie reference, “American Psycho” | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 11:43 AM |
| 33 | Asked out a woman at the bookstore *Cold Approach*Now I just want to see Paul Allen’s card. | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Approaching a latina with her family -- in fieldMake a good impression with her mom and dad | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 11:41 AM |
| 3 | Should I make her slightly jealous or will it backfire?Just ignore her. Don’t block, just ignore. Either she comes around or she doesn’t. Find someone else | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 04:59 AM |
| 4 | Is it okay to sleep with a girl then lose interest in her after?Yes you can. You know women do the same and nobody complains if she didn’t like the bad sex or wasn’t attracted anymore for whatever reason | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 04:02 AM |
| 4 | Hooking up with a woman at work?Funny how women don’t get fired for this stuff. Bad idea overall | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 06:30 AM |
| 1 | What do you say when a woman asks for clarification about what you'll do in your room?Tell her you want to make out | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 04:13 AM |
| 3 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?You look like the guy many girlfriends tell their boyfriends not to worry about. Whatever it is, it’s not looks. Some women may not like you as their “type” but tons more would make up for it | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 06:41 AM |
| 15 | In 2024, is "emotionally unavailable" a woman's default state?The beard vs no beard attractiveness see-saw must be reversing directions. It’s been proven over the years women find men in the minority group of beard/no beard are viewed as more attractive. Self correcting loop | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Always getting mixed signals. Can’t gauge interestSome women must give guys their phone number so they can block them lol | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 02:38 PM |
| 4 | Should I stay or leave him?You can communicate how it makes you feel, and he can try to change, but you shouldn’t expect him to change. Give him some time to work on it. If he loves you he will at least try. You may have to accept how he is though or leave in the long run if it’s a deal breaker | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/24 02:15 AM |
| 5 | Using dating apps worth it in 2024 ?It’s there to meet people you otherwise wouldn’t get the chance to meet. Look up some profile advice info, have friends or relatives take pics for you, dressed nice or doing activities you like. No mirror selfies, no filters. At least 1 full body pic. | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 06:21 PM |
| 108 | Using dating apps worth it in 2024 ?Don’t expect anything from it. Don’t pay for it. It’s a Hail Mary throw, it might happen, not likely | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 06:08 PM |
| 9 | Getting friendzoned as someone who looks like “chad” but is super awkward and nervousDon’t tell women you’re a virgin. If they ask and then press the issue, just tell them you don’t kiss and tell. And look them in the eyes and try to say it in a flirtatious way. | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 11:34 PM |
| 9 | Do you think women need emotional conflict?Many women do, it’s best to avoid those. | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 08:11 AM |
| 5 | “Just get rejected a lot” is the painful way to go“Why are you talking to me?” “Because I think you’re attractive and want to go on a date with you”. May as well be honest. Maybe they’re trying to scare away the pussies | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 11:20 AM |
| 0 | Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house?I honestly don’t see how anyone would try to have sex with someone who already said they in fact do not want to have sex. Women need to learn to communicate directly, nobody is a mind reader | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house?She’s probably not attracted to men who don’t have a roster just saying | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house?Ain’t now way I’m getting undressed and or having sex in a place where there are cameras recording it all. “Oh but women’s safety” ok, but turn the situation around and we’d hear about some “creepy guy” who filmed her having sex in his place.. | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house?Tell her if she really wants to watch a movie you prefer seeing one in the theater where it’s illegal to have sex anyway | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 01:29 PM |
| 15 | Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house?She wanted boyfriend treatment without girlfriend benefits | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 01:28 PM |
| -1 | Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house?If the woman says she does not want sex, then changes her mind later, hold her accountable to her previous boundary setting. Just watch her get all mad… | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 01:27 PM |
| 17 | 25m. Got laid but feels weird.I’ve always been a cat lover | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 09:38 AM |
| 109 | Date cancelled because she was a bit nervous. Should I next her?Don’t block or ghost her but don’t spend any more time and effort trying to woo her. Move into someone who actually wants to meet up. If you pull back she’ll be like, “oh I haven’t heard from him in a bit I wonder what he’s up to” and maybe text you. Match her energy | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 08:13 AM |
| 85 | So this girl I grew up with hit me up the other day...Ask her if she’d like to meet your wife. Then she’ll think you’re swingers ;) | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 09:31 AM |
| 9 | The advice on not being bothered by rejection makes no sense to me, help?If you want to build up resilience and you are a gamer, go buy Rust, play as a solo on a public server and keep starting from zero. Eventually it won’t hurt as much when you die and lose everything. Then apply this to dating | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 08:27 AM |
| 5 | I give up, idk what to do anymore.She probably had a boyfriend or husband | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 03:23 PM |
| 15 | Do girls ever go alone to night clubs?It’s easier when you bring along a friend, wingman, to break the ice and take one for the team when the woman you wants friend gets jealous, to interact with her and keep her from feeling left out. Less girl friend vetos | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 07:37 AM |
| 0 | Girl supposedly wanted to buy me a drink and I didn't take advantage of it. RantIf I were in a foreign country and this happened, I’d think it was too good to be true, that it was some sort of scam, distraction play to pickpocket me, or trick me into going somewhere private then having some dude rob me, kidnap me or worse. This type of thing never happens to me at least. Your mileage may vary | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 02:43 PM |
| 1 | How to seduce someone you are in the friendzone withWell technically it’s not sloppy seconds if he never got it in the first place. Some people are matches for some and not others personality wise too | /r/seduction | 22/02/24 07:07 AM |
| 136 | How to seduce someone you are in the friendzone withBest case scenario have her set you up with her friends. Forget about being romantic with her, you need to move on with life. | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Do things work for 40 year olds?Cougars! | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 05:37 AM |
| 4 | [31m] [27F] embarrassed by boyfriends behavior at ChristmasSounds like he’s introverted, possibly depressed or possibly with high social anxiety. One drink makes him super tipsy? Is he on some kind of medication that you shouldn’t mix with alcohol? Perhaps he shouldn’t drink at all, if the bad behavior mostly stems from being drunk. As for being kicked out of the bedroom, that’s kind of messed up… it should have been easy to see that kind of situation was going to happen. I don’t think it’s good of the hosts/household to invite so many people over to th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/22 10:22 PM |
| 7 | Am I being unreasonable with my standards with this girl ?This sounds like a Seinfeld episode | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 03:48 AM |
| 16 | Girlfriend is going to Mexico for her birthdayTell her you’re going on a guys only Vegas trip and see how she reacts | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 02:16 PM |
| 85 | Older woman I like is now hitting on me. How do I not fuck this up?Then behave yourself lol | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 08:00 AM |
| 47 | Older woman I like is now hitting on me. How do I not fuck this up?Ask her if she’s still with her boyfriend and take it from there | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 07:56 AM |
| 361 | What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”?The right answer is, “I don’t kiss and tell” | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?Wow why are people downvoting you? Insane. I’ve seen several of these types of threads lately and this is one of the best answers I’ve seen. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:23 AM |
| 3 | She wants to hang out in the morningPerfect opportunity for a light and easy coffee morning date or a Sunday morning mimosa. If you don’t like her in person you’re not out much. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 04:27 PM |
| 10 | What is more important sex or marriage?Can a mod remove this thread? Op is just a porn ad, check it out. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 09:06 AM |
| 5 | Date planned for tonight but haven’t heard from her since WednesdayIt’s perfectly acceptable to confirm the morning of, it actually shows being proactive and that’s a good thing. “Just wanted to confirm we’re still on for tonight? Looking forward to meeting you:)” | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:20 PM |
| 9 | How can I make better moves when we’re both laying in bed together but she’s on the edge about sex?Did you catch the part where they made out naked on the dock? Even risking public indecency charges | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 06:16 PM |
| 131 | How can I make better moves when we’re both laying in bed together but she’s on the edge about sex?Somewhere else on Reddit there’s a thread, “I made out naked on the dock and even went to bed with him naked and he wouldn’t make the move and didn’t have sex with me, he must not want me” | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 11:45 AM |
| 1 | The clubGet an Uber and you can drink as much as you want | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | She has a man, but wants to hang out… what’s the move?If she’s worth a shit she will break up with her boyfriend before she starts dating you. Tell her to let you know if she breaks up with him. Don’t trifle with another man’s girlfriend, if not for personal integrity reasons, then for having him not coming after you to pick a fight. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 09:18 AM |
| 1 | I have trouble following through with girls, coming off too friendly instead of giving off more sexual energy (applying pressure)This is high cultured and a woman you find who actually gets the reference would be a good catch indeed | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 02:46 AM |
| 1 | I’m just lost. How can a unconfident 5’6 get game? Is it too late?Hey at least the trophy business profited.. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 10:53 AM |
| 6 | How to talk to a girl on call? Girls lose interest in me when I talk to them on call.You talked way way way too long on the call. 10-15 min tops would have been plenty. All mystery was gone, she lost interest. Always leave her wanting more and wondering something about you that she doesn’t know. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 04:43 AM |
| 4 | Escalating with a woman that seems to show interestWhat’s the worse thing that could happen? Ask her out. She says no. You move on and find someone else. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 11:47 PM |
| 6 | Escalating with a woman that seems to show interestYou’re 80% sure? If I had a chance to make money on a bet 80% and literally lose nothing the other 20% what would I do? Answer is obvious. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Life is Comic ConWhy do you think it is that guys aren’t approaching anymore? | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 03:19 AM |
| 172 | Will having a lot of sex make me happier?It’s kind of like money. Yes for the most part. But some rich people are depressed too… | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Does a guy like me if his friend says he does?Tell him you want to hang out with him 1:1, then tell him you like him and see how he reacts. Don’t let his or your friends complicate everything by being middle-men | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 03:45 PM |
| 4 | Tips for handling girlsFirst time this happened, ask to reschedule, and be specific. 2nd time in a row or if it’s a trend, have a nice day! | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 03:07 PM |
| 7 | Tips for handling girls90 min late is disrespectful of your time. Tell her she missed out and that you went out with someone else | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | From friends to FWBThat’s interesting! Yeah it could be that. Just be straight with her and honest. I’m sure she’ll appreciate that in any resulting case. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Need help with a replyProbably too early for that. Take it at face value for now, but flirt in other ways | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 10:43 PM |
| 2 | From friends to FWBSounds like she’s trying to hint that she’s open to it by bringing up the fact she fondly remembers it. She probably thought you wanted serious/monogamous and told you she didn’t want to date (only) you. That’s my take at least | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 10:38 PM |
| 2 | From friends to FWBSo wait you did have sex on the 4th date? Or just did other stuff? | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 10:33 PM |
| 6 | Even if I were to get rejected, in my mind she still said yes.That’s literally self delusional. If you can’t face reality how can you change to improve your situation? I understand positive thinking but this is crazy talk | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 10:11 PM |
| 4 | Six dates with woman who’s still coming off as physically cold towards meYou should think long and hard about whether you should continue with dating her. Does she like you? Do you even like her? What about her makes it worth waiting more than 6 dates to get anywhere with her? Does she open up emotionally? What does she want out of your relationship? What do you? | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 03:04 PM |
| 20 | Six dates with woman who’s still coming off as physically cold towards meHow much of all that did you pay for vs her? | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 12:58 PM |
| 8 | Salvage or walk?Nope. Move on, quit wasting your time | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 10:05 AM |
| 5 | How do you guys approach girls and flirt in nightclubs?Don’t worry there are plenty of native English speakers who are even more annoyed at this abbreviating everything crap! | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 03:50 PM |
| 2 | What am I doing wrongHave you tried any online dating? Most people hate it but it’s by far easier to meet people for me than in person/club/bar/grocery store. At least you can put out what you want and who you are. A woman of your age will have plenty of matches, from men of all ages most likely | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/20 03:32 AM |
| 2 | 28F, never had a bf and am feeling defeatedThere are many men who do not care about your weight, or even prefer chubbier girls (as I do). You should try to be the best you can be, if you feel you’re overweight and want to work out/lose it, by all means do so. But beating yourself about your weight just hurts yourself. You are at a great age to find a good guy for a long term relationship. Many guys in all age ranges would be more than happy dating and marrying a woman your age. Many men in their 30s and 40s are wanting to settle down and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/20 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Why did my body react like thisSince you had already blocked her and cut off contact before, if it’s really bothering you go get a restraining order. That way it’s legally documented if she stalks you and tries to claim you abused her somehow. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 03:18 PM |
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